Same story both ways. Treat a boy like a Saint Bernard and you get their phone number.

Sounds like you should date a cougar. ;)

fanfrickingtastic’s last blog post: On this day: four years ago.

I’m not saying I’m going to jump into bed with every guy who’s a complete ass, but it sure makes me want to show him what he’s missing out on by giving me the brush off.

And once you’re past the initial treats-you-like-a-dick phase, you either find that he’s actually a good guy and has read some ridiculous blog telling him that treating a girl like a dick is a good way to attract women and thought it sounded like fun, or he’s actually just an ass. I tend to weed the latter ones out. The former are usually alot of fun.

Right, because Cosmo is such a reliable source of information.

Check out this link. Cut & paste.
I Guess You’ll Do

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTkp9UqVVHs

Hahaha, no, smart and educated girls put up with / enjoy asshole behavior too. Go to an Ivy League school, or Wall St., and ask girls if their bfs treat them sweetly, as though they were precious princesses.

Dumber, less-educated girls likely respond to a more physical type of asshole (a thug, biker dude, etc.), but smart girls respond to verbal assholishness.

agnostic’s last blog post: Men and women can be “just friends,” if she’s pretty.

AND she still won’t admit she likes assholes.

Bobby Rio’s last blog post: Drake’s Tech Tips- The Shrug.

I had several potential clients that tried to pull the spec work trick on me, telling me they had several designers working on concepts for them. They told me that what work I should do for them, and I would be competing with these other designers. If they picked my design concept, I’d get paid, and if they didn’t, well they still have my work.

I told those clients to fuck off, nicely. I’m worth way more than that, and they weren’t charities cases that I’d work for pro bono. One of them tried to tell me afterwards it was a misunderstanding and wanted to work with me on something else, but I gave a firm no. They can go pull this crap on someone else, but not on me. I’m not going to be taken advantage of or to be stomped on by such sleaze.

Grow a spine. You’ll be happier for it.

Shannon’s last blog post: Crazy Sex-Starved Women!!!!.

I really do wish that treating women like equals yielded decent results. Sadly, treating them like crap is the only surefire, consistent way to maintain their desire. I personally don’t treat women like crap on purpose, but occasionally I let fly accidental asshole behavior. It always wets their panties. Perverse I tell you… perverse is the female mind.

Whenever I write a post like this, there is never one comment from a girl who says, “Yeah i agree, i like it when a guy treats me like shit.”

So what does that say about girls………

Well i think they simply don’t know their own buttons. There’s the buttons they WANT to have, and the ones they do, which they think they shouldn’t have.

They rationalize it… “he was just standing up for himself” and NOT “he treated me like a whore.”

Doesn’t matter to me what a girl thinks works on her though. Just the fact that it works, and i will keep doing it.

You also can’t take her giving herself to you as any validation of your true self, because you
weren’t *being* your true self – you were playing
the Game.

Of course, getting laid is great, but that gets
old after awhile (although – *not* getting laid gets way older way faster.)

I suggest that instead of Game,
you just try your best to
dance like nobody’s watching
and love like you’ve never been hurt.

The bars of DC might not be the best
place for that sort of thing. A city that
lives entirely on politics and government
contracts is going to be inherently phony
no matter what you do. (Yes, I’m a former
DC resident.)

Where to go?

Try the Shambalha festival in Canada.
Maybe Burning Man.
There are lots of good places.

That reminds me of a cosmo article I read. The premise that like dogs men can be trained. And of course I can’t find the link for it now.

Ava V’s last blog post: Tips for the Fellas.

Beach Bum’s last blog post: One more bites the dust….

A lot of women today are teaching men to treat them like dirty whores and sluts because the guys who treat them like that are the guys they’re flirting with and opening their legs up to. Women must change before men can change.

“The biggest risk involved in teaching people how to treat you is the risk that some of them might go away. Some friends might not call you anymore. Some clients might leave. You have to be willing to surrender those things that aren’t in alignment with how you want to be treated. They necessarily must go away. And the test is to let them.

This is why I don’t have much of my birth family in my life. I won’t let them treat me the way they want to, and they won’t treat me a different way; I’d rather give up my family than be treated badly. That’s my choice, and I take responsibility for the consequences.”