For some reason girls don’t punish a man who aggressively tries to get her into the sack—as long as she likes him. Let me share two examples:

1. I got a girl in bed the same night I met her, but encountered heavy resistance in the bedroom where I couldn’t take off her panties. I tried repeatedly, enough to where she threatened to leave, but kept trying anyway. She didn’t leave, and the morning after I tried again. Still nothing. We banged the next date.

2. I met a Brazilian girl at a dinner party. We kissed quickly (no surprise), and then I made her a strong drink which sent her to the edge of unconsciousness. I escorted her home, weaseled my way into her room, and tried to get things going on the bed. Unfortunately she was too drunk, so it felt like I was trying to reanimate a corpse, but I didn’t care because I wanted to get laid. She told me to get her number instead, I did, and we banged on the next date.

In these cases I basically came across as a borderline creep, but the girls still wanted to see me. Compare that to the beliefs I had as a young man, where I thought that you should never offend a girl by pushing too hard for sex. My real world experience says the opposite—that girls reward men who try to get them in bed. If a girl likes you, and then finds out you are sexually attracted to her, she becomes even more attracted to you. If a girl doesn’t like you, and finds out you are sexually attracted to her, she becomes less attracted to you. Therefore if there is mutal interest, attempting sex only makes her like you more. I don’t know why this is, but I know that I’m never punished for aggressively trying to sleep with a girl that I like.

Going after what you want is always the correct move.

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