Are Your Standards Too High?

It’s natural for men to chase the most beautiful women in the hopes of landing them, but this can be a flawed strategy when it comes to maintaining a regular sex life that is not overly laborious and frustrating. A balanced game program should seek the middle between mediocre women and the most beautiful women until you can determine a natural ceiling that doesn’t cause you to burn out from the game.

In the gym, lifting more than you can handle will result in bad form and then injury. If you try to lift a weight that your musculature simply can’t handle, you start cheating by using momentum or contorting your body into odd shapes to squeeze out the rep. You can easily see this in max deadlift attempts.

Being unable to complete a rep with proper form is a sign that you must reduce the weight (you will never hear a bodybuilding instructor tell you to increase the weight with bad form). In the short term, bad form may not cause any adverse affects, but it will eventually catch up to you as you use your body in ways that are not mechanically sound.

The only time I suffered injuries in the gym is when reducing the rep range for my sets from ten to five. This increased the weight load and, when combined with less than perfect form, led to injury while squatting and deadlifting. I was not able to do a program of 5 reps over the long run without getting injured, simply because the weights were too heavy for bad form or my individual biomechanics not to hurt me. I had to increase the rep range and lower the weight.

If you are having consistent difficulties with women, it’s because the weight is too heavy. You are pursuing women whose value is above your own as measured by the sum total of your game, looks, status, lifestyle, and so on. This causes you to game them using bad form, leading to nonstop injury (i.e. failure) and pain. You must reduce the standard of women you pursue and lay them using good form to develop the proper foundational strength to increase your standard in the future.

There are many signs to know if a girl’s value is higher than yours:

  • you constantly think of how you should game her
  • you seek advice from other men on what to do next
  • you worry about whether she likes you or not
  • you are anxious about how long it takes for her to reply to your messages
  • you have high hopes that she like you enough so that a monogamous relationship can begin

An even more obvious sign is when you feel your normal self is not enough to attract her, so you either spout multiple lies that you think she will like or you consciously attempt to game her for the entirety of your interactions without ever relaxing your guard. These are all signs that the weight is too heavy.

It’s also possible for the weight to be too light, where a relationship with a middling girl will do nothing to increase your strength, and may actually decrease it. This is common with girls who aggressively pursue you and initiate all steps of intimacy. There should always be a risk-taking component where failure is possible if you make a stupid move.

A man who will be most satisfied with his game results should pursue the middle. With game effort that doesn’t include micro-managing every step of the seduction, he should be able to attract and maintain the girl. While it’s nowadays impossible for a man to be truly himself with a woman, we should be at least half authentic without a girl getting turned off. If you have to be totally inauthentic to get a girl, the weight is too heavy.

How can we improve our value in a way where the girls we like have a natural attraction to us, where the weight is not too heavy that we will get injured and not too light that we aren’t stimulating our muscles, but right in the middle where we can lift the weight with good form and improve our strength in the process? How can I live in a way where 9’s are into me from the start with moderate effort instead of 7’s? What can I do so that very beautiful women stay with me where I don’t need to act like a full-time clown? These are all questions that we must figure out ourselves.

There is not a lot of glamour in benching ten reps at 170 pounds instead of one rep of 250, but the gym will be our second home for the rest of our lives. We need to develop and maintain a consistent program that keeps us injury free just as much as it gives us strength. The game is no different. We have to construct a game and pursue a level of woman that keeps us playing for decades, not just one year that ends in a spectacular burnout because we were unreasonable with our standards.

As for me, I understand that girls in the 7 range are a good mean to pursue. I do have to use some game techniques on them, but I don’t have to stress to keep them on the hook. At the same time, I like to see how strong I’ve gotten so I do pursue girls higher than that, but not exclusively. The most balanced game program must take into account not just what I want, but what I can consistently get based on who I am at the moment.

As I continue with self-improvement and put myself in environments where attractive women are in plentiful supply, my standards should go up just like how a man who commits to a gym program gets stronger. Build your foundation, keep it maintained, and then increase your weight over time, but don’t be embarrassed to decrease the weight in the short term.

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Want to date for long-term:

(1) a girl who has had less than 5 cocks (after that, its proven that almost all relationships will have cheating or will end, plus I don’t want to stick my dick in a sewer or deal with a women whose mentality matches one who is whored out)
(2) someone who doesn’t expect cash/prizes and will stay loyal
(3) a women who is at least somewhat sane
(4) thin and attractive (at least a 6+)

Take any one of these categories, and you eliminate 90-95% of women in western society at the very least. Modern women are useless for anything other than being the wage slaves of a parasitical elite, whilst at the same time displacing men from society and destroying the family unit.

Many couples who do date in this era are weak nobodies who are slaves to be used and they will not contest their abusers. They will allow their tax dollars to be used to hurt themselves and others. They are the scum of humanity, moreso these folk who make up the bulk of society – so when that banking scam falls on their heads with the attendant problems, it is the fault of their blindness and apathy, as well as the evil elite they serve.

So ultimately, no, my standards are not too high. It’s not even like I ask for much. But apparently, in this modern era, we are to accept female mass degeneracy and live in a society composed of people who act no better than a chimpanzee.

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How will verify how many cocks she had? And who cares? You can easily tell if she was a whore if she uses sex as currency to get you to buy or do things for her. There is nothing wrong with a woman exploring her sexuality before settling down to have a family. In fact, there is less chance of her being curious about what else is out there once she is condemned to boring relationship mode taking care of kids and staying home.

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Actually 100 percent opposite. Bonding mechanism deteriorates the more cocks a woman has had.

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Sure, if you don’t measure up to the prior rides, thats true.

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You can’t pack shit back into an ass. Once a whore always a whore and that woman is worthless for a relationship and women know it. Even with out knowing a count you can tell by the age of the woman and how she behaves.

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“You can’t pack shit back into an ass.”

I’m putting that quote on a T-shirt.

“Even with out knowing a count you can tell by the age of the woman and how she behaves”

Good point. It’s not about knowing a cock count, but her behaviors will reveal her.

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A whore is a person that uses sex to get things other than orgasms.

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Then she is a cheap whore. A good wife a man is truly happy with is a “whore” we all can live with and be kind to.

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I agree with Jack, I don’t know what fantasy world you had lived in before posting, but I hope you don’t get married as the girl is surely going to cuckold you.

Better get that DNA kit ready for when she shacks up outside the relationship but ‘has your child’.

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Hahaha… you losers are so terrified that your fantasy woman will fuck some else. Hypergamy is a bitch when you have such a small penis. Keep typing on your keyboard pedestal while the virgin woman of your dreams suddenly appears in your parents’ basement where you live. Go join ISIS, they have same medieval concepts on a woman’s sexuality. Idiot.

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U forgot looser, insecure and wow just wow.

jared thompson
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You’re clearly an insecure moron.

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Because Chad has a small penis and doesn’t want his “wife” to know what good cock really is?

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J, you post like a faggot or a women. But not anything close to resembling a man

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Has to be a woman. Would even the biggest beta in all seriousness use the phrase “exploring her sexuality”?

Yeah, okay, maybe he would.

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why are you posting on this site

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or maybe, just maybe, people dont want a hedonistic moron whos going to cheat on them?

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Mine is 8″

Maybe thats why I prefer she rides the town before me…lets her know that Chad is pretty worthless

I definitely do not want to even talk to vigins

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Or just refuse to pay for stuff. That works

Tell her to go get supported by Chad

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Lol….a blue piller..

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If you are eating her out and you hear an echo, then probably too many.

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Exploring her sexuality is a facade. Just another to say I’m a slut/whore. These chicks slut their youth away. Even If they have “experience” in the bedroom, do they know how to hold down a family with a man?

And them when a man asks the number, they shy away from the question or say that’s none of your business. Many have diseases these days. After they find that good man, some of them return to a former fling because of the so called good time.

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You mean by demanding relationships in exchange for sex?

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Without using exact metrics, if you aimed for the top 40% in all 4 criteria, then that eliminates 97.5% of the women even before you account for age range. Then what are the odds she would want you? 50/50? One in 10? The “keeper” would be roughly between 1 in 100 and 1 in 1000 if you could just pick them at random. Let’s say 1 in 400. If you could meet one new girl every week then that would give you about a 12% chance over the year. Five years of that would be a coin toss. Every 5 years you get another coin toss. However, nothing is guaranteed.

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items 1 to 4 describe my wife perfectly. she’s a central american girl who has been a churchgoer her entire life. i would add an item 5, make sure she’s at least 10 years younger than you. these girls are out there, but difficult to impossible to find in the western world, and you’ll likely have to go to church and wait a few months for sex to get them. worth it though, if you want to have a family.

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If up to 99% of women don’t meet your criteria, you’ll never find what you want. I’ve met women who meet or exceed what you listed, they aren’t a dime a dozen, but there are plenty. I’m 100% sure you wont find what you want by railing about “useless” women. Are you sure that you’re even desirable to this mythical 1%? I don’t know any guys who do well with women and are also whiners.

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1) Are we talking real or fake? Combination of both, perhaps?
2) Loyalty is earned, at least I would hope its a two way street.
3) Sanity is subjective. Though I know that jealous women are often not sane…
4) Attractiveness is also subjective, but I hate the scale rating. I’m not sure it takes into consideration that #3 can knock down significant points if they are truly BSC (Bat $hit Crazy).

Here’s what it comes down for me-
1) Is he respectful to all around him
2) Is he willing to include you in his goals and support yours
3) Is he funny and can hold a conversation that doesn’t revolve around his junk 90% of the time.
4) Is he responsible? He doesn’t have to earn a lot, but live within his means and pay his bills on time. I’m not trying to find someone to take care of me financially nor vice versa.
5) Having a pulse and not having a secret boyfriend are components akin to “icing on the cake”.

But then I never thought my standards were high either.

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My gf said she banged +300. I still feel way more secure with her.
But then again, I’m on her top 5 best ever FB.

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On a theoretical level, this sounds good. But what if I simply don’t have enough motivation to pursue those midrange girls? What if I get higher enjoyment from staying home with a book, rather than going out with one of them?

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Be as honest as you can with yourself. Be sure you’re not just afraid to fail, and using staying in as an excuse. Moment-to-moment I’d rather stay in too, but if I do too much of that I get depressed.
Motivation-wise, I’ve found that mid-range girls take SIGNIFICANTLY less effort, and chasing model types gets exhausting.

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Screen them for how easy they are.

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Great article. I like when you write more about game related stuff. Real solid info here.

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Well, the number system means nothing once you go from USA to EE. A 9 in EE will actually be pleasant, which is soooo refreshing. They WILL give you the ‘time of day’ ….and respond favorably to complements. The same number in USA will have the ugliest attitude, deflecting even the purest attempts at actual conversation. In short, their mind is the problem, and it thinks they are superior. It’s the worst turn-off and they end up going for the douchiest guys imaginable.

It’s tough to even have standards in USA, when most have a spare tire, or in the worst case scenario, a ‘front butt’ from gorging on Taco Bell. I prefer the quiet, nerdy ones, with glasses and bad fashion, yet pass the boner test instantly. These are rare, so I must branch out and try new types.

The key in the US is to find the Euro hangouts. These tend to be places with a large patio, for actually relax outside and breathe air. If anyone else has tips on finding them, please share.

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But even with much more pleasant attitudes, the EE women still usually know their value. So if you don’t have either very strong game to pull off the “foreigner adventure bang” (and in most EE countries these days there seems to be very little and in some places no default foreigner status, you might even have to work harder for the bang than the local guys) or high local status or money, you might very well end up with nothing but a nice little chat with a beautiful girl.
Who will then afterwards smile and let you kiss her goodbye on the cheeks and then go off to fuck and/or have a relationship with a high status local guy.

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I ran into a Euro girl at work. I remembered her. She was gorgeous, nice, bilingual, thin, etc. Low 8 high 7.

I would post a facebook link, but that is probably against regulations.

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A nice analogy

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Quick question, does personality play into your scores?

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GTFOH with that petty shit. Go watch some soap operas, woman.

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Lmao! He said it not me. I merely pointed it out. Soap operas numb the mind, I’ll pass.

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Valizadeh
In the past year which cities have you seen hat have not experienced a Westernized style degradation in Slavic talent?

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Isn’t that the truth there. I remember when I moved to Poland that I could sometimes attract women in the 7-8 range, because my value was much higher. Occasionally I even managed to get the attention of model 9s. But then sometime later I gained some weight and let my body go and I could barely attract 6-7s. Men have many means to raise their market value. If you have to approach 200 8s to get one date out of one of them, then you are hitting way above your value.

There are multiple things to do to increase your real or perceived sexual market value. There is no shame in banging a few girls below your usual standard to get in the Game. Also I noted that a simple change of location – even within a country – changes your value dramatically. Become a better man in Game, body, hair, fitness, money, local social status and you can up the quality of your lays. If you look like this, then you cannot expect those girls to be into you regardless of the money you have:

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I kinda (sadly) feel that the west has become pay-for-play for most men to get the above women who are now a minority. Even more so with rampant mass immigration and declining societal standards. Bottom line is that men can’t be bothered and are tapped out in the current social setup which favours women, who have become fat and increasingly bitchy and entitled. Why improve when the society is fucked and the rewards are declining to nil?

I don’t see this lasting long, perhaps less than five years, before the totalitarian society comes down full force. The whole idea was to destroy strong independent men by promoting the fallacy of ‘independent women’ who destroyed the family and became grade a sluts and home wreckers who took the men’s jobs. Now the women are not needed, as mass immigration and automation completes the task, especially since women abort the future generation en masse. So the future society will be a very poor one ruled by a parasitical destructive and tyrannical elite group of bankers and their brethren, who will abuse all in society, including the women.

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Nah – most guys even ugly blokes can raise themselves to a male 6 in looks and via Game and success to even greater levels. The thing is that it takes way more energy in the West and may sound unattainable in the beginning. But it’s not impossible as of yet.

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I don’t think some cute women care about looks,because I see 5s 6s and 7s with men clearly three or four points below them who may be chumps and she is banging someone else on the side, but they most likely aren’t uber rich. The problem is not looks so much as less women are worth the effort.

The guys who like the current setup are ignoring the fact that for various other reasons other men are not liking it. And seeing as there are so many men not liking it, it is a dangerous sign that the guys saying ‘everything’s okay’ are ignoring the warning signs! If one day you get fired, or have problems that we warn you about or other bad shit happens to – i tried to warn you and I did tell you so. But you probably want to live in a society that is worse than Brazil in 10-20 years, and drag everyone else off that cliff with you.

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Good post Roosh using the analogy of game vs bodybuilding. Often too many guys get into the Game with unrealistic expectations, expecting to bang 8’s and 9’s or models right away. Part of the reason for this is based on having an ego and an unhealthy sense of entitlement.

I was guilty of this myself at the beginning. Unless you’re above average in height, looks, lifestyle, and / or wealth, this is simply unrealistic for most men who need aftermarket game. There’s a difference between not having standards (IE dumpster diving with fatties) to having overly high standards. Nothing wrong with dating 6-7 cuties who are lower maintainance.

Someone once also likened it to an analogy of a boxer who wants to become a champion. A boxer’s career has to be careful managed. Early on, he fights easier opponents to gain experience, build foundational skills and slowly up the skill level of his competition as he progresses up the ranks. To throw a beginner into the ring with a champion he has no business going toe-to-toe with is folly. He’s going to get knocked out and end up with a lot of pain.

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Another analogy: rookie QBs (beginner in pick-up) in the NFL who get thrown into action too soon playing behind offensive lines (wingmen/friends/advisors) that couldn’t stand up to a swift breeze.

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Why not have unreasonable expectations? Why not push for growth?

Yes right now you may be benching 170 for 10, but a year from now you could be benching 200 for 10.

That doesn’t mean you’re going to go to the gym for the first time and try to load up 250 without ever doing the work to get there, but to stay at 170 for the rest of your life because it’s above what most guys bench is still settling.

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to answer your twitter question about farsi, yes its a hard language like arabic and hebrew, espically for english speakers.
youll also have a hard time since you are half armenian. In middle east they tend to perfer a full blooded groom for their daughters.

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I had a shit day in sydney today. My standards are not too high. Girls are just fucked in the head.

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It’s even worse down here in Melbourne!

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I heard melbs is way better.. higher women to men ratio and mucher friendlier for sure

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You must be joking right?Melbourne is sausagefest and always has been.
I’m out alot and it’s a battle just to find a place that is full.Most of the chicks I’m meeting are from interstate or overseas.The great Melbourne nightlife is a thing of the past.It’s all pokie venues.The last Sydney blokes I spoke to about Melbourne told me 10 of them gangbanged 1 chick down here.

Sydney from Surry Hills down to Bondi and across to Coogee has so many women from around the world it blows my mind.I’m considering just flying to Sydney every couple of months instead of going overseas for 3 weeks.The problem with Sydneysiders is they don’t leave their enclaves.They dress like sheep according to suburb it seems.Try finding someone from Manly going out in Coogee…..My fights booked and I’ll be up there in 2 weeks…I can not wait.

I’m from Melbourne but unlike most people here I’m not fussed if somewhere else is better.Sydney has people of all ages in “da club” Melbourne is either extremely young or over 58’s….Melbourne people will say but your going to the wrong places…meanwhile they don’t go out.Ask any Melbourne business man who parties in both cities ,Sydney is a man’s town Melbourne is a woman’s town..fucken nanny state.Fuck the sport and culture if you want to find top shelf women find where the AFL playets hang and prepare to line up for 3 days to get in.

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Dude I was in melbourne in winter visiting my sister. I CANNOT believe how many beautiful hourglass figure women there were EVERYWHERE! Nearly as good as Byron Bay. The only problem I found is the over the top ESFJ kind of of overpoliteness mentality everywhere I went. I couldnt hack it. I would hate to live in Melbourne. And It must be the most feminised place in Australia.

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A REAL MALE should NEVER lower his standards and selections criteria!
I repeat-NEVER! As soon as he does that and decides to settle for something lower and less attractive he’ll start his personal decline finally resulting in the same male settling for the lowest of the low just to get access to that ever elusive pussy which will in turn result in a male’s disappointment with life, people and relationship/sex in general. Do you want it? I guess NOT.
Use high standards and criteria as a goal, as a trigger and a motivation to get better as a person and a personality, work on your body, work on your appearance, work on your brain/thoughts/analytical skills/conversation!!!
You ain’t gonna accomplish nothing if your standards are too low, but the sky is the limit when you aim HIGH!

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I completely disagree with this. Having been going out extensively. I’ve quickly realised that the issue of value has got nothing to do with the girl in question but an issue in your head.

If you truly believe that you’re lower value than the girl, then thats what you’ll directly project when approaching and talking to them. Granted, every demographic of women have their own perception of what’s valuable to them. But it’s ultimately controlled by you.

Value is all relative. Whatever you believe is what you manifest into your world.

It’s a basic tenet of game. The minute you give a woman a rating is the minute you’re placing them on a pedestal. We’re all on the same equal ground. There is no league.

If you really want to be high value, consider upping your own criteria for what’s considered attractive and hot. Things like strong character, femininity, morals etc.

Giving a woman a rating purely on their looks is giving them the permission to behave poorly. Any dumb person can apply makeup and takes no skill whatsoever to up their beauty.

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“If you truly believe that you’re lower value than the girl, then thats what you’ll directly project when approaching and talking to them. Granted, every demographic of women have their own perception of what’s valuable to them. But it’s ultimately controlled by you.”.

^^^ THIS.

I’d rather fuck less times but with hotties then more times with chicks i wished were hotter looking.

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Good application of economics to game. However sometimes I think having arbitrary standards is a good idea.
If I communicate my standards they know I’m in abundance…
For example; I don’t date girls who smoke. If she smokes then I know I have to close the deal that night, or on a very casual none date day2 or else I’m never sleeping with her.

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Professor Roosh
Have you gone to Lviv or Prague?

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Here is the thing Roosh. As you mention yourself, value while objective for men (10 point scale), is not the same value as a modern western woman sees herself at. The attractive guy with ugly/fat girl phenomenon seen in many western countries.

If I’m a 6 I should in a normal world be able to get a 7 with good game and 6 with relative ease, but the dating market is so distorted that a 5 thinks she is a 7, so the girls who think they are a 6 are maybe really only a 4 and then we have the problem that I’d rather not pursue a 4.

To use the gym analogy, what if a guy is a so called ‘hardgainer’, the odds are stacked against him and it will take years to get to normal size. Should he even bother lifting or focus on something else like playing in a band. Or maybe do steroids.

In game perspective, steroids mean moving to a country where the sexual market is more in his favor. It’s well known now that gains made on steroids are to some degree long lasting, the muscle memory broscience now proven (http://www.wired.com/2010/08/muscle-memory/).

For an average guy, it’s going to be a long hard road before he is able to metaphorically bench press 100kg. Better hop on the juice.

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Hypergamy, in its classic sense: the A men get the B women, the B men get the C women and the C men get the D women. That leaves D men and A women. Even without the distorting effects of entitlement, if you are a 6 only the 5s and lower are paying attention.

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A 5 in Eastern Europe or Asia is feminine and slim, she probably isn’t pretty, BUT she still passes the boner test with flying colors.

A 5 in the west is chubby/fat, masculine and may or may not pass the boner test at first sighting.

That’s the problem here.

Average women in the west are actually far below average on a global scale.

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Yes, I suppose it depends if you are using a regional relative scale or a global fixed scale.
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http://www.alvanon.com/news/CHINASCAN.pdf
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That’s pretty depressing:
Average American woman: 5’4″ 155 lbs 37-34-42
Average Chinese woman: 5’4″ 125 lbs 31-28-35
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That’s a few years old. Other web pages say American chicks have packed on another 10 pounds.

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Maybe the better analogy is video games. Say you like to play Counterstrike. You can’t expect to try pro-level E-Sports out of the gate: your team mates will be getting all the kills as you just keep on dying while trying. You can only rack up a good body count if you are at least in the same league as your targets.

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This post is very true if for no other reason than to keep your sanity. Whenever I pursue a woman equal or higher than my smv I find it very difficult to avoid oneitis. Pursuing these women can really make you break frame and start behaving in ways you will later be ashamed of.

I Prefer to go after 7 1/2 to 8 instead of shooting higher most nights and, have good consistent results that way. I try to convince a friend of mine who has a lower smv than me to stop pursuing the hottest girl in the club but he refuses and constantly leaves without so much as a phone number. He later complains that I spent all night with a girl and wasn’t available to help him talk to other women he had no chance with. He also has a tendency to obsess after women who are clearly already there with someone and taken.

Honestly I would say he is a 6 (out of shape, slightly overweight, poor style,mildy attractive facial features at best, doesnt work to improve any of his weaknesses) but thinks he deserves to pulls 9’s but never does. Truthfully I think i need to start rolling solo as he is a sub par wingman.

Woman are programmed to want the highest quality man they can to breed with. If you are not that man or on the road to becoming that man you shouldn’t expect to pull the best. Like player supeme say’s weak men dont deserve to breed and I like it like that. Imagine a world where fat slobs pull 9’s not a place I want to live. Things are bit bit out of balace though as women are regularly able to pull higher quality men.

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“If you have to be totally inauthentic to get a girl, the weight is too heavy.”

Women today are so full of shit and are most inauthentic.

That said I think this piece misses the point; that anything beyond a pump and dump with a female is a waste of time.

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I figured out 7-8 was my optimum. Too much stress and non stop game when it came to the 9s . I ended up marrying a 7.5 and its turned out pretty well.

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The problem is as the standard of women continues to fall and the standard of men continue to rise; having the desire for what was in your range is no longer acceptable. If 10-20 years ago you just wanted a girl with no tattoos, a full head of hair, no piercings and under 26 this type of girl may do

http://cdn.buzznet.com/assets/users16/audrey/default/large-msg-131109162877.jpg

But now the above girl has become this:

http://s3.amazonaws.com/rapgenius/1380020299_britney-spears-shaved-head-701550.jpg

So even if your standards didn’t change or fell some, it is now too high.

20 years ago there were ladies men, but there were no websites dedicated to game, Ross Jefferies only made his first seduction book in 1992 (widely considered the father of modern game and the first man to basically write about how to seduce women). And it didn’t even become widely known until 1999 when it was basically put in the film magnolia. In otherwords, guys with little or no game were getting higher quality women 25 years ago than now.

The game for men is like trying to climb a rope made of mash potatoes, the harder you try, the faster you’ll fall. The answer is to stop trying.

When I first started game 6 years ago you just needed to learn routines ie. have some pre-selected topics to discuss with the women about in clever ways to hit on some clever points. Now that won’t get you anywhere, you need to be a clown who sings and dances. Soon you’ll need to have a band just to get laid.

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The problem is as the standard of women continues to fall and the standard of men continue to rise; having the desire for what was in your range is no longer acceptable. If 10-20 years ago you just wanted a girl with no tattoos, a full head of hair, no piercings and under 26 this type of girl may do

http://cdn.buzznet.com/assets/users16/audrey/default/large-msg-131109162877.jpg

But now the above girl has become this:

http://s3.amazonaws.com/rapgenius/1380020299_britney-spears-shaved-head-701550.jpg

So even if your standards didn’t change or fell some, it is now too high.

20 years ago there were ladies men, but there were no websites dedicated to game, Ross Jefferies only made his first seduction book in 1992 (widely considered the father of modern game and the first man to basically write about how to seduce women). And it didn’t even become widely known until 1999 when it was basically put in the film magnolia. In otherwords, guys with little or no game were getting higher quality women 25 years ago than now.

The game for men is like trying to climb a rope made of mash potatoes, the harder you try, the faster you’ll fall. The answer is to stop trying.

When I first started game 6 years ago you just needed to learn routines ie. have some pre-selected topics to discuss with the women about in clever ways to hit on some clever points. Now that won’t get you anywhere, you need to be a clown who sings and dances. Soon you’ll need to have a band just to get laid.

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The more you chase, them lamer the women get.