Men Who Choose Homosexuality Over American Women

A fellow American I met in my Belo Horizonte had an odd complaint about me: he said I talked “too much” about girls. I scratched my head because the only two safe topics that you can talk about with just about any guy in the world are sports and pussy. What else am I going to talk about? Art? Style? I wondered if he was homo. Did my gaydar fail yet again like it did really late at night with that Colombian guy?

Yes, yes it did.

He eventually told me, “Dude, I’m gay,” as if he was annoyed I didn’t figure it out on my own. It wasn’t obvious anyway—I’ve met straighter guys who acted more gay than he did.

One morning we got to talking at the dining room table and I asked him when he realized he was a homersexual. He said, “I didn’t know until really late. In college I tried to date girls but had trouble connecting with them. After college I couldn’t even get dates. I thought something was wrong with me. Then I experimented with a guy and it felt more natural. It felt right. It’s so much easier for me to meet men than women.”

“Do you catch or pitch?” I asked, in the most empathetic tone possible. “You know it sucks when you’re gay because only one guy is getting the pleasure.”

“I like to receive, but you know what… it is very pleasurable. I love receiving. Mmmm very very good.”

“Okay I’m going to watch some porn on my computer now.”

Let’s put his story through the Roosh Translator™:

“I was tired of being a virgin.”

How many men are there in America whose failure with women made them “realize” they were a homosexual? Thousands, I’d estimate. These are guys too disillusioned with the American female to put the game work needed to penetrate their holes. Guys who concluded that these girls are not worth the effort, and that they rather get banged in the butt than deal with them or figure them out. I have a feeling these gay boys had gay tendencies before their conversion, but how many guys in Brazil converted to homosexuality because they couldn’t get laid? Colombia? Russia? Italy? Significantly less, I imagine.

How many other guys have given up on dating and rely solely on prostitutes? And how many others put their cock in a lockbox until they can fly away to bang foreign pussy? These guys are withdrawing themselves from the dating market, making it even harder for the educated middle-class American woman to find a partner with the same socioeconomic background as her own. The problem that only exists for African-American women (finding a long-term mate within their race), will now become one for white women as well.

I know some American girls are cool, sexy, and attractive, but that small percentage is shrinking to where living in a city of a million people is no guarantee you’ll find one. If you have then great job, but most guys are not as lucky, something that seems to be a growing factor these days. As a whole, American women are deficient in so many areas that men are choosing homosexuality instead. I wonder what this means for the future of the white American race.

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Advocatus Diaboli
10 years ago

The problem you describe occurs in both north america and western europe. The way I see it, why should a guy hang himself to get mediocre pussy?

In any case, buying attractive pussy is a safe, economical and cost effective alternative in most of the civilized world (except the US). I would rather be banging a hot 20-something, who is on her best behavior for that hour or two, than date a rapidly aging hag who believes that she is gods gift to mankind.

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Anonymous
Anonymous
10 years ago

Escorts are the most honest women in the western countries. As AD said, why pursue aging hags with entitlement mentality?

Carl Sagan
Carl Sagan
10 years ago

:laugh:

Caramel Communist
Caramel Communist
10 years ago

LMaooooo…

No Homo?

Sean Castleton
Sean Castleton
3 years ago

Personally, being gay myself, I concure that straight men who have gay sex on a whim because they are drunk or socially unstable/inadequate or whatever, is self-deprivating behavior. But that has nothing to do with the gay lifestyle, or the choice to be gay. Alot of people like yourself think that gay men are subhuman and as you put it, will fuck anything with a pulse, and that simply is not true. I am very selective as to whom I sleep/live with.

Anonymous
Anonymous
10 years ago

I’ve met tons of “gay” guys who are basically just confused, or failures at getting any from females during their prime hormonal years. Many of these confused/rejected “gay” guys are actually just perverts who would fuck just about anything that showed a bit of interest. I once worked with two “gay” guys who would occasionally come into work giggling about how they got shitfaced over the weekend and slept with one of their drunk fag hags. Playing the “bisexuality” card is just a person’s way of saying “If I’m drunk, desperate, and/or emotional enough, I’ll fuck anything with a pulse.”

The utter rejection instances seem to be the case most often with lesbians. Larger than normal build for a girl growing up, ugly face, awkward voice and maneurisms, lack of social skills = future bulldyke. I remember identifying these types for it as young as middle school age, and being proven correct at the end of high school when they all began proclaiming their homosexuality.

Username
Username
4 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Not true, though. I’ve had women hit on me and a pretty cute girl flat-out tell me she wants to get with me because her boyfriend was apparently an ass. She didn’t know I was gay at the time, and honestly, I didn’t really come to terms with it until a few years later.

I didn’t want to and I said no. Plus, I actually fit this description of yours. Your so-called “failure at getting any from females during their prime hormonal years”. I have no idea why that makes me a pervert, but sure thing, buddy.

It’s because I didn’t want to because I wasn’t attracted to women. You are so unbelievably bias and uneducated.

“Playing the “bisexuality” card is just a person’s way of saying “If I’m
drunk, desperate, and/or emotional enough, I’ll fuck anything with a
pulse”.

Oh, so you are saying you’d fuck anything with a pulse as long as it’s female. Notice the double-think here? Nice abject hyperbole, though. You sure showed em’ with that one.

“The utter rejection instances seem to be the case most often with lesbians. Larger than normal build for a girl growing up, ugly face, awkward voice and maneurisms, lack of social skills = future bulldyke. I remember identifying these types for it as young as middle school age, and being proven correct at the end of high school when they all began proclaiming their homosexuality.”

How many times have you thought about this stuff? It sounds like a very unhealthy amount of time.

Da Mac
Da Mac
3 years ago
Reply to  Username

Nobody claimed this as the explanation for every gay male, duh.

Boy, do I despite purposeful stupidity such as yours.

Username
Username
3 years ago
Reply to  Da Mac

*despise

Seriously, though. I never implied that he was trying to describe all gay males either. Really, it’s pretty obvious that he isn’t defining an entire group of people. If you actually read my response, you’d understand that I’m just arguing the fact that I find myself within his definitions, and yet, I’m an example of an exception to the rules of which he explained.

If you’re seriously defending an armchair psychologist and can’t see how his arguments are based purely on conjecture, I find it ironic how you call me the stupid one.

Rocco
Rocco
10 years ago

Man…Uhm…you def have some good points about the men turning to pro’s or foreign women instead of bitchy lame American raised women (of all backgrounds) BUT…the whole turning gay thing is just a little absurd.

I’m sure there are a few examples of this, but more often than not I’de say Gay dudes are born that way…no amount of getting dissed by women would make a straight go and get jammed in the ass.

Nop, 99.9% of the time a straight guy would as you mentioend, get a hooker or mail order Thai bride or whatever, if indeed he was never getting any from American women.

me
me
5 years ago
Reply to  Rocco

Bull. Shit.

Nobody is born a pervert. Period. This is clearly a learned behavior.

Username
Username
4 years ago
Reply to  me

“Nobody is born a pervert”.

Ah, you’re just an upset individual. You have no evidence or any real opinion to suggest gay people are somehow “perverts” except “Ew, icky, gay people”.

Hah.

Barry Hamilton
Barry Hamilton
4 years ago
Reply to  Username

Hey, give him a break. Sometimes troubled waters run deep. You never know… maybe he prefers to believe it’s unquestioningly possible for any man to eventually learn how to enjoy being penetrated anally by another man for reasons we’re not privy to; a certain repetitive action he feels compelled to quietly seek out in his personal life which involves for him a significant amount of physical discomfort, for example. Not saying it must true in this case, but it’s still the most viable explanation for his emotional reaction here.

Da Mac
Da Mac
3 years ago
Reply to  Rocco

It’s not absurd at all. What do you think men in prison are doing?

Rocco
Rocco
10 years ago

I also would like to add, that you might have pointed out white americans bieng affected, but I think its all cultures (with the exception of strict Muslims maybe) Take Asian chicks born in the USA. They look cute but have lost that Asian charm and old world sentiment. Now they don’t cook, clean, care for kids, they are just loud, bitchy, princesses trying to “get ahead” like many other American born chicks.

Username
Username
4 years ago
Reply to  Rocco

How old are you, 60?

You sound like the type of person to use the terms “orientals” and “commies”.

Uareallshit
Uareallshit
4 years ago
Reply to  Username

Anyone that doesn’t lick their boots is a “bitch.” They are ugly as shit with no personality, class, social grace, or kindness but expect a woman the looks like. Playboy bimbo that’s on her knees all day washing the floors. They want a slave, not a relationship with a kind and good person because they are not kind or good people themselves.

The Truth
The Truth
10 years ago

Anyone who “chooses” to be gay over getting pussy was probably gay to begin with.

me
me
5 years ago
Reply to  The Truth

He’d have to first get pussy at least once to make an informed decision, no?

delirious0007
delirious0007
5 years ago
Reply to  me

Lol

Username
Username
4 years ago
Reply to  me

Have sex with a man then. You can’t truly be straight until you test it, right?

Fu
Fu
4 years ago
Reply to  Username

Hahahahaa riiiiiiight. The “I’m not gay I’m just sucking this guy off for research purposes!”

Username
Username
4 years ago
Reply to  Fu

Don’t you know that it’s not gay unless the balls touch?

LifeSucks
LifeSucks
4 years ago
Reply to  The Truth

nah that not necessarily true, there are guys out there like me, who just are straight as fuck but just cant get girls or just cant talk to girls in general Im not gay nor have dated anyone, but the only thing they can do is date and fuck guys cause thats the only thing to do its not really love but its better than being a virgin cause that sucks like a mother fucker.

JoeS
JoeS
10 years ago

Interesting theory, and I would say it’s probably a lot more common than people would care to admit. I would say another factor is the extreme prevalence of homophobia in America.

Guys here have such a need to go out of their way to prove they are not homos that they start having doubts about their sexuality when they see another attractive man and can’t just leave it at that. “OH MY GOD, I just thought Ronaldo was an attractive dude and probably bangs a ton of ass. AM I HOMO? DOES THAT MAKE ME GAY?!?! WHO CAN I ASK???”

Wolf
10 years ago

The more guys that withdraw themselves from the dating market the better. Only when the supply of available males shrinks significantly will women be forced to reconcile their inflated entitlement with reality. Failing that, it will require a return to a patriarchal society. I don’t see either happening any time soon, unless we see the rapid collapse of society, which is the inevitable result of the direction we are going in.

“Every where that women are made equal to men, they come to dominate them.” – Socrates

Woman
Woman
5 years ago
Reply to  Wolf

This is a bunch of very angry men. So sad…

John
John
5 years ago
Reply to  Woman

I am a gay man, and I sympathise with straight men. Not a happy place to be in the 21st century. Fortunately thanks to the internet more and more men are realising that they can have more satisfying relationships with other men, who won’t judge them, won’t put them down, and won’t take the house.

Joshua Hontz
Joshua Hontz
5 years ago
Reply to  John

I am a straight dude John and I have a couple of gay guy friends. The thing I noticed is that they always have plenty of disposable income being womanless/childless. I am married but I still joke when the subject of gayness comes up that I wished all other men besides myself were gay so I could crush pussy all day long. Not so much a joke as a fantasy for me.

ItReallyHas
ItReallyHas
4 years ago
Reply to  Woman

Well for many of us Straight Guys looking for a Good woman these days is very hard since the Lesbian population has sure increased over the years.

Wolf
10 years ago

Correction: “Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior.” – Socrates

Omega Man
10 years ago

It’s a taboo subject because homosexuality is supposed to be 100% genetic. And personal and sexual development are supposed to be “natural”, in the Rousseauian view of things, a matter of unrestrained “self-exploration” and “self-discovery.” But a person’s social behavior will be the result of positive and negative socialization as well as genetics.

As Roissy continually points out Western society has changed so that a much smaller portion of men are advantaged with women, and many boys are negatively socialized to function successfully with women.

Still, it’s pretty extreme that homosexuality would result from these conditions. Social withdrawal, use of pornography and masturbation are the usual result. Prostitutes (in the US) are expensive and somewhat hazardous to use; overseas travel to look for foreign women requires an adventurous streak this type of man probably does not have.

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Jaaa
Jaaa
10 years ago

“As a whole, American women are deficient in so many areas that men are choosing homosexuality instead. I wonder what this means for the future of the white American race.”

Mexicans will replace whites in America. Fact.

Take a trip to the Southwest…any state…TX, CA, AZ, NM, etc…Mexicans everywhere.

As Mexicans move more north and east, they will quickly take over.

Some Mexican chicks start having kids at around 16. By the time they are in their early 20’s, they have 2-3 kids.

Meanwhile, white chicks don’t start having kids until they are in their late 20’s.

Game over, whitey.

Raliv
10 years ago

“Game over, whitey.”

I’m pretty sure the same thing is happening in Europe. This is what happens when you give women the vote.

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Solo
10 years ago

ha ha [email protected] Jaa

Roosh also forgets to mention that lot of guys settle for a “Fatty” not every guy is tricking or going overseas.

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Vincent Ignatius
10 years ago

Prostitutes down there are cheap. I would have tested the theory that he was really straight by paying one of the local whores to seduce him and not reveal she was a prostitute.

Few things are as damaging to the female ego as driving a man to homosexuality.

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Doubt it
Doubt it
10 years ago

Dude regadless of how pathetic some hetero guy may be in picking up women, unless he is already bi no man is going to choose to take a cock in the ass or a dick in the mouth. he would already have those tendencies in him.

Because for any straight male out there who doesnt have game, he has other countries to go to you not just find sex, but also find a girl to settle down with.

Papillon
Papillon
10 years ago

I believe this is known as the Turkish Prison Effect

Anonymous
Anonymous
10 years ago

Yes, this idea of a guy “converting” to homosexuality seems far fetched. Your either born to take the bone or chase pussy.

I can definately see, though, many men turning to foriegn girls and pro’s. The last year i have been dating a Chinese girl that came to Canada for school. After being with her, and the way she treats me, there is no way I could ever date a Canadian born girl again.

Uraloser
Uraloser
4 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

stop chasing Canadian girls that are slutty then. There are plenty out there.or is it that you like slaves and/or you are probably lack looks or the pride in trying to improve yourself?

Fireworks56
Fireworks56
10 years ago

There seems to be a growing trend of, dare I say it, attractive women that like hanging out with ‘gay’ men- since it’s a ‘safe’ way that a woman can hang out with a man and even complain about men together. Perhaps being ‘gay’ is their in to being surrounded by a bevy of cute women they couldn’t approach as a straight man originally but now maybe secretly hope that they will build up comfort with these said women as friends to transition to trying to bang as a way of being “converted.” Some of these men just seem fishy – and somehow gain this cool “vibe” by simply declaring themselves gay and otherwise would be a loser (frail non-athletic build, no original straight game with women, no vibe/culture, etc.).

Obviously I’m aware that most gay people knew from day one in life they preferred their own and genetic predisposition seems like a valid contributing factor.

Roosh- You should think about posting about another DC area meet and greet for the readers of your blog and books at some point. I know I would certainly appreciate meeting others that read your materials; there’s always something to learn about game from others – as more heads are better than one. Even someone such as yourself can always learn more about game. Additionally, if anyone reads your materials regularly, I‘m sure they would be fun to talk shop with as they would have a pretty good grasp of one night stand game, which in my opinion is the way to go. Get the bang and then decide if you want to date her/go for seconds (note: one night stands only count if you would proudly show her off to your friends).

nathan
nathan
10 years ago

The “white American race” is doomed, but on the other hand, who gives a shit?

Fu
Fu
4 years ago
Reply to  nathan

You must be a race hater. Racist.

Jaaa
Jaaa
10 years ago

“Only when the supply of available males shrinks significantly will women be forced to reconcile their inflated entitlement with reality.”

I don’t know about this.

Obviously, if enough men “drop out” of the dating pool altogether, then women will have to settle for what they can get or wind up alone…

…but women are pretty damn picky these days, at least the good looking ones are. They won’t settle even if the dating market gets worse for them.

I remember reading a post on Roissy’s blog about a college in NC that is 60% female/40% male. Most of the girls there still chased after the top half of men, even though this meant they had to seriously slut it up in order to get them.

I suspect that as more men drop out of the dating pool, more women will drop out as well.

Fuk u preppies
Fuk u preppies
4 years ago
Reply to  Jaaa

Exactly. Why settle for some gross preppy metrosexual if you can’t find someone with common interest and are attracted to. Fuckoff and Stop dressing like and emulating fucking justin timberlake you wimps!

Cliff Arroyo
Cliff Arroyo
10 years ago

I’ve heard of this dynamic before but I don’t think it has anything to do with being discouraged by failure with women.

One gay guy I knew pursued women for a while because it was expected and was fairly successful – he’d even gotten engaged at one point.
He didn’t get any real emotional satisfaction from being in sexual relationships with women but most of the men he knew mostly complained about their girlfriends and he assumed they were just as unfulfilled as he was and that was the way things usually went.

It wasn’t until he happened into a sexual relationship with a man (he was evasive about how that happened) that he realized that there was more to sex than … sex.

Purported increases in homosexuality are probably related to that kind of scenario, men who can function as heterosexuals (as opposed to those who can’t under any circumstances) but are happier being intimate with other men.
In a restrictive society they’ll generally marry and have kids – in a more permissive one they’ll follow their bliss.

Anon
Anon
10 years ago

The guy was gay ALREADY. He wasn’t converted by lack of success with pussy.

On the other hand, if he lived in a country with feminine women, he probably would’ve gotten married and done his homo thing on the sly.

Until recent times, the same thing occurred in America. Look at America before the feminist movement: gays married women and stayed in the closet. Rock Hudson, etc.

Now that women are masculinized, gays don’t give a fuck about appearing straight.

Fukurdumb
Fukurdumb
4 years ago
Reply to  Anon

You idiot they stayed in the closet because they would be ruined if they came out. Rock Hudson never slept with his wife he died of aids. Fuck you are as dumb as a preppy.