Not every man has to approach to get laid, for there are lifestyle choices you can make which allow the women to come to you. While it’s rare to meet a man who has tight game but never approaches, taking on a lifestyle “gimmick” will make it easier for every guy. Here’s some things you can do which eliminate the need to approach:

1. Bartender, bouncer, or promoter. This is where women have to interact with you. With game and personality it’ll be very easy to take these normal interactions to the next level since your high value is already assumed. Even though bartending is manual labor and something that a monkey can do, girls are incredibly impressed by it. I left out DJ’ing on purpose because while women do approach you, it’s not as common you think. You’re unable to communicate with her and she gets bored and goes right back into the crowd to get grimey with another guy. Unless you’re a world-class DJ, you’ll get scraps.

2. Musician who performs in live shows. It doesn’t even matter if you’re in a good band or not. Simply perform and then have some drink afterwards with the commoners. Girls will compliment your show or ask you a question about a song that touched them deeply. It doesn’t matter how many panties get wet with your music but you won’t get anything unless you mingle after the show.

3. Surfing instructor. You’re the expert not only in surfing (getting nice views of her body as you push her into waves), but also in the nightlife. Try to make tentative plans to meet up at night or merely make a strong recommendation for the spot you’re going to. You’ll run into her and once liquored up she’ll be rather easy. Seen it a million times.

4. Tour guide. Again, your expert status conveys high value and as long as you show personality it won’t be hard to get an after-tour drink.

5. Foreign language instructor. The key here is to teach hot rich girls who you normally wouldn’t have access to. I’ve heard many stories of gringos teachers getting with very hot women that would be extremely laborious to pick up otherwise. To score you’ll have better odds teaching for a large company with group classes than occasional 1-on-1 private tutoring.

6. CouchSurfing host. There’s a Brazilian guy I met that has a CouchSurfing profile but only replies to requests by cute girls. He has accumulated quite a few flags this way because as you know girls traveling alone willing to stay with a random man is probably down for that random cock.

Others gimmicks worth mentioning: Studio photographer, pool lifeguard, and cable repairman.

Every now and then there is a weird gimmick that you wouldn’t think helps a guy out. For example the guy who works as a waiter in the family-owned pizzeria for the summer at the beach gets laid like a champ. The main idea here is finding something where girls have to interact with you in a setting that shows your value, then turning on that charm. You won’t have to do any cold approaches again until the goose dies.

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Great compilation, of course to add there is also always any king of college or professional athlete, drug dealer, or the guy wearing the wackiest pop-culture t-shirt of the moment at the beach bar. True story on that last one.

thedcam’s last blog post: Banging Your Own GILF.

I have been meaning to write on this subject for a while, but not from an employment perspective.

You can also throw “Lifeguard” on this list.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Obesity More Dangerous Than Smoking says US Study.

You forgot Blogger.

Through in boutique owner (womens clothing) which I owned for 3 years in Miami Giddy UUUPP!

A friend of mine is partial owner of an enegry drink (similar to Monster) thats is an ass magnet, he picks up all the bikini chicks at the promos.

Another that comes to mind is working at a strip club doing anything (parking attendant whatever)

Haha I love this post, and I hear what you’re saying about the DJs but being one myself I have definitely cleaned up many times from that alone.

If I wasn’t put off by all the chemicals, “hairstylist” is not a bad idea.

“A friend of mine is partial owner of an enegry drink (similar to Monster) thats is an ass magnet, he picks up all the bikini chicks at the promos.”

Reminds me of another one: Vodka.

I knew a cat that was in on promoting one of those crap, glam new Vodkas (ie Vodka with Acai, or Vodka with Pommegrante or something stupid).

He seemed to leverage it pretty well.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Obesity More Dangerous Than Smoking says US Study.

- Actor, Model
Girls like actors and models. Even if you’re a failed actor or model. Just namedrop, make up stories, and let the pussy train commence.

Simon’s last blog post: Brazil in 2 days.

Yoga Instructor.

Fame always beats Game. Fuck working on my approaching… i need to get on television…that REAL GAME!!!

Gio,

“Fame always beats Game. Fuck working on my approaching… i need to get on television…that REAL GAME!!!”

That is so funny, I was just talking about this with one of my friend 5 min ago.

Reality Show stars are actually becoming legitimized.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Obesity More Dangerous Than Smoking says US Study.

Dont ruin CouchSurfing. Couchsurfing is a great site and doesn’t need to have a bunch of losers trolling for ass on it. All it takes is one creepy loser that ruins it for everyone else. Host someone for the right reason and don’t be a lech about it. If the girl likes you, great…but don’t be “that guy.”

I hosted a girl a while back that had a really awkward experience where she went to stay with a guy and he had a candle lit dinner waiting for her and gave her no options to sleep but in his bed. That’s fucking pathetic.

Plus your profile will get bombarded with negatives and people on CouchSurfing talk to each other and watch out for each other. Also you get a lot of referrels to cool people to host and that helps. If all you have is references from girls and you are a guy, that looks strange.

Host cool people (guys and girls) and do it for the right reasons. You will get laid anyway (cuz you are doing cool shit) and you will save face and grow your network of good people all over the world.

There are a lot of guys on this site that use CouchSurfing to travel the world. Don’t screw that up for everyone else.

There’s my rant for the year.

might as well just approach

Hey Roosh,

I know you’ve done some jobs that supposedly make cold approaches unnecessary: bartending, DJ’ing. Can you share any stories that exemplify how it’s different?

Couchsurfing is one outlet which doesn’t get much coverage on this site. Yes, coercing guests is disgusting, so stay chill if you’re a host.

That being said, CS parties are notorious for being hooking up events. Moat girls there are after foreign meat building up their flag count (literally). In two years on and off, I’ve racked up close to 10.

Cheers

I’ve seen guys that work the desk at hostels getting a lot of tail. You’d have girls flying into the country, don’t know where to go for nightlife, they go up the front desk and ask. Young desk guy says,”I’m getting off in an hour and meeting up with some friends at a bar, why don’t you come with us.” and there you go.

Get a dog and take her for walks where the girls are. I just got one and it’s a total magnet.

If you’re really evil, get one that’s handicapped in some way. Mine is missing a leg and man-oh-man does that inspire the caregiver in her. Plus she automatically thinks I’m a hero because I rescued her from the pound.

(I didn’t get a handicapped dog on purpose — I just really liked this one — but now I’m thinking I’ll do it for all my future pets.)

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Roosh and D,

My real passion is my hobby.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEBn-uLTzYA

Haha. My worst suspicions about Couchsurfing have been confirmed…

couchsurfing is a terrible way to get laid. Ive been laid exactly 0 times and have been on couchsurfing.com for years. First, hosting is a time consuming pain in the ass if your surfers arent fun and cool and low maintenance-male or female.
Second, single chicks stay with women hosts most of the time. most requests hosts get are from guys or couples. even when women stay with male hosts the sex is not frequent if at all. and if a host gets outed as trolling for pussy he’ll get kicked off the site. Finally, most chicks on CS are either weird, gay or not available. using it to meet women that you are NOT hosting is a much better plan, but still not better then meeting them anywhere else.

“get a dog that’s handicapped in some way. Mine is missing a leg and man-oh-man does that inspire the caregiver in her.”
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That’s it, I am surgically removing one of my dog’s legs. Which one would be better to remove?

Some of the most underrated–martial arts or self-defense instructor (women’s self defense works great), any volunteering in an animal shelter, etc.) Martial arts doesn’t work if it’s a no-name thing, but if you’re a black belt and/or in competitions, it works wonders. Besides, then they think you’re great in bed. :D

I am considering my career choices and a tattoo artist came up – you get to know loads of people, you got fame, the control is in you hand.. my only concern is whether it’s going to attract one kinda extreme girls – probably not solely – but then if you want proper nice girls you can always go out.