Young single women in the Orthodox Church don’t stay single for long. Since the ratio of young men to women is so high, it doesn’t take long for single women…
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33 Things Christian Men Should Know About Women
A common lament from chaste Orthodox men I meet is their lack of experience in dealing with women who are more socialized than them. How can these men understand women,…
Seduction Is Narcissism
Over the centuries, Christian courtship in the West has become distorted into seduction, and seduction into unbridled fornication, the “hookup culture” we have today. Seduction and romance were gateways to…
Marrying A Woman With Mental Illness
Diagnosable mental illnesses are so commonplace that it’s inevitable for a single man to meet a woman who is “mentally ill.” Should he still consider her as a wife or…
Hugs Are Dangerous
[God] forbids adultery, and all irregular and unclean carnal lust, and likewise all that may tend to excite unlawful desires… —The Holy Standards It is extremely unsafe to hug a…
3 Women In A Man’s Life
There are three distinct relationships men must maintain with women to remain spiritually whole. The more damage there is to any of these relationships, the worse off the man will…
Finding A Husband With God’s Help
I originally wrote Lady (now unpublished) for secular women who wanted to get married and were ready to make changes after failing to find a husband with casual dating. I was…
3 Spiritual Types Of Women
The hardest thing for a Christian man to do is choose his wife. Unless God gives him a direct revelation of who to marry, he is on his own when…
So You Just Lost Your Virginity To A Man And Feel Horrible
You’re a young woman who fornicated for the first time and are now convinced that you made the biggest mistake of your life. You did make a mistake, but the…
Men Treat Women As Gods
In order to be with a woman, there is no sacrifice a modern man is not willing to make. He will pretend to be a feminist, travel around the world,…
Do You Deserve A Good Woman?
An endless refrain I hear from men is that there are no good women. The assumption is that these men are themselves “good,” but a quick look at their anemic…
Secular Marriage vs. Christian Marriage
God has been removed from the institution of marriage in the West. Marriage has changed from glorying God and becoming one flesh with your spouse to maximizing material rewards and…
Only God Can Find You A Good Wife
For nearly two decades, I believed that game (i.e. pickup) was the best method men could use to find a wife. All a man had to do was master the…
6 Signs That A Woman Is In Rebellion
Most women you meet are in a state of rebellion. They have rejected the natural order and God, along with the notion of biological sex roles. While in rebellion, a…
Worldy Beauty vs. Graceful Beauty
For the longest time, I judged a woman’s beauty by what was visible to my eyes. I focused on a woman’s face, hair, body, and mannerisms to decide if she…
