Today marks exactly five years since I launched DCBachelor.com (I did have a blog before that but it was more of a little diary for friends than the game resource it morphed into starting with DCB). Let’s take a trip down memory lane and then talk about the future. I’ve also included a photo from each year to document my metamorphosis.
Two early posts that started getting me attention were whores vs conservative girls and how to get free drinks at Starbucks. By the third month of operation I already had multiple haters and the more I hated on others, the more I got hated on. Go figure.
The blog started taking direction with these posts:
- Brooke Shields Part 1, Part 2
- Women Dating Tips
- American Women Vs European Women (my most commented post)
- You Will Die Alone
- Why Mediocre Women Desire Hot Men
- Most Women Are Only Suitable For One Night Stands
- Bad Game Vs Good Game
- Stop Wearing Flip Flops
At the time there were fewer posts about game than recaps of happy hours and club nights.
The big drama of the year was my epic blog war with “The Senator,” which is nicely documented on this wiki page. Upon winning I took a triumphant victory lap. He has not been seen on the internet since.
The blog wars of yesteryear were far more artfully done and went for emotional impact instead of merely posting private information. Today any slackjawed retard with an internet connection can post someone’s address, but it takes actual brains to force someone’s blog offline with taunts that bring about immense shame and embarrassment. In fact if you have to resort to posting someone’s private information you’ve already lost, because in the end all you’re doing is… posting information.
The blog began to affect my dating life as more girls found out about it. It’s also this time that I started having my first blog groupies (giddy).
Besides that I took a blow up doll to the beach and Dupont Circle, made women cry with this post, went to Spain, started thinking about moving abroad with discussion on international women, was saddened by someone’s death, started the player or poseur series, introduced the cost per notch, moved the domain to RooshV.com, and started a new blog called Furball Approved where I’d post funny videos that were reviewed in the voice of my cat. It only lasted a few weeks.
I had my full name and job posted on the blog of a gay man, who begged his readers to contact human resources. But his information was dated and he ended up posting the place I worked at several months prior. His attempts to destroy me failed, obviously, and I think it all stemmed from the fact that I rebuffed his advances at a blogger happy hour. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
His/her blog was dead last time I checked.
Blogging continued to affect my sex life while I learned that women who showed affection made me happier. I bashed Americans, introduced the flag metric, started learning Spanish, and got tired of women who think they understand women better than men.
Three big events this year: I quit the corporate grind, went to South America, and released Bang. There weren’t many game posts because of the energy that went into the book, but I do like seven ways to improve your game, hung up on the opener, and playful vibe.
My experience in South America led to these popular posts:
- Guiding Principle Of Male-Female Relations
- 10 Common Travel Scams
- School Of Argentine Girls
- Brazilian, Argentine, and American girls
- Introduction To Brazilian Girls
That last one is the most visited post on the blog right now.
While it was a very exciting year for me, it was the worst year for my blog. The content wasn’t that great and I alienated my core audience by writing more about travel than game (it’s no suprise that the year saw the blog’s lowest traffic). I don’t have a favorite post and even my April Fools gag was weak (starting a new blog called Puppy Dogs & Ice Cream).
After this third year I realized that even if I win the Nobel Prize in Physics I’m still expected to mostly write about game. I’ve accepted that. You know there’s things you want to do (have a video blog starring a cat) and then there’s things that you’re good at.
I gave women advice, continued to piss people off (I even detailed the strategy of my haters), was more careful about where I deposited my seed, stopped caring about if a girl orgasms or not, bashed Americans and feminists, shared a masturbation strategy, was a hot girl for a night, stopped taking showers, gave my friend parenting tips, became seriously uninspired with American girls, and got so enraged with cockblocking that I offered a way to stop it for good.
Also I made a travel blog (that is sort of dead at the moment), went to Las Vegas with Virgle Kent, opened the forum (which has become pretty active), put out my philosophy on life, wrote a short story, bartended, made a few videos, put a lot of work into my newsletters, and started teaching workshops on day game.
At the risk of letting my ego talk, I think this last year was my best yet. My thinking was clear and my experiences rich, making it somewhat easy to consistently put out good content. I like so many posts that I’m not sure where to start.
I advised you not to date girls who like poetry (e.g Poetry Girl), talked about girls who faked about knowing my blog, dropped some more Argentine girl knowledge, wrote a letter to Virgle Kent, expressed an interest in needy girls and a disinterest in girls who love to eat out, talked about a magical land where lemons are green, got on men’s rights guys while musing about what it takes to be a real man, shot down the idea of banging prostitutes, got stalked by a girl I creampied on a Colombian bus, and defended the honor of a Brazilian guy who got cockblocked by a fat pig
American women got a lot of blog space this year. I wondered about the best age to date one, complimented their easiness while defending the idea of travel to countries that have harder women, responded to a man-bashing older woman, got on feminists who wanted to make bad pick-up lines punishable by jail time, hypothesized about why their brains are damaged, identified one of their universal problems, criticized them for looking like shit while traveling and having children while single, and brought it all home with a conversation about what’s wrong with America.
My favorite game posts:
- The 9 Immutable Laws Of Pickup
- 18 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Laid
- 16 Different Types Of Game
- Definitive Guide To Going Out Alone
- The Secret To Getting Laid
- How To Cheat On Your Girlfriend Without Getting Caught
- The Dark Side Of Game
- Three Reasons Why Guys Fail In The Game
- The Two Things That Tight Game Comes Down To
- Why You Don’t Need To Understand Women
- How Culture Shapes Game
- Be That Guy
- True Cost Per Notch
- Banging Girls Who Don’t Speak Your Language
- Balancing Between Compliments And Insults (Examples)
- Logical Thinking Increases The Size Of Your Sack
- The Best Motivator That Gets You Approaching Girls
- You Can Only Hit Your True Potential By Getting Rejected
- How To Tell A Girl What You Do
- Stop Being Needy
- How To Get Laid Without Approaching
- How To Tell If A Girl Is Serious About Fucking
I also taught a reality workshop, gave an introduction to Buddhism, did a big site survey, put out a video on Medellin, Colombia, shared my dune buggy adventure in a Brazilian beach town while offering travel tips of the northeast and the city of Vitoria, gave a strategy for living abroad, tried to motivate you, shared my system for learning a foreign language, and released my second book.
I closed comments for six months and while everyone says it was a mistake, I’m satisfied that I stayed motivated to blog without the instant feedback and validation. The thirst to share wisdom is within me. (Fun fact: I’ve banned 39 IP addresses since bringing comments back, and put a dozen others in the moderation doghouse.)
My favorite post of the year was what are you waiting for though I really did like how the dune buggy story turned out. The April Fools gag was going to Ethiopia to feed starving children. It absolutely cannot be topped.
Creatively it was a good year and I’m proud that I was focused and disciplined enough to dig all of it out of my huge, throbbing brain. As a result the blog is receiving the most traffic it ever has.
My goal here is not win awards for my writing but deliver ideas and experiences in a way that you can learn, understand, apply, or be entertained from. While I’ve said most of what I wanted to say about game, American girls, and South America, I still think I have things left to contribute. As long as I push myself outside of my comfort zone (i.e. stints living abroad), there should always be cool ideas popping in my head.
I don’t know exactly when but I do see myself cutting down on posting from three times a week to eventually two and then one. I think this is inevitable for those bloggers who have been doing it for so many years, as you simply cannot keep up production (and motivation) from your peak. I don’t see this as a bad thing though: as long as the quality remains strong I think you’ll still get a lot of value. In the meantime I plan on putting out a few more books, and I’m currently working on two simultaneously.
Lastly, I wanted to thank everyone for their support over the past five years, for buying my books, taking my workshop, linking my posts from your blogs, and leaving encouraging comments and emails. Otherwise my life would be probably be very different. Thank you.
Here’s to another five years.Tweet Follow @rooshv
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Game Tips Newsletter:
Wow 5 years man! The one thing above anything else I like in your writing is your overwhelming honesty – you really tell it like it is no bullshit. Many guys need to hear tough love, your dark humour especially in A Dead Bat in Paraguay meant I couldn’t put the book down. Here’s to another 5 years reading your stuff. Keep it up!
To this day, yours Is the only blog I read. I’ve been reading since rooshlog.com and will probably be the last guy to stop.
It’s pretty interesting to go from RLUG to this. I went from reading on a piece of shit HP to my iPhone, amazing how much life changes, and it’s neat to have a post like this to make you think about it.
Thanks for everything you have written about. Especially the inSOMnia pizza story.
Thanks in large part to your work, I have zero fear of approaching girls, have no problem getting laid, and harbor an intense hate for money grubbing whores. You are an asset to humanity. Ha.
Thank you roosh.
It’s crazy to think I’ve been reading a blog about a dude I’ve never met for 5 years. It’s like this site has become an integral part of my morning ritual.
Sit down in cube. Turn Laptop on. Look at Roosh. Read Comments.
I’m sure I’m not the only one.
It has to be weird for you to have so many ramdom internet folks know half your adult life.
Here’s to five more years of helping me waste the first 25 minutes of work.
Congrats Brother!!! To many more wonderful years of sex, sex, and more sex… Thanks Roosh for always speaking your mind. To the heaters who come here with their “happy little perfect life’s” to hate, GO FUCK A GOAT.
Thank you. Great job.
If only it were possible to have had a copy of Bang years ago.
craig | travelvice.com’s last blog post: Wacky Bedouin Kids, Beautiful Desert Sunset.
Congrats man, can’t wait for another five years when most of your topics will be “Best Ways To Manage A Harem Of 40 Girls” and “How To Escape From Colombia After Banging A Drug Dealers Wife”.
thedcam’s last blog post: Because Most Movies Come Down To 37 Seconds.
Thanks for everything Roosh. I’ve been reading since year 1 and you remain one of the best around.
Hell yeah, I’ve been reading for maybe 4 years. I’d probably be around 5 years from now. Much love Roosh =)
5 years, impressive.
I think I am actually coming up on my 5th as well (math isn’t my strong suit).
Keep traveling. Its the best thing you can do with your life.
The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Sharp, Urban, and International.
Congrats to Roosh,
A man who chose not to be a follower.
A man who made his own way.
wow. 5 years. congrats man.
Major congrats man, do you ever think about the bloggers that have come and gone in that time? You’ve kept a good pace but continued to move up. Honestly I think in the next five years there will be a major shift, count on it. A new medium. Keep up the good work
Damn, 5 years seems like a long time, but it goes by quick, doesn’t it?
I think I’ve found Roosh’s blog about a year ago, but I’ve only actually been reading for the past couple of months.
I guess I’m very new here compared to the rest of y’all.
Willy Wonka’s last blog post: Moved..
I found this blog trying to find info on picking up Argy chicks in early 2008 and I I’ve enjoyed it ever since. Thanks Roosh. Its the only blog I read.
Maybe if you lost the beard and smiled more, you would get more chicks…
Congrats Roosh. Your blog was my inspiration to begin blogging and still one of the first things I click on. Good luck with the future.
Jack Goes Forth’s last blog post: Punch Drunk # 17.
Thanks for the 5.
I hope you do a day game book in the near future.
You’re welcome. A Deat Bat was a pretty good read. Looking forward to more.
Wow, 5 years and so much thought, effort and new content — congrats.
Many of us have come and gone from blogging, and I really admire that you’ve continued the quality and content readers expect AND have been writing your books, too, among other projects — keep it up!
Congrats on the 5 year blogiversery, it’s amazing how time flies and just goes to show people how much game can be accomplished if you really dig in and get down to it.
Looking forward to another five years!
Matt Savage’s last blog post: The Erection Story.
rock on Roosh, your posts have been an inspiration for me since discovering you this past November (and btw, my first reaction to this blog was ‘wow fuck this guy what an asshole’ before realizing that you spit nothing but the cold hard truth…)
trying not to let this lifestyle lead me to a life of alcoholism or “knob rot”, but I read somewhere that the only thing of any value in life is youth; I’m TRYing not to waste mine
Your blog is awesome and your Bang book has improved my life quite a bit and been an inspiration. I also hope for a similar book involving day game.
Culcept’s last blog post: Learning from the beta years (Part 1).
Looks like you had more girls posting before; now it’s a sausage fest.
congrats dude. people don’t know this but you were the inspiration for me to blog. i think i started reading you around the end of the dc bachelor era or the beginning of the rooshv era, and from there spun off to talk about my own experiences.
roissy’s last blog post: Unemployment Busting The Mating Market?.
haha.. before dcb don’t forget about RLUG, RL, RN, and roosh.com
Great stuff Roosh. Yours and Tim Ferriss’ are the only blogs I read. Books are solid too, looking forward to the next one.
I think I’ve been reading your blog for a year, year and half maybe. I don’t think I’ve ever laughed so hard reading someone’s blog material. Bang was a solid book too.
By far the best post of yours was the one where you posted crazy, bitchy Anouk’s email to you. Awesomeness.
Definitely and inspiration man…thanks…
Tyler’s last blog post: Working Out.
another 5 years and you’ll be 35. Scary.
Congratulations, homey. Keep up the entertaining and thought provoking writing.
Matt Hoss’s last blog post: Enjoy the Journey As Much As the Destination.
So I was going back and reading your old posts from year 1. It’s really depressing how vehemently people were defending your attack on flip-flops in your year 1 post about them.
I guess over the years you’ve weeded out awful readers like that because I couldn’t see commenters sticking up for flip-flops in the nightclub nowadays.
T. AKA Ricky Raw’s last blog post: Bernays and Freud.
Congrats brotha. Yours is in the top five of my reader with mark cuban, tim ferris and some other folks who actually have something to say. Cheers!
phillipmarlow’s last blog post: How To Use Jigsaw to Find Your Next Job.
dude nice to know you wont be quitting on us anytime soon
Congrats! I can imagine how much more you’ll have to blog about when you hit up Eastern Europe and South East Asia :)
Dan DeLa Cruz’s last blog post: International Dating with Foreign Women – All Hype Or The Real Deal?.
congrats roosh! 3 blogs i read regularly, yours is the first – since 2006. keep it coming!
You look uglier every year that passes.
Your game must be superb!
Congrats for the fine blog.
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