There are a few guys on the forum who are either living the dream or close to it: independently mobile while banging foreign beauties. This week I’ll share interviews with two of those men (in the future I’ll be putting up more).
Today’s interview is with Naughty Nomad (a guy who raw dogged an HIV-infected African girl). Even though he’s in his early 20s, he has collected more flags than most men will get in their lifetimes. Without further ado…
1. Can you give us a little background on your age and the type of environment you grew up in? What are some things that influenced you earlier in life that put you into the position you are in now?
I’m coming on 24 years old and just finished university (in stereotypical Irish fashion the family business is in pubs). I was fortunate enough to have a liberal upbringing as my parents are entrepreneurial hippies who love to travel and smoke weed. Since I was a little kid I always dreamed about exploring the world and simply refuse to accept alternative conventions. Luckily, I have friends and family of a similar mindset. I now work my life around travel.
2. Talk about your ideal girl. What does she look like? Where is she from? What’s her personality like?
I’ve thought a lot about this. She wouldn’t be Irish that’s for sure! You got to diversify the gene pool.
With looks I’m very particular. She would have to be very exotic, the kind of women who enters a room and renders other men dumb; jaws on the floor hot. I prefer sallow skin, jet black hair, very slim, a low upper arm circumference, good hip-to-waist ratio, a strong jaw line and big eyes—I told you I was particular. Certain ethnic groups fit the bill – Arabic, Eastern Slavic (preferably Ukrainian), Amharic (Ethiopian), Indian, Armenian & Latin girls.
With personality I guess the main thing is she can mingle with friends and family effortlessly. That requires a girl who’s relaxed and confident with a good sense of humour. This needs to be balanced with someone who is passionate, sensual and affectionate. Who best fits the bill in this regard? In my experience I would say Filipinas. There’s a reason they’re rumoured to make the best wives.
So to answer your question, my ideal women would have the personality of a Filipina and be mixed race Ukrainian/Ethiopian. That’s why they call them ideals right? Why stop there? I could become a Muslim and get four wives – a Malaysian, a Saudi, an Ethiopian and a Slavic Azerbaijani—now that’s ideal.
In reality, I’ll probably fuck half the planet trying to my “ideal women,” reach 50, give up and marry a Balinese beauty queen in her 20s. Sigh.
3. What type of game do you run? How does your typical bang go down? How do you change your game when you’re abroad versus in your home country? How do foreign girls and Western girls differ?
I peacock quite a bit and it works wonders—sombreros, jaunty summer hats and berets often make up my attire. I get approached quite a fair bit as a result. I’m also quite direct, but without being needy; kind of take it or leave it approach. Consequently, 90% of the women I sleep with is within 7 hours of knowing them. I have the same pick-up line for every girl I meet… “Where are you from?” Generally, I’ll have been to their country or can speak a few words of their language. This really gets the ball rolling. I DHV [demonstrate higher value] with a few travel stories, make a few jokes and try to get them jealous by talking to other girls. Generally, if I manage to kiss, there is a high probability of a fuck. I like to use some NLP stuff to get girls horny as hell soon in the interaction and then I back off, ignoring them for ages—it’s great fun! My mid and end game is solid, provided the logistics are favourable.
My game plan changes massively depending on the region. In Eastern Europe I run a lot of internet game and arrange dates before I go over. I’ve hooked up with quite a few girls this way, even banged a model or two. In Asia, I use day game and give out my number in shopping centers. In Africa, I just show up! Haha. Western girls are different, as direct game isn’t as effective and a lot of BS is required. Outside my country, the Irish card works wonders, especially with Americans. In Ireland, I generally get lazy, save my cash and just find an Asian or African fuckbuddy for a few weeks at a time.
4. Describe your travel experiences and strategy. What kind of lodgings do you stay in? How do you approach integrating yourself into a new culture with regard to food, language, local customs, etc.? What do you fill your days with? Do you have a basic strategy for meeting women while you travel?
I have a serious hard-on for dangerous places. I’ve been to over 50 countries, including Antarctica and a few self proclaimed republics. I try to travel 3 months in the summer and 1 month in the winter, with a few side trips in between. I generally stay in cheap places as I usually travel for long periods of time. I’ve couch surfed a few times—it’s a fantastic way to meet new friends and get into local social circles. I love mingling with natives as much as possible and usually take a language course before I travel. I’d like to think I’m pretty adaptable—I’ll eat, drink and wear pretty much anything.
My strategy for meeting women is documented above but I would add that having a local SIM card is crucial, as well as knowing a good place to take a girl on a date and a potential sex location afterwards. I spend my days doing the usual tourist stuff, but usually stoned. In some places, I just go nuts and can have up to three dates a day, that keeps me pretty busy!
5. How do you make a living? How did you get into it? What are some skills you had to learn?
I own a small printing and web/graphic design company with an office in my hometown. It’s a simple set-up, but it makes money. On weekends, I’m a DJ and a freelance croupier. I’m also in a band and have a small recording studio that sporadically gets business. My income is irregular but is flexible enough to allow me to travel. I’m by no means rich, but when you’re your own boss you can do whatever the fuck you want, when you want.
6. What are your future goals? How do you see your life playing out in the next 10-20 years?
By 35-40, I want to have visited every single country in the world! I’m currently training for my microlight (ultra-light aircraft) license and plan to circumnavigate the globe by the same time frame. I’m also investigating opening a few hostels abroad in the near future; a great way to finance living abroad, meet women and gain fluency in a language. We shall see.. for now the world is my oyster! I would also like to see the blog becoming more popular, it’s very enjoyable sharing one’s experiences and getting into the whole blogger buzz. It’s only a few months up and things are going great.
7. What’s the most important thing you’ve learned so far in life?
There are no absolutes and life is fucking short. Everything is relative, especially with women. As soon as you step outside your own country and start sniffing round, you come to realise the grass is definitely greener; beautiful women are very curious to meet foreign men and are in abundance. Who are we not to indulge?Tweet Follow @rooshv
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” I’ve been to over 50 countries, including Antarctica and a few self proclaimed republics.”
That is pretty serious for being 24 years old.
What was the most dangerous?
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parents do more to shape our world than we want. it’s hard to change from what we’ve known for so long. Nomad having his parents, probably allowed him to start banging girls as a youngin.
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Wow, this is quite impressive, makes me want to go tell my boss to shovel it and quit my 9-5.
As far as being attracted to diversity, I think that’s pretty standard, for example being Italian I tend to definitely be attracted to those freckly red headed Irish girls.
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Definitely living the dream. Posts like this inspire me, as something like this would be my ideal lifestyle as well.
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As a jaded young man / traveler I have to say this guy’s travel logs are still quite interesting / horrifying.
For a late-20′s guy I tend to feel I’ve seen it all, with fairly long stints in 3rd world jungles and slums, albeit mostly for charity. To hear about a early 20′s guy crisscrossing conflict-worn Africa and Asia (not just the tourist parts) for pussy is mind-blowing. Guy is either BSing or one of a kind.
Also interesting that, and let me “no homo” preface this, the Nomad looks from his photos to be the kind of guy most 1st world women would find pretty handsome, and yet he still chooses 3rd world women of a wide variety, no thick upper arms though ; )
(If it makes things less gay I’ve also been objectively evaluated as a handsome lad in the US and that somehow makes choosing almost exclusively South of the Border hook-ups more satisfying somehow. Okay… now it sounds even more gay maybe, sorry ’bout that! (Or, you’re welcome!))
Bit of friendly advice for the Nomad… if you really like exotic, dark, nice-figured ladies, probably time to just GTF to Latin America already.
1) They aren’t Muslim or Confucius inspired.
2) They aren’t (MOSTLY) so poor you should feel ashamed for hooking up with them or worry about HIV.
3) Their big thing is being feminine and passionate and warm. (But still less slutty than US women.)
4) Highest racial mixing on earth leads to fortunate physical results.
5) Share enough Westernness to appreciate “normal” humor etc., but enough cultural exoticness in things like food, music, male/female interactions.
Okay, I said it. Doesn’t mean every social/physical reject from the States should try their hand here and lower the Gringo reputation even more than backpackers and old guys already have… you guys would be better off in Asia, where “civilian” women still put out for the physically and personalityly unattractive men on the hope they will lead them to better financial/social circumstances.
Roosh has covered the ABC’s extensively (Argentina, Brazil, Colombia), and I mostly agree with his facts, although I think he still underemphasizes the need to have some sincere back story beyond being a sex tourist and to connect with people (including non-hook ups and even guys) beyond sex.
Nomad: if you are anyone wants more info about Central America let me know.
ps – You do know about getting retested for HIV after 6 months right?
PPS – Nomad, good luck with the hostel establishing…
If it works you will be sitting on a pussy and interesting story goldmine, (more so than bartending? discuss!)
Would love to here how that works out.
Very impressive resume for your age. Makes me wish I had skipped college.
» “freelance croupier”!! ha!
FYI, he posts links to new blog entries on Twitter (@NaughtyNomad)
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Naughty Nomad’s blog is one of my favorites! His city guides are really useful and interesting. Totally jealous of that lifestyle. Looking forward to his comprehensive review of the Balkan states.
I´ve read his blog from top to bottom and can´t deny that this guy is living the dream.
I just turned 29 and realized that, even though I´ve done a bit of travelling (mostly in Brazil) I could be doing a lot more.
This guy is surely giving us a good example of how sweet life can be.
The job and money part I´ve got more or less covered (I work 6 hours a day here in Brazil, in a stress free job that´s almost impossible to be fired from and making a very decent amount of money for Brazilian standards), but one of the things that really stops me from doing this stuff is the fact I don´t have many friends who are spontaneous and up for anything.
Yeah, unfortunately most people I know like things which are more watered down and socially acceptable. The only exception is my cousin, who´s as crazy as me hehehe.
Yeah but he is dead broke and will be living in a cabin in in the woods by the time he reaches 30. I can picture this little faggot in his coach class seat flying around the world.
I can picture this guy 10 years from now as well. LOL!
Operating a hostel usually pins you down to the place where it is, unless you have reliable personell that doesn’t stab you in the back while you’re exploring the world. In 3rd world countries, you usually have to take care of everything by yourself and stay in control all the time, or things mess up quickly.
“…but one of the things that really stops me from doing this stuff is the fact I don´t have many friends who are spontaneous and up for anything.”
Dude, if I waited for friends anytime I wanted to go somewhere, I’d never go anywhere. Just fly solo. You’ll meet people on the road. Trust me.
@Naughty Nomad: we have definitely got the same taste in chicks. Fat upperarms kill all attraction!
I’d recommend Brazil and Argentina for your next trip.
Now, now, kiddies, there’s no need to choke on your envy. There’s plenty of foreign babes to go around.
What’s the alternative lifestyle he could be leading? Going to law school followed by decades of mindless grunt work in a corporate office? Settling down with Ms. High School Sweetheart, watching her blow up like the Hindenberg over time?
Na. I’ll take NM’s life, for now. There’s time for the other stuff later.
Great interview, it’s an inspiring approach to life.
Also, he looks like Jonny Drama in that picture.
“I like to use some NLP stuff to get girls horny as hell soon in the interaction”
I’d love if you could elaborate that on your blog. :)
Hi: How’s it like at the University of Berkeley? Is there a lot of traffic during your 15 minute commute to Pinole?
sorry what is nlp?
It’s easy to get laid in a foreign land when you look like Colin Farrells younger and better looking (no homo) brother.
Wow, what a great reaction.
G: Most dangerous place BY FAR was north Kivu in Congo, that was some scary shit.
Ken: I’m going to West Africa in March and hoping to go the Latin America at the end of next year… you defo made it more enticing, can’t wait!
TomTod: NLP stands for Neuro linguistic programming, you can google it ;)
Keep the comments rolling guys!
Naughty Nomad’s last blog post: Skopje City Guide.
NLP = “Next i’m gonna Lick your Pussy”
Well, judging by the number of the, “omg, he’s so handsome” comments, NM can rest assured that he’ll have plenty of ass to choose from should he ever swap teams.
22 and 23 thanks dudes!! Nomad you and others like Roosh etc.. are trailblazers of living life to its fullest… I’m a teacher 32 years old,, contemplating about one day if I choose to find a girl here, get married,,, whats next,, a big mortgage and a high chance of being a slave to everything. While you guys open up my mind and say,, heck go teach in these foreign schools where you get to save a huge chunk of cash and be the hot chick in the bar if you will,, (foreign guy)… Nomad,,, keep up the posts!
p.s. glad to hear that you’re free and clear of your rawdog with that african chick.
Should a 24 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl, and is a virgin just kill himself? I think that is the best option for me.
Go to a brothel and get the damn first time out of the way. Go with a buddy and let him do the negotiation if you like. Tell the whore your situation, she’ll understand. Do it several times to get over your fear of women. Buy Roosh’s books and read his blog top to bottom. Study game. Get a life. Stop watching porn. Go to the gym. Fix your appearance. Get interesting hobbies. Connect with people. Talk to women. Never give up. It’ll get better over time.
24 isn’t “too old” but you need to get this shit handled ASAP. Stop procrastinating.
Dang looks like I haven’t been trying hard enough.
Did your parents hook you up with money at any time?
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Dude’s a fuckin idiot….who the F would go barebacking ANY girl in ANY part of Fuckin Africa? This motherfucker is probably infected as hell cuz it might take a few more tests for it show up in his system.
Yo check his blog and you see a dude kissing a monkey “blame it on him” says the caption. Well guess what Nomad? You are that guy. You out raw dawging bitches in Africa and heading to other places of the globe to spread your filthy mess to other un assuming girls that only sleep with your filthy mick ass for the novelty anyways.
Do us a favor and stay in Africa next time yer there
This guy is a bad ass. Except for the HIV thing.
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I was a virgin at 21 and had my first threesome at 27. Then I backslid into beta ditch again, but I am climbing my way out.
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A freelance croupier?
What a lying fag.
I’m assuming that he’s Australian. Those people have criminal genetics. Liars. Thieves. Basically drunk ass gypsys.
Also, he’s most likely got HIV. Probably got one test a few weeks after the bang and as he is young and healthy, nothing showed up.
“Did your parents hook you up with money at any time?”
I suspect his parents do help him from time to time. No way he can save up that much money to go on trips all the time.
“Dude’s a fuckin idiot….who the F would go barebacking ANY girl in ANY part of Fuckin Africa? This motherfucker is probably infected as hell cuz it might take a few more tests for it show up in his system.”
Contrary to what the Disney Channel tells you, getting HIV through normal vaginal sex is not as easy as the popular media would have you think. The big risk for HIV transmission is through anal sex, which I am told is very popular in Africa.
Still, barebacking an HIV infected girl is pretty dumb. Why risk it? I also suspect this is a made up story.
I have visited his site before and it’s interesting and helpful. a few too many haters here, why not just enjoy his interesting experiences and benefit from his advice.
Nomad is a croupier? He played African Roulette with that chick!!
The different reactions are hilarious!
Mr.T : My parents never gave me a dime. I’ve been working since I was 12.
The croupier thing is like fun casino at weddings and corporate gigs. It’s great money, but I do have to get my table dancing to the YMCA… sigh.
Also, it seems some people here really don’t have a clue about HIV, which is why I encourage people to educate themselves on the site.
Mr. T I am well aware of the lower risk through vaginal sex and HIV and so forth and so forth…
Still that won’t make much a danm diffrence when your tired worn out raw dog dick is infected with something like HIV or some other shit from Africa you and I ain’t heard of yet. Then you go passing that shit to some random girls in other once clean safe places like his home land Ireland or some other nicer places.
I am bettin Naughty Nomad is one of those little know it all pricks who had some lefty hippy parents and was sucking his moms tit till he was 12. This is exactly the low life loser I DO NOT want to model any kind of pick up or lifestyle after
WTF was he thinking to be raw dogging any random person.
Yikes! He needs to be tested for the next two years to be sure he isn’t positive.
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Not that I would put you down if parents financed. If you got parents with loot why not.
Allright so all on your own.
What do you do to save money while you go through your work periods?
Being Irish, how do you compensate for the small shween?
this guy is very inspiring for my life and his articles keep motivating me to resign from boring job and pointless life, this guy is what I wanna be
Thanks god to meet me with your article on google
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so checked out nlp and basically it is manipulating how people think….. would work very well on girls to get laid.
oh and to the wanker how assumes australian’s are lying drunk gypsies because we supposedly have convict genes, what about the other people who weren’t convicts when they migrated throughout the years. hmmm 200 convicts in the 19th century and now 22 million people in the 21st century, they must of had a lot of kids! stop labelling aussies as criminals.
Naughty Nomad is living the dream. Dude is my age too… Damn, I need to step my shit up….
@Mark Zopper: Its Hindenburg not Hindenberg ;-) But I had a good laugh about the comparison!
Nauthy nomad, you my friend are definitely inspiring. YOu are living a life that many people would love to live but they don’t have the ‘balls’ to do it. In addition, you are living life your way, not society’s way, not your friend’s way, not your parent’s way but YOUR WAY and that deserves a lot of respect because like i said before, a lot of people don’t have the ‘balls’ to do it. Instead, people will simply sit back and watch life pass them by simply because they are to afraid to throw themselves out into the real world and experience and explore.
I’ll leave you with some of my favorite quotes of all time:
‘Get busy living or get busy dying.’ -SHawshank Redemption
‘Life moves pretty fast. Sometimes you have to stop and look around or you may just miss it.’ -Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
Fuck me he is bullshitting or riddled with some nasty ass shit.
Stay the fuck away from UK woman, keep ur shit to yourself.
This man, like Charlie Sheen is a living LEGEND!!!
I normally would never use the word “hater”. I hate the fucking douchebags that use the word.
Nonetheless, I don’t think there is a better word to describe some of the replies here.
Btw–A male contracting HIV through vagina intercourse? HA! Learn to read morons, you’re more likely to shit a gold brick.
mormons can have unlimited amount of wives lol
Brazil is a good place 10-15 milion arabs live there and they are hot and liberal
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I’m very impressed about his lifestyle, but being to so many countries, I also wonder how he finances this.