Maybe its time for a new hobby – optimism, perhaps.

Funny how for so long your purpose in life had been to:
A) to bang women…

…when one of your cardinal rules is to:

B) not put women on a pedestal.

The hypocrisy there is blinding.

You got played by your own want of the pu$$y. Women played you or should I say WOMANKIND played you. They had something you wanted and you went and sucked it dry of its life-giving elixir rather than taking it in well-rationed doses from longer term relationships from which you would learn the next level-up in human experience; compassion and empathy. Yes, you played a watered-down, skin-n-bones version of the structure at the core of all human interaction, but in that form, as you’ve found, it can’t be sustained. It’s about having all your balls in the air at the same time, concurrently developing multi-levels. You stripped your life down to the barest of material essentials to play a game that was human meaning at its barest of essentials. If it’s any wonder as to the fucked up nature of the available pool of women it’s because they’ve been waiting for the guys to stop sating their c0ck$ and to start engaging in that old “beta male game” of sating women’s emotions. You’ll find that route, essentially, is far more lucrative venture along with being more intellectually demanding of you so you get something out of it by exercising your mind which is NECESSARY if you plan on living past 60yo with your brain(or even just the capacity for experiencing your finer, subtler, life-affirming emotions) still in tact. It’s all mutually beneficial. Many women are a mess at the same age as you because they are more highly sensitive(socially, emotionally, “cognitively”) but that’s only because they are biologically capable of being a great sounding-board for how well your “game” is holding up. And don’t storylines become more complex and rewarding the more details are incorporated? (a woman’s keen memory keeping you on your toes to keep the “narrative” fresh and interesting for her). And I’m not talking about demoting to beta-male status to please some ball-busting nag… but creating something you yourself AND a well-chosen woman wants in this world. “Date coaching services” sounds good: now evolve it into a “counseling clinic” and hunt for a degreed professional that could enrich that saleable process and that’s the woman you need to get with to make this last decade of your life live on after your book(s) and Starbux coaching classes.
But this idea of the “annoying fractured girl”… that’s only part of the view which happens to be from the perspective of a “self-serving, small-plans boy”. So a relationship that benefits you both in the long run: that’s what you’ve thus far failed to make room to incorporate into your canvas. Which is why it’s so very simplistic right now and leading to cognitive decay (the first signs of which are this depression; I’m up-to-date in reading March 2, 2009.).
Learnin’ new stuff and reading literature in your free time … it gets pointless without a greater use beyond fodder for chatting up the next pu$$y. “Knowledge” has to have a more complex and integrated relationship to your goal/purpose/actions than that old payoff.
But believe me when I say no one can hold any of it against you since if I remember right you were brought up by parents that tainted that relationship format and I know quite well the limits that *nurture*(ie: developmental experience bias) has on the shape of perceived possibilities in life.
If I seem condescending or patronizing it’s only because I myself am the moron, not you…it’s not even meant to be implied in subtext or anything, either. Just more anonymity dissolving the borders of good taste in advice. You’ve done some amazing work and spun and cut your own cloth when others just buried themselves to cover their nakedness, so to speak. Make enough for two and she’ll do the stitching.
All the best.

I just found your blog, and find your views pretty similar to mine. Ever since finding the pick up community a few years ago, I went from being ok with women to being able to hook-up with girls I never would have dreamed of a few years ago. My entire reality shifted, and it was a fun time. Nowadays though I tend to find myself somewhat jaded and unmotivated. When showing some of my buddies pictures of the women I’ve been with and telling them ‘yeah she is hot, but I don’t really like her’ they all tell me ‘wtf is wrong with you I’d put up with her shit just to date her’ LOL and here I am with a hot girl and I don’t even care about her cause they are a dime a dozen. And what happened to my goal of eventually settling down with one woman? Well that’s gone too. Like a previous poster said ‘why oh why didn’t I take the BLUE pill’

Start helping others. It’s that simple. No need to run off to another country right now. Your best place to change your gears is right where you are.

Oaks’s last blog post: New Apartment So Far….

Sounds like you’re distressed, but this happens to everyone.

Women become dramatically less fertile around age 30.

Men, too, have less desire for sex as they reach age 30 or so.

It’s always been this way. Consider this excerpt from Malcolm X’s autobiography where he discusses working as a pimp in New York City in the mid-1940′s: “The prostitutes had to make it their business to be students of men. They said that after most men passed their virile twenties, they went to bed mainly to satisfy their egos, and because a lot of women don’t understand it that way, they damage and wreck a man’s ego. No matter how little virility a man has to offer, prostitutes make him feel for a time that he is the greatest man in the world. That’s why these prostitutes had that morning rush of business. More wives could keep their husbands if they realized their greatest urge is to be men.”

T. AKA Ricky Raw’s last blog post: A Work In Progress: The Raw Truths.

Do me a favor. Actually, you can get a pretty good idea from The G Manifesto.

“No one really see’s anything about you on your blog.”

It’s by design.

“maybe an “about me”section should be put in your site G.”

You can deduce it from the writings.

“But I guess Id rather not want to know really.Maybe your just a regular joe just like the rest of us dreaming of fantasy land.”

Believe it if it makes you feel better.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Real Hip-Hop: Shyheim, On And On feat June Luva.

#78
at least your being honest but “who are you exactly’?
No one really see’s anything about you on your blog.
maybe an “about me”section should be put in your site G.
But I guess Id rather not want to know really.Maybe your just a regular joe just like the rest of us dreaming of fantasy land.

I couldn’t agree more. Many times I feel like mentally I am so far out of the typical American consciousness its crazy.

In fact I know I am. But I am fine with that.

“Maybe i should watch more Mtv cribs and read a bunch of GQ mags and Source mag”

All wrong.

Only watch Mtv cribs to do research to heist people.

GQ: written by gay guys. Not like there is anything wrong with being gay, but its the wrong road.

Source: Fake hip hop mag. No Value there.

Read The G Manifesto.

And Roosh’s blog of course.

- MPM

The G Manifesto’s last blog post: Real Hip-Hop: Shyheim, On And On feat June Luva.

#67
Hmm?/Hey Ive tried to read your blog and it sorta flys right over my head like a space shuttle in orbit.
if you notice here,roosh is getting a shit load(sorry roosh i didnt mean to curse on your blog)
responses on this current post.
Yes people ARE deppressed!its why so manly have responded because so many are feeling it now adays.
Pussy wont really remedy it either,and that is what Roosh is basically saying from the heart.
I respect your blog style G manifesto,but I m not sure if you really are “on the pulse”of what is going on in most peoples current realities in the day by day.
Maybe i should watch more Mtv cribs and read a bunch of GQ mags and Source mag etc.. to understand you but This “magnificent lifestyle” is a small percentage of folks in our population not most of us out here who are out of work in this crappy economy,I lot of us dont care about flashy nigs with rented luxuary cars and platinum teeth in shit in their BS rap videos.Its pretty much Fantasy land.They all go back home to their trophy wives they met when they were in college who may leave them any day,and have 2-3 mistresses on the side.Whoopee! thats great for them,and most of us arent envious of them either,America doesnt care.
But I guess thats why its a free counrty so everyone has the right to say what they want.Roosh will come around im sure, everyone does.

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Have family with the US Embassy and they have been in a bunch of places. The word among the circuit is the farther east you go, the more beautiful the women.

Made a mistake when I had a biz event to go to in Ireland (only the stouter heavier female genes survived the famine) and didn’t take up the invitation I had to go to Bucharest, Romania where family was stationed.

My uncle who was married said that if he wasn’t, that Bucharest would have changed that. The also had been in Warsaw and I missed that too. But their last jaunt was in Kiev, Ukraine and I made that one right during the Orange Revolution.

It was winter but it didn’t matter. I never saw so many beautiful women and so many with that “American girl next door” look in my life.

Since I was staying with family I couldn’t really explore much on my own. But if I get another chance….. it’s going to be a permanent solution. My buddy chides me and makes jokes about mail order brides (he’s a remarried beta) but I have family roots there and I said it ain’t mail order baby if you go back to the old country and find a beautiful lady.

2009 is make or break I’ve decided.

Of course the sugary soft powder snow isn’t forgotten when you come back. But then again, do you really want to forget how to discriminate from amongst the bad attitudes. A lot of women here will let that genie out of the bottle and quick.

Globalization should be making an impact here too in a new way.

Eastern Europe is very strong. I’ve been to alot of European countries and the girls of Eastern Europe are the best looking. The problem w/those places are once you start dating a beautiful, stylish, eager to please Eastern European girl American girls are pretty much ruined forever. Its like skiing Aspen, then coming back to the east coast and going to Whitetail. You get there and pretty much realize its going to suck.

Imagine if all the effort and thought put into analyzing Roosh was directed at something like global warming or the economic crisis…

@46 he probably is. still, made for interesting discussion.

Only problem with LA and South Beach is that if you want to live by the code of your zipper, yes you w ill find inspiration, without a doubt.

But you will not find a more shallow and self-centered group of biyatches in all the world. Hell, you can’t even find a bookstore in South Beach.

When my buddy went to LA to be a writer, he lived in West Hollywood. We get on the elevator in his building and in comes some typical LA hottie. No words exchanged. When she gets out he said he sees her all the time but she never says hi. In LA the exodus of hot chicks there is self-absorbed to the max. And if a chick doesn’t think you can get her work and move her ahead then there’s no reason for her to even talk to you. My buddy was married but regardless.

And in South Beach, you can do a lot better with the internationals who come there. The hot locals well the only thing that gets those chicks hot is the scent of green as in cash.

The Cuban women are the exception. They are just lovely.

My little time in DC suggests that the women with most favored status must be the hookers. It’s like the dead zone down there. Every four or five thinks they are a seven or eight depending on what Federal Agency they work for or something.

You know lads there is something that is more valuable than a notch anyway. It’s called a connection. If you are fortunate enough to find it in a solid package then you are truly at the height of Maslow’s pyramid.

If it’s the right one, the sun will shine brighter, your breathing is a little deeper and everything taste better. If you are wrong of course you are in for a hard lesson to be learned.

As for the player in “The Wedding Singer” I hope no one goes off that ledge. That guy went from player to beta in record speed.

Roosh you are probably better off in a foreign land where the hottie has a purer view of life and has not been polluted by Cosmpolitan magazine, TV Shopping networks and the decayed culture we call western civilization.

I speak of the land of the beauties with the “girl next door” charm: Eastern Europe.

There now I’ve said it and you need to write me a check for I have shown you the path grasshopper.