Yesterday I mentioned how a girl I dated told me she was in a gangbang. Let me share with you how that came about.

Several years ago I was seeing a brunette who put out a girl-next-door vibe but was a piranha in bed. She was perfect for me. Since she was a keeper, I showed her my appreciation by hanging out with her in public instead of just my bedroom.

One afternoon we were at Barnes and Noble reading magazines. She was into the female health magazines like Shape and I was into Maxim and Stuff (give me a break, I was just out of college). I was still dreaming of a threesome, and this girl, due to her unbridled sexual energy, was my best shot at it to date.

“Have you ever been in a threesome?” I asked, quietly.

“Yes.”

“Cooooool! How was the girl like?”

“Umm. There was no girl.”

“Wait. How is a threesome possible without another girl?”

“It was with two guys.”

“Oh, no.”

At that moment, she was dead to me. Alright maybe not dead, but the freak in the sheets and lady on the streets image I built her up to be imploded like an old Vegas casino. She proceeded to give me details as my face turned from ease and contentment to looking like I was dumping a log in the toilet. I listened to her every word as she told me how guys pounded her multiple holes during one drunken night in college. I had to stop her from telling me more. It was my fault for not recognizing the warning signs: her ambivalence towards condoms, her penchant for public sex, and her love of record-setting gangbang events where a random guy off the street has to put in just a couple strokes to make it count. I should have known.

I continued having condomless sex with her but it just wasn’t the same: I kept imagining my best friends tag-teaming her along with me, asking me if I’m “having a good time” and if she is “always this freaky.” A few more months of that, after these kinky bedroom thoughts progressed into a heterosexual gray area, I decided to end the relationship.

In relationships since then I’ve had to stop girls from opening their big mouth and telling me their past sexual history, lest the image I have of them in my head be disturbed. Unless the girl is a virgin. I’d like to know that ahead of time so I can find some black tape to cover the red record light on my Dad’s camcorder.

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You’re right, this is really where the whole lady on the streets, freak in the sheets thing breaks down. I guess the lesson is to be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.

Haha! This story reminds me of my drunken, slutty friend. She also had a threesome with two guys she picked up at a bar.
Here’s a direct quote from her I’ll remember until the day I die:

“I had a dick in my mouth and a dick in my pussy, but none in my ass! Holla girl!”

I had never been so amused in my life.

good stuff.
one of my ex’s girlfriend’s had a threesome with a random dude and chick while on travel. the best part? she was already in a relationship with a quality guy she considered marriage material. and this chump felt the same way about her. if they’re married today, i wonder how he’d feel if he knew his sweet angel was taking it from behind while she was eating out some skank? when i asked my ex at the time why her friend did it she laughed and said “she just wanted the cock!”

remember that when you’re on your knees slipping the engagement ring on her finger.

moral of the story:
when meeting a woman your working assumption should always be ‘treacherous whore’ until proven otherwise.

ps
two guys and a girl is not a threesome.
it’s two gay guys and a girl.

I wonder what percentage of women have done threesomes with one guy and one girl? how about a gangbang with 2+ guys? 10-20, maybe closer to 40%?

roissy… I know why that girl you were talking about went for the threesome behind her bf. Because her bf wasn’t giving it to her!! its that simple

A friend of mine once put it to me this way:

“When it comes to threesomes, I have a one dick rule — MINE.”

I don’t think that your ex’s ‘double team ‘experience qualifies as a gang bang. I believe that it would have had to been more than 3 total persons to qualify as an ‘official’ gang bang.

2 guys + 1 girl = Wobbly H

Unless she’s getting DP’d, of course. I think for it to be a regulation gang bang, there must be at least one person waiting for a turn.

I am with you on this one…one of the girls i used to hang out with admitted to me she had a foursome with 3 guys…after that I was done….

I don’t know if a threesome actually qualifies as a “gang bang.”

Oh darn, MM stole my story I was going to relate. >_

Terps: It is a lot higher than women will admit to.

I would guess in the neighborhood of 15% to 20%

I want to hear Genevieve relate.

Seriously, one guy rule. Period. Otherwise the odds of swordfighting get way too high, and if one man’s dick touches another dude, one of them can’t leave the room alive.

I don’t even get having sex with other people in the room. I don’t mean in the back corner of a club or top bleacher at a Caps game, that’s one thing. But back in the military days, since we couldn’t bring girls back to the barracks, you’d end up with six or seven couples in a hotel room after the club. Shit gets old real fast. Especially since if you didn’t throw everyone else off of a bed or claim the shower early, you knew you were going to end up sore as hell afterwards.

“Several years ago I was seeing a brunette who put out a girl-next-door vibe but was a piranha in bed.”

Hmmm…details provided to make us wonder who it was…?

3 would be a pretty tame gangbang for the states maybe for white guys 3 is a gangbang. In the hood though a gangbang is when the white girl is in a room and you have a group of guys drinking, and everyone takes turns going in and taking care of business. Course I didn’t take a turn cause who in there right mind would fucking be 7th 8th or 9th in line lol

… or second.

You guys are hypocrits. You expect to be treated like a god for being with more than one woman, but if a woman is with more than one guy .. she’s nasty??

I just found your blog today Roosh. I have to say I’m thankful to have the opportunity to read your male perspectives. I certainly won’t always agree and may want to add my comments, but I do appreciate what you are writing (if it is off-the-cuff).

I think almost all women fantasize about being with more than one guy or even another woman. Doesn’t mean that we follow through with it. It’s a turn on to think of how it would feel.

I’m pretty wild in bed, but I’ve never been with another woman or more than one person at a time.

I refrain from judging those that have. If they were smart enough to take precautions and didn’t catch any diseases or infections, more power to them. They’re not sitting up at night always wonderding “what if”.

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Food for thought.

A girl I was seeing revealed that she once had sex with three different guys at the same time. I realize it’s her past, but I just couldn’t be with her anymore. I felt disappointed and disgusted at the same time. Yes, I’m sure many girls fantasize about getting gangbanged, but to carry out that fanstasy in real life is crossing the line in my opinion. She degradeed herself and obviously has no self-respect. Despite the fact that I liked her, it totally went against my personal qualities of what I want in a girl. Girls who had these kinds of experiences should keep that to themselves.

Girls who have sex with more than one dude at a time are skanks and are filthy. Yea all girls fantasize about it, but the facts are quite simple that the majority females could score a 3some faster than the majority males. For this reason it is exactly why she’s nasty if she has two cocks in her at once; and why guys who have multiple vaginas and no other cocks involed go on to become something greater: Gods.

What a bunch of hypocritical idiots commenting here! Talk about the Madonna (saint)/ Whore (sinner) complex!!! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! Sex, love and respect are intermingled. We each decide what that ratio will be for us personally and in relation to others (in bed, or out.) I’m not for or against gangbangs, but I am against ignorant judgement of others.

That’s kind of a double standard, if you ask me, and sad that you judged her for one mistake in her drunken past and didn’t give her the chance to prove who she might have been at the time you were dating her. So if she’d been gay and this incident had happened with women, because that was “hot,” to the majority of males, that would have been okay with you. That’s how I’m understanding this.

What a bunch of B.S.

I say this, because I did this in my past a few times to really explore my sexuality as much as possible. As long as a person is exercising his or her free will and not hurting anyone else in their pursuits, hey, I say go for it. This was for fun, and nothing more. Some people find adventure in ways that may seem weird to others.

But what’s past is past, and I met and fell in love with a wonderful man (who, BTW, was surprised, but never faltered in his love for me, when I mentioned my past exploits to him one day — although I don’t think gory details were in order, as with your girlfriend at the time…)

And, I had some rules…
I knew and trusted the people.
It was all in fun.
They wore protection.
I was single when I did this and not going behind someone’s back.

I was never into D.P., however, I was with 10 guys in a session. For most women, it’s a real thrill to feel that all of these men hunger to fuck you all at once. And I think it has to do with opening yourself up to pleasure and crossing boundaries, not being “a skank” and having low self-confidence. Sure, this kind of stuff could be forced on a woman and leave her feeling degraded. But I went out in search of it, curious, and answered an ad and loved it. Then I left with visuals that still give me good dreams.

But I love my guy. I’m completely faithful to him, and he’s never doubted that. It’s about loving someone for who they are now and how they treat you now.

Grow up w/these double standards, Guys.

I can’t believe so many of you would feel so strongly about this, and talk about double standards! If you’re that insecure that you’d dump a girl because of her past sexual exploration, you need to grow the FUCK UP! Oh, and by the way, when you finally meet that girl who’s past sexual exploits are within your comfort zone, check to see if she has a pulse! Enjoy your vanilla love life!
P.S. Do you still have her number?

Roisy, “Two guys and a girl isn’t a threesome. Its two gay guy and a girl”????????????????
Well, if the guys are gay then you are correct. But more often than not it’s two guys comfortable enough in their own sexuality that take great pleasure from giving pleasure. So, if all are consenting adults, what’s the problem? Personally, I love what all that extra attention can do for the right girl.

As a man I’m disappointed in so many hypocrites. Face the facts, whats in the past is the past, and for all you guys out there, trust me, your next girl friend has a bigger list of people they slept with then you.

You fucked 10 men at once? Wow…

Seriously, ladies, do what you want, but NO MAN will think of you as marriage material if he finds out you were this trashy, not to mention unsafe. Condoms have a FAILURE RATE.

damn jennifer i thought my ex was a whore.

theres a lot of vitriole flying about here, but i have to add my 2p worth… Ive had 4 3somes and loved them all, this included a FFM, ive also done 5 guys at once and one day fucked 3 different men, though not at the same time (afternoon, evening and nighttime) Im not a ho, but i love the cock and i luv cum, ive been fucking since i was 14 and frankly 1 on 1 just doesnt always do it for me. I have a dream of fucking the 1st 11 football team. One day I know it will happen. Frankly, if you boys cant hack it, dont ask the questions.

HaHa Chrissy is your profession a porn star and also i played football

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Alrighty Jen…You’re the kind of girl I need to meet. I’m looking for an open minded gal who like to P A R T Y!!! And you sound like that kind og gal

Personally I use to love it when ex-gf use to tell me stories while we were having sex about them getting gangbanged be me and bunch of other guys…and an occasional girl thrown in there two. Still like the idea of two girls together …but seeing girl take control with bunch of guys actaully is HOT TOO!

Thanks, HighHard1. I just began recording my “experiences” on this site (not a porn scam site, just my own two cents on past fun).

Because, I’m a writer first (how I make sense of my world) AND a proud S-L-U-T, who regrets nothing of her past.

It’s Slut Stories

“Roisy, “Two guys and a girl isn’t a threesome. Its two gay guy and a girl”????????????????
Well, if the guys are gay then you are correct. But more often than not it’s two guys comfortable enough in their own sexuality that take great pleasure from giving pleasure.”

Incorrect. Two guys comfortable enough to give pleasure while crossing swords are for a FACT gay, REALLY desperate, or DRUNK out of their minds.

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What’s wrong with a M/F/M 3way? I’d even try a
M/M/F/M gangbang too. The thought of her taking so many dicks and us filling ever hole is exciting.

first off for you chicks that are sluts, getting gangbanged and saying guys have double standards, well thats bullshit. Your girls, we are guys. Thats the problem with american women, they think they can be the same as men, but you cant. Its different! Our minds dont work the same way, and we are fucking different, accept it, we are not the same! Get over it!

If your with more than 1 guy (in jen’s case 10) , your a fucking slut.

Its in our genes, men cannot help the fact that they are turned off by women who are sluts, whilst women are actually turned on by studs (men who get lots of girls), thats in your genes too.

If you dont believe me, go read some of the latest psychology about it. Go educated yourselves, and realize your not the same as fucking men, you whores.

Thats why i stick to south american and asian women, they still realize the real meaning of being a woman.

= = = = = Would love to see my gal = Just thought of her getting filled any way she wants :-) turns me on. Trust me I make her cum just by myself. I think it actually turns me on more to talk about it than her. And the thought of doing it. WOW!!!

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