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You come across these women in the office occasionally. They slip in comments like “So simple even a man can do it.” They have pin-up posters with sayings about “The Rules” (the one that reads — “the female makes the rules,” etc.). They also regularly “shame” men by saying the ones that have trucks are trying to “compensate,” the ones that play sports are really gay because they prefer the company of men, etc.

I’d like to see a post on these type of women and why –surprise surprise — they may not get dates!

It’s a self-reinforcing cycle; if you don’t tell the guy you like his looks, he’ll probably try to impress you in other ways, which usually involve running his mouth. Which, chances are, if he’s not a smooth operator, he’s going to eventually say something foolish and drive you off. Which leads you to think all guys are retarded.

Let’s not be naive. Barring the case where you’re trying to pick up the person in the cubicle next to you, odds are almost 100% that the initial attraction is physical. Why not say so?

“I’m just not like that” = “I’m going to end up living with cats”

this happened a month ago? moved to the front of the queue and no follow-up info on what happened? maybe she was fighting with her man next to her and just wanted to make him jealous?

i think girls are shy about approaching guys just like guys naturally are. guys have to get over it though, you learn you have to go after what you want and have hormones pushing you along. attractive girls are used to guys coming on to them and picking through what they want so don’t have to learn how to approach guys. not much motivation to do any work the way i see it. i mean if i had hot girls approaching me everywhere i went i wouldnt be busting my ass to go talk to another random one.

The trend always has been for your writing to improve. With that said, however, since the RLUG, DCB, and RV sites it seems that every 3-6 months your writing consistently pushes boundaries and continually improves a great deal.

I have been travelling the last 2 weeks or so, so I just went through your posts. It’s evident that you’re once again turned things up another notch. A good mix of silly, inflamatory, and insightful writing. Well done.

Well, if you want to date a particular guy, you’re going to have be “like that”. The days of men always doing the approaching are over. Men who have a great deal going for them in their lives (career success, money, good looks, etc…) don’t need to work as hard for the attention of women. So as a woman, if you want to get to know such a man (especially if he’s the kind of man you want to date) then YOU will need to approach or make it quite clear that you would welcome an approach from him. If you don’t, and you sit back on your throne waiting for a Prince Charming to beg/compete for your attention, you’ll be lonely and bitter, or worse, you will have to settle for a lesser man when Prince Charming doesn’t bother with you.

And Amen to the indictment of the Cult of Carrie. A whole generation of emotionally shallow college girls has been brainwashed into believing that crippling neurosis = “quirk” and slutting around = empowerment.

::cue John Mayer’s “Daughters”::