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Recently I was walking to a bus stop while trailing behind two people, a thickish black woman dressed seductively and a doughy white man in painters work clothes. His appearance was especially average: it wouldn’t hurt him to lose 15 pounds and shave off his blonde goatee. I was able to make out an exciting 15-second portion of their conversation, which I’ve reenacted for you. Note the facial expressions towards the end.
He got her number. What surprised me the most was that this this blue-collared white man possessed a large set of balls. If he was a wigger it’d make more sense, but this was average Joe Schmo spitting game like a champ, and it didn’t matter that at least four other people could hear him. He had no shame in his game.
I had a conversation with my sister about it, which I have also reenacted with teddy bears.
In the end I do think his game is a bit superfluous and would only have the desired effect on a specific subset of girls that most of us don’t interact with. I mean do you see this going well with “professional” or hipster white girls? A girl who isn’t used to being hit with direct game simply won’t know how to respond to you. You’ll get something like, “Uhhhhhhh… sorry I’m actually the masculinized form of what you think to be a woman, but if you make a sarcastic or snarky comment instead, I’ll be able to respond to you and we can play the dance where we both pretend that we’re not sexually interested in each other even though we’ll end up doing it tonight on my Ikea bed.”
One type of girl I could really see this working on is Brazilian girls, who get bombarded with direct game on a regular basis. I can easily imagine myself doing Doughboy’s routine and getting a very positive response since those girls clearly prefer boyfriends to one-night stands. I could kill her objections about whether I am serious or not before she brings up her whole “so how long are you here/what are you doing here” spiel that stalls my progress most of the time. Combined with exaggerating how long I’m staying in her city, my success rate would probably go up quite a bit to where I wouldn’t have to approach nearly as many girls.
The take-home from this is always keep your eyes open for naturals in the wild. In fact, I’d estimate that around half of my game is a mashup from other men. Thanks Doughboy, for adding one more tool to my toolbox.