That’s one of the things I like the most about living overseas, the women are 1000% cooler and approachable

“True she did, but there wasn’t anything else i was interested in.” – Roosh

So you took a shot and got played a little. Big deal. It’s better than standing around staring at random women like a wallflower beta.

My boys and I used to hit a half a dozen bars in DC on a Saturday night and wouldn’t hesitate to leave if there was no talent to be had. We wouldn’t even bother stopping for a drink if the scene was a sausage-fest. Walk in, scan the room, and walk out. If one of us knew the door guy, we’d ask him to give us a quick call/text if talent started to come in the door (occasionally we would make a little donation to ensure this happened). Worked like a charm, particularly if there was a line to get in the door (usually filled with dudes).

Seeing as you’re a bartender, this quote from the movie Cocktail seems apt:

“Little Darlings come in, hearts pitter-pattering for the handsome, all knowing bartender. And in their wake, a parade of slobbering geeks with one hand on their crotch and the other on their wallets. Buttons were popping, skirts were rising. When you can see the color of their panties then you KNOW you’ve got talent. And boy oh boy have you got it. Stick with me son and I’ll make you a star.”

That isn’t tight Game then.

Gas and clutch. Intermix disinterest with interest. (preferably disinterest with the wack topics of convo and interest with the dope ones)

The Problem with modern day Pick up Artist theory is it is not fluid or agile.

Be human. Be natural. Be funny.

Don’t be robotic, unnatural, and over the top “cool guy”.

Be fun. And again, smoking and dressing sharp do wonders.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Wale disses Ed Hardy.

Wear custom suits, get in shape, smoke cigarettes, carry a dope lighter, have a natural sense of humor, have a working knowledge of all things “cool”, travel and smile.

Be the G.

Or carry E-Tabs and Blow.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Wale disses Ed Hardy.

If she’s attracted to you from the get-go, it takes a “fuck-up” move to….eh….fuck-up.

As for the whole thing about not giving a fuck- I agree conceptually. The problem is that if you’re running game to a girl who’s feeling you, and you over-emphasis your apparent disinterest (or super coolness) she usually walks because you’re not making her feel good. Women want to be with (fuck) men that make them feel SOMETHING – e.g. desired, slutty, powerful, dominated etc.

Approaching was never the problem. Attraction is the challenge.

namaste’s last blog post: We Are E-Harmony….

True she did, but there wasn’t anything else i was interested it.

As for the tall blonde… she was already drunk when she was staring at my junk. Later she got kicked out of the bar and when I left i saw her sitting on the curb with her head in her lap and a mexican guy rubbing her back. I didn’t see any puke though.

I don’t know something subtle like grabbing my dick…. just saying

“If you let girls affect you before you got what you wanted then I imagine you would turn into a very bitter, jaded man. ”

So true, so true. I suppose, no matter how much a man is impressed and “naturally likes” a woman in the field, until they have been together romantically and passionately, he needs to force himself to see her as ‘just pussy’. A man who gets her to commit emotionally first is just protecting himself, becuase none of us are without feelings, and indeed I think men are the more romantic of the sexes, willing to work and build a life for a women and the children that he obtains through her. All she has to do is get fucked.

send me her information. I’ll take over the courtship from this point on. :)

Jack Goes Forth’s last blog post: Save Richmond Hearts Jack.

She wasted your time, and what made it worse was that she knew she was the entire time you were chatting with her. That’s just plain rude and she didn’t give a shit about how she came across to you after admitting it. She got what she wanted.

There’s nothing more uncomfortable for a woman than being out and no one paying attention to her.

Hmmm, I guess the real key is being able to determine their level of attraction. Are they just seeking to make themselves feel desired, or are they truly attracted. I haven’t done much reading in the PUA community, but I think the word is kino (?) that they use to describe how interested a girl is? Some one correct me if I’m wrong here.

In my case above, there was some solid making out and a few venue changes the night we met. So to be fair, the attraction was substantially more built up in my example above. But, again, I still say that some long distance text/email game doesn’t waste much time, energy or money and could keep doors open in the future.

I’m 28. When I was a younger man, looking for more same night bangs, I would’ve totally agreed with you. Nothing worse than a girl who wants your attention all night by holding back a key piece of information that she knows would spoil her attention getting scheme. Living far away being a great example.

However, a year or so back I was in the same situation you mentioned above. An intelligent and beautiful girl (long curly hair, LARGE breasts and previously a collegiate volleyball player still in mid-season shape). But, instead of Richmond, it was upstate NY. There was ample chemistry, so we wound up exchanging numbers. About two weeks later I started getting a couple of texts from her. Just passive things like, “Work is so boring today”. I told her to shoot me her email address and we exchanged a few emails over the course of the next month or two (can’t remember the full time frame). Anyway, at some point I casually mentioned that she needs to get back down to dc. She was all for it. She made the 8 hour drive, we went to a bar for a light bite and a few beers and ended the night early at my place. Cost for the notch was less than $25 and some time spent emailing an fun girl.

“In other words, flirting is a promise of sexual intercourse without a guarantee.” If you believe this, why let a few hundred miles kill your game?

yeah, i don’t rely on chicks to be honest or to show good character. if they can get a free conversation and attention fix off of you, they will. if you experience enough of their duplicity, you will eventually become jaded and bitter. that’s why leading them to the answers and information you want is good for staying sane when dealing with women.

nice kundera quote. i ordered the book today.

roissy’s last blog post: October 2008 Comment Winner.

Always deal with this early in the conversation.

Knowing where someone lives is a great qualifier and tells a lot about someone.

ie If she said “I grew up in Georgetown overlooking the river, The Coolidge’s were my next door neighbor….”

says different things than

“I live in Richmond, my dad is a manager at the now bankrupt Circuit City there”

I like to know this info early. Also, it lets you know if you are wasting your time and what kind of percentages you are dealing with on swooping.

“Information”. The world’s greatest Commodity.

Or is that “Time”?

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Chris Paciello Back in Action in Los Angeles.

“If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you…”

I recite that poem to myself every day now, especially if I start to get down. It does wonders. I always get to a line which applies to a relevant predicament. And I always smile to myself at the end when I shout out:

“And, which is more, you’ll be a Man, my son!”