Ever since I made my post on The Perfect Woman, I’ve received almost a hundred emails from girls asking if I was serious about it and wrote from the heart.
I told them the truth, that yes, I did write that from the heart and that I’m trying to change. I asked them out on a date so they could be a part of the transformation.
As you can see from my public Google calendar, my schedule is pretty full for the next couple of weeks. I just tells girls to add themselves to the calendar to make my life easier. I’m hoping that the deep conversation I have with them over beers will continue me on the path of introspection and self-reevaluation.
Here’s a couple of comments from that post…
The real question I have is – have we in our pursuit of ‘game’ added so much ‘baggage’ that even if we find the ‘perfect woman’ we won’t know it or be in a position to take advantage of the situation.
Do we have as much baggage as the 29 year old woman who is desperately trying to settle down and have a family?
It’s different – but it’s baggage…
The only thing that makes me different from a spinster in the bar is my gender, and that it’s more acceptable for me to be single much longer. Otherwise we are flip sides of the same coin, and probably deserve each other.
Winner of the most depressing comment goes to ovech:
The lifestyle is no doubt fun but what have I really accomplished? Maybe guys like us are truly damaged goods and doomed to a life of notches and stories. Problem is time goes by pretty fast and tomorrow we might be old and alone with nothing but our notches to keep us company.
I don’t see anything appealing about growing into old age alone.
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Goodness. At least I’m a divorcee and not a “spinster.” I worry about women who think their expiration date is nigh and that they need to find a man ASAP – because good men don’t want to be seen as ambulatory sperm banks, and they don’t dig desperation. Better to just put yourself out there and let the chips fall where they may.
I find it hilarious when people want someone with “no baggage.” Everybody’s got baggage. Recognizing that and being able to deal is a big part of finding a real relationship. Any woman worth her salt is going to have a history – to put it harshly, learn to deal or get a Real Doll.
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i can’t believe girls are falling for this. i have to admit its a great idea.
I commend you on the coup of sympathy lays for the next few weeks. I like the style. You remind me of Joe Mollicone Jr. At 62, he married Katy Hynes (age 33) even though he was a convicted felon.
This is pretty brilliant. That post was like a smart bomb aimed at women who think they can rescue or redeem a man by means of their overwhelming special-ness. “Yeah, he did write a post immediately afterwards declaring he’ll do whatever’s necessary to sleep with women, including being a complete asshole, but it’s going to be different with me! And to prove it, I’m going to willingly offer myself up as fodder for his blog, along with ten other bitches who don’t have a chance because they’re not nearly as special!” This is going to end hilariously.
Wow…I still do not know if this is an experiment of yours or the truth. You do seem to be a nice guy, and the tension between the womanizer and your good side has come up in different posts since I have been reading your blog. Around two years ago, I remember you wrote something about coming back home every weekend, smelling like cigarettes, and wondering whether you would die alone… and there were also ones about a special girl that you had let go, etc. They were the sort of posts you wrote the other day, sad, yet nice to read in the sense that they gave me hope that even the worse players may have a heart.
Those themes had somehow subsided afterwards… but if this is really a change, I am happy for you, and hope to read all about it. If it is just a joke, I feel sorry for those poor ladies…
This is sad, but it’s so true. Reggie nailed it. Women love “fixing” guys. I’m guilty of having done this. There’s something about a guy that has potential to be fixed that really appeals to our nurturing side. And despite the fact that we never succeed, we still try.
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This new Roosh is strange and scary.
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i love how people think being a womanizer is necessarily a bad thing. relationships are great. sleeping around is great. deep true love is great. sexual variety is great.
women need to understand that we men just aren’t wired the same way.
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Women love “fixing” guys. I’m guilty of having done this. There’s something about a guy that has potential to be fixed that really appeals to our nurturing side. And despite the fact that we never succeed, we still try.
I agree. But there is possibility for success, though in my opinion it’s best to pick the ones that are more malleable and to pick them while young. Relationship material is made, not born, but older people are more stubborn.
Some women believe that they should be immutable and fall prey to the “be yourself” slogan, but we should also be changing ourselves for the better. Especially our bodies and our technique… yeah, men are shallow, but we can work with that.
The “Bartenders in Uruguay” picture is living proof that even thousands of miles from America, young women have this compulsion to press their faces together when being photographed.
Wait, when did Dan’s Café start taking food stamps???
Congratulations on all the dates though. I’m glad to see MY idea is helping YOUR dating life. I sure hope that one of those girls isn’t a practical joke set up by one of your other friends as payback for joke you pulled on him. Nope that would just be fucked up for you to be sitting at Chi Cha lounge by yourself waiting for a date that never comes. Yeah that would just plain be sad.
Just saying, what type of guy would do such a thing
hey boys – guess what? some women are wired the same way. sleeping around can be great. true love is great. variety is fabulous. I totally concur. Here’s another kicker, I’d say 90% of the time we like to you use you just as much you like to use us…and we don’t even bother to save your number in our phones. You most definitely aren’t the keeping kind.
Stop patting yourselves on the back for being man whores – NO ONE is trying to wife you. You guys crack me up.
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Or worse, VK, you could send him on a prank date with ME. Oh, the evil.
Roissy, I can’t speak for all women, but I don’t have an issue with womanizers. I have an issue with men who are unclear/dishonest about their intentions, prey on insecurities, get a woman into bed, then drop her like yesterday’s trash.
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Some men need to be *fixed*, and they are looking for a woman to be mothering and nurturing. I know a lot of men won’t admit it, but I’ve seen it happen far too often. They bitch and bitch about how they just want freedom and casual sex, time with the guys, a 12-pack of beer in the fridge, etc. But eventually, they love having someone help them calm down and do something legitimate with their life. They want someone who has dinner on the table, doesn’t care if they’re not on their game that day, someone who they can have real conversations with. A real life. It’s possible to be single and be happy, but I think it’s pretty rare. Otherwise the majority of the world wouldn’t be seeking a mate.
I’m also still not convinced this isn’t some weird ploy by Roosh. Isn’t it kind of sad that you’ve built such a persona that no one can take you seriously? You’ve blogged your way into a pretty an awfully isolated corner.
Did you guys actually read the comments I left for each “date” on the calendar. Go ahead, click each day.
THE CALENDAR IS A JOKE PEOPLE.
I actually got four emails, from girls I already knew making sure I was mentally okay. I thought the “hundred emails” would give it away. I failed.
And I mean eternally single and happy, as in never having a real relationship. Not temporarily single and happy.
hey boys – guess what? some women are wired the same way. sleeping around can be great. true love is great. variety is fabulous. I totally concur. Here’s another kicker, I’d say 90% of the time we like to you use you just as much you like to use us…and we don’t even bother to save your number in our phones.
fanfrickingtastic, i notice it says on your blog you’re a law student.
explains a lot.
roosh – on the calendar comments.
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If the comments didn’t give it away, this line should have: “I asked them out on a date so they could be a part of the transformation.”
Wedding Crashers: “everybody wants to be part of a miracle!”
The world doesn’t need another selfish asshole. There’s plenty out there already.
Yeah, the comments were the first I think I read. Funny.
My opinion on the Roosh is that his adventure in South America had an untended effect because traveling for any serious length of time always gives one plenty of time to think outside their normal box of living.
It made him think of the future. And the past. And what he is doing in the present.
At the end of the day. Roosh didn’t have game a few years ago. Now he does and has had experiences. He’s got confidence.
So now he’s got a choice to make.
Is this enough or is there more to life?
I was really wondering if you had been drinking the cool aid. Beginning with your April 1 joke, there’s been a very troubling maturity theme here lately.
Or maybe you’re just working on developing The Game 2.0 for the sequel to “Bang,” titled similarly simply: “Baby.”
I don’t know about iambic pentameter,
but here’s a haiku for you, Roosh:
Get out of D.C.
There are lots of good places.
Maybe Burning Man?
Damn it, why don’t I live in DC?
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Roosh is the joke that it is a joke?……either way thats a rock star move if it were true, i would go one step further and promote it:
“Get on the calendar before all slots are filled”
How fun would that be….and then after the dates put red Xs next to those you did not bang or blue Vs for the ones that got smashed……but I digress…..
Roosh’s dilemma –
Roosh is moving from being a boy Gamer towards being a succesful man – travel writer,
blogger, author – a single man with some worldly experience and success.
He could potentially attain true alpha status.
(BTW – no man is born an alpha.)
He may become an alpha whether he really wants to or not.
BUT – Roosh’s success is somewhat tied up with childish/adolescent activities – i.e. Game – and if he loses touch with that he loses (part of) his route to success … it is hard for an alpha to stay in touch with Game – it isn’t really needed & doesn’t come naturally.
One possible solution: eliminate sll alpha potential by continuing to live @ home w/ the Momma?
My suggestion: travel until you find the place you want to live, then move there. Blog/write about the process. Meet interesting women, get to know them as people, have sex with them, write about them. Not necessarily in that order.
I don’t even know if i’m joking anymore.
PS. I live with my DAD, not my mom. Get it right.
I think this whole “Perfect Woman” deal opened up a lot of unforeseen doors.
p.s. dropped you an email to the yahoo account, hopefully it got there (didn’t see until later that you were having email issues)
ahh, wishful thinking. keep at it roosh and it will bring you tremendous things.
now if you read “the secret” like i told you to, that calendar may actually become real one day.
for the record, i’m not the persian chick.
Sudamericana, you betray yourself with your own words; “yet nice to read in the sense that they gave me hope that even the worse players may have a heart.”
There are plenty of men who are not players or dicks, but as we all know these men will be ignored or “friended”, so that women may pursue the players and assholes they believe “have a heart”. Girls, you don’t have magic vagina’s, and you will not change these players. If you want a nice guy, then date the nice guys you friend. Or just keep trying to change us players and jerks, and will continue to bang you and clang you.
“I’m hoping that the deep conversation I have with them over beers will continue me on the path of introspection and self-reevaluation.”
Yeah, that and the path to slippery slot, right?
There is nothing more DC than using an online calender to pencil in a Monday date at the Georgetown Haagen Daas.
And to the laughable ‘older’ women who think they are not spinsters, an older man still has plenty to offer a younger girl, both financially, socially and sexually. You, on the other hand, look naked like someone left a deli sandwich outside too long. Have fun feeding your cats.
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You, on the other hand, look naked like someone left a deli sandwich outside too long. Have fun feeding your cats.
Tsk. Is that the way you talk to your mother or grandmother? Older women have plenty to offer in taking care of the younger generation. Too bad the endemic disrespect for women throughout society has made the role of the grandmother practically disappear.
And when I say disrespect for women, I mean disrespect for what women actually do, that is compassion, nurture and rearing children. All that society values women for nowadays is sex.
“rearing children” :-)
But most women these days have a huge sense of entitlement because “I’m a mom!” – shout it from the highest mountain as it is so unique and never ever been done a zillion times before! I can’t stand how society dictates that single moms should be coddled. Any species can reproduce. Just because some slut was irresponsible and is now dependent on the welfare system, I don’t think should be revered. And shame on Quentin Tarrantino for ruining what would have been a pretty decent movie sequel in Kill Bill Part II! She got knocked up, wow! Lame!
“I’m your Perfect Woman…
…Or I can be.”
That’s what I’ve posted to over 50 online dating services. I’m an artist trying to transform myself into the “Perfect Woman”, but I need help defining perfection.
This November, I sent out personals ads nationally inviting men to submit their idea of the Perfect Woman to my website: http://www.perfectwomanproject.com.
On February 14th the voting began. Anyone could vote for their favorite description, but only one submission would win.
The winner was “Hopeful”. Now I am transforming myself into their Perfect Woman. Based on the winning description, I am changing anything and everything in an attempt to become the Perfect Woman.
April 29 – May 1, I will fly the winner to my home town for a series of dates with their Perfect Woman. You can watch it broadcast live online.
I can understand that, but I work in a hospital and still see guys that were married for 60 years, half dozen kids. dozen grandkids…and they still die alone. So while you can have one person keep you company when no one else is around… it all still ends the same way. I’m also a little selfish, can hardly support myself. I also understand women want equality. So if a girl wants to marry me, she should be able to take care of herself, and come together for food, bills, etc. but it doesn’t work like that. She still wants to control the money the man makes!
If I ever find a woman that settles me down, props to her. because I’ve fallen in love, been hurt, and trusted girls more than anyone who have stabbed me in the back. Who can you really trust?