Anna (Epilogue)

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I became tense if she would take a little too long to reply to one of my messages or not answer the phone on the first ring. There was a large danger I was being so needy that she would get turned off, so I did my best to hold back attention and busy myself with other tasks, even though I desired validation that I made the correct choice in staying. I almost wanted a guarantee from her that she would show up on bi-weekly dates for the next month.

Once I got settled back into my own routine, the anxiety subsided. The novelty of sex decreased and my emotions became controllable. She began to show me so much affection that I couldn’t possibly match hers if I tried. The power of the relationship shifted into my corner, never to leave again. I was safe.

Our relationship was very typical. We’d talk nearly every day, if not on the phone than at least by text. She’d tell me about her day and I would tell her about mine. A couple times a week we’d meet, either going out to eat or her coming over. We’d go for walks, we’d relax in bed, she’d help me with Russian, I’d help her with English. I learned she was comically authoritarian in the kitchen when cooking, directing me like I was the help, but once in bed I was able to treat her body like my own personal sex device. 

She worked to keep the sex exciting. I remember the rainy night when I told her to come over and “dress sexy.” She arrived in a rain coat and heels. Underneath the coat was just her bra and panties. I ravaged her immediately, feeling blessed that I had met a girl who took such effort to please me.

Besides the sexual, we were extremely compatible with each other, approaching a level of mind reading that long-term couples often achieve. One day without being in touch with her felt strange, and hearing her voice on the phone would give me a little dose of happiness, but as I tried to set up the logistics for living long-term in Odessa, like taking Russian classes or searching for a more suitable apartment, I would procrastinate and not follow through. I knew what that meant.

I couldn’t understand it. She was cooking for me, buying me things, fucking my brains out, and saying such sweet things. She was everything on my list—everything. If I asked god for my ideal woman, Anna would appear. I knew in my soul that I couldn’t do much better than her, and that I could approach 5,000 women and not meet a girl who would surpass her, but by the fourth week of our relationship, I was bored. I felt that I needed more variety and excitement. I needed to be back in the game. I needed to go to Poland. I didn’t want to stay more than the one extra month.

After we said our sad goodbyes and I was back in the Polish city of Wroclaw, the variety didn’t appeal to me like it did in the past. Polish girls weren’t nearly as pretty as I remembered them, and for the first three days I couldn’t even spot one anywhere that was more beautiful than Anna. I felt that I was watching an old movie I had already seen many times before, and that Anna easily provided me with more happiness than Wroclaw could. I started to think about what change had happened to me, because a city that I attacked with all my energy two years prior seemed to have nothing for me now. It was too early to know for sure, but I had to accept that I may have made a big mistake in leaving my Anna.

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Fool, go back to her NAO !

anonymous
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Joke, right?

B/c she’s probably already banging other dudes. And if she did “take him back”, he would lose most of his ‘hand’ in the relationship. It’d be shit.

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lyk if u cry everytym

Pete M
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What are you going to do next?!?!?

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This story was absolutely fantastic. The honesty in which you bare yourself, through your writing is precisely why I started & continue to read your work. It’s truly a chronicle of a man searching through life for whatever greater meaning there is, if any.

Your final paragraph about going back to an experience from before & feeling it entirely differently can be both a very tragic or enlightening experience, but in either case I believe it shows you what has changed in one as a person.

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We are taught that relationships are about choices that we have to choose BUT we do not choose in many aspects of our lives. We eat a variety of foods every week, read different books, watch different TV shows, and experience different things. There is an old saying variety is the spice of life and it is very true. Appreciation can only exist in contrast.

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The dark underside of this lifestyle that most gloss over is that most of us have inability to settle even with even an ideal girl. It’s just the way it is and probably comes from the subconscious understanding that eventually your feelings for Anna, or any girl, will inevitably fade. Most betas get swept up and can’t see the inevitable endgame.

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I disagree.

A lot of the game authors (the Love Systems guys, RSD staff, Neil Strauss, etc.) mention that many guys learn pickup skills and then promptly get into relationships with some of the first girls they pickup.

Basically, for many guys, pickup skills give them the skills needed to get into the relationships they want.

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i totally agree with anonymous (by the way get a name :P)!! I learned pick up skills in order to get the girl i want, beatiful, smart and a nice woman for a relationship, of course i stiil haven’t found the perfect one, but in the meantime i’m practicing, seducing other girls but in the end that’s my goal: “a serious relationship, get marry and have a family”

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same here, but the family is only another tool to satisfy my end goal of glorifying God.

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Honestly Roosh This is a great story

Your honesty with these field reports or whatever you call them are always refreshing. However I felt sad reading this, truly sad. Because if this was your “Dream girl” as you mentioned then why leave? maybe you got bored cause you weren’t use to being in that situation.

But I digress

You’re “Gamer” a real Thoroughbred, it’s in your blood. It’s not necessarily the notch that you crave but the challenge that encompasses it. That’s what drives guys like us. The challenge to conquer. This is something I know all to well. It’s the gift and the curse of the seducer….

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First of all, thanks for telling us how it all went. I was really following your posts when it was happening. I wish you all the best.

This line in the post “I was bored” I get the same way, and I wish there was some solution for it. The beginning is always nice but once settled into a routine, it just starts to be the all the same every day. I wish there was some solution.

Happy travels in Poland.

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Awesome writing and great story.

bartman
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when men get emotional about a women….they become slowly beta…but why sad

Ben88
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Alpha isn’t forever. All alphas eventually become beta.

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Wow Roosh. This is an impressive short story series. I feel like I was there, along for the ride. You should think about writing fiction, in addition to all of your guides.

Great story.

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Roosh, I’m familiar with this type of relationship. It got boring because you didn’t complete the circle of life. At this stage, ordinary couples have children and raise a family. By keeping it limited to sex, you limit the scope of the relationship. Like planting a tree, and keeping it limited to a 1 gallon pot; it gets root-bound.

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you certainly don’t have to have children and raise a family….but always looking for a new woman is kind of crazy

Mike
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Ordinary couples at this stage? People don’t decide to have kids and raise a family after a month or two of dating….

MycroftJones
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Roosh pulled all the stops and time-compressed the relationship. Undo the time-compression and you can compare it to a normal relationship.

Mike
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There’s still a difference. They had an infatuation with each other because everything was new…they weren’t in love.

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Yeah well, I suspected that would be the end.

When I found “pick-up” blogs and eventually your forum a few years back, I always had the suspicion that there’s no happiness to be gained from all this. You get good with women (at least some do), you sober up to reality, then you become more negative, perhaps cynical, because you stop believing the beautiful lies. You stop trusting women completely, because of bad experiences you had or heard about (or because you had sex with girls who were in relationships). You become restless, perhaps some become addicted to chasing new girls.. I don’t know, this can’t be it.

On the other hand you become smarter, wiser, meet some great people, male and female, especially when traveling.You are living a great and I’m sure in many ways fulfilling life that many can’t live or dare to try. And if it’s in your nature to move on after a bit, if you don’t like to be in a relationship for too long, I suppose it’s better that you end it quickly, I mean better for Anna in this case..

The authors I enjoyed the most often said something along the lines that life is horrible and a disaster, and we are merely the walking dead, in fact standing facing the abyss, deluding ourselves it was otherwise, laughing it off or just being idiots about it, until we finally die of course.

I think there’s some truth to that negative way of seeing things. But I think to a great extent we are choosing the way we see life, and, assuming each unique, subjective view, how it in fact is.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that usually our decisions are correct. It doesn’t even matter what we decide. We will rationalise their validity. And the path we choose usually has it’s own benefits that we wouldn’t have enjoyed otherwise.

I have a triple digit notch count, I get turned on by new girls like every other man, but I really like the fact that I’m staying at home tonight. That my girl is coming over, and we’ll watch a movie or perhaps listen to some Led Zep while smoking a little pot together. I am happy that I am not going out tonight. Because whatever girl I would possibly meet, I am pretty sure she wouldn’t be as great.

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Awe!!! Why did you leave her???…Go back to her Roosh… Go back to her..

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Totally understand your feelings… On one hand you think she may be the one, but on the other hand the chase of new girls is exciting and you ask yourself if there can be a better one.
According to your description she was really “the one”, and I reckon it’s impossible to avoid routines in life…

Anyway, your stories are most inspiring and I followed them since you started, honestly they became my morning routine smile
Go on like this Roosh, cheers!
Greetings from Switzerland smile

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Damn it Roosh, you can never be happy can you? You had the girl of your dreams, but you felt “bored” and then got the itch for the game, you left her only to realize that “the game” isn’t always what it’s cracked up to be, even at your advanced level. As much as I love you, and have learned great things from you, I can’t help but bang my head against my desk, when I read stuff like this from you. Life won’t ever be perfect, but when you get close to perfection, like you did with Anna you got to try to hold on to it and embrace it while you can. Now you miss her, but since you left her, who knows if she will ever take you back. It may sound “beta”, but if it makes you happy then isn’t it better than being “alpha.”

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Aw, you guys are a bunch of sentimentalists. Roosh didn’t let a short-term quasi-romance interfere with his life. A few more months with Anna and she’d be gunning for a ring, kids, and the big circus wedding. You want great sex and some romance? Don’t move in together or marry. “Familiarity breeds contempt” is only too true. In a year there’d be no more sexy lingerie, adoring gazes, and homemade cakes; just unshaved legs and complaining about how Roosh spends too much time writing and traveling. Roosh instinctively knew what was best for him and stuck to his guns. I admire him for keeping his integrity intact.

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Woah, slow down there.

Anna is not American, she is Ukrainian.

While, obviously, an LTR with her would not be as exciting as the first few months, a sexy Ukrainian girl would not go to shit as quickly as an American.

Anna would continue putting in effort. It’s the way young girls there are raised.

For “unshaved legs”, substitute: “doesn’t do her makeup and hair for every date”.

For “complaining about writing and travel”, substitute: “would try to tease Roosh away from writing with a sexy massage”.

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Anna wouldn’t go downhill as quickly as an American, but it would eventually happen anyway. Your “substitutes” are semantics; bottom line is, Anna would eventually prove to be human: she’d yawn, drool in her sleep, forget to shave her armpits, be pissed at Roosh’s attention to his writing and other women, etc. Roosh made the correct decision in dumping Anna before she became less than perfect. Anna can now move on to someone who doesn’t expect perfection, and Roosh can continue an unencumbered life of travel/sex/writing and remain true to himself. It’s a no-brainer win-win for both of them.

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Integrity??? No, it’s called being a chump. Dude, he’s 34, and at the end of his rope. He can’t be hangin’ on by simply saying he is an American, which automatically moves him up in the eyes of Eastern European chicks. Easy pickin’s there, why doesn’t he come back to the States to prove to everyone he has the true game?

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This only highlights that one must know what the end goal is and decide whether a LTR contributes to it.

If Roosh’s end goal is more bangs, then LTR does not make sense

If Roosh’s end goal is to conquer the ever growing tide of feminism, then perhaps it could be argued that an LTR and family would have a more long term affect then what he is currently doing.

Raises an interesting question, is it more affective to start a revolution blog/online style, or through a familial dynasty

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Is seeking happiness as an end goal any more satisfying than seeking more notches?

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http://www.returnofkings.com/2390/the-father-of-relationship-game-shares-his-secrets

Stay off of the phone…like Doc Love says!
Use the phone only to set up meetings.
That will kill attraction.

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Sure, you don’t want to use the phone all the time…

But once you’re securely into a relationship, sharing small stories on the phone can help reinforce attraction and pair-bonding

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man , I always agreed with you on at least 80 per cent of things you wrote. But I think you made the same mistake women make: they get ‘bored’ and all that bullshit. Instead of stability, they look for shitstorms. So they cheat or get a divorce. They take things for granted. I really don’t understand, what’s so hard to be with the same person and use some creativity. Don’t see her for a week. Fuck her under the rain. Whatever. I would not have left a pretty girl who respects me, is affectionate, doesn’t play mindgames, and shows up in a raincoat with only her panties underneath. I can only hope you forget her soon.

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Roosh, why didn’t you consider keeping Anna as a main girl while finding “reasons” to travel for a week or two at a time so you could hunt girls on the side?

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This would have been the best idea. Keep anna, and keep the excitement. But noooo roosh had to dump it all and go. Fucking dumbass.

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One word. Satyriasis.

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thanks for this story roosh!

it’s good to read that you got to enjoy anna to the fullest for one month, and had a relationship with her that seems to have pleased your soul. women like her have a healing effect on the souls of men.

but one has to always keep in mind that relationships are only a resting place for us, where we can reflect upon our life without worry. because nothing lasts forever in this world, it is no dwelling place for permanent settlement

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Did you bang any other girls in the period with Anna?

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You little bitch, you stayed in a city for a woman.

You are a disappointment.

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You should keep the girl and marry her its evil I. The heart that makes uncotentment and ungrateful attitudes. Why is it society function when the Catholic Church ruled and people married young and now its a broken down ash heap of moral relativism, socialism, apathy, and selfishness? Ill take the old school way of families and communities over empty selfish ego.

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The worst thing about making a mistake is to keep making that mistake after you know better. It was a mistake to leave Anna. Maybe, you can still make it up.

You are young, so you may subconsciously think you will always have opportunities to find girls like Anna who tickle most of your boxes for traits you want in a woman. But, alas, life is not always so kind. You may find others like Anna again, or you may not. But the one thing you don’t want to do is run the risk of living your older ages with many regrets. And I suspect ending things this way with Anna will lead to one big regret.

Now, I am not suggesting you should plan to have a family with Anna, and all the other traps that often ensnare a man in a long term relationship. What I am saying is that you should ride this gravy chain for as long as you can, for as long as it lasts. You should try to be with her until the bad outweighs the good. Now you may think that you have reached that point by the boredom you felt setting in with being with Anna. But I think you probably gave up this relationship too quick.

So my humble opinion is for you to try to go back to Anna and salvage what you can of this relationship and remain with her until the benefits are no longer worth the cost.

Here’s wishing you the best, whatever you decide.

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As great as Anna was, if Roosh “gets her back”, he will lose hand (power) in the relationship. Plus she’s already banging/dating other guys.

She would be super cautious about him leaving again, and wouldn’t trust his promises to stick around.

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I think this attitude of disdain towards
Marriage and families has been subtlety programmed into us by the media in order to destroy society. All these useless big brother laws are meant to control us and break us down. Diss the Church all you want but when they handled poverty instead of the Nanny state
More people got more
Of what they needed and the love and training they needed to heal their inner brokenness that caused many of the poor
Character traits that are a factor in many of the social ills we face as fallen creatures. Marriage and family are the natural order of things. If all we have left is broken detracted divorced
Sit commwatching pinko brain washed State U alumn what kind of future will we really have left??? It’s not pretty and is the price of disrespecting the Church’s teachings. Eastern Europes Orthodoxy and Latin Amerixas Catholicism have to be major factors in why they develop such awesome loving feminine women.

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A problem is that the Church itself has been corrupted in many ways and alone doesn’t offer young men guidance on how to meet women, get married and start a family that will last and thrive (which is increasingly impossible in secular America). I’ve heard many feminist memes repeated at mass and ultimately I turned to game (Roosh being the portal to the manosphere) just to establish a dating life. Of course getting laid is not the end-all-be-all and the notion of a Christ-centered family life still appeals to me, but after years of close involvement in the Church, prayer and selfless dedication to others, I didn’t feel that I was doing the right thing and had to take a step back. Maybe things will come full circle, but I’ve got to find some of my own answers through experience and not take everything that is preached to me at face value.

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You ran away Roosh. I’d call you a fool and a coward, but I’m not so sure I will pass that test if I ever get the chance. Many men never get the chance Roosh.

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I’m sorry things didn’t work out mate. You can still have a happy life with or without a partner. I value your writings and wish you well.

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Roosh’s last story was very anti-climactic. I read all 5 parts and the epilogue but he doesn’t really describe the woman in any detail. Her age, breast size, athletic description, height, eye color. You are left with only imagining a really hot girl in your head with no way of actually verifying anything. Clearly he is intentionally leaving out information which is not in his favor. Due to the fact that Roosh got bored and eventually left we can conclude a few extremely likely things: a) She wasn’t really a top echelon woman in terms of looks. b) She wasn’t an expert at giving oral sex (the angsty, unsatisfied PUA community likes to pretend this is not important, but I have yet to encounter a man, or even a story of a man who walked away from a woman in the top 5% of the general population in this field). So I can understand why Roosh moved on, but at the same time he shouldn’t keyboard jockey and pretend she was so amazing. But it’s vital to be a keyboard jockey to sustain a living for him so I can understand why embellishing things and sometimes lying outright are often necessary components of his stories.

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Disagree.

Roosh has written several articles about how he gets anxious whenever he’s with a girl for ‘too long’.

https://www.google.com/#q=site:rooshv.com+happiness

The mere fact Roosh moved on *does not* mean she was not amazing.

Read his article about ‘foolhardiness of pursuing happiness’ and how, after a while, even wonderful things no longer give him great happiness.

Likewise, take a look at his book A Dead Bat in Paraguay — and he discusses how he gets happy leaving his laboratory job, but then would be happy to go back to it.

He constantly feels the need to move on, no matter how good it is.

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My 2 cents are because he comes from a broken family. Why do I say that not to judge or condemn him but to empathize with him. I feel your pain and know the sorrow of a broken family. It creates a void in a person couple this with a goes corrupt system ran by illuminati Satannworshiper high finance elites and you can see how the Devil wants to break people and take them to hell for eternity. Jesus can heal your emptiness and save your soul. Ask him to cleanse and renew you- He can and will. I will pray for you. God bless you.

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This story was amazing, but I’m left not sure how to feel about it. On the one hand, I can relate, but on the other I feel sad, because I know in my heart I have both the desire for freedom and variety and the desire for one ideal person. It almost reminds me of the earlier short story you posted about a beta thinking about proposing, seeing what his grandparents superior marriage was like, and still going back to the modern woman he was with.

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Only thing that comes through my mind after reading this is that we as human beings will never be satisfied with the “best”, constantly searching for something greater that will satisfy our needs or desires. This is such a sad ending but can’t see any other way you could’ve ended it Roosh. It’s the push and pull chemistry that led to all of this and if you hadn’t, I’m sure she wouldn’t have been the Anna that is in your heart today. As always, Roosh you’re the best.

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I’ll tell you why you get bored. Orgasms release a dopamine hit. It’s like drugs you need more to get the same high. Try karrezza sex.

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I think for her sake as well as yours, your leaving her is not a mistake. I don’t think you’re capable of loving her at all. You’re just attracted to the pleasure she gives you, but that will grow stale. It’s better that you end it like this, so that she can wake up, and find a nice stable man who would not sacrifice her love for freedom.

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I’m just curious if she knew about your pick up blog, bang ukraine book, etc.

If not, the relationship may have ended anyway once she found out.

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I thought she had posted here a few times recently. In any event, the author has a big decision in front of him. The question is not will he get over her, but does he want to get over her? You see, attraction is something that happens to us, but love is not. We are drawn to people initially (sometimes against our will), but we actively choose to stay and continue past a certain point of euphoria.

I don’t think the problem is with Anna or with the relationship. I think it is a greater problem of restlessness. Perfect contentment is not to be found in another human being, and we should never look for it there. I think the author is searching for a higher purpose: something to give meaning to his existence. And forums and blogs to educate others is a very noble effort, but, in my opinion, teaching friends and disciples only goes so far. He wants “more.” And that “more” will not be satisfied by new women. It will get him “more of the same,” but not what he is truly searching for.

Pulling away and “ending” the relationship in this case may just have been a test. How things were left and how she responded are important details in determining a future course of action.

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You formed a satisfying pair bond. You are designed to do that. It was bound to happen. Before you knew that Anna existed game was enough. Now it maybe isn’t.

Do you bet on the girl, or bet on game? Tough one.

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“Do you bet on the girl, or bet on game? Tough one.”

that’s what it boils down to, for those of us who have taken the red bill and haven’t entirely given up on the idea of marriage, family, etc. a tough one, indeed.

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you did. get over being bored. be happy instead. if you have to get some on the side, create a situation similar to mexican dudes in which you fuck around a little and she doesnt ask and pretends its not happening. and for gods sake wear a rubber. but there is nothing wrong with it. especially dont do it for the readership if i may be so arrogant. if you have to, lie to us. do you man.

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You will find another one…and will lose her too

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Very interesting story!

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This is just sad. I’m pretty sure you’re going to die alone and with nothing to show for it.

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Maybe you just picked the wrong place to travel. You have already lived in Poland twice already, have already been to Wroclaw before… There’s no noveaulty, no adventure in it. Why didn’t you head farther East to Russia? Maybe going to a new country is what you need at the moment, not simply rotating between Poland and Ukraine forever…

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Good story, very well written, seems emotionally honest.

If you want some suggestions
(& it’s not at all clear that you want or need any):

– if a one-month relationship is as deep as it gets emotionally in your writing,
that’s way over in the shallow end of the pool for most people.

– it would be interesting to see you write convincingly about a female character’s emotional life. This might also take your game to another level.

– if/when you find another woman who you click with as well as you did with Anna, I’d suggest that you stay until you are sure you want to leave, or until you have to leave … and keep writing about it.

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Sex without the possibility of procreation is pretty similar to masturbation. You know the risks of marriage and having children. That is the risk you are shying away from. At some point you have to bite the bullet and get into it. Lots of men successfully marry and have children. It is like jumping into the swimming pool. After the initial shock, it isn’t so bad. You know enough about game you could keep a woman in line and prevent her from divorce raping you. As for having children, that is the best way to keep a woman busy. You want drama and excitement? Try having kids. A whole other world opens up. But it is a good world. An enjoyable world.

You must have read the biography of Cassanova. His life did not end well. In his old age, the ladies laughed at him and pushed away his advances scornfully. He lived in a cold, dusty old attic on the charity of a friend. All he had left was his memoir writing. I hope you wake up and don’t continue down his path. Your research has helped a lot of men already and will continue to do so for a long time; how much more do you need to hurt yourself?

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Re: Cassanova’s old age

True, but let’s not forget the differences with today’s reality:

* Gym culture, way better nutrition, hair supplements, good fashion for middle-aged guys
* Many more divorced MILFs, women who stayed single, and want to fuck
* Baby Boomers pushing strong activities / social life into later years
* staying strong and good looking with salt-and-pepper hair means that you can bang 35 year old women well into your mid 60s (Cassanova died at 73)

* if you accumulate a lot of money, and strong social status, you can bang hotter women for longer and society (other than feminists) will barely bat an eyelash

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Roosh has made it clear that at present he wants sex with women but not children with them. He responsibly uses birth control and doesn’t mislead his partners into thinking he wants kids. Why are you pushing that unwanted agenda on him? Not everyone wants to procreate. Your Casanova mention is laughable — ever hear of all the millions of elderly parents nowadays who are abandoned by their kids? Better several decades of Casanova’s fantastic life and loneliness at the end than several decades of selfless parenthood and loneliness at the end. Memoir writing sounds a lot better than shuffleboard in an old folks home. Roosh is living his life as HE chooses. Leave him alone.

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Yet, Roosh chastised those philosophies (e.g. liberalism, Cultural Marxism) that promote the destruction of the traditional family…yet he engages in that behavior which ultimately leads to its decline! Now, I don’t know if he a religious fellow, or if anyone else here is, but if he is and/or you are, the holy book–whether it be the Bible, Torah, or Koran–has a few passages regarding a person’s sexual adventures. Ultimately, would God approve of the “pump and dump” strategy???

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“It is like jumping into the swimming pool. After the initial shock, it isn’t so bad..”

not necessarily…

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The stupidest comment I’ve ever read on the Roosh V blog. “Just…derp…have kids, man.” “Sex without procreation is like masturbation”….. um, no its not, its like hot sex.

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Think you found the mother of your children. While in poland keep in contact with her before she moves on. You have to accept end game is around the corner. Hook her now before shes gone. No need to fear marriage there, the courts there arent riggeg agaisnt men and older guys still do fine with young women.

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Roosh, while you may feel like you made a mistake, you avoided a much bigger mistake by delaying your initial plans to leave and staying. If you had left Ukraine on short notice as you originally planned, it would have been much more traumatic for both you and Anna, in both the short and the long term. For you, a lot more unanswered questions about what might have been. For her, she would have felt utterly betrayed and probably scarred for life. Even if you never see her again, you gained additional life perspective/experience from being in a relationship with a woman of that quality and getting to know her more deeply, than if you had just up and bounced two days after you first slept together.

One question I wondered after reading, was how did she take it when you said you were leaving? Did she beg you to stay?

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It is time to make your choice, Roosh. If you have a taste for this kind of experience, you should know the angst, self-doubt, recriminations, and suspicion only get worse the older you (and “she”) get. It doesn’t get any easier.

Either commit to the endless game or make a grab for that brass ring in one form or another.

Age is against you.

TC

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Nice story Roosh.

It’s kind of sad of course, but a good read, honestly (as far as I know) told.

Interesting post about women, sexual/relational clarity and the importance of working out exactly what you WANT and NEED over here;

http://www.learningthesteel.com/signs-discipline-9-sexualrelational-clarity/

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I have been following your blog for a few years now and have learned a lot but got bored with the game posts as I have no need to read informative writings on this, however this series was different and very entertaining. Nice work

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Dear Roosh,
I don’t know if you read through all the comments but i had this exact experience with a girl before and i feel you. This story just brought so many memories back to me. Good ones too.

Anyways, I just want to let you know, the clock doesn’t reset. It unpauses.

Kindest Regards.