The Female Hierarchy Of Needs

When one of your wants are satisfied, another pops into its place without any conscious effort. For example:

  • I’m in a new city looking for a good cafe. Once I find that cafe, I then realize I need to find a good burger restaurant.
  • I’ve been trying to grow my beard out to a certain length. Once that happens, I realize that my head hair is ugly and needs to be fixed with a new style.
  • I haven’t gotten laid in two weeks. Once I solve that problem by finding a new girl, I realize that my book sales for the month weren’t that great and I need to focus on business.
  • I found a city with a good cafe and burger joint. My beard and hair looks good. My sex life and income is solid. I now realize that the weather sucks and wonder if I should move somewhere more tropical.

Your brain keep all you wants in a file and releases one when another has been achieved. This idea is somewhat like Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs. The most immediately important goals are at the bottom of the pyramid (or ladder) while the most insignificant goals are at the top. The higher you climb, the more you are trying to attain goals that do not impact your basic survival needs.

What does an American woman’s ladder look like? What are the most important goals they have that, when fulfilled, allow them to reach into the heights of triviality? Here they are from most to least important:

1. Friendship (most important) — She wants at least three close friends who she can share the events of her life with.

2. Positive Male Attention — She wants to be seen as desirable to men, no matter her appearance.

3. Drama Or Excitement — The friends or men she gets attention from must provide her with arguments, jealousy, backstabbing, confusion, excitement, or surges of emotion.

4. Low Cost Entertainment — She does not want to be “bored” at any time, so it must be easy for her to find music, television, animated gifs, or other media that entertain her on demand.

5. Clerical Employment — A woman wants a high-paying job that doesn’t involve manual labor or intellectual difficulty after breezing through an easy major in college.

6. Casual Sex — She doesn’t want to be tied down with relationships while she pursues her clerical career because she has been taught that only an office cubicle can provide everlasting fulfillment.

7. Freedom From Household Chores — Since she has undertaken the path of an independent woman, she doesn’t want to ever feel like a housewife, which she has been brainwashed to believe is slavery. There’s no time for menial chores.

8. Popularity — She wants to emulate the successful women she has seen on television by being the center of attention among both men and women.

9. Validation & Freedom From Judgement — She wants the assurance that all of her life decisions are flawless, even the ones that may negatively impact her health. She will get hyper-defensive to those who question her choices.

10. Disney-esque Relationship & Marriage (least important) — Once she is past her physical prime, she wants to find her dream man and have a fairytale wedding in a lavish party that costs an inordinate amount of money.

An American girl who doesn’t have friendship is not going to worry about being like Kim Kardashian. A girl who has no drama or excitement in her life won’t seek casual sex (unless it may give her drama). A girl who hasn’t empowered her sexuality through casual sex is not going to desire marriage or commitment. The ladder isn’t identical for all girls, and I believe they can hop up and down at will—skipping a couple rungs in the process—but this is the most general progression of middle-class white American women who never had to worry about putting food on the table. The main idea is to understand that women have several needs that don’t all overwhelm her at once, but which appear one or two at a time as she progresses through life up to her mid 30′s and unlocks various “achievements.”

I realized that the above ladder may accurately describe the Western Anglo woman, but doesn’t do a good job in describing Ukrainian women, who seem to possess a different ladder entirely. Here is how I would describe a Ukrainian girl’s ladder:

1. Identification With A Higher Being (most important) — There is a god, his name is not Steve Jobs, and hopefully he will provide.

2. Food, Shelter, & Clothing — It’s not such a simple matter for a Ukrainian girl to have all her survival needs automatically met, especially in this time of civil strife, so she has to put strenuous effort into securing them.

3. Basic Education — Their need for education is more a matter of education for education’s sake because she knows jobs will be non-existent or low-paying after graduation.

4. Maximization Of Feminine Value — She understands that men like beauty, so she spends much of her free time looking as good as possible to catch the attention of men. A significant percentage of their low income is spent on beauty enhancements. From my unscientific observation, Ukraine seems to have more salons per capita than anywhere else in the world.

5. Long-Term Relationship That Leads To Marriage — Sexual experimentation is minimal. She wants to hold onto her man and please him so she can use his resources to satisfy her most pressing survival needs.

6. Children (least important) — Having kids is a way to increase the commitment of the man to the relationship and keep him motivated to stay employed. It’s also a good way to relieve the boredom of marriage.

As you can see, different environments produce different ladders. In Poland, a country that is undergoing rapid Westernization, the ladder is somewhat of a hybrid, where girls want clerical employment and some casual sex, but also a long-term relationship while still in their prime. What’s important for you to realize is that women will exchange one ladder for another depending on the environment they are in.

An interesting experiment you can do is take 100 Ukrainian girls and put them in the United States while taking 100 American girls and putting them in Ukraine, cutting off all financial and family ties from their birth country. You should quickly see that American girls, without their first world wealth and generous welfare state supporting them, will be spending more time in front of the mirror dolling herself up for a man than writing essays on Thought Catalog or XO Jane about sexism, rape culture, or baked goods. The Ukrainian girl, once she realizes she no longer needs a husband to survive, will start seeking popularity, drama, and attention. It would only take her a few weeks to become an Instagram expert.

The true nature of women, as I’ve described in the past, attempts to describe what a woman’s behavior would be like if all her survival needs are met. If you put a feminine, sweet woman in the wrong “container,” I wrote, she will take the shape of that container. The above hierarchy now begins to hypothesize what a woman wants most if placed in a Western container versus a Poor Country container.

If you want women to focus on climbing the Ukrainian ladder and seek your approval instead of the American ladder where women seek to paint you as a patriarchal misogynist creep, you must withhold or limit the ability of all women to procure enough resources that they’re completely assured of their next day’s bread or shelter. Otherwise, if a woman doesn’t have anxiety about those basic needs, you’ll be on the verge of unleashing a species of beast we see in America, one that has very little inclination to seek out long-term relationships in their physical prime with a goal to be good wives or mothers. For a man to achieve the purest commitment and loyalty from his woman, she must believe that she cannot survive without him. If this condition is not met, the only rational option that remains is for him to simulate traditional masculinity through activities such as weight lifting, martial arts, video games, or casual sex while pursuing an individualistic life of leisure and bachelorhood.

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  • Igniss

    Excellent article. “A woman takes the shape of the container that she is placed in.” Very true!

  • EdRoy01

    Excellent piece of writing.

  • Bob

    Anyone wanna try it for men?

    1. Employment/Finances to fund lifestyle
    2. Friendship
    3. Women/Sex
    4. Meaning fulfillment of life through hobby (travel etc)
    5. Status achievement/wealth
    6. Entertainment (Internet/books/movies)
    7. Meaningful Relationship
    8 Having Children
    9. Pursuit of Power
    10. Legacy

  • Purple Penguin

    Half of your list could be put number one depending on the man, and some points simply don’t matter for some men.

    While you can pretty much predict what a woman will seek depending on her origins, men’s hierarchy of needs varies, a lot.

  • Deebos

    As I’m mostly travelling now I have a car that isn’t being used much, although it is going to be sold. I have a close female family member who can’t hold a job, collects alimony and gets 80+ messages a day between her 3 different online dating profiles (Ive asked her). I relunctantly agreed to let her use my car for “job interviews” and stood in the driveway to guide her out as there were other cars and a drainage ditch (waving my arms to give her direction to turn). After three failed tries she puts the car in park and starts yelling that she knows how to drive and I shouldn’t tell her what to do, other family comes out and says I’m being harsh (I was laughing at her yelling due to the sheer stupidity). She gets out of the car being comforted by other family members and I reach into the car, take the keys, and walk back inside. Other family comes inside telling me I should be more helpful. I told them no freakin way, she’s an adult and I was doing her a favor. Ive since taken the tags off the car but another female family member has come to her “rescue” snd she now has selfies in their car driving to and from the club last night…on a Subday night no less. We live in a society that coddles even adult women and even though its for the better I’m pissed at myself for initially giving in to family pressure to let her borrow it.

  • josh

    I remember reading a thread on your forum about a guy who brought his Russian girl to L.A. for a visit. He made the mistake of taking her to an In-And-Out Burger for a meal scariest moment in the thread was when she said:

    “Hey, this food tastes GOOOD.”

  • tyrionne lanister
  • Mark

    This is ridiculous. The same logic could be placed on men: put us in a situation wherein we have to wonder every day whether we’ll be able to afford to buy food and clothing, and I guarantee you the majority of men will stop going on ROK and attending stupid martial arts classes. They’ll actually begin to focus on connecting deeply with women and doing what THEY need to do in order for a woman to consider being in a relationship with them.

  • Armchair General

    1. Dignity
    2. Resources (including education and intellectual wealth)
    3. Authority.
    4. Sexual pleasure
    5. Status
    6. Procreation
    7. Power

    I believe man who has all these needs fulfilled cares little about friendship, because friendship between males is much more mature, platonic, and is usually acquired through journey of meeting the above needs. Such friendships are stable. Although, men too, often hang out for sake of fun and wasting time, which creates more woman kind of friendships that are characterized by jealousy, lack of trust, and frustration.

  • serious

    Drop dead, faggot.

  • Oracle X

    Perfect article.
    Water takes the shape of the container it’s placed in. The same applies for women.
    Ukrainian girls are “feminine” because of the social, political and cultural situation in their country. Put them in America and the closet feminist in each of them will spring to life. You see Russian/Ukrainian women behaving far worse than American women when placed in America or westernized environments.
    American women, if deprived of the privileges they have in America, and are put in Ukraine-like countries/environments, will immediately become “feminine” or probably more feminine than Ukrainian women. The shape of the water depends on the shape of the container it’s put in.

  • Roosh_V

    Good first attempt, but I don’t think many guys seek actual fulfillment (no 4) on your list. For most, entertainment would rank above it.

  • Roosh_V

    Beautiful fantasy you have, but it doesn’t matter whether men want to deeply connect with women or not, because they don’t get to choose: http://www.rooshv.com/the-contradiction-of-pursuing-casual-sex-while-advocating-for-traditional-values

  • Tom Dane

    I agree..almost…only women from a poor container past the age of 20 will never be like the women of the rich container when there. They might pick up 10-15% and that’s that.
    It takes a lot hard work to reach the low levels of a spoiled western tinder iphone professional attentionwhore.

  • Kraxzy

    This is bullshit, once I earned my wealth… I still felt an urge for the primal a temptation to just throw it away and live with nature or do some insane shit. There was always a drive to take another step to become better more self reliant.

  • Roger

    Roosh V

    How much money does a guy need to make a month to satisfy a Ukranian woman in the Ukraine? What’s a realistic attainable age difference between a man and woman their (10 yrs?)???

  • Na

    Definitely true. Russian girls at my college are the most nasty feminists. I’m not sure about American women becoming feminine in Ukraine though. I’d need proof of that.

  • Roosh_V

    I’ve seen a few of them, but since they know they are only staying in the Ukraine for the short term, they don’t make wholesale changes. I’ve yet to encounter a Western woman going to Ukraine permanently.

  • ray

    1. Pleasing our Father in heaven.
    2. See (1).

  • JC

    Our whole culture is an ego battle between the sexes- perversion and selfishness. Tough economic times bring humility- no body builders or mma guys can stand up against ar-15s that would be goin off in an economic break down scenario- it will be rual agrarian militias if the situation in USSA gets bad enough-it’s all ugly. Survivalblog.com is way better info on prepping than that recent rok article btw.
    Man it’s a sick World- we could use more God and less us. We need prayer for America we’ve destroyed ourselves with our greed and pride just like the Romans. Culturally I wish we had humble sweet women like the Ukraine we’ve missed the boat in America.

  • Tim

    Do you ever write about omegas with a v card in their 30s or 40s?

    Issues like psycholoical illness from a bad family back ground (family members trying to harm each other, witness beatings, cussing out each other at family dinners sexual abuse) can wreak havoc on a man and his game. Like a codependent mother who didn’t want her son going off to college so she kept him home, coddled him, and then left him and his Father when she inherited funds. There’s all kinds if reasons for omega misery. Being an only child who was kept isolated rejected at school for social akwardness and still carries a social uncomfort well into their 30s because they live in a clickish dull community that lacks openness.

    The rok article about pro athletes and how they were raised was spot on- make a kid disciplined and hard working with an strong masculine influence early and he will prosper leave a kid Undisciplined and to his own devices and he’s headed for future misery. Roosh if you ever had kids you should try and work so hard if you fall over from straining to do so to make sure they have discipline like the article says- their future depends on it.

  • Warrior_Savant

    Great post and I 100% agree. Especially with the below:

    3. Drama Or Excitement — The friends or men she gets attention from must provide her with arguments, jealousy, backstabbing, confusion, excitement, or surges of emotion.

    This one infuriates me to no end. One, because the American woman generates this with zero provocation and two, because people fall right into her trap and let the argument/drama/”excitement” drag out.

    Men should be smart enough to smell this rotten behavior from the onset, smirk at her, turn their backs and walk away. But no, they raise their voice in return or worse yet apologize profusely or explain themselves, etc. etc.
    Just stoking that illogical fire…
    Shameful.

    The #1 calling card for the women who exude this behavior?
    “I hate drama.”
    (Sure you do…)

  • Joe

    If you want to proselytize you should do better than one liners. Lead by example and teach these men something. Be the salt and light show them how- you gotta remember more and more younger men aren’t brought up and taught about God today just education and pop culture is all many know.

  • Yelena_in_DC

    Roosh, your blog cracks me up. I only discovered it two weeks ago and I know it’s meant for the male audience but most of the time I swear you are writing for me. I am a female in my twenties that grew up in Ukraine (a city you have not visited yet), moved to the suburbs of MD (did you by chance go to Montgomery County?), attended UMD like you and now live in DC. I have caught up on quite a bit of your written material and almost every piece makes me re-examine myself and my surroundings and question whether I am getting too “Americanized.” Though usually my family is good about keeping me in check on that front, it’s hard not to form into the “container” one lives in. Since you keep writing on my demographic, I might have to start throwing in my two cents on occasion. Obviously I don’t agree with everything you write, most of the time I’m just torn, sometimes I learn something, but I am definitely always entertained. As long as you keep the misogyny to a minimum and Ukrainian-women-praising to a maximum, I’ll be coming back to read.

  • splooge

    this maybe new to you whites. but those of us that come from arrange marraige cultures,already known this for at least 30 yrs sibce we started settlibg ib tge west. these countrys really ruin women and youll have to be hyper aggressive and game hard to keep it in check. ive known guys that were passive and became beta or divorced both resulting in lousy kids turned adults(cause women cant discipline kids right). the ones that have them in check the kids grew to be pretty successful and seemed more normal.
    she will be more difficult cause she never had thosre options so she will go overboard.
    eg: say cultrally its unnaceptable for women to drink and club;guess what shell drink like a fish and became a club rat(worst possible kind cuz shell want to try eeevvverrything).

  • asshole

    This is beyond ridiculous, especially your last sentence (poverty striken men focus on connecting deeply with women)…only a woman could have written that horse sh*t/Disney script.

  • Twin Fusion

    Damn, so well written. There are so many historical parallels contoured into this piece which nail it. Articulates the true reasons why women on their own don’t have the vision or capacity to move civilization forward via the strong family unit. That responsibility goes to us K selected men.

  • BigBoobyLovah
  • supramax

    I was just thinking today how talking women & dating & sex sometimes to some of my married friends is like holding a nice frosty beer in front of a well and strongly recovered alcoholic. The costs are so great for them to stray ….and I don’t think that’s a bad thing at all, but they are so enormous for a man that the more sensible ones don’t even want to be around that kind of discussion too much.

    BUT – gotta take this a level or two deeper. Men initiate 20% of divorces vs. women initatiating 80% (in case anyone wanted me to do the math). Is it because men are happier in marriage than women ? maybe a little, but from my friends who have been hung out to dry in divorces it’s because they’ll lose the handle on their kids, are at a pronounced disadvantage in the courts with regards to their kids, are financially ruined by having to provide child support if not alimony, not to mention all the extras that come when they have the kids (furniture, activities, food). It’s left all my divorced friends broke.

    Getting back to Roosh’s post: Women, on the other hand are the ones who GET the support after a divorce so their incentives are aligned with divorcing and provided they are decent looking enough to still get sex, they don’t give up much if you look at the priorities Roosh describes for American women. The men lose and the kids lose but the solipsistic women lose the least and that’s why it happens that 80% are initiated by women who aren’t haaaappy.

    She’s got this below totally covered even if she has kids and men are then highly replaceable companionship & sex. Their behavior, by in large, is governed accordingly:

    2. Food, Shelter, & Clothing — It’s not such a simple matter for a Ukrainian girl to have all her survival needs automatically met, especially in this time of civil strife, so she has to put strenuous effort into securing them.
    The women got their deal but the cost is sensible, educated, productive, high achieving men, the ones you want reproducing in society, are reluctant to commit to such a deal but often do. Regardless there is no denying that the birthrate of that class is declining – I don’t even need to look at the stats. The stats of the USA as a whole is meaningless, but that class, the ones who produce so much, is not replenishing itself.

  • Roosh_V

    Email me pics

  • preppin

    Uh, NO!

    We have an actual case study to refer to.

    Go back to 1933 and examine film, pictures, and interviews of real men from that period, The Great Depression, and see how many of them were leaving bread lines, soup lines, job lines, etc to go “connect” with a female. This was the quintessential period in American history when men’s needs were NOT being met by the society that just years before seemed like there was

    Perhaps I just misunderstand your definition of “connecting deeply with women.”

  • Laguna Beach Fogey

    Perhaps you and your people should stop settling in the West.

  • arnold
  • Yelena_in_DC

    if you insist

  • badel sharma

    Thats not funny !

  • Joe Dick

    American woman (as well as most British and Australian etc women) : the summing up of the total dumbass woman. Shallow, conceited, arrogant, materialistic, likes to waste her time with stupid shit , irrational (in a bad way). In short, the complete dumbass.

  • Aslan Naurzbai

    when i read about this ukrainian ladder, i want to LAUGH, i respect you Roosh, but clearly ukrainian girls dont’ think about GOD,higher being etc.

    I m from Kazakhstan, post soviet and close to Russia/Ukraine etc, we still speak russian in Kz. I m PRODUCT of post soviet culture + some westernization(me in canada now)
    Ukrainian girls dont’ think about GOD, they simply have similar demands – secure promising man, better rich, get luxury life etc.

    They are not into spirituality, church etc. They are already mostly westernized

    Even russians think of many ukrainian girls as whores (ukr. girls work in Europe/russia as whores) Now, it is the brand of Ukraine – slutty women fucking any guy with money.
    I laugh at how you put them high – they are just regular girls looking for ‘promising’ guys

  • kevin10289

    makes sense, but i believe since there is a division of men there is at least a total of 3 lists.

    and so each man would have to make their own individual list which could then be used to identify the overlapping interests of the human male thought process map. or list.

    0-peace/love/expansion/______________________or lack of
    1- goal/plan/dream/purpose/___________________or lack of
    2-resources/knowledge/emotional priorities/________or lack of
    3-authority/status/power/following/ _____________or lack of
    4-power sharing/sexual pleasure/procreation/______or lack of
    5-peace/love/expansion/_____________________or lack of

    the lack of a driving force in a man is itself a driving force.
    0 and 5 everything is a cycle
    love is not an emotion, it is the balance of nature
    everything that is good expends or evolves

    emotional priorities are logical emotional loopholes
    like honor and dignity

  • kevin10289

    of course you mean 90% of them right?

  • LH Rock

    “If you want women to focus on climbing the Ukrainian ladder and seek your approval instead of the American ladder where women seek to paint you as a patriarchal misogynist creep, you must withhold or limit the ability of all women to procure enough resources that they’re completely assured of their next day’s bread or shelter.”

    This is hilarious because intentionally withholding resources from women in order to force them to be subjugated to you is actually the perfect definition of a patriarchal misogynist.

    Anytime you control resources and limit a group’s access to those resources, you can subjugate that group and force them to do your bidding. This is true for any human, hell, any animal. Women, men, black, white, adults, children, doesn’t matter. But once they have their own resources and don’t have to kiss your ass anymore, they won’t. As soon as they can get away from you and live how they want to, not how you want them to, they will. Is this really a surprise?

    People who can meet their own needs hang out with others based on choice and liking them, not out of necessity. The fact that you think that’s a bad thing for anyone is sad. You would rather force someone to pander to you by making them dependent and desperate, rather trying to be a person who is likeable and enjoyable enough that people want to be around you out of their own volition.

    The irony is that your thesis that men can wield oppressive economic power over women in order to extract subservience, obedience, and sexual access is actually classic feminist theory. They’ve always argued that women aren’t *naturally* chaste, demure, and subservient but have only had to behave that way out of economic necessity.

    Also, the general slave-mentality hungering in the comments for a society characterized by economic desperation, punitive familial bonds, and fear for one’s physical safety is really pathetic. I guess it’s true that freedom is an intolerable state for most people.

  • quino

    I can’t see this article on Chrome, but I can see it on firefox. Does anyone else have this problem?

  • anonymous

    What you conveniently forget/ignore is that the freedom you enjoy is wholly subsidized by the men you deride.

    We either have a society that does its best to cater to its most productive members (largely white beta men), or we have no society. Pick one.

  • rainboe

    From you point of view, Your basically saying that American Girls are spoiled mother fukers and Ukrainian Girls are modest human beings that think rationally and actually care about their future…. I agree and would like to marry a Ukrainian girl.
    One interesting point you mentioned was Poland which was a hybrid of these two countries. I would like to add that many of the developed “tiger” countries in Asia also follow the hybrid pattern. Countries like Korea, Taiwan, Japan, and Singapore. It’s interesting how the needs of women manifest different value systems women hold and how it affects the interaction with males, and ultimately affects the outcome of ones’ personality.

  • Jones

    I am reminded of Denis Diderot’s story about acquiring a nicely crafted leisurely chamber robe, which led him to change his living arrangements in order to bring them into synch with it …

    Denis Diderot’s “Regrets sur ma vieille robe de chambre”:
    http://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Regrets_sur_ma_vieille_robe_de_chambre
    http://www.inlibroveritas.net/telecharger/pdf_domaine_public/oeuvre2921.html
    (and it’s probably available on iTunes, etc.)

    It’s a metaphor that carries over to the “female hierarchy of needs”. It also connects with your latest piece about the “glittering skirt” that men have become to casting couch-focused women as well as your piece about men with options.

    I have options — I don’t need the fancy robe.

    I don’t need to realign the rest of my life in order to create space for the robe’s continued existence.

    I don’t need a “deep connection” to something that is potentially corrosive to my being, such as what may occur if I tolerate the robe’s existence in my environs for too long.

    I may have traditional values, even so-called conservative values, but they certainly do not apply to hooking myself up with this “robe” or the next …

    Most certainly they do not apply at all to the inevitable cleaning and passing on of the robe.

  • jyoung

    you are, quite literally, an evil human being. it was a revelation to me: the best word to describe this man is “evil”.

  • KDnYYC

    Are you sure the problem isn’t with both genders, depending on where one lives? People in general are incredibly stupid, materialistic and phony these days. I live in Calgary and the characteristics you listed you listed could be said for every man I’ve had the misfortune of attempting to date or get to know since I’ve moved back here from Washington DC four years ago. There’s very few single men who have any sort of advanced degree, are interested in spiritual matters, political theory. By God don’t expect them to form an original thought beyond a one-line text message, that would imply you’re trying to get them to make some pre-mature commitment. It really comes down to the supply-demand of intelligent beings and there is a dearth in general.

  • Marlon G.

    Hey, I live in Calgary….email me pics please

  • hallan

    Not really. Feminism idiocy is not recognizing the true reason why men oppress women. Access to children. Men would have killed off all women long ago, if it weren’t for this inconvenient fact. And when the artificial womb is created the female sex will become an expensive luxuary, as their only utility then would be to serve men sexually.

  • Sam

    What has made you so bitter to the entirety of the female sex..?

  • SmackMe

    I’m an American woman who wants heroin and European-American dick. Fuck the rest. I want intense pleasure and the only other pursuits of mine are means to that end.

  • a

    “If you want women to focus on climbing the Ukrainian ladder and seek your approval instead of the American ladder where women seek to paint you as a patriarchal misogynist creep, you must withhold or limit the ability of all women to procure enough resources that they’re completely assured of their next day’s bread or shelter.”

    the funniest shit I’ve ever read

  • Tony Trucano

    If you put a feminine, sweet woman in the wrong “container,” I wrote, she will take the shape of that container.

    What happens when the inverse is true? Put a masculine woman in a feminine society. American women in foreign countries.

  • Tony Trucano

    I assume you label yourself intelligent?