16 Things I Realized About Washington DC In 2014

I took the advice of my peers and lived in Washington DC to better observe the city and its people. For one month in April I lived in between the Shaw and Convention Center metro stations. And in the case you’re new—this is in addition to living in the DC area for about 30 years. Here’s what I noticed:

99% of women are unattractive

I remember being in the Metro Center station on a Saturday night surrounded by a couple hundred people without being able to identify a single girl who was a 7 or above. At night at a medium-sized bar there is usually one or two 7’s and maybe an 8, but they are invariably inaccessible. If I lived in DC now, there would be lower motivation for me to work on my physique for the purpose of being more attractive to the low quality women I regularly see out.

On the other hand, there are pockets of very beautiful women floating around, which I did not see before. While they raise the average up, I did not see them regularly enough to figure out how to access them. My instinct is to say the average is slightly increasing, but the most beautiful girls are embedded in large groups and are hard to meet.

The white girls are utter slobs

In the relentless pursuit of their career, white girls are completely neglecting their appearance. Even if they happen to have a normal weight, their generic Gap style and use of flip flops and sneakers is inappropriate. I’m not into fashion, but I’m pretty sure I could be a consultant for these women, because as of now they seem to be dressed by the blind. The same can be said for white guys as well. These people have money and some brains but absolutely no self-awareness about how they are presenting themselves to the world.

Girls care less

It used to be that DC girls would at least be polite for the sake of being polite, but this is going out of the window. My indirect openers during the day, where I would start by asking for help, saw a slightly increased failure rate. Even helping a random stranger is becoming too much for them, and I imagine that feigning a handicap wouldn’t have made much of a difference.

At night the situation can be downright brutal, and I’ve had to emotionally brace myself before approaching to prepare for a rude response. Unless you “wow” her within the first minute by being the best clown in the room with a stellar performance, you won’t be able to keep her attention. If I was a girl who had so many cock options, I’d probably react the same way, so I can’t say I’m angry at them. They are responding in a rational way to living in a demographic environment where they are in high demand.

Everyone is a smartphone zombie

We get on girls for being addicted to their iphones, but it’s starting to engulf everyone. People are finding it impossible to wait for a train or in a coffee shop without pulling out their phone. I regularly witness a row of ten or more zombies on their phones as the subway train arrives, and when I see people put away their phone, they usually bring it back out in less than a minute, as if it’s a compulsion they can’t fight. Even more surprising is that this addiction is starting to affect the Hispanic immigrants and even the older Americans. No one is immune.

The foreign women in DC are mediocre

Yes, there are a good number of foreign women in DC, specifically workers in the soup of imperialistic agencies like the World Bank and IMF, but beauty-wise they are not the best of what their countries offer. While they dress much better than the white girls, they hover around the 5 or 6 range and are way past their prime, with an average age pushing 30. Many have also lived in the area for years and have had their personalities correspondingly corrupted. I wouldn’t bother with them if I was in their country, but in DC they are seen as cream of the crop.

Decent looking men are not escaping the struggle

I’ve lost count how many times I’ve seen good-looking men (around the 7 and 8 range) with muscles and apparent game striking out with girls below 7. In foreign countries they would have minor issues getting with cute girls, but here they have to spam approach in the hopes of getting lucky. I tell guys to work on your game, body, and so on, but what’s the point if doing all that will only get you a decent girl once in a while seemingly by luck? How much use is there to the art of game in a city as awful as DC where you must do at least 30 approaches a week, essentially making getting laid a part time job, and when a girl feels more comfortable screening men via apps instead of meeting them in person?

The lack of price discovery is hurting men

I did about 15 approaches my first week in DC, both day and night. After those experiences, which did not result in sex, my gut told me to stop playing the game and chose to wait until departing the country. The reason is that, due to my travels, I know my objective value on the world market. I know what type of girl I should get and how much work is required (on average), but in DC it was quickly made apparent that I would have to put three times the effort on girls who were a third as valuable. But then my horniness asserted itself, and I willingly lowered my standards just to get laid, but it made me feel great shame.

Unfortunately for many DC men, they have not gone through the price discovery process. They think this is a state of normalcy and they can’t get better than what they’ve been getting. Too bad they haven’t visited other countries, because they are stuck in a market that doesn’t favor them, while I will continue to live in places where I have greater value and the cost of living in significantly cheaper.

Believe me that it was very sobering to get poor reactions from women who were uglier than what I was getting just a couple weeks prior in Poland. In DC I have to conclude that I am just a typical schlub, a low-value man who has to compete with tons of other men who have impressive business cards and expertise knowledge of local craft beers. In some foreign cities, I’m actually a decent catch, but here’s I’m just one of many, another circumsized cock. Just when I think my value is the highest it has ever been, DC girls remind me that I’m no better than a garbage man, and I must grind it out for sex.

Everyone is an actor

I forgot that people in America ask how you are without actually wanting to know the answer. It may actually seem friendly and nice on the surface, but I consider it rude because the questioner has no intent to carry through what could be a neutral or negative response. It’s tiring and fake to have dozens of these bullshit greetings and small talk exchanges every day. In addition, people say thank you for everything. I regularly witness people say thanks in restaurants for being seated, receiving a menu, or even receiving the check. Saying thanks has been reduced to conversational filler with no meaning behind it.

The suburbs insulate you from the worst problems

A lot of people said in the past that I would have had a better time in DC had I lived in the city instead of the suburbs. The last time I visited for a month, I experienced a sort of reverse culture shock depression and thought it was because I stayed with my dad in the middle of nowhere without a car. This time I stayed within 10 minutes walking distance to Chinatown and 15 minutes walking distance to U & 14th Streets. But I entered the same kind of depression faster. After only seven days, I was aching to leave, even though I was very close to many cafes, restaurants, and bars. My dad’s suburb actually insulated me from all negative things I disliked about DC, but there is no avoiding these features when you’re in the thick of it. If you consider that DC is a poison, it would only make sense that you’d get sicker if you were exposed to larger doses of the harmful agent. I can only conclude that living in the suburbs for so many years delayed my exit from the area.

White is not right

White girls are becoming a bad bet. In DC it’s clear they are most affected by smartphone addiction and feminist ideology. They are masculine, rude, and eagerly receptive to corporate manufactured trends. More severely, they are the ones who are most likely to accuse you of assault or harassment, or rape you in a divorce. They truly are the most entitled and privileged class of female in the world, and while I don’t want to say I fear them, I feel quite hesitate to have sexual relations with them, especially if they find my internet writings. They are the ones who—more than any other type of woman—can turn my life upside down by lying to the police. It’s not a stretch to say that if you interact with them, you’re essentially like a black man in the Jim Crow south, one accusation away from big problems or, at the minimum, having your reputation ruined.

New technologies are cockblocking men

Every technology or app invented this point forth will benefit women more than men. All social networking and smartphone technologies, while offering some benefit to men in specific circumstances, offer a far greater benefit to women in satisfying their attention and validation needs. Facebook and the smartphone in particular are seemingly geared for the female species.

A new app which I got word is hurting men is Uber. In the past, if a woman was in your place for the night, she would likely stay and bang your brains out, even if your game wasn’t “perfect.” But now, if she gets just one “creepy” feeling or you make one bad joke that she doesn’t want to brush off, she can pull her phone, make two clicks, and have a car waiting for her outside within a few minutes. Even though catching a cab is easy, this new app is extremely popular with women and—from what I hear—is used often to delay sexual intercourse or to give women an out when they encounter imperfect game. The saddest part of mobile or internet technology is that men are openly embracing it even though it harms them when it comes to having sex with women.

Tasty cheap food is everywhere

The amount of delicious food choices here is astounding, both in the supermarkets and in restaurants. There is a neverending temptation to eat food that was engineered in laboratory settings to be incredibly tasty, compared to the healthy but bland offerings I often find in Eastern Europe. What’s even more incredible is how cheap food is if you account for the average salary in America. Yes, food in the third-world is cheaper in absolute terms, but not in relation to the lower income that foreign people earn.

Because of the deliciousness and cheapness of food, an American must show daily self-constraint to resist eating more than their body needs. It’s actually a miracle that skinny people exist at all in America. They must have incredible virtue to resist the extra heapings of food that they come across every day. Even I gained 2.5 pounds during my stay because I indulged in luxury burgers and peanut butter.

Progressive and feminist propaganda is working

You know all the bullshit you encounter on Jezebel and XOjane? It’s filtering into the mainstream. One girl tried to preach to me about the 77% wage gap (which has thoroughly been debunked) and I overheard another wage gap discussion by an overweight white woman. I overheard minority women talking about “micro aggressions,” and the word “privilege,” to denote some type of race or economic advantage, is part of daily lexicon. As much as we hate sites that spread this information, we have to accept that today’s American woman is a vacuous receptacle for them because it allows her to not take personal responsibility for her life. The exception is if she ever achieves success, whereby she is intelligent and empowered, but if she experiences a failure, then it was due to someone else’s privilege or a mythical illuminati construct to hold down women for all eternity.

Black men are getting soft

If there’s one race in America that you could count on to be hypermasculine, it was black men. This is coming to an end. The younger black men are becoming more feminized or just outright turning to homosexuality. This softening is reflected in rap music. I used to listen to it to get a chauvinistic surge before going out at night, but nowadays a lot of the top acts like Future, Kanye West, Drake, and even Lil Wayne are spitting betafied anthems that are one small step above Bruno Mars. It makes sense from a commercial standpoint—this is what black men now want.

I believe that smartphones are playing a big part in this softening. Black youth who used to be loud and aggressive are now docile with their devices hooked up to a pair of Beats by Dre headphones, bobbing their heads alone, not disturbing anyone else’s space. I used to be ultra-vigilant when walking in DC late at night, but I believe young black men have become less capable of violent crime. Unless you’re in the ghetto and see obvious thug body language with menacing eye contact or baggy jeans that could conceal weapons, safety shouldn’t be a huge concern. I also see how the white knockout game was overstated in its prevalence. With the huge amount of black-white mixing in gentrified areas, a couple dozen incidents in two or three years should be considered a disturbing nuisance instead of an outright race war.

Men are super thirsty

I can’t blame men for being thirsty in the anti-male DC environment, but it definitely doesn’t make any night out enjoyable when you have to compete with men who are willing to pedestalize women to great heights just for a chance at a conversation, lining up to provide open bar service without wanting anything in return besides a 1% shot at sex.

It got to the point where for principle’s sake I declined to approach a girl to not further boost her ego, even though it would result in no sex for me. It’s just perverse and unnatural to see average women with so many options. The only way to pick up at night in DC is to have strong thirst. Otherwise, you won’t be able to tolerate what you see.

Women insult you when they want to fuck you

If a girl calls you a douchebag, but remains planted, you are probably going to smash. With the two girls I had intimacy with, I was called a grab-bag of the usual suspects: creep, shady, jerk, dick, sexist, offensive, and annoying. For a girl to call me these names, and then soon let me shove my tongue down her mouth, is quite unnatural, but then again they serve as definitive proof that you are entertaining her and giving her the drama that she wants in her hookup partner.

It’s clear to me that the compliment is officially dead. Modern interactions are devolving into something like a freestyle rap battle that ends with rough sex. In fact, the best way to judge how well you’re doing is when a girl insults you and then smiles. Keep up the banter and invite her to your place while disingenuously telling her that you don’t want to have sex with her because her hair color is wrong or due to some other trivial flaw.

Conclusion

I don’t know how you guys do it. I don’t know how you can stay in these types of environments. I’m not judging or shaming you for that, but either your will is stronger than mine or your personality is Americanized to the point where you possess some shared traits with American women. I used to have some of these traits as well, but I did a detox abroad and am now unable to tolerate them for more than a month at a time. Depending on how you look at it, I’m either ruined or saved.

The only sadness I have is towards my family, who still retain hope that I will one day move back to DC and be closer to them, but if anything, I’m more certain than ever that it’s just not the place for me. I’m more than happy to visit them from time to time, but I see DC as a dead city, and based on the many conversations I had while there, it’s dead to a lot of other men too.

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Inside UoM
Inside UoM
6 years ago

If anyone was looking for their daily dose of depression, read about DC.

Lux Cypher
Lux Cypher
6 years ago
Reply to  Inside UoM

I get mine by living there. Works every day and time.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  Lux Cypher

LMAO-DC SUcks!

Nick
6 years ago

The “price discovery” part is important. As a first-generation American I’ve been blessed to have one foot back in Europe through my parents influence. Its led me to move back. I can understand how hard it is for guys to plan a vacation here, let alone leave the US with hardly a clue of what they’re missing, but its worth it, if only to recognize the sexual market imbalance and cultural decay that affects your daily life in the states.

Cato
Cato
6 years ago
Reply to  Nick

So basically you have better women and less stress in Europe?

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  Cato

You can’t even compare, it’s like day and night with North America being the night. People in Europe work to live whereas Americans live to work.

Nick
6 years ago
Reply to  Cato

It wasn’t just women that prompted the move, I also left my job to continue studying, but basically yes, better women, less stress about political correctness, feminism, workaholic attitudes, etc.

Conrad Stonebanks
Conrad Stonebanks
6 years ago
Reply to  Nick

As a European, I don’t share this view. Political correctness and “Jante Law”-ism are doing damage in Western Europe much like a bunch of angry elephants running through a china shop. (Roosh did a post on the Jante Law and what it entails, http://www.rooshv.com/the-biggest-cockblocker-in-the-world-is-from-denmark)

Regarding the women, while it’s true that Western European women aren’t quite as fat as their American counterparts (they *are* gaining weight, though), they are spoiled, entitled, and buried with their faces in their smartphones from sunrise to sunset. High-powered bitch shields everywhere. Many of them are not overt feminists, but they do subscribe to feminism. Just like in the U.S., it pays for them to think of themselves as victims.

Western Europe isn’t some “poosy paradise”, or some male-friendly utopia. On the contrary.

Nick
6 years ago

I live in Eastern Europe. Some of the negative aspects of American culture are creeping in, but it’s still dramatically different.

A Dude
A Dude
6 years ago
Reply to  Nick

Quote: “Some of the negative aspects of American culture are creeping in, but it’s still dramatically different”

I agree. And it pays to keep an eye on the progress of flow of American poison. But smartphones are spreading this shit fast.

A Dude
A Dude
6 years ago

Quotes: “As a European, I don’t share this view. Political correctness and “Jante Law”-ism are doing damage ”

Europe is still way better than the usa. Visit America and see for yourself. The whole Jante Law stupidity is limited to Denmark and parts of scandinavia.

Eastern europe certainly does not entertain such shit, as well even Germany and Nederlands.

Conrad Stonebanks
Conrad Stonebanks
6 years ago
Reply to  A Dude

I disagree about political correctness not being an issue in the Netherlands or Germany.

A Dude
A Dude
6 years ago

Political correction is indeed everywhere. But I was referring to Jante Law being in only a few countries.

asshole
asshole
6 years ago

Ofcourse it is. But nowhere near the levels experienced in the US. The US has a tendency to go overboard on many issues; it seems like they’re often on the extremes ends and rarely in the middle. Europeans are less like this; problably because of the demographics and geography i.e. many different peoples and nations on a relatively small piece of land without an overly dominant player (USA type nation). This has its positives and negatives:
Pos: Europeans are folks that mainly reside in the middle; no real/serious room for extremists.
Neg: 80% of the time is spent on negotiations, meetings, monologues, dialogues, talks etc.

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
4 years ago
Reply to  A Dude

All of western europe is the same as america. You will find minor differences but that’s it. If you want to experience something truly better, go to Asia or Russia (I’ve heard, never been to Russia).

ons4everAlpha
ons4everAlpha
6 years ago
Reply to  Nick

It’s important, however, to distinguish which part of Europe. If you go to the UK, Netherlands, or Denmark, it’s just as bad if not worse than the States. If you go to EE, OTOH, it’s great.

awakened
awakened
6 years ago

You just described the dating scene in my town. Where I live is the polar opposite of DC but the problems are exactly the same. My town is conservative, white, lower middle class, religious, and much smaller than DC BUT what you described is exactly the situation here.

The dating inequity in the USA is so great a man must fight for pussy with the thirst brigade that 10 years ago he would not even consider.

I’m so sick of it. I wish I could go abroad and enjoy the quality of women I have always enjoyed (until about 10 yrs ago). I simply am stuck here for another 15 yrs. until I retire. I just hope 55 is not too old to go abroad.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

1. 55 is waaaay to late to go abroad! You ain’t gonna get no genuine interest from females any longer and you ain’t gonna get no reasonable job in order to get by.
2. I guess you are 40 right now and it still ain’t too late to make a move, but something is telling me that you simply lack guts to do so.
3. If you are sick of it-then make a move or stop complaining! Words ain’t gonna get you nowhere. Deeds will.

awakened
awakened
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

Cool story bro.

You sound like a millennial.

Barry
Barry
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

Where is this Cheetos-eating basement-dweller getting his likes from… or did I just answer my own question?

I was 39 when I went abroad for 18 months, and I enjoyed genuine interest throughout my time overseas. I’m 42 and back in the States for now, but I’ll be gone again soon enough. From both personal experience and observation, I can assure any reasonably-kept man that overseas, you can pull pussy half your age into your 60’s.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  Barry

The only difference is that you went abroad being 39 y.o. and stayed for only 18 months, whereas he’s planning to go when he hits 55 and that’s 16 years difference between you and him.
Plus, you have 18 months foreign experience and I have 20 years traveling the world. That’s where I’m getting my information and facts from.
Basement dweller?:-) OK, please name the country you’ve lived in for 18 months. I’m waiting:)

Barry
Barry
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

Ecuador – 12 months
Malaysia – 6 months

Your turn, Sparky. Where have you been?

BTW, I notice you avoided responding directly to my claim that he’ll be able to pull much younger pussy. I’ve seen it happen, and since you’re such an **accomplished** world traveler, I’m sure you’ve seen it too.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  Barry

1. I do NOT dispute the fact that it IS indeed possible for an older male to date a significantly younger female overseas. Then again it all depends on what a male is looking for in a female and vice versa. There are a lot of different “aspects” and hidden agenda in all this.
2. Where have I been, lived or visited? Canada, USA, Mexico, Belize, Cuba, Holland, Germany, Sweden, Greece, Poland, Ukraine, Russia. And this is NOT the full list of my travels or work places, just some random picks:-)

Barry
Barry
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

As an aside, I see you calling fellow posters “bitches” in other replies, with nothing to substantiate your vitriol.

How old are you? This comment board is for adults.

Does your mother know where you’re at?

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  Barry

And yet another liar here. Please give me at least ONE quote where I call fellow posters “bitches”.
Until then you are just that-yet another liar.
I’m patiently waiting for you reply WITH A QUOTE.
I’m 40+ years old, married , with 3 kids.
Your reference to my age and my mother just proves that you are yet another stupid American pretender.

Barry
Barry
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

When I saw the quotes, the username was WorldTraveler. It’s now “Brad Turner”. Fine, whatever. I reported in accordance with what I witnessed. “Liar”? No… try again.

I’m the one with the truth. “Stupid American pretender?” Idiot, I’ve lived the live and continue to bask in my freedom. Unlike you, you fool… you pathetic, MARRIED, ball-and-chain (enjoy supporting those three womb turds!) FOOL.

You’re not worth one more minute of my time.

awakened
awakened
6 years ago
Reply to  Barry

Thanks for the info. I am going to the east as soon as my children are grown and I retire. This will happen at 55. I would prefer to go earlier but it simply is not an option.

Barry
Barry
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

You’re welcome. Don’t let the posers here dampen your spirits. When I was in Ecuador, a guy in his mid-sixties who lived two floors down from me was dating women in their thirties. This was a guy living on a modest retirement, by the way. So it can be done.

In between now and the time you hit 55, I would recommend that you do the legwork in determining which culture is right for you, learn as much of said culture’s language as you can, and look for ways to meet people from the culture of your choice, even if you have to drive – or fly! – to do so.

Good luck.

262
262
6 years ago

“I tell guys to work on your game, body, and so on, but what’s the point
if doing all that will only get you a decent girl once in a while
seemingly by luck?”

One point I’d see is that it motivates you to work on your value while you save and/or plan to go abroad, since you may not be as motivated once you’re abroad in a favorable sexual market.

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
6 years ago
Reply to  262

I’ve been saying that for as long as I’ve known about game.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  262

Ain’t y’all supposed to get better for YOURSELVES?? Fuck all others!! You ain’t supposed to do it all for some “woman in the future”. Do it for YOURSELF!!! Get better yourself, save money for yourself, workout for yourself, educate YOURSELF!! And then just make a move overseas already being a COMPLETE personality, a leader, not a follower!

Krishnamurti
Krishnamurti
6 years ago

American culture IS a disease. Those of us who have become cured of this DISEASE by living outside of America for years obviously will appear “strange” to such diseased people.

It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
-Jiddu Krishnamurti

Model 800
Model 800
6 years ago
Reply to  Krishnamurti

Indeed. When the inmates are running the asylum it is no surprise that the healthy outsiders are seen as the deranged crazies in need of locking up and “curative therapy”. They have to be made one of us at all costs. The hive simply cannot tolerate dissidents escaping a sinking ship and refusing to go down with the others like good little lemmings following the herd off the cliff. It is just not done.

Jason
Jason
6 years ago
Reply to  Krishnamurti

I lived in Japan for a couple of years and it literally detoxed my soul of all the negative behaviors that I learned in America.

The day I came back i could literally feel all of the negative energy and unhappiness when i set foot in this country. it was like returning to jail, but under the disguise of freedom.

splooge
splooge
6 years ago
Reply to  Krishnamurti

sadly that disease is spreading through media and ruining women half the world over. Even poor and conservative nations. Like India is thinking like western feminist now.
For example they say woman there is raped every 22 minutes which is just under 24000 a year, a figure off of wiki which in per capita terms is tied with Canada. They are already mastering distortions and manipulating info like a real woman would do in an arguement.

Notice that when we here of feminists and she aint white its a privileged indian woman. I swear they are the most common race subscribing to feminism next to white women…though starting to hear of islamic feminism occurring in middle east sadly. I wonder why russian or asian girls dont embrace it. Wonder how they are fighting it off?
They have to avoid the mistakes of brazil now that its spreading in their nation(even met a brazilian feminist myself which was shocking)

any where you travel youll find western fast food,western clothes,media and ideas all over. Its like a silent colonialism. First white men took over the world and now its their women.

splooge
splooge
6 years ago
Reply to  splooge

one last thing i wanna throw in is, whats with all those pixie cuts showing up. You know whee they shave the side of their head like someone got em back bad in some prank.
Ive even seen em on indian(1 living in malaysia a conservative nation) and asian women now like wtf.
Like why would they wanna take the worst of white women. Now that they are self handicapping themselves, the scene gets more messed….well makes its easier for white women to compete.
T
he only thing I can think of is that after foreign women started getting a monopoly on men, they thought they can afford to slack, only to lose em to say latin an ee girls comin in now , whom havent made their mistakes yet.
But if any white girl wakes up and doesnt follow that trend shell out do em all.
But over here for the most part the asian girl is queen because as an average they; are the most feminine.

Switch
Switch
6 years ago

Roosh, how much does your family know about how you make a living?

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  Switch

Hes written that they know and his female relatives have given him white knight sermons despite his extensive testing of field data that shows otherwise.

What I always wondered was—
Why did Roosh’s people choose an utter sh*t hole like DC? All I can figure is economic because if Roosh had been from Los Angeles (very sizeable Middle Eastern community there) I don’t think any of the Bang Guides wouldv’e existed because LA has so many beaches, walkable areas, tourist spots, parks, etc. that it would be game Heaven compared to most of the US like G Manifesto used to say (he said California sucks but most of America REALLY sucks-and DC and Dixie suck the MOST).

RedPillRenegade
RedPillRenegade
6 years ago
Reply to  Ian

LA isn’t a walk in the park. In fact I’d say DC, Toronto and LA are all in the running for the being the progenitors of the PUA scene. Lot of truth to this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBiR2rKU69U

Solo
Solo
6 years ago

in 2009 I would have read this and disagreed but….

It’s not 2009, btw I’m not in DC, I’m in Minneapolis and this applies as well. Except for the black men being soft part. The black guys who do well here are the ones who are far from soft. The dress thing is truly something that’s appalling. I saw a woman wear a beautiful dress with flip flops, wtf? why would you wear a beautiful dress just to wear flip flops. It was just disgusting

Having lived in Europe and now here. Roosh is right American men are getting a raw deal. One of the reasons why the argument of “looks, money, perfect game” etc have become so popular in forums the last few years is because in america you literally have to have all those things unless you are fortunate to already have a solid social circle to begin with. This is why average guys are so frustrated and lowering their standards. The thirst is real out here. Personally speaking I’ve focused my energies on my self. I’ve lost weight had a blast this summer so far with friends and I will be doing some traveling. Women are an option for me not a priority. This year will be a record low in notch count for me, but for once I can truly say that I’m fine with this.

I guess I’m getting older ha

A Dude
A Dude
6 years ago
Reply to  Solo

Quote: “It’s not 2009, btw I’m not in DC, I’m in Minneapolis and this applies as well”

Not too long ago there was an article at ROK on how the Twin Cities is a great place to get laid. I don’t see how this can be, unless one is willing to plug ultra-fatties.I was in Minneapolis on a business trip a few months back and the only thing I can say is that people are more polite, but that’s about it. Most women were overweight, with only a few good looking females, and of course these women are riddled with attitude. This is sad because Minneapolis has so much going for it considering it’s a small city. From the museums and universities to local beer houses and various clubs, that city probably was a great place to live before feminism, the internet, smartphones and everything else contributing to the fragmentation of society began to take hold.

Solo
Solo
6 years ago
Reply to  A Dude

Compared tobigger cities hell yes Minneapolis has tons of fatties and the hotties are all imported and leave once they graduate or get better jobs. The women here are beautiful but only in Minneapolis will you see women wearing dresses and get into nice venues with flip flops. I have never seen this in Chicago/NY or hell even Scottsdale.

The reason why good looking women here have attitude is because there is no competition. I have no problem calling these women out on their behavior, I don’t play that shit and I will put a woman in her place. I was on a date with a mere 6 a couple weeks ago. The chick had such terrible personality/attidude that I told her she needed to leave. The problem is the liberal propaganda is strong in this state and not in a good way. For instance last week there was huge controversy on “Bar Louie” and if they were racists. Anyone who is familiar knows that BL is one of the best spots in uptown and that they consider themselves more upscale

http://blogs.citypages.com/food/2014/07/why_bar_louies_dress_code_is_racist.php

^^^ just read this nonsense

I actually defended the bar’s dress code and I’m a MINORITY! Minnesota nice is just a fake cop out the liberals like to use to seem progressive . Even approaching women now if you say something that’s not PC you will hear the word “creepy” or “Creeper” you can’t mass approach daytime anymore in the U of M due to recent shootings and violence.

I could go on but it has gone downhill

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
6 years ago

“Depending on how you look at it, I’m either ruined or saved.”

The latter. Anyone with a brain can see that something is wrong. Cant be that manny brains floating around then it seems.
Problem is, when you have seen it, there’s no turning back. The biggest problem is when you have seen it and are not able to get away, like you did.

Model 800
Model 800
6 years ago
Reply to  Tom Dane

Agreed. I still cannot understand how these people are unable even to fathom the though that what they are experiencing relationship-wise is simply not normal. You have to be severely lobotomized to be that clueless, especially when attempting to defend such a dating “market” as an added bonus. The simple fact is that trying to push such a dysfunctional reality on anyone who has seen the light on the deluded basis that that is all they “deserve” and that they should be happy with what is on offer is tantamount to a severe personal insult to any clear headed and informed individual. It is like being told that you must allow yourself to be tied in a sack with a rabid lynx and like it by golly, no matter how many deep lacerations you end up with. Not for me thank you very much!

Jake
Jake
6 years ago

Unfortunately the world will look a lot more like DC in the future. There is no escape from the Washington Model, the USA has won and exported his sick ideas all around the world.
Welcome to the 21st century.

dilettante
dilettante
6 years ago
Reply to  Jake

Russia is the last refuge left. it’s not perfect but its all we’ll have left sooner rather than later.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  dilettante

I’m in Russia as we speak and can confirm every word written above!

Cяuiseя
Cяuiseя
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

Yes, in Russia girls can watch every American tv show redubbed in Russian within 24 hours of airing, but at least they dress nice and feminine and 90% are skinny. I plan to go back to Russia in December. One way tickets to Moscow are about $350, and factor about $200 for the visa. Too bad you can only go for less than 30 days without jumping through a lot of hurdles, unlike most other countries like Ukraine and Romania where Americans can visit visa-free for up to 90 days.

Model 800
Model 800
6 years ago
Reply to  Cяuiseя

As long as economic incentives push them to keep their looks and manners it’s a go. But if the welfare state ever ends up instituted over there then all bets are off. Hopefully cultural resistance will still prevent that from happening as living conditions improve overtime.

Molnár András
Molnár András
6 years ago

The mating dance seems like just a huge power play. Women are merciless, like good psychopaths.

MystiKasT
MystiKasT
6 years ago

“White is not right”

My ex-gf, mad I broke up with her, accused me (falsely) of raping and beating her for four years (our relationship). It ruined my life and took years to recover from.

BE CAREFUL.

splooge
splooge
6 years ago
Reply to  MystiKasT

happened to my cousins buddy whom got ass raped,mentally and physically by his Fillipino wife, whom was physically abusive herself.
He was fit young good looking(lost his virginity at 12), white and had a good job…a huge catch to SEA women or any for that matter.

Ill tell you what I told him…about ethnic girls especially if shes from conservative community going after the white guy.

Shes sees you as beta bux, freedom and no responsibility…like in your sitcoms. Where the wife is some slut, thats always right, that cant cook or clean for shit, fucked like a whore but a prude with you, and get lots of “help” with you doing domestic chores and kids so she can do nothing or have her “career”. Wants her cake and fuck it too. Dont be her Ray Romano.

While her :abusive”,”crazy” ,”domineering”and “bad” swarthy men, whom actually have certain expectations of her as a woman to uphold. Like being young,sweet, virgin,domestic skills and nurturing to kids. Basically her Ricky Ricardo.

dont be that western white knight trying to “save” her. Youll just get another white bitch 2.0 in a 3rd world body.

you have been warned. When they are denied something they are like teenagers when they rebel, they will go overboard.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  splooge

LOL-Its like this brother who had mad game told me-
Don’t save her. She don’t wanna be saved, Caint nobody win being a Captain Save-a-Ho (rotflmao!!!_

Jason
Jason
6 years ago

Having lived in DC for over a decade most of this stuff is true.

Speed Dating – Just line the cattle up and try to spout your social worth in under 4 minutes. Oh wait, most of the women who show up are government employees who “can’t talk about their jobs” and try to play it off that what they’re doing is of great importance. Oh yeah, everyone in DC is extremely important.

The Kane Show – Feminist propaganda radio show. IMHO. If you listen to the Kane show it’s just full of feminist BS. War of the Roses, app advertisement that benefits women, gossip that benefits women. Kane is married and when there are moments when his wife is on the phone she tries to make it clear that she’s the boss.

It’s all about networking – True friendships are not in anyone’s real interest. it’s what you can bring to the table socially. It’s not about who you are, but who do you work for. There is also a big thing about being fake. That’s “saying all the right things” and blathering a few uncommon vocabulary words to appear intelligent and win people over. Most people that i’ve met tries this approach and if unmasked will always try to change the subject. Roosh did an article about his return back to DC. One of the things that is true is that if you don’t spit out your social value of who you work for, they try to manipulate you into telling by calling you creepy. I sometimes feel like taking the Sean Connery approach to some of these women.

Anyway, DC was depressing for me. It was just a fake town full of fake people trying to keep up appearances above very shitty personalities. I’m glad i’m out of there. Life has been good since then.

Dave6034
Dave6034
6 years ago
Reply to  Jason

To paraphrase Lenin, the people of DC think they are the brains of the nation, when in fact they are its shit. A better anatomical analogy would be a malignant tumor — it keeps growing and consuming until the host organism dies.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  Dave6034

They are the pinkos on the Potomac aka the Rothschild Corporations little goy clowns.

MystiKasT
MystiKasT
6 years ago

P.S. The Race way is going full force in philly. If you’re white, expect to be attacked / robbed daily. I had to flee philly (even with a CCW) because of how bad it was.

The blacks roam around in droves and attack whites.

splooge
splooge
6 years ago
Reply to  MystiKasT

thats what you get for not checking your women whom brought feminism and ruined black families….and now other the world over.

Mr. Z
Mr. Z
6 years ago
Reply to  splooge

Last I checked it was a jewish creation.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  Mr. Z

This ought to be the ROK Marquee-exposing the matrix.

These are the people who created this negative social environment in the West for their bosses the Rockefellers and Rothschilds.

Tommy Hass
Tommy Hass
6 years ago
Reply to  splooge

Blacks were “ruined” way before feminism.

TJ
TJ
6 years ago

Brilliant: “freestyle rap battle that ends with rough sex”

meldron
meldron
6 years ago
Reply to  TJ

Agreed, I’m totally stealing that line.

Hassan
Hassan
6 years ago

Brother Roosh
What are some cities you’ve been to where the women are friendly, compliments work, etc.?

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  Hassan

I’m NO Roosh, but can definitely recommend Russia, Ukraine or Belarus. Any bigger city here would be an OK place to find a completely different universe populated with amazing ladies!

Hassan
Hassan
6 years ago

Anyone can see the smart phones, electro youth zombies, popos on every corner, surveillance grid, anti human culture, sex wars, youth made into weaklings, etc. is all 1984/animal farm crap.

Another thing that pisses me off is how cold blooded American families have become- they buy pets and more cheap junk to fill the void of their soulless, selfish, egotistical, materialistic existence. I had lunch with my Mom and her family is a total mess- lawyers after each other, etc. and I said dont you envy the people in the Dominican Republic, Brazil, or Mexico who are poor but live by the sea and have big tight families and a real sense of belonging and togetherness?
My grandma was from Brazil and although the family was poor- they loved each other stick together, there’s a brother who’s 80 who is a man of God who calls and prays for all his brothers and sisters each week, they care for each other and all have a place. Look a the Roosh video where he got an atv stuck in the coastal sand dunes and the poor beach community he went to. You could see how helpful and loyal the people were not this awful back biting like the US.

FeministsRuinedAmerica
FeministsRuinedAmerica
6 years ago

I spent 6 months in South America and have been back to the US for a month now. I am also quietly dying inside but it will probably be a few months or even a year before I can venture out again. I feel your pain Roosh 🙁

NeoBushi
NeoBushi
6 years ago

here in chicago women dress like garbage. over half of them wear yoga and athletic clothing but they don’t work out and have terrible posture. the EEs I’ve encountered here stick out like a candle in the dark because they dress so well by comparison. I miss when women used to wear SKIRTS in the summer time. now it’s all flabby cellulite yoga pants disgustingness. you rarely see women wearing heels except in high end restaurants and clubs.

doclove
doclove
6 years ago
Reply to  NeoBushi

I agree, and I’m from Chicago too. I’ve often said that the Eastern European Women raise the overall level of beauty among the women here. This metropolitan area of Chicago has a higher percentage of Eastern European immigrants of any nationality such as Russia, Ukraine, Bulgaria etc. but especially from Poland than any other major American city with at least 2 million in the metropolitan(city and suburbs) area. Chicago is the 3rd most populous metropolitan area in the USA. The shame is that many of the people especially the women here of Eastern European descent are 3rd, 4th and 5th generation descendants and are as fat, ugly and having poor personalities as the rest of the nation. I’m of half Polish and half Irish descent myself, and most 2nd generation and beyond are mixed Eastern European and something other descent too. Don’t blame the genetics on this as this is not the problem because the genetics are good and the culture is what is ruining the women.

NeoBushi
NeoBushi
6 years ago
Reply to  doclove

I can tell how long an EE has been in chicago based on the shitiness of their attitude. when they arrive they soon learn that they can walk all over men and have everything handed to them. that’s why the love it here. the men just like the economic opportunity here. the most pleasant women are FOB. they also agree that local women do not take care of themselves.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago
Reply to  NeoBushi

Nothing will ever change as long as North American males remain pussies and continue to cater to any possible and impossible demands from American women.

Model 800
Model 800
6 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

As long as the cathedral continues to indoctrinate them in this manner there is small hope of change notwithstanding a severe economic collapse. And the overall robustness of the U.S. may allow it to continue chugging along for quite some time as the collapse slowly takes shape all around.

fds
fds
2 years ago
Reply to  WorldTraveler

It’s not that simple. There just aren’t enough fit women here. Yes, Christianity, chivalry, trying to do good, etc. are all a synergy of earnest males, but show me the women!!

A Dude
A Dude
6 years ago
Reply to  NeoBushi

Quote: “I can tell how long an EE has been in chicago based on the shitiness of their attitude. when they arrive they soon learn that they can walk all over men and have everything handed to them. that’s why they love it here”

Spot on.

Whenever I’m outside the states and meet a chick who tells me how much she wants to come to America, what she is really saying is “I want to come to America where my beauty will fetch me plenty of desperate and wealthy providers, where I will enjoy my ‘queenie’ status and all other benefits of living in a society that worships women.

fooled no more
fooled no more
6 years ago
Reply to  A Dude

“Whenever I’m outside the States and meet a foreign chick who tells me how much she wants to come to America, what she is really saying is “I want to come to America where my beauty will fetch me plenty of desperate and wealthy providers, where I will enjoy my ‘queenie’ status and all other benefits of living in a society that worships women”

QFT

fdsa
fdsa
2 years ago
Reply to  fooled no more

This usually wasn’t what I found, but then again I was pre-smart phone.
What these women usually meant was that they didn’t fit in with their home cultures and bought into the Hollywood memes of America:
Land of opportunity
Individualism
Non-traditional–freedom

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  doclove

Seen some fly blondes at the airport there-they looked Austrian to me but couldv’e been Polish. I agree Chi town blondes are the best of the USSA Bankers Republic featuring Reverend Obama as Chief Propagandist to the Masses

Chad Elkins
Chad Elkins
6 years ago
Reply to  NeoBushi

I live in Chicago and this post is post on.

dilettante
dilettante
6 years ago
Reply to  NeoBushi

co-signed on chicago. daygaming is akin to panning for gold in a dirty river lol

NeoBushi
NeoBushi
6 years ago
Reply to  dilettante

I just started hitting millenium park for daygame. much more fruitful because of all the tourists.

TyKo Steamboat
TyKo Steamboat
6 years ago
Reply to  NeoBushi

Ain’t nothen wrong with a hot chick that wears yoga pants constantly.

Christopher Bear
6 years ago

damn. I haven’t lived in america for 4 years now but if it’s like THAT then I need to settle with a foreign girl BEFORE I move back there……if ever.

WorldTraveler
WorldTraveler
6 years ago

Just find yourself a foreign girl to marry, settle down overseas and never look back! That’s exactly what I did 5 years ago!

Ian
Ian
6 years ago

Dont come back to this military industrial complex Zionist bankster mass surveilance coporate clown plantation.

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
6 years ago

I dont think US was much different 4 years ago.

DJ
DJ
6 years ago

The Silicon Valley Bay Area in San Francisco to Palo Alto to San Jose is even worse for men than DC.

Yuki
Yuki
6 years ago
Reply to  DJ

Totally agreed. But it’s good to live there because then everywhere will seem like heaven!

Lee
Lee
6 years ago
Reply to  Yuki

Try the Deep South- ignorance, poverty, brutal humidity, violence, poor taste, low class, clickish, and stagnated. I imagine villages in the jungle have more culture and better looking women.

Ps- If some of you think a poster is a dumb ass- remember they could be from the South where education is so substandard that things that seem simple and everyday to you are heavy living to the poor bastard who had the luck if being born into the land of nasty gravy and ham and big Ford pickup trucks.

Timmy McBain
Timmy McBain
6 years ago
Reply to  Lee

Says the typical yankee with his head so far up his ass for so long, he still thinks he’s breathin’ fresh air. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on motherfucker!

Lee
Lee
6 years ago
Reply to  Timmy McBain

See what I mean- all class and style in The land of cheese grits, monster truck racin’, Elvis, jacked up cars on blocks in the front yard, and this here is Murica boah- no cath-lics, nigg-gars, chi-noise people, Er Jews a-llowed- ye heur me boah! Lol

oralcummings
oralcummings
6 years ago
Reply to  Lee

Well the thing about no jews sounds good…

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  oralcummings

You just want to keep out of debt, not be charged interest, lied into wars, and have a non controlled decent media under those terms.

Michael F. (Mike) Hunt
Michael F. (Mike) Hunt
6 years ago
Reply to  Lee

For the record, having been to Europe three times, the women are way sexier than here in the colonies. Skinny, stylish, and feminine.

“no cath-lics, nigg-gars, chi-noise people, Er Jews a-llowed- ye heur me boah!” -sounds good to me.

Brad Turner
Brad Turner
6 years ago
Reply to  Timmy McBain

shut up southern bitch

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
6 years ago
Reply to  Lee

“I imagine villages in the jungle have more culture and better looking women.”

No doubt. I wouldnt mind banging a few jungle chicks

Patrick
Patrick
6 years ago
Reply to  Lee

Has obviously never been to an SEC football game. Best looking girls in America hands down. If anything, the South is the only place left in the US with decent girls and culture.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  Patrick

I have-it’s a sea of 7s who are about as interesting as a Nickleback concert or American Idol reruns and racist blue collar clowns who sit around at Mah-mas house eating cornbread and chicken with swee-ut Tea who hate blacks but go and sit on there ass all Saturday to watch young black men who will later bang silly the finest dixie peaches the Rodney Ray MCClems could never pull as the hillbilly clowns at the game know they could never run as fast, lift as much, or play as well as the brothers down on the field-so they live vicariously through them yet hate them-Southernah logic in action. Its a pathetic place and meanwhile in California theyr’e having a wine tasting, going to the Beach, skiing, a good night club, or a House party with French food and cognacs not lays chips, pork, and slaw with coker-cola like all the Bo Rays drink.

awakened
awakened
6 years ago
Reply to  Ian

Must be nice to lash out from a keyboard at the same guys that would beat you to a pulp.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

LMAO Ive sparred with prize fighters I doubt many SEC Bo Rays could hang with me
Go watch some college football, count june bugs, and eat some corn bread with your cousins on a F-150 hood lol

Brad Turner
Brad Turner
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

shut up bitch

awakened
awakened
6 years ago
Reply to  Brad Turner

A guy in my town named Brad Turner just got arrested for sucking cocks in the mens room at a city pickle park. Is that you?

RedPillRenegade
RedPillRenegade
6 years ago
Reply to  Ian

Having lived in California and the south, I’d have to say this is wildly exaggerated on both counts!

splooge
splooge
6 years ago
Reply to  DJ

notice they have a lot of foreign people like indian people like in Toronto…..coincidence

Freckled
Freckled
6 years ago

Bland food in eastern europe? Either i am completely assimilated or my taste buds are faulty. At least in Russia, due to the different influences of all the former soviet republics you have a huge variety of different styles of food, all quite tasty and never bland.

WhyDoesntTheChickenSmell
WhyDoesntTheChickenSmell
6 years ago
Reply to  Freckled

I agree. I live in EE and eat Thai food regularly. The Thai food is the same as in the US, just higher quality ingredients. As some other posters have commented, the milk and eggs taste significantly better here than in the US. If you want to talk about bland, low quality food you can definitely point towards the “unsmelling” American chicken Roosh mentioned in a previous post. It would have been nice if Roosh had gone into some specifics about which foods he was referring to. Maybe he meant the sugar-filled cupcakes that the fatties always eat (why would you be tempted by those?). That’s hardly food though.

OlioOx
OlioOx
6 years ago

Roosh excuse me to burst in like this so to speak, without having read this 07 14 post, I’ve just run across a great set of Youtube vids by a youngish (28) Englishman talking about life in Novosibirsk. I know you’ll find them extremely interesting from your Roosh perspective and you may even get a column out of viewing them. Just go you Youtube and do a search for “Life in Novosibirsk 1 of 8”

Ok now I’ll read this latest post of yours.

DavidSNESGAMER
DavidSNESGAMER
6 years ago

Excellent article, and it matches up with my own experiences after a metaphorical “detox abroad”. I was in a relationship with a traditional girl throughout my twenties, and when I found myself single at 30, I was astounded at the cold, macabre reality of the modern yuppie life – sexlessnes, pettiness, unhealthy, and spiritually vapid.

OlioOx
OlioOx
6 years ago

OK Roosh I’ve just read the post and it occurs to me — isn’t all this the kind of thing that originally inspired the development of Game in the first place?

ATC
ATC
6 years ago
Reply to  OlioOx

Exactly. Either

1) the supply of fucks has dropped significantly from 10 years ago, or,

2) American girls are fucking a different type of man than they used to, and Game Gurus have to figure out who that type is.

There is some preliminary evidence for 1), by the way (link below), but my gut feeling is that the next generation of gurus will be the ones who know how to get into cliques and social circles, and game those.

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/nov/26/smartphones-bonking-crisis-british-less-sex-technology

Guy Incognito
Guy Incognito
6 years ago
Reply to  OlioOx

Indeed. Powerful feedback loop.

ATC
ATC
6 years ago
Reply to  Guy Incognito

If what Roosh is trying doesn’t work, then why not experiment with radical changes to the way he games American girls?

If major adjustments are obviously necessary, then try them…even if they don’t work, you’re no worse off than before, right?

There’s still a huge market out there for any man who can game American girls in 2014 and put Jezebel in its place. There is no reason they should be getting the last laugh.

lol
lol
6 years ago
Reply to  ATC

“…then why not experiment with radical changes to the way he games American girls? … There is no reason they should be getting the last laugh.”

The joke is on you when you use your valuable time and resources to reward fundamentally undersirable women with attention and sexual gratifilcation.