Yesterday I mentioned how a girl I dated told me she was in a gangbang. Let me share with you how that came about.

Several years ago I was seeing a brunette who put out a girl-next-door vibe but was a piranha in bed. She was perfect for me. Since she was a keeper, I showed her my appreciation by hanging out with her in public instead of just my bedroom.

One afternoon we were at Barnes and Noble reading magazines. She was into the female health magazines like Shape and I was into Maxim and Stuff (give me a break, I was just out of college). I was still dreaming of a threesome, and this girl, due to her unbridled sexual energy, was my best shot at it to date.

“Have you ever been in a threesome?” I asked, quietly.

“Yes.”

“Cooooool! How was the girl like?”

“Umm. There was no girl.”

“Wait. How is a threesome possible without another girl?”

“It was with two guys.”

“Oh, no.”

At that moment, she was dead to me. Alright maybe not dead, but the freak in the sheets and lady on the streets image I built her up to be imploded like an old Vegas casino. She proceeded to give me details as my face turned from ease and contentment to looking like I was dumping a log in the toilet. I listened to her every word as she told me how guys pounded her multiple holes during one drunken night in college. I had to stop her from telling me more. It was my fault for not recognizing the warning signs: her ambivalence towards condoms, her penchant for public sex, and her love of record-setting gangbang events where a random guy off the street has to put in just a couple strokes to make it count. I should have known.

I continued having condomless sex with her but it just wasn’t the same: I kept imagining my best friends tag-teaming her along with me, asking me if I’m “having a good time” and if she is “always this freaky.” A few more months of that, after these kinky bedroom thoughts progressed into a heterosexual gray area, I decided to end the relationship.

In relationships since then I’ve had to stop girls from opening their big mouth and telling me their past sexual history, lest the image I have of them in my head be disturbed. Unless the girl is a virgin. I’d like to know that ahead of time so I can find some black tape to cover the red record light on my Dad’s camcorder.

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You’re right, this is really where the whole lady on the streets, freak in the sheets thing breaks down. I guess the lesson is to be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.

Haha! This story reminds me of my drunken, slutty friend. She also had a threesome with two guys she picked up at a bar.
Here’s a direct quote from her I’ll remember until the day I die:

“I had a dick in my mouth and a dick in my pussy, but none in my ass! Holla girl!”

I had never been so amused in my life.

good stuff.
one of my ex’s girlfriend’s had a threesome with a random dude and chick while on travel. the best part? she was already in a relationship with a quality guy she considered marriage material. and this chump felt the same way about her. if they’re married today, i wonder how he’d feel if he knew his sweet angel was taking it from behind while she was eating out some skank? when i asked my ex at the time why her friend did it she laughed and said “she just wanted the cock!”

remember that when you’re on your knees slipping the engagement ring on her finger.

moral of the story:
when meeting a woman your working assumption should always be ‘treacherous whore’ until proven otherwise.

ps
two guys and a girl is not a threesome.
it’s two gay guys and a girl.

I wonder what percentage of women have done threesomes with one guy and one girl? how about a gangbang with 2+ guys? 10-20, maybe closer to 40%?

roissy… I know why that girl you were talking about went for the threesome behind her bf. Because her bf wasn’t giving it to her!! its that simple

A friend of mine once put it to me this way:

“When it comes to threesomes, I have a one dick rule — MINE.”

I don’t think that your ex’s ‘double team ‘experience qualifies as a gang bang. I believe that it would have had to been more than 3 total persons to qualify as an ‘official’ gang bang.

2 guys + 1 girl = Wobbly H

Unless she’s getting DP’d, of course. I think for it to be a regulation gang bang, there must be at least one person waiting for a turn.

I am with you on this one…one of the girls i used to hang out with admitted to me she had a foursome with 3 guys…after that I was done….

I don’t know if a threesome actually qualifies as a “gang bang.”

Oh darn, MM stole my story I was going to relate. >_

Terps: It is a lot higher than women will admit to.

I would guess in the neighborhood of 15% to 20%

I want to hear Genevieve relate.

Seriously, one guy rule. Period. Otherwise the odds of swordfighting get way too high, and if one man’s dick touches another dude, one of them can’t leave the room alive.

I don’t even get having sex with other people in the room. I don’t mean in the back corner of a club or top bleacher at a Caps game, that’s one thing. But back in the military days, since we couldn’t bring girls back to the barracks, you’d end up with six or seven couples in a hotel room after the club. Shit gets old real fast. Especially since if you didn’t throw everyone else off of a bed or claim the shower early, you knew you were going to end up sore as hell afterwards.

“Several years ago I was seeing a brunette who put out a girl-next-door vibe but was a piranha in bed.”

Hmmm…details provided to make us wonder who it was…?

3 would be a pretty tame gangbang for the states maybe for white guys 3 is a gangbang. In the hood though a gangbang is when the white girl is in a room and you have a group of guys drinking, and everyone takes turns going in and taking care of business. Course I didn’t take a turn cause who in there right mind would fucking be 7th 8th or 9th in line lol

… or second.

You guys are hypocrits. You expect to be treated like a god for being with more than one woman, but if a woman is with more than one guy .. she’s nasty??

I just found your blog today Roosh. I have to say I’m thankful to have the opportunity to read your male perspectives. I certainly won’t always agree and may want to add my comments, but I do appreciate what you are writing (if it is off-the-cuff).

I think almost all women fantasize about being with more than one guy or even another woman. Doesn’t mean that we follow through with it. It’s a turn on to think of how it would feel.

I’m pretty wild in bed, but I’ve never been with another woman or more than one person at a time.

I refrain from judging those that have. If they were smart enough to take precautions and didn’t catch any diseases or infections, more power to them. They’re not sitting up at night always wonderding “what if”.

Did you hear that Men into Sado-Masochism are happier and have a healthier wellbeing than those who refrain from BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination and submission)???

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Food for thought.

A girl I was seeing revealed that she once had sex with three different guys at the same time. I realize it’s her past, but I just couldn’t be with her anymore. I felt disappointed and disgusted at the same time. Yes, I’m sure many girls fantasize about getting gangbanged, but to carry out that fanstasy in real life is crossing the line in my opinion. She degradeed herself and obviously has no self-respect. Despite the fact that I liked her, it totally went against my personal qualities of what I want in a girl. Girls who had these kinds of experiences should keep that to themselves.

Girls who have sex with more than one dude at a time are skanks and are filthy. Yea all girls fantasize about it, but the facts are quite simple that the majority females could score a 3some faster than the majority males. For this reason it is exactly why she’s nasty if she has two cocks in her at once; and why guys who have multiple vaginas and no other cocks involed go on to become something greater: Gods.

What a bunch of hypocritical idiots commenting here! Talk about the Madonna (saint)/ Whore (sinner) complex!!! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! Sex, love and respect are intermingled. We each decide what that ratio will be for us personally and in relation to others (in bed, or out.) I’m not for or against gangbangs, but I am against ignorant judgement of others.

That’s kind of a double standard, if you ask me, and sad that you judged her for one mistake in her drunken past and didn’t give her the chance to prove who she might have been at the time you were dating her. So if she’d been gay and this incident had happened with women, because that was “hot,” to the majority of males, that would have been okay with you. That’s how I’m understanding this.

What a bunch of B.S.

I say this, because I did this in my past a few times to really explore my sexuality as much as possible. As long as a person is exercising his or her free will and not hurting anyone else in their pursuits, hey, I say go for it. This was for fun, and nothing more. Some people find adventure in ways that may seem weird to others.

But what’s past is past, and I met and fell in love with a wonderful man (who, BTW, was surprised, but never faltered in his love for me, when I mentioned my past exploits to him one day — although I don’t think gory details were in order, as with your girlfriend at the time…)

And, I had some rules…
I knew and trusted the people.
It was all in fun.
They wore protection.
I was single when I did this and not going behind someone’s back.

I was never into D.P., however, I was with 10 guys in a session. For most women, it’s a real thrill to feel that all of these men hunger to fuck you all at once. And I think it has to do with opening yourself up to pleasure and crossing boundaries, not being “a skank” and having low self-confidence. Sure, this kind of stuff could be forced on a woman and leave her feeling degraded. But I went out in search of it, curious, and answered an ad and loved it. Then I left with visuals that still give me good dreams.

But I love my guy. I’m completely faithful to him, and he’s never doubted that. It’s about loving someone for who they are now and how they treat you now.

Grow up w/these double standards, Guys.

I can’t believe so many of you would feel so strongly about this, and talk about double standards! If you’re that insecure that you’d dump a girl because of her past sexual exploration, you need to grow the FUCK UP! Oh, and by the way, when you finally meet that girl who’s past sexual exploits are within your comfort zone, check to see if she has a pulse! Enjoy your vanilla love life!
P.S. Do you still have her number?

Roisy, “Two guys and a girl isn’t a threesome. Its two gay guy and a girl”????????????????
Well, if the guys are gay then you are correct. But more often than not it’s two guys comfortable enough in their own sexuality that take great pleasure from giving pleasure. So, if all are consenting adults, what’s the problem? Personally, I love what all that extra attention can do for the right girl.

As a man I’m disappointed in so many hypocrites. Face the facts, whats in the past is the past, and for all you guys out there, trust me, your next girl friend has a bigger list of people they slept with then you.

You fucked 10 men at once? Wow…

Seriously, ladies, do what you want, but NO MAN will think of you as marriage material if he finds out you were this trashy, not to mention unsafe. Condoms have a FAILURE RATE.

damn jennifer i thought my ex was a whore.

theres a lot of vitriole flying about here, but i have to add my 2p worth… Ive had 4 3somes and loved them all, this included a FFM, ive also done 5 guys at once and one day fucked 3 different men, though not at the same time (afternoon, evening and nighttime) Im not a ho, but i love the cock and i luv cum, ive been fucking since i was 14 and frankly 1 on 1 just doesnt always do it for me. I have a dream of fucking the 1st 11 football team. One day I know it will happen. Frankly, if you boys cant hack it, dont ask the questions.

HaHa Chrissy is your profession a porn star and also i played football

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Alrighty Jen…You’re the kind of girl I need to meet. I’m looking for an open minded gal who like to P A R T Y!!! And you sound like that kind og gal

Personally I use to love it when ex-gf use to tell me stories while we were having sex about them getting gangbanged be me and bunch of other guys…and an occasional girl thrown in there two. Still like the idea of two girls together …but seeing girl take control with bunch of guys actaully is HOT TOO!

Thanks, HighHard1. I just began recording my “experiences” on this site (not a porn scam site, just my own two cents on past fun).

Because, I’m a writer first (how I make sense of my world) AND a proud S-L-U-T, who regrets nothing of her past.

It’s Slut Stories

“Roisy, “Two guys and a girl isn’t a threesome. Its two gay guy and a girl”????????????????
Well, if the guys are gay then you are correct. But more often than not it’s two guys comfortable enough in their own sexuality that take great pleasure from giving pleasure.”

Incorrect. Two guys comfortable enough to give pleasure while crossing swords are for a FACT gay, REALLY desperate, or DRUNK out of their minds.

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What’s wrong with a M/F/M 3way? I’d even try a
M/M/F/M gangbang too. The thought of her taking so many dicks and us filling ever hole is exciting.

first off for you chicks that are sluts, getting gangbanged and saying guys have double standards, well thats bullshit. Your girls, we are guys. Thats the problem with american women, they think they can be the same as men, but you cant. Its different! Our minds dont work the same way, and we are fucking different, accept it, we are not the same! Get over it!

If your with more than 1 guy (in jen’s case 10) , your a fucking slut.

Its in our genes, men cannot help the fact that they are turned off by women who are sluts, whilst women are actually turned on by studs (men who get lots of girls), thats in your genes too.

If you dont believe me, go read some of the latest psychology about it. Go educated yourselves, and realize your not the same as fucking men, you whores.

Thats why i stick to south american and asian women, they still realize the real meaning of being a woman.

= = = = = Would love to see my gal = Just thought of her getting filled any way she wants :-) turns me on. Trust me I make her cum just by myself. I think it actually turns me on more to talk about it than her. And the thought of doing it. WOW!!!

Loved the Story “Just fucking fuck me, already.” would like to Chat more about this and more

My wife has been in a number of gang bangs, although she won’t take it up the ass. She prefers black men (we’re white) and loves to swallow. The most guys she has been with at once is 5, and she does like to suck and fuck, although she says it is distracting to enjoy her pussy being filled when she has a big dick in her mouth. She prefers one after another after another in her pussy.

I would not date a girl that has done that kind of thing because to me that is degrading and I can do better and find a girl with qualities I like and seek in a partner that I’ll be spending the rest of my life with. It has nothing to do with growing up but knowing what you want. To some people, they want a girl that is respectful to themselves. I think carrying on a gangbang is crossing the line.

Is it normal for girls to think about gangbangs? Or is there some phsycological problem with these girls. i dont have double standards, im a man, i fantasize about 3somes with 2 girls, and im understanding about a girl fantasizing about 2 guys but to think about 5 or 10!!! that’s just f**ked up. if I found out a girl i was dating was involved in a gangbang, i would lose all respect and attraction for her.

Id marry any chick that likes to do this on a
regular basis….all you idiots who assume 2 men in a room are gay, youre closet homos…get therapy for whatever happened to you as a kid.
Think the 30 guys in the shower together after the superbowl are gay too? Grow up, some chicks dig it and the confidence it takes to do it is VERY attractive to some people.

Justin, you sound like a little kid throwing a tantrum. The world is changing, women are expressing their sexuality on their own terms, get used to it. You’re clearly just bitter about the fact that these girls are having more fun than you. Also, whoever thinks ’studs’ turn women on is obviously male, and knows nothing about women. Women have a higher risk of contracting STDs than men, so why would anyone want to sleep with a guy who’s shags anything that moves? Eww…
And something tells me you stick to South American and Asian women because you can’t get a white girl…

grow up dude, women have a life before you.

a 3sum is not a gangbang.

While it’s true that it’s usually a mistake to ask about your lover’s past experiences, you’re still a whiney douchbag for getting upset that she answered your question.

first off im 19 and a female, im sexual d.nt get me wrong but…not ALL girls think about having 3sums and shit like that. ya it is a double standard but watevs it always is GET OVER IT!! fuckn 15 people at once aint for everybody so if you dont like it dont do it. wat somebody does in there bed room is NOBODYS business

this is pathetic. Two guys one girl is a threesome, not a fucking gang bang. Either you’re homophobic, afraid of women’s sexuality or are a total douche. I think your ex is more of a man than you’ll ever be. Are you a virgin?

Wow, talk about double standards.

A M/M/F isn’t a gangbang, it’s a threesome.

When guys fantasize about having sex with two girls, it’s normal and sexy. When girls fantasize about having sex with two guys, all of the sudden she’s a slut or, as someone put it above me, psychologically damaged. WTF?

Women have desires and sexualities, just like men, and there’s no reason that they should have to hide it when men are encouraged to flaunt their sexual adventurousness. It’s not any weirder for a girl to fantasize about having sex with two guys than it is for a guy to fantasize about scoring with two girls.

It doesn’t have to be a filthy thing. Female sexuality is demonized in our culture, and it’s a damn shame. It’s reinforced that women who think outside of the box sexually are sluts (I’m not talking about sleeping around, I’m thinking kinky) , when women who are confident in their sexuality are so much sexier.

I think Jen, and the other girls here rock. I am all FOR girls doing what turns them on sexually. You only live once, so as long as you enjoy it and its not hurting anyone,…. go for it. I’m bi and often fantasized about getting it from 5 or 10 guys in a day, and I think I just might try it.

Ive ran the train a few times before. I think we as humans all enjoy weird things. However gangang movies are very comon these days. Its making us men lose respect for women in general. So men no longer apreciate womens beauty. We just want to see her holes get filled. Its kinda sad.

I love a dirty woman. But I would have to agree with Roissy on this. M/M/F is a gay couple with a chick. I cant have my dick that close to another dick. Now I wouldnt consider this an absolute whore of a woman, but the M/M part just creeps me out. If she wants her holes filled, more power to her.

I have had at 3 threesomes. All of them one dick affairs. They were super fun times. And I am a man-whore. But I embrace it.

Dr. Feelgood’s last blog post: Shes back.

I have a lot of respect for any woman who is willing to explore her erotic potential despite the cultural stigma against doing so. Men physiologically cannot satisfy multiple women in one night and I think that the fact that a woman has the potential to satisfy multiple men at once scares you little boys senseless.

Why exactly would a heterosexual girl want to have a threesome with another girl? Hetero girls LIKE GUYS.

Oh wait. You thought this was about your fantasy?

I’m a normal 30yr girl normally pretty conservative sexually but I must admit i was in a gangbang last year. It wasn’t planned, I was attending a football party at a really nice house on a Sunday. I thought other girls and wives would be there. Basicly I began drinking got very buzzed and then made the mistake of playing poker in a high stakes game. The guys let me use my clothes for chips which I did. Long story short, the next thing I knew I was nude and very wet not to mention greedy for the pot in the game. They made me one last proposition in the game and I lost of course, So basicly all the guys had their fill of me one guy after another there was a total of 6 guys ranging from 24yrs to 45 possibly 50yrs each guy fucked me hard and had me suck their load dry. As a woman I look back at this and wonder why did I something so crazy. But I must admit it’s the greatest sexual experience I ever had. I have never shared this with any friends etc. because of fear of shame and yes I immediately got tested for everything and I’m healthy and safe, but yet if I were a guy it would be all good right? That’s not fair….

Also just to let you know, I’m engaged to be married and no he doesn’t know and will never know about this. I agree with Jenn in that this is something that a girl does and enjoys when it’s happening and doesn’t try to hate herself afterwards. The biggest thing I was scared of afterwards was STD’s. But after I was tested i could fully reflect on what had happened to me. Yes the guys set me up though they were simply expecting more girls to show and just meet and run their game on them 1 thing led to another for us all but while it was happening I enjoyed every minute of it! Would I do it again? No, and only because it’s too risky and of course I’m a one man woman now. But there is life afterwards and actually sexually it makes you more liberated and the memory is so sweet! :)

Everything I’ve read here is pretty Elementery School. Nobody can outho my Goddess Sherri and me. When I first got together with her, friends and relatives tried to either disgourage me from being with her, or make her not be a slut. The truth is, she introduced me to the real me, and I will always love and worship her. Past Shmast! You should see what goes on now and tomorrow! I know my fiance’s three holes are busy busy busy right now!
Lose the ego, try LOVE, and get unbrainwashed like I did. You can be monogamist if you want to, but don’t push it on your lover. Some people weren’t born that way. Don’t dump her just because she has a huge appetite.
Thanks, Maurice

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Wow – These gangbang videos are always bestsellers, but when you meet a girl that is willing to do that you balk. hmm. interesting insight into the male mind.

Good advice; love the imagery.

I`m currently engaged to a girl that I found out something like this happened to. I wanted to know her sexual past and she told me everything. She has only been with a total of 10 guys and she is 22. The story I had heard was that she had been gangbanged by three black guys at a party. I heard this from a few of my friends(after being with her for 2 years). But when she told, me she broke down and started crying saying that it was actually 3 white guys and they got her completely trashed and gang raped her. Now thats when the curiosity killed the cat saying really messes with you. It`s like you love this person with all your heart and want to believe them but then you have a whole town that says otherwhise.

Stacy30yrs old…I’m hard just think about you story. My ex use to get off and get me off tell me stories about her intiating gangbang. And WOW. We talked about goiung to vegas..becuase if she was going to do it..wanted it to be kinda..didnt know them to start with…kida deal. But never happend. That’s not why were no longer together. She talked a good game but couldnt back it up. So thats that. But where do I find girls like you? That’s Hot. If you werent getting enganged and were dating a guy and he suggested it..would you do it again? or what if hubby found out and like it after all..would you do it again?

To 60 Anon: I would if he really knew the guys and trusted them. STD’s was the thing I was most afraid of afterwards. But the feeling of having that many guys have their way with you was a great feeling. Sexually nothing can top it!

Also Anon60, girls like me are everywhere I’m the girl next door type beleive it or not, alcahol and the right place at the right time is the thing that makes things happen. I was the center of attention at a party most girls would relish in the spotlight like i did. But the poker and the lure of the $$ on the table is what tempted me and as i said the guys were very jenerous with the cocktails. It’s all about the setting….

Stumbled upon your page for some reason. Found myself reading everything… Anyways, I think your ex is definitely having more fun than you right now. Two or more guys with one girl, more power to the girl. It is a threesome… you know, 1…2…3… people. Your ex was apparently open and secure in her sexual pursuits. I still think it is a double standard for two girls and a guy… most guys can’t even satisfy one girl, let alone two women… lol. So much for that “anatomy or physiological crap” that was said before. What, we animals now? If you follow that anatomy stuff, then what about the sexual peaks of women come at a later time than men, and “Cougars” older women with younger men are usually frowned upon. I think girls, you do what you want to do, as long as it is safe and you are not hurting anyone or yourself. And guys, you too – you do what you wanna do as well. Don’t start judging people… geez. Because of the society we live in, and as a girl, if I ever decide on more than one male partner at a time, I will do whatever the hellI please and will keep it just for me to know…

@ just a girl: “most guys can’t even satisfy one girl”
do you really believe that your plesuare it’s in someone else? Go after that yourself. Sex ocurs at least between 2. So i don’t think that’s depends only of the other person. It’s the mix, the bond, and I think the treesome is the something must have a good bond between three of them, particularly i think, that I would prefer sex with another girl than 2 guys for a treesome.

A few conflicting thoughts…

There are just certain images people don’t want in their heads. My gf has issues with some of the images i have provided her. She can’t forget them.

The biggest concern with the gangbang is the risk. What if half way through the girl wants to stop. In a perfect world it would stop, but there is the risk that the people present are not the kindest people. Its hard to imagine someone you care for putting themselves in that position.

Thirdly, would it hurt? my gf gets really really sore after multiple sessions with just the two of us. I can’t imagine 10, even with lube. Maybe blood just lubes better?

Our position on group fucking is simply that we want to know the child (i know, modern times, but its a biological thing) that the “child” is ours. Not others, where as women don’t have that problem. The shape our our knobs are evolutionary made to displace others sperm. Why not assume that there is something instinctual that is going on too?

Its something i would like to try once.

To Stacy39 thanks for the advise and more importantly the idea. After reading about what happened to you at a football party I couldn’t stop thinking about what it must have been like so I’m going to see if a party I’m going to tomorrow ends up being a gangbang or not. I placed an ad online offering to be a sexy/hostess at a football party, I’ve agreed to serve drinks and give unlimited lap dances in the nude with only a corsette on. The guy who’s throwing the party will have 3 of his friends from work over and their all pretty cute construction guys. He’s hinted at me fucking all of them but I’ve resisted saying yes just in case I chicken out, which I doubt i will. I plan on teasing them for a few hours and when they finally make a solid move to fuck me I’m going to let them. I’m already getting wet just thinking about 4 guys a few of them married fucking me and shooting their loads all over me…I’ve always wanted try being a slut for a group of guys and the idea of being with a group of regular guys while they are watching the NFL is red hot! It’s the best of all worlds men in their natural element….Thanks Stacy!!

Who the fuck cares… OP you are such a fucking baby, probably have a tiny dick and she was laughing the whole time.

I have no problem with a girl who wants to do this, in general, however to the girls who not only cheated on their fiances but did it by getting gangbanged, you are lowest form of fucking life on earth (because of the cheating, not because of the multiple sex parters) and I sincerely hope your fiance finds out about what you did, tells EVERYBODY (including your loved ones) and rips that fucking ring right off your finger and spits in your face.

Cheers!

And why is it ok for a guy to have two chicks on him but it’s oh so wrong for a girl to have two guys doing the same thing to her? Ahh double standards; come on people, be a little bit more open minded.

Are you guys crazy ?You need to learn what women want ! You were very lucky that she told you this ! I bet if you had any balls and put your hand down her pants? She was wet as hell. Women like to fuck and suck just like men do !

I grew up in Miami in the 1980’s. I got to know ladies very well . I bet you would like 2 or 3 females sucking and fucking you ? Always treat a female with respect !

If she is a crack head ? You should not even look at her . I am talking about nice looking smart females .

I thought the same as you at one time . I had a very hot 110 lb blonde after I got out of Miami and moved to central Fl. To make things a bit kinky ? We would go out and she would pick up a female we both liked . We did this many times .
I always got the other female to hold my wifes pussy open and lick it at the same time !

One day she told me she would like to try 2 guys ?
I did not like the idea at first . I was in love with her . We went out dancing and I had to pick up a guy of her choice . I got her 2 guys and me .
I watched as she was licked and started humping out of control. Watching this made me so horney !I fucked her first while she sucked the other guys . This girl was so shy . She lost total control ! She was shy because of small tits . This is what she wanted .I made sure she got what she wanted . You need to think about your wife or Gf getting fucked by another guys dick ?Would that be a gang bang ? Better to fuck him or her in front of you than behind your back .

All 3 of us fucked her over 4 hours . No gay shit with the 3 of us . The next day she told me THANK YOU?

She told me she wanted to get fucked like that from the age of 17 .She was 26 when we did this .
Women have lots of kinky ideas . 80% of all females want to fuck another female or do 3 ways .

Lots of men would be pissed if they ever walked in on his wife with a 12 inch dildo in her pussy ?
All women think about what it would be like to have 2 or 3 hot guys fucking her asshole,pussy,mouth,tits,etc. All of them !

Most guys want 2 women or more ! ALL OF THIS IS NORMAL !

Yes we did have a small gang bang . This is what a very shy,very cute,lady wanted . Would you say it is a gang bang if you walked in on your wife and she is fucking two other females ? If the lady you are talking about is a keeper as you say ? Her pussy and mouth are still as clean as your dick . She had sex with no condom? Have her checked .

So many men think a female is dirty if she fucked someone else. Lots of guys will not lick a pussy !
They think it is NASTY ? She cleans it the same way you clean your dick !

At least she was honest with you ! I think she was trying to see if you are kinky? You need to find that lady . Give her my number !LOL

HAVE A OPEN MIND WITH FEMALES IDEAS .

Stacy 30yr …i’m telling you right now…the last two girls I’ve been with were both up to it. Well atleast it was one thing thet LOVE to fantasize about with me and for me. It got us both off…both gals…two in a row…so I guess its more commont than most close minded people think. Which is so unlike me. I’m not into men…but there’s something about it. I know I please them…and have no doubts…but I can only be in one place at a time :-) ..

I’m willing to bet a large sum that the same guys showing their ass here have in the past dumped women because they were “no good” in bed.

We want her to be good in the sack and to be able to suck a good dick, but we don’t want to know how she LEARNED to do it. The guys here are clearly content to believe she got her skills through divine intervention.

Ya’all are sad.

I’ve been in “gangbangs” and gone to swinger parties where I fucked a bunch of guys wives. I hope I just don’t end up with one of those sluts.

I’ve been in “gangbangs” and gone to swinger parties where I fucked a bunch of guys wives. I hope I just don’t end up with one of those sluts. Because if you’re getting fucked left and right by a bunch of guys.. you.. are.. a bitch.

Naturally the idea of your girlfriend being fucked by 6 guys is unpleasant and hard to deal with. But be a man and face your prejudice. Don’t just start calling the girl a SLUT. And there is no shame in admitting that you can’t deal with it, as long as you accept that she could react the same way.

You guys are sad, just sad…

Whoa, is this blog a hotbed for losers or what? There’s nothing hotter than a woman being driven insane by more than one dick. Just be careful and make sure the dicks only touch the girl.

Stacy 30yr …You’re absolutely right…I’ve been with a couple of girls now..that after long enough in the relationship (trust is built) they expressed these some types of fantasies. The last two talked about it a lot. Any got off just talking about. One of them was ready but I wasnt. that was then…

PS It actually got me off when girlfriend talked about it..and we were making plans to go thru with it …out of town. Like Vegas…just get a couple of escorts…for her. This was all about her. Well actually it got me off thinking about her doing it too. :-)

Ok I must be the freak in the room. Let me start of by saying I’m not bragging, I have never thought of myself as particularly attractive nor “well endowed”. This being said I have lived my life having threesomes and occasionally foursomes with women. For almost ten years of my life I lived with my wife, my girl friend and occasionally a mistress (No I’m not Mormon)and all knew about one another and all slept together. To many men I’m a “stud” in my eyes this is not so. No one ever seems to understand when there are 2 women involved that means there is one more you have to make sure is happy. It is not as easy as you think.
I would like to know what the deference is between me and women who have sex with multiple men? I even have a joke with several of my friends, my name is spelled s.l.u.t.. And I have a steadfast rule. If a women does not hold my sexual past against me then why should I hold hers against her? By the way I would guess the percent of women is more around 75%, trust me on that one.

What is wrong with you guys? I’d love to date a girl who has doen a gang bang, 10 guys, that is so hot!

Wow interesting opinions from everyone, but like they say, “opinions are like assholes, everyone has one.” While I’m not one to judge what people do in the bedroom (that’s your own damn business) people should date others with whom they feel comfortable and secure. Our esteemed blogger in this case wasn’t a fan of a girl who had been in a threesome (not a gangbang since it was 2 guys and a gal), and it eventually got to him. An overwhelming majority of men and women here have lashed out at him for not wanting to be with a girl who has been in a threesome. Ultimately they have no right to tell him how or what he should feel. If someone feel uncomfortable with their partner’s sexual past/history they are well within their right to leave him/her.

Though I question his double standards (i.e. he seems open to a FMM threesome), we are individuals who are by NATURE judgmental and will gravitate to our instincts to judge. Moreover I really get sick and tired of those who keep on lashing out others who express their judgements on people’s character. Essentially judgements are opinions, nothing more or nothing less. As an individual you are well within your right to assess someone’s character or lack thereof. To tell others that they cannot judge is an infringement on their rights as an individual.

That being said, I myself have participated in gangbangs and have been in relationships with women who partook in such activities. I know some women who hold some serious contempt and misgivings about me and my character given my sexual past. While I don’t agree with it, I completely respect their right to not engage in a relationship with me. In the same context, men who choose NOT to be with me given their sexual past should not be chided as “misogynistic assholes” given their choice. In the same light, a woman may choose not to be with a guy if he doesn’t allow her to be polyamorous, in the same way a man may decide he doesn’t wish to be with a woman who is polyamorous.

I hope these comments shed some light on the issue.

P.S. While I’m not against people having multiple partners in sex, Jen was COMPLETELY out of line for cheating on her fiance. In the end, however, I do believe “what goes around comes around.”

*cues up Justin Timberlake song*

Well I guess I’m the real freak in the room. I was once gangbanged by 50 men and that was two years ago when I was 40. betty1359@gmail.com

I love the idea of a woman, my woman, any woman in a gangbang. Would love to have my GF be into this and be brave enough to try it. I WISH she had a story like this from her past to share with me. I would even let her “be free” for a night to try it without me being present (if it were safe) – as long as I got to hear all about it afterwards. Of course, I would really want to be there and involved too, but I’ll take it and encourage her any way I can

Hot damn, you’re one huge insecure asshole.

i wont date a girl thats been in a gang bang how is it a turn on you retards its disgusting and degrading were you raised by a bunch of dogs are you that testosterone driven that its fucking with your morals and brian and you let your dick become your mind hell no i believe in morals i have something you call PRIDE i strive for the best in life the best car, house and even girl i don’t strive for a girl who has been handled by 10 men i think its shameful its nothing to be proud of even though you convinced yourself it is just because its pleasurable does not mean its okay hell you can screw a dog jennifer and it can be pleasurable
does not mean its right everone has different morals mine are just put up high and are not budging for no gangbang slut who has a pretty gace fuck that MOB (money over bitches) i will ever only change MOB i will only change that when i come accross a girl who is not a sex fanatic that she has to fuck 10 guys to feel pleasure i dont prefer loose vagina

50 men thats hard to belive you 40 probaly got sagging breast and vagina i can park my car in why would 50 guys pay attention to a skank like you where did you go starwars convention guys with pimples and low confidence and never seen a vangina in there life would probaly wanna fuck you your vagina must be like realy loose to accomadate 50.

how are you loser if you dont want a gang bang slut you are smart if you dont want one always strive for the best spend your time with who you feel comfortable with and if you dont like a gang bang girl dump her and tell her why so maybe next time she can keep her big mouth closed.

Well, Dark, you clearly don’t know anything about the vagina. Maybe you’ve never been in one or, based on your writing, you have one, but have no understanding of it. A vagina is a muscular tube that does NOT get stretched out of shape no matter how many cocks use it in one session. It doesn’t get loose and no, you can’t park a car in it. Why don’t you ask your doctor or just GET FUCKED!

Hehe well clearly Miss Betty seems to have taken Dark’s comments personally. I wonder if aforementioned person has been in a gangbang?

Yes, of course I took it personally. comment 86 was directed at me. I’m the one who did the 50 man gangbang.

betty1359@gmail.com

I used to date a girl who was G’ed, but it was in her past and I didn’t hold it against her. However I couldn’t help but think of how me and my friends would do her if we were to G her. We G girls whenever the oppurtunity presents itself, the better looking the better, that just goes to show you that there is always something ugly behind the prettiest face. Most females go through a whoring stage, why not take advantage of it and treat them like the whores they want to be treated as, grow some nuts fools, and none of us have a homo bone in our body.

I feel sorry that there are people as reserved and insecure as you in this world.
And to the above comment how is gbing ugly in any sense?

If you guys actually did some research (say into the alfred kinsey studies – the guru on sexual tendencies) and stopped your uneducated assumptions you would learn most people have different sexual desires.

Can I ask, do you think a public forum is the best way to assure yourself that you made the correct decision?

I shared an apartment with two guys in 1978 and 1979 while I was at university.

I fucked with them and 5 or 6 of their mates EVERY NIGHT for those two years. They took turns with me, never all at the same time. None of them were what I considered marriage material, we were just enjoying ourselves. Some nights I would bring a boyfriend home and he and I would fuck but as soon as he fell asleep I’d be at it with one of my flatmates, such was my desire for cock.

A few years later I met my husband and we have been faithful to each other all this time. I am a lawyer and he is a highly regarded doctor.

We still have a very active sex life and he brings me to multiple orgasms every time, which, in my teenage years were a complete unknown to me !

Y’know…

I just hope some of the guys who posted comments above come back and read this.

If you can’t accept your partner as a complete human being who has explored their own sexuality – you don’t deserve them.

If you are the kind of person who could befriend someone, get to know them, get physical and enjoy each other, then walk away when you find out that they have had more than one partner… then you deserve to be rejected yourself – cruelly.

If you are small enough a person to think that marriage is some divine special thing and that you need some docile little virgin to be your wife… you really need to grow up. Marriage grows from trust, love and acceptance of every aspect of the other person.

and finally, just finally – one thing. if you *ever* call a woman a ‘whore’ or a ’slut’ when she has not *explicitly* asked you to call her that… then you deserve to die old and lonely.

hahaha my boyyy

Hey, I tell you this. Having a whore for a wife is the most erotic experience you can ever have. My wife, Stacy is a slut. She will allow any guy from just below average to higher fuck her. She has done up to 4 man gang bangs and as many as eight guys in a day. I get hotel rooms and I find the guys on dating sites and set them up. She loves it. She tells me as long as I love it too she will keep doing it and that they mean nothing to her at all. She just loves the cock and loves being used by the guys and using them. She always practices safe sex and never exchanges fluids. You just can’t do that with guys you don’t know. She services a select handful of local married guys (9 total) who come by and fuck her and then go home. With them she will swallow and do most anything. They fuck her 4-8 times a month. She is allowed to fuck them by herself but anyone new I go with her. Sex with us afterwords is unbelievable. It is so intense. Being with a whore is awsome. I cannot even describe it.

You guys out there who think “I have to marry a nice girl” end up marrying a girl with little sexual experience thinking “she is a nice girl” and what she really and most likely is (not all) is a sexually repressed girl that four years into your marriage you will be complaining about because you only have sex once a month or once every couple of months. I can call Stacy at 3 in the afternoon and tell her I need her to swing by the office after the kids get off the school bus and she settles them into the house to suck my cock and drink my cum and she will say “okay honey, I can be there at 4pm.” And guess what? She will be there at 3:55pm with a smile and ready to suck my cock. I have sex with her 5-8 times a week. I LOVE IT!

Open your mind.

Forgot to mention, I know this stuff because Stacy is my second marriage. I was married to a nice girl who was with only two guys before me. Sex started out good and quickly went to okay and then to sub standard. I once decided to see what would happen if I did not make an advance. I do not think she even cared and she loved me and told me every night. We went six months without sex and I am a guy who wants it every day. We were married four years. And when I made an advance she would have to pull the sheets back, dim the lights, make sure the clothes were taken from the washing machine and put in the dryer, make sure the garbage was emptied and all the stars were lined up with the planets. I finally had enough when one day I was trying to make love to her and she told me “no, not now. You didn’t plant the tomato plants like I asked you.”

I am out of here!

Just want to give you a piece of my mind. People here who commented on liking 3some or gangbang have no good moral values. You are all hedonistic people whose mainly concern is the pursuit of you own pleasure and self-gratification.

Self gratification you say? Dah, sex is about self gratification you moron. As long as the girl loves it and the guys love it what is wrong with it? No morals you say? You are confusing sex with morals. This is a victimless act that has every participant leaving with a smile. I never stole a thing in my life. I am as honest as the most honest person you have ever met I am sure. To say someone has “no morals” is just showing your ignorance to what this is about. So some people think oral sex is wrong and those who engage in it have “no morals”. I say if it is not for you don’t do it. Swapping, 3somes and gang bangs are erotic and fun and have NOTHING to do with morals. I will stand my morals up against yours (Anonymous) any day of the week. I have more respect for a girl that has a gang bang then I do for a woman that cheats with just one guy behind her husbands back and vice verse (a man who cheats behind his wife’s back). I have never cheated on anyone in my life. My wife now does not want me with any other woman even though she is with other men because that would upset her. I honor that part of our relationship and we have a great marriage.

My Wife was in a gang bang shes a white girl she got drunk at a party 3 cholo’s were there and one thing led to another they screwed her tell the sun came up she came home the next morning and told me the story I was so excited we had sex all afternoon does your wife give good blow job or do some amazing things in bed how the hell you think she got that way lots of practice live and forgive

Harley, she does it all. She just will not swallow anyone but me and I suggest your wife practice the same safe sex. Also, she always uses condoms. We have a profile on aff. You can look us up there as “stacyandsteven”. We are totally for real. Where you from or are you not allowed to say here? The only time I have ever been with anyone else is when we swap and that has only been once (I forgot about that and to mention it). We would do it again. She was a bit jealous that day however. She really thinks that since she satisfies me 100% that I do not have any business being with anyone else. With her however, she can have sex with 8 guys in a day (That was her high but not all at one time. One group was three, then a single guy, then two pairs of guys) and will still want more. So even though from an emotional standpoint she it totally satisfied with me from a physical standpoint she needs more and believe me, I have lasted over two hours with her and I am not a small guy. I am not the biggest but I am well above average and I am thick.

Her feelings on swapping is that we do it together so it is not like me being with someone by myself because it includes her so she does not look at it the same as when she is with other men by herself.

Look us up at aff.

Jennifer – you’re a dirty cunt – I hope you die of an STD.

Sluts that get gang fucked are sub human scum – die bitches!

“A few years later I met my husband and we have been faithful to each other all this time. I am a lawyer and he is a highly regarded doctor.”

Super Sally – tell him you were a pig for those two guys and see how much he loves you.

These cunts make me sick.

Steve,

You are such a chump!

She gets gangbanged and you can’t have any extra pussey?

What a dumb asshole. Just tell her that she can’t have anymore men and see how long she stays with you.

You’re job is to pay the bills and get her fucked. She has no respect for you.

What a dipshit.

Garth, your a loser. U have no idea what a turn on it is for me. I love to be faithful to her. she would stop in a second if I told her to because she has. You are an idiot making a comment like that when you don’t know us or our relationship. You are just ignorant. DO you really think you are above anyone on this site. You use the C@#t word like that with people you don’t even no. You are the lowest form of human life. You sound like a very angry person and most likely if you are a woman it is because even if you were a whore you could not get laid and if you are a guy, you likely could not get laid by a whore. Your the dip shit.

You know how I know this? Because it has been so long since you had “pussey” that you don’t even know how to spell it, IDIOT!

How do you know what my job is you ass? Do you know something I do not know? She is highly respected in her career you dickhead. She makes six figures which is likely a lot more than you make bagging groceries. Not that the amount of money someone makes is an indication of who they are in life because it is not. I am just making it clear she is not with me to “pay the bills.”

Jen I personally think its HOT!!! Sounds like a lot of insecure dudes and ugly chicks making comments against it.

HighHard1, thank you for the support. Truthfully even if someone were against it I have no issue but do it with a little class. Not everyone has to be into this sort of thing but those who are not and wish death and suffering on those who are are disgusting pigs. They have the nerve to say we have no morals and are sub human. WOW! What an example of the stupidity and projection that is.

Jennifer–You will have a very hot story to tell your husband, should he like to hear it over and over again that will make for the best and most erotic love making ever.

sluts wont get respect from a real man maybe from a pussi like jens husband but not most real men

You have your right to your feelings, which are hard to control.
But fuck, that’s a moron speaking. It would be okay if there were two girls but not two guys. You even seemed to be willing to participate in one with two girls, hopefully the girl would have left you then.

Something I have learnt is that NEVER ask a man nor a woman about their past sexual life unless you’re 100% sure you can handle it (You cannot).
It doesn’t matter if it wasnt’ gangbangs or whatever but most people gets their jealousy starting to grow.

It’s disgusting to read of all these guys considering the girl being a slutty, trashy pig and so on. Themselves they either want total “twosomeness” or they seem to think being with several girls are alright though.
Every one has their right to what they like and do not like, why call someone such ugly words?

And I cannot understand how a woman cant’t be good to marry if she’s been in a gangbang. As IF it makes her a worse wife (if she’s being faithful I mean).

I have met men whom cannot bear hearing anything about an ex nor see any trace of a past relation. They’re being insecure, being rude. They get so fucked-up jealous and in the end – it’s not worth being with them. It’s a too big risk.

Well she did it again. Tuesday night my beautiful wife was in a five man gang bang which I recorded under very dim lighting not to expose faces of her or the guys. Each one took turns on her and she was DP’ed by three guys while she sat on one. She did anal with four of the five guys. She absolutely loved it and in the middle of the whole thing told me she was very happy. She was having sex from 6:00pm to 9pm with the five guys and when they all left I had her until midnight and then we left the hotel. It was UNBELIEVABLE!!! She is so hot looking with another man inside her or should I say men. When she was being DP’ed she had a fourth guy in her mouth and was giving the fifth a hand job. WOW!

Steve

Sorry, when she was being DP’ed she had a third guy in her mouth and was giving a fourth guy a hand job.

My wife was gangbanged not long ago. My wife is in her 40s and went to a party with the teenage daughter of a friend. She didn’t want to go (my wife hates parties), but the girl begged . The party is in a private home and all the guests are teens except for my wife. My wife drinks some punch which clearly had alcohol in it. My wife doesn’t drink much so all it takes is one drink to make her feel really good. One of the older (18 or 19) boys starts talking to her, flirting with her and she probably responded to it though she doesn’t think so.

The boy convinced to go upstairs. I don’t know how he did this, I wasn’t there. I don’t know why she would have gone upstairs with an 18 year old boy. She claims it was innocent, she had nothing on her mind. Maybe, but an 18 year old boy has only one thing on his mind. They go into a bedroom and make out on the bed. How she went from innocent to making out on the bed, I don’t know and she claims she doesn’t either. She claims she had no intentions of doing anything with the boy when she went upstairs

OK, they’re making out on the bed, she’s feeling good and horny and ready to fuck. And fuck is what they did While they were fucking she noticed another boy in the room watching with an obvious hard-on his pants. When the boy fucking her fininshed, rather quickly, and rolled off of her the boy watching climbed on. She said he was inside her before she even had time to respond. But she hadn’t had an orgasm yet and was feeling good and went for it. When the second boy finished there was a third. She had an orgasm with the third and was ready to stop, but guess what, there was a fourth boy slipping inside that well lubed cunt.

She said she didn’t want to do it, but was afraid to say anything so she made the best of it. She says she did her best to get them to cum so they would leave her alone, but she didn’t enjoy it. About 20 boys fucked her at least once and many if not all fucked her a second time and some maybe a third. Don’t have any real numbers, but she got fucked a lot that night.

It turns out the teenage girl set her up. It’s some kind of game or something. The girl was supposed to bring an older woman for all the boys to fuck. Anyway I’m still having issues with the whole thing. And it doesn’t help that I am average sized and some of the boys were apparently super well hung. My wife says she didn’t know they made them that big, not that it matters to her. Yeah right.

So how do you guys deal with it?

Please send me your comments and suggestions.

I’ve been trying to post about my wife being gangbang, but I keep getting error messages. Anyone interested can eamil me at silverrex@gmail.com

Tom, this sounds like BS and like you are getting off on a phony story. You I wrote you at the email above and you told me a completely different story about bikers that gang banged her and now I see the story above about being at a party with high school kids. Come on and let’s here real stories. Anyone on here can look my wife and I up on Adult Friend Finder. We are for real. We are “stacyandsteven” there. We have people who we have met with that have written us testimonials.

ok. i’ve read all this shit above me and only a few people really get it. girls, i think you all have to start admitting that in an everyday scenario any one of you could potentially go up to any guy of your choice and have your way with him if you really wanted to – but a guy just can’t do that, unless he’s a rapist creep. the art of getting a girl to sleep with you can be a daunting task for a guy, but a girl can really have it whenever she wants because why? guys are horny losers 24/7 and everyone knows that; thus it’s not an equal game by any means. girls get crazy horny too yes, and we’re all humans at the end of the day but we’re not the same and girls with 10 guys is very extreme. this is a girl abusing her power – something a guy can’t do because we have no power – this is why it is considered quite a feat if a guys get’s more than one girl at a time. it’s very simple really.

I’m not a girl, but I was gangbanged by 8 17year olds when I was 15 which was a very long time ago. Just thought I’d share. hoseho@gmail.com

There is definately double standards here. Most women enjoy wild sex just like men, so like stated already, it doesn’t make a girl a skank if she wants more than one guy at time. Alot of you guys are insecure with yourselves, thats the problem!

There seems to be a couple dynamics I’ve noticed in these posts:

1) If she is gangbanging once she is with you and can bring you in on the fantasy, it seems more accepted than if it was before you came on the picture.

2) FFM and MMF have different dynamics at play.

I have five threesomes over the years – two FFM and three MMF, and I’ll take the MMF with a guy that is mature about it anytime. In both of the FFM encounters, my gf and the guest were in bi-curious moods, but that disappeared once the clothes were coming off – both of them went back to a comfort zone of the guy taking the sexual initiative. Maybe this was because the ladies were already longer term friends (more time than me and the gf) and this was possibly disrupting that friendship and gossip opportunity, but I found my fingers, tongue and hips were worn out trying to build some comfort and pleasure for them.

And what did I get out of FFM?

Afterplay from not just one, but two women. I can relate to it with one women – often it seems that I am being asked to verbally state all of the emotions I was expressing with sexual play. With two women, you have to offer both the same emotions, but it has to be emotionally intimate with your partner, but not be emotionally building with the guest. No guy can ever say the right thing, so it is doghouse until after her next period at least.

MMF – each guy gets on one side of her, she gets to take power of moving for what feels good. It isn’t “gay” unless the guys are intentionally grabbing each other, fluffing each other. In the three MMFs I’ve done, the only male-male contact was the high fives we shared as the woman came, or legs momentarily contacting when the one lady went for dp. Honestly, typical MMF is about as gay as a gangbang centred on a woman – just fewer guys in your potential line of site.

My underlying view: learn what works for you in your spirit, your need to explore, and the connections you build. Obviously from here, some guys are not up to women with their partners having had sex outside their emotional bonds, while others are open to those who want to explore and stretch their experience. I enjoy someone that is adventurous, as my partners have been anywhere from frigid (sex was painful for her, and she had hepatitis when young leaving her more wary than necessary about blowjobs) to bi swingers.

If it is someone that you can bond with uniquely so that night after night it is only the two of you always together, if she is confident enough in your love that you can share a couple hours where she can let it be known she likes sex and cocks (she knows you like boobs and down lower – who doesn’t!) and know that you can be proud of her trust and stepping into an area that society normally doesn’t support (vis. a hell of a lot of posts here) in the “good girls” definition the world sets.

At least it isn’t the expectations for women in more orthodox Arab environments.

To all you girls who still savor the memory of being in a gangbang and are currently in an exclusive relationship, by reliving these memories, aren’t you basically cheating on your current partner? How would you feel if your current partner fantasized about his co-worker or your best friend?

I disagree that your sexual past is no one’s business. It’s certainly your current partner’s or your potential husband’s. Basically, your deceiving your partner because he has a false picture of the type of person you are. Face it, we are our past. Who we are is made up of the sum total of everything that we’ve done and said.

How would you feel if your partner didn’t disclose that he has an STD or that he used to beat his ex-girlfriends or that he’s actually a multi-millionaire? The reason why some people care what you’ve done in the past is because it gives us some insight into the kind of person you are.

Whether you think your sexual past doesn’t matter, it’s up to your partner to decide how s/he feels about it, not you.

The fact that you won’t disclose this little bit of information shows that you don’t respect your partner enough to allow him to make his own decision about how to respond to your sexual past.

If your partner’s goal is to have a life-long exclusive relationship with only one woman and he has the option to choose between say, someone like some of the girls on this thread who’ve been in gangbangs vs. say…the girl next door who’s waiting until marriage or a relatively “good” girl, then knowing about your past allows him to weigh the odds of which girl would he be more successful with in the kind of relationship he wants.

Now, I’m not against women participating in gangbangs. You have to admit though, IN GENERAL, it’s not the kind of behavior that’s conducive to lifelong successful marriages, if that is one’s goal and for alot of men, it still is.

I have to agree with Anon even though I am all for and have a wife that has done gang bangs several times in addition to trains. Girls, if you like gang bangs, find a guy that does and marry him. It is not nice to be deceitful to a guy you supposedly love. Now maybe he will be say with it or he will look past it. I will not say forgive you because that is a poor choice of words and I do not believe anyone needs to be forgiven for making a choice to live out a wild time or for liking multiple guys at the same time. It is fun according to my wife. But being honest is very important and it is a huge foundation of making it for the long haul.

Anon, anytime you are in NJ send me a note here with a way to reach you and come fuck Stacy anytime. You have a good way of stating your feelings and I like that, It is respectful and not rude. I hear what you are saying loud and clear. You would fuck a girl in a gang bang but you would never marry one cause you think they are whores and you do not want that. But you say it in such a nice way. You are right too, they are whores. My wife is a whore and she will admit it. But she will also say it is fun to be a whore and let guys fuck her and take turns on her. She has never had a disease and she does practice safe sex and I promise you, she is very hot.

Hi Steve,

I appreciate your candor, and I agree with what you say. We all have different preferences, fantasies and goals regarding our sexual/romantic relationships, and depending on the said preference or goal, there’s an optimum strategy for achieving it.

The key is finding the person/people to enjoy it with.

Steve, I have family in NY and will be out there soon. My email is: dbmadamimadam@gmail.com. Just drop me a line.

Whatever happened to loving every woman who shows interest in you having gangbangs,threesomes, and general orgies, and shutting up about them. I have never spoken, written, or discussed until this very letter anything that I have ever done or participated in regarding sex with woman and although I’m basically hetrosexual I have had men have oral sex with me without reciprocating, I can honestly say that I have had beautiful times with both sexes simultaneously and adore woman they have been everything to me for many many years. I’m now what some consider an old man, and these days I only offer woman totel respect and friendship and I’ve been that way for over forty years, and I have never bothered to question woman on who where or how many men or woman they have fucked, played with or made love too and there is a big difference, But let me say this I have some wonderful lady friends, and absolutely magic memories which are all mine to take to the grave. So whether you be male or female never say to much, never let drink make you a speak easy and men if you see a lady that you like then treat her like the lady she is or wants to be and show her love that she will never forget. It will reward you in its own way, I have known ladies that have contacted me years later because they never have forgotten me which in its self is a beautiful thing but to be in a ladies life even after they have had a very successful life, marriage and children and to have them contact me through their husband, children, and even ring me themselves to pass on the terrible news that they are terminal and just be an old friend is something that has made me cry and bring back memories of yesterday. and I would like to thank every woman and girl that I have ever known from the bottom of my heart for making my life so happy and something to remember for without you girls my 61 years would be very very lonely So thank you all for the good times, grand times and the sad times, I still love each and every one of you. Take care Harley James.

Let me just say that I do think any women that has been in a threesome/gangbang is disgusting. Before I continue, because I’m sure I’m about to get the “double standard” speech, let me just say I have turned down threesomes with two girls.

The last time was about a year ago, I ran into a girl who I had hooked with a few months before, we were hitting it off again and it was clear where things were going. She quickly introduced me to her friend, who was very sexy, and let me know that if I wanted to I could fuck both of them tonight. Of course I smiled, and thought “Awesome”. But after about a second, I looked at her and said, “I only want you tonight.”

Now, it wasn’t like I had any feelings for her, it just that to me, sex is about so much more than just getting my dick wet. I look at it as a sensory overload. I don’t only want sex to be sweaty and fun, but I truly also do want intimacy and closeness, even if it’s a one night stand. You can’t have that if a girl is bent over doggy style taking one dick in her mouth and another in her ass.

I’m sorry if you were offended by me saying I think gangbang/MMF girls are disgusting. Understand though I value sex differently, and I would expect my girlfriend/wife to have the same values. If your in a loving relationships and enjoy sharing your partner, I say it’s great you found somebody that suits you so well. It just isn’t for me though.

Shes a whore dude.

My wife does gangbangs because I’m too small, little dick that is. I’ve got 5.5 long and 5.5 around when hard. First it was 2 guys with big cocks and large low hanging balls and I had to watch them take her. Now she pulls 10 to 15 man trains and she doesn’t even have orgasms. It’s like an addiction.
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My wife loves to get gang banged 8 guys +me as clean up man,she will suck all cocks dry and fuck all eight as many times they want.

Jack, that is so cool and hot. My wife is exactly the same way. We should talk live and possibly do a joint gang bang. That would be fun.

Goddam this is disgusting. All the creep losers with cuckold fantasies have come out of the wood work here.

I can not think of anything more OMEGA than letting your wife fuck around and/or getting off on it. It is a fantasy that springs from insecurity and inadequacy. If you are unable to please your woman by yourself, you are not much of a man.

It is not a double standard you stupid whores, for reasons that have been covered time and again. The physical and emotional differences between the genders explain clearly why this is not a double standard. Is it a double standard to expect men to rush into battle getting shot at to protect your ass, but to not expect women to have to take any such risks?

You sleazy whores really turn my stomach, and it’s a sign of how debased American culture has become that you actually try and DEFEND being a filthy gutter whore as if it’s the most normal thing in the world.

The true test of a relationship: would you still love each other if you knew the least flattering things about each other’s past? If you are in a relationship and your man doesn’t know you were a despicable cum-dumpster in your past, you are straight up deceiving him and being an immoral and repulsive human being. It’s every man’s worst nightmare (except the sniveling bitch boy OMEGAS and BETAS here posting about their trashy wives) to have such a nasty bitch for a wife.

Many of the women here have even admitted “NO SEXUAL EXPERIENCE WILL EVER TOP IT”. Translation: That night when i was treated like a piece of garbage by a bunch of cavemen I barely knew was far more pleasurable and important to me than sex with you, my husband, could EVER be.”

Come on Damon 129 comments hardly represents all of American culture. Not to mention most of the comments are probably fantasy anyway. And I’ll bet not one real woman posted to this site. By the way, what are you doing here?

“By the way, what are you doing here?”

I’m hear to read about picking up chicks, improving my game, and being better at handling women. Much of the talk here is about being more alpha and not putting up with women’s double standards and shit tests. Most of the guys who posted here made it clear that their wives are allowed to screw around while they are not. What is alpha about that? Where do these omegas come from and why are they on a site for real men to learn about scoring hot chicks?!

Wow. So many “letters to penthouse” made up BS here, it makes my head spin.

Ladies, if you’ve had a gangbang, you’re a skank. More than one guy fucking you at one time? Skank, and it was a gangbang.

Damon, First off you loser who said anything about “not being allowed to fool around and only the girl is” Fisrt off, while my wife would prefer it that wat it certainly is not the way it is. We have a very open marriage. Second, last I checked woman serve in combat too if they so desire and several have. Just because that “was” the case does not give men a special privledge to be a whore but a woman does not have that same option. Stop making up facts you idiot. There are no “physical and emotional differences between the genders” that would “explain clearly why this is not a double standard.” It is one, PERIOD! If you want to talk facts let’s do that. For one, a woman’s makeup physically to begin with is more capable and able to service more than one man at a time. You try and satisfy ten woman and I bet you could barely get past the first. A woman however, has the ability to do exactly that and add a few more to the lineup if she so desired. My wife does this because it turns me on. She does not need it at all. I ask her to do it because to me, it is one of the most erotic experiences to see. I could say you are a paranoid person that lacks the confidence in himself to allow his wife or girlfriend to participate in such a thing like you who likes to put down those who prefer to see it. But instead, I will just say there are some that don’t like it and some that do and the ones that do are no more OMEGA than those who don’t like it lack the confidence to allow it. It is a preference and sexual turn on like porn is only it is reality.

Serious question: What happens to the cum in a real bareback gangbang?

Well, I cannot speak for everyone but we never do bareback gang bangs. Have to draw the line some place but the thought of it is tempting.

I like where at the end you were talking about the virgin and you said “I’d like to know that ahead of time so I can find some black tape to cover the red record light on my Dad’s camcorder.”. I think I might just tell a dude I’m a virgin just so I can see what he does to amuse myself. Of course I won’t do it to a man who might be around a bit longer because they’ll be upset when they find the truth. Your ex. should have never told you that. Women should know better. I’m glad you try and stop them from saying somthing stupid. Reading your blog has made my game better as a woman as well. =)

I don’t believe most of the comments here. A real gangbang is no day at the beach. I’m not talking fantasy. I’ve been gangbanged many times by my husband and his friends and there is nothing positive about it, at least for the woman. And to Michael’s question, the cum stays inside and much of it is drawn up into the womb. It does not run out like they show in porn.

Mary’s last blog post: My First Gangbang.

Not fair-so what if she slept with 2 guys…….

we had a threesome with an employee a while back.it took weeks of hinting and blatant exhibithionism to get him on board,but we did it. she started by having us sit on the couch,she pulled our cocks outand began taking turns sucking onthem.each of us watched the other when she sucked on the others cock,it seemed to intensify the experience. i layed her back and began fucking her as he watched while he stroked his cock.after a while we changed places.i stroked my cock as i watched him pound his nine inch cock in and out of my lady.she was loving it,she likes it really rough and he was giving it to her so hard it was almost rape.she was squirting all over his cock,she sprays so much the bed gets soaked.her head was banging against the wall over and over,she was moaning and screaming.he fucked her for a solid hour.oh yeah we ate a little viagra before we started. i wandered away for ten minutes all the while listening to my lady get the fucking of her life.when i came back,my cock was rock hard,i asked if i could join in,she was turned on by the idea.i slid my six and a half inches into her pussy rightontop of his cock.we stroked our cocks in and out of her pussy,i felt pussy on one side and hard cock on the other side.he got so horny he started franticly pounding her pussy with so much force icouldnt keep my cock in her,so i pulled out and stroked my cock as i watched his cock slide in and out of her pussy,i was just inches away from her pussy.i was so turned on i blew my load as she watched.he filled her pussy fuull of cum shortly thereafter.i watched as he pulled his cock out of her pussy,cum oozed out and dribbled down her lips.i got hard imediately and slid my cock into her,his cum oozed out as my cock moved in and out,my cum soon filled her..he was turned on by the action and gave her another intense fucking.more stories to cum….

Well, I’m engaged to a beautiful woman who won’t tell me her fantasies but I’d happily hold the camera and wait inlie for my turn- some men want a real woman who likes sex-some men even want a true slut I do!

hey steve what part of nj you in- my fiance could use a new female freind with some different ponits of view

points

We are from Hunterdon County. How about you? Give me your email and I will drop you a note.

Steve

typical closed-minded man thinking with his dick. such a double standard. why is having sex with another woman any different than with a man?

gangbang chicks are fucking Gross as fuck lol i can vouche that some of these girls have some sought of std for sure i reckon probaly claumidia or herpies thats fucking gross why the fuck who you want to fuck a sloopy cunt full of other guys jizz its fucking gay. it took me about a year to convince my 16 year old GF to have sex and thats the type of girls im into the hard to get ones where its an actuall challenge to get them to be girlfriend or to have intercourse with you fuck im still with the same chick and im 19 and im happy to say my girls is not used lol.

I never cared to have a 3 sum or a huge all girl orgies. To me it’s always about quality not quantity. I had always looked down on women that keeps her legs wide open and it depresses me that so many women are like that. I just can’t accept women in my life that had sex more then one man at the same time. I don’t think I am weak or immature for not being able to feel comfortable with it. I think I have a backbone and a high self-insteen to move on and find something better then some women who probably cant keep her legs close when I am not around.
What really upsets me is the culture that everyone who replies to this guys story felt that it was okay to be a fucking slut. They tell him to grow up but is sounded to me that he was being a fucking man to have some standards and left that girl. I feel upsets because I feel like girls think it’s okay to be a slut and that a classy girl only exists in the movies.

I have to respond to Anonymous. You sound like a young kid which is okay. I think you are the same anonymous who said he was 19 in the comment just before this last one.

Look, sex is a physical act and it is quite enjoyable. Woman are allowed to enjoy it as much as a man is. If you live by a standard that woman should not “spread” their legs for a lot of guys then you should live by the standard as a guy that you should keep it in your pants too and live by the same strict guidelines. You see, most guys think it is their job to try and have sex with every girl that comes along who is hot or to their liking but should a girl do that she is a slut. Well maybe she is or maybe she isn’t but that would then also apply to the guy. Most guys who have an issue with being with a girl that has a lot of sexual partners are the ones out trying to screw every girl they can and are the last ones to be faithful. I am not talking about everyone and maybe you are the exception but at 19 I hardly think you should be going around judging people. You have yet to experience life to its fullest. I have found most people that marry the inexperienced girls that have not had a lot of sexual partners are the ones later complaining they hardly have sex at all because their wives are never in the mood. For me, my wife NEVER TURNS ME DOWN unless of course she is sick. I love that about her because I hear all my many friends upset and frustrated with the sexual activity they have. I feel bad for them that I sometimes want to offer them a night with my wife. I do not do that because our lifestyle is private and best kept away from that inner circle with very few exceptions but that is really because people are so judgmental and it is usually the ones that lack so many other good qualities that are important.