A common mistake that guys make is having two different types of game: one for girls they don’t care about and one for girls they do. So they go to a bar, spit something indifferent to a chubby girl, and then all of a sudden perk up for the hotter girl that comes within their sights.
When you overvalue a girl by thinking you need to spit your high-octane game, your brain concludes that it’s dealing with something “important.” It will then increase your anxiety and fear about making a mistake, leading you to spit inferior game. By overvaluing the girl and changing tactics, you put the pussy on the pedestal, and we all know where that leads you (hint: not pussy).
The correct move is to have one default game that you use on every girl. If you meet a girl at school, she gets your default school game. If you meet her at the bar, she gets your default bar game. If you normally go for the kiss at the end of the first date, then that’s what you should do for every single girl. I don’t care how good this new girl looks or how conservative or educated she is, because the time you think that a girl is “special” or different, deserving a new type of game that you haven’t perfected, is the time you don’t get her. She must mold to your timeline and fuck track, not the other way around, and if she doesn’t then it’s on to the next one.
Come up with a game that works for you, and then use that game for everyone. Minor adjustments here or there are fine, but don’t change your tested strategy because you think you’re dealing with a magical girl. Once you see every girl in the same light, what will happen is that beauty no longer gets your motor running like before. You treat those pretty girls as poorly as the others and realize that all of them are more or less the same. Seducing an 8 will be no harder than seducing a homely 6, and often it’ll be easier.Tweet Follow @rooshv
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Before I learned about Game, I noticed how girls I was ambivalent about were all over me, while the ones I really liked were positively repelled.
At the time, I rationalised that as the high-market-value women simply passing on me, but know I realise that I was effectively running anti-Game on the women I found really attractive.
best post in a while. i emailed you about this topic a month ago.
This shit spits right back in my face. Anytime after I have impaled a whale or ug after a night of binge drinking, she’ll text or call and I’ll ignore for ages until a night of fail comes my way again and I’m wasted at 4 a.m. and getting that urge for free hole warmth.
If a hot chick comes up to me randomly and introduces herself, my eyes light up and I’m thinking free sex but she’ll vanish because of those changes. It’ll be quick and over with like it’s too easy for her. But all you wanted was something easy anyways.
You have to learn to treat them all the same and ignore them like you would an ug you can get at the snap of your fingers. Fight the urge to text or call or buy them drinks as you would for a friend. Be sparing in your attention and anytime you feel an urge to do something nice, don’t.
its post like this that show me that Roosh is not just some theory gamer but that he really knows what he is talkin about……this post is a bulls eye
Good post, Roosh.
Plus, if you try different things with different girls, then you can’t tell what is working and what is not.
I like your idea of having a “default.” If something about your game isn’t working at a certain venue, then (and only then) change something about it.
This is a genius post. It took me a long time to learn this.
If you switch up your Game for fly girls to “high-octane”, girls will pick up on it and often times it will be less effective.
You need to stay balanced and in control of yourself; girls pick up on that as well.
I will take it a step further: treat all people with the same high-level cool vibe.
Then when you see that girl you want, no need to switch gears.
You are ready for action.
Good point, as soon as I decide a woman has value based solely on her looks my game goes to shit. Now, I’m starting to take the attitude of ‘Impress me.’ Very few girls, ugly or beautiful, can do that, and they get the same game.
P.S. Should have called this post “One Game to rule them all.”
I tend to be a little ‘nicer’ to girls that don’t have great looks aka 5s and 6s. I’ll just run light sarcasm on them.
But the girls who are 8s and 9s = tougher game. Afterall, these girls will run more shit-tests than you can count on your fingers.
Funny how I’m getting more drinks for free these days. Oh wait, they weren’t as physically appealing to me than I was to them. Now I’m getting spoiled. Great…
It’s natural for a woman’s looks to affect your performance. You perceive the stakes to be higher than those presented by a more average woman. This may be a function of thinking that the more attractive woman has a higher value than you. You must control your valuation instinct.
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I have been getting sloppy about this lately, thanks for the reality check kick in the ass.
You must also develop a mindset that every female is lower than any man, even a bum, and surely lower than yourself, simply by being a woman.
By many cognitive abilities that is so. If you do not comprehend those qualities than think of mans superior physical strength. Just don’t attach any value to looks!
I like the idea behind this, but I KNOW when I’m talking to a 9/10 vs a 5/6 and my “game” automatically changes. And usually it’s a change for the better.
Most the time in my experience, the average 9/10 is nicer than your average 5/6 too which helps.
“You must also develop a mindset that every female is lower than any man, even a bum, and surely lower than yourself, simply by being a woman.”
Agree 100%. For any first time readers who might be tempted to interpret that passage as hyperbole, rest assured that it is not. This, sadly, is the ultimate frame of mind to be in to run the most effective game.
Although I guess it’s not that sad. By actually responding positively to this kind of attitude, women have in fact forever cemented their undoubtable inferiority. Sort of like a strange self-fulfilling prophecy.
Every woman, even the hottest of babes, is inferior to every man, even the lowest of bums. NEVER forget it.
When you figure out “who you are” and exactly what you want, your Game becomes more consistent like Roosh describes.
When you are confused in your own mind. Your Game is all over the place. I can’t say I have any regrets about my confused period. Self-exploration and Game expoloration is fun for me.
The more you know yourself the more you will know what style of Game works best for you. So I guess the first step is to “know yourself”.
Well said. I think this was what VK was getting at in his post on this. You have to be “yourself” while molding yourself for different scenarios.
this is very true. there’s no doubt that hotter girls knock most guys off their aloof poses. if you were an asshole to a 4 and got laid, then you need to be an asshole to the 8s and 9s too.