Category Archives: Relationships

Warning Signs A Girl Isn’t Worth A Relationship

In the past I’ve shared warning signs when a girl will “disappoint” you in some way. I’ve discovered some other more serious infractions based on the way she interacts with you. In the movie A Bronx’s Tale, a mafia don teaches a young man that after a girl gets in his car, she should lean […]

The Girl Score (A System For Rating Individual Girls)

The 1-10 system is a pretty reliable way to rate the attractiveness of women. It does have its flaws (one man’s 9 can be another man’s 6), but it gets the job done more often than not. What we don’t have is a way to measure the overall quality of an individual girl that accounts […]

How To Cheat On Your Girlfriend Without Getting Caught

Over the past year I’ve been much more open to getting into a relationship with a girl I like, but unfortunately I can’t tame the dog inside me that wants to fuck a new girl every other week. So my current game strategy is to get a girl-next-door type who isn’t a club rat and […]

Should You Marry The Conservative Girl Or The Whore?

I received a very interesting email from a man who has done both. Let’s take a look: I wanted to write you a note because you posted a blog about being with a whore or being with a conservative woman. I know from experience with both that whores are the best. I was married to […]

Of Course You Can

There is that festering question that pops up in the minds of men and the more desirable he is, the more frequently it comes. “Can I do better?” Think about how many billions of girls there are on the planet. Whatever girl you end up with, there will be millions of others you can get […]

Open Letter To Poetry Girl

Dear Poetry Girl, Reading your comments in yesterday’s post pleased me. I’m happy to see that you still think about me, even in hateful terms, because it’s a testament to the strong bond we had going until you found out about my blog. Do you remember the night we met? You were wearing a yamaka […]

11 Signs She’s A Keeper

1. You’d still hang out with her when she’s on her period and there is no chance of sex. 2. You don’t get the inexplicable urge to leave after you ejaculate inside her. 3. You don’t bother to notice if other girls are checking you out when you’re with her. 4. Because you actually enjoy […]

New Isn’t Always Better

What should the measure of success be for players? Number of notches? Quality of notches? Quantity / quality of sex? The better my game, the less new notches I get. When you have sex with a growing number of girls, your rolodex gets large. Do I call the girl who is fun and knows how […]

What To Do If She Has A Boyfriend

Chasing a girl with a boyfriend used to be such an awesome challenge for me. I loved how I was penetrating something that I should not be able to. I pursued girls who had a boyfriend more than single ones, but I was young and immature then and don’t really do that anymore. I have […]

Why I Came Back Home From
South America Earlier Than Planned

Six weeks ago I wasn’t completely honest when I gave reasons for why my trip to South America ran short. Something happened. A couple months into the trip it became very obvious that I wasn’t going to meet a “serious” girl. The language barrier and my one-city-every-four-days routine made it difficult to happen. There would […]

Getting Men To Commit

A common question girls asks me is how to get a man they are dating to commit. When it comes to dating or relationships, this question is much harder than helping guys get laid. Casual sex is more like trying to find a funny t-shirt while commitment is shopping for a house. But I have […]

40-Year-Old Spinster Is Expert On Marriage

There is a sad article called Marry Him which has been floating around. I’ve beaten the topic to death here but there are a few sections I wanted to comment on. And despite growing up in an era when the centuries-old mantra to get married young was finally (and, it seemed, refreshingly) replaced by encouragement […]

Laundry List

Everyone has a laundry list of qualities they want in the opposite sex. This is especially true for women, whose ideal type often crosses into the fantasy realm. If you break down these lists down into component parts, almost everything can fit into three categories: personality, appearance, and sexuality. Personality is connection and rapport. Can […]