1. Evan October 14, 2012 at 12:54 pm

    You push the limits, Roosh, and ride big waves. No surprise that you suffer some major wipe-outs–especially in the case of Burt. When I read your original Burt post I thought, Good for Roosh but there’s no way I’m taking on that level of counter-espionage as a basis for my identity.

    The valuable takeaway here has less to do with the particulars of security technique than it does with your willingness to take the good with the bad, relatively impersonally, and to remain on track.

  2. Anonymous October 14, 2012 at 1:31 pm

    I think the real problem for the croatian girl is that you left her. It’s not about your job. If you had told her “honey, this is my job, I write and educate people” and “I want to see you again”, I don’t think she would be that angry. She thinks you’re a player and you pumped and dumped her.

    If you want a relationship, I honestly think you can be upfront about who you are. Who are you? You’re a writer who travels around the world and sleep with women. Just assume who you are and be honest about it. Maybe you want to change and settle with a girl for a while. Hell, even men who went to jail for crimes are given second chances by women, and you’re way better off than those men. Your only “crime” is womanizing, that can be overlooked if you really want to.

  3. Jon October 14, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    Roosh, your Twitter posts aren’t public.

    Just letting you know.

    [Roosh: They are.. it’s just the WordPress widget is acting weird.]

  4. Carl October 14, 2012 at 1:42 pm

    Its amazing just how today’s technology leaves no privacy at all anymore. And its just going to get worse over time. Seems like many people want fame but be careful, you might just get it and you might find it aint all that its cracked up to be.

  5. Dan October 14, 2012 at 2:41 pm

    Yo I’d be down to hit you up in Montreal! I’ve been there before.

  6. John October 14, 2012 at 2:43 pm

    The only crime here was that of not thinking ahead.

    Sure chicks fuck around and lie all the time, but there is a difference: Men don’t get to. I’d think that would have been made plainly obvious by now given the current way things are head ala New World Order. I like to refer to your post you wrote a while back on the destruction of man. That’s your environment, buddy. Like it or hate it, it’s not smart to kick the fucking bear.

    Hopefully you haven’t fucked your chances in Europe and will be stuck once again with cheese-fry eating American skanks.

  7. AFemaleCat October 14, 2012 at 3:10 pm

    This is such a great opportunity for the Croatian girl! One of my girlfriends had something similar happen to her (laid by an ‘evil’ man) and then she was able to turn that experience into manipulating a white knight into marrying her!

    Make lemons out of lemonade.

  8. Georgia Boy October 14, 2012 at 3:16 pm

    As Machiavelli observed, the prince has to appear virtuous (in the people’s view) while doing what is in his amoral best interest. Unfortunately that wouldn’t make a very effective PUA blog.

    Watching K-pop? Well I’m not surprised you don’t find the women in that appealing. I only thought Britney Spears was hot in magazine photos and such, as soon as she started singing I just wanted to turn the channel. I wouldn’t let it discourage me much from going there.

  9. Johnny Guitar October 14, 2012 at 3:31 pm

    Hey Roosh, you need to come up with some better names man. Try, Julio, Raul, Ringo, or Dante. “Living a double life is easy, it’s the triple, quadruple, and quintuple lives where things get more complicated” – Nicolas Cage in Lord of War

  10. Vicomte October 14, 2012 at 3:33 pm

    The opening of this video played like a serial killer confession.

  11. cheshirecat October 14, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    Fuck it, Roosh. Pick a new name, fix the faults that led to the discovery in the first place, and carry on. Women lie constantly, give false numbers, why should you care?

  12. Cyrone October 14, 2012 at 6:00 pm

    This is touching stuff.. I wonder why other PUAs are able to admit their lifestyle/business to women and they don’t seem to care? Its a big warning to regular guys like us that maybe we can’t pull that off.. or maybe you’re just dating real women not skanks like them.

    Your attempt to watch k-pop vids to get into asian chicks is amusing – I think the real turn on (or yellow fever) for guys is the challenge of getting Asian chicks slutty offers much more internal reward. just a thought.

  13. IAmZon October 14, 2012 at 6:19 pm

    Same thing happened to me – maybe a little worse. Pain / Embarrassment (even a little heart ache) loves company.

    Carry on Burt.

  14. Turner October 14, 2012 at 6:47 pm

    Curious to hear about Montreal. Every girl I have ever met there has been wild.

    What kind of keywords were you mentioning that she was able to string that together? Simply the alias and a few lines?

  15. Tony Stone October 14, 2012 at 7:33 pm

    Don’t watch K-pop and wonder if Asia is worth visiting. It is, but the cultural differences may slightly extend your learning curve.

    As for getting caught out, what did you expect? You write books about picking up girls for a living and post public blogs and videos. If you’re not being honest about what you want out of the relationship, then you will hurt good people’s feelings unnecessarily.

    Believe it or not, there are plenty of girls out there who are happy to have you as a f*ck buddy, and many who would be attracted to you even if you told them the truth. I have several friends who run several girls at a time and are up front with girls that they’re not looking for a monogamous relationship. Sometimes they’re the f*ck buddy between boy friends, sometimes they’re number 1, 2 or 3 on the girl’s hit list cause she’s a player too. Who cares? The conversations and dates are great, there’s no BS and the night ends in bed. Isn’t that what you wanted, intellectual stimulation, a good f*ck and NSA?

  16. Ludwig October 14, 2012 at 7:57 pm

    I’ve really come to the conclusion that sticking with pros is the most rational thing for a man to do. Certainly an American man.

    I nut all over a hot chick and go home happy. No fear, no drama.

    My dick doesn’t care that she doesn’t have feelings for me.

  17. Anonymous October 14, 2012 at 8:25 pm

    K-Pop? Forget it. Japan has the best looking asian girls.

  18. thecaptainpower October 14, 2012 at 9:18 pm

    You need to retire burt and become Ernie…..

  19. DAP October 14, 2012 at 10:16 pm

    Roosh looks like Ben Afflack’s character on Argo. lol.

  20. Iknowexactly October 14, 2012 at 10:34 pm

    The interesting thing is that some sizable percentage of women are very, very, much MORE than open to fucking cads. It’s fun for them, they can give in the the urge to slut without leading a sentimental guy on.

    So as previous posters have alluded to, you COULD easily tell the truth, although you are in a valley where you are famous enough to get busted. but not yet famous enough to be swarmed, and have no dry spells without some work.

    The deduction, if you really feel any conflict about this, is that you don’t really want an interaction where the girl is just slutting, and doesn’t feel any more for you than she does for her vibrator.

    You want her to feel some emotion, and you are unconsciously planning to appear to be more of a bonding character than you presently are.

    You’ve learned to take the risk of asking to fuck, you might have to take the risk of asking to be loved.

  21. Tom October 14, 2012 at 10:41 pm

    Dude. Put it into perspective. in the video you label yourself as “perhaps the most misogynistic man in the western world”… but that’s a bunch of bullshit.

    First, you’re not a “misogynist”.
    Misogyny is the “hatred of women”.

    A man doesn’t willingly throw his junk into something he “hates”. That’s a guarantee. And neither do you. You LOVE women. It’s not even apparent in any article or video I have seen that you hate them. Your entire MESSAGE is “Women. There is no better place to deposit sperm.” That’s not hatred. It’s a COMPLIMENT!

    Why the fuck is she now pretending to HATE you? Think about it. Because women think they are smarter than you / us / men. And when they figure out they are NOT, all hell breaks loose. That’s not your problem. That’s hers.

    FACT: NOBODY is easier to manipulate – than a manipulator.

    Manipulators (lawyers, politicians, women, etc….. ) think they are in control of everything. And that’s their hubris. Women think they are experts on everything. Especially Men. And when a man’s gets laid for free, the whore just didn’t get PAID. That’s what she’s angry about. She doesn’t hate YOU. In America, that’s when you would get a false “rape” allegation. She blames her bad judgement and shitty decision on someone ELSE. Oldest female game in the book.

    Predictable as their periods.

    Chin up old boy. Get out there and BANG some more.

    Have a spectacular evening.

    [Roosh: I was joking when I said that.]

  22. CMan0928 October 15, 2012 at 12:06 am

    “I know she used the word monstrosity, evil, awful. Um, things that would generally refer to a mass death or…. murder.”

    Hands down the best part of this video.

  23. Apocalypseman October 15, 2012 at 12:17 am

    Montreal is the best spot in Canada, but that isn’t saying much. It in no way comes close to Europe.

  24. Tom October 15, 2012 at 1:51 am

    Yes I know you were joking. I laced my comment with straight-faced humor too. But if we can put our serious faces on for a minute… when females regret a bang, they forget to remind themselves that they had a good time. Being “Burt” doesn’t mean you ever “treated her badly”.

    ANY man can go out there and pay harmless attention to another chick – or even bang her!!! – and his girlfriend will react & behave like she was treated badly. WHEN SHE WASN’T.

    I cannot BELIEVE how many times I have had to explain this to EVERY chick who ever “got mad” because I didn’t call again… or looked at another pair of tits or cute ass. Jesus Christ it’s pathetic.


    “I didn’t call you again?? That’s what you’re angry about? Why are you behaving like a treated you badly??? I took you out, we had a great time, you got laid… so what the fuck is the problem?? STOP BEHAVING LIKE I TREATED YOU BADLY.”

    — or —-

    “I looked at another chick?? You’re actually upset with me because i LOOKED at another chick?? Are you so goddam full of yourself that you should be the ONLY woman on the entire planet – and the hottest one of them all, too??? STOP BEHAVING LIKE I TREATED YOU BADLY.”

    ( Dumbfounded silence usually follows.)

    Her emails threatening you with nihilism and complete and utter destruction should be hilarious to you. So what. You’re better at getting the bang than women are at withholding it. Be proud.

  25. Prophet October 15, 2012 at 2:06 am

    Hey, Roosh, have you banged an American sluts while you have been in the States?

    Might as well use your notoriety in DC to some use. I’m sure you could find a few groupies who wouldn’t mind having a taste of ol’ Uncle Roosh.

    [Roosh: I roll with Burt in the U.S.]

  26. temujin October 15, 2012 at 3:10 am

    It’s an interesting dilemma you have Roosh.

    First, we have to be honest with ourselves and realize that for all the bitching we do about American culture, we have within us the worst aspects of America.

    For example, you are very individualistic (almost to an extreme degree, as many indie expats are), you lie regularly to get laid, and traffic these experiences (like an American reality show) for profit.

    The downside is that you are veering away from the path of the confident, alpha man and trending more towards “weasel game”.

    On the other hand, the local guys do this as well.

    So foreign men are held to a double standard — something I learned long ago.

    However, the larger dilemma is that you’ve created somewhat of a gilded cage here.

    You make money off your ‘American Reality Show’:

    American guy goes to foreign lands, lies about himself, gets laid to foreign women.

    It’s a compelling show, and it sells your books.

    But as you’ve already realized, it’s a tiresome show. Lie to women, spill intimate details to the public, get discovered and have the same women feel betrayed and embarassed, repeat infinitum.

    You’re probably looking to escape the gilded cage, trying to figure out a different way to generate income.

    My suggestion would be to parlay the traffic here into a more respectable venture.

    All blogs have a natural lifespan, and you better than most probably realize that it’s not going to last forever.

    Take advantage while you can.

  27. madmax October 15, 2012 at 4:23 am

    Roosh, what’s happening to you my man? Stop worrying about that girl etc, you are giving too much of a fuck about what she thought etc. I have a very simple argument for you:

    1. you didn’t do anything illegal
    2. it’s understandable why you want to protect your identity: women are very judgmental and generally full of shit (i.e. they pretend they figured out a guy before 10 minutes passed, while the reality is, most girls don’t know shit about human nature)

    3. who gives a crap about what she thinks. If she had sex with you and she was unable to know that deep inside you are indeed a good person, let her go , who gives a fuck.

    Don’t ever be ashamed of who you are or what you do, man…Casanova was a con-man but by the time I had read his memoirs I concluded he was a really nice guy too. I am a very good guy too and I am proud of you.

    Yes I understand what you meant when you said ‘as I get older and I get into longer relationships’. It’s understandable, but my opinion is that this very thought puts you in a dangerous zone.

    The reality is: we are all alone, even when we are in a longer term relationship, you can’t really count on a woman even though she has to count on you, and you can’t even spend too much time with a woman.

    Yes they are nosey as fuck, and the interesting thing is that they don’t try to find out about all you do, because they CARE about you…no. They do that simply because it’s in their nature to know.

    Just keep fucking them and don’t worry. If she thinks you are an ‘evil monster’ she really need to grow up and to learn to understand what really happens around, ’cause she hasn’t got a clue.

  28. encanto October 15, 2012 at 5:09 am

    Why lie in first place? We do not advocate the “hatred of women”. We’re just dignified men that don’t put up with the status quo and defy feminism. I see nothing wrong with that and I don’t hide my beliefs from women, friends nor family. I do feel sexier and more valuable than the average man for having these beliefs. I’m not some evil guy either, I’m a real Christian and real Christians believe women were created as company for men like the bible states. I also believe in polygamy and find that current egalitarian antinatural western laws and dysfunctional economic model leave men no other choice but to fornicate.

  29. Solo October 15, 2012 at 10:11 am

    This makes me paranoid now of posting pics on my blog, especially since I know local chicks read it…

    lol @ “my penis doesn’t move”

  30. Vagina October 15, 2012 at 12:43 pm

    Awwwwww Roosh, what a sorry sack of shit you are these days,and every day in fact.

    I think you should just stay in DC with the fat bitch you are destined to be with, why travel the world only to bang more fatties?, plenty of them in USA.

  31. Kleyau October 15, 2012 at 6:03 pm

    She just got her world view expanded. It’s like a man who’s blindsided when his woman leaves him because of her hypergamous instinct, and he actually gets to hear what she says about their relationship to her girlfriends.

    Only this girl got exposed to the pure male cad strategy. Her long term opinion only matters if your goals change from notches to a relationship.

  32. Brian Mark October 15, 2012 at 10:54 pm

    Roosh, I am very curious how Burt could equal Roosh. She must have had a lot more info on you than Burt from U.S.A. How did she connect the dots?
    I’m sure there are many men that have multiple GFs and don’t get caught. Did you let her play on your computer and the Rooshv site was up or maybe she looked at your history. I have a separate ID for any girl that uses my computer. Unfortunately I’ve had problems w/ the next girl finding Facebook and email addresses pre-populated. Now I’ll have to be more careful. How about some more details?

  33. Emily October 16, 2012 at 10:25 am

    Tony Stone nailed it. You’re selling them the long-term monogamy fantasy when what you’re doing is a polyamorous fling at best, so they’ll be upset if they discover the bait and switch. Just as upset as you’d be to get a girl undressed and find out her thinness was just Spanx control garments, her long lustrous hair was a wig over top a pixie cut, her tits were a padded bra, etc. You advertise something you’re not really selling.

    Just practice truth in advertising. There are plenty of women who aren’t looking for long-term monogamy, or are looking for it but haven’t found it yet and know you’re not going to be it, but still want to bang.

    But I realize that you find female sluttiness unfeminine and distaste. You want girls to put out easily, but only for you, so you sow lies, and this is what you reap.

  34. Buddhist Chick October 17, 2012 at 12:47 am

    Roosh, what do you tell your family when you go travelling? What is it they think you do? Do any of them read your blog or watch your videos?

  35. Troy October 17, 2012 at 1:37 am

    What I find interesting is that it was a Croation girl that found out. Not an American woman.

  36. По реке October 17, 2012 at 1:20 pm

    Damn that really sucks…I mean if I was facing that situation I’d just say it straight up on the first or second meet…”yeah I blog a bit, I just rant about the dating scene and how ridiculous it is…” and just like that it’s out there and it’s not going to be some slumbering problem like how you described, at the very least she’s not going to think you tried to cover it up or lie or whatever. Anyway that’s just my take on it.

    And as far as Asian girls go I really think it’s a yes-or-no question, some guys think Asian chicks are scaldingly hot and some just can’t be bothered, there’s not all that much in between.

  37. Dude24 October 17, 2012 at 4:55 pm

    I hope one day, someone will fuckin’ beat you hard. Good luck mother fucker!

  38. Anonymous October 18, 2012 at 5:49 pm

    well pack some viagra when in japan
    youll learn to love the tight vaj

  39. Dave October 20, 2012 at 9:21 pm

    Similar thing happened to me on my last travels. A chick I had been dating for months told me she wasn’t talking to me anymore. I asked what I had done. She informed me she’d found some stuff out about me on the internet, turns out someone had written about me on their blog detailing some stuff I’d gotten up to years earlier. It had been floating around the net for years without my knowledge. It wasn’t easy to find, I struggled until she filled me in on exactly how she located it and I was amazed at how someone who knew so little about me had managed to dig this up. It’s scary.

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