If men consider only looks for a serious relationship, how do you explain the hot guys marrying ugly girls? I’ve seen that a lot, including Europe. What makes the plain Janes desire hot ass boyfriends/husbands is cause they see such couples on the street. I have seen countless handsome guy-butt ugly midget couples in my lifetime. Makes you think, ‘if this ugly midget with thick ass glasses gets that guy, why shouldn’t I? I deserve that more than that troll’
It’s in celebrity stuff too, look at Josh Holloway and his ugly troll wife. It gave a lot if ugly girls false hopes.

Wow. You are a moron. I hope to God you die alone with chlamydia contracted from an overweight hooker with a bob.

English chicks r my favorite they always pull down their pants when with me and i only game 8′s and above. I lived in maryland 2 where i got very little action for 2 much effort and those things about california and texas r completely right i never fail to get action with babes down there.

You need to write this book ASAP so I can give it out this Christmas!!

what you’ve said is…depressingly true!

and very funny!

“But Roosh I am thin and attractive with long hair but am over 30, single, and unhappy.”

Then you do not really want a husband or children.”

to quote a line from my favourite romcom – the wedding date – every woman has the exact love life she wants!

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What you described here is OK for picking a one night stand, or casual partner, or high school flirt… Not a girlfriend. Let alone wife…LOL. In the end ALL that matters is the character. Here, I am sayin’ it: Character.

1) Miserable
2) Nasty
3) Crazy
4) Ugly as Sin (includes obese)

Hell, there are even guys who go for women who fall into those four categories, it’s just harder for afflicted women to find them.
Most men, on the other hand, are mostly socially inept. That’s why blogs like this have proliferated in the first place.

Anyway, I have had a short “bob” hair cut my whole entire life, and have never had any problems getting guys interested in me. Kinda disproves your theory – but at the same time I guess I should take into consideration that I am still relatively young and “cute”…if I may say so. “Cute” is not sexy, but it does attract boyfriend-material type guys and seems to keep the players at bay.

“Every weed in the desert is still a flower”
-”Don’t Mess with the Zohan”

Why can’t American men and women 1) accept gender roles 2) stop being prude 3) start being more open

In other countries and what not [I'm also well-traveled] I notice male-female relations are much better.

E.g. Girls go out with guys just to have fun, guys are social and willing to have conversations, girls are more willing to get down with guys . . .

Here, there seems to be a strong culture of animosity and distrust of all but the most idealized, stereotypically handsome men and for many guys, a long history of extreme frustration with women.

I think the main problem is guys not truly living their roles as men and women being way too close-minded with regard to even speaking to different guys.

Damn, it is really sad but true. I put up with a whole lot more from a 9. I’ve dated 9 that were so hard to get along with sometimes, and had they ben a 7 they would have gotten the boot. Guys will put up with a lot more shit from a 9 than a 7 or bellow.

“Since you are American and have as much sex appeal as a woman from Afghanistan, your only hope is getting your looks together.”

I don’t know what you’re saying dude, I’ve met some HOT ASS afghan girls in this dc/northern VA area.. hotter than the iranian or arab girls.. some with black hair, blue eyes and shit.. HOT!

I learned the hard way that looks are really only important in the beginning…I’d say, about the first six months or so. By then, most of your friends have met her, you are used to her…like anything, the novelty begins to wear off. Those same traits that you overlooked because she was such a hot piece of ass slowly become more important. If there was never a really genuine connection, it gets old.
If you are just on the hook-up, going on looks alone is fine. But if you are wanting to spend a lot of time with someone, better to find someone you just love to be with…seriously.

Roosh,

Your comments are more or less spot on, but you overgeneralize American male tastes in women. Is most of your audience white and middle class? I agree that women should get in shape and stop bitching, but plenty of men don’t mind a big girl.

cheers.

To be straight forward, I enjoy being in Asia because it almost forces western women here to compete with the asian female to maintain a decent weight. Everyone tries not to ‘over do it’ and puts the chopsticks down before going too far. Being fat here not only stands out; in Asia it is ok to say to someone that they are “fat.” Asians are very straight forward about appearances. Ironically, they also seem to care less about them. Ugly people here do just fine dating. Fat on the other hand struggle more. To an asian it appears being fat equates to having no self control.

Here’s the thing, the dating game works virtually the same way with each sex. If you’re looking for a good night out, of course you’re going to look for somebody sexy, whether that means somebody is physically attractive or just has that special something that nails it for you. But even a lot of guys will pass that bitchy blonde when they’re thinking about someone they want to settle down with, and you would be surprised at how many guys drool over redheads with glasses, or even fat chicks. Think that’s not the case? Maybe you should take a look at this little thing called the internet. There is porn out there for just about any taste, and that porn wouldn’t exist if there wasn’t a market for it.

In any case, being a bachelor/bachelorette is a total blast for people like me, but on both sides there is a craving for a home life. It’s just a stupid gender stereotype that gives people the idea that all guys want to spend their lives getting tail and the girls just want to get married and have kids. Most people are looking for a happy medium.