Men Who Choose Homosexuality Over American Women

A fellow American I met in my Belo Horizonte had an odd complaint about me: he said I talked “too much” about girls. I scratched my head because the only two safe topics that you can talk about with just about any guy in the world are sports and pussy. What else am I going to talk about? Art? Style? I wondered if he was homo. Did my gaydar fail yet again like it did really late at night with that Colombian guy?

Yes, yes it did.

He eventually told me, “Dude, I’m gay,” as if he was annoyed I didn’t figure it out on my own. It wasn’t obvious anyway—I’ve met straighter guys who acted more gay than he did.

One morning we got to talking at the dining room table and I asked him when he realized he was a homersexual. He said, “I didn’t know until really late. In college I tried to date girls but had trouble connecting with them. After college I couldn’t even get dates. I thought something was wrong with me. Then I experimented with a guy and it felt more natural. It felt right. It’s so much easier for me to meet men than women.”

“Do you catch or pitch?” I asked, in the most empathetic tone possible. “You know it sucks when you’re gay because only one guy is getting the pleasure.”

“I like to receive, but you know what… it is very pleasurable. I love receiving. Mmmm very very good.”

“Okay I’m going to watch some porn on my computer now.”

Let’s put his story through the Roosh Translator™:

“I was tired of being a virgin.”

How many men are there in America whose failure with women made them “realize” they were a homosexual? Thousands, I’d estimate. These are guys too disillusioned with the American female to put the game work needed to penetrate their holes. Guys who concluded that these girls are not worth the effort, and that they rather get banged in the butt than deal with them or figure them out. I have a feeling these gay boys had gay tendencies before their conversion, but how many guys in Brazil converted to homosexuality because they couldn’t get laid? Colombia? Russia? Italy? Significantly less, I imagine.

How many other guys have given up on dating and rely solely on prostitutes? And how many others put their cock in a lockbox until they can fly away to bang foreign pussy? These guys are withdrawing themselves from the dating market, making it even harder for the educated middle-class American woman to find a partner with the same socioeconomic background as her own. The problem that only exists for African-American women (finding a long-term mate within their race), will now become one for white women as well.

I know some American girls are cool, sexy, and attractive, but that small percentage is shrinking to where living in a city of a million people is no guarantee you’ll find one. If you have then great job, but most guys are not as lucky, something that seems to be a growing factor these days. As a whole, American women are deficient in so many areas that men are choosing homosexuality instead. I wonder what this means for the future of the white American race.


  1. Advocatus Diaboli July 27, 2010 at 8:58 am

    The problem you describe occurs in both north america and western europe. The way I see it, why should a guy hang himself to get mediocre pussy?

    In any case, buying attractive pussy is a safe, economical and cost effective alternative in most of the civilized world (except the US). I would rather be banging a hot 20-something, who is on her best behavior for that hour or two, than date a rapidly aging hag who believes that she is gods gift to mankind.

    Advocatus Diaboli’s last blog post: Update: July 25, 2010.

  2. Anonymous July 27, 2010 at 9:12 am

    Escorts are the most honest women in the western countries. As AD said, why pursue aging hags with entitlement mentality?

  3. Carl Sagan July 27, 2010 at 9:35 am


  4. Caramel Communist July 27, 2010 at 9:45 am


    No Homo?

    1. Sean Castleton May 29, 2017 at 10:22 am

      Personally, being gay myself, I concure that straight men who have gay sex on a whim because they are drunk or socially unstable/inadequate or whatever, is self-deprivating behavior. But that has nothing to do with the gay lifestyle, or the choice to be gay. Alot of people like yourself think that gay men are subhuman and as you put it, will fuck anything with a pulse, and that simply is not true. I am very selective as to whom I sleep/live with.

  5. Anonymous July 27, 2010 at 10:02 am

    I’ve met tons of “gay” guys who are basically just confused, or failures at getting any from females during their prime hormonal years. Many of these confused/rejected “gay” guys are actually just perverts who would fuck just about anything that showed a bit of interest. I once worked with two “gay” guys who would occasionally come into work giggling about how they got shitfaced over the weekend and slept with one of their drunk fag hags. Playing the “bisexuality” card is just a person’s way of saying “If I’m drunk, desperate, and/or emotional enough, I’ll fuck anything with a pulse.”

    The utter rejection instances seem to be the case most often with lesbians. Larger than normal build for a girl growing up, ugly face, awkward voice and maneurisms, lack of social skills = future bulldyke. I remember identifying these types for it as young as middle school age, and being proven correct at the end of high school when they all began proclaiming their homosexuality.

    1. Username December 10, 2015 at 10:37 pm

      Not true, though. I’ve had women hit on me and a pretty cute girl flat-out tell me she wants to get with me because her boyfriend was apparently an ass. She didn’t know I was gay at the time, and honestly, I didn’t really come to terms with it until a few years later.

      I didn’t want to and I said no. Plus, I actually fit this description of yours. Your so-called “failure at getting any from females during their prime hormonal years”. I have no idea why that makes me a pervert, but sure thing, buddy.

      It’s because I didn’t want to because I wasn’t attracted to women. You are so unbelievably bias and uneducated.

      “Playing the “bisexuality” card is just a person’s way of saying “If I’m
      drunk, desperate, and/or emotional enough, I’ll fuck anything with a

      Oh, so you are saying you’d fuck anything with a pulse as long as it’s female. Notice the double-think here? Nice abject hyperbole, though. You sure showed em’ with that one.

      “The utter rejection instances seem to be the case most often with lesbians. Larger than normal build for a girl growing up, ugly face, awkward voice and maneurisms, lack of social skills = future bulldyke. I remember identifying these types for it as young as middle school age, and being proven correct at the end of high school when they all began proclaiming their homosexuality.”

      How many times have you thought about this stuff? It sounds like a very unhealthy amount of time.

      1. Da Mac March 10, 2017 at 11:53 am

        Nobody claimed this as the explanation for every gay male, duh.

        Boy, do I despite purposeful stupidity such as yours.

      2. Username March 10, 2017 at 12:10 pm


        Seriously, though. I never implied that he was trying to describe all gay males either. Really, it’s pretty obvious that he isn’t defining an entire group of people. If you actually read my response, you’d understand that I’m just arguing the fact that I find myself within his definitions, and yet, I’m an example of an exception to the rules of which he explained.

        If you’re seriously defending an armchair psychologist and can’t see how his arguments are based purely on conjecture, I find it ironic how you call me the stupid one.

  6. Rocco July 27, 2010 at 10:02 am

    Man…Uhm…you def have some good points about the men turning to pro’s or foreign women instead of bitchy lame American raised women (of all backgrounds) BUT…the whole turning gay thing is just a little absurd.

    I’m sure there are a few examples of this, but more often than not I’de say Gay dudes are born that way…no amount of getting dissed by women would make a straight go and get jammed in the ass.

    Nop, 99.9% of the time a straight guy would as you mentioend, get a hooker or mail order Thai bride or whatever, if indeed he was never getting any from American women.

    1. me January 21, 2015 at 7:02 pm

      Bull. Shit.

      Nobody is born a pervert. Period. This is clearly a learned behavior.

      1. Username December 10, 2015 at 10:40 pm

        “Nobody is born a pervert”.

        Ah, you’re just an upset individual. You have no evidence or any real opinion to suggest gay people are somehow “perverts” except “Ew, icky, gay people”.


      2. Barry Hamilton September 14, 2016 at 3:52 pm

        Hey, give him a break. Sometimes troubled waters run deep. You never know… maybe he prefers to believe it’s unquestioningly possible for any man to eventually learn how to enjoy being penetrated anally by another man for reasons we’re not privy to; a certain repetitive action he feels compelled to quietly seek out in his personal life which involves for him a significant amount of physical discomfort, for example. Not saying it must true in this case, but it’s still the most viable explanation for his emotional reaction here.

    2. Da Mac March 10, 2017 at 11:54 am

      It’s not absurd at all. What do you think men in prison are doing?

  7. Rocco July 27, 2010 at 10:05 am

    I also would like to add, that you might have pointed out white americans bieng affected, but I think its all cultures (with the exception of strict Muslims maybe) Take Asian chicks born in the USA. They look cute but have lost that Asian charm and old world sentiment. Now they don’t cook, clean, care for kids, they are just loud, bitchy, princesses trying to “get ahead” like many other American born chicks.

    1. Username December 10, 2015 at 10:40 pm

      How old are you, 60?

      You sound like the type of person to use the terms “orientals” and “commies”.

      1. Uareallshit March 10, 2016 at 10:47 am

        Anyone that doesn’t lick their boots is a “bitch.” They are ugly as shit with no personality, class, social grace, or kindness but expect a woman the looks like. Playboy bimbo that’s on her knees all day washing the floors. They want a slave, not a relationship with a kind and good person because they are not kind or good people themselves.

  8. The Truth July 27, 2010 at 10:12 am

    Anyone who “chooses” to be gay over getting pussy was probably gay to begin with.

    1. me January 21, 2015 at 7:03 pm

      He’d have to first get pussy at least once to make an informed decision, no?

      1. delirious0007 April 14, 2015 at 12:48 pm


      2. Username December 10, 2015 at 10:42 pm

        Have sex with a man then. You can’t truly be straight until you test it, right?

      3. Fu March 10, 2016 at 10:48 am

        Hahahahaa riiiiiiight. The “I’m not gay I’m just sucking this guy off for research purposes!”

      4. Username March 11, 2016 at 12:42 am

        Don’t you know that it’s not gay unless the balls touch?

    2. LifeSucks June 19, 2016 at 2:37 pm

      nah that not necessarily true, there are guys out there like me, who just are straight as fuck but just cant get girls or just cant talk to girls in general Im not gay nor have dated anyone, but the only thing they can do is date and fuck guys cause thats the only thing to do its not really love but its better than being a virgin cause that sucks like a mother fucker.

  9. JoeS July 27, 2010 at 10:38 am

    Interesting theory, and I would say it’s probably a lot more common than people would care to admit. I would say another factor is the extreme prevalence of homophobia in America.

    Guys here have such a need to go out of their way to prove they are not homos that they start having doubts about their sexuality when they see another attractive man and can’t just leave it at that. “OH MY GOD, I just thought Ronaldo was an attractive dude and probably bangs a ton of ass. AM I HOMO? DOES THAT MAKE ME GAY?!?! WHO CAN I ASK???”

  10. Wolf July 27, 2010 at 10:44 am

    The more guys that withdraw themselves from the dating market the better. Only when the supply of available males shrinks significantly will women be forced to reconcile their inflated entitlement with reality. Failing that, it will require a return to a patriarchal society. I don’t see either happening any time soon, unless we see the rapid collapse of society, which is the inevitable result of the direction we are going in.

    “Every where that women are made equal to men, they come to dominate them.” – Socrates

    1. Woman June 16, 2015 at 2:40 pm

      This is a bunch of very angry men. So sad…

      1. John August 26, 2015 at 7:34 am

        I am a gay man, and I sympathise with straight men. Not a happy place to be in the 21st century. Fortunately thanks to the internet more and more men are realising that they can have more satisfying relationships with other men, who won’t judge them, won’t put them down, and won’t take the house.

      2. Joshua Hontz September 1, 2015 at 8:59 pm

        I am a straight dude John and I have a couple of gay guy friends. The thing I noticed is that they always have plenty of disposable income being womanless/childless. I am married but I still joke when the subject of gayness comes up that I wished all other men besides myself were gay so I could crush pussy all day long. Not so much a joke as a fantasy for me.

      3. ItReallyHas March 14, 2016 at 9:16 am

        Well for many of us Straight Guys looking for a Good woman these days is very hard since the Lesbian population has sure increased over the years.

  11. Wolf July 27, 2010 at 10:49 am

    Correction: “Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior.” – Socrates

  12. Omega Man July 27, 2010 at 10:56 am

    It’s a taboo subject because homosexuality is supposed to be 100% genetic. And personal and sexual development are supposed to be “natural”, in the Rousseauian view of things, a matter of unrestrained “self-exploration” and “self-discovery.” But a person’s social behavior will be the result of positive and negative socialization as well as genetics.

    As Roissy continually points out Western society has changed so that a much smaller portion of men are advantaged with women, and many boys are negatively socialized to function successfully with women.

    Still, it’s pretty extreme that homosexuality would result from these conditions. Social withdrawal, use of pornography and masturbation are the usual result. Prostitutes (in the US) are expensive and somewhat hazardous to use; overseas travel to look for foreign women requires an adventurous streak this type of man probably does not have.

    Omega Man’s last blog post: Movie Review- “500 Days Of Summer”.

  13. Jaaa July 27, 2010 at 10:59 am

    “As a whole, American women are deficient in so many areas that men are choosing homosexuality instead. I wonder what this means for the future of the white American race.”

    Mexicans will replace whites in America. Fact.

    Take a trip to the Southwest…any state…TX, CA, AZ, NM, etc…Mexicans everywhere.

    As Mexicans move more north and east, they will quickly take over.

    Some Mexican chicks start having kids at around 16. By the time they are in their early 20’s, they have 2-3 kids.

    Meanwhile, white chicks don’t start having kids until they are in their late 20’s.

    Game over, whitey.

  14. Raliv July 27, 2010 at 11:13 am

    “Game over, whitey.”

    I’m pretty sure the same thing is happening in Europe. This is what happens when you give women the vote.

    Raliv’s last blog post: Freshmen girls are boring..

  15. Vincent Ignatius July 27, 2010 at 11:39 am

    Prostitutes down there are cheap. I would have tested the theory that he was really straight by paying one of the local whores to seduce him and not reveal she was a prostitute.

    Few things are as damaging to the female ego as driving a man to homosexuality.

    Vincent Ignatius’s last blog post: Vincent Makes The World A Better Place.

  16. Doubt it July 27, 2010 at 11:43 am

    Dude regadless of how pathetic some hetero guy may be in picking up women, unless he is already bi no man is going to choose to take a cock in the ass or a dick in the mouth. he would already have those tendencies in him.

    Because for any straight male out there who doesnt have game, he has other countries to go to you not just find sex, but also find a girl to settle down with.

  17. Papillon July 27, 2010 at 12:31 pm

    I believe this is known as the Turkish Prison Effect

  18. Anonymous July 27, 2010 at 1:04 pm

    Yes, this idea of a guy “converting” to homosexuality seems far fetched. Your either born to take the bone or chase pussy.

    I can definately see, though, many men turning to foriegn girls and pro’s. The last year i have been dating a Chinese girl that came to Canada for school. After being with her, and the way she treats me, there is no way I could ever date a Canadian born girl again.

    1. Uraloser March 10, 2016 at 10:58 am

      stop chasing Canadian girls that are slutty then. There are plenty out there.or is it that you like slaves and/or you are probably lack looks or the pride in trying to improve yourself?

  19. Fireworks56 July 27, 2010 at 1:21 pm

    There seems to be a growing trend of, dare I say it, attractive women that like hanging out with ‘gay’ men- since it’s a ‘safe’ way that a woman can hang out with a man and even complain about men together. Perhaps being ‘gay’ is their in to being surrounded by a bevy of cute women they couldn’t approach as a straight man originally but now maybe secretly hope that they will build up comfort with these said women as friends to transition to trying to bang as a way of being “converted.” Some of these men just seem fishy – and somehow gain this cool “vibe” by simply declaring themselves gay and otherwise would be a loser (frail non-athletic build, no original straight game with women, no vibe/culture, etc.).

    Obviously I’m aware that most gay people knew from day one in life they preferred their own and genetic predisposition seems like a valid contributing factor.

    Roosh- You should think about posting about another DC area meet and greet for the readers of your blog and books at some point. I know I would certainly appreciate meeting others that read your materials; there’s always something to learn about game from others – as more heads are better than one. Even someone such as yourself can always learn more about game. Additionally, if anyone reads your materials regularly, I‘m sure they would be fun to talk shop with as they would have a pretty good grasp of one night stand game, which in my opinion is the way to go. Get the bang and then decide if you want to date her/go for seconds (note: one night stands only count if you would proudly show her off to your friends).

  20. nathan July 27, 2010 at 2:13 pm

    The “white American race” is doomed, but on the other hand, who gives a shit?

    1. Fu March 10, 2016 at 11:00 am

      You must be a race hater. Racist.

  21. Jaaa July 27, 2010 at 2:14 pm

    “Only when the supply of available males shrinks significantly will women be forced to reconcile their inflated entitlement with reality.”

    I don’t know about this.

    Obviously, if enough men “drop out” of the dating pool altogether, then women will have to settle for what they can get or wind up alone…

    …but women are pretty damn picky these days, at least the good looking ones are. They won’t settle even if the dating market gets worse for them.

    I remember reading a post on Roissy’s blog about a college in NC that is 60% female/40% male. Most of the girls there still chased after the top half of men, even though this meant they had to seriously slut it up in order to get them.

    I suspect that as more men drop out of the dating pool, more women will drop out as well.

    1. Fuk u preppies March 10, 2016 at 11:04 am

      Exactly. Why settle for some gross preppy metrosexual if you can’t find someone with common interest and are attracted to. Fuckoff and Stop dressing like and emulating fucking justin timberlake you wimps!

  22. Cliff Arroyo July 27, 2010 at 2:45 pm

    I’ve heard of this dynamic before but I don’t think it has anything to do with being discouraged by failure with women.

    One gay guy I knew pursued women for a while because it was expected and was fairly successful – he’d even gotten engaged at one point.
    He didn’t get any real emotional satisfaction from being in sexual relationships with women but most of the men he knew mostly complained about their girlfriends and he assumed they were just as unfulfilled as he was and that was the way things usually went.

    It wasn’t until he happened into a sexual relationship with a man (he was evasive about how that happened) that he realized that there was more to sex than … sex.

    Purported increases in homosexuality are probably related to that kind of scenario, men who can function as heterosexuals (as opposed to those who can’t under any circumstances) but are happier being intimate with other men.
    In a restrictive society they’ll generally marry and have kids – in a more permissive one they’ll follow their bliss.

  23. Anon July 27, 2010 at 2:52 pm

    The guy was gay ALREADY. He wasn’t converted by lack of success with pussy.

    On the other hand, if he lived in a country with feminine women, he probably would’ve gotten married and done his homo thing on the sly.

    Until recent times, the same thing occurred in America. Look at America before the feminist movement: gays married women and stayed in the closet. Rock Hudson, etc.

    Now that women are masculinized, gays don’t give a fuck about appearing straight.

    1. Fukurdumb March 10, 2016 at 11:06 am

      You idiot they stayed in the closet because they would be ruined if they came out. Rock Hudson never slept with his wife he died of aids. Fuck you are as dumb as a preppy.

  24. Roosh July 27, 2010 at 2:53 pm

    “Only when the supply of available males shrinks significantly will women be forced to reconcile their inflated entitlement with reality.”

    But will the supply decrease enough for women to change their behavior? Has African-American women, who have faced this problem for quite some time, become better potential mates? Possible on a small scale, but I don’t think large enough that will reverse the cultural decline.

    At my regular bar there is this beast of a woman that comes alone, blatantly prowling for men. She’s fat and her face looks swollen as if she receives daily beatings with a large shovel. I’ve seen her three times and each time she has gotten a reasonably good-looking guy to take home for the night. Sure those guys won’t marry her, but why would she change her behavior unless she wants kids, something that most white women don’t even think about until they’re 35?

  25. Anonymous July 27, 2010 at 3:22 pm

    this guy probably couldn’t get laid and was unsuccessful with women because no girls were attracted to his gay ass. women have impeccable gaydars.

    1. Fu March 10, 2016 at 11:07 am


  26. Solo July 27, 2010 at 3:28 pm

    Speaking as an African-American male, have African American women become better mates? It depends who you ask. The problem I face as male trying to date “sisters” isn’t just fighting a suitable mate but one that doesn’t have kids and is educated. In my area 65% of chicks have kids, and probably less even go to college.

    and loL @ Roosh’s story about the fat chick, hilarity.

    Solo’s last blog post: Upate– Week 3 Bootcamp,etc.

  27. Chicken Little July 27, 2010 at 4:16 pm

    “women have impeccable gaydars.”

    Women’s gaydar consist of calling men who reject them gay and getting gina tingles for Clay Aiken. You were saying?

  28. bangbus! July 27, 2010 at 5:34 pm

    I personally have met 3,4 guys who claim to be BI and they told me one of the reasons is that it is easier to get men or transvestites than women.

  29. The Rookie July 27, 2010 at 6:00 pm

    i’ve always thought that homosexuality was at least partially based on the need and desire for human interaction. if it’s not coming from girls, it’ll come from other guys.

    how many women say they got tired of men and turned lez? if it’s true for them…

    The Rookie’s last blog post: The Results.

  30. Mice July 27, 2010 at 6:27 pm

    guys, i know some of you bought the “they’re born that way” line from the liberal media wanting to legitimize homosexuality, but the god’s honest truth is, straight men need sex and if they don’t find it with women, they’ll turn to men. You’re a couple of hundred rejections away from letting another man plug your poop chute with his cock.

    1. Username March 11, 2016 at 12:49 am

      This post isn’t bias at all…

      Seriously, though. Sexuality isn’t black and white. Some gay people actually are, in fact, born gay. And, of course, some are bisexual, and due to certain straining circumstances, prefer men in general. Or prefer women but are up for men sometimes.

      And, please, enough of this “us-vs-them” BS. Do you know how unintelligent it is when someone mentions the “liberal media” in reference to something they disagree with or believe is the source of all the worlds ills? It’s purely an “A+B=C, so B is at fault” line of thinking and farthest from a valid argument.

  31. Jim July 27, 2010 at 7:41 pm

    “13 Jaaa
    8 hours, 22 minutes ago

    Mexicans will replace whites in America. Fact.

    Take a trip to the Southwest…any state…TX, CA, AZ, NM, etc…Mexicans everywhere.

    As Mexicans move more north and east, they will quickly take over.

    Some Mexican chicks start having kids at around 16. By the time they are in their early 20′s, they have 2-3 kids.

    Meanwhile, white chicks don’t start having kids until they are in their late 20′s.

    Game over, whitey.”

    You white nationalists need to get outside of your yuppie upper middle class bubble and look around. If your comparison of Mexicans is to white, educated, urban, coastal yuppy women, then obviously these statements would be true. There is a shitload of white trash out there that are on welfare and have multiple kids early on. Up here in Canada there are virtually no Mexicans. Most of the young girls pushing around strollers who are a drain on our system and who’s kids will probably try to beat min up in the future are white.

  32. just another one July 27, 2010 at 7:47 pm

    after travelling now a bit in south america and meeting lots of american girls here, i have become so tired of them. they’re loud, superficial, irritating and seldom pretty.

    overheard convo in a souvenier shop: “i’ll buy these two small ones instead for her SO IT LOOKS LIKE I SPENT MORE MONEY”. Then i puked.

  33. Mr.RatherUnique July 27, 2010 at 7:51 pm

    #1Advocatus Diaboli – With That response that you have just given speaks loud and clear that you are the type of guy Roosh is talking about. keep preaching to these simps Roosh maybe one day they will get it.

  34. PGG July 27, 2010 at 8:23 pm

    This might be the stupidest article I’ve read here.

    1. The guy called you out for talking too much about women.

    In other words, he thinks women are boring.

    In other words, HE IS GAY!

    Jesus, how hard is that to understand?

    2. What is this “white race” you speak of? German? Norwegians?Italians? And why do you give a shit about the future of the white race? People have been predicting the demise of the white race for hundreds of years, and yet here we are in the richest, most technologically advanced, most long-lived society in human history. How tragic.

    I’m more interested in the continued abundance of:

    a) Hot women. They are usually of mixed race. A half-Asian is usually much hotter than full-blooded. Ditto half-black, half-Latino, half-Greek etc.

    b) Smart people. Based on the relative success of cultures when it comes to IQ tests (I don’t buy the Bell Curve BS) you’re much better off trying to hook up with Asians and Jews. Generic “white people” are the literally the definition of average.

    PGG’s last blog post: Working on my Strip Club Game.

    1. Buch dich March 10, 2016 at 11:12 am

      His background is Arab.
      He Hates “whites.” Including Europeans and Jews or anyone that appears white. He’s a racist and closet homosexual.

  35. tomtud July 27, 2010 at 9:55 pm

    Folks enough with the racial stereotyping and name calling. I don’t call anybody a spic, whitey, blackey, paki, whatever… We are all getting off of the theme of homosexuality.

    Roosh you make some excellent points. I have noticed how many men are afraid of their women/wifes/girlfriends like they are below them. For example, a friend of mine said ohhh I need to ask permission from the wife (girlfriend) to go out… I’m like WTF!!!?? when did men get castrated and put women on those pedistools…. As for turning gay due to this, I don’t know the correlation. But it’s worth a look if men are venturing out into territory where they don’t need to ask for permission or be left subservient to the woman on the pedistool.

    1. Morons everywhere March 10, 2016 at 11:16 am

      Because they are masochists and CHOOSE women that are sadists. Solution? Stop paying attention to bitch bimbos no matter how big their tits are. I know that’s very hard for you morons but give it a try- you seen to be stuck on the ol double d train and can’t see any women who aren’t carting their boobs around in a holster.

  36. gringoed July 27, 2010 at 9:59 pm

    I’m very skeptical that one can “choose” to be homosexual. This is the first ever story I’ve heard where the author construed it to seem like a personal choice.

    It seems like you’ve construed it to seem like choice to make your point.

    1. Joshua Hontz September 1, 2015 at 9:16 pm

      haven’t you ever heard the mexican saying, “gay for the stay” in reference to prison?

  37. Matthew July 27, 2010 at 10:19 pm

    I would agree. I have given up with American women and I rely on banging girls in other countries. I get much hotter girls with much less effort in latin america. Why should I bend over backwards to be liked by mediocre girls?

    1. Joshua Hontz September 1, 2015 at 9:25 pm

      Matt I used to work overseas and as a result I have a fillipina wife that has been in the country for 2 years, so she is still fresh off the boat basically. My wife is a 9/10 in the looks department and a 10/10 in personality and feminine charm. It is funny when loudmouth fat white women meet my wife. The fact that my wife and I have large son and she has a flat stomach drives them crazy. Her presence really humbles them down. I am sure they are hating on her later. The only other alternative would be for them to think about how much they suck at being women.

  38. Hardon July 28, 2010 at 1:07 am

    tomtud is right. Real manhood is about feeling just as valuable if not more valuable than the bitch in the relationship. It’s about having a spine and putting your foot down when your bitch demands your attention, money and balls. Real manhood is a happy medium between Leykis101 and Manhood101. Do not trust society to teach you what it means to be a man. They know only pussy-begging and marriage slavery.

  39. KS July 28, 2010 at 1:27 am

    America is doomed to a future filled with fat, ugly women with inflated egos. Only a world war where large numbers of men are killed and the country suffers widespread starvation/deprivation will change this.

    As America becomes doomed a future filled fat, ugly women with delusional egos as the norm, what happens?

    The illusion of hot, beautiful, skinny women without the attitude becomes marketed to the desperate, ignorant masses of the USA…the shining illusory beacon to strive towards.

    That means ultimately, Hollywood, MTV and the US media machine will increase its brainwashing and control over the Joe Sixpacks of America while the creative class of independent-minded entrepreneurs and free thinkers will abandon the US completely (assuming they have the money or skills usable abroad).

    It’s already begun. You just have to open your eyes to see it.

  40. Rivelino July 28, 2010 at 3:34 am

    Roosh this is the only post I’ve read of yours that is completely off base. Do you not read Dan Savage?

    A gay boy knows he is gay at 12 or 13. Whether he admits it to himself or not is another issue. But once the hormones kick in, they cannot be denied.

    Your fellow American who realized he was gay after college is a liar.

    And while the situation in the states might be dire, it is in no way like prison. Men are not turning to homosexuality in order to achieve sexual and emotional intimacy. That is just insane. Maybe one guy out of 1,000 — and he was a bisexual to begin with.

    Bottom line: no straight male is going to choose taking it in the ass, or sticking in a male ass, just because he is lonely and horny — unless he is locked away in prison for 50 years.

    Your argument sounds like one made by a guy from an older generation, who does not truly understand the nature of gay men.

    Having said that, I do like how you are always brainstorming new theories to explain behavior.

    Rivelino’s last blog post: More on the Classy Girl.

    1. Kaiden December 2, 2013 at 2:09 pm

      “Men are not turning to homosexuality in order to achieve sexual and emotional intimacy”

      Yeah, there is no way someone would change their behavior to meet Mazlow’s heirarchy of needs…..

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  42. SomeGuy July 28, 2010 at 10:46 am

    I think being gay is not 1 or 0. I think it’s like 1 through 10. Some are 5/6…if they can’t get women, they just go to the other side. Where they “get” women AND men.

    “even harder for the educated middle-class American woman to find a partner with the same socioeconomic background as her own”

    Men have had the same problem. How did we solve it? Dated/Married OUTSIDE our socio-economic background.

  43. Sam Spade July 28, 2010 at 3:29 pm

    There’s plenty for which to blame American chicks, but I think this is stretching it.

    A 100% hetero guy will either be an AFC or one of those guys who brings a machine gun to work because he can’t get any.

    “Choosing” to be gay? Only if he’s already programmed that way.

  44. Kid Strangelove July 28, 2010 at 4:16 pm

    Most compelling post I’ve read in a while.

    I was always under the impression that you “knew” or at least suspected what your sexual orientation was as an adolescent. I mean heck – this is how most of us dudes decide whats how and whats not – does it give you a boner or doesn’t it?

    But when one is so starved for affection, his mind might go haywire. Not that homosexuality means your mind is haywire, but if you’re not getting boners from dudes as a teenager, then you’re not gay.

    An interesting movie on the topic is called the Graffiti Artist – – where the protagonist is so starved for love and affection that he has a homosexual experience.

    Kid Strangelove’s last blog post: So you froze up and didn’t approach the girl, now what?.

  45. Cruise July 28, 2010 at 4:55 pm

    @ #41 KS –

    Well spoken friend, well spoken. Respectfully I do kick a punch outta reading Rooshv column, but really once a man goes to a more male friendly nation there is no coming back, or even giving a shit about reading about ‘gaming’ ad naseum.

    yes America is no more, certainly not in our lifetime. What can I add her other then it’s time to get outta Dodge for good. Sad but for a sane life one must do what one must do.

  46. anonymous July 28, 2010 at 5:08 pm

    i’m more of the selfish gene hypothesis: our genes have a drive to “continue the line” and procreate at regardless of individual. homosexuality does not meet this objective and seems to be a “kink” in the programming.

    how acceptable this “kink in the programming” is accepted in the world depends solely on the culture in which one resides.

    (this isn’t a anti-fag stance — it’s an acknowledgment that nature through evolution will try different things at times to improve the line — sometimes it works sometimes it won’t.)

  47. Matt July 28, 2010 at 5:54 pm

    I mentioned this article at work today and was promptly fired for using the term “faggot” I then called my supervisor a bitch, a cunt, a whore and any other “forbidden” word I could think of before clearing my desk and walking out the door with my head held high.

    Thanks Roosh.

  48. Pimpin Pete July 28, 2010 at 8:13 pm

    IDK, I’m a bit unsure as to what I think of this. While I’m sure quite a few “homosexuals” become gay in this manner i don’t think its true for all of them. I once asked my friend’s gay brother, when he realized he was gay. He claimed to have known by the time he hit puberty in middle school. Based on this I bet the mix is about 50-50.

    As for western women too many of them are complete cunts who EXPECT men to worship them for absolutely nothing other than the fact that they are not atrocious looking. Sometimes talking to them for only 5 minutes is enough to piss me off to the point of losing interest.

  49. Chicken Little July 28, 2010 at 9:30 pm

    @ Matt

    No worries, Big O got you back with some unemployment bennys. Flights daily from Dulles to Rio.

  50. Anonymous July 28, 2010 at 11:22 pm

    I agree with Rivelino.

  51. chiang kai shek July 29, 2010 at 12:55 am

    Rivelino’s right. Do you seriously think that this guy chose to be gay cuz he couldn’t get any strange? Or because American women suck? I know tons of “late bloomers” or even dudes who don’t get any ass who would never up and say “well fuggit, I guess I’ll go chug some cock” for the same reasons that you or I don’t do the same thing — because they’re not gay.

    Your new gay friend on the other hand is and always has been gay. He couldn’t get chicks because he wasn’t interested in them. When he was in high school he wasn’t fantasizing about the girls in class. He wasn’t doing the worm on his bed every night, all the while thinking about the hot seniors. That’s the difference. He wasn’t “made gay”, and the very fact that you would write something so ridiculous confirms what most have known about you from the beginning: you have very large gaps in your cognitive experience and maturity which make anyone in the scratch their heads and question your credibility.

    (Though your writing has improved significantly.)

    1. Roosh July 29, 2010 at 1:03 am

      I find it impressive that my readers know more about my gay friend’s intentions, mentality, and development than I do, which happen to conveniently fit their existing view of gay people instead of this specific person.

      As someone who lived with the guy for three nights, I’m certain he was not born gay. Because gay culture is so accepted in America, even allowing for a safe “experimentation,” it was less resistance for him to get with guys than figure out women. Some guys don’t have the will to go through the game gridiron. China is another good example about where you’ll see more homosexuals than if there was more stability in the female population.

  52. Brandon E July 29, 2010 at 4:06 am

    While the story is pretty funny, I don’t believe it’s true at all. I don’t know if you realized the HUGE gay populations in Rio or Sao Paulo. In my 5 months I saw probably thousands of transvestite prostitutes, especially in Vitoria. There was one of the corner of my friends street every single night, and the 5 or 6 street corners down from his street. I’d be willing to bet that there are more gays in Brazil than in the US. And an odd fact to throw in, a good number of my Brazilian friends who have lived in the US are dating girls from other countries now, a couple of them with American girls. A lot of Brazilian men preffer American girls. I don’t understand it, but it’s true. I think it’s because they have tons of brunettes in Brazil, they want the pale blondies, just like we have enough of those here and we want the exotic latinas.

  53. Anonymous July 29, 2010 at 10:07 am

    @ Brandon E…It’s probably more likely that they prefer American girls because American girls are much more receptive to the “foreigner card.” In other western countries I’ve been to, I was at a distinct advantage with some girls for being American(namely the trendy bimbo’s who are obsessed with American pop culture), a distinct disadvantage with many due to the negative political views on America, and then others don’t care where you’re from and you have to just throw on your game as per usual.

    American girls, on the other hand, seem to just drop their panties for anything with an accent or something they perceive as “exotic.” We’ve all seen countless guys from *insert random western country outside of North America* come into the bar and immediately have the hottest chicks swarming all over them for no other reason than having an accent.

  54. Brandon E July 29, 2010 at 2:46 pm

    56, this is not the least bit true where I am. I don’t know what it is, maybe it’s because there are so many foreigners, but American girls here don’t really like foreign guys, especially ones from South America. The only ones that do decent are ones whos first language is English, such as Aussies or South Africans. I have a ton of Brazilian friends that come out here and never get to hook up with an american girl, even though they want to real bad, and they pull a ton of Brazilian girls.

  55. Jim Kirk July 29, 2010 at 4:02 pm

    Roosh’s theory and the Anon. Post No 5 herein stating “”account for the bulk I’ve met tons
    of “gay” guys who are basically just
    confused, or failures at getting any from
    females during their prime hormonal

    account for I would bet, greater than 50% of the so-called gay male population in the United States – the expansion of the gay population in this county is just another example of the increasing unhealth of the society the same way all the women blimping out is a different exanple.

    The mind can be short-circuited by anything – if you are male and don’t bond properly with your mother and father (or you dont have one) – your mind wont work the way it was intended too. Imroper chromosome melding properly accounts for 5% of the people going around calling themselves gay. Gays travel the interstate they have a ‘feast’ at the reststop. Gays join the military they have rump sessions in every supply closet. Gays join the Catholic church they molest hundreds of alter boys.

    Sorry to the guy who used the term faggot and got fired if the story is true – your instincts are healthier than your employer – you just have to watch your tongue

  56. k July 29, 2010 at 8:02 pm

    Sexuality is in scientific circles is not heter – homo. – with extremes.

    It is a continuum. So it is likely that your friends is simply on the gay side of the continuum – his explanation may be true, nut that doesnt make him a hetero guy who decided to go gay – just a gay inclined guy who got the push he needed. Especially since he’s the “catcher”. Certified proof that he’s gay inclined to begin with.

    Super horny guys will bang anything – as in prison or as in many Latin cultures where the pitcher is not gay only the catcher.

    So proof that your friend was always gay or gay inclined is that he receives. Remember, not all gay guys are flighty, limp wristed sissies – they can appear manly too and still be gay.

  57. Anonymous July 29, 2010 at 8:10 pm

    whats about Brazil? There are plenty of women there and a HUGE gay population, the most prominent i have ever seen and I am from sydney gay capital of the world. I have never seen so many gays…
    stupid argument roosh…though pretty funny

  58. Peck July 29, 2010 at 11:43 pm

    Roosh, citing China is a dumbass move. A woman, as horrible as she is, is still a woman up for grabs. The Chinese don’t even have the plausible deniability that they suck as lovers, they simply lack the women to bone.

    Good news is China is still on it’s way to a better future than the United States of Zimbabwe. All those high quality fuck dolls will be going to them oriental folk instead of Westerners.

  59. Anonymous July 30, 2010 at 7:15 pm

    This just reveals yet another layer to your misogyny. The evil American woman drives men to homosexuality? Do you seriously believe this? You HATE women so much! I don’t know how you can stand to live your day to day life with such a debilitating obsession.

  60. tomtud July 31, 2010 at 12:03 pm

    62 Anonymous…. The evil american woman drives men to homosexuality???? it’s possible, but unlikely… Roosh doesn’t hate women, nor does anybody on here. However, they hate aspects of their attitude. Yes, the conversation is being painted with a broad brush when it shouldn’t, however, it’s the attitude and mentality of women that has changed. Women like to hold tradition in some aspects of life and change it to suit their needs. Good for them. For example, women want men to pay for dates (even if she makes more money than you she’ll expect you to pay) how’s that fair???? and she expects you to approach with an opportunity to shoot you down.. It’s not easy being a dude. Perhaps getting shot down and having to dole out cash makes men question is it really worth it?? Hence, Roosh may have an arguement in this segment.

  61. Niko August 1, 2010 at 5:33 am

    Roosh is absolutely 100% without a doubt irrefutably right. I know guys that’ll do trannys because they’re more feminine than women but will knock you out if you call them a fag.

    Ever been to prison? Guys go in straight turn gay and come out straight.

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  63. Lupo August 6, 2010 at 8:52 pm

    I have a theory that only a small fraction (if any) of the gays are actually born that way. Some are “turned out” the way hookers get turned out: they’re molested when they are young. Some, as you say, would fuck anything, and dudes are easiest. And a very large proportion of “gay” men are simply afraid of women. Freud described this as men with overbearing mommies. It’s absolutely true. One of the interesting things about it, is these weenie dudes occasionally go “straight” -it often happens with the least intimidating form of female: an extremely obese woman. I have at least 4 acquaintances who went from fags to fatty fuckers; two of them are now married to a fatty.

    Lupo’s last blog post: People I find agreeable, part 12: Toffs.

  64. jon August 7, 2010 at 6:46 pm

    All I can say is, every gay guy that I knew well growing up had a very hard time with girls. They were nice, good looking guys, but girls wanted dirtbags that would give them drugs or smack them around. So now these guys have turned gay, none of them ever had a date with a girl, granted they tried a heck of a lot but face completely rejection and really when I put myself in their shoes it all seems even more painful because they really tried, were sensitive guys and laid their heart out and there and were repeatedly told they weren’t good enough by a mediocre looking U.S. girl.

    Man… after all this logical thinking I’m starting to think gays have it all figured out.

  65. Jacob August 31, 2010 at 11:13 am

    You are so stupid dude! Being gay is genetic. What next, global warming is fake? Anyways, I was searching around the net and found your site, and it’s good for some laughs. No wonder you have to “lower your standards” to get laid. Why would quality girls be interested in your clown ass!

    1. Dan December 17, 2013 at 4:43 pm

      Global warming is fake.

    2. Buzz Allnight April 9, 2015 at 4:17 am

      Being gay is genetic????
      Two homosexuals can not bread another homosexual,
      that is what genetic means….

      1. Buzz Allnight April 9, 2015 at 4:18 am

        and yes “global warming” “climate change” is fake!

  66. WhiteGuyinLA April 22, 2011 at 5:39 am

    Sorry, but I’d go celibate before going gay. That’s just effing sick! :puke:

  67. Anonymous September 1, 2011 at 8:50 am

    Most of the dorks who’ve completely missed Roosh’s point and keep chiming in with “Gayness is genetic!” conveniently forget about Saudi Arabia, where almost every guy has at least one butt-friendly experience due to the strict wall of segregation between men and women. Do you really think these Arabs would choose the backdoor entrance if Saudi Arabia was more like, say, Latvia or whatever?

  68. Boarder99 September 12, 2011 at 9:22 pm

    Great post. I’ve met more than a few “gay” guys (in quotes, because I didn’t think they were gay) that said they were gay because it’s simply easier. They said that gay guys were always accepting of them and willing to hang/date/interact with them without asking them to jump through the…um…grand canyon signed hoops we all need to jump through to get average play (if we’re lucky). Are all gay guys really straight? NO. I’m just saying, like this post, that as a general collective American women are so high maintenance that they can make a beta, straight male turn gay.

  69. Anonymous March 17, 2012 at 3:55 pm

    I am a gay man who dated girls as a youth and think I really tried being ‘normal’, but it was always like role playing and not real. My mother married and divorced five times and each time the man was more or less taken to the cleaners. Mom is not a gold digger and was doing what she thought she needed to do to survive, but it left an impression on me, that is, that the straight game is rigged. I spent six years in the Nuclear Submarine Navy and I was astounded at how extremely good looking men would whore themselves out to get laid with relatively ugly women. I understood that it was a money problem, sailors did not have the cash to buy hot women. Women to me seem like comodities rather than people anymore, the way they market themselves and paint themselves like clowns. In those Navy years, I had relations with some of the hotest guys in the world, Navy Seals, Marines, etc. Some were casual, but most were very special to me. I learned so much from these guys who were hungry to be treated like men and not like a credit card or side of beef. I do not speak ‘pussy or sports’, but rather like Mozart, ancient history, and quantum physics. You would be amazed at how many guys like this stuff too but do not show it publicly.

    Today I am a succesful software engineer and artist ( and still love men and distrust women. At 50, I look 30 and bench press 280 pounds and women hit on me a lot (not sure about the comment about women having good gaydar – I think not). My ONLY regret is not having children, that would have been very cool I think.

    My mother said she was sorry for ruining me, but I assured her that I am grateful for being who I am and that she DID play a huge role in that. I do not want to be led around like a dog on a leash by anyone, and certainly not by a woman.

    I have been with the same man for fouteen years and there has never been any infidelity. It is all about companionship and yes LOVE. Sex is the wonderful accent to it all, but not the main course. Male homosexuaity is not as physically convenient (natural) as straight sex, but it works well enough in a society where eveything is upside-down.

  70. MiamiBoy April 1, 2012 at 11:08 am

    yeah, women and their “gaydar”.
    everybody knows that women hate it when a guy rejects them, that their only explanation to justify is that the guy is gay
    maybe it is because the girl is stupid, emotionally unintelligent, unsexy, arrogant, etc… oh no, it could not be that at all – undoubtedly the guy is GAY!!!!!!!
    I know there are smart women out there, but so many of them are just plain stupid, and they cannot stand doing the intellectual heavy lifting that society needs to move forward…ugh
    But their pussies taste so sweet, so I soldier on:)

  71. Anonym April 24, 2012 at 9:48 pm

    I turned gay cz I’d rather hit a hot guy from behind then get with a woman that is below my league and I’m not attracted to. I don’t take it up the #$%! or suck #@$#. I’m actually a serious born again Christian but God help me cz nowhere in the Bible does God promise He will find a wife for us. With the big shift of Western men seeking foreign women and China’s one child policy causing heaps of single men in that country, we’re in a world where competition for attractive women is too high even for guys like me that are considered hot by most chicks in my country. Seriously I don’t want average chicks, I want an equal match.

  72. Nick July 25, 2012 at 8:54 pm

    I know I’m late and all, but I’m pretty sure that homosexuality isn’t a choice.

  73. Vallin November 30, 2012 at 2:13 pm

    “Future of the (Male) White American Race”…see recent Presidential election.

    Another term for you: Karmic Retribution.

  74. Anonymous January 7, 2013 at 2:56 am

    Feminism isn’t by accident. Feminism was created for economic reasons. When men were the only one’s that worked, women stayed home and took care of the family, this was bad for business. There was not a big pool of employees to pick from and therefore wages were kept up for lack of a larger pool. When women started to come into the work place, the pool enlarged, that’s why it takes two to survive on a good salary today, and being that women are in the workforce, they are put into situations in which they must become bitches to survive on the job. What makes anyone think that corporate women are going to be anything less than a slut, it’s what is required pretty much for them to succeed in todays market. Overseas is the answer, for now, but slowly that will end too. Just look at how feminism is spreading around the world.

  75. Anonymous March 9, 2013 at 5:36 am

    Some are some are not.

    The type you referred Roosh would apply to rare breed of folks who have been virgins for a long time and got game late, who spend their youth and early adulthood time fapping to every fetish and sexual deviancy internet had to offer.

    Unlike the general population who had normal sex lives from teens and quenched their thirst for sex, they became into perverts in real life.

    From real young girls to real older women, anorexic to ssbbw, transvestites, guys who dresses as a girl (traps), guys in general, furries, all sides of s/m whether sub or dom and all types of roleplays, most nonlethal fetishes, everything goes to these.

    For this new small subpopulation of socially shunned people REALLY raised by the internet, I call universalsexuals. Desperate for practically anything that gives them sexual attention.

  76. Anonymous March 9, 2013 at 5:54 am

    If you would ask these people what would THEY like to do sexually or which people THEY specifically preferred, they couldnt answer because they like practically everything.
    They are sexual chameleons, turning into whatever would get them laid. Alone they are colorless.

  77. Anonymous March 9, 2013 at 6:05 am

    if there is rare instance they meet something new unheard of, they adabt until they atleast semi like it.

  78. Anonymous March 31, 2013 at 7:14 am

    So if gay men are choosing homosexuality because of American women. Than my chances of dating are screwed. That means my chances of dating a true gold star homosexual is slim.

  79. Amun-Ra May 5, 2013 at 11:29 pm

    I don’t even attempt to get involved with women. I am avidly heterosexual and have no interest in relationships /at all/. I would rather *never* have sex than have a conversation with a woman. Talk about boring – and the legal nightmare!

    Only stupid people with too many hormones and not enough brains even care about coupling anymore. Unfortunately, that’s most of them.

    1. anon October 18, 2013 at 2:25 am

      I mean, this is a website with advice on dating

      1. Rod December 17, 2013 at 4:39 pm

        Yep. And his advice is. Don’t.

    2. Lammite October 22, 2013 at 9:10 am

      I COULDNT Agree with u more, Brother!!!. Women are just hellish.

  80. Harkness December 2, 2013 at 10:59 am

    Disagree with you on this one. Family member of mine is gay and has been his whole life. Not over the top, never had problems with women, no family issues. Sometimes you really have to take this with a grain of salt.

    1. TyDaMan February 17, 2015 at 4:14 pm

      Sometimes I think they (except for the flaming faggot types) are more man than we are in a sense that they are not dependent of the pussy (i.e. they are less likely to pedestalize women).

  81. Anonymous December 18, 2013 at 4:23 pm

    “You know it sucks when you’re gay because only one guy is getting the pleasure”

    I agree with everything but this. Coming from a guy who finds the idea of anal insertion disgusting, I can still recognize that prostate stimulation is pleasurable. I find men “transition” into women as well because they can’t get any.

  82. Corey Alexander Walker January 6, 2014 at 1:17 pm

    I’m gay, but it’s not a choice. I’ve known ever since I was five. It was very hard, and I attempted suicide in high school because of it. With all the hatred and bullying in the world, I don’t understand why anyone would think this is a choice.

    1. Anonymous May 9, 2014 at 11:44 am

      It is a choice for people who are bisexual but choose to call themselves straight or gay. Its not just black or white for everyone 🙂

  83. Josorio300 January 19, 2014 at 11:44 pm

    Some guy made a comment about how Mexicans would take over the us and it would be game over for the white guys. He forgot to mention that mexicans have a natural dislike for black people. Many hispanics gangs require that the newbies kill a black person. The more Mexigangs illegaly cross the border the less black people in the US. Game over monkeys…

  84. Travis Martinez August 2, 2014 at 10:01 pm

    I’m straight but dealing with women has made me asexual. I have very few if any gay tendencies besides not caring about sports or sexual talk. I think that if I were living in a less developed country I would have found a mate by now but American women are just a pain in the ass to deal with and that’s the honest truth. I could easily score an ugly/fat woman but when I’m in good shape why should I have to do that, why is a 5/10 man in America equal to a 3/10 woman? Is it because of the media?

  85. DNACowboy August 29, 2014 at 4:46 am

    They say that being gay is a sexual preference, I call that utter bullshit, for the most part they have been rejected by women or as mentioned in the article cannot be bothered to work at getting pussy. What a sad state of affairs where men (if you can use that term) would rather get it up the ass themselves imitating women than actually make the effort and score, in fact if they are already imitating women why not go the whole hog and dress like them as well?

    1. Buzz Allnight April 9, 2015 at 4:08 am

      um that train left the station a long time ago…..

  86. Avren September 27, 2014 at 11:46 pm

    Late reply but whatever. This is basically my situation now, except that the ideal of a man taking me is disgusting, so I top only. After over a decade without sex I finally just gave up and started using men (and traveling abroad when I can). There’s no love, emotion, or kissing or anything like that involved with the men I meet, of course, but that doesn’t seem important to them.

  87. Seriously Very Sad November 6, 2014 at 3:04 pm

    The real problem is that there are certainly much more Gay women nowadays, and for many of us Straight Men trying to meet a woman that is Not Gay is very hard for us since many women don’t even want to date anymore while more and more are making out at the clubs on the dance floor lately. Go Figure.

  88. So Very True November 21, 2014 at 6:06 pm

    For many of us men that are Straight and looking to meet a good normal woman is very hard for us since many of the women today are Gay. And the ones that are suppose to be Straight are Bi too.

  89. Sad January 9, 2015 at 9:25 am


  90. Buzz Allnight April 9, 2015 at 4:06 am

    ***I wonder what this means for the future of the white American race***.
    Check any white woman with kids, notice how they are all different colors?
    The white race will be gone in a few generations because the females don’t care if they have white kids, it is actually the females that form a race by breading true and that is gone….
    One thing that people never talk about is that homosexual men do not like other homosexual men, the would much prefer to pervert a straight man…..
    And to those of you that don’t like facts
    F*CK OFF…

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  92. Juston D Bair April 12, 2015 at 11:40 pm

    I can personally attest…that this article is 100% true. This is happening. At this point, the game, the system, the whatever you want to call it…at least for me personally, has worn me down so much….If I were to meet a guy that was in good shape, took care of himself, wasn’t an a$$hole and we got along good…I would be totally open to more.

  93. RedGem May 5, 2015 at 10:14 am

    This article started as one thing and ended as another…i thought we were talkin how gay men use women as scape goats and then you basically said its our fault because we’re ‘deficient’ in so many areas and this mainly was a problem for black women as if we arent the ones doing the choosing instead of having a no good mate. Damned if we do, damned if we don’t……..uummm nevermind…I’m sure this comment will fall upon blind eyes. Hilarious at the generalizations so called statistics create.

  94. SadToSay May 28, 2015 at 6:49 pm

    These days the Lesbians are everywhere now.

  95. n4mel3ss June 28, 2015 at 12:09 pm

    Dear gay men,

    Please form stable, loving marriages. Have children, whether by using surrogate mothers, an artificial uterus or adoption.
    This will show women that they are not as important as they think. Hopefully, it will bring their big egos back down to earth.

    And besides, if you gay men won’t fill the empty space with your children, those Latino and Muslim immigrants will. And Muslims hate you for being gay.

  96. TryonMan July 20, 2015 at 2:00 pm

    I am baffled at all of these straight men who just know all there is to know about being or turning gay. While it is true that I knew from an early age that I was queer, I cannot agree with some of the other points about straight men never crossing over. I was in the US Navy and have kept up with a lot guys over the decades since I got out of the service. There was a lot of gay sex going on between guys and all but one or two are married with children now (some happily it seems). Situation and environment play a big factor in male sexual behavior. I hooked up with Navy Seals and Marines as well as sailors. I am not proud of my early promiscuity, but this was going on (and probably still is). When straight guys bark out stuff like ‘no straight guy would ever do this or that’, I laugh because I have seen it happen so many times. I sought out the masculine guys who were so secure in the knowledge of who they were because they were free to have a good time, knowing that in the end they will get married and be ‘normal’. All I am saying is the ‘reality’ does not match a lot of what is be asserted here.

  97. jonfraer September 18, 2015 at 2:06 am

    being gay all you get is poop smeared on ur weiner and a sticky butthole.
    and the joy of many STDs

  98. HardToExplainThatOne December 5, 2015 at 3:14 pm

    What about us straight guys that are being rejected by women going for other women today? How strange that is. Go figure.

  99. ReallyTheTruth December 8, 2015 at 2:06 pm

    Well these days it is us straight guys trying to find a good woman that isn’t Gay.

  100. Username December 10, 2015 at 10:27 pm

    No, this has nothing at all to do with “Oh, I’m a virgin, so I’ll just be with men because women just wont have sex with me”. You don’t understand. Anyone who thinks being gay is chosen doesn’t understand.

    You don’t choose this whatsoever. Ask these people if they think vaginas are sexually attractive to them. Ask if women are in general. I’m absolutely sure every single answer will be a direct “no”.

    It has nothing to do with virginity, and I’m sure you’d like to think so to poke a metaphorical hole in what makes a gay man, gay.

    Actually, ask yourself this. Have you ever been so sex-starved that you find men sexually and romantically attractive and want to have sex with a man? I bet I can guess the answer…

    Also, you’re really cheapening sex. You make it sound like all of it is a five minute tug with a five dollar hooker.

  101. John January 9, 2016 at 5:48 am

    There is masculine and feminine in every one on a analog scale from 0-100 percent. What causes the more feminine man to be gay and turn to another man for empathy is the anxiety, of him thinking, he has to totally be the stronger person in a relationship with a woman, and, you may have to, if you have a more feminine woman, but if he should find a more masculine woman to compensate, then both genders would benifit, because the same is why the more masculine woman has the need to find a more feminine woman, the more masculine woman can’t be the bitch in the relationship. So I have a solution, for both genders, Men who are more masculine should find a more feminine woman and definitely not a more masculine woman, that would be like two Bulls in the same pasture, lol, very dangerous. Women who are more masculine grab yourself a more feminine man.

    1. Limit CSXi™ February 8, 2016 at 10:26 am

      You could’ve said this with fewer words, but I generally agree with the sentiment.

  102. ReallyTrue January 12, 2016 at 12:23 pm

    Well there are many of us straight men out there looking for a good woman that is Not Gay since so many women today now prefer other women instead.

  103. Really February 16, 2016 at 6:23 pm

    Very mentally ill men out there these days. And what Losers too.

  104. Gotcha March 10, 2016 at 10:42 am

    I always knew you were gay. All this woman bashing was just a cover for your own homosexuality. You’re a bitchy queen that won’t stop bashing women until all the attractive but mentally weak men are thinking gay is the way away from those mean “horrible” women. You just outted yourself liar.

    1. Really March 17, 2016 at 8:41 am

      Says the Lesbian Low Life Loser or Gay Sick Loser Man himself making a comment like that.

  105. Username March 11, 2016 at 1:01 am

    “I scratched my head because the only two safe topics that you can talk
    about with just about any guy in the world are sports and pussy.”

    The only two safe topics? What? It’s just a conversation, not a mind field. Maybe just act like a normal human being and talk about whatever. If 50% of what you talk about is women, your confidence and/or intelligence really must be absurdly low.

    I don’t mean to be rude, but if you really only have two things on your mind and find it difficult to talk about, say, any other topic, it sounds like you may have Asperger’s syndrome.

    I may be a broken record at this point, but also, not everyone likes sports.
    I’m so sorry I have to be the one to tell you this: But not everyone likes the same things you happen to, and differing personalities exist.

    Phew. I hope that wasn’t too hard for you to hear .

  106. Seriously March 14, 2016 at 9:13 am

    Then again these type of people are very mentally ill to begin with.

  107. Joel April 26, 2016 at 3:58 pm

    I am quite hopeful that this article is just a joke. As a bisexual man I find that this article is very closed minded and ignorant of what homosexuality really is. First of all a man or woman cannot just simply switch over to become gay, nor can a person choose their sexuality. Secondly, it is appalling to think that people actually think that you can switch sexualities. It’s genetics. You cannot switch your genes. If you really think you can switch sexuality how about you straight people become gay for a day? Vice versa. You will be disgusted if you do, because you are not attracted to them because (genes).

  108. dregj May 7, 2016 at 4:54 am

    you’re a hateful little bastard
    aint ya

    1. The Honest Truth November 11, 2016 at 11:49 am

      What makes it very sad for us Straight Men is that when we see a woman that we think that would be real nice to talk too which she will start Cursing at us No Reason at all which Doesn’t make any sense since either she is a very Mentally Disturbed woman to begin with or Gay. Could be a Combination of both i think since it did happen to me already which a friend that i know had it happened to him as well. Psycho Gay Mentally Disturbed women everywhere nowadays which is very sad.

  109. Beng448 May 11, 2016 at 3:59 am

    This article is bullshit. I’ve never had problems dating hot women , and I’m still gay. As for African American women, they suffer from the mass incarceration and intentional attacks on black men; NOT the willing withdrawal of black men from the dating scene. And as for gay men sleeping with their girl friends– it’s pretty understandable. Gay men, like straight women, have a strong need for emotional intimacy. Like straight women, if their ideal mates (men) are not providing that intimacy, they may seek it in women. This doesn’t make them any less gay, just like a straight man who has prison sex is still a straight man when he leaves prison. This is not to say individuals may not experience some comfusion, but it is not a large scale occurrence like the author would have us believe.

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  111. Elle Rewdaine May 26, 2016 at 3:22 am

    “One morning we got to talking at the dining room table and I asked him when he realized he was a homersexual” is homersexual where you want to have sex with homer simpson? If homosexuality is real, then american women are doing nothing wrong. A person doesn’t simply become homosexual because the opposite sex is failing them, if that were the case, then homosexuality is a fake. This is just another slam against women; women are usually blamed for everything, particularly in all the popular religions. Bull shit!

  112. Casey Scarangella June 14, 2016 at 3:19 pm

    Just wanted to let you know that I’m pretty sure that it’s not a choice to be gay. You don’t one day think “Oh, I’m gonna be gay.” No that is a genetic disposition; it’s only nature (not nurture). I don’t know about the off chance that perhaps certain occurrences during a person’s life could influence homosexuality. I can’t say..I’m straight lol. But I have taken a sociology course so I have an idea. I assume that a gay person can have an instinct like a gut feeling about their sexuality at an earlier age? Correct me if I’m wrong. And I really don’t get what you mean entirely by American women? I mean you are generalizing an entire population of women which is ethnically diverse. If you’re talking about a stereotype maybe I would understand but again there are foreigners and immigrants that come here raising 1st generation Americans so I think you’re using this concept too loosely. For example, I was born and raised in the U.S. to Argentinian parent. So, my nationality is American but being from a different background I’m not entirely like a traditional all-American girl.

  113. Aelinor Holloway June 24, 2016 at 6:21 pm

    I think you should all climb into a hole and kill yourselfs

    1. Oh Really August 2, 2016 at 7:55 am

      Said the Loser.

  114. J.H. July 26, 2016 at 2:14 pm

    If you’re a biologically normal guy, buy a plane ticket to Russia or a different part of the world. Don’t blame yourself. This place is FUBAR.

  115. I Speak The Real Truth July 29, 2016 at 9:04 am

    Well with so many Gay and Bi women these days which i can clearly see why so many of us Straight Guys are still Single today unfortunately which Most of us are really Not at all to Blame here since many of us Good men just keep meeting the Wrong women all the time instead of the Right One.

  116. Fheghhh October 11, 2016 at 2:32 am

    It’s an epidemic. Men were specifically design and built a certain way I ponder the formidelities of the influence of American culture the filth that dined we have th radical violence of foreign nations than the gay nation which is design to split the family. We have become followers of the media, the mainstream media but some of are still here, those who have fought that outside of the box. What man had created woman has, and what woman had, god has.

    It’s a very strange thing it is not our faults but the world we are born in had become a hostile place, we ha e foreign entities and our home planet who are using the merging of the internet for diabolical reasons. Some of it as a professional in progress undergrad is my fault…somewhat, my love for the sciences had lead me to an ironic conclusion. Thos who believe themskvex to be the master. Race, the star race has disrupted the seed of the star and indigo children yes I am what you call an indigo star seed child but you may call me she who has been fighting some time. At times I feel trapped within this stimulst d hemisphere but I should not, now these his is an opportunity as a private educated and highly sophisticated young no lady to step out my shell. I did so amongst the jealousy and th hate so many men that hate us,.,even worse if you dint look like them. But it has gotten malicious they don’t understand…sometimes I wish I was born in Josan, South Korea though it had its problems but the USA culture today can be revolting sometimes I just toots bruteforce my way though without laying a finger.

    Yes, I have the art of erotic poetry, I was one of those role players I t member back in the day I use to be on yahoo through s server on rhyming. It’s disgusting though the politicians have invaded our world and have turned it into bloodshed.

    The carnage is real I wish they would stop this program but the USA feeds off of it we must come up with better solutions instead of wasting material and men in pointless wars y s every county must have its shield up but what can we do to force the other baddies out? We could establish a wireless shield would tsk years to npbuokd plus the potential of exploitation comes into play…the programmers from before have turned into cowards the e-commerce is one big free for all glamour yes we pushed and got thus far but I have seen galactic abuse…in the real world we call it what it is..,bad cults who hidden false prophecies in the web I have found them now as others.

    I always knew the internet was old but obviously som crazy old farts threw up their slop on the old interwebs it’s still there even the colors are black and red reminds me of or illuminati colors which Now I’ve seen in action.

    There has been overkill and too much teasing these stupid things destroy the host our men who were once sane turned insane driven insane by these things. Men also do not help disgusting anyone who calls themselves your friend and drugs is not a friend. Someone said they saw a girl with blonde hair chained I know who she is she is the venue fly trap she is trying to lure them to their demise using the sight of beauty to trick the eyes but what lies underneath is thorns and thistles who sets the fly of the Venus fly trap for she feeds off of men I’ve seen her before yes in cast
    Eva is she’s the bpvenus fly trap monster.

    The golden flies there’d are two of them I believe in belongs to q (queen, waster) -and the other the current headmistress of these grounds. I see illuminating and snake symbols my body mind has ache not from fear but the trauma I avoided two rapes dodged a dead end trap and now have a hard time focusing. I must motivate myself and keep going….but I hsve lost something most dear and precious to me my young MSN, financed the west looks st skin I look at both and heart.

    But I must hide this as the world is cruel to star child seeds. His turned gray…it was them all sling manipulating

  117. Kodili November 2, 2016 at 12:27 pm

    Or they were just never attracted to women.

  118. TheRealTruthHasBeenTold November 11, 2016 at 11:31 am

    Well it is very Obvious that these men are very Mentally Sick to begin with and such Losers altogether.

  119. Gay And Bi Women Everywhere November 24, 2016 at 1:50 pm

    It is very hard for us Straight Guys trying to meet a woman that Isn’t Gay And Bi nowadays unfortunately.

  120. ryu238 December 20, 2016 at 6:24 pm

    And yet the population remains stable …hmm perhaps you are a beta with no friends? Because guys like you are considered gay. Look up Henry makow. You act like the bizzaro gay. Promiscuitous with no meaningful relations

    1. I Certainly Agree January 7, 2017 at 8:28 pm

      And you’re a very mentally retarded Gay sick person that needs to get help real bad.

  121. chris davis December 24, 2016 at 1:15 pm

    all of you are completely retarded…i am a good looking masculine regular guy and was an all state basketball and football player…you know…the guy who was the most popular in high school and prom king, etc…i am gay…i have never been attracted to women…period…full stop…women have hit on me constantly since i was in elementary school…it’s flattering…women are fine…i’m just not attracted to them…AT ALL…maybe others can “settle” for having homosexual sex if they can’t get the women they’re attracted to (e.g., guys in prison, unattractive guys, etc)…and maybe i could figure out how to settle for women if i couldn’t get what i’m “naturally” attracted to…but that is not the case…everything everyone is saying in these comments by people who “ARE NOT” gay is completely made up and based on all your cultural prejudices…get over it…some people are just attracted to the same sex and that hurts no one…period…

    1. The Truth January 11, 2017 at 4:10 pm

      Then again, You’re a very Mentally Sick Person that needs help Very Badly. Get help.

    2. Kodili March 18, 2017 at 11:08 pm

      *The Lies.


      I fixed that other guy’s screen name.

  122. Wendy H December 25, 2016 at 11:50 pm

    As an American female stumbling across this small minded opinion piece, I’m glad I “chose” to be a lesbian. I guess lacking decent men (only experienced 1 orgasm from one ever), I rather munch muff with a 100% satisfaction rate by both parties involved. Keep travelling to Asia guys this gal ain’t missing out.

  123. Tyler Henry January 5, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    All my life I’ve been rejected by women as well as mentally and emotional abused by my narcissistic mother. Now, I have an obstructive hatred towards all women. I know I shouldn’t, I know its stupid, I know should let go but a part of me is unable to let go of the pain I have experienced by them.

    And worstof all everyone thinks I this gorgeous guy. Who has all the ladies by a string. Everyone thinks I’m amazing, a complete catch but somehow that makes me undateable.

    YES!!! If a man is made to feel like complete shit over and,
    over and, over and,over and,over and,over and,over and,over and,over and,over and,over again HELL FUCKING YEAH HE CAN TURN GAY!!!

    Maybe I’m a bad person who deserves bad things.

    Now I pray at night hoping I don’t turn in psychopathic serial killer.

    It’s in my genes right!!!!

    No one fucking understands the evil growing inside me.

  124. The Very Sad Truth January 7, 2017 at 8:21 pm

    Just look at all the Psychopath and Sociopath women that we have out there nowadays which is why there are so many of us Straight Good men that are still Not married today because of these Pathetic Losers. Not to mention that many women are either Gay And Or Bi as well.

  125. John Smith January 13, 2017 at 10:22 am

    The guy who wrote this article sounds like he’s hung up on his own sexuality. Anyone who tries to overcompensate THAT much is trying to cover up the fact that they have unresolved attraction to men. Get over it dude. You can bang pussy AND be curious about getting fucked in the ass. Don’t be so insecure about it, you sound like a pathetic middle schooler trying to prove that he got some action

    1. John Smith January 13, 2017 at 10:23 am

      Aka ROOSH IS GAY lol

  126. TNP January 16, 2017 at 3:04 am

    It is relly that easy to turn into gay because you have no p****to eat. Haahaa
    I don’t say ‘Being born as gay’ ‘Being gay is a choice’. Sexuality is so complex. It seems evoluate over times. Now 100% gay or straight are so rare. We all seem to have tendency. We seems to have different portion of tendency to be gay or straight as 50g50s, 90g10s, 10g90s ,etc.
    These proportions define us or we choose the large proportion. There is one problem that gay live in closet and marry women. It is horrible nightmare. These guys have plenty of ass or d to eat. Why do they choose p….? Society, culture, etc
    The whole sex thing is so complicated.

  127. Brad February 12, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    More men are now bi or gay single,married, w/gf…Most have unsatisfied sex lives. It’s so much easier getting a bj any day of the week from a guy, then harp on a gf or mid age wife for months/years or find a willing women.. Most women are to picky! and even when you find one chances are they won’t make you happy and you have to settle for the BS of less and less sex over time.

  128. And The Truth Is February 17, 2017 at 2:13 pm

    Well today with all these Freaking Gay Women that are now everywhere it is certainly making it very difficult for us Straight Good Men trying to meet a Decent Normal Woman now unfortunately since they’re really Multiplying at a very fast rate which is real fact.

  129. Rick Lipary March 14, 2017 at 1:03 am

    Roosh, you are SOOO full of shit! Even after 60 consecutive years of being severely and DEEPLY disadvantaged relative to women, MEN, not women are unable to date or (if they are STUPID enough) marry at their own socioeconomic station! This is because the giant majority of twisted and lazy bitches will try to date, fuck, and marry the same rich guy without substance, thereby leaving countless accomplished and desirable men alone or with a HOG! You are a real piece of work!

  130. Sam Jasper April 21, 2017 at 7:22 am

    I have a real hard time accepting that men will form gay relationships because of circumstances or the failure to get with women for whatever reason. I am certainly not a great looking guy but have had no problem getting women, and I am now married. Frankly, just being in the same bathroom with another guy is enough to gross me out. I cannot imagine any circumstance where I would ‘turn gay’…….I would just abstain. I am sure there are the odd exceptions, but this can’t be happening as much as people here are describing. And it is not like I have had a sheltered existence as I grew up in a major city and got around quite a bit. I would guess that most gay men knew fairly early that they liked other guys.

  131. Sean Castleton May 29, 2017 at 10:08 am

    Speaking from experience, I was straight throughout my chilhood, teen life and even military. Then came an oportunity with a new friend to explore the same-sex experience. And I must say that it was very liberating. All of the social woes I had adopted just fell away. The sex was exhilirating, much better than I had ever had with any women. (I won’t go into all the details). And so I can understand clearly why straight people don’t understand the same-sex attraction that others have and because of social taboos, why they are afraid to try it themselves.