There was a time when I’d get a number of a girl from the bar and a part of me would come alive. A potential new notch! If the girl was especially pretty, I’d value this number to such extent that when I got home I’d write it on a separate piece of paper, just in case my phone broke or got stolen. I didn’t want to lose an opportunity with a new girl.

Most other times I was very careful to enter her number correctly in my phone, lest I make a mistake and never am able to reach her again. How horrible that would be!

Do you see how much I valued the pussy? Before I had sex with her I was so pressed over it that I had fear I may never be able to contact her again. It’s possible that the girl never picked up on this neediness, but I bet I showed it in other ways during the pick-up where I demonstrated how I thought she was a valuable snowflake.

Flash forward to present day. If I lose her number, or don’t put it in correctly, who cares? I’ll just pick another girl up the next night. There is an unlimited supply of girls for me to get with, and even if the girl was cool, it won’t be much time until I meet another one that’s even better.

No pussy is golden. They’re a commodity, millions of them present in every city in every country of the world, waiting for me to put in my attempt. A failure or misstep with any one girl is not worth one bit of mental stress.

In fact, it should be the girl who is worried that the number is not entered correctly. It should be her that insists I call her phone so that she has her number, not the other way around.

Until the girl amazes you in some way besides looking pretty, she has low worth. Until she comes through with great sex or some nice affection (cooking, small gifts), she should not occupy more than a fleeting thought in your mind.

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you are slowly becoming zen-like.

Good shit.

This is an interesting post Roosh.

I understand what you are trying to convey is having ice cubes coursing through your veins when you meet a girl.

I think this is a good mind state to have for a playboy, because you can never get frustrated or disappointed.

“No pussy is golden. Theyâ��re a commodity, millions of them present in every city in every country of the world, waiting for me to put in my attempt. A failure or misstep with any one girl is not worth one bit of mental stress.”

There is some danger in this thinking. Not all girls are created equal.

Sure, if you meet some hot girl from Orange County, who cares if you lose her number?

If you meet the daughter of the second richest cat in Czech, you better make sure you entered that number correct.

Think of it this way, if you are at a cocktail party and some chump biz cat in Kenneth Coles and a multicolored striped shirt gives you his card, who cares?

But if someone give you their card you can stack crazy chips with, you will want to throw that in the inside pocket of your custom suit. Savile Row.

- MPM

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I think nearly everyone starts off in this mindset. I did the same thing. It’s not until you start banging a lot of girls that you realize there are a lot more girls out there you need to bang.

The best way to take pussy off of that pedestal is to have an abundance of it. Once you don’t need that number to get laid, you won’t value that number as much. I have found myself forgetting that I even got a girl’s number.

When you don’t have an abundance of it, or when you get some really attractive girl’s number, that is when you want to remind yourself that “no pussy is golden”. Suppress that excitement..being needy will kill any chance you had quickly.

You may even want to repeat the number back to them wrong, switch up the last two or three numbers. Then when she corrects you just nonchalantly say, “yea, yea okay, I got it…” and don’t double check, just close your phone. Make them nervous you didn’t get it.

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“It’s not until you start banging a lot of girls that you realize there are a lot more girls out there you need to bang.”

Tyler, this is definitely a great quote. I’m going to use it and give you credit.

Now you’re speaking my language!

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One of your best posts right there!

“No pussy is golden.”

When you realize the power of this statement, you’re golden yourself..

I thought most of my life that having pussy is all I need. Then, when I had even little of it, I realized how fucked I was for even thinking that. Pussy is just what your body tries to rush you into, no matter what. But when it’s there you realize that you were controled by the pussy and forgot everything else you needed to know. I don’t even want to know how many guys get into horrible situations, or even kill themselves because they realized it too late. That is the truth of the matter, sometimes if you don’t think, you fall into something you might regret the rest of your life. That’s pussy for ya. Stay cool and clear of it before you really know what you’re doing. That’s what I say.

Hey but how about leaving her a missed call when you get the number? I always thought this was standard so you can find out if she gave you a fake and so she has your number and it makes it easier when you text her or call her.

But yea your right, its a needy mentality. I have another question though. In Argentina its valuable to keep insisting with a girl cause she’ll like it and a lot of times you get successes from it. Many times you wont get the girls email, number, kiss, or whatever until you’ve tried like 4 or 5 times. I guess you have to be persistent without being needy which is a fine line to walk.

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Roosh, have you seen the 650lb Virgin show on TLC? This guy could use one of your game workshops.

Tyler,
That shit would work to weed out any girl who might give a fake number too. Theyre not gonna correct you.
Now I’m not saying that a girl has ever given me a fake number. ahem. Like i’m sure they never have to you.

Lots of literature and posts are in this vein: don’t show much interest, don’t get keyed up or worry much about blowing it, etc. The assumption is every guy goes into happy yappy dog mode when he smells an opportunity and needs to chill.

I think this advice is inapplicable to as many guys as it is applicable. My #1 problem has always been not getting stoked enough. I don’t press on or go for the number loads of times when I should. I just play it too cool and honestly don’t care. The most important thing I need to do going into an interaction is get excited and hungry enough.

I suppose it figures that the people who go on to write much about game are the ones who needed to attenuate their excitement, rather than psych-up for the chore.

“Now I’m not saying that a girl has ever given me a fake number. ahem. Like i’m sure they never have to you.”

Like a wise man once said, if you haven’t gotten a fake number, then you haven’t tried to swoop enough girls.

- MPM

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almost sounds like the movie seredipity…fate is the reason why everything works out or doesn’t.

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Roosh, the 650-lb virgin lost 400+ lbs and got plastic surgery to clean up the duvet-cover of skin he was carrying around. He has approach anxiety. This could be a chance for you to reach a wider audience.

Good post. It is quite odd how a lot of guys evolve as they mature. When I was 20 I would do exactly what you describe, by valuing a phone number as though it was a million dollar check. Now, I don’t even care if a girl gives me a fake number. Could care less. Something better is always around the corner.

G is playing with the hypo. This post squares with an earlier essay by Roosh where he argues that a man’s mission in life should be number one, and not any particular woman. G, who, as we know, likes the cash, uses, as an example, the “daughter of the second richest cat in Czech.” That can be taken no other way than to indicate an ulterior motive, namely, G’s sense, probably most accurate, that one’s behavior towards that particular female will likely impact one’s financial condition, either for good or ill. Thus careful treatment of her number would be, vis a vis her ladyship, a dual effect: the primary motivation would be for one’s fiscal bottom line, and any affections would only be a secondary source of satisfaction –or penalty avoidance, as the case may be.

G?

A number can mean two comepletely different things.

1. It might be a pathway that leads into premature fatherhood and an empty bank account. (lifetime)

2. It might be a pathway that leads into sex. (1-2 hours max).

You choose if it’s so important.

Though if a girl would give me a fake number, I would actually trust her more because she is non needy. It’s fucked but it’s true. That would actually make her more interesting to me.

Millions in every city? Wow

CC,

Yeah, I like CASH.

Tony Montana: Money, Power, then Women

MPM: All three at the same time.

The point I guess, I am making is that not all girls are created equal. A fly girl with mad CASH is way better than a fly girl (everything else equal).

I know people will say that is a “needy” attitude or some garbage.

But you need to rise to the occasion when the situation calls for it.

A 3 with the NBA championship on the line is not the same as a backyard game of horse.

- MPM

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this was a good post. very pithy. with age you are becoming more zen-like, as a commenter above mentioned. this was the same trajectory i followed.

tyler, that “read the wrong number back to her” move is very smooth. i will incorporate it.

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Handing them the phone without asking and letting them type it in themselves usually works everytime. The majority even call their own phone before giving it back to you.

Whao… I think you are a bit too hard on the girls bro… commodity yes, but a good one at that! ;)
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hmmm…interesting blog/book. it’s sort of refreshing to read something so honest from a man. but then again, it’s much easier to write the truth than it is to tell it (then again i think it would be a disaster if you told a girl that gave you her number “i don’t care if your number is right because if it’s not, there’s more a** on the other side of the room.” good luck with the book! -jen

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