5 Hats A Man Must Wear To Have A Healthy Sex Life

As women get more selective about the men they date, men must learn a multitude of new skills that approach professional competency just to enter and maintain sexual relationships with them. For many men, being able to have sex with women is becoming similar to the training they must undertake to land a high-paying career.

I’ve written many books, but I didn’t only write them—I also had to format the books according to the printer’s specifications, design the covers (or contract them out), do multiple rounds of editing, hire a copy editor, determine pricing, construct enticing summaries, make a web page to sell them on, market the books through multiple channels, and handle customer service. In the past, writers rarely did more than a couple edits of their books before handing it off to the publisher, but self-published authors today have to wear many hats to bring their books to market.

Becoming a man who can enter relationships with women is not unlike being a self-published writer: you now have to master several processes and skills just to be moderately successful. Below I list the hats a man in the 21st century must wear if he wants to have a healthy sex life.

Salesman

As community and social bonds weaken, it’s unlikely that a man will organically meet a good woman in his existing social circles. He will not be introduced to her through his neighbor, church, or family events. Instead, he must learn how to cold approach women in public or learn how to chat them up on the internet.

Cold approaching, as any professional salesman can tell you, has a high failure rate, and so the man must master playing the “numbers game” by contacting high quantities of women in order to succeed with just one. He must learn legitimate sales tactics, steel his core against rejection, learn how to deal with wishy-washy leads, and identify signals that the customer wants to buy in order to close the deal. He must even learn how to manage his state and mood so that he can keep approaching cold prospects in the face of long stretches of failure. A man who is good in the game today is quite qualified to be an actual corporate salesman.

Psychologist

Approximately 25% of women are diagnosed as mentally ill. Many others are neurotic and approach senility in some form, making them unable to handle normal life situations. Women will constantly whine and stress over their first-world problems and you’ll notice firsthand how it affects their mood, pleasantness, and willingness to have sex. If you want sex to proceed, you must put on the hat of a psychologist to manage her sour mood or budding mental illness in a way that prevents her from ruining the time you share with her or having a complete mental breakdown.

Just like how a psychologist doesn’t get completely involved in a patient’s life, a man must be careful not to help so much that the woman starts to construe his aid as needy and then withhold sexual benefits. A man must give a woman the tools to continue opening her legs without inserting himself into her problems completely. This takes a delicate balance that actual psychologists possess and receive rates in excess of $100 an hour to perform.

Soap Opera Writer

There is nothing more that a modern woman hates than a boring, predictable man. Since her life is already boring and predictable thanks to voluntarily enslaving herself to a corporate career, she seeks excitement and spontaneity outside of it. Therefore as a man you must provide her with the plot twists, uncertainty, and dread that she desperately desires now that her life is safe.

One key skill of the soap opera writers is never ending the story. Whenever one subplot ends, another begins, and the viewer is forced to watch every episode to hope for a final resolution that actually never comes. As a man, you must mimic the soap opera writer (and to a lesser extent, the romance writer) in structuring your relationship so that the woman wants to keep tuning into you. The worst thing that can happen is she turns off the show and looks elsewhere for the drama and tension she craves.

Clown

Not only must a man write the plot lines that excite a woman, he has to act them out as well, creating a one-man show so skilled that it would undoubtedly impress Broadway stage veterans. In addition to producing exciting plots, the man must provide action in the moment through his masterful use of stories, humor, interesting statements, and the most confident of body language. He must also display a wide range of emotions that can instantly go from basic tenderness to anger, from being a silent stoic to an animated raconteur. The man’s human body is but a form to provide entertainment to a woman that keeps her interest level high in the moment.

It wouldn’t hurt the modern male to take on actual clown behaviors that were historically designed to entertain children. A man can easily excite a woman through the use of magic tricks, cold reading, and silly pranks that enthrall a woman and keep her coming back for more.

Porn Star

Since the countercultural revolution of the 1960’s, women have been taught that bodily pleasure experienced through their vaginas is absolutely paramount, more than any emotional connection that can be received from a “good man,” which has become a euphemism for “so boring lol.” Women now require a man to have a handful of tricks in his sexual toolbox so she can be pleasured in a wide variety of sexual positions and styles to utilize her vagina in ways that biology did not originally intend. Only men with porn star levels of energy and ambition will be able to completely satisfy her.

If a man is unable to sex a woman in the rough and borderline abusive manner she demands, she will get bored and seek out another cock. You must pull her hair, choke her, and simulate rape conditions so that her vagina is excited to the upper reaches of its factory specifications, and do so as long as she requires, with masterful control of your own orgasm in the tantric style. If you do not excite her vagina or at least perform the moves she read about in a book like 50 Shades Of Gray, she will procure rough sex elsewhere.

Conclusion

In the past, a man had to simply be polite, have character, and be gainfully employed to get and keep the attentions of a good woman. He only had to be a professional in the job that put bread on the table for his family. That man today would either die a virgin or attempt a murderous shooting spree. Now he must be a salesman, psychologist, soap opera writer, clown, and porn star all wrapped into one seamless package to begin enjoying relationships with attractive women in their fertile prime. The set of skills for each profession must be good enough that the man could begin to compete with actual professionals in those respective fields.

If a man wants to get laid at all with any woman, even low quality ones, he must at least possess basic competency for each profession. Otherwise, he may want to try a hobby like stamp collecting to fill his future lonely nights.

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#6 . Condom

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And those are only a few of the shoes we have to fill. Other roles could be those of accountant (managing own finances, and hers, especially), cook (primarily for yourself, but have you looked at the processed crap in your average North American girl’s fridge?), dietician (because when you wife them up, they’ll continue to eat the same crap, except more of it, and they’ll start getting fat almost immediately after getting married), team lead/manager (because you have to be the alpha male – the “event organizer” – of your group of friends in order to have the social status required to land a beautiful woman), taxi driver (you don’t want to be a bitch boy driving them around everywhere, but for some reason most young girls I go out with don’t drive, so I end up picking them up to bring them to my place, if I don’t then I don’t get sex), personal trainer (many girls don’t go to the gym because they get plenty of attention anyway, but even the ones who do normally don’t know what they’re doing at the gym, they don’t even know a cardio machine will monitor heart rate for example), landscape professional (it’s not like they’re going to help out in the yard), handyman (fixing stuff around the house), and so on…

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And what do you get in return for performing these duties to the modern woman?

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Continuous ball busting is the answer.

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Would any of you experiment with being your selves for a month and observe if indeed, a real man would experience consequential celibacy? Maybe after learning game, it becomes a part of yourself just like learning other languages does and all you have to do is invest your energy on the attractive, healthy, feminine, emotional available women ready to connect with you- without needing to put up any acts.

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Everyone acts in one way or another. Even the ‘nice guy’ is running his own version of game. It’s just useless game.

Andrea
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Yes, we all act and at the end we all loose.

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Do you not get that women impose the responsibility of initiating sex, relationships, leading social interactions, and so on, on the guy? He can’t “be himself’ because if he did, he’d be rendered invisible. Men don’t get to decide what women want and expect. They either conform to women’s unimaginative and very narrowly defined set of daddy issues riven male idealizations or they can write their ticket to involuntary celibacy hell.

All this bullshit begins and ends with women. And even now, when you realize how pathetic, soulless, and sad that it all is, you still expect men to do something to fix it when it is you who created the problem.

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Interesting. So if I hear you correctly, we are the ones responsible for the inability of men to open up, be real, and develop intimate relationships with us? So what can we do?

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I don’t know what the answer is. Stop relating to an idealization and start relating to an actual person. Stop treating relationships like you’re shopping for shoes on sale, as if every guy has to conform to all the boxes you demand he checks off or else you’ll throw him away and go with one of the 40 other chumps orbiting you. Stop assuming that the minority of men you notice are indicative of all men.

Recognize that most of this shit is so miserable for men that the majority of them secretly would just prefer an average chick they’re moderately attracted to and who they can trust. Somebody who isn’t going to fitness test them constantly and doesn’t conceive of the relationship as if it’s his job to entertain her or conform to some impossible fantasy that exists nowhere but in her head. Of course this majority of men isn’t even noticed by women, which is precisely why men have to pretend they are something they are not.

How would intimacy be possible if women don’t relate to actual people but instead relate to a symbol in their own psychology and use men as a prop? That’s what most women are doing and they don’t even seem to recognize it. It’s so common that its grist for comedy routines. We all notice the way women try to change men in order to make them into something other than what they are. They’re all so focused on turning you into a ken doll ideal that they aren’t even curious nor do they notice the actual guy they are with.

As far as pick up goes, the reality is that a girl who doesn’t do shit like this is going to be worth more than a pump and dump to most guys. If guys only had sex with girls they thought were relationship material, the species would die out.

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I agree. There are a lot of shallow women whose egos are so big that they are truly inept at intimacy with anyone, especially men. But this is also true amongst your sex. So intimacy is a two way street and all involved must be real, vulnerable and aware.

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Men get ruthlessly punished for vulnerability. Women do not. In fact, women’s vulnerability is what makes white knighting chumps feel like they have a place in a woman’s life and that is precisely why they become a doormat. It’s women who are incapable of intimacy because they can’t conceive of it as anything other than some guy listening to her bullshit and prioritizing her. Women don’t know how to reciprocate that. Maybe once upon a time women knew how to do this, I don’t know, but certainly not in the contemporary you-go-gurl! culture. All female selfishness can be waived away with ready made excuses, so much so that women don’t even recognize it as selfishness.

It’s really not that complicated. Men look for the unconditional love of mommy, while women look for daddy. Women can expect to find daddy, but men never find mommy, however. Having to see the guy as a human being displaces what women find sexually attractive about men. It’s how you go from masculine idealization whose leg she has to tug on and whose attention she craves but can never fully secure to being the chump who gets to hold her purse while she goes shopping and whines about some douchebag who won’t commit to her.

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And there’s where it gets tricky. How can you be yourself while maintaining that masculine nature that women are drawn to? Men here call it game. I think is simply the power that exudes from any man that truly knows himself, his fears, his demons, his strength, and his weakness. Sure most men need to fake this power, but some men don’t and they are the ones who don’t need game.

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You’re assuming women even understand the opposite sex enough to recognize any of these things in men they interact with. They don’t. They wouldn’t recognize that masculine nature when they see it. They don’t even understand that nature, all they understand are superficial cultural signifiers of it that they interpret from outside of it. It’s like female elk selecting for males with the biggest antlers, even though those antlers are a net survival liability.

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Your analogy shows that we perceive it instinctively. Now, in order to know if it’s genuine, we would need to empathize with men and try to understand their realities. But we live in a world bombarded with lies and excessive, meaningless information and overwhelming stimuli, that it’s almost impossible for us to arrive at any deep understanding of anything.

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The thing is, most men are lied to their entire lives about all of this of this. Women have their own version of the Madonna/whore complex. There’s the provider dad guy and the sexually appealing masculine short term mating opportunity guy. Women will make the former guy jump through endless hoops and have his entire life in order just to get a dispassionate blow job, the latter guy she blows in a closet at a party while drunk without even knowing his name and having met him only 20 minutes before. Which would you rather be?

The former guy is dependable and boring, the latter guy is sexually exciting. Most women recognize that they should want the former guy, because this is what accord with their super ego, but most of them actually want the latter guy because he is what accords with the Id.

From the male perspective, I’d rather appeal to her Id. I don’t get to decide what her Id wants. I’d rather be the guy she actually wants because she’s sexually attracted to, the one she makes excuses for, even when he fucks up and doesn’t have his life together, rather than be the other guy she is told she should want because he’s the responsible choice, the one she isn’t sexually attracted to, the she makes, not excuses for, but ever more rules and obligations, no matter how hard the guy works or how well he meets her demands.

Society is afraid of masculinity because it means men that take risks, negotiate harder for raises, refuse to be office drones, men that rise up and overthrow governments, men who don’t wife women up and produce economic surplus and tax revenue for the state and women. It means men who don’t judge themselves by how well they serve others, who aren’t always being shamed out of their own desires. Society wants men who are shamed into rushing machine gun nests for women and children, not the men who would ask “what’s in it for me?”

So they lie to men about it. It’s not a conscious conspiracy, it’s just how the unconscious cultural logic of it ends up working out. It’s a cultural and sexual emergent property that transcends any one individual or another because it arises out of interactions between individuals.

So men are told to adopt the dad ideal masculinity and play the provider, this is the pair bonding male ideal. For a previous generation, this worked reasonably well. You worked hard, went to school, did what you were told, and you got rewarded with the picket fence ideal, a wife, kids, etc. Courtship was always costly emotionally and financially for men, but it ended in a reasonable time frame. Even as recently as the 1980s, most people were married by their early 20s.

That’s over now. If you go with the rule book your society gives you, you just get led over a cliff. Stable pensioned employment is disappearing, education leads to debt, underemployment and ruin half the time, and women have more options than ever so the bar has never been set higher for men while the resources to meet or exceed those expectations were never more scarce.

So, that’s the reality men are coming from. Some guy who doesn’t exude masculinity when he’s courting you because he thinks he’s supposed to appeal to your super ego isn’t necessarily the pussy you might think he is. He’s just that way with women because that’s the model of masculinity he was sold on his entire life. He’s not a pussy. The guy would subordinate his whole life to providing for a family, he’d probably take a bullet for you. Women don’t see that aspect of it. They just see a doormat.

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You should write a blog. I completely agree. Marriage is an economic construct and the state doesn’t want men nor women who question and brake its physical and ideological chains. Men and women who can give and receive real love will always brake free from any external control. So that is why intimacy is not only desired but vital. So don’t you think that a woman can truly love the guy that appeals to her id?

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I think women are only capable of loving the guy who appeals to her Id. But women’s idea of love and the male idea of love are at odds. The guy is only truly going to love her when he gets to stop performing and jumping through hoops, when it’s ok for him to not be on guard all the time, slaying dragons of whatever kind, etc., But she’ll only truly love him if he maintains the fantasy of the perpetual dragon slayer. If he gets what he wants most, she loses what she wants most and vice versa.

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Word

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I don’t know what the answer is. The only thing I could think of is for women to rethink masculinity. But that won’t be happening anytime soon.

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Some of us are starting to do so. I think the answer is love and intimacy. Once the dragon slayer is exhausted and needs to recharge, she can be there ready to embrace him at his weakest for she knows that’s when their souls meet.

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Like a romance novel? I won’t hold my breath waiting for that to catch on.

Bond Summers
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You got it too. You’re professional.

Dirk Diggler
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And that’s why women get what they deserve.

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Women are morons when it comes to judging a mans’ character. Which gender writes love letters and marriage proposals to murderers and serial killers in prison? It’s women. I never heard of men doing this.

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Very key what you wrote in this paragraph. You got it.

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A man has to essentially make himself inhuman (perfect high paying job, looks, physique, personality, etc.) to be attractive to women. Women have unrealistic expectations of men.

Think about that.

Relationships with women are a losing proposition. This is why relationships with women are a waste of time. Spend your time improving yourself, and doing what makes you happy. Don’t base your happiness on what women think. It’s the only way to stay sane and healthy.

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And thanks for sacrificing your sperm for the species.

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Women can’t even decide where to go to lunch.

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You broke my life with that “thing”, not cool.

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What do you mean by “Would”?

There is not a single male reading this comment who hasn’t tried and failed at it already.

We already know the results of that dumb little experiment.

That’s why we’re here. have some sense.

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Yup, you’re right. Why else would you be here. It’s really disheartening to see how intimacy is further obstructed with the necessity of game.

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Haha, yeah because women are capable of “intimacy.” Good one.

Andrea
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Yes we are. We are humans and as such we are not only capable of it, we are biologically conditioned to seek it and attain it.

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Usually with a tatted up convict and/or wife beater. 😆

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HAHAHAHAHAHA!

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lol

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I think you hit this last week…after all the work you get to sit down and watch an instagram/dubsmash multimedia presentation as if shes a celebrity or something.

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The equivalent of milk past its expiration date.

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Yes, I consider men who take pride in being able only to reheat microwave meals pathetic. A man should be capable of self sustenance. The only problem with being an awesome cook is friends getting a taste for your food!

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Roosh, therefore you think the percentage of men who get laid regularly is every day smaller (restricting the category to natural alpha guys and dudes who heartly put an effort to learn game), or you see an improvement in men’s player skills due to a natural evolution process caused by the necessity to adapt to the current situation?

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Good question

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Roosh is a guy in his late 30s who trolls public streets and nightclubs begging random women to have sex with him, in the hopes that 1% of them might give him scraps of attention. Why would you expect him to know the answer to anything? He’s a failure as a human being, not someone to look to for guidance.

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Sounds like you’re describing your subconscious self.

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Yes, but this makes you the best man possible. This makes you the Anna of men. Most women, for good or for bad, don’t have access to the man they’d truly want, and even many club players couldn’t even imagine being with a true high-quality girl, especially not in Western countries. This will give you access to some of the greatest experiences in life. It is probably the most valuable skill that one can have, and one that I learn every day with enthusiasm.

It is what it is. Everything that’s worth anything in life takes work.

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If even the most established men of the manosphere are astonished by all the elaborate hoops they have to jump through just to get noticed, not to mention to get a notch, the pool of men that is able to fulfill women’s growing checklists and are willing to perform to the standards these women have set for them isn’t only small but must also shrink by the day. The mating game will soon become too costly for 90% of the men out there, which leaves 10% (or less) of the cocks to regularly service the majority of women. The logistics for these guys will be so demanding, you have to wonder whether they will have any time for work (or study) left.

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Hilarious!

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In what way?

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The idea of these few men trying to service the majority of women. I guess it goes back to what the PUAS experience after arriving at the “pussy paradise” – the loss of joy from excess.

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After a hard day at work, who wants to go back to work?

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I goes back to basic biology. Reverting from the very modern idea of marriage, back to the way we lived pre-civilization. The only problem is that you cant have one without the other. No marriage, (or similar lasting union,) and the stability of a moden society will eventually crumble.

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I think we’re basically saying the same thing, from different angles

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10% eh? Check this out:

http://www.psmag.com/nature-and-technology/17-to-1-reproductive-success

For a long time, the ratio was 1 in 17, which is about 5.8%.

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We are regressing back to that ratio

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“The mating game will soon become too costly for 90% of the men out there, which leaves 10% of the cocks to regularly service the majority of women.”

It’s gotten to the point where I now realize that any man I see with even a halfway attractive female has gone through a TON of degrading shit just to have her by his side. I can never feel envy when I see that. Esther Vilar wrote in Manipulated Man that females are costing men a lot in both personal and material resources.

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A definition or clarification of ‘healthy’ sex life as specified here could be another article in itself.

Based on all this hoop jumping…nah. Disregard females, acquire currency.

advancedatheist
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The film Demolition Man predicted our world:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JizGkM6gbvQ

Conrad Stonebanks
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The three seashells suddenly come to mind.

advancedatheist
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The part about the 47 year old virgin in pajamas and drinking the broccoli-banana shake made me think of Obamacare’s Pajama Boy.

http://theplazz.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/Obamacare-pajama-boy.jpg

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“John Spartan, you are fined five credits for repeated violations of the verbal morality statute.”

advancedatheist
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I never found Sandra Bullock attractive. And this post by agnostic might explain why:

Hidden homos: Is Sandra Bullock a male-to-female transsexual?

http://akinokure.blogspot.com/2013/10/hidden-homos-is-sandra-bullock-male-to.html

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Me neither

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My sure Sandra is curled up in a ball somewhere so over wrought that she is not meeting your expectations.

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She’s not all that – even when she was younger. Sandra Bullock won “sexiest woman of the year” for political reasons: (older, barren, unmarried feminist/leftist who adopted a black status baby).

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“Hidden homos: Is Sandra Bullock a male-to-female transsexual”

She’s definitely becoming more manly as she gets older.

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The key is to create your own business team with specialists as contractors that you can outsource dull tasks. This open up your time to focus on making money, improvement, and sex.

Cyrus the conquerer
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Automate the dull tasks. Those in power would do the same to you if you could be replaced, so why not do the same

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This is why I’m so stone cold towards women. Even if they cry and act all innocent, it’s not going to convince me one bit to feel sorry for them. I had to literally kill the “nice guy” within me in order to at least score with even average women whose standards are so out of touch with reality. My sociopath behavior actually helps me get laid with women. It’s sad to say because it’s not natural of me. Now instead of being used like I was in the past, now I’m the user and I use women. They are so happy to pay for the tabs and buy me drink, I just sit back relax and let them use their credit card to the max. I enjoy every moment of it.

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I doubt you were ever the ‘nice guy’. Men who make that claim are the wallflowers of the world who stand in the shadows and don’t ever approach a woman yet await the supermodel knocking on their door and quietly seething when that doesn’t happen. No, you were never the nice guy. You were always the sociopath you now embrace in your post. Congrats on finding your true self.

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Of all the rationalizations women come up with to justify their shameful sexual preferences, this has to be the most transparently self-serving one.

“Nice guys do well with women! Sociopaths do poorly! Everyone knows this! The problem is that you weren’t actually a nice guy! You were a bad guy, deep down! And bad guys never get laid! Ever! And despite the swelling in your balls and your desperate need for sexual release, you were literally unwilling to go for anything less than a 10/10 Swimsuit Illustrated cover model. Literally.”

Reminder: chicks actually believe all of this.

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Shameful sexual preferences? Oh, you mean like the one your hero spouts off on about his hatred for fat American women? Certainly sounds like a preference to me.

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It’s chick brain ouroboros, a cuntish klein bottle.

“Nice guys” are the real “sociopaths,” who aren’t “nice guys” because they’re fake “sociopaths,” who are the real “nice guys” because they are just misunderstood, being true to themselves is not “sociopathic” but nice, making them “nice guys…”

Hilarious. Who bitch this is?

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Actually yes I was the nice guy. Nice guy who did everything a women told me to do. Buying them gifts, dinner and giving them ride wherever they wanted. In exchange when I proposed to them my feelings for them, they just simply said …”You know I really like you and I don’t want to lose you as a friend”. Or something similar along that line. I never waited for women to make a move on me. Even as a former nice guy, I knew I had to make a move. The difference is now I’m indifferent and selfish which women love versus when I used to be caring and sensual.

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That is such a fucked up response.
So now after you have to become a nut-job self-interested drug dealer to hold a woman’s attraction for you they can just turn around and say “Oh you were always like that, before you were just pretending to be a nice person”.
What he’s saying is real… I’ve been there and I see it every day… It fucking sucks to have to behave like a psycho but there is no choice if you want a woman’s respect nowadays.
Every weekend in the clubs I work at I see guys selling themselves out just to hold the attention of an average woman. Meanwhile well-to-do educated good-fashion gentlemen are struggling to find a woman to stick around at all.
You don’t know what you’re saying.

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Look buddy, I have dealt with women for about 15 years. The Golden rule with women, never be a nice guy with a woman. They would take advantage of a nice man. I got my ass kicked by women for being the nice guy. Women in my opinion are screwed up. Women in the long term needs a nice man who is going to look after her and her future children. If women continues to pursue bad men, they are gonna get dumped and end up in poverty. I have seen many single parent women who pick ed bad men and it serves them right. I have no sympathy for them as they made dumb ass decisions.

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I know it’s just difficult to accept. Seems pointless.

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And treating them poorly does enable you to fuck them easily, I agree, but who wants a LTR with someone you can’t even respect or trust and have to keep constantly manipulating? It’s a catch 22–treat them right and you are alone, treat them badly and you get sex, but nowhere do you get a real relationship. The banging random chicks thing just gets old but it’s the only option men are left with besides celibacy…

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Not true. Chicks dig pricks, especially young chicks. The more of an aloof asshole you are, the better you will do – it is a reflection of the sick world we live in thanks to feminism

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there is a little bit of truth but not total in what you wrote. by nice guy he means being sensitive. i used to be like that too. i wouldnt want to hurt someones feelings, or i was easily led to feeling guilty. if a girl said hit me during sex i used to shyly slap her, and she would tell me to hit her harder, and when i see the red mark it makes me want to stop, but she insists. i would ask before doing something sexual instead of just putting my dick in her mouth. things like that

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“even average women whose standards are so out of touch with reality. My sociopath behavior actually helps me get laid with women. It’s sad to say because it’s not natural of me”

Exactly how i felt when i became red pill, and altered my behavior and achieved much better success. On one hand it’s good to ‘crack the code’ on how to get with a female, at the same time very depressing having to act in a way that goes against common decency.

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Amen.

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I used to actually buy girls flowers and shit, years ago.. but eventually after being let down so many times, I was like, for what ? They killed the nice guys.. they want to fuck the guy who just got out of prison, rides a motorcycle, and is covered in tattoos. All they will do is fill up on your dime, and go home and fuck him. It’s a bad investment.

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Somewhat related:

What It’s Like Being a Male Sex Surrogate Helping Women Get Over Sexual Dysfunction

http://www.alternet.org/what-its-being-male-sex-surrogate-helping-women-get-over-sexual-dysfunction

I really don’t give a crap if a few women clam they suffer from “sexual dysfunctions.” They’ll use any excuse they can to say no to the men they find sexually yucky.

Prostitutes, by contrast, show that women can function sexually with just about any man through an act of will, and without any of this bullshit about having “chemistry” with the guy first.

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It’s a racket. Google the guy involved in that article – and tell me he’s anything near first pick of the litter for women LOL. Looks like he knew the right guy to get these credentials.

If women are dumb enough to fall for it, good on him

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Kindly post your unbaised scientific data supporting your claim that “Approximately 25% of women are diagnosed as mentally ill.”. What an absurd ‘fact’, even more absurd that you make this claim toward only one gender. Yes, people like you are the paragon of mental health. Hiding behind keyboards and crafting some image of being a ‘playa’ while living in some other country because the women of America are too fat for you. Setting up impossible ideals of feminine perfection while also trying to screw as many anonymous woman as possible is setting up some irreconcilable rift in your own mental state. You should have moved on by now, bro. You are permanently stuck in some 10th grade version of how life, relationships and women should be. You engage in confirmation bias to support your claims and only see what you want to see and interpret it as fact. You don’t know how to relate to women at all and objectify them in this endless tiresome game you play and encourage others to play. By the way, you didn’t invent any of this. There was a book in the 1960’s about being a pick up artist and there is a much grander site called AskMen that engages in a lot of the same sad crapola that you are peddling.

When you play games, you get gameplayers. Make a dick move, get a dick result. Law of attraction, yadda, yadda, yadda.

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Either a white knight or a woman, please ban

trx2
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Lol. Please ban.. why, are you so threatened by some comments you can’t bear to read them? What an insecure idiot.

Heresy Reznor
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You provide nothing to the conversation and sound like a woman pretending to be a man. We have enough of our own idiots and losers already, there is no need for you.

trx2
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Obviously I do provide something to the conversation if you are so pissed off by what I post that you want my ability to post neutered and banned. You are the 7 year old boy in the tree house who just hung up their ‘no girls allowed’ sign. Lol!

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Pissing people off (As you say you do) is not adding things to the conversation.

Ah, to be able to get away with having signs like that in business these days.

trx2
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By “adding to the conversation” I take it y’all mean to agree with each other in your permanently unfuckable state of hostility? Y’all have to get together to male bond after getting shot down once again? Never occurs to you to stop thinking real life is like the porn you buy off the internet, does it? Do you not realize that women can feel your seething hostility toward them from 20 feet away and that is why you never get laid? Try being a real person for a change and stop forming your life outlook from internet porn and other cave dwellers who frequent sites such as this one.

Tim
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You left out a mother’s basement jibe, but overall not bad.

7/10

Heresy Reznor
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As I thought, butthurt woman. Don’t respond to her anymore, generally talking sense into a woman only works if she’s attracted to you wink

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Repeating the same talking points every woman uses, and asking questions that are easily answered with a google search or using the source data for previous blog posts are not “adding something” of any relevence or value to the intended audience of this site.

Stop projecting your defensive emotional responses onto me. I don’t get worked up over reading things I dont agree with.

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Sure you do, or you wouldn’t be demanding my account be banned.

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Your lack of self awareness and maturity is obvious by the childishness of your projections.

This is a mens site, you dont agree with the material, and you’re too dim to figure out how to work a google search. Goodbye

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LOL!. My google search works just fine. The onus is not on the reader to verify ‘facts’ presented in articles, the onus is on the one presenting outrageous made up claims as if they were ‘facts’.

‘Men’s site”. LOL again! oh my God, you need a secret handshake and a special phrase now to get in the tree house, don’t you? Poor guy…

Oh, by the way, is your screen name Jewish, by chance? Maybe you’d like to take a gander at your hero’s post about Jews. Your hero is half a step away from the same frothy madness that led to 9/11. I guess it will be up to the American men who read this blog to decide if they hate women more, or identify with what America was built on and stands for more because you are all getting set up to be the mindless drones of the next extremist movement.

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this is one beta that americunt feminazis will not milk dry.

i’ll gladly fuck and marry a chick from vladivostok who actually treats me like a human being & actually cares about me, imperfect & beta as i may be.

I wont be a beta worker to be ignored until successful, be milked dry when successful & eugenicized after by merciless americunt feminazis.

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Are you afraid no man will be available for you to finance your life in the future?

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It’s a made up name consisting of a an artist I like and favourite song from his 2nd album.

I’ve worked with and for ashkenazi jews, and seen their in group promoting and extreme jewcentricism first hand. They keep up a plausable front but in the end they are very two faced and treat goy quite differently than their peers.

I was considering becoming jewish for the community and in grouping aspect, but the men give me the creeps (extremely pussy whipped and two faced) and the women are entitled and annoying as hell.

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It’s because trolls like you disrupt the flow of the thread, you dumb fucking cooze.

Cyrus the conquerer
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Who bitch this is?

TyskKille
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We guys can tolerate this nonsense. We don’t need to silence opposing views, as the female side regularly does.

Dirk Diggler
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Roosh, himself, has asked us to ignore homos and women that troll here.

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1/3 of all women over 35 are in anti-depressants.
1/4 of all women, any age, are on anti-depressants. Women are emotionally unstable

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And the anti-depressants absolutely lead to diminished sex drive, reduced fertility and “Sahara Snatch” in the women that take them. Oh, and they can also help cause weight gain.

If a chick mentions “anti-depressant” tread VERY carefully; take any and all CYA precautions.

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A serious question: Do these percentages (rates) refer to the US? I am quite sure the rates are much lower in Europe.

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The under-25 crowd to me are the most psychotic. I’d say the only reason the percentages are lower is because they haven’t yet been diagnosed.

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Here is the link idiot! And it’s from the huffington post too!

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1098023

Hey guys I think we got another undiagnosed one here!

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All these skills benefit a man in life besides just getting pussy. A man who is a good cook can save money and eat healthier diet thus feeling better than eating processed crap. I’ve lost 20 pounds just by cooking nutritious meals. Being a sales and comedy act helps win in business as well as knowing human psychology.

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“In the past, a man had to simply be polite, have character, and be gainfully employed to get and keep the attentions of a good woman. He only had to be a professional in the job that put bread on the table for his family.”

In the not-so-distant past, a man could date without degrading himself because social taboos reined in excessive female attention-whoring and discouraged self-involvement and its attendant social vices. He could marry because wealth transfer and social status were only conferred on women who wed. He could anticipate a more enduring union because divorce interrupted and, very often, reduced or eliminated this transfer. It also severely damaged the counterparties’ reputation and social status with other women.

So, what is the common theme here? Consequences. Tough choices. Compromise.

And what has changed? There are no longer any consequences. Consequently, there is no incentive to entertain icky “betas” anymore.

I think we would like to believe that pre-feminist women were sexually attracted to amiable provider-type men; that enduring passion sustained old-time relationships, that virtuous girls got off on good guys, that our civilization-building predecessors were loved, truly loved, in a smoldering romantic sense.

Nope.

They were tolerated, grudgingly, for a time. Now that the restraints are off, and any remaining cultural inertia has dissipated, we can see this dynamic play out for ourselves.

“We’ll do it live!” lol

When the prime animating force behind “women’s movements” of modernity– suffrage, prohibition, feminism, lean in– is understood as sexual discontentment with the provider-man, everything makes sense. Civilized men are colossal turn-offs. Now that survival is no longer predicated on (direct) access to beta’s wallet, suddenly we see the primal truth play out: “Daddy Gov, don’t marry me off to that monster! Kill him or put him away or neuter him, or something, I don’t care.” Voila, it’s modern love.

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With one caveat…I think they were attracted to the “civilized” men simply because that´s how society programmed them. They didn’t know anything else (most of them) and mass media was not there to show them something new. By the way, wealthy men WERE the ones that kickstarted feminism, without their acquiescence and support feminism wouldn’t have taken off (Rockefeller, Rothschilds etc.)

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I don’t know about that. Experience tells me that people cannot be reliably “programmed.”

Instinct, human nature, uber alles.

What they will do, however, is parrot socially-required shibboleths– “everyone is equal,” “diversity is our strength,” “ban bossy,” “fat is beautiful.” But… just watch their behavior in isolation.

For instance, the red armpit-haired, patriarchy-smashing feminist bitch swipes right on Mr. Chris Helmsworth lookalike lax jock. Later that night, she furiously frigs herself off imagining being tied up, helpless, to his headboard. (Meanwhile, he looks at her profile and thinks, ‘Herpes skank. Next.’ lol)

Year zeroists commit vast resources to their social programming efforts, but these projects only culminate in social change when they’re aligned with instinct. The feminist phenomenon was only successful because it is the political weaponization of “alpha bucks, beta [fucked over].” AFBB is entirely natural. Just like bloodshed and rapine. Neither is “good” if you are wronged party.

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“Alpha fucks” from the aphorism “Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks,” not “alpha bucks.”

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Roosh seal of quality post

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Has anyone seen studies which show a trend towards the mass eviction of men from sex lives? I’ve read ones about Japan which indicate that a quarter of Japanese men in their early 30’s have had no sexual experience, even though Japanese have plenty of disposable income and they can fly to other Asian countries which have sex tourism industries, like the Philippines and Thailand.

I get the impression that sex researchers in the U.S., by contrast, show a lack of curiosity about this phenomenon.

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That’s because it’s about men, so who gives a shit?

Meanwhile, women not being able to decide what to call masturbation is news.

http://i100.independent.co.uk/article/eight-women-discuss-masturbation-still-dont-know-what-to-call-it–gyjyXoLIlW

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“I get the impression that sex researchers in the U.S., by contrast, show a lack of curiosity about this phenomenon.”

That’s because sexology, psychology and like fields are dominated by women. Everything is seen through the rose-colored glasses of the feminine imperative. If it doesn’t support their narrative, it isn’t worthy of study.

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Like how Dr. Oz hands Roosh a stack of academic papers “proving” that fat-acceptance leads to reduced obesity.
And yet… Americans still have an astronomical obesity rate while Japan (which has instituted fat-shaming through structural means) has one of the healthiest and longest living populations in the world.

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It’s one thing to question the effectiveness of fat shaming techniques, but quite another to staunchly deny the well-documented health consequences of obesity and to claim female obesity is irrelevant because “those are all beautiful women”. What kind of M.D., or cardiothoracic surgeon (!), promotes fat acceptance? It’s simply mind boggling.

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The bottom rung of men get pushed out, that is how our evolution as a species works. It is more apparent in cities as the competition and environmental stressors are much higher.

Unlike women, a man has to do more than just show up. You don’t have to be amazing, you just have to be competant at something and not obviously damaged in a way that signals you’re weak and thus unfit.

At 135 lbs 6′ tall, pasty, covered in moles, widows peaks, relatively sickly and poor at 28 years old I’m not in the top 50% of looks or status by far. On the other hand, I don’t put up with shit from women or treat them better than they deserve, and I’m very agressive despite my size. That combined with a 140 I.Q gets me in with 5-7’s here in Canada who are cute, fit and smart, but dont want a guido/roidmuffin or a guy with aspergers.

Extremes in phyiscal, intellectual, social and financial spheres will get you more overall attention, but the junk to quality ratio is high. Being a bit more subtle and not drawing attention allows you to get close to girls and pleasantly surprise them. But that’s the thing – most guys either throw it all oit upfront and have nothing left to reveal, or had nothing there in the first place!

You don’t have to be an abject 10% winner. Just be in the top 75% and have something you’re passionate about, that is taking you (and thus her) somewhere. You cant just sit around with the knowledge, you have to put it to use – if you can’t do that, you deserve to get shunted out. There is no difference between a loser and a winner if the winner doesn’t do anything with his abilities and opportunities, they both lead to a dead end. Your potential doesn’t make things happen, your ability and willingness to use it does.

Some guys will honestly never do better, are essentially maxed out as they are. Women aren’t the only ones who should settle – most of the men on this site should too. Spreading the seed (hooking up) only works if you are in demand. Unless you want to bang 2-4’s on the reg most guys will not be “players”. You should settle down and run relationship game, bail out of America or embrace celibacy. By giving up on women you can channel that energy into productive things and save for a good life, with or without women.

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I kind of agree with some of your perspective but the irony is that in reality the people that are breeding the most are the ones living in poverty.
Unless you consider going to prison to be a “passion” that a man can pursue, then you are missing something.

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the low end isnt aware enough to appreciate the high end. R vs K selection. Onebside sees the other as low class trash, the other as limp wristed “queers”. There is something to be said for balance – tough guy with brains, or nerd with physical prowess.

That being said, its easier to get buff than it is to get smart. Steroids are more reliable than intelligence enhancing drugs, which cause too fast of growth and unrelated neuron connections leading to schizophrenia and delusions. Lost a friend to one of those drugs.

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Sad but interesting. Never heard of neurological damage from steroid use but I’m not very surprised. The psychological effects of changing your body so quickly must also add a unique kind of stress as well.
I personally angle to be both fit and intelligent, but sometimes that can make it difficult to fit into either crowd.

LordIndra
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No, he’s saying that the nootropics(not the steroids) caused the neurological damage.

Clark Kent
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thanks

Cyrus the conquerer
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You’re 6′ tall. That height advantage confers far more benefits than a few measly moles and a widows peak. Most people have moles.

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At 6 foot you should weight 170-190 lbs. It takes consistent work in the gym and eating enough quality calories to sustain the mass.

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Lol. I was actually expecting a real hat breakdown and each ones affect on women – I’ve actually been thinking “I should get a hat” Anyway, these roles tend to diminish with real asian women and I have first hand experience. The amount of gratitude is incredibly high, and they have the most trouble in learning the ugly internal qualities of US women. A slight language barrier can make for a good relationship.

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Exactly. Men need to realize they have options internationally.
Even if you don’t want to go for the Russian or brazillian pussy, theres many varieties of Asian women who would make decent partners.
Don’t take shit from American women, even if youre at the bottom of the chain. Go abroad and let these Americunts grow old alone

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I love this post as it finally explains that nagging realization in the back of my head that I just couldn’t put into words… But now I know what it was: the demands and expectations placed on men are disproportionately large and I am literally having to become a minor salesman/marketeer just to get an initial reaction on a medium like tinder.

It also just explains how there are SO MANY even University level educated men, who have notch counts of 3 or less. Even though these are perfectly decent, non-DSM diagnosed human beings with solid IQ’s and overal good health.

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This is why patriarchy and strict Christianity controlled female sexuality. So a normal man could have a family and incentive to work hard. It gave stability to society and children.
Now the reigns have been completely let go of, and women can do whatever the fuck they want without consequence as gov programs will save them. Womens’ true nature is on display, they simply don’t give a fuck about you.
Women initiate 80% of divorces. Don’t do it! At least not in America

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But it’s still up to YOU to go get the pussy, however the game demands. Even in my Pop’s day, you had to have game to get a woman. You know, back then, women had their (arguably higher, or maybe different) standards a man had to meet and men met them or they were “confirmed” bachelors, or lifetime players. Now? Women have standards same as every woman going back to Adam. Roosh is telling you what you need today, in THIS age, to get your girl (s). Quit whining about the end of the patriarchy and go get girls. The patriarchy is NOT dead. Be a man to be feared and no woman will walk over you. Fear generates bangs, fear makes them go away without trouble when you’re done with them. No woman fears any guy more than the guy that will make them dig their own grave before you drop them in it. BE that guy.

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This article is a real pick-me-up, Roosh.

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It’s a wake eup call, nothing more. Now, Roosh wants you to go become at least competent in those departments. But YOU have to go do it.

Get the pussy or be a pussy, pick one.

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Meh, men ALWAYS had to compete with some kind of gig. You always had to be one of the big five to find a chick. Be a bad boy, a rich guy, good looking, muscled, or a funny man. Be two of them, you’re guaranteed to bang her friends too. As for sex, when the hell did we EVER not tie up our women? Dramatic article, good takes, but it’s been that way since I hit High School in 1971. Nothing has changed really. Guys, get a motorcycle, learn to ride it, hit the gym and magically, you grow testosterone and re-write your character references all around the neighborhood.

Simple things, these. You want the pussy or you ARE a pussy, and this is the deal forever, not just recently and this will never change. Pick one. It’s a great mantra:
“Am I going to GET the pussy, or am I going to BE a pussy?” Repeat over and over until it makes sense and gets drilled into your thick skulls. Then, go DO it.

Gentlemen, good luck, Gentlemen.

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I don’t have the time, the energy, or the willingness for any of that. That’s why I do well-maintained, divorced cougars under 50. Not proud of it, but I just can’t turn myself into a clown. The other four hats I can do (although even sales are not really my cup of tea, but I make do), but I ain’t no bitch’s clown, fool! smile

The problem is that there simply aren’t enough guys who are willing to put themselves through all this just to get that prime poontang. Even if you, Roosh, have 10 of these prime bitches in your rotation, and everyone else who has invested enough time into game also has 10 prime bitches in their rotation – there are still far too many of them (at least here in Eastern Europe), so there simply aren’t nearly enough guys for them.

So they are bitching and moaning about it heavily, but that’s their problem. To quote Jay-Z, “I got 99 problems, but a bitch ain’t one!” smile

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Hey man, which is the best city in Russia for poon?
Which circle of Moscow do I want to live in to have the best exposure to the hot women?
thanks

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Sorry dude, I’ve never been to Russia, and I don’t know much about Moscow. I live in Belgrade, Serbia.

You might want to ask Roosh about Moscow – or go to the forum and ask there – somebody is bound to have the answer for you.

However, a female supposedly commented under one of the articles on here how Volgograd, Saratov, and Samara are Russian cities with a very high female-to-male ratio, especially under 30.

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alright thanks

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Throw in Novosibirsk, Tomsk or even Vladivostok or Khabarovsk.

ExCanadian
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Fuck Moscow! Go to central Russia or Central Siberia!
Moscow or St. Petersburg are almost as fucked up as the Western world! The poster above just named you a few cities like Volgograd, Saratov or Samara/Togliatti if you are really looking for some hot, stylish and sexy females!

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How about getting educated and sporty, learning a trade and a foreign language, saving some money and LEAVING NORTH AMERICA BEHIND FOR GOOD???
How about getting the hell of out the North American politically correct quagmire and living in a country where people still value qualities like honesty, integrity, dignity, respect, mutual understanding and support and where women know that it takes TWO to tango and a solid and evolving relationship is a life long work in progress requiring MUTUAL efforts from BOTH male AND female?
I’ve never been no fucking salesman, clown, porn star, psychologist or soap opera writer in order to attract women and NEVER WILL BE! But I DO KNOW how to hold a meaningful and interesting conversation, interact with people, have good sex and give a lot of pleasures in it, understand other peoples’ problems or come up with a solution!
Just be YOURSELF, folks! Dare to differ, to stand up and be counted and to lead by example! But still get the hell out of North America;)

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Depends on your attitude. No need to leave the States, Canadian. And lose the caps, wouldja? You type like a grrrl.

ExCanadian
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I don’t give a shit who do I type like.
No attitude ain’t gonna help you in a robotic rate race fucked up society based on political correctness, quota hiring, affirmative action and feminism!

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Trade qualifications aren’t worth jack in countries other than your own

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With a “trade” I rather mean becoming a Fitness/sport instructor, ESL teacher, professional driver etc.

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I understand where you’re coming from with this. Ironically I just met a Canadian in the family courts who has same lawyer as I do. I live 50 min from the border, and he is getting royally fucked here in states with kid and mom on the US side. All it takes is one bad female, who perfectly presents herself to the slightly less keen man, and it’s all down hill.

Let’s say, he seemed to have game and swagger, and his shit together, and his ex-girl wasn’t bad on the eyes. But her eyes were bad when you looked in them.

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Easy, work cash and have no real assets. Any chick who fucks me knows she’ll get alpha fucks and 0 bucks, so its either wrap it up, be a single mom, or find some other guy and have an “oops” a week after your period didnt come wink

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That place does not exist.

ExCanadian
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It does exist indeed. Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Serbia, Mexico, Thailand.
But of course it doesn’t exist if one doesn’t dare to get out of his state/province and explore the world.

Cyrus the conquerer
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And what of Roosh and other game bloggers and general people in the man sphere all saying these countries have been Westernized?

I’ve tried Mexico, it’s gone to the drug lords.

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I’ve heard southern Mexico is safe. Northern and central I know is not.

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The whole world is more or less Westernized. You can’t escape the western influence these days, but the difference is that it’s minimal in EE or SE Asia whereas it’s over the top in North America or Western Europe.

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Crap. I have a lot of work to do.

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Well, the ideal woman worthy of mens’ time according to this site has to be 18-24, white, thin but with perky boobs and ass, long hair, wear some makeup, wear heels, be uneducated or least pretend to be, have low career ambitions, act happy 24/7, keep legs and mouth open, not have an opinion that differs from her man, commit completely to him but be okay with him sleeping with other women. Seems like a tall order for both men and women to be considered worthy

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16-22 for me. My gf from 2 years ago was 6’2, 170 lbs, and had her private education paid for because she was gifted. Went to the same school in Toronto all the politicians and rich non jew peoples kids go to. She thought she was special, smarter, and stronger than me – that didnt last long. Now shes dating a guy who undervalues himself and overvalues her. She knew I wouldnt commit and tried to be submissive and buy me things to keep me.

So yes, if a girl likes you she will be that way or at least try to be. The problem is that most guys arent that interesting or masculine, as well as most women are entitled dumb cunts.

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Hey I’m putting together a meetup for Toronto RoK members.
If you’re interested send me an email at my junk address – [email protected]
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By George, you’ve got it!

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The difference is that you’ve just more or less described the perfect woman. A woman can still do remarkably well in the sex/dating market with substantially less going for her.

What Roosh describes is increasingly what a man requires just to get his foot in the door.

The male analog of what you describe would not only need to play the aforementioned roles to perfection, he’d also need to be a wealthy, 6’3″ male model with an artistic side and a body that looks as if it were chiseled out of stone.

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That’s a hell of a lot of groundwork just to get your dick wet. Better off paying a pro and just getting the job done without all the fuss

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Or having a Japanese animation waifu. Why bother with living, breathing women when cartoons will never leave you or break your heart?

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Waifus are great and all, but they can’t give you a bj. Kind of an irreconcilable disadvantage

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SERBIAN WOMEN LOVE BLACK MEN!!!! – WATCH MY VIDEO!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByrLnE1Bgt4

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My serb ex was 17 and had slept with 11 guys by the end of high school. One black guy who was “barely even black” (lololol). I find serbs to be more “empowered” and me centric than other EE women, decent looking and thin but I’d pass on doing it again.

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Any info on the Feminism situation in Bulgaria, Romania or Macedonia?

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The Romanians and Bulgarians are generally poorer and working class, so no room for feminism. Not sure about Macedonia. Not a fan of the darker skin and peasant features, but met a few cute Romanian girls here in Canada.

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Just avoid the ones from Ryerson.

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As a general rule, its good to avoid any girl that goes to Ryerson, period.

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Hey btw I am collecting emails from RoK commenters who live in TO.
I don’t remember if I got your email yet or not.
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My English mate told me about the current state of ‘dating’ in a humorous and very truthful way.. “I’m meant to be out there trying to pick up girls who I think are beneath me, but for their part won’t give me the time of day.”

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The plan is simple – only work for yourself and hire men/do business with men. 90% of the women clients I get are flaky pains in the ass that end up compkicating things in some way. Only hire women for low paying, low responsability jobs with little contact with other employees, i.e answering phone calls, doing paperwork, cleaning etc. Things you would hire a high school kid for.

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This is so true. I have to hire junior employees at my work (college graduates) to mentor and the girls are TERRIBLE. They are the most entitled, narcissistic people you could ever meet. They have been told by feminism their whole lives that as women they can do no wrong, so they are absolutely incredulous when you pull them up on ANYTHING. Seriously, it is time men just start looking out for men, especially in the workplace. DON’T HIRE FEMALES. Not only do you not have to put up with all the gossip and office politics they inevitably bring, but you don’t have to pay them not to be there when they get knocked up. Women also take far more sick days.. whatever way you look at it, it just makes sense!

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Having a healthy sex life is easy if you’re a slightly above average looking white man living in China. And the women are higher quality because they aren’t disease riddled party whores like they are in the West. I just hope you’re into women with dark nipples, flat faces and sometimes armpit hair.

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What’s all this above average stuff? I’d say you can be well below average and have a healthy sex life if you’re white and we’re talking about China!

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Yea, dude. I just came back from Philippines…it was great.
I’ve always adored EE girls but after seeing the success my blonde hair & white skin got me over there with those thin, feminine cuties, I may need to refocus. Still love EE girls though

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Yeah dude, agreed.. I love the women here in Ukraine, but my white skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes don’t benefit me at all. I’m going to PI next, I’m done with EE for a while.

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And little boys’ bodies

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The only reason women can receive all of these things without giving anything in return is because they know how to play the waiting game better than men. In Japan, it’s the other way around. The men over there are ignoring the women and they end up having to step it up in order to procure a man.

The problem in the west is that me are so weak-willed that they accept a woman who brings absolutely nothing to the table. Attention is a woman’s currency and the only way to get them to return to a more feminine attitude is to ignore those women who embrace ‘feminism’ or rather, shall I say ‘pseudo-masculinism.’

Putting on 10,000 hats for a brief bit of pleasure with increasingly unpleasant women is a loser’s game. Stop entertaining and paying attention to women who offer nothing to a man but headache. Respect and dignity is worth way more than 30 minutes of pleasure.

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So long as we’re paying taxes though, we are giving them a free lunch.
I say if possible, go international.

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Roosh’s article “Do not have sex with feminists” was on this theme. If everybody did this, our women would improve, even though it is definitely fun and satisfying to give a feminist a cum facial…

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Agree with every one of these, but holy shit, why pursue a LTR? I do not have the energy to devote to that type of endeavor. It almost requires one quit their day job and become full time PUA. I wholeheartedly believe that if I constantly was giving her drama and dread, while planning future soap opera plot twists, acted like a clown, managed her fluttery emotions, and worked an hour or so every day on meeting new women, that I would be quite successful. But then I would truly despise this creature that was soaking up all my time and creative energies, and was giving me a wet, used hole, and nothing else.

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this is hilarious. another quality post roosh

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Funny. Great piece. Shows a lot about deep psychology. Lots of girls like abuse and enjoy the bad boy.

But seriously dudes. Some idiot is likely to read this, slap some girl and end up behind bars.

I am glad the 17 year old version of me did not read this many years ago.

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Well this does sound quite depressing the way describe all the time and effort a man must devote toward having a healthy sex life. But one thing you left out. Geography. Unless you are intentionally leaving that out for your audience. I for one devote enough energy and time to my career and sometimes these skills help me in landing dates. Use of the internet trolling for desperate horny women on AFF or POF is use of technology skills. Interviewing for a job is like a first date. But if I want fast effortless action I travel. Costa Rica, Columbia, Brazil, and hopefully someday Cuba.
You have to go where the women are at extreme disadvantage. Men are desperately sought after. You wont find that in Anglo Western countries. And being an American you already have an advantage by income disparity. So even the least skilled men in the United States, Canada, Britain, or similar first world country don’t need to die a virgin or go in a shooting spree. They can get laid in hundreds of places in the world. Western men need to realize their native country is not the entire world, and not the end all to their sex life.

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I thought this would literally be about hats, lol

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#1 the John hat.

Everything else is not healthy for your soul.

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we don’t have it as bad as we think. an average girl today is probably pretty hot compared to girls in the past. if you score an actual hot girl, by today’s standards that’s a really good feat considering that women have never looked better in history

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i never needed any of that

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Also you got to be the Banker $$$, cash gets the pussy dripping wet

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Wait… do people actually believe this shit? Seriously?

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but virtually no men are metally ill, according to you? LOL

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the link in the article clearly states that it’s 17%.

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Or even better, spend all that time developing skills and businesses that will grant you money, then you pay some hookers.

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Salesman: The best trade you can possibly learn. I did many things in my live and most things that did improve my life happened because of my skill in sales.
That includes finance, my love life and the fact I could semi-retire at the age of 41.
Selling is basicly the only trade i am really good at, while having an idea about several other areas like computers, medicine, women, fitness, martial arts and some more. Sales is the only trade i do excell. Let that sink in.

Psychologist: If you are good in sales, you know how to solve problems. Your customers problems. They got lots of it. Women are no different.

Soap Opera Writer: No. Just no. Be an natural born asshole, thats much better. If you are not it is time to become one. If you are a good-doing-white-knight you will not semi-retire with 40, or with 50 or 70. You will just suck all your life. Do good and you will suffer, be selfish and you will prosper. It is that easy.

Clown: NO. NO and NOOOOOO. If you must be a clown you can as well call yourself human dildo. You will never be more to any woman as long as you are her jester.

What women NEED is a master and commander, a king. Kings are no clowns.
***Not want, I dont care what she wants nor do i care what my customers want. They get what they NEED, and that makes you wealthy and well fucked***

Porn Star. Nothing wrong with that. As an asshole by birth and choice
you place your own pleasure first. I do not like soft, shiny-happy-people-70year flower-power bullshit sex. “rough and borderline abusive manner” -> This is not what THEY demand. This is what *men* want. Except “borderline” – there are no borders.

Recently I told a reasonably hot and well maintained woman around 40, after sex, that it is too bad she had no grown daughter because i would like to fuck her as a mother and daughter threesome. Her reply? “I am sorry but if i had this daughter, wouldnt you fuck just her and what about me then?”
You get a response like this only when your asshole level is acceptable.

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ooookay so I’ve been dating this guy for over four months now. BEFORE I START MY STORY. im not looking for advice. just advicing you.

so I honestly love being with him. he makes me feel hot and special and wanted and honestly his smile lights up my life. my heart still skips a beat whenever I see him. I still get butterflies when he touches me.

I love him. and he loves me.

recently he’s been starting to be distant. and it’s fine; I let him have his space. until last month he started talking about wanting to break up.

I was very upset. I called my friends and I was crying and all that jazz.

I went to visit one of my friends, who happens tao live near the guy. on my way to her house, I ran into my boyfriend. we sat down and talked for a while. he doesn’t know what he wants. I cried. he said that he wants a break because he feels so much pressure to be good at a relationship. he also wonders if sometimes that he might also be happier single. but then he says hes with me and he laughs and he’s happy and he doesn’t know.

so towards the end of the conversation I suggested that if a relationship is like a house, and a lightbulb burns out, we don’t burn the house down. we fix the light bulb.

(prior to this conversation he only saw 2 options- ending it or staying together) he chose ending it, i talked to my friend about it and he gave me a contact email for me to ask for help and i did, in contacted the love doctor and he told me what to do and when i did it, he prayed for me and my biyfriend came back begging me that he was with another woman who did a spell on him that made him leave me annd i should take him back. i had to choice, i had to take him. all thanks to The love doctor who helped me. his email is [email protected] if you have any problem in your marriage or relationship please do well to contact him he is the best.

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Not worth all that. Save money and time. Hire a pro.