Awwwwwwwww. What if you guys got back together? Would things be better?

I find it very funny how we can use any experience as an excuse to do what we’ve always wanted to. It’s all a matter of will. As is the will to quit when we have enough reasons to do so.

that was amazing. thank you for sharing Roosh.

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I’m in line w no. 86, very sad. My advice is just don’t use women this way. Just don’t use women period because it hurts you too. All those girls you rate as less than 10 – you have no idea who they really are and you’ll never have their friendship or love. Get to know yourself and just stop having all this disgusting mindless and heartless and loveless sex. Or don’t listen to me and die of aids somewhere in a gutter.

Wow, I find this sad. My advice, say no to sex for a while you are only hurting yourself more every time. Concentrate on yourself, through meditation, travel, camping, whatever works for you. What you are looking for is love for your self with all its faults not love towards your egotistic self.

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Hey man,
did you ever think that if you just loved a girl completely for her, she woulnd’t dump you? Your talking about how your pissed that a girl dumped you because you liked the love that she gave you. Everybody needs love. Love is the most powerful of all emotions and im sure a all hell you wouldnt have cheated on your girlfriend if some random girl gave you an offer to bang you. Maybe if you just find a nice girl, and love her for her(because girls need it to)she will gain security through your love, and one day love you back for you…..love does exist, its just so few poeple experience because everyones wrapped up in their own insecurities to truly love someone for who they are……

I completely understand Roosh – I am falling into that rabbit hole and it does not feel good. More experience, no love. It sucks but it keeps you going – like a junkie.

I can’t help but wonder if this is the way it’s suppossed to be. After much persistance we finally open our hearts and sooner or later we’re resented for it. It’s pushed away. Women tell us things like “Don’t be needy, be a man, be mysterious, take charge, don’t react, make me look cool by being with you, etc.” And we give them these things. For those of us that don’t know how (myself included, we thrust ourselves into literature and communities like this that will teach us how to do these things…to give women what they want. And we get good at it. So good at it…that suddenly we have women, women who wouldn’t even give us the time of day before, now suddenly lining up around the corner for us to give them what they want. And in return they give us sex as the reward for a job well done. Like a high five and a smack on the ass after hitting a home run and returning to the dugout hearing “Good game.” Because sex is what we want, right? And once we get it from whoever we want whenever we want we’re happy, right? At least for a while. Each lay represents a shovelfull of dirt to throw on the old memory of having your heart torn to pieces once upon a time. But there’s a sadness to those girls lining up around the corner…what happens when you put the technique aside and decide to open your heart? Connect? Be human? Is that allowed in this whole arms race of attraction? Or will that be pushed away too? I wonder.

excellent post…

Cheers.

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and, importantly, they’re only products of their environments. American girls are born as innocent as Brazilian girls – they are conditioned and socialized to be jacked in the head. Their environments are the same as our environments – a cultural wasteland with ‘asteroid belts of garbage’, otherwise known as ‘America’:

http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/121

guys in their 30′s talking about “flags”, “notches”, and referring to adult women as “girls”… it’s a weird subculture and rather pathetic (at times). these blog entries are interesting, informative sometimes, usually well-written, and generate good comments (mine notwithstanding). that’s why it was refreshing to see introspection with this post and an expression of humanity (and honesty)

I don’t see the world as a man vs. woman battle for dominance. In that, we differ. I get sick of ‘game’ posts, but I also get sick of Cosmo magazine telling women they can hang on to their boyfriends by doing 47 acrobatic things to him per night. I was a bit of a date-aholic when I was younger, I burned out and moved on.

There’s a point where you decide to just be yourself, and let the chips fall where they may. You opt out. And that’s usually the point where good relationships start to enter your life.

Basically, play the game all you want, but if the game is all you want, learn to live inside the void.

Shannon’s last blog post: Crazy Sex-Starved Women!!!!.