In Appreciation of ‘The Skirt’

Speaking of skirts, if there are any ladies reading this right now, I am powerless against ‘the skirt’. And I suspect other men are as well, since we’re basically all wired the same way.

Skirts make me turn into a perverted sex-beast. The thought that your panties are open to the air and easily accessible just underneath your skirt is incredibly sexy. I think it has to do with the vulnerability a woman displays when she’s out there wearing a skirt that does it.

Especially if it’s the right cut of skirt. I like a skirt that isn’t too long, but not too short either. It has to look feminine and tasteful, yet seductive at the same time. It’s easier to pull this off than it sounds.

Then there’s the crossing of the legs. In a great skirt, a subtle leg-cross has the ability to blow a guy’s mind. There’s also always preening gestures, like when smoothing out your skirt, or adjusting the bottom, that bring attention to your delicious-looking legs.

But the skirt also plays on a man’s subconscious because the skirt is the only garment that is solidly in the realm of the feminine. Other than Scottish bagpipers, men don’t wear skirts. It says to the man that this is a real, feminine woman.

This presumption brings with it many favorable notions attributable to the girl wearing the skirt. Notions like ‘I believe in traditional gender roles’, ‘I enjoy being a woman’, ‘I like to please men’ and maybe even, ‘I can cook and clean.’

Ultimately, it’s these connotations associated with ‘the skirt’ that are really sexy more than the actual look-although the look itself is mind-boggling attractive, don’t get me wrong.

So women rock out the skirt! What are you waiting for? It’s a no-brainer.

And you don’t have to be dressing up. A casual skirt looks good too. I’m not an expert on fabrics and shit like that, but a denim skirt looks really good too.

To me, an inspiring girl is . . .

Attractive, sexy (obvious ones)

has common sense, has traditional values (harder to find)

That’s my problem in a nutshell.

The other day, I met this girl who was cute, just cute–but I wanted to fuck this chick soooo bad. I don’t know what came over me.

I think it was that she was innocent, feminine–she had a skirt on–and was a genuinely ‘sweet’ person.

I was sitting next to her at a friend’s place and I felt like the wolfman–beads of sweat were forming on my forehead and I was seriously fighting the urge to grab her and rape her (in a good way).

So I think what’s really INSPIRING is a girl who is everything I mentioned before PLUS . . .

1) Innocent

2) Feminine

3) Genuinely Sweet

That’s what does it for me. As I write this, I’m also realizing how FEW WOMEN OUT THERE actually exemplify these qualities anymore.

The love you take is equal to the love you make. If you only expect disappointment, and put in no effort to bring out the best qualities in others, you will get their least attractive, least genuine and least interesting side.

You should focus on other people instead of yourself. Your brand of pickup is uninspired. ZING

[...] and less than shoulder-length hair would always keep them a step behind. For two nights I was more inspired than I have been in nine [...]

hey roosh, this here is a one page motivational book !!

Damn, but you’re a cock-bag. Do you ever smile in photos? Unclench for one second and let the wonder of being alive wash over you, you towering mound of menstrual ejecta. Maybe then the girls will be leaning towards you in photos rather than the guy who actually looks like he’s having a good time.

I pity the men who purchase a book about how to find more passion written by someone who has transformed his entire life into a calculation. Spend a year in a monastery or something so that you learn that the world continues to exist even when women aren’t talking to you or strangers aren’t reading your blog.

^^^ True that, as a guy gets into his 30s , the tables are gradually turned as women approaching their 40s are also approaching infertility.

But once that insecurity of not having banged enough girls fades after banging enough girls, it takes more than her just having a working vagina. This is true for most men.

Not just that, but when a man gets older his game, his confidence, his swagger, his career all (hopefully) get better, so that he suddenly has more options plus is more comfortable gaming better girls. When we’re younger, our game is so bad that we HAVE to take what we can get. Just getting laid by ANYTHING is inspiring. Once you realize your value as a man and stop assuming hot chicks are out of your range, it’s harder to settle.

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Makes an effort to learn and apply “Game” , dresses right , works out , has to be charming , witty , good at conversation , makes decent money , can hold his liquor , builds social value … and so on and so forth.

Female requirements to meet (and lay) guys:

Look good, go out, smile.

No wonder once guys start looking past a woman’s “looks” we are often uninspired…. or at least after we fuck her.

I mean to add to my post above- let’s talk about uninspiring…guys need to step it up too, thanks.

Another quality pick-up line from Local 16 this weekend. I wanted to get up to the bar to order a drink and close my tab and asked the guy in front of me (wearing his mock turtleneck) if he was waiting to order. He replied yes. Seconds later, he awkwardly turned around to ask if I wanted him to order a drink for me. I said no thanks, just closing my tab. It was such an awkward, dc’esque gesture and thought it should be shared with you all.

@roosh : I understand the difference, but isn’t the result very similar ? I’ve known a few very attractive girls who ended up being terribly uninspiring, to the point I felt like dating a can of tuna. I kept on with my game, since it was too late to back up, but felt so bored that I didn’t listen to half of what they said. I wasn’t in a gaming mood anymore, and was like, “ok, you’re hot, but even then i won’t make a big effort to get you, cause you make me feel like i’m talking to a six years old, and i guess even sex will be boring with you”. I’d feel more inspired by a 7 who finds a way to make me throw my best tricks in the race.
But maybe i haven’t grasped the full meaning of “inspiring”, english not being my best language.

That may be part of it but the reason you are indifferent is probably because she is less attractive.

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And, hell yeah, travels are a huge game-booster.

“I went to clubs alone there, something I would never do here.” ………. sure. Cause you’re in a foreign land. You don’t give a shit about looking ridiculous, or doing weird things. Anyway, for local people you’re already the weird foreigner. Anything is possible, and that’s when your game is at its best. Fortuna audaces juvat.

Inspiration is a tricky thing. Fact is, the more inspiring she is, the more likely you’ll be acting like you’re trying too hard, and the game will, as a result, be more difficult to play, because she will notice the attention she’s causing. But, yeah, the game will be bright, really challenging. While any player knows it’s so much easier to attract the girls you don’t want to attract, since the lack of inspiration will make you indifferent, and hence immediately put you on top of the situation…

shadi:
“please expand on what things are deemed “inspiring” in women.”

For me an “inspiring” woman, is one who is tall, beautiful and intelligent (without needing to shove it down your throat). The first two will make me take note, and the last will hook me. I pull out all the stops for these women. I’m not calculating whether she’s worth my time in the back of my mind or looking around the room for other possibilities (in this case, my glances around the room really IS for show). Note: do not equate this to me emptying my bank account for her…that never happens.

I’ll be generous and say 10% of women meet ALL parts of this standard (I live in Los Angeles btw).

It’s entirely the same situation for men and women. Roosh made the point in his early posts that “the American woman” never gets over the guy who shattered her heart in college. Three years later, I still think about mine. Everyone has at least “one who got away.” Sorry to use the cliche, but it’s true, and we all have to get over this and get on with life.

Why continue to live in DC or anywhere else in the US? It’s better for working. The only reason I returned from Spain (twice) was that it’s really hard to eke out a living and I ran out of money. Hey, I lasted 3 months, and then 9 months the second time. It was worth it.

America is superior for working, but Spain is superior for living, to paraphrase a line from a Whit Stillman movie.

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Most get 0%.

this is so true. people don’t realize that most men go through life miserable because they never truly got the girl they wanted.

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