Are You A Hater Or A Facilitator?

A hater will read a story and try to think of why it’s fake.
A facilitator will read a story and find out what the author did to succeed.

A hater gives a lot of thought into how one race is superior to another.
A facilitator learns from the strengths of other races to accomplish his personal goals.

A hater feels better when others fail.
A facilitator feels sympathy when others fail.

A hater posts blog comments that take away value.
A facilitator posts blog comments that add value.

A hater focuses on a person’s weaknesses.
A facilitator focuses on a person’s strengths.

A hater fails at getting laid and then calls all women bitches.
A facilitator fails at getting laid and then figures out what went wrong.

A hater surrounds himself with people stupider than he is.
A facilitator surrounds himself with people smarter than he is.

A hater is closed off to new information that doesn’t fit his world view.
A facilitator is ready to change his world view in light of opposing evidence.

A hater believes there is only one path to success.
A facilitator believes there are many ways to skin a cat.

A hater feels better by trying to keep other people down.
A facilitator feels better by lifting other people up along with him.

A hater goes to the club to grill other guys and make fun of them.
A facilitator goes to the club to hit on girls.

A hater gets upset when his peers succeed before him.
A facilitator gets extra motivated when his peers succeed before him.

A hater believes the path to self-actualization is to withhold knowledge.
A facilitator believes that the path to self-actualization is to teach others.

A hater is dominated by negative thoughts.
A facilitator is dominated by positive thoughts, even in the face of guaranteed failure.

So, are you a hater or are you a facilitator?

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Suz
Suz
8 years ago

Sharing!

Bob
Bob
8 years ago

Facilitator

Neil Skywalker
8 years ago

I guess there’s a little bit of hater in everyone but overall i’d be a facilitator.

Hater
Hater
8 years ago

Hitting writer block, my man Roosh? Can’t be that simple as hater/Facilitator … as a former scientist you know better Homey.

DaemonMan
DaemonMan
8 years ago

Think we all are a little bit of both, some more the one than the other.
For example, since you probably yourself feel a little bit better about yourself by writing this (since you dont think your a hater) you are putting yourself above others(the haters) and thereby elevating your own hate a bit.
Noone is a saint, trick is, find a balance.

Raul Felix
8 years ago

I chose to be a facilitator. I’ve tried hard to eliminate all hater habits and mind set from myself. I’m still sarcastic and funny, but only in a way that people around me get. I like being around people who are better than me. Haters going to hate, let them. The real men keep on driving on.

Timoteo
Timoteo
8 years ago

I think some aspects of a hater emerge from time to time in most of us, but the key is, do you allow it to rule you, or do you push past it? Do you check yourself and re-evaluate? Some motherfuckers warrant hate, but make sure you’re directing it at someone that truly warrants it.

Virgle Kent
8 years ago

“A hater goes to the club to grill other guys and make fun of them.
A facilitator goes to the club to hit on girls.”

TRU! LOL got grilled so hard the past weekend had to write about it. Like don’t worry about the girl I got or even how I got her… get ya own ya heard!

Aaron
8 years ago

This post SUCKS. Flaky Tony Robbins bullshit.

Just kidding. Good stuff.

Mike
Mike
8 years ago

“every little fvcking haters gonna hate, bro!” -zyzz

K
K
8 years ago

Why then are you so opposed to evidence about human biodiversity and discussing in openly on the forum?

It is red pill wisdom, surely, but one would assume that practitioners of game would be openminded enough to discuss it as well.

realist
realist
8 years ago

hater fits the profile of masculine thinking and someone rooted in reality.

the facilitator looks mostly like a feminine world view and wishful thinking based in fantasy.

hate wins.

rick
rick
8 years ago

I troll matt forney and the black pill.

I offered them advice and they spat it back at me.

Evolution realists (choosing to have sex with just 1 race), the angry bitter men of the sexual lower classes and fat people tend to bring that out in me.

Mojo
8 years ago

Rick, you should start your own blog. I’d link to you.

But only if you keep telling people they’re FINISHED.

Kenny Lives
Kenny Lives
8 years ago

Sounds a lot like the posters in Roissy ‘s forum. So bitter.
Anyway I’ve been reading both you AND Roissy’s forum for the passed year almost and haven’t done much to finally start practicing game seeing as I’m a slow learner. Bought BOTH you Bang books and am about to give them a SECOND reading so as to ingrain and better remember everything. Can’t seem to shake that intense nervous feeling when an opportunity arises and find myself always going in my head also. Just can’t get over not knowing what to say.

cookie9001
8 years ago

Sharing knowledge not only helps other people, but it makes you feel awesome as well. Yesterday I was giving out game advice and while doing so I was laughing, making jokes, and having fun helping other guys.Everyone except two dudes were enjoying themselves and swapping their own tips.

The two hater guys said “you guys are full of shit” and sulked off to silently watch TV by themselves.

Not only did the haters not learn anything, but they also forced themselves into having a bad time, simply because they were too narrow minded to except that game actually works.

Krauser
8 years ago

John Maynard Keynes – “When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?”

Takeover Legend
Takeover Legend
8 years ago

A facilitator puts Roosh’s gonads on his chin, a hater questions whether Roosh is having writers block.
Really though, you do good work Roosh was just saying as a former scientist you would utilize more than 2 ways to label or determine something.

Nyk
Nyk
8 years ago

“When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?”

I laugh at JM Keynes for changing his mind according to the facts and still getting it wrong.

Billy
Billy
8 years ago

Hater and proud

SteadyState
SteadyState
8 years ago

Roosh – you write a lot of good stuff, and some less good stuff. Do you believe what you just wrote in this post?

Specifically: A hater is dominated by negative thoughts.
A facilitator is dominated by positive thoughts, even in the face of guaranteed failure.

and

A hater focuses on a person’s weaknesses.
A facilitator focuses on a person’s strengths.

I’m assuming from the post that you see yourself as a facilitator.
The titles of a few of your recent posts.

“Never listen to a woman”
“Call the bitch out”
“15 reasons why Washington DC sucks”
“42 things wrong with American women”
etc. etc.

If you were a facilitator rather than a hater, my friend, don’t you think you could have made the self-same points you did in those posts in a rather different manner? Don’t get me wrong, a well-informed, witty and eloquent hater can say interesting things in an entertaining way. But if the above list is an indicator of your self-image at a time when perhaps you’re feeling the butt of a lot of criticism, you need to read it again carefully and more self-critically.

Either be happy in being one of the angry voices of game or look at how your personal style is in conflict with your self-perception and do that other thing – namely:

A facilitator is ready to change his world view in light of opposing evidence.

silent
silent
8 years ago

@ SteadyState21
Calling out bad behaviour doesn’t make you a hater. Telling people to stop rewarding bad behaviour doesn’t make you a hater.
Perhaps you missed the posts and books lauding women from other countries

cle
cle
8 years ago

half hater and half facilitator 🙂

SteadyState
SteadyState
8 years ago

silent – I think it was fairly clear that I was commenting on the tone and approach of the posts, not the content. As I said “could have made the self-same points in a different manner”.

Look at Neil Strauss’s writing (and ignore the manipulative marketing attempts by his team) – that is how you take this content and put it across as a ‘facilitator’. Roosh, and Roissy – are fabulous, visceral counterpoints. That’s their strength, and what makes them so brilliant. But when the deliberately provocative approach prompts a reaction, don’t start going on about how beastly all the haters are. There’s a bit of reaping going on after there was some sowing, if you see what I mean.

LS
LS
8 years ago

This post sounds like it was written by Yoda. I wonder if he had game?