Sometimes when setting dates I need an address or some extra information from the girl. For example we agree to start in two hours at her place, but I need an address. On the phone I’ll say, “Just text me your address.”

You’d think that the girl would right away get off the phone and send the text, but they never do this. They always wait a little bit so they don’t appear needy. I noticed that most girls will wait on average 10-15 minutes before texting information you need for the date. The longest I’ve experienced was 25 minutes. What’s funny to me is that this is a universal rule and every girl does this, as if it was written in a book somewhere that all girls have read.

Of course I do the same thing.

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So?

I’m a woman and I’d text it right away.

texting, blackberry messenger, facebook, google and everything else adds so much b.s to the early stages dating

You can think of it as a compliance test.

“What’s funny to me is that this is a universal rule and every girl does this, as if it was written in a book somewhere that all girls have read.”

Universal?

I you noticed Colombian girls doing the same thing?

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“you noticed Colombian girls doing the same thing?”

Yup

Nobody wants to appear needy! Even on Roosh’s Forum…if somebody responds to one of my posts…i wait a few hours before responding!..haha

It’s all part of the game.

proles do this

If you’re in south america there’s plenty of lag in the phone networks. The more important confounding variable is that all people are procrastinators. When presented with a task that requires work, as little as it may be, people will procrastinate by first checking their e-mail, taking a dump, watching the rest of a crappy sitcom etc.

I think thats kind of funny. I wouldn’t do that. Actually, I think it’s creepy. I’ve asked cross streets before, but an address seems intense. “I met you 10 minutes ago but need to be able to knock on your door.”

I’ve gone out with girls for weeks before ever seeing their place.

Just like two hours ago I got a number and asked her to just call me real quick. I do that a lot, if a girl goes for a pen or starts quoting digits. Like a test to see she’s into giving me her number. She’ll still do it, but you can gauge excitement/interest.

maybe their the same thing and im just hypersensitive about being creepy

I love trying to break girls of this habit by following up right away, at first, most of the time. If they see that its ok to not be aloof, and they aren’t complete twats, then sometimes you can bypass this lame time-wasting game by showing that she and you don’t need to play it.

But if she continues, then I can be aloof to a much greater extent than almost anyone. Reward and punishment.

That being said, younger/immature girls will feel the need to be this way to a greater extent regardless, simply because they have very little else to offer in the way of ‘game’.

“That being said, younger/immature girls will feel the need to be this way to a greater extent regardless, simply because they have very little else to offer in the way of ‘game’.”

Sorry, I don’t see it as being an immature trait. People do this stuff not to appear ‘too easy’ to one another. I do it myself all the time in all parts of the interactions. Plain and simple, I like to take my sweet ass time with stuff and I don’t like doing thigs that suddenly ‘pop up’. Even if it’s a girl, it’s annoying.

And girls say “no need to play games just be yourself”
yeah right