In this clip I give a demonstration on some easy ways to approach girls at the bar ordering drinks….
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Masterpiece,easy explanation and effective manouver.
Just a question, after you open the girl and she is positive to you, do you keep talking to her there or try to isolate her?
And once the drinks are finished which step do you suggest, I move toward isolation in a quiet spot at the club but sometime they are resistant especially if the cockblocker is supervising.
If I happen to be standing next to a woman while she is ordering at the bar. If she gets a cocktail, I try to guess what she is drinking. After a while you get better it. Either way, you open her and it invites conversation.
that was genius
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Great video Roosh but the whole tapping the girl (and the standing behind her waiting) thing seems a bit creepy. Can you expand on getting a girl’s attention without coming off as a creepy beta?
oh rooshtitute, er, ah bert…..
when will you do a full animation post?
I betch’ya developed your “tactics” playing Gears of War and Halo….
When I’m in a 3rd world country on food tourism, and your there for sex tourism-maybe as in intersectionality, we can meet up and I can order a crepe while you act creepy….
David H. How is food tourism any better than sex tourism? Cause you’re able to be a sophisticated fuck discussing the delicate texture of a certain dish and how the spices just deliver a delightful burst of flavor in your mouth?
“Alpha” body language is key. Upright and shoulders back, but relaxed and at ease. Don’t lean in or encroach on her space. Possibly angle yourself (feet and shoulders) slightly away from her but don’t get in your head micromanaging that. The tap itself is slow and gentle but firm.
The tap is there because in a loud, crowded environment, that’s the best way to indicate “give me your attention I’m about to say something to you.” Think of it as a calm, assertive move rather than a hurried, urgent one and that should help get the pacing and body language right.
To practice, you can try using the shoulder tap to move girls out of the way if they are crowding your path. Move slowly and deliberately and if you’re doing it right sometimes the girl will turn around eagerly and be clearly disappointed when you merely say “excuse me”. That’s the reaction you’re looking for with the shoulder-tap.
The standing behind her part also probably assumes some amount of crowdedness, where standing in one spot for a minute or so isn’t really that weird. I agree though that if it’s not crowded then standing behind staring at her neck the whole time is very creepy. If the crowd is very sparse you might be able to pull it off by hanging back and approaching from a distance when you see her pay the bill.
blog gold. do continue the vid series with more opener/liners once the logistics are squared.
Great video and explanation…love the AlphaEagle figurine
Standing behind or next to the girl is pretty much common sense. After the tap, if it is really hard to hear, a good move is to motion to your ear as in “hey, can’t hear you” while signaling to the girl to come closer. If you are standing like a champ, it forces her to lean in to you. My issue is killing the time winning the friends or pulling isolation – the approach is the easy part.
You ever notice how the cockblocker is always the one who drove? Don’t you just hate that shit? Why is that?
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If the bar is crowded and she is trying to get the attention of the bar tender and you are right next to her I have used ” I bet you I can get a drink before you” this is a playful line so go from there
what happened to the original Doll video?
Commenting on the “Do Muscles Matter” video… makes good sense, as much of your writing does.
Simply taking the time to correlate experience with common sense – and unflinchingly pointing your critical thinking faculties at yourself – that’s something we can all benefit from.
You’ve lamented how western women are becoming more masculine… perhaps that’s why they seem to go for hyper-masculinity in guys… to preserve relative femininity.
Commenting on the “Do Muscles Matter” video…
It´s the hamster again. As with fashion or anything women are easily manipulated by the media.
10 years ago here in Argentina if you had big muscles they would make fun of you (because muscle guys were made fun of by the media) Nowadays beefed guys are portayed like the alpha most desirable guys by the media and so woman actively chase big guys…
I´m the poster of answer @20
This also has to do a lot with the permeation of gay culture into mainstream. Going crazy for really big guys was always a gay culture trait. In terms of the men body women were always mostly interested in the notch. They didn´t care much about anything else (provided you were not disgusting)
@20 on the muscle vid
Good last point. Having an outwardly more dominant body type (big muscles), would seem to be appealing, even at an unconscious level to women who are more dominant.
I find this point even more interesting. My sister is a more dominant, alpha type girl (aspects exacerbated by a leadership role in her job)…and the only guys she is ever interested in fall into the the more dominant, alpha type – cop, fireman, muscley investment dude – all of which were pretty big dudes.
Having muscles is always better than not having muscles, all other things being equal. If you are a white guy, what you lack in muscles you can make up in game and vice versa. But if you are an Indian or Asian guy, you absolutely need both muscles and game.
Not entirly true awhile ago i saw a tall skinny south indian guy(5) with a cute lil brunette(7)
Its even true with asians now i see stylish skinny azn boys in the city with white women quite consitenlty
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