Alpha Male Of The Month

I need to get more emails like this:

I was flirting with this real cute girl last night. Everything’s going great, so i say, “you seem like the kind of girl who’s a lot of fun… blah blah… you want to grab a drink sometime?” Her response? no bullshit—“that can be arranged.” I immediately thought about your recent post on this issue, and gave her a quick 2 minute verbal lashing asking her why she’s treating me like a fucking business transaction, and why it would have been so goddam difficult for her to say simply, “yes, i’d love to.” Dude i was *seething* inside, i rarely get pissed when i’m running game and know better than to pick fights or scold girls, but this one just had it coming. Told her to beat it, popped a pill and continued hanging with my boys, who were a thousand times more entertaining than the remaining fat girls within eyesight.

I don’t care what the frigid women apologists say, but this girl’s behavior is neither normal nor acceptable. Men with options don’t have to put up with it.

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Sweat P.
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Maybe everything wasn’t going so great after all. It’s possible that she’s a bitch with the heart of a robot, but it’s also possible that old boy isn’t quite as playalistic as he thought he was.

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That is absolutely ridiculous. Men read too much into things like “that can be arranged.” That was pretty much a “yes, let’s grab a drink.” Seriously. Dude ruined it.

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I’m not going to get into the whole debate again on whether “that can be arranged” is an appropriate response. Suffice it to say, the guy’s reaction was dead WRONG. Instead of lecturing her, he should have scheduled the “date” (or whatever you want to call it), and then went back to his buddies.

It sounds more like he was looking for an excuse to be “right”, indignant, etc…. In other words, he just wanted to put her in her place. But what did he gain by this? NOTHING, except a short-lived feeling of moral superiority. He also burned a bridge. Assuming the e-mailer is in DC, he must know that DC is a very small world. Being rude can and will come back to bite you in the ass. Likewise, if the place where he was hanging out is one of her regular hangouts (or that of her girlfriends) his reputation may be in the toilet for a while.

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Don’t get bent! Deal. Say “ok, my peeps will be in touch with your peeps. It was a pleasure meeting you.”

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“That can be arranged” = “yes”. Dude, you’re an idiot. You didn’t execute because it wasn’t in “the queen’s english”.

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agreed with gatsby

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I don’t see what the big deal is…The chick is basically making it happen and whether you wanna believe it or not, the woman is fucking in control from the first second you meet. Play the game and feed her ego while you tap that ass. I swear men are acting more like women everyday……

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dont sweat it i am the same way…..its like a trigger…..people dont understand it so they comment and think u are an idiot, not realizing how some just get fed up with this type of shit quicker than others…..The thing I would do (assuming I wouldn’t immediately throw an uppercut to the chin)…is say “well, when you are ready to arrange call this number, maybe Ill answer”…..chances are she wont call, but you already realized that she is probably the type of headache that will require more than 3 advils a day……in the slight chance that she gets attracted to your brave “i am not the type of person that will take your shit..” approach……you will bang…..I guarantee it.

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“that can be arranged” – is this line from the Rules, or what?

the emailer sounds more like a reformed beta or a struggling alpha than a true alpha. while i understand the appeal of getting confrontational with obnoxious chicks as much as the next hardened veteran of the field, it is far from the optimal strategy. a natural alpha would never take anything like this personally. no one girl has the power to breach his thermal exhaust port.

no, an alpha would’ve gamed her, banged her, mindfucked her, recruited her to his harem, made her fall in love with him, then dumped her in the most coldblooded manner possible so that she threatened to kill herself if he left at which point he would say

“that can be arranged.”

and tossed her a razor blade.

or so i’ve heard.

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Damn. Give a bitch a break. She just thought she was being coy and cute. Shit.

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i’d take a ‘that can be arranged’ as a generally good thing.

nothing beta about accepting her comment, but there’s something completely asinine about going off the deep end about it. i’m not sure if ‘completely asinine’ is an alpha or beta thing – left as an exercise…

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It doesn’t sound like he had “options” if there were only fat girls left.

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2Roissy:

What you say is absoutely possible. The problem is that it takes valuable time, which could be spent much better than teaching a stupid bitch how to behave.

There is no reason to fuck any girl you’ve met. There is a lot of reasonable, smart and nice girls around, no need to waste time on some genetic disorders.

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Can it be the art of flirtation is lost so far among alpha males that they can’t recognize it? “That can be arranged” is a purely flirtatious “I’d love to.” Next thing, someone will complain the art of seduction is a burden.

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What kind of beta can’t take some joking from a girl during the sizing-up period? “That can be arranged” is usually meant humourously (with variable success) and if a guy can’t take a joke during the pre-coital games, he’s probably going to be a puling little bitch throughout. People who take sex too seriously aren’t having enough.

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hmm
“that can be arranged” in my opinion. is better then no. and most of the time girls don’t want to say “i’d love to”… why? because it sounds too keen. to us, that doesn’t really matter.. a girl sounding keen. but to keep herself happy.. she needs to give us a less ‘keen/interested’ response.
I’d be smiling that she said that. so quit ur bitching.

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Lol sad. What if she was being coy? If someone asks me out, I generally come up with some coy response. It’s all in how you say something.

No judgement can be applied to either the guy or the girl since no one was there to hear their tone of voice, see their facial expressions, etc.

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I think the proper response would have been.

“Who needs a drink, why don’t you come by my place friday night around 2 a.m and we can just cut the bullshit out of the equation.”

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Coy is lame. We need to bring it back to simpler times – she should have said yes/sure/fantastic if she was interested no/fuck off if she wasn’t.

If the roles were reversed and a girl was chatting up a guy – and he said this… every girl would be saying “What an ass!” (Now, I am not agreeing with the verbal lashing … just throwing another opinion out there).

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There was no need for him to bitch her out for two minutes over something as lame as that. Sounds to me like the girl lucked out in the end. Dude seems a bit too sensitive/unhinged.

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She was not interested in him….so just to amuse herself she threw a bitcher his way..acceptance from him would have given her bitch satisfaction…and then she would be using him for her fun purpose….guys with not much options might consider this good…but actually a guy with better options won’t really appreciate the deal