How To Tell If A Girl Is Serious About Fucking

I like to think there are two kinds of prospects: one where the girl is serious about fucking and one where she’s not.

The girl who is serious about fucking either likes you a lot and/or hasn’t gotten laid in a while. The latter reason, especially, will do more to ensure sex in a rapid matter. She likes sex, thinks of sex, masturbates almost nightly with her foot long black dildo, and sincerely wants to get laid. And it’s not so much that’s she naturally horny because in America if you haven’t gotten laid in a month then you’re a huge loser, so many girls try to relieve this friction by banging random men only a few hours after meeting them. (I wish this was the case in non-Western parts of the world.)

The second girl is more wishy-washy. Sure she wants to get laid, but as a sexual camel she can go a while without it. Sometimes flirtatious attention is good enough to hold her off for months. There is no urgency for her, which is a headache for the horny man.

The way to find out if she is serious about fucking or not is by the end of the first date.

If you try for the kiss, and you don’t get it, she is not serious about fucking. I’m not saying you can’t eventually fuck her, but you’ll be chasing that pussy for many weeks.

If you try for the kiss, and you do get it, she is serious about fucking. She may not fuck you, but if you play your game right there is a coin-flip chance you will hit.

It’s that simple. A sloppy make outs on the very same night you meet her is not a reliable indicator because maybe she just wanted to kiss a guy, but setting a date with a new guy and slobbering over his face at the end of that date is a pretty good indicator of how earnest she is.

In addition, if she flakes last minute on the first date, she is definitely not serious about fucking. This is highly disrespectful actually and worthy of phone number deletion. I’ve never been able to turn around a seduction where the girl flaked on the first date.

I had a first date with a Colombian girl a few months ago and didn’t get the kiss at the end of a four hour date. My Colombian friend said, “Oh that’s no problem, girls here rarely kiss on the first date.” So it’s a cultural phenomenon right? Wrong, because I’ve had other first dates in Colombia where the kiss happened (including a daytime date at a park). Sure enough I got her on the phone again and while she claimed to want to hang out, she wanted to wait a week when she wasn’t busy with school. Not serious about fucking. Don’t waste your time with these girls. This is a reason why your first dates should be reasonably-priced drinks, to screen out girls who are merely looking for attention and not veiny cock.

If you don’t kiss by the first date, you won’t hit sooner than date five. What pussy is worth that kind of investment?

Allow me to answer that… none.

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