“It doesn’t matter whether KassyK is good looking or not. It’s the fact that she NEVER SHUTS UP ABOUT IT!”

Amen to that!!!

plus, average girls are a dime a dozen..so it’s just easier not to call i would think.

It is interesting, isn’t it..

(and I’m writing from the perspective of a girl who has never had a guy not call so I can think objectively about this)

it reminds me of supply/demand dynamics in economics–specifically, the way something that is scarce/expensive, that we have to put in a lot of work to get, is almost always more attractive. So having bagged a girl…a guy who is not interested in a long term connection at this point in his life (or with this particular girl) will no longer find her quite as attractive.

That would explain the general trend.

Of course, it is often (though not always) true that truly valuable things do cost more (in hard work, money, patience, effort, what have you)..

JP: What girl has ever had sex the day you meet her? That’s never happened to me. Maybe I get read as the ?free dinner? type. Yuck.

Dude, you’d be surprised at what goes on out there. That’s all I’ll say.

I very much agree. There are generally two sources to this ridiculous behavior – either

1) the absurd belief that no “proper” woman would actually enjoy sex without a serious relationship – or, if the man in question isn’t this dumb, perhaps

2) the inability to distinguish between a sane woman who actually enjoys sex and the crazy, unstable bunny-boiler type (who might also seek sex with you immediately, but for the wrong reasons).

What girl has ever had sex the day you meet her?

That’s never happened to me. Maybe I get read as the “free dinner” type. Yuck.

Imagine this: you’re out with someone who laughs at your jokes, touches your arm playfully, listens to you talk, and calls you before it’s 2 a.m. on Friday night. You were out with this person last week, and a few days before that, too – this person seems interested in you. This person actually likes you. And it’s almost assuredly in large part because you have not yet f*cked.

And you have not yet f*cked because last week after you went out, this person did try to do something or another but you emphatically pushed the person away. Which is what you did the date before – emphatically, as was necessary. And what you did when you met this person after you were four martinis into the night in some smoky bar in Georgetown.

Why did you do this? Was it:

a)because you had the extreme self-restraint and foresight to continuously hold yourself back from this amazingly beautiful human being, so that you could develop this substantial, wonderful relationship, or,

b)was it because you just weren’t that into him in the first place?

Guys play the game to get the girl who’s not that into them. Then they bemoan their gold-digging, selfish ways, while those girls are either out sleeping with the fun, hot ones or getting used to the not-as-attractive ones who still call.

Chaco, where were you when I was still out ‘slutting’ around, trying to find just one guy I liked with your incite and common sense?

The Internet: Serious Business.

Mhm–This is the last comment I write. Apparently I come off obscenely arrogant on this site so I will leave now. I apologize for offending anyone with my arrogance. Sincerely. I do not think of myself as better than any other human being. I am a good person with a good heart. If you guys all just see me as arrogant fuck, I’ll leave now. I try to explain things and I come off sounding horrible so there I go–poof.

I’m sure most of you “men” will say good riddance.

Since no matter what I write, you’ll view me in a certain way–I’ll respond to your comment about DC and fuglies.

I’ve gotten hit on way more in NYC(where I am at least once every 6 weeks), Europe & Miami than I EVER have in DC. I actually don’t do particuraly well here considering I am not super dark and ethnic looking or super blonde and Waspy.

Just so you know.

And again for the last time. I am confident but I do not think I am the best looking girl in the room. Apparently feeling good about yourself is a crime here at “man” central.

Good luck with everything. PEACE.

“Matt?I see what you mean and I agree. I’m just saying that I look good in the light and I love sex ”

Does this make your point any more valid? Is this something that we have to know? Would your argument be less worthy if you didn’t look good in the light and didn’t like sex?

Hey…Anonymous–I never insinuated that you have tried to hook up with me or want to?…That was someone else that said that–I obviously don’t know you or think that so please don’t put words in my mouth–and I don’t think I’m hot…Jesus…I have confidence in myself as a PERSON…by saying I’m not ugly–doesn’t mean I think I’m a super model. It means I don’t think I am UGLY. Sorry. I apologize for not hating myself.

Telling me I am not a “prize” is honestly just mean. If I am open enough to write this and take the heat…why don’t you be open enough and say who YOU are.

You don’t like me–fine. But maybe you should come out and say who you are…then I can critique things that YOU say on your “blog” or when I have met you.

Loving sex, enjoying lingerie and saying that I am finally happy about myself as a person after years of self-loathing, if that all boils down to me saying over and over that I am “hot”…then apologies.

If you give me your IP I will ban you from my site so you don’t have to deal with me and you will no longer see me writing comments on this board.

Telling me that I am not a “prize” is just mean. You don’t know me and if you think by talking to me while I was probably wasted for 5 minutes and reading my blog that is written in a certain way means you DO…the you are mistaken.

My life is about being a good daughter, worker, friend and person. My blog is a chance to air all the dirty stuff I am internally think.

If you only see me thinking that I am “hot” and needing to “put me in my place” then I don’t know what else to say.

You are all missing the point. It doesn’t matter whether KassyK is good looking or not. It’s the fact that she NEVER SHUTS UP ABOUT IT! Regardless of whether I agree with her viewpoint (I’m lukewarm) it gets old after awhile. You think you’re hot, we get it, now shut up.

This is precisely why I have to post this anonymously. I point out a fault of yours (confidence is not a fault, arrogance is…and you are very full of yourself) and immediately four people come rushing to your defense, with their noses halfway up your ass.

Or better still, insinuating that I’m angry because you won’t give me any. I’ve exchanged maybe three sentences with you at most, not nearly enough for me to be interested, especially given my opinions of you. Please. Take your clique with you and deal with it.

Kassy is indeed lovely, and the fact that she is aware of this is considered by some of you to be a negative trait? I guess it’s much more preferable to be full of self-loathing than it is self-love. She dares consider herself to be attractive?! Disgusting! Let’s lynch her.

I agree Chaco. Kassy (a.k.a. the future mother of my children) is SMOKING hot! What planet are you other guys living on?!

Thanks to hendonistic for getting the ball rolling.

Thanks to Roissy for his argument inducing comments – I think people come to this blog to argue with each other more than to comment on the blog posts themselves.

I love how mhm called me boring (just like a married guy even) for the 2nd week in a row. I am going to post some very pro-relationship stuff next week so I can earn the boring title for the 3rd straight time.

Finally, Kassy is hot. People who say otherwise are full of shit.

Bash Kassy day!! YAY!! And right in time for my birthday. Its interesting that I do post pics all the time so you guys all know what I look like…and yet here you are–bashing me on someone else’s board.

I don’t compare myself to anyone…ugly or pretty bc then I would hang myself. I am happy with how I look…not hot…not amazing…but good.You don’t have to be.

Anonymous–Wow harsh…who said I’m the biggest prize walking? I am a pretty girl. No one said drop dead gorgeous and obviously not your type–but I am way better than alright.And I do look good in the light.

Curious? Go to my site…I post pictures at least once a week.

I wonder who you are Anonymous…hmmm.