Comments on: Introduction To Brazilian Girls

By: Brasileira

Brasileira — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:07:49 +0000

heeyy guys, i am brazilian and im loving one american boy .. and i dont know what i do to have his ..

the american guys help me please ..
what the american guys like when have a girl in your arm ??

PLEASE HELP ME !!

By: 20 Beatrice

20 Beatrice — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:47:48 +0000

Wow. Great discussion. I´m Brazilian and I lived in the USA a while ago for three years… just came back to Brazil from a two month vacation there. This last time I dated an american man and it helped me to get to some conclusions: it´s possible to find every kind of people everywhere in the world. I think no matter where, Brazil, USA… there´s the majority and the exceptions.

People have a very primitive image about Brazil – Soccer, Carnaval, beaches and bitches. Brazilian girls ,in Brazil, are not easy, we are raised with a long list of must do´s and must not do´s, and everything we do everyone else talks about it, so we need to be very careful about the way we act. No buttie dancing, dressing cute and sexy but not as a slut, not getting in the car with someone we just met, never go to his house on a first date, and the list goes on and on… However kissing is very common, we love kissing (and here I must say – we are GOOD at it) and it´s normal to kiss on the same day you meet the person (that doesn´t mean we´re a whore!). That´s what we call “ficar” and as other people mentioned above, we are very affectioned, we like to kiss and hug, talk and have a good time, but sex is another story. If you meet a nice brazilian girl, have a good time with her, don´t ask to go to bed, that´s an offense. We (here I mean the majority)only do it when we trust the person, when we really know him and have some true feeling.

So I get to the USA and the first thing I see at the club: girls wearing shirts as dresses, and guys dancing on their backs as if they were having sex in the middle of the club. P.S. I was only 16 when I first saw it. This last time I went there, I saw my american friend dancing like that with five guys in a night, she didn´t even look at their faces, she just felt them touching her butt and started dancing like crazy. And then my other friend comes to me and tells me she´s going to sleep at this guy´s house that she just met.And I start wondering what really means to be a whore.

So I met this american guy, and he was very nice and smart, we talked a lot, went on four dates, and I had two weeks before I came back to Brazil and he hadn´t kissed me yet, and I couldn´t understand why. So we finally kissed two days before I came, and the first thing he tells me after kissing me (and I need to say, I´ve had way better kisses than the one he gave me): let´s go to my place, let´s spend the night together. That was an offense. On the other hand,I came back with a really good image of him, b/c he had his qualities, and I have to say, American guys are gentlemen and fun! I also met american girls who are very laid back and well-behaved when it comes to guys. But sex there is still more vulgarly treated than it is here.

After all I have to say… we should stop trying to define what is it to be a slut or not, as an universal standard. Because some americans think Brazilians are sluts b/c they are “easy” (Define???) and they kiss on a first date, but they think it´s normal for an american girl to have sex on a first date. Brazilians, on the other hand, take sex more seriously, we don´t do buttie dance but yes we like smaller bikinis. And as the brazilians, american girls have their contradictions too. What really hurts is the generalization that people make about brazil. I don´t even dare to make a general statement about us,and I´ve lived here all my life, b/c again, there are always tons of exceptions. We should learn to judge what is good and bad FOR OURSELVES, based on our own morals, not as if we were the world´s voice.

By: Shane

Shane — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 04:59:48 +0000

Brasileiro…WOW! How long did it take you to think of those insults? Thank you for showing everyone how intelligent you are with those comments. You have contributed greatly to this discussion.

By: Brasileiro

Brasileiro — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 21:42:58 +0000

Fuck you, americans idiots!!!!
American womens are very ugly and fat!!!
yours fat pigs!!!

By: Shane

Shane — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 12:26:54 +0000

I have been to Rio several times and will return in April. Going to buy a house there. I love Brazilian women. It has nothing to do with being attractive or the fact I can kiss them within minutes of meeting them. Although I do enjoy this as I am not a shy guy. Brazilian women are passionate, feminine and in general seem to enjoy and appreciate life more than American women. I mostly hang out at higher end clubs Boox, Baronetti, Nuth, Nossa Semhora..however I find no matter what socio economic class a Brazilian girl comes from they generally are the same in terms of passion, femininity, and love of life. I would say probably the most fun I had was with a girl who grew up in a favela.

Guys if you are an American thinking you are going to visit Brazil and get laid by a super model….think agian. If you dont have game and dont date beautiful women in the United States you are not going to get laid by Gisele Bunchen in Brazil.

P.S. Learn to speak some portuguese…It will score major points with a Brasilayda.

By: She

She — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 11:03:10 +0000

Im Brazilian living in England. Im from South Brazil which is has a hell more conservative behaivour than Rio (not saying that brazilians from Rio are sluts neither)

I totally agree with Brazilian G. – “Sluts you will find anywhere in the world, including USA.”
In the UK the situation is not different.. you go to night clubs in this country and you see things that would make lots of brazilians girls i know – blush!

You guys cant imagine how hard it is being a brazilian living abroad..
From the moment you say “Im Brazilian” the guys change..
they try to hug you.. they try to kiss you..and they think they can treat you like they were in a Whore house!!!

Had this kind of problems in a night clubs already
which ruined my night.. went back home feeling annoyed and hurted.
This is prejudice just like any other kind of prejudice!!!

I know that not all the gringos are the same.. coz my fiance is English – and he is perfect!!!

Really want that one day ppl will think about brazilian women in a nice and positive way, coz the majority of brazilians deserve it! ;)

By: sirmarjalot

sirmarjalot — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:21:07 +0000

Nice little post about rio brazil. Im likely to make my first visit this year 2010. Reading posts like this makes it even more likely. sirmarjalot's last blog post: Odessa Streetwalkers.

By: Bryan

Bryan — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 03:09:22 +0000

Gobsmacked, I think you are generalizing Americans. I’m nothing of the sort you describe, and people in every country do these things. Just some write about it, and flaunt it, and some hide it. You should realize there are good and bad people out there and many flavors in-between. Not all of them share your morals, (not even in you own town, city, state, country, continent, planet… Americans are not bad. I’ve never cheated or disgracefully handled women. I’ve been more than well traveled, and I’m not sure if you can say much about Roosh V. if you are going to fall into the same generalizing category. Difference is, he uses mild psychology and generalizations that he puts into practice that fits his lifestyle well. You are doing the same, but as a coping mechanism. I’d appreciate not to be involved in such a generalization. I’m not going to demand it, but I’m pretty sure if you knew me, you wouldn’t say that about Americans. Take care.

By: Gobsmacked

Gobsmacked — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 18:11:54 +0000

I think this whole thing is absolutely disgraceful, Roosh V. You should be ashamed of yourself but probably aren’t, in fact, with so many supportive readers it seems that you’re quite proud of your so called ‘achievement’. And the fact the you got a book out of this and might be even making money just makes matters worse. You ought to send some to the charities that assist single mothers in the favelas of Rio. I guarantee many of those fatherless children over there are American tourists offspring.
I’m Brazilian and I’m a girl and think you’re so wrong. You cannot generalize women like that no matter where they come from. This is so sexist, man, so low and it says a lot about American people.
I would never ever even touch an American guy in my life, nor even if they were the last men alive and that’s because you’re so bloody judgmental and hypocrites. American mentality freaks me out, always have, always will.

By: Lynda

Lynda — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 02:42:26 +0000

Men talking about girls are always the same… My boyfriend (yes, he is american and I am brazilian) was my friend before, telling me how things on USA are insane cause girls act like boys, many of his friends(boys) still virgin and other have a untrustable and crazy sexual life, they are all around 25 or more, and the few time I spent with him there he introduced me to this two girls that are his friends, the other girls are all sluts… he still being gentle and polite with this girls, then said me that american girls are so easy to sleep with and told me terrible stories, some of this girls sleep with half guys on their work place and act like saints… read a reserch that say 55% of american wifes cheat on their husbands… man are around 25%… most perverted news I heard on news talk about american girls… drunken and f***ing like crazy… you came to find girls here on Brazil cause we are cute and gentle (and casual sex is not normal here as you said… actually on my city girls use to lost their virginity with more than 20 years old, many of my high school/college friends married virgin, I am 27 and still virgin, and I know what you are thinking, I am pretty, I hear it every day many times per day), what is rare up there! And boys there are gentle and afraid to raise kids with crazy girls… that’s why we will marry and live here… Brazil is insane, but is less insane than America.

By: mark

mark — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 20:49:08 +0000

I found this thread whilst strangely searching for an apartment for the Rio Carnival in 2011…think I’ve found a place.

Difference here is I am English with brown skin and have no other real languages apart from superbly delivered English (& enough French or German to get by on…also a very little Turkish) Parents are from South American strangely, Guyana and Venezuela but was never taught the lingo.

In a country with a darker population, say Cuba last year people would walk up and ask “you Cubanos yes?” I’d answer “Si” and they’d leave me alone. In Turkey they ask me if I’m Turkish and I say “Evet”…it’s great being brown! :O)

But the strangest thing was that women in these countries are very dismissive if I ask them a question in their own language, they are suddenly fine when they learn I am English…which is weird almost like I’m a second class citizen.

Anyway from my perspective (and I am coming up on my 45th birthday at the end of Jan so have an above average amount) having travelled to the Far East (6 months), most of the Eastern block (12 months) and lived in the USA for 3yrs (wife is American) and having visited virtually everywhere in the Caribbean (inc the small islands and Cuba)

I have to say that apart from that I have never had any problems with women approaching me…usually when the wife is there which is V funny :O) However I have some rules whenever I am out…and in fact in life, namely:

a) Never treat anyone like a piece of meat, it’s demeaning for them and you (even IMO if they want to be treated that way). Male or female…I say this as I think the most important people to speak to are the cleaners and doormen in my office building (you also find out all the juicey gossip :O)

b) I will always buy a woman a drink when I’m out, a complete stranger, makes no difference to me what they look like but invariably they are average or pretty, talk to them for a few minutes and then make my excuses and leave most are really shocked when I don’t want telephone numbers.

c)if I see a woman that looks down I’ll buy her flowers to cheer her up, never had the flowers refused and the drink maybe twice out of 250 times. Never once ever spoken to these people ever again….hopefully I’ve cheered some up, maybe caused a few complexes??

d) I always drink a pint of water after each couple of alcoholic drinks…yes you go to the toilet more but I’ve never been drunk, had a hangover or dehydrated…and you get to blackmail all your friends as your the one with the pictures that can remember everything!! ROTF!

The strangest thing is if you ask 100 guys what they look like 90% will say above average….when they obviously are not (esp with that supposedly slimming goatee…just try to loose some weight!). Conversely ask 100 women and 90% will be too self critical saying they don’t like their noses, mouth their breasts are too big small etc.

I’ve never considered myself to be anything else between ugly and plain but apparently having good teeth (they look far whiter with dark skin!) and being slim with all my own hair and no wrinkles has meant that I get hit on even by 18yr olds. Yes it’s flattering (esp since I have a 25yr old son and 3 grandkids) but depends how you deport yourself. I for myself have never spoken to any woman with the ulterior motive of getting her into bed…or on a pool table..lol

I just feel sorry for young women these days as all the romance seems to have gone out of the world…or else it’s the preserve of plain to ugly people who can’t be as shallow as their prettier peers.

That said I am in full agreement that whatever the guys can do the girls can do too and also that anything between adults that’s legal where no one gets hurt (unless they want to be of course) is OK

So have fun y’all :O)

Mark

By: Brazilian G.

Brazilian G. — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 17:07:38 +0000

First the title of this article should be changing to Introduce to ALMOST all brazilian girls. because Sluts you will find anywhere in the world, including USA. I am brazilian living in USA. When I go to the clubs here I see the girls dancing as if they were having sex, I see girls that go and talk to the boys and leave the club in 5 minutes with them, I see that ône night stand^is very common for girls here. And let me tell youÇ if a girl do in Brazil what she does here she would be called a slut and be sure brazilianj guys think american girls are sluts when they go to clubs here and see how the thing happens. OF COURSE there are easy girls in Brasil, as there are in Canada, in USA in JAPAN. You cant write thiese things as if it was the truth about all the female population of Brasil. Also I ahve my thoughts about american guys (really bad ones) as I have dated many of them and that doesnt mean I think all of them are the same even MOST of them are bad in bed, cold, ugly, slow and do not know how to treat a women. Most of them also depends on their wives paycheck. Well most of guys I know here are like that, but I cant say All of them are like that. Pay attention to what you write, dont be a blind know nothing jerk.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 16:56:11 +0000

In USA girls have sex as if dont mean anything. In Brasil we Kiss as if dont mean anything. If this “stupid American Guy”that wrote this piece of shit wen to the right places, with the right ppl insgtead of lousy places he would meet girls who would not even talk to him. Although american guys are lame, slow and not even close to be better than a brazilian one who knows how to treat a woman. Sluts, easy girls and whores they are EVERYWHERE in the world. This idiot does not know what he is talking about. LOSER.

By: Brazilian girl

Brazilian girl — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 15:17:43 +0000

I am brazilian, but I don’t live in Rio. I see that the author is especifically talking about Rio, which I have to say, most of the times is true. I’ve been there like a hundred times. They are easier there. Brazil is a huge country, with many states. If you go to another states I bet it wouldn’t be the same.
99% of the girls I’ve known in Brazil, do like to make out quickly. Brazilian people loooove kissing, and always do when they first meet. It’s just a kiss for them…So they don’t care.
I’m an exception, because I prefer get to know the person and if I really like it, then I kiss. And like me, there are a lot more brazilians with the same thought.
So it’s not a rule that everywhere u go to Brazil u’ll make out with whateaver girl u want. There r a lot of exceptions. I live in US now, and I’m tired of going out and meeting people, when I say:
“I’m from Brazil” and they r like: “wowww…Brazil, Caranaval…Cool!”
–I wonder what they have I mind–Rio, Party, easy girls, making out, I might lay with her tonight!–THAT IS SO RIDICULOUS!
Don’t go thinking that every brazilian girl is the same!

By: Bryan

Bryan — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 00:59:51 +0000

People are people, regardless of where you go. It just remains a weakness of people that exposes their interest to getting something they cannot find in USA. USA girls aren’t as easily convinced by USA guys honestly and quite simply because of guys like Roosh. If you want fun, go to other countries where the people are curious of you and thea “way you are”. This is true of any country where the people aren’t as familiar with your nation’s type of people. If you are looking for quality, (speed is not the name of the game). As the saying goes, “Can’t make a ho a housewife” holds true for the majority and while there are exceptions, do you really want to take a risk with the quick ones to give it up and end up losing a relationship that could have otherwise been very fulfilling in more than a sexual way. What differentiates humans from animals is the fact that we can achieve higher levels of connection. Why not experience what being human is about and give a whole hearted effort at knowing someone and not being put off by their conservativeness. Engage in them mentally, and be yourself, enjoy the many things that will make you love life in a much more fulfilling way than just “getting it on”. Because for those who demand more out of life than what any typical animal can get, there’s serious disappointment in just screwing someone for the sake of an easy screw. You likely wont marry such a girl, and if you do it’s a risk. Anyway that’s my two cents. I’ve had it easy and hard, been to over 20 countries and understand what makes a relationship meaningful. Don’t down a specific country, because seriously people are just people. Being from different countries only give you an edge via curiosity, and an inherently larger margin of error for cultural misunderstandings. Take it from me, leave the quickies for the ones who have no priorities, and don’t mind learning the hard way what love is all about. If you’re looking only for fun, follow Roosh’s advice. Same is applicable to nearly all of the countries I’ve been to minus the especially repressive ones. Remember one thing. You get what you put into it. “similar to what you pay for” with merchandise. If it’s too easy, it’s not worth much. If it’s harder, it’s often a better overall deal, and not everyone and their brother has been in it when it comes to that point. For the kind who really don’t care, keep the condom handy, as the kind of girl you seek is in the higher percentage of AIDS/HIV & other STD carriers of that country do to their quick and uninhibited actions with strangers. Take care. Wish you the best! – Bryan

By: Jeff

Jeff — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 02:54:28 +0000

If you are interested in dating a brasilian girl, then you should be interested enough to learn a little of the language. 200 hours and you should have some basics down. If you can’t invest that time, then why bother with brasilian girls? How about Spanish or a language you know?
Its not just the girls for me. I like the culture, I love the music and learn more of the language from it.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 19:38:07 +0000

Hello this is more of a question than comment I am american guy intrested in dating brazilian for a long term relationship. I went to a site called latineuro that sale the address and phone number of brazilian women. Ok i seen woman intrest that i would like to get contact with but dont know how to speak the language. My question is, are there any companies out that can help me with one on one introductions? If anyone can help with information I would greatly appreciate it.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 03:14:38 +0000

I agree with the opposites attract theory. Brazil/US Brazil/Europe Canada/Australia, whatever. But, American girls taking it slower. Let me tell you. I like to run. I like to meet people doing things I like to do. So I go to NikeTown running group. The girls ask “what do you do”? and then don’t even talk to you. I thought it was just me until a friend of a friend – an almost GQ looking guy -very likeable, friendly, says “the girls won’t even talk to you here! Last weekend I was at a party and talked to 40 different people. I couldn’t stop smiling.
Another friend years later belonged to a running group told me “we had several marriages in the group. After 3 months as a member of the group, they start talking to you.”
3 Months!!!!!!????? Are you F’ing kidding me? 3 months and these girls in the activity I like will talk with me? To hell with that. I love America and being an American, trying to come up with a better idea, innovative business. But if this is what it has come to with the women here, then something is wrong. Also a big part of the problem is US women are not in shape. I recently had a US girl flirting heavily with me, but she just was not attractive to me.
I lived in Brazil for a month. It is not a huge difference to me, but once you do meet the right girls, they are wonderful. I love the eye contact and gazes as we converse. It just takes my breath away. Not ALL of the Brasileiras, but some of them. Which is a lot more numbers than the US.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 21:07:21 +0000

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By: CA

CA — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 01:53:10 +0000

HI David,
You’re perfectly right in your conclusions.
I’m brazilian and I have a question for you. I’ve been to US several times but in the last time I met an american guy and we had a good time together but there’s something he does that disturbs me a lot.. He’s always trying to let me know how successful he is and also how much money he makes. This is very inappropriate in Brazil, we only talk about money if we are dating for a long time with the intention to get marry.
My first reaction was change the subject of the conversation trying to show him that I wasn’t interested but he always finds a way to let me know. The last time he did it I let him talking to see how far he could go with that conversation.
I talked to a brazilian friend that is engaged to an american man and she told me that it is normal in US, she said the american woman want to know asap how financially stable the guy is.
I’m must more interested to know if he is honest and hard worker rather than rich or poor. I would appreciate a lot your comments and hopefully I’ll understand his behavior.
Tks, CA