Anna: One Year Later

Previously: Anna

“I kind of hope she breaks up with me,” I thought to myself, waiting for her to arrive, because I couldn’t leave her and I wouldn’t dump her. If you leave a great girl like her, and have just one bad night anywhere else in the world, in a sausage fest club with mediocre girls giving you attitude, you’ll get angry at yourself for leaving. You’ll feel despair at trading real connection and chemistry for the mere potential of having it with someone else. But if she breaks up with me, I will be free of regret and what-ifs. She made the choice, not me. I was the victim, not the perpetrator.

Anna picked me up from the airport when I arrived for the second time in Odessa. My flight was delayed two hours but she patiently waited for me and we embraced in the airport lobby. What a lucky man I was to simply hit the un-pause button and resume where we left off from meeting nearly a year before.

She brought me little gifts every other date, small trinkets she came across. She bought a glass and painted a design on it with a big R. She cooked soup when I was sick. She brought me sweets. She was patient, kind, funny, emotional, sexy, smart, feminine, nurturing, honest—everything a man could want, but like with every other girl, I started to get bored. When we went on the beach at night to eat cookies and drink champagne, I was ready to go home after two hours. When we went to the dolphin show, I was watching the clock while she excitedly took pictures of the imprisoned animals. I dreaded phone conversations where she would ask me what I did during my day when it was no different than the one before it. Even sex become a chore, a job. I knew her vagina inside and out. It gave me orgasms, but there was no novelty, no excitement. I had trouble reconciling my boredom with her considering she was one of the most interesting girls I’ve ever dated who put a lot of effort in bed.

We were highly compatible both physically and emotionally. She would be overbearing at times and nitpicky, but nothing that was a deal breaker, meaning it was time for the relationship to take the next step on the road to marriage. At 24, she was getting old by Ukrainian standards, and needed to lock up a man to secure her future. At 35, I was drifting from one country to the next, using sex as a means towards enlightenment and meaning but wondering why it was providing me with neither. I couldn’t shake my opposition to commitment, even though I knew Anna was a perfect match for me. In the past, I’d pass on commitment in the search for more quantity or higher quality, but in this case I didn’t care about banging any more girls or visiting any more countries since my belly was sated long ago. I just didn’t want to reduce my freedom by being locked down to one woman.

I cared about her, would fly into a rage if anyone hurt her, but I didn’t love her enough to grow old with her. More than one month into my second visit I still had not made any declaration to stay longer than my three month visa allows. She must’ve known I didn’t want more than our mini relationship.

We scheduled a date for a Wednesday night. I sat on a park bench waiting for her. I had already taken her to most of the cafes in the center, and was trying to think of where we could go or what we could do before going back to my bedroom. “I kind of hope she breaks up with me,” I thought to myself, waiting for her to arrive, but I knew she wouldn’t since I still had over a month left in the city. We’d have to wait a little while longer for a sad goodbye I’ve done so many times before with so many other girls.

She greeted me with a small kiss and I mentally logged another three-hour date where we would pass the time, entertain each other slightly, and then have one or two orgasms before I put her in a taxi. The relationship was kept in a state of purgatory, and she was fine with it. Or so I thought.

“This is our last meeting,” she said. “We’re not friends and we’re not boyfriend-girlfriend. When people ask me what you are, I don’t know what to tell them. We’re in the middle and so I have no place for you in my life. I don’t want this to continue.”

“Are you joking?” I asked. My ego refused to believe I was being dumped, even though I had just fantasized about the prospect.

“I’m not joking. I had a lot of good times with you, but this is it.”

I stared off into space. I remember the time I asked her if she wanted kids or not. She said, “Of course, I’m a woman.” I joked about impregnating her but taking absences of indeterminate length, an idea she didn’t care much for. I ignored all her hints about wanting something more stable.

After composing my thoughts, I said, “You’re making the right decision for you. I know you want a serious relationship, marriage, and kids, and I don’t want that right now.”

I was ready to reminisce about our relationship a bit, relive the good times we had, but with a stern face I had never seen before, she said “So goodbye” and turned around. No kiss, no hug. We had known each other for a year, had traveled to another country together, had shared a hundred inside jokes, had sent a thousand text messages to each other, had exchanged over a dozen thoughtful gifts, had made love dozens of times, but now I was dirt to her, someone who had no more value than a random man walking past us. I couldn’t believe she was capable of being so cold.

I walked home and ruminated about our relationship. I put on some sad love music to force any emotion to the surface, but none was coming. I wanted to care about what just happened, but she had merely denied a future that I already denied in my mind. A feeling of relief overcame me that I could buy an airplane ticket to anywhere in the world and not feel like I had destroyed the relationship, not feel like I had made one of the biggest mistakes of my life, but soon enough I’d see my rationalization for what it was, that failing to commit to her was my choice entirely.

Even after this experience, I feel no more comfortable committing to any woman. The idea of love and living happily ever after is an abstract fantasy that becomes less likely with every passing year. I’m essentially re-living the same thing over and over again, running in the same hamster wheel but in different places with different women, and soon I will meet another Anna and let her go too. How absurd it is to be so capable of meeting good women but choose loneliness instead! It’s loneliness to some, but freedom to me, and I choose this freedom over creating a family, freedom over long-term relationships with good women. And I’m prepared, I think, to live with that choice.

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That’s the irony of growing up in the West. The place poisons your mind into a toxic default. Tall, educated, entreprenuers with swarthy looks don’t reproduce (this statement is autobiographical for me too Roosh) yet “The People of Walmart” (look that site up fir some roftflmao moments) have kids in droves. Many Ford Escorts few Porsches. The movie Idiocracy will be a reality in 40 years.

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And its your own fault

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You sound like a Rush Limbaugh clone-deep thinking abounds there, right?

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All the white people will have hook noses. I wonder why?

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hahah…. poor little seth datta, always has his little feeewings hurt about the unemployed pakistanis and london zionist bankers who get the chicks he can’t because he can’t improve his own life.

Take your existence into your own hands, dumbshit, and stop blaming everyone else

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Dude, you need to get a life instead of masterbating over me. How do you know who I am? Because every time you read my posting you get a hard on because you are f*cking weird.

Anyone who agrees with you is a fag, that is assuming you don’t up vote your own posts. You would never ‘cuss me out like that in real life, because one day you and yours will be gone – even you FEAR this, which is why you attempt to discredit but fail so, showing your own weakness.

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“Take your existence into your own hands, dumbshit, and stop blaming everyone else”

I bet Stalin’s henchman said as much to his victims.

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He is no different from a damaged Western whore.
Men are not immune to this.

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you really think things are better in the East, North or South?

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I’ve said goodbye to my Anna too. And I’m OK.

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A few pointers, that keep reminding me that most humans (including women) are generic, and that good women are a needle-in-a-haystack. despite every man thinking he had one of them once. He does mention how she quickly became cold and aloof on hearing his responses, how women are wired to be narcissistic. Also, further on down the line, other traits might’ve come out in a longer term more serious relationship.

Women married in times past due to economic, social and security reasons. Since this at least in part in the west has been alleviated by governmental social engineering, we have all sorts of idiots alive today. Good women are not fostered by such an environment and are less than 1 to 2, in 100 women. The older generation who mostly f*cked over the younger ones and have doomed the white race to being a diaspora, along with feminist f*cktards and useless thuggy offspring is the bulk of our society. I don’t know about you, but in this climate, I don’t feel like working hard to maintain society for some dry vag. Basically, we are in a slow motion societal collapse, that will conclude in the next 10-15 years to be replaced with a totalitarian system, which is what the scum who run the west want. And the older generation, alongside feminism, has been instrumental in bringing that about. Basically, I say f*ck all of them, because they’ll keep doing the bad shit until they cannot do it anymore, as per human narcissism.

What solution is there for men in a society that is f*cked? Well, the future of the human race is going to come from third world countries and rural folk in first world countries. That doesn’t mean that rural folk will have it easy, and you need to set yourself up well too, for even in the west there are too many laws and one day you will have to choose to disobey them. Yep, that day is coming.

Finally, good women depend on the man and what he expects. But most women were somewhat forced to be ‘good’ in the past, and nowadays, men are romantics but need to be snapped out of their reverie if they think any women is ‘good’. Even players are prone to romanticism. They can be a good fit, but almost 100% of modern women (and most men) are f*cked in the head in the west. That is why we shit back whilst our taxes are used in illegal foreign wars and in social programs at home designed to destroy us. The Founding Fathers were right when they said the nation would be destroyed from within, because you cannot destroy the west without getting the people (aka slaves) to buy into their enslavement through debt, destroying the family and getting people to buy into all sorts of romantic bullshit that removes the pragmatism from the few people in society left who have it. I mean, how bad does it look when a nation of 100 million owners of guns allows themselves to be bent over and taken violently up the rear by a smaller percentage of the population – it just goes to show that society is really created by a few people (the bankers or the rebels, who are outnumbered, outgunned and oftentimes just plain dead). And now that the society has been turned into idiocracy meets the antiChrist (because all those foreign wars are Un-Christian, the irony of the west being Christian), you cannot unfuck the number of people that have been brainwashed into getting others and themselves dead in the next few decades.

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I disagree Seth, I was a little shocked at the sentence …”have one or two orgasms before I put her in a taxi.”

It sounds like there was little conneciton after sex, if a girl and I like each other the last thing I would want to do after sex it kick her out to take a taxi home…for me it’s very lovey and peaceful to sleep next to a content girl you like.

My impression is not that there’s a connection that dies here, it’s that there’s never a connection at all.

However it is possible that Roosh is (perhaps unconsciously) selecting women that don’t really form attachments either, and these endings come from both sides.

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Dang, Son – It sounds like you have been [email protected]! Congrats. It really doesn’t take a large number of thinkers to unseat the power structure. Get to it.

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This article reads like it was posted on Jezebel. It could have literally been written by some American college skank.

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This song is appropriate for dealing with 99.5% of women-
https://m.soundcloud.com/k-camp/k-camp-cut-her-off-feat-2

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“We had known each other for a year, had traveled to another country together, had shared a hundred inside jokes, had sent a thousand text messages to each other, had exchanged over a dozen thoughtful gifts, had made love dozens of times, but now I was dirt to her, someone who had no more value than a random man walking past us. I couldn’t believe she was capable of being so cold.”

I though the same some years ago. I couldn’t believe either that somebody with whom I shared so much could become suddenly ice-cold…

As I didn’t have much experience at the time I was emotionally devastated but, in retrospect, I recognize this event as my first step towards “red pill” enlightenment…

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Very insightful.

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This is so sad I cried at the end.

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Just curious, Roosh, what plans you have in place when you’re older and (if) you need care, or at least someone to help you daily?

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You pay someone to help you out, fool. This is why money beats game any day of the week. Try gaming your landlord to let you stay rent-free. Try gaming the grocery store to give you free food. Yes, some people can actually get everything they want in life for free by playing mind games, but simply throwing money at the problem is a lot more effective. The only reason game boosts Roosh’s ego whereas buying women with money
doesn’t is because he’s gamed himself to think that way.

Consider the pimps of the world, who blow Roosh out of the water when it comes to game, because not only do they get sex with lots of good-looking women simultaneously for free, they actually get these women to pay them so they don’t have to work (other than running constant game, which is itself work). Yet even the best pimp is a nobody in this world compared to an average multi-millionaire (and there are millions of multi-millionaires in the US alone, so that’s not an unreasonable goal), in terms of access to quality women and other nice things in life.

Zelcorpion below has it right. No one needs to be in a committed relationship. Sex with another person whose mind you like is normally a little better than sex with escorts, which in turn is a little better than masturbation (at least for guys who aren’t ashamed of masturbation), but it’s a minor difference in the grand scheme of things. Like the difference between top-quality grass-fed steak vs medium-quality corn-fed steak vs low-quality hamburger made from pink-slime. Different versions of meat, all of which turns to shit in the end. How can guys like Roosh keep a straight face about not putting pussy on a pedestal when their whole goddamn life, just about everything they do, is determined by whether it will help get more pussy or not?

Basically, Roosh has backed himself into a corner. His primary motivation for chasing women has long been validation–to prove he’s such a stud because he has a high notch count. The male version of a woman who likes to have lots of guys hitting on her. A secondary motivation is entertainment–he doesn’t know what else to do with his time. The male version of a woman who seeks out men who are clowns to entertain her because she doesn’t know what else to do with her time. He doesn’t seem ashamed of his bodily functions (smelling his balls, publicly discussing his horrible underarm odor, which is probably related to anxiety about this idiotic life he’s leading–nervous underarm perspiration is what stinks, the smell of fear, it has nothing to do with being a swarthy Iranian) so I doubt he’s ashamed about masturbation, which means the additional pleasure from sex with a life woman versus his hands is a minor motivation. The final motivation is that his income stream depends on living this lifestyle, so he can’t give it up even if he has self-doubts, because it doesn’t appear he’s saved enough to be financially independent. This is what happens when you put game ahead of money.

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What are some sure fire ways to make that kind of money?

Doesn’t most everyone need something a bit deeper than an emission of bodily fluids from the opposite sex?

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Spending all your time studying and practicing game is a sure fire way to not make money, unless your plan is selling books about game to other schmucks.

Address your second question to Zelcorpion below.

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Buffa your posts are gold, do you have a blog or something?

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Being able to revert back to some of the ways of old, like growing food in the back garden or mending things will be useful as the economy goes down.

A job is not for life anymore, and while living costs rise, the pay is getting shittier.

Yes, people need to connect. Don’t expect that from 21st century women on the whole, but younger women with no debt is the way to go.

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If you think Roosh is so deluded, why are you on his site commenting? Shouldn’t you be busy being a pimp?

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Pimp question: I don’t game women, whether pimp-style or amateur pimp style, unless you want to call negotiating with a hooker for a fair price to be game. Game is also negotiation, except the man commits fraud by misrepresenting himself.

Why on site question: I’m a whoremonger and there’s lots of good advice about sex tourism in RooshV’s various books/blogs/forums, hidden between the lines.

Why commenting question: Because writing my thoughts down in public forces me to think clearly. I comment on a lot of blogs that I disagree with. But don’t worry, I’m going away after this little rant here.

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Buffa speaks the hard truth. I’m a roosh fan, and lurk here all the time, but Buffa is completely right. As a man becomes older (starting in late 30’s), the truth he speaks becomes more apparent and completely absolute. We live our young lives acting like clowns and misrepresenting ourselves in order to obtain sex and validation from these little animals called women. There’s a reason women used to be considered property. They are there to serve us, and that’s it. And, like cattle, good dogs, and fast cars, the best of these little animals are always available to those of us that have money.

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Hey bitch game and money are separate. And if you’re some desperate rich loser you’ll end up getting gamed by the hookers.

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You hire a nurse.. assisted daily living/live in nurse. Don’t assume because you have a wife, or kids, that they will be there to take care of you.

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Amen. Especially since the young are so narcissistic these days.

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I do some personal injury work. Let me tell you, when the husband/boyfriend gets injured the wife/girlfriend 99% leaves the man. No woman wants to care for a man in need. I only assume its not 100% because I don’t keep contact with the client after the case is resolved. THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN THE BLACK HEART OF A WOMAN.

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And you’re going to stick around and support your injured wife. Sounds pretty White Knight / Beta to me.

Actually, I don’t think loyalty is laughable. What laughable is admiring pimps/gigolo types on the one hand (because that’s what the so-called Alpha male that the PUA/seduction venerates really is–a half-ass pimp/gigolo, good enough at pandering to women’s desires for mind games to get free sex, but not good enough to get paid for it) and then admiring White Knight / Beta behavior on the other hand (because that’s what showing loyalty is). And don’t give me this crap that women started it all. Most of human history is simply the history of men stabbing one another in the back, with women of no more importance in shaping affairs than the cattle and other possessions the men were fighting and stabbing each other in the back over. All humans have black hearts. Including the so-called saints, who’ll do anything and say anything to look like a saint on the outside r and feel self-righteous on the inside. We’re animals, and vicious ones at that.

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you mean the younger generations of women show no loyalty. So men just think fuck it. Thanks for destroying society feminists. When the bad shit goes down, its probably because you deserve it.

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I had a colleague, 25 years old, who fell on a patch of ice and broke his back. (He ended up in a wheelchair for life). His girlfriend killed their unborn child and left him in a heartbeat.

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Don’t assume you’ll be able to afford the nurse in future either. Family is still the only way to go.
Civilization is founded on this.

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Where do you plan on living Seth? Yeah if you are in downtown New York City, I highly doubt you can afford to live, let alone hire a nurse. I’m assuming that most guys on here, would probably prefer to retire in a foreign country i.e. Ukraine, Poland, Thailand, Philippines, etc. That nurse wouldn’t cost you shit if you are bringing in a half decent retirement from USA.

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A young, very attractive nurse.

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I actually run 4 ALF’s (Assisted Living Facility) and in all honest truth you guys, and girls would be surprised how many family, sons daughters, wives ,etc NEVER come visit their relatives. it’s sad plane and simple. Enjoy your lives while you can, however you choose to do so is up to you. But I can attest to the fact that having family sometimes means nothing. There are no guarantees in life, especially when you get old.

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The same thing everybody else is doing: get yourself in a old people’s home.

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Yeah, no thanks. Given the horror stories, I am not interested. Hopefully one of my two kids will have room for me in their basement.

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A revolver. That’s the captain capitalism (Clarey) plan. Some decent ideas in his book but that wasn’t one of them.

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This is actually the dumbest reason to get married, having a partner in old age etc. You could be married to the sweetest woman, what if she dies of a heart attack at 60, you’ll be alone anyway. Maybe if you’re dating, and you’re 70+ you can be committed to one woman for that reason, not before that.

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I am not saying anything about being married at any age. Been there, done that, never again. However, I am sure Roosh has a plan for when he is older and I am curious to hear what that is because his plan for this stage of life is worthy of trying to replicate.

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you diet & exercise. I am surrounded by men ages 75-90 that hike 14ers on the weekends.
Only in your last days will you need someone if you.
Just take care of your body is what you need to do.

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Thats wild-75-90yo guys ascending mountains 14k ft in elevation on foot?

I’ve seen guys in their 70s in Ukraine on youtube do things on gymnist bars and ympic rings that 15yo gymnists do.

Personally, I think its cool when you see a 65yo guy dead lift 300lbs or clean and press 200lbs.

People that train like that must have been beasts in their 20s. I heard of one guy in his 60s who was chubby in his 40s but started running and now runs ultra marathons in his 60s.

What kind of work do those guys do through the week to preserve themselves so well?

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Thanks TyKo. I figured that’s what is was, but if there was anything else that Roosh recommended I’d like to hear it.

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I don’t think it was real coldness on her side. She just put on a cold face, but likely still thinks about you from time to time. Balanced girls with a decent perception are able to understand what needs to be done even if it hurts them. And if she is not married by now she would likely accept your marriage proposal in a heartbeat.

Alas not all men desire the family life. Among the men with the highest consciousness in the world – you may call them saints, advanced seekers of truth or spiritual masters – only 50% prefer to live with a woman in marriage or a similar relationship. The rest are absolutely happy living alone, sometimes having women in their lives and sometimes enjoying the freedom of the lifelong traveler. Wisdom is finding out what kind of man you are.

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“And if she is not married by now she would likely accept your marriage proposal in a heartbeat.” this has always helped me realise that it was my choice in every case

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What is this Eastern Byzantine inspired cultural dynamic of cold, dry logic vs. the sensationism of Western thinking- why are the two cultures so different?

What kind of small businesses are popular all over EE aka what kind of business could an Western expat start that locals would come to? How much capital would be needed to do this?

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Best bet is to generate income online while living in countries like Ukraine or SEA where 2k+ will give you an acceptable lifestyle. Whether you actually work online (doing programming, odd work etc.) or create some kind of passive income or blog is irrelevant.

Starting a local business is no easy feat in most countries and the capital necessary in EE is almost as high as in the West in order to make it viable. You need the least capital in remote regions in SEA or China and might have the best chances of success due to growth of region. As long as everything is growing and disposable income is too, it is enough to invest in a business that is not available there, but is easy for a Westerner.

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I agree. She probably went home and cried her eyes out.

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Doubtful – many women feel the same way about men the way men feel about women. The idea of settling down terrifies me. I’ve been in a few long relationships – they always end in boredom.

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pics or gtfo. nah i’m kidding, but i would like to see what your’e passing up

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Freedom vs. Love. It is a dilemma.
My solution has been an open relationship, the one-way kind where I have the freedom to see other women, but where my wife and girlfriends are only with me. The difficulty is having to be totally up front about the whole thing when meeting new girls, and thus greatly reducing the probability of getting anywhere. But some girls react positively to the social proof of other women, and to the audacity required to propose joining a modern harem, even if only for a night. It does require significant time and energy to maintain such relationships, but it addresses the desire for a stable, caring relationship as one gets older (45), while maintaining an outlet for novelty-seeking.

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That is some heavy stuff! It makes each of us ask ourselves the same difficult questions. All the comments below are spot on. The best thing one could do in that scenario is get back on the horse, have a few drinks and meet some new girls and get your head back in the game, and try and forget about what you passed on.

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It’s hard, isn’t it? Hard to give up personal freedom for the occasional moment where you want to be with someone, hard to give up portions of your time/money/livelihood for something you’re not real sure you want but not real sure you want to leave.

Us men have this dilemma all the time, Roosh. We’d love it if she left us but our egos are bruised when they do. We don’t want to leave but we look at what we *could* have and are drawn to it. Yeah, needless to say, I’m having the same Stay Or Go fight internally, too.

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Probably the best series of posts ever. So far, a choice I have also made

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……..really?

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just get some chick who will have the kids and allow you to fuck around, as long as she is number one and she never has to meet any of your bitches. there are a lot of girls like that.

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Great post Roosh. Deeply insightful and you really put us into your mind once again with the dilemma / choice that all decent players must face at some point.

It feels like you’ve articulated my owns thoughts and rumination for me. As if you’re writing about my own break-up a few months or a year into the future. I’m 8 months into a non-exclusive relationship with my own Anna right now and feel like you’re describing it to a tee although things are going well at the moment.

I believe the best solution for all men in this situation is to imagine the ending of the relationship before it happens, to come to terms with it and be okay with it before the inevitable fallout because you wouldn’t commit. That way when it happens you can pick yourself right up and get back into the Game.

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1000-vag care?

Maybe change to a career in pornography? a reality TV show on HBO?

One thing I notice is that men assume hours of preliminaries to get sex. Why not spin plates and get sex at the man’s convenience? I think dating should be eliminated as much as possible. A man needs importance outside of vags.

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Is freedom really worth it? You sound miserable in all of your latest posts. Your game has evolved to the point where you could get any woman in the world and as many women as you want, and yet you don’t sound any happier. Anna was not the answer, but neither is playing this game forever. There’s more to life than this.

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Yeah man I agree- he needs to go talk to a priest and maybe volunteer or help some poor kids. Maybe do something you’ve never done like Mountaineering or combat shooting training in the American West (Thunder Ranch, Front Site, or Gun Site/the best ofnall names here) or South (Bill Rodgers School of Pistol Craft, ShootRite Tiger McKee).

Go hunting, live in the mountains, take up survivalism (survivalblog.com is great). Explore the Olympics or San Juan’s or Plumas.

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Agree. My last stint in Ukraine, I dedicated a day to donating my time & money to a refugee camp for displaced people from Donetsk.
250 people, they were mostly kids & I felt stronger with all things in life afterwards. It was so very sad but they have beds, fans & fridges in this warehouse now.

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That’s what PUA Style did. He is from a different tradition, was from a Jewish background, was already a very successful NY Times bestselling author and immersed himself in pickup as research for a book. It intoxicated him — he actually met Britney Spears and Tom Cruise and got her phone number, she wanted to hang out with him– but after a while he became less enamored with the superficial excitement.

He then studied to be an EMT and wrote a book about his experiences, most dramatically at a major tragic train wreck in California where many were injured and killed.

I’m not even a real Christian, don’t believe in the supernatural, but one of Jesus’s great sayings was that among three important things –faith hope and charity, charity is the greatest.

Not just for the people you are helping.

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Is he really free? What does that mean? And who is free?

99.9% of the human race is a slave to its desires, priests and monks included. And we are not free to live when someone else enforces even one rule we don’t like. I prefer to think of the world in terms of choices, and this can be divided into socially sustainable choices and those that are not (e.g. feminism, single motherhood, paying taxes for shit wars and other useless social engineering programs, etc…).

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Yeah That makes sense and we can complain all day but it won’t free us.

Go have some fun. Would you feel as lousy if you were out on the streets of Kiev or Prague cold approaching 8s?

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“any woman in the world” — this is silly.

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Roosh’s life from what I gather seems entirely selfish, in the sense of being completely oriented around the self and hedonism. Maybe he needs to take a sabbatical from game and volunteer to build houses for poor people in in rural Indonesia.

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ROOSH! – I think she had no feelings about You as an person! She just saw in You a potential for husband or boyfriend. Pure eastern europe girls rationalism. They don’t look for deep feelings here. They look for trivial things. That’s why she was able to walk away without any emotions. She just played a game till she understood that she can’t get what she want. It happens in my life regulary. I am from Riga wink

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playas say ‘bitches be interchangeable’. But they’re only parroting women who really do see men as interchangeable – they simply want to see a value in the man, but don’t care about the actual man in the doctor’s coat, behind the wheel of the mercedes, in the suit with a briefcase in his hand, etc, at all. As long as he ticks the box on her list and checks out, into her heart he goes. And out he can also go, in a heartbeat.

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and that’s why i realize that i actually don’t like girls personalities ..I love their bodies and their faces,and i just like to fuck them…i am just honest to myself…

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I think she had no feelings about You as an person! …. That’s why she was able to walk away without any emotions.

Possibly. But another possibility is that she really did like Roosh, but once she realized there was no permanent future with him, forced herself (with help/advice from friends and family) to stop liking Roosh.

Girls can convince themselves to change their own feelings about a man — and even change their memories of how they felt about the man in the past.

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Possibly. And that makes their “feelings” worth nothing in my eyes…just a short term emotions or something like that… It’s not interesting for me any more…I like timeless things..

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I don’t think it’s freedom…You still have too many options available to you sexually so there will be another Anna. When you run out of options, for whatever reason, you will settle down with the first Anna who comes along. It’s called as long as their is the hope of ‘upgrading’ then you’ll take that bet.

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You’re just too young to settle. It’s normal for an experienced player. The day will come though wink

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Players and betas alike-
What age does each category of guy. have to settle on average?

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shouldn’t be before 40 in the USA. But include that pre-nup assuming you own property & make more $ than her. IMO

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So in UA guys onto into their 40s really get fine 20 something’s?
Are they all business owners and mafia getting that young of pink at that age?

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Yes. It is more common in Europe than in USA & in Ukraine, it is far more obvious.
If you are 40, you could easily date 25 year olds routinely. I saw it often.
I am 30 & dated girls 20-24 with no issues in age. It is encouraged there actually.

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ROOSH!!. why not start acting porn and get all the shagging which your desperate soul aggressively craves for. I will be happy to bring you to an audition if you are up for it.

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Doesn’t porn have the most broken, soul-destroyed women? I don’t think having toxic women like that around helps anyone.

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“We had known each other for a year, had traveled to another country together, had shared a hundred inside jokes, had sent a thousand text messages to each other, had exchanged over a dozen thoughtful gifts, had made love dozens of times, but now I was dirt to her, someone who had no more value than a random man walking past us. I couldn’t believe she was capable of being so cold.”

This is the blade that cuts so deep and is so familiar to all of us. It’s that sense of true abandonment. You reach a level of comfort, familiarity, and companionship with someone and then they sweep the rug out from under you. Another tally on the wall of examples of why you can trust no one but yourself and can never rely on anyone to generate happiness for you but yourself. We’ve all been there – when a woman can seemingly flick a light switch and just turn cold on you and we are suddenly on totally different wavelengths. It is of course for the best, but at that moment there is an emotional void along with a slight sense of betrayal and inadequacy that troubles you.

Strange how such well adjusted, successful, free men can have such miring existential problems.

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Whatever hurt Roosh felt, I’m sure it was 10x worse for the girl as she was clearly more emotionally invested. That is time that you can never get back that she could’ve spent with a man that would’ve given her a family. I’m sure deciding to leave him was one of the hardest decisions she ever made. If guys want to bang bars sluts go right ahead, but I see no point in stringing along sweet, family-oriented women for months or years down a dead end path. Especially when they want to have a family before they hit the wall. That’s basically robbing them of time they’ll never be able to recoup.

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It REALLY came off to me like she didn’t care, possibly even less than he did.

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You really know nothing about women if you assume that Anna wasn’t devastated by the breakup and his lack of commitment to her. Every single time this happens, a good woman has to scrape herself up off of the floor, pretend she’s okay, but she’s never the same again because she no longer believes in love or men. He’s just polluting the marriage pool and hurting good women. He should get some mental/emotional help.

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No one is entitled to commitment, love, or special magical unicorn-fart fairy tale endings simply because they spread their thighs.

In fact, just the opposite.

If a woman is sleeping with players, this means that she has already disqualified herself as a candidate for actual, traditional marriage. (Not the weirdly unrecognizable pseudo-marriage you see today in the western world.)

She is: a) not marriage material to begin with and b) not “good.” But she could make a nice mistress.

In my opinion, you display some serious cognitive dissonance related to this issue. Perhaps you should get some mental/emotional help.

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I’m a woman…I didn’t think she cared.

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Thank you. I’m sorry but too many in the manosphere learn game to the point where they’re no longer having one night stands with low quality women but actually having ‘mini-relationships’ with marriageable girls. What’s the point?
This is why I’d only been with two men before I’d met my husband and if I had a time machine I’d wouldn’t have been with anyone but him.
I rejected my share of players and guys who were so smooth my friends called me an idiot for refusing to accept their numbers or go on dates with them.
I’m sorry but my best is for someone who really cares/loves me. Anna should have never taken her clothes off for Roosh. She’s clearly not a bad girl but for girls sex should be at best for marriage and at worst for monogamy. Nothing in life is guaranteed but the odds are more in our favor that way.
If a guy calls you a frigid b**** because you won’t sleep with him on the first not or because you all don’t have a relationship title, then good riddance.
In the end, Anna is just another notch on Roosh’s belt.

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Your level of game is god-like and you can get any girl you want. You are a worldly man who has improved so much with women, game, and your knowledge with everything in life since when you where just a measly scientist over a decade ago. You are a success Roosh and an inspiration to us all in the manosphere. However, you must admit you are at a stage in your life where it might be in your best interest/increase your happiness to commit long term to this Anna you speak of. Maybe the answer is just letting your ego go (and your negative thoughts on marriage) and just going for it. You certainly have the finances and the know-how to make it work, so why not do it? Go after her. Its not like your committing to an American girl or something.

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Man is in his total prime from ages 25-40. Each day you’re alive, no kids & not married, your stock goes up. You should not “sell your stock” until after you’re 40.
Then man reaches his secondary prime. This is somewhere from the age of 40-55. There you’ve dipped in your physical peak, but should have some more value in your financial stability & knowledge though.
There is no logical reason as to why Roosh V, who is 35, should consider a LTR for about 5 more years or so. IMO.

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If don’t agree. I think a man’s prime is about 28. At least for most of us in the West. And I say that because that’s a good intersection between having built up some maturity and career and also still being young enough to easily access females in their prime ages(below 26). We can say a man hits his prime at 40, but we all know that men will struggle to date women 15 years younger. So while you may have more money and confidence and a better job, you won’t have the same access to young bodies that you had in your late 20s. Sure there’s exceptions and I’ve banged girls 16 years my junior, but I have way less ease of access to that college pussy at my age than I did a decade ago.

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That’s only because American culture is garbage.

Guys in EE, SEA, and LA- tell him! smile

if he has a stable income he can have girls 10-20 years younger as opposed to these entitled, egotistical feminazi things that pose as women in the Anglosphere.

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American culture is garbage but it’s not garbage just because it’s not easy for a man to attain a fantasy of being 40 and marrying a 20 year old virgin.
When I was a 23 year old girl, 8 years ago, I would have never slept with a 43 year old man. Sorry but that’s old and disgusting. Now a 33 year old man, perhaps.

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And another thing. You guys are AGE selfish. How can a woman grow old with someone who is already old. Do you think billions of women want to be widows at 50 after your 70 year old selves have died. Yes there are no guarantees in life, but the odds are definitely better if women partner with men near or at the same age.
My husband and I are 1 year apart. I’m attractive and my husband is multicultural. Our daughters will be beautiful and exotic and feminine. I will never encourage them to date old men. 7 year age difference is enough for a man to feel as if he has a prize.

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Do not think to speak for all women. There is nothing disgusting or old about a 43-year-old man. I was 24 when I met my husband, who was 51 at the time (no, he doesn’t have money). We clicked and I’m attracted to him. It’s been 12 years and I still feel the same.
In regards to Anna, it’s clear that when she made her statement about not knowing what the relationship status was, she was putting it all out there in the open. She naturally was expecting Roosh’s response to be a declaration of commitment and was thrown by complete surprise that he agreed to call it quits. Hence, the instant ‘cold’ behavior. In her mind, they shared all these beautiful times and she was expecting the next level. He completely crushed her. I can’t believe none of you can see this.

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Is it possible that by playing the game as long as someone Roosh has, we get the male version of the 1000-cock stare?

When a man experiences so much sex from a variety of different women, it becomes impossible to be happy and content in an LTR? Even when we get past our prime age range, and “logically” should try to tie something down, and have hundreds of notches, our emotions direct us to seek out new stimuli and keep us unsatisfied with just one woman?

This is not meant to criticize Roosh in the slightest – I applaud him for this series.

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Not all men are cut-out for a life of peace, quiet, loneliness & solitude. I thank God with each passing day that I can live a life where I don’t desire a child, a roommate or a girlfriend. Although I will admit, having a nice looking girl in a semi-dating relationship is very invigorating for the first 4 months or so.

I think each young man should think of himself as the stock market. Each passing day you are not married & have no kids, your stock goes up. If you’re a man who wants to have children & devote himself to 1 woman, ok, sure, whatever. But I would advise to plan this for sometime at the age of 40 & after a pre-nup assuming you own property, make decent money, planning a child, ect.

Mans physical prime = ages 25-40
Mans stabile prime = ages 40-55

Womans physical prime = ages 18-30
Womans stabile prime = post divorce

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Roosh, I agree with the last paragraph especially.

I just went throught at exact situation with a girl of three-years relations. I broke it off with her, but the scenario was exactly like yours….including my feeling after.

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Dude grow the fuck up. Are you kidding me right now? It’s just pussy for God’s sake. Why all the drama?

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Roosh, her being nice to you for a year was just an act. After 12 months of hard work she just gave up; and showed her true colors at the end.

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Great story Roosh. Not a lot of people are willing to take risks and live/learn like this. I like the wisdom learned from it. You know you can get tons of Anna’s so no sweat.

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Wow!

As a late 30s playboy, this post really hit home for me! It is heart twisting to part ways with a woman like this.

This is one of the sad narratives in a playboys life.

We do often choose to be alone. We value freedom over romantic love.

My married friends tell me I am doing the right hing but sometimes I dont know?

I am currently experimenting with “mini love affairs”. Lol!

The player life is not always easy

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Is it just me or are you basically maligning her for being cold when in fact you yourself are admittedly cold and incapable of intimacy?

Are you familiar with the concept of projecting your own qualities onto other people? Have you heard the expression you only get what you give? You reap what you sow?

You say you do not want relationships and seriousness and this girl obviously does and obviously wanted one with you, yet you malign her for being col and cruel when she realizes you do not want that with her?

Am I taking crazy pills or are you all incapable of taking responsibility for your actions? Your post sounds like a cry for help from someone who can’ come to terms with their own cynicism and coldness. It cries of lack of self acceptance.

If you want to be with the girl, then great. But if you DON’T, then whining about how cold she is because of this just makes you sound like a PUSSY.

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Great post.Brilliant.

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I’ve heard once “no matter what you choose, you’ll be missing
out on something”. There are pros and cons to married life vs playboy
life, However nowadays many guys are seeing more cons than pros for
marriage. You have married guys longing for that single life again
and some single guys pining for a family. Lucky for men, we can
postpone marriage for quite a long time if we choose that route. Just be sure to get that “soul mate” crap out of your head and realize if you make yourself high value, you’ll always have options. We don’t have that very limited shelf life as women do.

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One of the main deficiencies faced by men in the manosphere is the lack of mental mechanisms to develop emotional attachment with people.

Since many of us were deprived from valuable learning experience since young, we never developed key emotional abilities with women. By learning Game with such deficiencies, usually in our late 20s, we actually learned to fuck before learning to “love”, as some may call it. The modern post-feminist western world does not help at all and in such context, any given amount of notches cannot truly fill the innate human desire for attachment.

I commented this with my therapist and he pointed that many key concepts of the manosphere are true only within our narrow point of view, but are ultimately flawed since they arise from the experience of people with emotional deficiencies. For example, banging a girl within hours of meeting her is Game and experience in action indeed, but when she stops responding after a few bangs/dates, it likely means our inability to form (or at least make her to believe) an emotional attachment with her, instead of her fleeing to the nearest alpha.

I talked with him about rooshv’s form of life and he pointed at serious emotional deficiencies regarding women, many of which I share. I will continue to study on this matter.

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You shod qualify your statement more-
“Since many of us were deprived of KEY EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCES with women since we were young”.

What are those key experiences? Explain more about idea so we
Can see what we are missing out
On.

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Fuck man… a sweet Ukrainian girl over 10 years younger than me? I would have stuck with that.

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You’re wrong. You were not dirt to her and you did have more value than a random man on the street. The reason she was so cold because she was mad at you, she was angry that you did not stop her, did not put effort in saving your love. That being said, I’m quite sure she did understand that it was your choice and you have nothing to be blamed for, but sometimes you cannot make your understanding influence your feelings. Deep inside her heart, subconsciously she wanted you to stop her, to proceed, even if she knew this was unrealistic. You chose your freedom over her, and even though you had a right to, it made her feel angry.
Try to put yourself in her shoes and understand how she felt.
Don’t think you are nothing to her because you are. Don’t make her look heartless.

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“I’m essentially re-living the same thing over and over again, running in the same hamster wheel but in different places with different women”

Regarding your general disillusionment with game: there are so many different types of life you could be leading, yet you’re choosing to do the same things over again, making sleeping with women and writing about it the focus of your life. Why not try something else? See if you can become an actor, take boxing seriously, write fiction, etc. Is your income stream from your website and PUA products tenuous enough that if you took a break for a year or two you’re uncertain if you could be successful when you returned?

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Too many sexual partners will ruin a man or a woman. Though women are more easily emotionally damaged by high notch counts, men are not immune either. I don’t think any guy that’s slept with more than 50 women will ever be able to commit to anyone. He’s traded in his ability to bond and commit with a woman to run on an infinite hamster wheel of momentary sensual gratification that can never really be satisfied. Look bro, you’re basically living for your penis. An organ, an appendage is what’s in control of your life. Will sleeping with 1000 women bring you any more satisfaction than 500, or 100? Have you ever considered that this may be an actual addiction problem? Just like some people can never stop chasing money even though adding more money once you hit a certain level doesn’t even make any meaningful difference in your life. It’s a psychological addiction that has to be conquered in order to become a healthy person and get off the hamster wheel.

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Sincerely, it’s not your fault. Women are just shit, and are not programmed for giving you happiness but for getting advantage from you.

I think while you age it becomes less and less profitable to be alone and do short relationships because it gets more difficult, you lose motivation and energy, so longer relationship become more reasonable.

But still… How can you ever trust or connect your life to one of these “persons” after learning and understanding their true nature.

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People often attract what they are. To say that men and women are black and white is a gross over-generalization – a statement riddled with inaccuracies. He feels empty, so he attracts empty women, which further clouds his judgment, resulting in the inability to form a connection.

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Bullshit. Roosh has probably dated better women, both physically and emotionally, than anyone in America or the Anglosphere in general.

But, as stated in another post, the nature of women is the way it is and it’s universal, it’s a clock bomb. They can conceal it but not cancel it. And this bomb is going to explode sooner or later, it’s a matter of time that any relationship with a woman becomes damaging towards you

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Thankfully not all men share this same mindset.

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Hamsterlation: “Thankfully there are still plenty of idiot men out there.”

Hypergamy and other challenging aspects of female behavior are looming disasters-in-the-making only when you are subject to the highly punitive, female-primary threatpoint regime we men enjoy in the West.

(So move!)

Apart from that, the only thing you really have to watch out for is self-sabotage. Don’t degenerate into a simpering co-dependent (like so many men in the West, particularly Americans, naturally tend to do), and you’ll be okay. (But I luuuurv huuuuur! Durrrr…) Being a simp will fuck you up no matter where you are.

Do what you want. Don’t accept shit. Be ready to walk.

Be responsible for your own happiness, don’t wait for some bitch to spoon feed it to you; masculine mindset.

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I’m a chic, and your response made me want to hug you. It’s good to know that there are still sensitive men out there.

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“I’m a chic, and your response made me want to hug you. It’s good to know that there are still sensitive men out there.”

Feeling not mutual. I wouldn’t touch a feminist with a ten foot pole. Gone, baby, gone.

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I don’t think I told you I was a feminist, but all right.

That being said – I will take your advice anyway smile

*hugs*

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So in general, it’d be in a woman’s best interest to not try and cultivate any type of relationship with an American male, considering their value is based solely upon how fertile/beautiful they are, although – considering men want to have sex around the world….soooooo does their fertility and beauty even really matter? I’m 24, I’m not ready to “die” next year. That’s upsetting.

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If you are a girl in the West you shouldn’t have problems to find an unlimited supply of guys who would be willing to commit to you for as long as you want. Unless you have some major physical flaw or smell bad

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I don’t plan on ever tying the knot, its just too much potential downside hete in the U.S. but if I did it would be with a wiman that was around 10 to 15 years younger than myself.

Understand that when a man has a mid life crisis it’s not because he is getting old. It is because HIS WIFE is getting old. I’ve been to some high school reunions and most of those hotties frim HS don’t look so great at 35/40. But who knows, maybe I wouldn’t think she looked so bad right now if I was pushing 55. Its all relrelative.

Just know that if you have taken care of yourself and you are not some slob with a beer gut plus you have a little dough set aside its not hard at all to pull women that age .

If you can pull them now you will be able to pull them later on as long as you keep your shit tight.

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Not true – I’m 24 – I’m completely put off by men who are above 30. It’s not “just a guy” thing, either (being appalled by aging) – most males approaching 40’s are either creepy or clearly uninterested in taking care of their appearance. Most 20-somethings (women) don’t want to marry until they’re in their late 30’s because it’s their last shot at having kids – it used to be that women in their 20’s wanted to get married, so they’d go for an older male, so long as he was rich. I mean, he could always get into porn, because those women have to fuck whoever they’re told to, but for college educated girls, an older single male is usually a red flag and a turn off, especially if he’s suddenly desperate and wanting to settle down. 20-somethings who NEED money will stay with an older guy for a while, but eventually fall in love with someone their own age and toss the older guy in the trash (kind of like what Anna did to Roosh).

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“It’s loneliness to some, but freedom to me, and I choose this freedom over creating a family, freedom over long-term relationships with good women. And I’m prepared, I think, to live with that choice.” Amen. I made the same choice 20 years ago. My existence is immeasurably better now in almost all ways because of this choice. If I’d married the hag I was dating back then I would have been ruined for life. However….be prepared, Roosh, for ongoing crises of confidence about whether or not you made the right choice. Fight through them. Don’t waver. You DID make the right chouce.

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roosh what do you have to say about ukraine population decline??

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don’t worry about her, man, you were right before and after. She was able to disconnect from you in an instant, effortlessly with no regrets. She could have done it anytime, and probably she would have found another reason for doing it even if you committed to her, and probably even if you married her. It’s paradoxical in that men and women are like opponents in a fighting ring all the time, no matter about all the ‘love’, love is just bullshit, there’s no love, they don’t give a shit about you, it’s just about them. And you know what? No point in worrying about it. Better be as cold as they are.

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I feel more this way with friends, I like them in a casual way and no more than that. But marrying my wife and having kids was the best decision I ever made.

Now the reason I work hard is just to provide and care for unit and that makes me truly happy.

For Roosh and guys like him living their lifestyles not committing to a broad is the best possible choice. I didn’t marry a western girl because I hate their leftist propaganda and brainwashing from the universities.

I block all the Marxists diatribe about the underclass, feminism, racism, white privilege, gay rights and environment because I’m a white male and they’re preaching against me so I ignore it out and don’t give a shit. Why in the world would any guy reproduce with a fucked
up girl who parrots that shit? We’ll not me that’s for sure.

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Will never forget this quote https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fkbJ-1sraXw

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I just cracked the F*&% up after reading: “I put on some sad love music to force any emotion to the surface, but none was coming” soooo comical. Then I read the “People of Walmart” comment and laughed some more. So true…

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It doesn’t matter how many hot girls you bang, if you don’t have kids with any of them you’re basically out of the gene pool. Real ‘alpha’ men don’t just have sex with lots of women, they also have lots of children with those women. This is the reason I can’t see any of these PUAs as being successful as men, whereas those ghetto thugs who have several children from all their different girlfriends are successful since they are the ones actually passing on their genes.

The ‘beta’ afc’s who get ridiculed a lot for being nothing but doormats and providers will live on, in a sense, through their children whereas the childless but successful with women PUAs will not. The hallmark of alpha men is having several long-term relationships at a time (multiple girlfriends, wives) and having many children who also survive to adulthood.

PUAs may have had more one night stands than most other men, but without children to survive them, they’re nothing but failures, having failed the biological imperative. Enjoy the sense of emptiness from growing old and realizing that chasing the poon isn’t what it used to be and dying without a legacy.

P.S. I’m sensing from a lot of your recent posts and youtube vid’s that you seem to have lost the drive and energy from your earlier years, becoming more jaded, cynical and dare I say, depressed.

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Have kids, folks! Europe is dying.

Ondina
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It was the best for Anne, so a very worthy human being like her now will have the chance to meet a real man. Because real men are not those who spread their seeds -and soul- all over, real men are those who are capable of trascend the gross side of sex, the one you practice and are slave of.

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She’s a professional husband hunter. Takes a real pro to pick right up
where they left off. Won’t waste too much time on a player so sure,
cold as ice, she kicked him to the curb.

The reflection seems
chick like but in reality, guys also have biological clocks and the
ticking is getting louder for him. He’s struggling with that and the
not yet in-focus glimpse of himself as a 75 year old dude, alone,
chewing viagra and trying to be smooth as he gropes 20 year old bar girls
in the PI.

Eventually gotta settle down and hope some chick will help clean up after you shit your pants. With no wife, kids, there are those who will, for the promise of a financial payout when you finally die.