The opposite of a cuckold is a man who doesn’t tolerate his woman messing around with other men, an expectation that was reasonable up until these depraved times of open relationships and “polyamory.” If you’re like me, you don’t want to waste time and effort on a woman who will eventually cheat on you, so it becomes helpful to know the warning signs.

There are two female character traits that highly correlate to cheating. I’ve found these traits not in women who have cheated on me, but on women who cheated on their boyfriends, fiancees, or husbands with me. In many cases, I didn’t even know she had a man until after we had sex.

1. She has a high need for excitement

A girl with a high need for excitement believes that life should always be fun. She fears boredom and routine. She may share memes along the lines of “Life is short” or “Carpe diem.” The problem is that relationships are boring by their very nature. Within only a couple of months, they turn into a repeating pattern of eating, having sex, watching movies, and talking about the same group of friends. This is hard for some girls to tolerate. They will cheat not with the intention of leaving their boyfriend, but simply to live the fun lifestyle they believe is coming to them.

The same pattern occurs with a girl who is highly impulsive, meaning she needs to act on whatever random idea pops into her head so that she can see herself as “fun” and “spontaneous.” If she is in a club with friends and sees a hot guy, the impulse of “I want to sleep with him” is one she may act on, even though her loyal boyfriend is waiting at home.

Several years ago in Poland I was in a nightclub when I noticed a tall girl with nice legs staring at me. The conversation between us went well and I tried to move her to the dance floor, but there was a big problem: she had a boyfriend, and he was on his way to the club with his friends. I was ready to move on to another girl, but even after the boyfriend arrived, she kept looking my way. They all went upstairs. Ten minutes later, she came back to me. I knew she wanted to fuck so I told her to come with me to my place, which was only a five-minute walk away. I could tell it was thrilling for her to escape the club with a new man while her boyfriend was still in it.

Once in my apartment, the boyfriend called. She told him that she got tired and went home, but that he should stay in the club and have fun with his friends. She ended the call with “I love you.” We then had sex multiple times, she spent the night, and then we had sex again in the morning. She made effort in seeing me again.

2. She has a high sense of entitlement

A girl with high entitlement feels that her current boyfriend should satisfy all of her needs. If he doesn’t, then he is not holding up to his end of the bargain. She will then feel little or no guilt for fulfilling those needs elsewhere with other men.

Girls want to be satisfied in two areas: physically and emotionally. Physically, a high entitlement girl will expect you to give her as many orgasms and as much pleasure as she gives you, which is difficult unless you spend hours going down on her. Emotionally, she will want to remain in an attracted, happy, and contented state without any feelings of anxiety, regret, dissatisfaction, or fear of missing out. One man simply cannot satisfy both of these areas for eternity, but a high entitlement girl expects it. If you fail, she will cheat.

Another time a high entitlement girl cheats is after you get into an argument with her. She can’t believe that you made her upset, so in her mind it’s not wrong to feel better in the embrace of another man. If your girlfriend gets upset with you today, there is a line of five men ready to immediately fuck her. Fifty years ago, she may have only had access to the village drunk. If you don’t want a high entitlement girl to cheat on you, you must become her hostage and always keep her happy.

Not long ago I met a hippie girl in a nightclub. She wore a small backpack and had weird dance moves that suggested she was on drugs (she told me she wasn’t). Her hair went all the way down to her butt, which aroused me fully. We danced extra close but she would turn her head away when our faces got near. I didn’t push the matter and later she told me that she had a boyfriend. Things weren’t going well with him. I brushed it off and told her to do whatever she wanted, that I’m merely enjoying the moment.

When the dancing got boring, we went to my apartment for a “tea.” We ended up having sex five times. During one of the rounds, she scooped up my semen with two fingers and put it in her mouth while locking eye contact with me. Even with my level of experience, I felt disturbed. Before she left, she told me that her boyfriend has a low sex drive, but she didn’t want to break up with him. She did not make effort in seeing me again.

Conclusion

You may be thinking, “Don’t all girls have a high need for excitement along with high entitlement?” If you’re meeting them on Tinder or in the nightclub, then yes, most will fall into that category. If you’re meeting them in Westernized countries where #MeToo teaches them that they shouldn’t feel uncomfortable for any reason, certainly. Unless you carefully screen your women, it will be hard to avoid the cheating type.

Thankfully, there are some women who just want to find a good man and have a family. They are willing to work out any relationship problems instead of immediately jumping on a new cock, and see fun as the temporal and meaningless distraction that it is. Maybe one day I will meet such a girl.

Read Next: Some Women Only Marry Men They Can Cheat On

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Kirsty
Kirsty
2 years ago

Come to Scotland Roosh and I will fuck your brains out 😉

9876
9876
2 years ago
Reply to  Kirsty

Roosh is banned from the UK.

anon1
anon1
2 years ago
Reply to  9876

also scotland is the most socialist part of the UK and had people that were specifically attacking roosh during his worldwide meetup stuff way back

Billy Brown
Billy Brown
2 years ago
Reply to  anon1

you mean communist? wtf is a socialist, someone that doesnt want to get jewed by people who are still spending money from the 1800s that they got from scheme?

anon1
anon1
2 years ago
Reply to  Billy Brown

A socialist is like a racialist in that they tout dated unscientific theories to promote a way of thinking and action that harms more than it helps.

Billy Brown
Billy Brown
2 years ago
Reply to  anon1

dated stuff sucks yeah. modern capitalism is the way to go. look at how great everyone is doing! if only we could deal with those racist democrats we would be set

hcurrie77
hcurrie77
2 years ago
Reply to  Billy Brown

Amen to that call it what it is.

peter littlehorse
peter littlehorse
2 years ago
Reply to  9876

As is anyone who dares to speak the truth.

hcurrie77
hcurrie77
2 years ago
Reply to  9876

Fuck The UK. They have destroyed their country by licking the ass of muslims. I have banned them and Canada. America is trying to do the same. I am fighting it

TheOnceAndFutureKing
TheOnceAndFutureKing
2 years ago
Reply to  Kirsty

I hope your boyfriend doesnt see this

vv
vv
2 years ago
Reply to  Kirsty

Yeah, I don’t think finding someone to fuck his brains out is really the problem that he’s having here in the U.S. sweetie.

Denis
Denis
2 years ago

looks like to me, we re pretty fucked… just fuck those hoes to sleep!

Vic Wilson
Vic Wilson
2 years ago

secret society……………..

David
David
2 years ago

I think no matter what you do its virtually impossible to please women in the long run, you can be good and exciting partner for 5 or 10 years but eventually she will seek other dicks and thrills.
If she is good looking temptation will always be there, even so called “traditional” women from 3rd world countries are not as traditional when they come across random Chad in right situation, be it vacation or business trip.
As a beta, low value male you are in constant danger of her cheating on you, Alphas are in danger too but alphas can easily find replacement so its not as painful.

Splooge
Splooge
2 years ago
Reply to  David

Well they play up the trad shit abit be it in bangkok kiev etc.
But city life is always this way.
All good girls live outside the city.
Its very obvious wherewhen u meet em.
Like whitewhites here are snobbish shy or superficial but those inland are the opposite

Roosh said it there are small towns in usa that are better then kiev liev warsaw etc

David
David
2 years ago
Reply to  Splooge

In my experience big cities are toxic, even peasant women become materialistic sluts.
Maybe we are not used to living with so many strangers and such environment allows women to experiment with different guys, something which would be unthinkable in small town or village.
I knew Middle eastern and Indian women who turn into a biggest sluts when left to their own devices. Its nature and the ony way to stop this is to actually stop it by having strict culture, close family unit and society that punishes such behaviour.
If you leave women do what they want, give them access to smartphones and internet, how the hell can we expect them do act any other way ?

Paul
Paul
2 years ago
Reply to  David

Human beings were design to live in communities less than 100 people. In history a lot of wise people said not to build cities cause people will change for the worst! You find when you go further out into the country, the more happy people become and more friendly.

Johnnyvee
Johnnyvee
2 years ago
Reply to  Splooge

“All good girls live outside the city.”

That`s why there are no young women left in the countryside!

Paul
Paul
2 years ago
Reply to  David

Just find yourself a virgin in an Eastern country!

I found a country girl from a Eastern country. Traditional as fuck, been together for ages now. Fight rarely, once every 2-3 months. I always lead and she follows. She never challenges me cause I’m the man in charge hence we never rarely fight. It’s like I’m fucking my best thing who is submissive. Her cooking, cleaning and giving me massages gives her pleasure. She gets angry if I try to do her jobs (cook and clean) and seems very happy just focusing every day on looking after me. Has zero desire for a career, built by her parents to look after a man! This is a real woman like in the bible. The less English she speaks.The better (her soul is poisoned by Western culture).

Billy Brown
Billy Brown
2 years ago
Reply to  David

why would they be pleased in this world? many work like dogs to the point of needing to medicate themselves to continue. unfortunately they take it out on their lovers not parents

Ace Knows
Ace Knows
2 years ago
Reply to  David

This is why you MUST have children immediately after marriage. BEFORE that though, you need to have a chat with a good lawyer that will help you salvage your life if she wants a divorce. Trying to be an alpha provider while she already has children should keep her loyal. Also, start going to church (Greek Orthodox) and try making friends there.

Matt
Matt
2 years ago
Reply to  David

The “solution” such as it is is to keep in practice with how to engage with and attract women and accept that the day may come sooner or later when it happens, it happens all the time and in some other situation you may have even been the Chad (and if you’ve been out actively playing prior to ‘settling down’ you should have been!) thinking of yourself as “low value” is surely a great way to speed up the process tho

there’s no contract you can find to sign or set of precautions you can devise that give you a 100% chance of avoiding emotional pain in life so to keep your head intact the ability to say “fuck it” is an important skill to work on

Splooge
Splooge
2 years ago

Major cities do that to a girl.
Met some real nice women lately from the praries an they have a different mindset when it comed to sex sn datim datdatin then those here…..even our many asian students from whatever bbig city

FUCKIT
FUCKIT
2 years ago

Get yourself a boring girl and shy. All woman are sluts and have the slut gene in them. You will never find a 100% pure woman. Unless she´s brain paralyzed. Man today forgot to be Alfa. A friend of mine his grandfather would always seat his gradnmother against the wall in restaurants. My grandfather wouldn´t let my grandmother wear pants neither drive. My wife doesn´t work. It´s all about opportunities. If you give them opportunities they will all cheat on you. some will be easier. Other more difficult. But all will be easier. One last piece of advice I hope it works on you: there was a woman in your life who was a slut. Probably your mother. Stop chasing her traits. But don´t forget the magic. A woman is like a stone you mold. You can pull her slut traits. Or offuscate. It´s up to you. My wife didn´t enjoy travel. Now she loves it. But with me. A lot of guys end in the single man graveyard. It´s a place of lost souls. I almost took that train but decided not to. Some friends of mine went to a bachelor party. I had my kids school annual party. My kid is number one. You ever wonder why did the Rothschild had so much success? Because they´re father educated them.

Lisa
Lisa
2 years ago
Reply to  FUCKIT

“Man today forgot to be Alfa”? You mean Alfa Romeo? (Yeah, that might help.)

mikekomljenovic
mikekomljenovic
2 years ago
Reply to  FUCKIT

Dafuq you just say?

hcurrie77
hcurrie77
2 years ago
Reply to  FUCKIT

Find someone who cares about you. Cares if you are hungry or tired. Who does not go our and fuck up your credit. Does not use you for your money. Does not bad mouth you behind your back. Tries to help you accomplish things not tear them down. Has them same goals Sounds cliche but if her goals are to be worshiped and yours is to pay off the house it is not going to happen. Not without a fight and a lot of strife and struggle. Life is hard enough without coming home to a war. I do not undermine my and my husband’s work. I am not perfect no one is but I try and that is all that matters. I do not tear down our house. Too many whores are tearing down their own house because they are selfish. My father did not teach me entitlement he told me to bring something to the table. My parents are still married VERY HAPPILY. They are 75. No other marriages only each other. They fought but they did not destroy their house. My dad is a simply man and claims not to be so smart. I thinks he is wrong. His advice. Find someone who cares for you

Gary Gordon
2 years ago
Reply to  hcurrie77

The problem with what you said, and I know after 2 divorces, is that a women lives in the moment, her emotions control her, she is not logical and reasoned like a man. She has no accountability and is selfish/ self centered. So what she promises and swears to you today will not hold for sure tomorrow. Of course a small percentage of unicorns exist , however not many and not in the selfie society of today. If you are up for Russian roulette, so be it, as for for me…just pump and dump, Bust n’ move !!

Just some guy
Just some guy
2 years ago
Reply to  FUCKIT

You’re an incel aren’t you?

Superchad
Superchad
2 years ago

After reading whole redpill shit conclusion is this, never get married, pump and dump bitches and let some beta idiots raised my offsprings believing it’s them.

Anti-Gnostic
Anti-Gnostic
2 years ago
Reply to  Superchad

“After reading whole redpill shit conclusion is this, never get married…”

And remain a chump.

“pump and dump bitches”

And get shot by the husband for using your “gaming skills” to disrespect your fellow men. See, you do realize that your parents clearly did not raise you the right way.

“and let some beta idiots raised my offsprings believing it’s them.

Actually, true alphas are the ones who marry, have offspring, and take responsibility. It’s called being an adult. I guess it is your prerogative to remain a little boy.

Superchad
Superchad
2 years ago
Reply to  Anti-Gnostic

You respond like woman, disgusting.

Marius Aetius Lucullus
Marius Aetius Lucullus
2 years ago
Reply to  Superchad

she actually is, she just stalks the comment section like a paid shill

Superchad
Superchad
2 years ago

Better he/she be paid for it, cause a woman who waste time like that is also disgusting.

positron1
positron1
2 years ago

Yeah, she’s been following me around the comments on another article for days now. It hadn’t occurred to me, but it’s probably a woman like you said.

Bavieca
Bavieca
2 years ago
Reply to  positron1

It is against reviving the patriarchy and against repelling the 19th amendment. It holds that only married men can be real men, but it holds that all spinsters are real women. #doublestandards

It said that SMV as employed by the manosphere is elitist claptrap but it routinely called men who disagree with it as beta or gamma. It invoked Christianity, prattled about conserving the white race and Western civilization but is OK with non-white and non-Christian immigration.

Even if it actually has Y chromosome, it stands head and shoulders above David Futrelle and Big Red even.

Matt
Matt
2 years ago
Reply to  Bavieca

Yeah as if Jesus Christ himself the lifelong bachelor told me that it’s my job in life to marry some Western broad and be Mr. Provider.

Anti-Gnostic
Anti-Gnostic
2 years ago
Reply to  Superchad

Actually, I am responding as a man who is properly taking you to task for your juvenile ways. No shilling, just truth telling.

TheOnceAndFutureKing
TheOnceAndFutureKing
2 years ago
Reply to  Anti-Gnostic

Ahh…so you let a woman hang the sword of Damocles over your head.

Just don’t hate on us men who can still enjoy financial independence. Besides, I’d rather be a “little boy” for the rest of my life than sign a contract with the state just so I can watch a woman get fat while she nags me.

Matt
Matt
2 years ago
Reply to  Anti-Gnostic

A man who stormed Normandy Beach or something might have the right to take other men to task for not living up to proper standards of masculinity but your claim to fame is apparently getting married and having children the most regular thing in the world that happens a million times a day. Surely let’s get this guy a Medal of Honor for his service

Lisa
Lisa
2 years ago
Reply to  Anti-Gnostic

Or enjoy the single, childfree life forever–but don’t make kids and then abandon them!

hankerow
hankerow
2 years ago

“she scooped semen with two fingures”
Hilarious…Roosh you salty dog…creempieing heippie girls… RESPECT

Paul Aubrey
Paul Aubrey
2 years ago

in the world of spying and infidelity solution just contact oneofonehack at g MAIL .Com very good in hacking into phones remotely.

Johny
Johny
2 years ago

3. She goes to a club.

This entire article is like saying “I went to a strip club and all I met there were sluts…”

Just some guy
Just some guy
2 years ago

Wow, an article where one of the reasons isn’t “she’s a woman”.

Good job Roosh.

Scott Jenner
Scott Jenner
2 years ago

And this is why I never plan to get married- too risky!

Just saying
Just saying
2 years ago

I enjoy your articles but these observations, as in fact most observations on ROK, may apply for young women between 18 and 25. They are of much less use for even slightly older women who are psychologically more mature and less dependent on instant gratification.

Denis
Denis
2 years ago
Reply to  Just saying

“older women” were “between 18 and 25″…. duh!

MordechaiJeffersonCarver
MordechaiJeffersonCarver
2 years ago
Reply to  Just saying

They don’t change or mature, it is not men we are talking about here

Gary Gordon
2 years ago

this is true…I have seen the same behavior with 30’s and 40’s women.

Mat Heller
Mat Heller
2 years ago

I find girls who are basically walking semen toilets repulsive. But that’s just me I think.

Take The Red Pill
Take The Red Pill
2 years ago
Reply to  Mat Heller

Besides being “walking semen toilets”, the women of modern societies have made themselves into ‘walking Petri dishes’ — only God knows what kinds of STDs are simmering in the sewers between their legs.

Anti-Gnostic
Anti-Gnostic
2 years ago

That would be men and women who cannot control their rutting instincts, in particular when they are married and seek outside pleasure.

Kish
Kish
2 years ago

Reason 3: She meets Chad.

Happy 4th of July!

will
will
2 years ago

Great article. Totally on point.

Eszter Pálmai
Eszter Pálmai
2 years ago

Also: Male “Friends.”

Matt
Matt
2 years ago
Reply to  Eszter Pálmai

every girl that’s not totally unattractive, single, married, divorced, monogamous, poly, swinger, whatever has random dudes of unknown purpose and provenance orbiting around who even knows or cares who all these mufukkas are. If that’s going to faze him and keep him up all night might as well stay home.

Imprevist
Imprevist
2 years ago

The only thing that a woman wants in a man is a sponsor. They want to make their own money but have a man to sponsor all their needs. Vacations, dinners, gifts, you name it. Just check out instagram and see these women living a lavish lifestyle, who do you think is paying for all that?
Sure she may love him as long as the sponsorship is good but as soon as it lacks or she gets bored, she’s out. It never fails that a women will provoke a man with drama of any kind when she has one foot out the door. Of course a man will overreact to this said drama and a woman will use that to end the relationship and blame the man. Never fails.

Take The Red Pill
Take The Red Pill
2 years ago
Reply to  Imprevist

“Sure she may love him as long as the sponsorship is good…”

That “love” is the same kind of “love” that a parasite has for it’s ‘host’ — and it isn’t ‘love’.

Imprevist
Imprevist
2 years ago

Love in the sense that she “loves” what he does for her and nothing more. As Matthew Fitzgerald would say pure sex-ployatation.

MGTOWMonster
MGTOWMonster
2 years ago

1. She’s a girl;
2. See above.

Laramie Stewart
Laramie Stewart
2 years ago

I don’t buy that he’s looking for a wife.

razorhoof
razorhoof
2 years ago

Last year, I was a living example of the Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks meme. I met a woman who was in a committed relationship with a multimillionaire which didn’t stop her for one second from sucking and fucking me dry (that night, and the next morning)

She was ready to leave the guy for me, and I have barely a pot to piss in lol.

Robert Hagedorn
2 years ago

There are still some good women to be found in church. But the man has to be a devout Christian along with the woman.

mick_lowe
mick_lowe
2 years ago

Does entitlement = narcissism?

Good job Roosh! Thx

Mr.Stranding
Mr.Stranding
2 years ago

What that hippie girl did at the end is the stuff of dreams. Great post as always.

Jacob Hughes
Jacob Hughes
2 years ago

Best to accept your gal will step out occasionally. If you can’t handle that…you need to avoid marriage.

Gary Gordon
2 years ago
Reply to  Jacob Hughes

Yeah…game over..I’m out…using escorts now