Comments on: What To Do If She Has A Boyfriend http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:54:54 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Brandon http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-23441 Brandon Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:59:30 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-23441 This happened to me last night. Me and the girl started making out and we were watching a Shot at Love (I know, lame). I asked her if she had ever been in love. She told me that she had been in love. I asked how long ago it was since they had broken up. She gave me a weird look and didn't say anything for a while. I put two and two together and said, "So you are still together?" She is from Ecudor, and that is where her boyfriend is. She went on about how she felt her boyfriend (of two years) has changed her and she felt like she needed a break, but she still really loved him. Half way through the night she said, "I should just enjoy tonight, because I don't know if we can do this anymore." She was very intimite with me the whole night. She was kissing me like we were dating, and touching me all over. By the end of the night, she was still stuck with the whole, "This is the last night we are going to do this," but then insisted on getting my number and hanging out tonight. I have a feeling last night wasn't going to be the last night. Any thoughts? This happened to me last night. Me and the girl started making out and we were watching a Shot at Love (I know, lame). I asked her if she had ever been in love. She told me that she had been in love. I asked how long ago it was since they had broken up. She gave me a weird look and didn’t say anything for a while. I put two and two together and said, “So you are still together?” She is from Ecudor, and that is where her boyfriend is. She went on about how she felt her boyfriend (of two years) has changed her and she felt like she needed a break, but she still really loved him. Half way through the night she said, “I should just enjoy tonight, because I don’t know if we can do this anymore.” She was very intimite with me the whole night. She was kissing me like we were dating, and touching me all over. By the end of the night, she was still stuck with the whole, “This is the last night we are going to do this,” but then insisted on getting my number and hanging out tonight. I have a feeling last night wasn’t going to be the last night. Any thoughts?

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-22971 Anonymous Fri, 06 Jun 2008 20:38:40 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-22971 This is disgusting. I'm so glad not all guys are like this. This is disgusting. I’m so glad not all guys are like this.

]]> By: ibegtodiffer http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19351 ibegtodiffer Tue, 08 Apr 2008 13:46:33 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19351 Jewcano: If she weren't willing to cheat on her boyfriend for your one night stand, would you still be interested in being her friend? Or does everyone believe that you can't make new friends of the opposite sex past graduation? Jewcano: If she weren’t willing to cheat on her boyfriend for your one night stand, would you still be interested in being her friend?

Or does everyone believe that you can’t make new friends of the opposite sex past graduation?

]]> By: vh http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19350 vh Tue, 08 Apr 2008 09:14:50 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19350 <i>...I was young and immature then and don’t really do that anymore. I have morals now.</i> well, if that's the case, lemme know when you write a book about it so i can throw out my artistotle …I was young and immature then and don’t really do that anymore. I have morals now.

well, if that’s the case, lemme know when you write a book about it so i can throw out my artistotle

]]> By: JScore http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19348 JScore Tue, 08 Apr 2008 05:35:36 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19348 Hey, Just want to say I love your blog. Pretty much same situation as you (29 yo, just quit my job, and going to South America next week for some time). As far as the chasing girls w/boyfriends, I don't really bother unless the girl is extremely open and makes herself available. So I will engage them, but I will not go out of my way. Keep up the good work. Hey,

Just want to say I love your blog. Pretty much same situation as you (29 yo, just quit my job, and going to South America next week for some time).

As far as the chasing girls w/boyfriends, I don’t really bother unless the girl is extremely open and makes herself available. So I will engage them, but I will not go out of my way.

Keep up the good work.

]]> By: Cob http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19347 Cob Tue, 08 Apr 2008 03:55:41 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19347 meant as constructive criticism, but I have to agree with the web marketing commenter. Personally I think it would be a LOT more effective if you were succinct in the sales pitch, and let your book and word of mouth do the talking for you. meant as constructive criticism, but I have to agree with the web marketing commenter.

Personally I think it would be a LOT more effective if you were succinct in the sales pitch, and let your book and word of mouth do the talking for you.

]]> By: Jewcano http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19346 Jewcano Tue, 08 Apr 2008 00:37:45 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19346 Girls with boyfriends are good for one night stands, and little else; if they're willing to put out they've already demonstrated they're not worth the slightest commitment. I used to consider it the height of scumminess to continue hitting on girls after they lift the BF shield until I figured out they would be retreating from the field if they weren't actively looking for action. I still find it seriously distasteful. <em>Jewcano's last blog post: <a href='http://thec-and-c.blogspot.com/2008/03/amnesty-means-amnesty.html' rel="nofollow">Amnesty Means Amnesty...</a>.</em> Girls with boyfriends are good for one night stands, and little else; if they’re willing to put out they’ve already demonstrated they’re not worth the slightest commitment. I used to consider it the height of scumminess to continue hitting on girls after they lift the BF shield until I figured out they would be retreating from the field if they weren’t actively looking for action. I still find it seriously distasteful.

Jewcano’s last blog post: Amnesty Means Amnesty….

]]> By: web marketing question http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19345 web marketing question Tue, 08 Apr 2008 00:32:53 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19345 the following question is not meant as criticism but a genuine inquiry - how come the site for your book looks like every other online marketing cheesy scammy site? did you design it yourself - if so why did you choose that format? if you had it outsourced - why did you choose to do it that way? the following question is not meant as criticism but a genuine inquiry – how come the site for your book looks like every other online marketing cheesy scammy site? did you design it yourself – if so why did you choose that format? if you had it outsourced – why did you choose to do it that way?

]]> By: shadi http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19343 shadi Mon, 07 Apr 2008 22:03:06 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19343 *sitting back and grinning at the comment exchanges* vk: those are exactly the comments i appreciate from you. thank you for being you. wait what? best roosh line: "i have morals now." *sitting back and grinning at the comment exchanges*

vk: those are exactly the comments i appreciate from you. thank you for being you. wait what?

best roosh line: “i have morals now.”

]]> By: ??? http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19342 ??? Mon, 07 Apr 2008 22:03:00 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19342 looks like something happened, and the blog got in the middle looks like something happened, and the blog got in the middle

]]> By: Roosh http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19341 Roosh Mon, 07 Apr 2008 21:27:03 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19341 sa: Email me your city and I will get a shipping quote out to you. ibeg: There would be a lot of chaos if I let one experience change my opinion, so no, I'm not insinuating that. It's implied that there will be an exception or two. sa: Email me your city and I will get a shipping quote out to you.

ibeg: There would be a lot of chaos if I let one experience change my opinion, so no, I’m not insinuating that. It’s implied that there will be an exception or two.

]]> By: ibegtodiffer http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19340 ibegtodiffer Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:53:12 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19340 vkent: Keeping it classy. Roosh: You're insinuating your opinion would change based on said events from this weekend? vkent: Keeping it classy.

Roosh: You’re insinuating your opinion would change based on said events from this weekend?

]]> By: roissy http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19339 roissy Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:50:29 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19339 <i>she says, “I can’t… I have a boyfriend.” You respond: “Oh that’s fine with me.” AGREE, AGREE, AGREE.</i> for a while i was answering the BF objection with a line i got from some friends: "that's OK, so does my girlfriend." i've used this line at least 20 times and while it always makes the girl laugh i've found it doesn't do anything to advance the pickup. i think your line would work much better. it's simple, clear, and straighforward and gives you enough wiggle room to keep working her. agreeing and then doing what you were planning on doing anyhow screws with a girl's logical side. <em>roissy's last blog post: <a href='http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/04/07/the-perfect-woman/' rel="nofollow">The Perfect Woman</a>.</em> she says, “I can’t… I have a boyfriend.” You respond: “Oh that’s fine with me.” AGREE, AGREE, AGREE.

for a while i was answering the BF objection with a line i got from some friends:

“that’s OK, so does my girlfriend.”

i’ve used this line at least 20 times and while it always makes the girl laugh i’ve found it doesn’t do anything to advance the pickup. i think your line would work much better. it’s simple, clear, and straighforward and gives you enough wiggle room to keep working her. agreeing and then doing what you were planning on doing anyhow screws with a girl’s logical side.

roissy’s last blog post: The Perfect Woman.

]]> By: virgle kent http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19338 virgle kent Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:27:39 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19338 I couldn't be just friends with any girl that gives me a boner..... but that's just me Do friends get to play just the tip, wait what? I couldn’t be just friends with any girl that gives me a boner….. but that’s just me

Do friends get to play just the tip, wait what?

]]> By: Roosh http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19337 Roosh Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:22:36 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19337 ibegtodiffer: If i didn't care for her then i wouldn't pursue anything besides the same night. But.. if I thought she was cute and fun i'd pursue friendship as a way to get my octopus tentacles wrapped around her so i can create this emotional/intimate bond that lasts a lifetime. This post was written before saturday night. It excludes some recent.. experiences. :surprised: Also there is an box when you comment that allows a commenter to put in his or her email address........ ibegtodiffer:

If i didn’t care for her then i wouldn’t pursue anything besides the same night.

But.. if I thought she was cute and fun i’d pursue friendship as a way to get my octopus tentacles wrapped around her so i can create this emotional/intimate bond that lasts a lifetime.

This post was written before saturday night. It excludes some recent.. experiences. :surprised:
Also there is an box when you comment that allows a commenter to put in his or her email address……..

]]> By: ibegtodiffer http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19336 ibegtodiffer Mon, 07 Apr 2008 19:19:52 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19336 So, Roosh, you're not interested in a friendship? By that I mean a platonic relationship with a girl that is fun, genuine, witty and intelligent that happens to be taken? Seems to me that to dismiss the opportunity would be to sorely limit the variety of your friend-pool. I also think you’re selling yourself short because you’re assuming that the girl’s motivations, subconscious or not, are to cheat, when she may, in fact, find you, your conversations, your perspective stimulating ((gasp!)). I, personally, would be insulted if you assumed that I “subconsciously wanted to cheat” if I simply wanted to hang out and pick your brain and enjoy your company. So, Roosh, you’re not interested in a friendship? By that I mean a platonic relationship with a girl that is fun, genuine, witty and intelligent that happens to be taken? Seems to me that to dismiss the opportunity would be to sorely limit the variety of your friend-pool.

I also think you’re selling yourself short because you’re assuming that the girl’s motivations, subconscious or not, are to cheat, when she may, in fact, find you, your conversations, your perspective stimulating ((gasp!)). I, personally, would be insulted if you assumed that I “subconsciously wanted to cheat” if I simply wanted to hang out and pick your brain and enjoy your company.

]]> By: Seduction Chronicles http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19335 Seduction Chronicles Mon, 07 Apr 2008 18:34:53 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19335 On the money, yet again. <em>Seduction Chronicles's last blog post: <a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAttractionChroniclesBlog/~3/264287945/' rel="nofollow">10 Ways To Get Started With Game (Sinn Column)</a>.</em> On the money, yet again.

Seduction Chronicles’s last blog post: 10 Ways To Get Started With Game (Sinn Column).

]]> By: Matt Savage http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19334 Matt Savage Mon, 07 Apr 2008 17:49:04 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19334 I've been struggling with this lately, whether I should pursue girls in a relationship. It seems that girls who cheat on their boyfriends are not that happy about their current relationship and are looking for something better or something different. If this is the case, then I think pursuing the girl is ok, as the current relationship is already on the verge of falling apart. If a girl is in a great relationship then you probably wouldn't have the option to pursue her anyways, as Roosh says, she's already on cloud nine. So, basically it just works itself out, if that makes any sense... <em>Matt Savage's last blog post: <a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheModernSavage/~3/264739710/' rel="nofollow">Why You Should Light Your Thumb on Fire</a>.</em> I’ve been struggling with this lately, whether I should pursue girls in a relationship. It seems that girls who cheat on their boyfriends are not that happy about their current relationship and are looking for something better or something different. If this is the case, then I think pursuing the girl is ok, as the current relationship is already on the verge of falling apart. If a girl is in a great relationship then you probably wouldn’t have the option to pursue her anyways, as Roosh says, she’s already on cloud nine. So, basically it just works itself out, if that makes any sense…

Matt Savage’s last blog post: Why You Should Light Your Thumb on Fire.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19333 Anonymous Mon, 07 Apr 2008 15:52:28 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19333 girls with boyfriends or girls who are just coming out of relationships are easy to chase in a way. you don't have to worry about her laying on the commitment guilt girls with boyfriends or girls who are just coming out of relationships are easy to chase in a way. you don’t have to worry about her laying on the commitment guilt

]]> By: sa http://www.rooshv.com/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19332 sa Mon, 07 Apr 2008 15:26:50 +0000 http://www.rooshv.com/2008/what-to-do-if-she-has-a-boyfriend#comment-19332 Hey Roosh, Namaste from India. Following your blog for months and have to tell I love it. India is just waiting for it's own "game" revolution. That said, I really want your book but I emailed Lulu and they said they don't ship to India. Any workarounds? I will be going abroad soon I can get it still but my friends all want a copy. Hey Roosh,

Namaste from India. Following your blog for months and have to tell I love it. India is just waiting for it’s own “game” revolution. That said, I really want your book but I emailed Lulu and they said they don’t ship to India. Any workarounds? I will be going abroad soon I can get it still but my friends all want a copy.

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