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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-25838</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 09:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a girl, and I agree with a lot of your advice, but I thought you might find this interesting. It&#039;s not exactly on topic, but it counters some of your theories. It also might appeal to your former scientist self:

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071015102856.htm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a girl, and I agree with a lot of your advice, but I thought you might find this interesting. It&#8217;s not exactly on topic, but it counters some of your theories. It also might appeal to your former scientist self:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071015102856.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071015102856.htm</a></p>
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		<title>By: 40-Year-Old Spinster Is Expert On Marriage » Roosh V</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-18498</link>
		<dc:creator>40-Year-Old Spinster Is Expert On Marriage » Roosh V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 13:35:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Unit403.com &#187; Going Down</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-7011</link>
		<dc:creator>Unit403.com &#187; Going Down</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2007 07:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] linked to over at The Fourth Checkraise, does an entertaining job of it. One comment in the post Solutions caught my [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Yeders</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-6010</link>
		<dc:creator>Yeders</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2007 05:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree with this.
basically, most &#039;relations&#039; i have last a max of 3 weeks if i don&#039;t connect on a deeper level that satisfies my head. otherwise I&#039;m not interested.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree with this.<br />
basically, most &#8216;relations&#8217; i have last a max of 3 weeks if i don&#8217;t connect on a deeper level that satisfies my head. otherwise I&#8217;m not interested.</p>
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		<title>By: Before Sex, After Sex &#187; Roosh V</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5939</link>
		<dc:creator>Before Sex, After Sex &#187; Roosh V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2007 14:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] People want the best without putting in work, without sacrificing, without caring. We expect to get more than we are putting in, but ask anyone in a happy marriage how it&#8217;s really done and they will tell you it&#8217;s all about the effort. You have to care and you have to try, every single day. Good luck finding someone here under the age of 30 who understands that concept. Instead of working towards real change to increase their value, most twenty-somethings instead whine about how life isn&#8217;t fair and how bad their luck is, as if there is a concerted effort by the overlords of our universe to keep them single and unhappy. You are responsible for your romantic happiness, and no one else. If there is a problem then get off your ass and do something about it, no matter how many years it takes to solve. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] People want the best without putting in work, without sacrificing, without caring. We expect to get more than we are putting in, but ask anyone in a happy marriage how it&#8217;s really done and they will tell you it&#8217;s all about the effort. You have to care and you have to try, every single day. Good luck finding someone here under the age of 30 who understands that concept. Instead of working towards real change to increase their value, most twenty-somethings instead whine about how life isn&#8217;t fair and how bad their luck is, as if there is a concerted effort by the overlords of our universe to keep them single and unhappy. You are responsible for your romantic happiness, and no one else. If there is a problem then get off your ass and do something about it, no matter how many years it takes to solve. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Eastern European</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5783</link>
		<dc:creator>Eastern European</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 21:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2me:

I don&#039;t see any problem when your friend wish to have more from the friendship at some point. If you are ok with it, fine. If you are not ok, have balls to say it. No reasonable man is expecting to get laid with you just because you are friends, and if someone expects this, he is not reasonable, and therefore is dangerous as a friend. The same is with dating: if a girl does not trust her boyfriend&#039;s female friends, this means that she does not trust her boyfriend&#039;s ability to make right decisions. Therefore it has nothing to do with his friends, but tells us that the girl is unsecure and stressful nature.

For example, my wife has only male friends - actually, she has never had any female friends in her adult life. And I have no problems with that. If it did not work for you, it does not mean it would not work for anyone else. YMMV. Again, women from Europe are more open and secure, and don&#039;t make it a problem if a man go for a lunch with his female friend.

As a final note, I have seen a lot of female-female friendships. And, having an outside view, most likely I am more qualified to judge them than you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2me:</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t see any problem when your friend wish to have more from the friendship at some point. If you are ok with it, fine. If you are not ok, have balls to say it. No reasonable man is expecting to get laid with you just because you are friends, and if someone expects this, he is not reasonable, and therefore is dangerous as a friend. The same is with dating: if a girl does not trust her boyfriend&#8217;s female friends, this means that she does not trust her boyfriend&#8217;s ability to make right decisions. Therefore it has nothing to do with his friends, but tells us that the girl is unsecure and stressful nature.</p>
<p>For example, my wife has only male friends &#8211; actually, she has never had any female friends in her adult life. And I have no problems with that. If it did not work for you, it does not mean it would not work for anyone else. YMMV. Again, women from Europe are more open and secure, and don&#8217;t make it a problem if a man go for a lunch with his female friend.</p>
<p>As a final note, I have seen a lot of female-female friendships. And, having an outside view, most likely I am more qualified to judge them than you.</p>
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		<title>By: me</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5781</link>
		<dc:creator>me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 21:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have had several male friends throughout the course of my life, and almost every single one of them has wanted more from the friendship at some point.  I have had several female friends throughout the course of my life, and only one has ever tried to steal my boyfriend.  As a man, I don&#039;t think you are qualified to judge female-female friendships.  Also, it is hard to maintain a friendship w/ a friend of the opposite sex when one friend gets into a serious relationship. For example, if the guy starts seriouly dating somebody, the girlfriend will never trust the female friend, and ultimately the friendship will wane.  It works the same way if the female friend gets a boyfriend.  A woman who doesn&#039;t have any female friends should not be trusted-- usually these are the women who steal other women&#039;s boyfriends, and pretend to be &quot;one of the guys&quot; just to get in good with men.  Its kind of like a black person who only hangs out with white people, or a white person who only hangs out with black people.  Embracing friends from different cultural backgrounds is clearly a positive thing, but to do so to the exclusion of your own race (or gender in this case) makes me wonder why that person turns their back on their own...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have had several male friends throughout the course of my life, and almost every single one of them has wanted more from the friendship at some point.  I have had several female friends throughout the course of my life, and only one has ever tried to steal my boyfriend.  As a man, I don&#8217;t think you are qualified to judge female-female friendships.  Also, it is hard to maintain a friendship w/ a friend of the opposite sex when one friend gets into a serious relationship. For example, if the guy starts seriouly dating somebody, the girlfriend will never trust the female friend, and ultimately the friendship will wane.  It works the same way if the female friend gets a boyfriend.  A woman who doesn&#8217;t have any female friends should not be trusted&#8211; usually these are the women who steal other women&#8217;s boyfriends, and pretend to be &#8220;one of the guys&#8221; just to get in good with men.  Its kind of like a black person who only hangs out with white people, or a white person who only hangs out with black people.  Embracing friends from different cultural backgrounds is clearly a positive thing, but to do so to the exclusion of your own race (or gender in this case) makes me wonder why that person turns their back on their own&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Eastern European</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5780</link>
		<dc:creator>Eastern European</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 20:07:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2me:

&quot;The truth of the matter is that men do not want to just be friends with women&quot;

First, the general statements like this are not always true. At least in US I would not have sex with majority of women even if I was paid for it. This is because most of women I&#039;ve met here are well outside my acceptance standard for a sex partner. However this doesn&#039;t mean we cannot be friends. In fact I already have a lot of female friends, and I don&#039;t want to be anything more than friend to them.

But it is still unclear to me what&#039;s wrong with that? Sure, a stereotype male friend would like to fuck his female friend at least once. However a stereotype female friend would betray her female friend - for example by stealing her boyfriend, or just being jealous. So what?

Not to mention you&#039;re w

I have a lot this makes them better friends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2me:</p>
<p>&#8220;The truth of the matter is that men do not want to just be friends with women&#8221;</p>
<p>First, the general statements like this are not always true. At least in US I would not have sex with majority of women even if I was paid for it. This is because most of women I&#8217;ve met here are well outside my acceptance standard for a sex partner. However this doesn&#8217;t mean we cannot be friends. In fact I already have a lot of female friends, and I don&#8217;t want to be anything more than friend to them.</p>
<p>But it is still unclear to me what&#8217;s wrong with that? Sure, a stereotype male friend would like to fuck his female friend at least once. However a stereotype female friend would betray her female friend &#8211; for example by stealing her boyfriend, or just being jealous. So what?</p>
<p>Not to mention you&#8217;re w</p>
<p>I have a lot this makes them better friends.</p>
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		<title>By: me</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5779</link>
		<dc:creator>me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 19:48:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeez, teaching your daughter&#039;s to not have female friends is a BIG mistake.  The truth of the matter is that men do not want to just be friends with women, you are kidding yourself if you think otherwise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeez, teaching your daughter&#8217;s to not have female friends is a BIG mistake.  The truth of the matter is that men do not want to just be friends with women, you are kidding yourself if you think otherwise.</p>
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		<title>By: CDP</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5761</link>
		<dc:creator>CDP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 02:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bianca -

Not being a club goer, I&#039;m not in on what type of women and men go there, so I can&#039;t make a generalization. I agree though, that you&#039;re more likely to find the women Roosh savages here, and that if he&#039;s tired of that he shouldn&#039;t go there.

BUT, your point proves mine. He cuts that shit off after three dates when he realizes he&#039;s in with a lady that is behaving in a way he doesn&#039;t agree with. In effect, he&#039;s saying &quot;I&#039;m choosing not to be treated this way by you, individual (x)&quot;. Could he avoid numerous women like club-going individual (x) by not going to meet women at those clubs? Possibly. I don&#039;t know the scene.

But it doesn&#039;t take away from my point about the person-to-person interactions Roosh may have, or any of us for that matter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bianca -</p>
<p>Not being a club goer, I&#8217;m not in on what type of women and men go there, so I can&#8217;t make a generalization. I agree though, that you&#8217;re more likely to find the women Roosh savages here, and that if he&#8217;s tired of that he shouldn&#8217;t go there.</p>
<p>BUT, your point proves mine. He cuts that shit off after three dates when he realizes he&#8217;s in with a lady that is behaving in a way he doesn&#8217;t agree with. In effect, he&#8217;s saying &#8220;I&#8217;m choosing not to be treated this way by you, individual (x)&#8221;. Could he avoid numerous women like club-going individual (x) by not going to meet women at those clubs? Possibly. I don&#8217;t know the scene.</p>
<p>But it doesn&#8217;t take away from my point about the person-to-person interactions Roosh may have, or any of us for that matter.</p>
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		<title>By: Eastern European</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5754</link>
		<dc:creator>Eastern European</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 19:39:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2Rebecca: I didn&#039;t mean appearance either. What I was trying to say, that a typical woman will get a lot of attention in her 18-25, even if she is a real asshole. But the things WILL change dramatically when she turns 30-35 and still hasn&#039;t been married. 

It is very difficult for an average woman to understand the supply and demand theory when she is young, and receives a lot of attention. As a result, she has overvalued herself, and this leaves her in shock when she turns 30, and the attention she receives cuts in half, and decreases every month. What most of them do is they adjust self-value, but they do it very slow. That&#039;s why we see so many 35 year old chicks with flaked skin and extra pounds, who behave like they are perfect 18 year old hotties. Not only this is always funny to watch, but this also explains their emotional problems as well.

&quot;What I was trying to say was that he claims that women want too much, but if you look at the list of what he wants, it’s a bit ridiculous and impossible.&quot;

Yes, it might be impossible to get from an American woman. Not a problem; there is a lot of women in this world, and he definitely has his chance somewhere else.
The big difference here is that if typical American single man (not a redneck type) goes, for example, to Europe - he&#039;ll most likely find a woman of his dreams to have a relationship with, and in most cases would have no problem with her later. If typical American woman (again, not a redneck type) comes to Europe, she will have hard time trying to find anyone to have a relationship with, because Europeans do not expect their women to behave like cold bitches.

&quot;And you might find you change your mind when your daughters start dating guys who treat them like crap and expect them to take it.&quot;

I do not care what OTHERS think about how my daughers are treated. The only thing which is important is how they FEEL themselves they are treated. For example, according to some feminists I talked to - which was stupid thing - I treat my wife like crap. But none of us cares what others think - as long as we are both happy in our relationship. It is not anyone&#039;s business.

So I teach them to:

- Do not set high expectations. You will not get a prince, nor you deserve a prince, because you are not a princess, and will never be. You are not much better than others; maybe better looking, and smarter, but it doesn&#039;t make you much better.

- Try not to have girl friends at all. Women make really bad friends. Most of them are self-centered, stupid, jealous, and they will reject you anyway if you do not follow their standards - which you should not follow. Hang out with men, and have men friends. That&#039;s what they already do.

- Your chance to find a life partner is the best in 25-30 range if you do not set high expectations, and are in a good shape. Your success here will affect the quality of half of your life. Do not look on girls who &quot;decided to stay single&quot; or pursue their careers in their 30s - most of them lie about it, and those who do not will regret every second of it as they turn into their 40s. You can perfectly pursue any career when you&#039;re 40, but you will have hard time to find a relationship in your 40s.

- While making children is not the goal you want to achieve as soon as possible, this is why we are born on this planet, and this is how we survive. Again, you could be the best and smartest person in this world, but if you do not have children, you are wasted resource, as your genes do not spread. 

- No Jesus in your life. Every religion is based on lies, and in most cases (like Christianity) those lies are obvious. You do not need a Flying Spahetti Monster to help you with anything - better put more efforts yourself.

The emotional well-being of my kids only depend on how THEY feel about it. If in the same relationship a woman feels that she is better and deserves better, there is no way this relationship will survive. Nor it will be a happy relationship for anyone. The things might change dramatically if a woman feels they are on the same level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2Rebecca: I didn&#8217;t mean appearance either. What I was trying to say, that a typical woman will get a lot of attention in her 18-25, even if she is a real asshole. But the things WILL change dramatically when she turns 30-35 and still hasn&#8217;t been married. </p>
<p>It is very difficult for an average woman to understand the supply and demand theory when she is young, and receives a lot of attention. As a result, she has overvalued herself, and this leaves her in shock when she turns 30, and the attention she receives cuts in half, and decreases every month. What most of them do is they adjust self-value, but they do it very slow. That&#8217;s why we see so many 35 year old chicks with flaked skin and extra pounds, who behave like they are perfect 18 year old hotties. Not only this is always funny to watch, but this also explains their emotional problems as well.</p>
<p>&#8220;What I was trying to say was that he claims that women want too much, but if you look at the list of what he wants, it’s a bit ridiculous and impossible.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yes, it might be impossible to get from an American woman. Not a problem; there is a lot of women in this world, and he definitely has his chance somewhere else.<br />
The big difference here is that if typical American single man (not a redneck type) goes, for example, to Europe &#8211; he&#8217;ll most likely find a woman of his dreams to have a relationship with, and in most cases would have no problem with her later. If typical American woman (again, not a redneck type) comes to Europe, she will have hard time trying to find anyone to have a relationship with, because Europeans do not expect their women to behave like cold bitches.</p>
<p>&#8220;And you might find you change your mind when your daughters start dating guys who treat them like crap and expect them to take it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I do not care what OTHERS think about how my daughers are treated. The only thing which is important is how they FEEL themselves they are treated. For example, according to some feminists I talked to &#8211; which was stupid thing &#8211; I treat my wife like crap. But none of us cares what others think &#8211; as long as we are both happy in our relationship. It is not anyone&#8217;s business.</p>
<p>So I teach them to:</p>
<p>- Do not set high expectations. You will not get a prince, nor you deserve a prince, because you are not a princess, and will never be. You are not much better than others; maybe better looking, and smarter, but it doesn&#8217;t make you much better.</p>
<p>- Try not to have girl friends at all. Women make really bad friends. Most of them are self-centered, stupid, jealous, and they will reject you anyway if you do not follow their standards &#8211; which you should not follow. Hang out with men, and have men friends. That&#8217;s what they already do.</p>
<p>- Your chance to find a life partner is the best in 25-30 range if you do not set high expectations, and are in a good shape. Your success here will affect the quality of half of your life. Do not look on girls who &#8220;decided to stay single&#8221; or pursue their careers in their 30s &#8211; most of them lie about it, and those who do not will regret every second of it as they turn into their 40s. You can perfectly pursue any career when you&#8217;re 40, but you will have hard time to find a relationship in your 40s.</p>
<p>- While making children is not the goal you want to achieve as soon as possible, this is why we are born on this planet, and this is how we survive. Again, you could be the best and smartest person in this world, but if you do not have children, you are wasted resource, as your genes do not spread. </p>
<p>- No Jesus in your life. Every religion is based on lies, and in most cases (like Christianity) those lies are obvious. You do not need a Flying Spahetti Monster to help you with anything &#8211; better put more efforts yourself.</p>
<p>The emotional well-being of my kids only depend on how THEY feel about it. If in the same relationship a woman feels that she is better and deserves better, there is no way this relationship will survive. Nor it will be a happy relationship for anyone. The things might change dramatically if a woman feels they are on the same level.</p>
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		<title>By: Eastern European</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5751</link>
		<dc:creator>Eastern European</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 18:56:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gunslingergregi: &quot;It does not work that easily. The person can choose not to work and the court will still demand money, because they can work.&quot;

Courts treat it the same way as your tax obligations - so you cannot go to court and tell the judge you do not want to work. What you need to tell is that you cannot work because of emotional stress, and provide a letter from your doctor. That&#039;s what my friend did.

BTW the case looks kinda weak, especially Judge&#039;s arguments regarding 13 amendment. I wonder why they didn&#039;t go to Supreme Court. Or they did?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gunslingergregi: &#8220;It does not work that easily. The person can choose not to work and the court will still demand money, because they can work.&#8221;</p>
<p>Courts treat it the same way as your tax obligations &#8211; so you cannot go to court and tell the judge you do not want to work. What you need to tell is that you cannot work because of emotional stress, and provide a letter from your doctor. That&#8217;s what my friend did.</p>
<p>BTW the case looks kinda weak, especially Judge&#8217;s arguments regarding 13 amendment. I wonder why they didn&#8217;t go to Supreme Court. Or they did?</p>
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		<title>By: rebecca</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5740</link>
		<dc:creator>rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 15:20:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>EE: When I said Roosh needed to look in the mirror, I didn&#039;t mean any judgement about his appearance. What I was trying to say was that he claims that women want too much, but if you look at the list of what he wants, it&#039;s a bit ridiculous and impossible. 

And you might find you change your mind when your daughters start dating guys who treat them like crap and expect them to take it. Or maybe you won&#039;t. Maybe you&#039;ll be the kind of dad whose &quot;ideals&quot; are more important than the emotional and financial well-being of his kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>EE: When I said Roosh needed to look in the mirror, I didn&#8217;t mean any judgement about his appearance. What I was trying to say was that he claims that women want too much, but if you look at the list of what he wants, it&#8217;s a bit ridiculous and impossible. </p>
<p>And you might find you change your mind when your daughters start dating guys who treat them like crap and expect them to take it. Or maybe you won&#8217;t. Maybe you&#8217;ll be the kind of dad whose &#8220;ideals&#8221; are more important than the emotional and financial well-being of his kids.</p>
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		<title>By: OG Sally</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5735</link>
		<dc:creator>OG Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 13:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wanted to point out, Rooshy, that just about every girl I know back home is dying to get married so she can quit her job, run a home, and raise babies. They also don&#039;t leave the house unless they look absolutely perfect. It sounds like you would like them except...

They all vote Republican. So what is more important to you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to point out, Rooshy, that just about every girl I know back home is dying to get married so she can quit her job, run a home, and raise babies. They also don&#8217;t leave the house unless they look absolutely perfect. It sounds like you would like them except&#8230;</p>
<p>They all vote Republican. So what is more important to you?</p>
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		<title>By: Gunslingergregi</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5732</link>
		<dc:creator>Gunslingergregi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 09:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;judge will adjust (or remove) your child support obligations&quot; It does not work that easily. The person can choose not to work and the court will still demand money, because they can work. Let&#039;s say your all broken up over the divorce and really can&#039;t deal with working. The court really doesn&#039;t give a dam about that problem and will still demand money, because after all you &quot;can&quot; work. What would the person be working toward though is the question. Before the event they where working to raise there kid and take care of there family. After the event they are working to pay child support to have the person who has custody raise the kid in another household than they are in. More than likely they will also be supporting the new significant other in the household as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;judge will adjust (or remove) your child support obligations&#8221; It does not work that easily. The person can choose not to work and the court will still demand money, because they can work. Let&#8217;s say your all broken up over the divorce and really can&#8217;t deal with working. The court really doesn&#8217;t give a dam about that problem and will still demand money, because after all you &#8220;can&#8221; work. What would the person be working toward though is the question. Before the event they where working to raise there kid and take care of there family. After the event they are working to pay child support to have the person who has custody raise the kid in another household than they are in. More than likely they will also be supporting the new significant other in the household as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Eastern European</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5731</link>
		<dc:creator>Eastern European</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 06:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I studied the case mentioned. Read it here: http://caselaw.lp.findlaw.com/scripts/getcase.pl?navby=search&amp;case=/data2/circs/9th/9730326.html

Basically the court in this case is right (please read it before you argue). If you are unemployed, or earn much less than you did before, you just need to go to court, and the judge will adjust (or remove) your child support obligations. The guy in question didn&#039;t do it.

But the point really is - get divorced outside of US. Especially if you can do it in some Islamic country :) 
Yes, it takes balls. However this way you can get much quicker divorce (one month in some countries), no alimony payments, and get a child custody.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I studied the case mentioned. Read it here: <a href="http://caselaw.lp.findlaw.com/scripts/getcase.pl?navby=search&amp;case=/data2/circs/9th/9730326.html" rel="nofollow">http://caselaw.lp.findlaw.com/scripts/getcase.pl?navby=search&amp;case=/data2/circs/9th/9730326.html</a></p>
<p>Basically the court in this case is right (please read it before you argue). If you are unemployed, or earn much less than you did before, you just need to go to court, and the judge will adjust (or remove) your child support obligations. The guy in question didn&#8217;t do it.</p>
<p>But the point really is &#8211; get divorced outside of US. Especially if you can do it in some Islamic country :)<br />
Yes, it takes balls. However this way you can get much quicker divorce (one month in some countries), no alimony payments, and get a child custody.</p>
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		<title>By: Gunslingergregi</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5730</link>
		<dc:creator>Gunslingergregi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 05:53:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Gunslingergregi- child support obligations apply to the non-custodial parent– not exclusively to the father. Therefore if the father is the custodial parent, than the mother would be obligated to pay child support and the same enforcement mechanisms would apply to ensure that she meets her support obligation.&quot;
Yes he could of had her thrown in jail but that is the point. A man doesn&#039;t need to have the law get involved when it&#039;s obvious that someone cannot pay the money. A man can look at a situation and use a little bit of reason. My mom oh yea tables reversed would of had him in jail. The stupid child support laws need to be abolished. Whoeever keeps the kid can pay. If the other person wants to give money so be it. Everything is always for the children. Children grow up and become adults so should the system just keep going to insure nobody ends up with too much. Child support is a redistribution of wealth along with alimony. We are equal now we don&#039;t need all this extra help do we? Guys don&#039;t need the woman to pay woman don&#039;t need the guy to pay. How bout make it equal that whoever makes more money gets the kid. Pretty straight forward right. Since they make more money they don&#039;t have to get money from the other one. The talk about men and woman just never puts out the real inequities in the relationship. The guy would have way more power in any relationship if the woman didn&#039;t have all these extra laws on there side to almost help make it equal. That thing between your legs gets old over time and all you have is the ability to go to court and take what the man worked for. How the hell is that equal. It is just one-sided. People think there free but as you can see not many are making choices in real life about themselves. One wrong move and all your choices have already pretty much been made for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Gunslingergregi- child support obligations apply to the non-custodial parent– not exclusively to the father. Therefore if the father is the custodial parent, than the mother would be obligated to pay child support and the same enforcement mechanisms would apply to ensure that she meets her support obligation.&#8221;<br />
Yes he could of had her thrown in jail but that is the point. A man doesn&#8217;t need to have the law get involved when it&#8217;s obvious that someone cannot pay the money. A man can look at a situation and use a little bit of reason. My mom oh yea tables reversed would of had him in jail. The stupid child support laws need to be abolished. Whoeever keeps the kid can pay. If the other person wants to give money so be it. Everything is always for the children. Children grow up and become adults so should the system just keep going to insure nobody ends up with too much. Child support is a redistribution of wealth along with alimony. We are equal now we don&#8217;t need all this extra help do we? Guys don&#8217;t need the woman to pay woman don&#8217;t need the guy to pay. How bout make it equal that whoever makes more money gets the kid. Pretty straight forward right. Since they make more money they don&#8217;t have to get money from the other one. The talk about men and woman just never puts out the real inequities in the relationship. The guy would have way more power in any relationship if the woman didn&#8217;t have all these extra laws on there side to almost help make it equal. That thing between your legs gets old over time and all you have is the ability to go to court and take what the man worked for. How the hell is that equal. It is just one-sided. People think there free but as you can see not many are making choices in real life about themselves. One wrong move and all your choices have already pretty much been made for you.</p>
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		<title>By: AndyMartinez</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5728</link>
		<dc:creator>AndyMartinez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 01:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I believe that women should get most of the blame because they are the gatekeepers—they determine the rules of engagement and construct the dynamic that men respond to. They are the ones who have created the modern man through a basic system of reward (sex) and punishment (no sex).&quot;

This isn&#039;t true. I&#039;ve never been in a relationship where my girlfriend has denied me sex as a punishment. I&#039;m not saying that relationships like that don&#039;t exist but its not a basic dynamic of your typical relationship. If it is you are a beta and probably are attracted to horrible women.

&quot;The first settles for a typical American woman who complains about his hair on the soap bar even though she resembles her mother—twenty years early.&quot;

My girlfriend and I use separate bars of soap. The second part of that sentence is probably true of most women.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I believe that women should get most of the blame because they are the gatekeepers—they determine the rules of engagement and construct the dynamic that men respond to. They are the ones who have created the modern man through a basic system of reward (sex) and punishment (no sex).&#8221;</p>
<p>This isn&#8217;t true. I&#8217;ve never been in a relationship where my girlfriend has denied me sex as a punishment. I&#8217;m not saying that relationships like that don&#8217;t exist but its not a basic dynamic of your typical relationship. If it is you are a beta and probably are attracted to horrible women.</p>
<p>&#8220;The first settles for a typical American woman who complains about his hair on the soap bar even though she resembles her mother—twenty years early.&#8221;</p>
<p>My girlfriend and I use separate bars of soap. The second part of that sentence is probably true of most women.</p>
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		<title>By: Eastern European</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5723</link>
		<dc:creator>Eastern European</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2007 22:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2rebecca:
&quot;I have to say, you complain about women wanting too much, but have you looked in the mirror?&quot;

This is a funny comment which you only could get from a typical American woman. The reason is that other women are much more reasonable, and understand that this argument is going to backstab them as well. It might be hard to understand while you&#039;re 18-25, because you receive a lot of attention, and cannot understand that the reason for this is not that you&#039;re the most brilliant, smart and beautyful woman around. But you&#039;ll definitely understand it as soon as you turn your 30-35. 

&quot;Half of what you write about is judging girls based on appearance and using them solely for sex.&quot;

He is actually a generous person, as I would not even consider most American women as my sex partners. The only thing I could do is to laugh when I see a typical woman, which looks ugly to me, but behaves like she is a queen. This is SO funny, when a grown-up tries to hide herself under a mask which is too small for them. 

However there is a good thing: most of them are single with no children, and this means that after they die their stupid genes will die with them, and the disease won&#039;t spread. Therefore, having the evolution clean up this shit, so our children will see a better world. 

And I make sure that both my daughters would not grow up as feminist bitches. There is no feminism nor Jesus in my house, and there will never be either.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2rebecca:<br />
&#8220;I have to say, you complain about women wanting too much, but have you looked in the mirror?&#8221;</p>
<p>This is a funny comment which you only could get from a typical American woman. The reason is that other women are much more reasonable, and understand that this argument is going to backstab them as well. It might be hard to understand while you&#8217;re 18-25, because you receive a lot of attention, and cannot understand that the reason for this is not that you&#8217;re the most brilliant, smart and beautyful woman around. But you&#8217;ll definitely understand it as soon as you turn your 30-35. </p>
<p>&#8220;Half of what you write about is judging girls based on appearance and using them solely for sex.&#8221;</p>
<p>He is actually a generous person, as I would not even consider most American women as my sex partners. The only thing I could do is to laugh when I see a typical woman, which looks ugly to me, but behaves like she is a queen. This is SO funny, when a grown-up tries to hide herself under a mask which is too small for them. </p>
<p>However there is a good thing: most of them are single with no children, and this means that after they die their stupid genes will die with them, and the disease won&#8217;t spread. Therefore, having the evolution clean up this shit, so our children will see a better world. </p>
<p>And I make sure that both my daughters would not grow up as feminist bitches. There is no feminism nor Jesus in my house, and there will never be either.</p>
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		<title>By: LaPay</title>
		<link>http://www.rooshv.com/solutions#comment-5714</link>
		<dc:creator>LaPay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2007 16:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, I agree. Women and men are both capitalistic. I brought that up because Roosh seems to want relationships to be about more than economics (i.e. emotional fulfillment, etc.), but his equation rests on the logic of the free market.

My point with all this is that perhaps there is another perspective here that looks beyond women as a group of people totalized by their gender! 

Not ALL women are ANY one way despite socialization. Same with men! People are complex beings. Yes, modern society has alienated a great deal of us and things are not perfect, but you can start to change it by giving people the benefit of the doubt when you meet them and being open to the possibility that they might be different, even if your last 200 encounters were not.

I&#039;m just afraid that Roosh&#039;s brand of &quot;logic&quot; here is symptomatic of a larger trend of drawing tautologies that are based upon limited experiences of meeting women at [DC] bars. I hope he experiences more of life and the world before he writes his manifesto.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, I agree. Women and men are both capitalistic. I brought that up because Roosh seems to want relationships to be about more than economics (i.e. emotional fulfillment, etc.), but his equation rests on the logic of the free market.</p>
<p>My point with all this is that perhaps there is another perspective here that looks beyond women as a group of people totalized by their gender! </p>
<p>Not ALL women are ANY one way despite socialization. Same with men! People are complex beings. Yes, modern society has alienated a great deal of us and things are not perfect, but you can start to change it by giving people the benefit of the doubt when you meet them and being open to the possibility that they might be different, even if your last 200 encounters were not.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m just afraid that Roosh&#8217;s brand of &#8220;logic&#8221; here is symptomatic of a larger trend of drawing tautologies that are based upon limited experiences of meeting women at [DC] bars. I hope he experiences more of life and the world before he writes his manifesto.</p>
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