Sleeping With Prostitutes

About half a dozen guys I’ve met since college have told me their story of sleeping with a prostitute. There was one thing in common with each guy: none of them actually paid for the prostitute, a relative or friend did. All of them made sure to stress that fact, which tells me that the shame isn’t in sleeping with prostitutes, it’s paying for it.

I’m not a fan of the “Well you are paying for sex anyway through dating” argument. Sure you spend money on food or drink with the intent of sleeping with a girl, but sex is never a sure-thing and in the end she sleeps with you because she wants to, not because she thinks she’ll get something immediately after the sex act is done. I agree that there are golddiggers who put out to keep the good times rolling, but I doubt they actually count how many more dinners they will get from one additional instance of sex.

If I’m able to sleep with attractive girls on my own, I can’t imagine a reason or situation where I would pay for one, even if I was about to jam it in. But how about if there is a girl who is incredibly hot and on a level way beyond anything I’ve experienced? If the price was right and she “looked” clean, I would give it consideration until the disease issue would most likely force me to back out. Morally and intellectually, though, I can handle it.

 
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19 Comments »
3 years, 2 months ago

Are you asking for permission? On behalf of the blogger community, I say yes. But under one condition: pictures por favor. gracias.

2 turbocargado
3 years, 2 months ago

does the disease issue enter your mind if the girl is willing to sleep with you the same night she meets you as well? she might not have racked up quite as many as a prostitute but i have a feeling its far from her first time.

3 years, 2 months ago

paying for sex > celibacy
not paying for sex > paying for sex
sex with love > everything else

4 Jo
3 years, 2 months ago

I’m not comfortable with that. If I was dating a guy and I somehow found out that he’s slept with a prostitute, I’m out.

5 monohechomierda
3 years, 2 months ago

“If I’m able to sleep with attractive girls on my own, I can’t imagine a reason or situation where I would pay for one, even if I was about to jam it in.”

That’s just your American cultural encoding at work. In many parts of the world it’s a normal part of life for successful men.

3 years, 2 months ago

With my spate of unintended celibacy since moving up here (with one brief interruption), I’ve seriously considered paying for it…

…and then I realized that, even on the low end, that’s a lot of beer money.

7 Days of Broken Arrows
3 years, 2 months ago

Isn’t the line on prostitutes that you’re not really paying for sex, but instead, “You pay them to go away.”

I once tried paying people to get out of my life, really. They got pissed. Wonder if a hooker would have just accepted the money and got the hell out. I need to keep better company.

8 Steve Lurkel
3 years, 2 months ago

A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.

9 DF
3 years, 2 months ago

Maybe you shouldn’t worry too much about the disease issue, according to this college call girl.

http://collegecallgirl.blogspot.com/2007/02/vd.html

10 boc
3 years, 2 months ago

“does the disease issue enter your mind if the girl is willing to sleep with you the same night she meets you as well? she might not have racked up quite as many as a prostitute but i have a feeling its far from her first time.”

Good question/point.

Roosh?

11 Jewcano
3 years, 2 months ago

I was in the Navy for many years. No further comment required.

I fail to see, with all the girls around here whose primary goal is to land a guy who makes lots of cash, why prostitution would have a negative stigma? Is it too honest?

3 years, 1 month ago

Well it makes women lose a lot of power when a man can just go cheaply get some of the same thing they have between there legs minus hassle, minus worrying about child support benefit. Men need very little to survive food, shelter, and sex. That is about it.

13 luckier
3 years, 1 month ago

Roosh,
“There was one thing in common with each guy: none of them actually paid for the prostitute, a relative or friend did. All of them made sure to stress that fact, which tells me that the shame isn’t in sleeping with prostitutes, it’s paying for it.”

I always find it funny that some miserable guys are always looking for someone else to blame, even though they were the ones who did it. So basically he paid for his friend’s prostitute, and his friend then paid for his prostitute – and that’s made them proud that they were not in shame. The next thing gonna happen is he is doing drugs, and explaining it like “my friend bought this coke for me”. Silly.

Some people just need to grow up. Hiring prostitutes is not a shame. It shouldn’t be part of your employee resume, but it is not anyone’s business. I have sex with several prostitutes, and yes, I hired and paid them myself; no problem, I make a lot of money, so I can afford it. Also I think that a grown up adult should be capable to make his decisions – and take the responsibility for it instead of pointing fingers on his friends for that. What Roosh published means that his friends are a bunch of sissy boys, who only could follow someone’s decisions instead of making their own. What a shame.

14 luckier
3 years, 1 month ago

2Jo

: I’m not comfortable with that. If I was dating a guy and I somehow found out that he’s slept with a prostitute, I’m out.

Sure, for some women it is not acceptable. Make sure, however, that you follow the same restrictive rules yourself. Otherwise your husband could divorce you next day after your college annivesary, when your drunk ex-roommate tells him about a threesome you had once in college.

The only thing which is worse than “lady on the street” is fake lady on the street.

15 stone
3 years, 1 month ago

Go for it Roosh.
I haven’t done it in the US only because I think $200 is way too much. As you calculated, you can get to a CPN under $100 or so, plus you get some fun out of the chase, etc.
However, when I’m in another country (Eastern Europe) I do take advantage. It only costs $20 there. Nice girls, no drama – can’t beat that.

2 years, 1 month ago

HAI I AM KARTIKA LOOKING FOR SEX PARTNER IN AMERICA, INTRESTED PERSON CAN HAVE ME,I NEED AN EXPERIANCE BEFORE MY MARRAGE

17 Anonymous
8 months, 2 weeks ago

I am bisexual…if I cant get….I buy it

18 Supernaut
4 months, 3 weeks ago

My game is decent but not amazing. I bang several girls a year I would consider ‘hot’. Then i bang some sevens and sub-sevens too. I’ve always relished paying for hot dirty hookers though. Maybe its a fetish. I don’t know. When whoring is at its best you are fucking 2 stunning supermodel class Latvian hookers in stilettoes in a high-rise penthouse, whilst they scream for your cock and can’t get enough of your tongue. Done, dusted with a small ( ok in the above example not-so-small) financial transaction that takes minutes. I’ve had hooker sex that has been some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

When hooker sex is bad though its VERY bad. So yeah, make sure you are totally sold on their looks and attitude before you go for it.

19 expat
4 months, 3 weeks ago

You don’t pay a girl to have sex, you pay her to go away when you are done. You don’t want the car salesman over for dinner every night or ringing your phone every twenty minutes after you buy your car do you? Pay for it and live in peace

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