Previously I tried to calculate my cost per notch by dividing the amount of money I spent on dates and girl within a period of time by the number of girls I banged. It was fun to calculate and helped me realize that I could be a lot more frugal and still get laid a lot, but recently I thought about it a bit more.
The reason I exist is to reproduce. In other words everything that I do in life, no matter how unrelated to the act of getting laid, is a cost against getting laid. Whether that is renting an apartment, shopping for a shirt, eating a post-dinner snack, taking a language class, or buying a book, it should all be counted towards my cost per notch. The apartment provides a space to bang my girl. The shirt is how I present myself to the girl. The snack provides sustenance to give me a pleasing appearance. The language class enables me to communicate. The book makes me a more cultured person able to have conversation with girls. And so on. The purpose for my entire being is for the act of sex, so everything that comes with being should be counted towards sex.
The true cost per notch is your total expenses for life divided by girls banged.
Because I have detailed spending budgets saved for many years in Excel, I can give you a rough number for my true cost per notch.
First five months of 2009: $1,400
That’s a 78% reduction in getting laid cost from 2006 to 2009. I attribute this entirely to game and niche finding. While I don’t recommend you spend thousands of dollars on a dubious workshop, my data shows that you can save yourself many times that if you advance to a high level of game. It’s too costly not to learn, as the guys with TCPN’s in the high five digits can probably tell you.