I don’t get it…you want all women to “spread their legs” for you, but when they do, you hate them for it? You do realize sex is not something women “give” you, right? It’s something THEY want to? It’s terrible and nasty for them to make themselves happy, just because it involves you as well? I think you have serious problems that you need to address. Your view towards sex and women is really, really fucked up.

110 Anonymous needs to start a blog. I’m the most non religious person, but this ecclesiastes piece nails it, I totally agree that’s where the whole essence is.

you can’t hate the argentinians who don’t put out without long term comittement and then rant that others (americans) fuck you silly after knowing you for several hours.

hate the sluts and hate the ones that aren’t sluts?

what sort of women do you respect then?

because in your gripe, you are contradicting yourself

All self-improvement thats directed towards mastering the external world will result in contempt of that which you have mastered. Napoleon cynically declared how foolish soldiers were to risk their lives for some metal pins on their chest. Buffet feels nothing but contempt for the capitalist system. Himmler cared little for objective truth and crowds.

Self-improvement thats directed towards the internal world is just glorified masturbation. The only benefit a Buddha has over a layman is that he can enter his trance of happiness without ejaculation. Whether dopamine comes from sitting in an uncomfortable position and depriving oneself of oxygen or having sex instead matters little. Claiming that either is higher,superior or more magical is misguided. Glorified masturbation can be rather fun but I dislike the intellectual dishonesty of those advocating it.

The people that are talking about him not meeting the right women are missing the point. If you’ve reached a point where you can just as easily bed women in relationships as those outside of relationships how can you expect to suddenly have an exclusive relationship knowing that the only thing that determines whether your significant other or yourself for that matter will cheat or remain faithful is opportunity and the (in)competence of the suitors. Its not a case of finding the right girl since people have limited control over their actions. Either its inborn or its the environment, which is simply the result of billions upon billions of uncontrollable events so its about as unchangeable. The female in question having self-esteem,a career,virginity or religion changes little about the aforementioned. Men aren’t any different.

There is nothing wrong with human sexuality but the modern attitude towards it horribly naieve. If a healthy man and a healthy woman meet and either of them has an idea on how to seduce the other then there is no contract or institution on earth than can prevent them from copulating. Sex and relationships have also become ends in themselves and people should ask themselves whether they need them. If one isn’t lonely then what added-value does a relationship hold? There is nothing weird about you not having the will to compromise with women when your needs can be fulfilled by easier alternatives. You don’t blame yourself for leaving a room filled with assholes when good company is right around the corner. The fact that sex is something hard to reach for most and that those very same people then rationalize their lack of options and project their morality derived from their inadequacies on you should matter very little to you.

The problem isn’t game it is nihilism. Abstinence would simply be the same as depriving yourself of sufficient water so you’d remember how good it tastes. The water doesn’t change by doing so and in the end its the reality of the water you have troubles with so its rather meaningless. With your mind, switching to some other subject would be pointless anyway since its only a matter of time before you find the essence of things and exploit that knowledge. Atleast as a form of escape it would be pointless.

Nietzsche has written quite a lot about this though he doesn’t quite succeed at the follow-up he still has written some interesting things. I think this quote is quite relevant: In this sense Dionysiac man is similar to Hamlet: both have gazed into the true essence of things, they have acquired knowledge and they find action repulsive, for their actions can do nothing to change the eternal essence of things; they regard it as laughable or shameful that they should be expected to set to rights a world so out of joint. Knowledge kills action; action requires one to be shrouded in a veil of illusion – this is the lesson of Hamlet, not that cheap wisdom about Jack the Dreamer who does not get around to acting because he reflects too much, out of an excess of possibilities, as it were. No, it is not reflection, it is true knowledge, insight into terrible truth, which outweighs every motive for action, both in the case of Hamlet and in that of Dionysiac man. Now no solace has any effect, there is a longing for a world beyond death, beyond the gods themselves; existence is denied, along with its treacherous reflection in the gods or in some immortal Beyond. Once truth has been seen, the consciousness of it prompts man to see only what is terrible or absurd in existence wherever he looksl now he understands the symbolism of Ophelia’s fate, now he grasps the wisdom of the wood-god Silenus” he feels revulsion”.

You’ll just have to deal with being unsatisfiable and focus on that which you have control over.

What do people gain from all their labors
at which they toil under the sun?
Generations come and generations go,
but the earth remains forever.
The sun rises and the sun sets,
and hurries back to where it rises.
The wind blows to the south
and turns to the north;
round and round it goes,
ever returning on its course.
All streams flow into the sea,
yet the sea is never full.
To the place the streams come from,
there they return again.
All things are wearisome,
more than one can say.
The eye never has enough of seeing,
nor the ear its fill of hearing.
What has been will be again,
what has been done will be done again;
there is nothing new under the sun.
Is there anything of which one can say,
“Look! This is something new”?
It was here already, long ago;
it was here before our time.
No one remembers the former generations,
and even those yet to come
will not be remembered
by those who follow them.
(Ecclesiastes)

This fucking maddona-whore complex is most of the reason why girls put guys through so much bullshit.

If you stop being judgmental about girls liking sex, maybe your game will improve, the bitterness is communicated.

I challenge you to do that with a smart, independant, business woman that is fulfilled (relatively speaking) in her life. You will be surprised how fast she will give you the boot. Of course there are exceptions if the relationship is long enough (5 years+)

If you say a woman loses value the more men she fucks, then doesn’t that also mean a man loses value the more women he fucks? Or do you have double standards where this only applies in a way that is convenient for you? Put it this way, if you have fucked 200 women, then you shouldn’t mind(given the right circumstances of attraction) marrying a woman who has fucked 200 men. The problem with this is that after you do something in excess you begin to set a certain mindset (example being customer service reps who think every customer is dumb and abusive) that is very hard to change. To this you have to add that if you fuck a woman the same day you met her and if you have not the will to say no if invited to have sex then you lose trust in the other party as well, after all, how can you trust someone else that has done similar things that you have done and you can not trust yourself to say no?

If you wish to change this view (if you haven’t changed it already since this is a 2 and a half year old post) you must begin by changing yourself and those with whom you interact, go to other places where girls care more about feelings, long lasting relationships and have enough self esteem to not use sex as their primary weapon of conquest. Otherwise you are condemned to a life of misery and loneliness which no human can endure. OR, if this is what brings you happiness, then by all means continue doing what you must, but please don’t stereotype a whole group of people based on your limited experiences.

I agree with other posters- its not the fact that women are so easy to be fucked. Its the old fact, that women are poisoning every other human being with their ego-centric desires, problems and all that crap. While providing nothing of value to the society. All progress humans made in technology, spirituality, transportation, telecommunication, housing, art, etc. was achieved solely by men.
The women role always was to:
1. be loaded with sperm
2. born babies.

Roosh- i fully understand your attitude toward woman.
The vast majority of woman are in the deep, low, pathetic, ego-dominated state of being.
Do you know Esther Vilar? Its the only book written by a woman worth reading! I highly recommend every man should read it:
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

Super insightful analysis of a woman soul.
Do you know what psychic vampirism is? Its a destructive type of psyche, anyone should avoid too much contact with such people. Read about it here: http://psychicvampirism.com/pg5.html

I slept with this men that i jut knew for 2 days. Maybe i sound so easily but hey men and woman is equal now. I do it for fun…i just kinda woman who knows what i want. I i want to do it easily or with game it’s depends on the men actually. If i feel he’s gorgeous, smart and amazing i would do the game and slow down, but if he’s an average and cute…i dont need to slow down cos i dont wish to be chase or have another feeling that gonna be the serious one..just for fun!

Yeah, so, I was reading this site and thinking what an asshole you are.

Then I read this, and now I just feel pity.

Your life is gonna suck so bad a decade or so from now.

The reasons why we have fat girls here besides the FDA/drug company corruption and the doctor corruption not caring about the FDA approving toxic foods and attacking vitamins is because we have allowed Monsanto to evilly kill all organic crops around the world.

Monsanto is killing the whole world by killing our food (abuse of capitalism) which makes our girls fat and leads to all of this low quality social situation between the sexes where we have to go to other countries to find women that value men.
http://www.farmtoconsumer.org/food-rights-hour-mcgeary-vlieger.htm

Again I was caught by more females in that cult here in LA here at 28 and they threatened me with outcast by everyone unless the trick they pulled on me to work for the church I did not fulfill.
I lost my second job, my truck everything.

I can tell you from childhood to adulthood to now women have dominated my life most of my life and this is a very unhealthy thing to do to me. I have been scarred for life and despite my good looks (6′!’ handsome and muscular) I am so used to being kept poor and docile and cooperative it took me the last ten years 31 to 40 to recover and figure out what life is really all about and how american women are really the least valuable of all women in the world.

All of my bosses were female in that cult. These were mostly housewives that took out there frustrations and anger against there husbands on me.
Trying to make me feel bad in front of large groups of people or tricking me into a long term obligation is what these women’s bed and butter were.
Add to that a childhood female bully that would beat me up encouraged by her older brothers in front of large crowds of people how can I not be scarred?
I was bigger than her and I could have course severely beaten her if I wished but I did not understand her actions towards me and would not hit a female even as a kid and viewed it as insanity and tried to run away from it which did not work. I was just a kid and she tried it 4 years later and I just ignored her.
Now I’m 40 and I think it would be justice if I could confront her and punch her in the face and challenge her or fight her but nobody else would think of it that way, too bad for me. I have no rights to revenge since we’re all adults now.
Wow thanks USA
I should be able to beat her if I wish now in public and tell her she should show respect to a bigger male that is being nice to her but I can’t and I think that is very wrong. She gets to get away with that, why?
I’m sure I would feel bad after punching her in the face once or twice and getting revenge and then what will I do? Suffer from a lawsuit she files on me and wins for the rest of my life I will pay her money. Thanks USA

These females in the cult that were my boss were absolute authorities on me and my life and really took advantage of my good intentions and super honesty level.
I was a book keeper for them and they had an intensive lie detector on me regularly so I learned quickly to be very honest.
In fact dishonesty for me is very very hard to do and I have no poker face and cannot “fake it until I make it.”
If a pretty female asks me the truth I just spill it all out because I’ll feel guilty if I dont.

It’s taken almost 10 years for me to realize I have a right to privacy and the right to lie if I wish. A thing that cult took away from me. I’m just learning now the last 4 years I can lie if i wish but it is still very hard. The one benefit I got from this is that I can clearly see when others lie.

Since I was so used to be being kept poor my whole life this 30k a year job I got making solar panels which is super honest and helping the whole world and country (because we also export) makes me feel very good and makes me feel superior to many of you on an honesty level because I can see you do not care how dishonest your job is and about how you do not care at all for people in third world countries especially you white american women that do not donate or care about people in poor countries. I have donated over 2k plus to Filipinas last year no strings attached but I bet 100% you did not do anything close to that.

We consume the most resources of the world and yet you spend most of your energy and time in public making men feel bad for talking to you in public. Men are not allowed to act discrimanatory on the job like an attractive white female is allowed to do here in the U.S. and the other races follow her example.

There is a very attractive white female at the bank where I cash my check and she openly avoids me in front of everyone making me look and feel bad in front of everyone, how is that right or correct in any way?
Can the young attractive white male tellers that work there do the same thing to women that are fat/ugly/not to their liking? No they would get fired or disciplined right away.

Don’t I have the right to run my errands in public without getting treated like a penis pointed in your direction? Ugly/overweight girls and men are not acting in that way on the job yet these humans have specials rights above all others?
I’m so super angry at how white attractive females here think they are above all of humanity it presents a very big barrier to me now because even if a pretty white girl is suddenly nice to me in public I can’t believe it, I just can’t. I wonder how are you trying to trick me, my hatred stays there and wont go away.

I even twice had to 9 female latinas (very pretty face and nice figure the last point is for personality) be nice to me in public recently and I was so pissed off from getting treated like the plague from pretty white females as soon as they spoke
I felt “enemy is talking, what will she do now to make me feel or look bad in front of everyone?”

I mean really you break my heart and I know that does not matter to you because you really do not have a heart after all. Nice men equals pussy and pushover.

I wonder how you U.S. white females would feel if I could bring 1000 women here from Thailand, the Philippines, Iceland, Russia or actually a country as rich as our own – 1000 South Korean women and suddenly plop them down into a night club or bar here and expose your fake “I’m pretty and white so I can look down on all men” BS.
Your obnoxious disrespect, unfriendliness and lack of admiration of males leads to this pick up artist market.

71% of the country is obese or overweight leaving us very little choices of females and so you take advantage of us in every way and spend a lot of energy creating
approach anxiety by openly treating men like they are beneath you in public. Was I born with approach anxiety? No. Was any man? No.

I thought when I was a young boy pretty girls would be nice, but they are not.

We have the most men in jail and insane of any country in the world and I submit to you that it is directly the result of attractive females treating men like shit in public
which leads to depression and/or criminality.
The pursuit of happiness (rememember the constitution) includes sex and friendship with pretty attractive females.

There is no job a young man can get while in college that can earn as much as a porn job which almost any decent figured college girl can get right away, stripper or
under the table prostitute (massage parlor) not included in any study, HELLO. Furthermore every ad I see in the paper or craigslist for low rent or free rent
is for females and that all by itself elevates the pay of women above men so lets stop pretending they don’t HAVE more money than us
can we please?
Grammar/punctuation was the only thing I did not score good at so sorry if this is wrongly punctuated.

The age of consent laws are discriminatory because it states (paraphrasing), “men have no incentive to not commit the crime since they cannot get pregnant.”
WTF? Does child support for the rest of your god damned life not sound like an incentive? It sure does to me. Especially in the united states of abuse of capitalism
where doctors are not held accountable for the FDA corruption, highest obesity rate in the world and Monsanto destroying our right to eat healthy food.

The Monsanto lawyers recently had the balls to straight out say legally we do not have the right to eat and make healthy organic food.
How much more evil can you get than that? I ask you?

FDA: “there is no absolute right to consume or feed children any particular kind of food [because] comprehensive federal regulation of the food supply has been in effect at least since Congress enacted the Pure Food and Drugs Act of 1906. … Thus, plaintiffs’ claim to a fundamental privacy interest in obtaining ‘foods of their own choice’ for themselves and their families is without merit.”
and
“there is no generalized right to bodily and physical health.”

That is staring into the face of evil. That is what is making our country full of fat girls and sick people and bringing us all down.

So in my opinion If you are a hot girl and you fuck a lawyer or a doctor you are contributing to the abuse of capitalism to trump our rights as humans and so you are ruining our country.
Neither of these “careers” in general are doing their job they are in fact sucking money out of the country and ruining it.
Also if you are fucking rich cocaine using wall street bankers and stock brokers for 1000 an hour you are also an evil female. Teh evidence is the last round of taxes they just took from us in the form of the bailout.

If I was on a pickup artist show I’d probably be the best “transformation OMG look how he changed” you could get since the only thing holding me back from going to clubs besides the obnoxious “I am better than you since I’m white and pretty” attitude is my own self conscious because I have to fix all of my back teeth which will cost 5000 or so which is my next goal.

“I usually love your stuff, Roosh, but I have to say that Hammer hit the nail right on the head (sorry, I just couldn’t resist the punability of that username): the problem is you, not them–you’re operating under the socially conditioned idea that the easier a woman is the less she’s worth, that women can’t go around hooking up like men, the more sexual partners she’s had the less valuable she is as a mate, etc. I disagree with this (notice I’m not saying “you’re wrong!”) and would like to point out that the issue is with your values and judgments, YOU are causing YOURSELF a lot of pain and suffering here by operating under this bullshit social programming.”

It’s not “social programming” you dumb faggot. It’s a consequence of men valuing fidelity in their mates so they know whose children are theirs (as well as mate quality; every time a woman takes a load of beans up the cunt, her body rewires itself so it doesn’t treat the jizz as a foreign entity). Go ahead and try to rewrite your “programming”, because you’ll sure as hell hurt yourself a lot more than you would by just accepting it.

Thats because you sleep with women with confidence issues. Those women will open their legs easily ( so they arent really a prize) I think youll like the game more if you try for once with a more unoproachable lady, that will not go to bed so easily. Cause it may get boring fucking so easily. Theres no challenge. It could be you or any other average guy

We have a choice in life.

We can use the gifts God gave us to spread love by having character, doing the right thing, being faithful to our wife, being responsible, raising children, and taking up a profession that is in line with our personal, deep-seeded desires and talents.

Or, we can misuse the gifts God gave us by spreading fear via carousing, encouraging hedonistic behavior, devaluing our humanity, neglecting to feed our souls and our desire to live our life’s purpose, and not trusting in God enough to provide you with a worthy spouse.

Believe me, I’m not trying to get all holier than thou. I’m not an innocent person. But I do recognize the choices we have in this life and the consequences thereof.

The first path is the path of sacrifice and love. This is the path of the real Alpha male.

The second path is the path of a lost boy, searching desperately for meaning, but finding emptiness instead. This path puts you in a fear frequency your whole life.

I ran across an interesting quote today by Wilt Chamberlain, a life-long bachelor, who purportedly slept with over 20,000 women in his lifetime.

He said, ““With all of you men out there who think that having a thousand different ladies is pretty cool, I have learned in my life I’ve found out that having one woman a thousand different times is much more satisfying.”