I used to try to last as long as possible in bed. I wanted to make sure the girl got hers before I got mine, and the reason I did that was because I thought she would be attracted to me more and want to see me again.

My former brand of condom made it very hard for me to ejaculate. I’d be pumping away for more than twenty minutes until she just got tired and then I would lay in bed with a heavy set of balls. Sometimes she’d finish me off with her mouth but sometimes not, and I remember times I had to go home and jerk off after having sex. It was humiliating.

Eventually I found out about thin condoms and blasting was no longer a problem, but I had to think of baseball or organic chemistry so I could at least hit the respectable 12 minute mark. I knew how to hold my orgasm by squeezing my pelvic muscles and would do that if I thought I didn’t go long enough, even though it would eventually result in a pitiful orgasm.

Gradually I just stopped caring, and soon everything I did in bed was for my pleasure only. The only reason I’d delay orgasm is to make mine better, and I pretended I don’t hear her the first time she told me to drill slower or not to go so deep. I did whatever I wanted because I came to value my orgasm as sacred, and her pleasure as second to mine.

Do you want to guess what happened?

Nothing. Nothing happened. Girls didn’t want to fuck me more, they didn’t want to fuck me less. Not caring about their sexual pleasure had no effect on repeat calls and repeat sex.

For guys all that matters is the end, but for girls it’s the process. As long as she gets into it and can say, “I’m getting fucked good and this feels great,” then you’ve done your job. Sure if you make her orgasm on demand you’ll definitely hear from her again, but it’s not necessary and just too complicated to worry about. Keep in mind some girls barely know how to make themselves orgasm!

Every now and then I get a feeling that I gave a girl an orgasm, but I can never be sure because I don’t ask.

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I’ve noticed that I cum quickly when I fuck ugly Chicks 5-6 and can hold of a good 10-20 minutes longer when I’m I to the chick. I’m beginning to wonder if my dick has a mind of its own. With the ugly girl he’s trying to get this shit over and done with, but with the attractive girl that’s fun to be around and good in bed he wants it to last much longer.

That said, what was your former brand of condoms? Can’t always fuck 7-9s right.

I think this is something every guy (read: non-beta) learns eventually. I feel this idea of putting your own pleasure ahead of others can be extrapolated to many other facets of life as well. You’ll find yourself the most successful and happy, by whatever standards you set, when you put your pleasure above others people’s.

Condoms usually make me go limp…but if the girl has a beautiful body and smells good AND has a SEXY MOAn..I can probably pull up a nut or two with a condom. If not, I have to cheat and pull the condom down a little so I can trick myself into thinking I’m going raw, then when my balls tense up and I feel the rumble of a nut coming on, I pull the condom off and glaze her.

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“Every now and then I get a feeling that I gave a girl an orgasm…”

If you don’t know, she didn’t. It always shocks me when guys ask. Dude, you would know. Not that this concerns you, but…

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I’ve found that getting her almost there and not letting her get it has a powerful effect on the female phyche that can best be described as a mix of confusion, anger, and love. I’d highly recommend it because of its entertainment value.

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Totally agree. If a girl can’t sort herself out then she’s got some issues. If she wants to bring herself off she can pin me down and ride me like a pony all the way to alabama if shes wants – otherwise she’s getting done my way :D

what happens if you pass out on top of her because the room starts spinning? So you don’t remember if she got one or not…. wait what?

VK, that “wait what?” thing gets funnier every time you do it. You should consider ending every sentence you mean to be funny that way, so we know we’re supposed to laugh.

If I want to keep her in my orbit I will shoot for the orgasm. It ain’t that hard to tell if she’s had one.

If you can’t tell if she’s had an orgasm, you’re obviously not very talented, and I doubt you’re able to give a woman one anyway!

one guaranteed way to tell if she came… her love juice shoots out 3 feet!

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Virgle, your problem is, you need to stop having sex in the back of a van.

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So Roosh – what’s the fabulous brand of condoms you’re using now? I must give them a try…

I doubt that not asking if a woman orgasms is a fantastic move.

Many chicks aren’t as concerned about orgasms as their partners, as you said, but if you ask, it’s a little thing that usually impresses girls. I know that when a guy asks me if I have, it makes me feel a lot of attraction towards him… just the idea that he is thinking about me and wants to sexually satisfy me makes me feel very warm and receptive to him.

If not, yeah, I might call back, it depends. But the odds are in your favor if you act like you care (even if you don’t).

And you will meet girls who don’t enjoy sex unless they orgasm…but 9 times out of 10 she won’t tell you about it, so there’s no way of knowing. If you don’t ask, she’s not going to come out and say it — most of us don’t want to embarrass you or make things awkward.

Sex that makes me come running back for more is about wanting to please each other, in addition to yourself — I’ll be more likely to try out something kinky that I might not enjoy so much if a guy is genuinely interested in hitting all the right buttons instead of getting off and rolling over.

I’m not trying to call anyone out, but it’s just something to think about… something that a girl might not tell you in person.

The best condoms from I hear and read are Japanese condoms. I heard that the Okamoto Crowns are the closest you can get to having nothing on without having nothing on. I recently ordered a box, so I can’t wait to try for myself.

As for the topic at hand, I absolutely love giving women orgasms. Why wouldn’t I? I get off hearing them scream, hyperventilate, claw and the feeling of their wet vagina’s squeezing tight around your rod as they climax. What’s not to love? I’d give her 10 orgasms an hour if I could. I can only imagine what a female orgasm feels like because I know I don’t do any of that crazy stuff when it’s my moment to pop.

For guys all that matters is the end, but for girls it’s the process.

After reading this sentence and the rest of the paragraph, I somehow became light-headed and was unable to think. Curse women and their useless sex drive. As far as I’m concerned, the process is a pointless waste of energy and time, and the orgasm should be everything.

Another win for jerking-off…

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I had to think of baseball or organic chemistry so I could at least hit the respectable 12 minute mark

Hey, it’s better than thinking about your grandmother naked or something.

I used to use Trojan but they broke often
Then I found out about Durex Extra Sensitive.. slight improvement
But now I’m a Trustex man. Extra Large. I buy it off http://www.condomdepot.com in packs of 100, a two month supply

My condom: http://www.condomdepot.com/product/detail.cfm/nid/201/pid/2865

Right on. I used to worry that I wasn’t giving girls orgasms, but as I’ve hooked up with a few girls since then that get themselves off just riding dick I’ve realized

a) i’m going to make sure I get myself off, you can too
b) it’s hard to tell, and i sure don’t care enough to ask
c) it doesn’t matter anyway

gotta look into the condom thing

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Thanks for the condom suggestions Roosh and skadanks. Has anyone tried the Crown Skinless Skin condoms? They sound like good times from condomdepot’s site, though some said they were slightly snug. Since I am big like a pringles can, I might have to go with Roosh’s XL condom suggestion. Hmmmmmm….

(re: the last comment)– why not just use a Pringles can? wait what

Peter: Hey, it’s better than thinking about your grandmother naked or something.

Yeah… she probably has a glorious natural pelt.

re: re: Can you guys tell me why it’s so hard to just be friends? (ori — Wed Jul 26 — (dumsy)
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You said only 3 out of 10 women cum when having sex. You forgot to mention 0 out of 10 men give a shit.

I think this is very true (girls having orgasms and all), especially with “common every day 9 to 5 girl”.

Real sexually liberated girls, and girls with big mouths (so to speak) you better regulate.

- MPM

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Making sure she’s getting off only matters in long term relationships (like being married) because you live and hear about that shit.

And…

Chloe, I care. Let’s do it.

“But now I’m a Trustex man. Extra Large. I buy it off http://www.condomdepot.com in packs of 100, a two month supply.”

Wow. Someone sounds beta.

I hate condoms. She hates condoms. Luckily you can tell if a girl is clean by her zodiac sign.

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wow- these poor girls you speak of must be desperate. coming from a woman, seriously, hang it up bro.

Orgasms are in the woman’s head.

and we know what a mess that is.

Possibly, barring your passion for cumming in seven seconds, everything else you do for your pleasure, she will like too, even if it is just due to you showing dominance.

Some idiots disguised as females take a man trying to please them as a sign of weakness, that is another issue.

1. I believe there is nothing wrong with asking whether she came. It shows that you want her to feel the pleasure you did, plus it’s a great confidence booster if she says “Yes, I did”. It is not a big deal if she says “No, I did not” either; most girls can still experience great sex without having an orgasm and besides, the female orgasm is much more psychologically driven than the male orgasm.

2. It’s really a wonderful thing if you’ve got her heels over your shoulders, hitting the good old G-Spot and she actually starts crying in orgasm. There was no pain involved, I made very sure of that, she was just completely overwhelmed by emotion/pleasure.

3. I have always been called a very considerate lover. I try to stay in tune with her and “listen” to what her body says it wants me to do; this always makes for great sex and the rewards are plentiful. As a last thought, if she gets involuntary muscle spasms and if her nipples go soft right afterwards the chances are very good that she came; very difficult for a woman to fake that.

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