Don’t Be A Pussy Beggar

While getting laid is important, there are things I won’t do to get laid. The first is directly pay for it. Maybe there will be a day when I become tired of the game, but I’m not even close to getting at that point. There are other reasons that are more subjective:

I will not follow a girl’s orders or demands. If a girl insinuates that the only way to continue talking to her is to buy her a drink or do her a favor, she won’t be satisfied with how the interaction turns out. Same if she tells me I “must” or “should” do something.

I will not accept insults. If her style of flirting is to review my flaws, I will give her one chance to calm down and be real. If not then I return it right back to her ten fold and ruin her night.

I will not accept rude or callous attitude. If a girl is testing me for the short term by being frigid, I’ll pass her test to get the bang. But if she really is a bitch or is trying to put me down, I will walk even if I may see a bang on the horizon.

I won’t let a girl reject me twice. It’s within a girl’s right to reject me, but then she becomes dead to me. A rejection means I will not communicate with her ever again.

Sometimes I come home alone after a long, grueling night out where I failed. I’m horny, drunk, lonely, and dejected, but there’s one thing that I still have: my dignity. I rather jerk my own dick than go against my beliefs for a few minutes of pleasure with a girl who’s not treating me like a human being. With my dignity intact I can continue playing the game with my head held high, knowing I didn’t sell myself out for sex. Otherwise, there’s no limit to the abuse you’ll take from women. You’ll be nothing more than a chump and a pussy beggar.

Getting laid is challenging enough, but I make it harder by only doing it on my terms. There is no woman in the world worth bending over for.

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  • Javed

    Yep, hard for newbies to remember how important self-respect is.

  • Capt. Kirk

    Roosh, my man–Did you do a cameo in this video?!?? You never told us you were an actor???

    As soon as I saw the opening sequence(actor in the loincloth) I said to myself:

    “MY GOD–IT’S ROOSH!!!”

    http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=vLSunrtXq24

  • dragnet

    “Pussy beggar” is a great term—coined by the venerable Thugtician. If you haven’t heard of the guy then check out his videos on YouTube—starting here:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUUO8X9uiU4

    And the best way to deal with these kinds of women is the “backturn”. As soon as she starts the bullshit and won’t quit just backturn in her face and get on with your night. Most women, especially attractive ones, have never had a guy ignore them—let alone actively dismiss them with the backturn. It’s one of the easiest ways to soulkill a bitch.

  • TheNatural

    I always tell my boys when we go out to NEVER GET REJECTED TWICE if a chick digs you she will let you know. Don’t give her the satisfaction.

  • http://www.marvelousmanboobs.com/ David H. Fucktrelle-Male Feminist Extraordinaire™

    Oh Rooshiepoops-

    one time an HB 11 demanded I buy her a drink, I was low on cash cause it was Whopper Wednesday-so I improvised….

    I found an empty bottle of Pabst and went into the restroom to fill ‘er up. Let it sit under the running faucet so it wouldn’t be too warm. Unfortunately this process took a little to long…

    She was being gamed by a terrorsist looking dude with grungy long hair and a beard. He had a hand on one booby. I casually walked up, my confidence crushed….

    “Uh, mam, here’s, uh, your drink.”

    She brushed me away with a hand motion, not even a thank you. She greedily chugged on the drink. I was dejected but glad I could piss a better beer than that pabst crappolla. The two began passionately making out. She took another swig. I guess I don’t piss a better beer after all. She spit up all over her new lover. She grabbed her purse and walked towards the door. He chased after her and pulled out some cash. He said “Baby, I just need another notch so I can write about it on my blog.” She left in tears.

    The terrorist looking guy was sitting in the corner looking sad. I’m a people person and luckily my bladder had enough for round two. I found an empty, filled ‘er up and offered it to my new friend which he graciously accepted. I told him I could help with that “notch.” After all, us male feminists are a very flexisexual bunch. I won’t reveal too much, but tehe, let’s just say PUA’s know how to party almost as much as male feminists….

  • Your Mom

    Roosh could you elaborate on your reasons for not going to the pros? I mean, obviously spreading the word of game is your livelihood so it would be self-defeating to advocate going to prostitutes, but if the ultimate goal is sex, I don’t really see how sleeping with a bunch of one night stands that you don’t care about and will never see again is that much different than going to a pro. I suspect that Game is actually not primarily about sex but rather about ego validation. Which makes sense given the way that the male ego has been systematically dismantled/repressed by Western culture–as you have chronicled thoroughly on this blog. There aren’t any noble wars for us to fight in, very few worthwhile jobs available, and limited public space where we are even allowed to act like men. So we turn to gaming girls to prove our virility and take revenge on a system that has emasculated us. It follows from this that we’ve convinced ourselves that going to a pro somehow implies desperation or an inability to be a real man who gets his for free (although when you add up the price of cover, drinks, public transport, going out clothes, not to mention time investment; the cost differential is pretty negligible IMO). But I think if you’re really secure in your own skin, going to a pro doesn’t necessarily have to signify shame or a personal failing, but rather can be treated as just another outlet for a robust sexual appetite. And in my experience at least, if you choose well, a skilled pro will be some of the best sex you’ve ever had. They’re pros for a reason after all. So I guess I’m proposing/challenging you to give the pros a shot, Roosh, if for no other reason than I think you would find the encounter to be psychologically compelling material for your writing. Would be interested to see what you thought.

  • your dad

    @6 in my experience, paid sex is 90% of the time very bad sex … she just want her money doing as little effort as possible, in a hurry, most wont even kiss in the mouth (i cant go without this one sexually) .. etc … just my experience, gaming you get much more because the girl likes you! … but maybe if you dont have options at the time like when traveling for 3 days is ok … my 2 cents

  • your dad part II

    Also, gaming can get you a fuck buddy for good sex once a week or so without attaching too much to the girl, or get a several good bangs during a period of time with a girl you enjoy. Getting STD is a lot less like it too. I can tell for sure that Roosh not only gets one night stands (No good PUA fails to keep a nice girl for a while every now and then), actually after having sex with girl you like for a few times is when she really learns how to pleasure you … botton line, whatever a guy feels ok to do will be fine. No one size fits all.

  • http://eradica.wordpress.com Firepower

    Often, Game, with its dedication to continuous, clever engagement of females ego

    needs reminding that Game can end up Beta
    if deployed in the wrong hands

  • your dad part III

    One more reason … I get stressed out trying to cum while watching the clock (pros usually change by the hour) … nothing like having aaaalll the time in the world and give her the sperm as many times as you want having enough time without breaking my wallet (i manage my money much better gamming) … gotta go now, is time to game ;)

  • The Glee Manifesto

    A girl i know was hit on by a panhandling homeless man.
    I guess that would make him a pussy beggar with game?

  • http://thisisnotimefortheanonymous.blogspot.com TAllagash

    completely agree. the moment you realize it’s not token resistance or just skimming through all the clowns out there, and she really is just…a…..bitch. it’s time to stop wasting your time. let her be f’ing miserable and drain herself and all those who choose to tolerate her.

  • Obstinance Works

    Maybe sometimes you bend the rules?

  • Obstinance Works

    Some days I would rather jerk off or do something else anyway. Turning down good pussy is actually fun sometimes.

  • http://www.waystoattractgirls.com/blog Psychotic

    great post roosh.its important to be outcome independent when it comes to getting laid.make girls chase you and not the other way around.

  • http://ExceedandLead.com Fearless

    The good looking young pros charge way more than the average cost of gaming. I went to school with an escort that advertises on backpage and she charges about $225 an hour (the avg she claims). 22 year old 5’3 blonde with perky C cups and pretty face. The ugly ones down by the airport charge $80 but you get complimentary herpes with that. If you’re in a foreign country where it’s cheap go for it, but it’s way to much $$$ here in the northeast.

  • Sine Wave Killer

    Great post, what ever happened to Thugtician? he had some real videos.

  • http://universityofman.wordpress.com Professor Mentu

    “Never get rejected twice” was the last lesson I learned in game. It took me years to get to that point because I valued pussy more than pride.

    I will vanish off the face of the planet faster than fuck if a girl rejects me. Surprisingly, I’d say 1 out of 10 come back with their tail between their legs in two or three weeks. To this day, I have never given one of them the satisfaction of hosting my manly rod.

  • deb the slayer

    Pussy Beggar, love it!

    I usually never chase girls, if they say no then fuck em to death.

    But I am starting to put in a little bit more effort these days, which is necessary for the 8′s and 9′s

  • 20th Level

    Never paid for it directly in my life. Psychoanalize it all you want but for me it defeats the whole purpose. Maybe when I’m 70.

  • http://www.expat-chronicles.com/ Colin

    Interesting how you made a point to use “directly” when saying you won’t pay for it.

    Because no matter how you go about it, you’re paying for it. Especially disciples of game / PUA spend a tremendous amount in time and energy, in addition to bar tabs. But you’re “earning” it.

  • Jurko

    poosy beggar

  • john

    Really good post Roosh. I am so glad I found your site. Keep up the good work!

  • Annie

    do you have any female just friends and would you be just friends w a girl who rejected you?

  • Strainge the Strainger

    Roosh I’ve only been reading you for a short time so I’m short on your published information; am I correct in guessing that your US experience is mostly limited to the famous big cities? The US is an enormous country with hundreds of odd lesser-known corners; why don’t you go visit somewhere really obscure and peculiar and report from there?

    Like, I don’t know, Wausau, WI; Bangor, Maine; Wilmington, NC; small cities in the Ozarks; Casper, Wyoming. What in god’s name are women like in such places???

    [Roosh: Yeah big cities on the East Coast. On my forum there has been a lot of discussion on second tier American cities. Generally girls are nicer but quality is lower.]

  • gaius mucius

    @ 25

    i live in madison and my parents live in wausau, wi. the women there are nothing special. the hot ones move to the big cities. the girls are nice and feminine there, with a country edge that i find appealing, but its mostly fugly, sexually conservative fatties.

  • gaius mucius

    the girls i know in wausau/tomahawk/rhinelander are all getting married at 22

  • http://two.cedonulli.com Jake

    I always find it odd when guys get their egos all tangled about renting some booty. Paying for it can be quite fun.

    It’s like … sure, I can cook, but that doesn’t mean I refuse to go to a restaurant and pay for somebody else to do it.

  • Roosh on TV
  • Old lady on a bus

    G Manifesto advocated paying for it. So, it’s got to be legit.

  • Old lady on a bus

    .. that was before I hit him over the head with my cane for trying to swoop/heist my purse, though.

  • http://www.TheSolomonPress.com Samuel

    fuck yeah, Roosh

  • http://www.TheSolomonPress.com Samuel

    @6…

    paying them is respecting them too much.

  • shiva1008

    Why are girls allowed to be themselves but we’re not allowed to be ourselves? This shows the true power that women have. In order to pick up women, we need to be on all the time and not make any “mistakes”? Fuck that, a real man doesn’t go out of his way to appease women and play their games.

  • SJ

    Great site Roosh,

    For me, I have used game but now that I am in my 40′s just don’t have the time or energy anymore to waste chasing women. I do have hobbies and travel the world for pleasure and avoid dating American women who are the bottom of the barrel. If pussy comes along and it is offered to me for free with no real work involved and the pussy is hot foreign ass then I take it. Fortunately my sex drive is not like when I was a horny 19 year old. I do like your writing and how you have opened men’s eyes to reality. Have you ever listened to Tom Leykis the professor of poon? He is the ultimate godfather of game.

    Cheers,
    SJ

    PS: Feminism sucks

  • Strainge the Strainger

    HAahahah very funny Roosh. Many months ago I saw a picture of you dressed as Jesus and so I thought that guy on Charlie Rose must be you trying out a new hair look.

    I browsed your forum and caught up a bit with things like ‘first tier’ and ‘second tier.’ I agree with commenter above, I believe there is a strong incentive for hot girls to move to big cities. Someone should do a study, it’s certainly quantifiable (only a male could be trusted to do such a study properly of course)

  • http://nigelsbiggameblog.wordpress.com/ nigelbiggame

    Fat girls can be worse with this shit. That’s why you have to avoid scaring the cat, and use food to weasel your way pass defenses.

  • http://wwww.partyTravelSexLove.com Brianmark

    Roosh, you remind of me of myself when I was in college. I didn’t take any shit or anything I don’t like from a girl. I had a lot of one bangs only, but I stayed a man and single. For a traveling swordsman like yourself these skills will serve you well!

  • http://permanentguest.wordpress.com PermanentGuest

    This post is why I have much respect for you as a game blogger. Hope others take note.

  • madmax

    excellent article, my man. Check the book ‘Venus, the dark side’. I am reading it and I can’t believe the husband pussies who write of girls BEATING THEM UP. Some men let a woman treat them like shit. It’s beyond me. I have jerked off for a long time, but even so, met a few women and some of them I walked out immediately as soon as they gave me some shit. I was horny as hell but like you implied, no woman is worth more than you are.

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