Don’t Let A Girl Use Dread Game On You

Dread game is a technique to use in relationships where you make a girl worried that something is wrong or that you may leave her for another woman. This increases her anxiety levels to a point where she wants to alleviate the stress by trying to please you and make sure everything is okay, which prevents her from getting bored in the relationship and straying. When dread game is used on you by a woman, however, you must immediately reprimand her and lay down a warning not to do it again.

Here is dread game as defined by Heartiste:

Women respond viscerally in their vagina area to unpredictability, mixed signals, danger, and drama in spite of their best efforts to convince themselves otherwise. Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause than all the Valentine’s Day cards and expertly performed tongue love in the world. Like it or not, the threat of a looming breakup, whether the facts justify it or not, will spin her into a paranoid estrogen-fueled tizzy, and she’ll spend every waking second thinking about you, thinking about the relationship, thinking about how to fix it. Her love for you will blossom under these conditions.

The reason that dread game works on women is that they prefer a baseline level of anxiety. Their brain enjoys a roller coaster ride of emotions that can go from pleasure to fear in a matter of minutes, and the dread you instill contributes to the raison d’etre of her life. In other words, she wants dread, and will choose to be with men who are able to create it within her as opposed to the man who prevents concerns and problems from rising up to the surface at all by being constantly reassuring.

Men are different than women in that they do not seek emotional swings that come from dread. The reason is that, unlike women, we are not bailed out when bad things happen to us. We receive far less aid from the outcome of dreadful situations than women because there is never a prince in shining armor (i.e. the government, beta males, husbands) to help us out. The burden of life falls squarely on our shoulders. Any woman who deliberately manufactures the potential of great harm to your life is a danger to your own well-being and mental health.

The number one way women instill dread is to create a pregnancy scare. Even though women know their menstrual cycle can be normally off by a few days, they may artificially try to worry you when they’re “one day late,” attempting to project the type of dread onto you which she knows makes her attracted to men. When a woman is pregnant, she has the choice to abort the baby or get aid from the state to raise it, but the man who impregnated her has no choice about what to do with the fetus and is looking at 18 years of making forced payments or imprisonment if he fails to do so. The consequences of an accidental pregnancy are far greater to a man, so a woman who uses this type of dread against him must be seen as conniving and toxic.

The uterus is of no concern to you unless a girl you’ve been sleeping with has a positive pregnancy test in her hands that you do an additional test to confirm. If a girl says she’s “late” and “worried,” she’s trying to manipulate you into being more attracted to her, using those 18 years of possible state slavery as her game “technique.” Stop her move before it starts by saying the following:

Unless you take a pregnancy test that is positive, I don’t want to hear anything about your menstrual cycle. You can talk about that to your mom or girlfriends.

You must then reconsider if you want to stay with a girl who is so quick to use an event against you that can turn your life upside down.

While all girls are designed to be flakey to some degree, most girls forgo use of dread game because they understand the repercussions it has on men. I’ve dated girls who told me of their pregnancy scare after it was done. One girl, who was late a whole week, didn’t bother to tell me until everything was in the clear and specifically said she didn’t want to worry me. Just like how you don’t tell a girl all manner of symptoms on your penis that would scare her into thinking she may have an STD, a consequence of far less severity than a pregnancy, a girl should not use her reproductive cycle to instill dread onto you. If a girl is sending you late night texts because she’s half a day late, she’s acting negligently and in poor faith, and will continue to use other tactics to make you feel dread.

I recently had a case where a Polish girl I was sleeping with tried to manufacture dread in me. She sent me a text saying she had bad news. My mind immediately settled on an STD or pregnancy, because I can’t think of anything bad that must be announced with warning when not in person. Before telling me what the bad news actually was, she went silent for twelve long hours. When she came to, she announced that her “bad news” was that she bought tennis shoes and has to exercise more. I dumped her on the spot. There is no room in my life for a girl who manually tries to increase my anxiety because she doesn’t know how to be attractive with her normal femininity.

A long time ago I pointed out how American girls are starting to use negs on guys. The reason is that negs successfully work on them, and since they have been brainwashed to believe men and women are equal, they figure that negging a man will increase his attraction for her, similar to how she thinks announcing a high-profile job title will do the same. As more men successfully use dread game on women as a matter of necessity to keep them in a perpetual state of attraction, it’s only a matter of time until more girls begin to deliver fake “bad news” and artificial pregnancy scares. This may come sooner than later if dread game is taught to women through pop culture. A popular new song by Carly Rae Jepsen prominently features dread game at 2:30, used on a man she “really really” likes:

“I need to tell you something… I’m pregnant. Just kidding!”

Modern women are so confused about how to be attractive that they are modeling the damaged bad boys who they love fucking, but you must not let them use dread game on you, because as a man there are real consequences for its real-life result.

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I have definitely noticed girls emulating what they find attractive in men in order to attract men.

Tattoos, job title, sarcastic jokes, chop busting, muscles/squats, overuse of swearing.

Meanwhile men are acting like women to attract women… selfies, tight pants, emo music, watching girly movies.

What a world!

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More girls should do squats. That’s a bad thing, how exactly?

FerricJaggar
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Women should be thin and graceful, not muscle bound pseudomen squatting anything above 200.

Dutch_pride
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And yet I see more women in the heavy lifting room everyday. I’ll bet those chicks like it to make men horny there. While it’s very distracting to have women around you when lifting heavy.

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Can’t find your testicles, mate. Guess you’ll have to keep on going without.

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muscles are bad ..squats are not…OP should correct it

ChimpGod
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If the squats increase the tightness of her vagina.. by all means.. as long as she’s not taking supplements or her clit starts looking like a dick, it should be ok to do squats.

Just Me
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You are very ignorant about the female body.

And all of you are ignorant about the female mind. Including the author. Good luck with that though. smile

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Please,
there are a handful of people who understand the female mind – to a very small degree, like maybe 20% understanding.
90% of the world is clueless 100%.
The small group that understands the female mind are men. Women are either unaware of their own thoughts or suppressing them unsuccessfully.

I’ve run a couple tests to see exactly how easy to manipulate women are. There’s nothing better then to see a woman shaking because she is nervous. I remember when I was nervous around women, how the tables have turned. 4 numbers in a day is my best without asking for a single one. It’s generally only the hottest women who have the balls to give you their number like that. Send out the right signals and women fight for you. Don’t even need to talk.

One of the funniest situations happened at a Starbucks. Two of the girls working there made complete fools of themselves while the place was packed, everyone was looking at them and they were still acting like fools.
But let’s talk more recently.

Two weeks ago I met a woman out at a restaurant. She was there with her parents. They left shortly after I arrived. She drove back after picking up her car and gave me her number. She came back just to drop off her number.

I’ve never personally tried the dread game – at least not on purpose, but it probably works in at least a few situations.
However, I’ve had it work but not doing it as a technique or anything. When I want to go out and she says no, I go anyways. Things like that. Seems to keep women interested.
That’s basically an example of the dread game, it probably makes sense even to you and keeps you attracted.

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You poor man… So you always felt like a food around woman. This is the reason for your psycological damage. You didn’t want to feel like a food anymore. So you kid started to play fooling woman instead. Well, it’s easy to fool both man and woman. It’s easy to learn the techniques. It’s nothing special about it. What is special instead and what is not easy is to build up a good relationship. You are now a bigger fool than you where before. Or with the Rolling Stones: “Congratulation you’ve done it again, you gone and broken another heart “

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“Send out the right signals and women fight for
you. Don’t even need to talk.”

Can you explain how to do this?

BJ
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Have you seen “Yeah, she squats”. Great way to drain a few litres…

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Women working out to be healthier an look better is good but a lot of women now work out like men an copy mens workouts. Go to a commercial gym an you’ll see plenty of masculine weightlifting type girls which isn’t my thing.

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They could be bull dykes, so you lose either way.

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It’s the twilight zone!

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I absolutely have no tolerence for sarcastic women. I dont get men who get off on that.

ChimpGod
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Sarcasm: The killer of boners.. it’s cute once in a while if she has whitty comebacks (in moderation) and the rare sarcasm.

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Because Western women today act like men, so they think sarcasm is cute.

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An old Chinese proverb a picture says a 1000 words the cover of this book about feminists is truth and what monstrosity it is:

Just Me
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Is that a picture of your Mom or something?

DoubleLongDaddy
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No bro its of your boyfriend while your sucking his dick you little queer.

Just Me
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Not a ‘bro”. So you’re both hate women and gay people huh. Parents proud of that? Do you also hate black people?

ChimpGod
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Are your parents proud that you don’t know the difference between “you’re” and “you” ? Get the fuck out of here you cunt. Trying to talk shit.

Just Me
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Actually, my parents are proud that I stand up for what is right, that I respect other people, that I am willing to stand up for what is right, that I don’t call people names or bully them with name-calling. My parents know what matters and they could care less that I mistyped your vs you’re on the internet…in a little blog site.

I answered your question, now it’s your turn. Are your parents proud that you hate women and call women cunts? What about your Mom? Would she be proud of you?

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You don’t call people names or bully them? I’m pretty sure you just implied that the photo is of his mother. That’s not bullying ? How about when you called me retarded ? That’s not bullying ? Step off your high horse.. you think you are some SJW, yet you are a hypocrite. You talk shit to everyone on here, yet try to act innocent. Just stop.. it’s pathetic.

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Does your Mom like how you talk about women on the internet? Or do you think that the women in your family magically deserve respect but all other women don’t? You get angry when other men disrespect the women in your family but your totally okay with disrespecting other women right?

You never would have made the jokes you did about blacks or jews or other social groups. You made them about women because you felt that you were entitled to do so.

Oh and I never acted like I was innocent. I make plenty of mistakes. But I do my best not to degrade entire groups of people. When my friends are making stereotypical jokes about men, I chime in and say it’s not cool and give them another perspetive to consider. You know what? My friends stopped making sterotypical jokes about men. When I see men poorly represented as the bumbling idiot in sitcoms, I speak up about it and don’t support it. When discussion come up about how fathers are unfairly treated in our culture and get fucked up in the court system, i speek up against it. I might have called you retarded but I don’t make jokes at the expense of an entire group of people and then tell myself it’s okay because it was just a ‘joke’. And the only people here who believe I think I’m a ‘high horse” is you. I never thought or said that. It would just be nice to see women treated with more humanity in our culture instead of fodder for your masturbation and jokes about our uselessness.

ChimpGod
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You must have a mom fetish or something.. you obviously avoided the fact that you are a bully.. smoke and mirrors, smoke and mirrors. I’m done with you. I’m not going to feed the trolls.

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Actually, I would safely bet it’s you with the Mom fetish, A) Considering you were the one to think of it B) Your confusing and angry relationship with women in general.

And again actually, it’s you who avoids the fact that you are a bully and have a scary amount of hate toward the female gender.

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It’s all water under the bridge.. and you know a lot about bridges.. being a troll and all.. have a great day, try to have a positive attitude on life, it will all get better, may Allah bless you..

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Yup my parents are extremely proud Im not a fucking lemming, who doesnt suck up to cunts, fags and minorities who hate you. Man oh man I cant understand how you guys love so much people that hate you so much.

Just Me
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Yeah, I’m sure your Mom would be real proud that you call women cunts. That’s something every mother is proud about in her son – a complete lack of respect for others because of anger.

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Feminist twat.

disqus_2015ScorpioWater
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You are an asshole. Its a cover of a book by a writer exposing feminism.

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No its your wife and mom and sister

matt
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nah looks more like Hillary Clinton or your mom

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Lol!

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It’s always a turn off. 100% of the time. Also, a year or so I read something about sarcasm that led me to stop using it myself: Sarcasm is saying THE OPPOSITE of what you mean to say. What a poor communication device! It’s especially silly these days because there are plenty of people who truly believe the exact opposite of what you say (ie trannys are beautiful, it doesn’t matter how many guys a girl has slept with, short hair can look good on a girl), so why would you ever agree with them, hoping that they will understand that you are “just kiddin!”

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Just take anything a girl says to you as sarcasm, and assume that’s who she really is. Over simplification? Maybe, but in most cases I’ve found it to eventually reveal itself as the truth.

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Yea, sarcasm is the cheapest form of humor, that’s why for me. It takes absolutely no cleverness to be sarcastic. Not impressive, and not funny, unless perfectly timed and framed.

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Just what a want…a guy with tits and a pussy. When do we bottom out???

Rafael
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Yep this is what I notice too.

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So true, if I hear another girl bragging about her “game” and how she’s playing so many guys at once I’ll scream. I’m like, that’s not game, that’s just being a ho. Any girl can do that because they all want in your pants.

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Hate it when men act like women! Yeah I got a stupid fucking note about how “unappreciated” he felt, from my man. After last week – he got a full body massage, blow jobs every night, anal, and public facebook posts to show my love and appreciation for him. Lots of attention and affection.. Then he writes me “I feel unappreciated.” I threw that shit right back in his face. WOW fucking horrible timing DUDE! Grow balls! WHat the eff is the matter with my boyfriend? Can’t he act like a man!!!!

Joe
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hes checking to see if you give more BJs and anal if he tells you he feels unappreciated. Not that hard to figure out. He’s trying to manipulate you into more things. Hmmm sounds like a familiar thing I’ve dealt with from women in the past…

Mirco Abramovitsxh
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Probably people are just more different than woman and man, eher thought about that big brainy?

Kim Priestap
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“Dread game is a technique to use in relationships where you make a girl worried that something is wrong or that you may leave her for another woman. This increases her anxiety levels to a point where she wants to alleviate the stress by trying to please you and make sure everything is okay, which prevents her from getting bored in the relationship and straying.”

Be careful when playing this game, gentleman. My first husband used this with me, which is why he is my first husband and not my current husband.

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This is a men only space.
Trespassers will be shot dead

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“…which is why he… not my current husband.”

Bullet dodged.

Kim Priestap
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You’re absolutely right. I definitely dodged a bullet.

rofllo
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While you’re busy getting in the last word, stop and think of all the time and effort you’ve wasted here. You could, instead, be serving your husband and nurturing your children (or preparing for their arrival). Like a good woman.

Kim Priestap
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It isn’t that much time or effort, but I thank you for your concern. As for my husband, he’s at work as it is the middle of the work day and my children are in school.

Thank you for your insight and I hope you have a nice day.

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You saw me on Dr. Oz, didn’t you?

Kim Priestap
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I have known of you before your appearance on his show. I saw the preview clip but didn’t see the show. The clip made it clear what was going to happen and I didn’t have the nerve to watch it. I knew it would be a blood bath and I don’t like watching people who are placed in a position like that.

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In other words, she saw Roosh on Dr. Oz
Can we ban women on site like on RoK?

Kim Priestap
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Did you read my comment?

Allah
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you fucking cunt!

Mark Kimmel
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but can u even cook hun

ChimpGod
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I vote Ban. Although I enjoy seeing them try to explain or justify anything.. like a scientist watching the Chimps.. taking notes.. laughing and drinking coffee.

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Um, no, it is a complete and utter waste of my time to read things like “my husband is now at work and my children are at school” from a stranger. Do not allow this meaningless drivel here. This is a place for comments related to the subject at hand. There is a reason women are not allowed. Their distractions and off topic ramblings do NOT amuse me.

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Because “you fucking cunt!” and “but can u even cook hun” are scintillating comments. I think you guys all just want to have a circle jerk with each other. Even peg each other in the ass and tell each other how awesome men are while you put down women.

ChimpGod
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I’ll make sure not to be retarded by getting married. Problem solved.

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Amen. I’m not joking when I say this: I’d rather be dead than married, especially in the Western world.

Just Me
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I’m sure there are lots of women begging you for your hand in marriage as we speak.

Just Me
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It’s too late, you are totally already retarded.

ChimpGod
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Go find a femenist forum to cry on..

Just Me
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How many women asked your hand in marriage today Chimp? Heck, how many women let you touch them with their pee-pee? that’s the real issue isn’t it. It’s not that you would be retarded to get married, it’s just that you can’t even find a girl to touch your cock right?

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Asked my hand in marriage ? Like, they were talking to my hand ? Your English sucks balls.. on top of that, why would a woman ask me to marry her? In what backwards land do you live ? How many women let me touch them with their own vagina ? Is that what you are asking ? Look.. read what you wrote again, realize how stupid it sounds and how incorrect it is grammatically. If you are going to talk shit, make sure it makes sense.

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I am trying to respond to too many people and made a few mistakes. I’m okay with that. You attack it because that’s all you have to go on and you don’t actually like respectful discussion. You also have massive issues with hating on women. Something that works for you here, but not so much for you in the real world. Hence why you let all your anger loose on here behind the safety of your computer.

But do share, how many women actually want to touch your cock Chimp? You’re a big stud right? Do share.

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Men with a modicum of intelligence have figured out that not getting married 100% erradicates any possibility of getting divorced/divorce raped.

Problems avoided. Which in this case is even better than problems solved.

Al Burk A Durk
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An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure (in the case of frivorce, a metric fucking tonne!)

Just Me
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Men with a modicum of intelligence aren’t on this website. smile

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What, you think he regrets that fact?

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He did at the time. He freaked out and tried very hard to convince me to not file. He asked me to go to counseling but he had done so much damage by then I simply couldn’t trust him enough to work on repairing the relationship.

Look, I’m just telling you my experience as a woman who was on the receiving end of dread. It probably works on some women but it won’t work on all women. You’ll have to discern how and when to use it, if you choose to use it at all.

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I’m guessing your ex husband was the typical beaten into submission beta male. Dread isn’t effective when coming from a position of weakness.

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Your comment implies that I beat my ex into submission. LOL. No, actually, I think he thought he was being an alpha when in fact, he was being an asshole. He was also quite emotionally abusive. Another commenter on this thread wrote that dread will sometimes backfire if it makes the woman feel too stressed. This was true in my case. He did a lot of things that made me feel out of control of my own life, so I did what I had to to get that control back.

Now, Roosh has said a number of things that I agree with, particularly regarding confidence. Women love confident men who don’t give too much away. We also love men who know what they want and just go out and get it. I think women also love men who are very self-disciplined and self-controlled. In essence, women want a man they can respect and look up to. Ayn Rand called this hero-worship, and I think she was right in many ways.

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Gentleman, please don’t get trapped into a dialogue promulgated by a girl’s solipsism. She may have a point to make, but she’s discussing a data point of one.And it’s coming from someone who has never actually dated a hot girl, so what would she know about the effect of dread game?

Whereas we are talking about a significant numbers of years experience amassed from guys who, collectively, have dated huge numbers of girls and know that dread game works.

She has no skin in the game, so why listen to her opinion?

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You’re exactly right. It works on GIRLS and not proper WOMEN. Proper women are self-assured and won’t take bullshit or give it. If she does either, she’s an immature little GIRL who probably deserves it.

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nobody wants a proper mature emotionally baggage carrying…out of shape..old….women

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Just so you understand.

A useful WOMAN is one who–looks permitting–has the good qualities and sense to get married before she is thirty. In other words, most of the useful ones are already married.

A useful GIRL is one who has the potential to be a useful WOMAN. We date them.

Anything else, WOMAN/GIRL, is just good for banging on the side. Sorry if this narrative doesn’t fit your worldview, but it’s generally how we see it. And we are choosing the girls we date, and we are not listening to what you, or Jezebel, or Cosmo, or Dr Oz, think we should be doing.

Note, that our view is the conventional wisdom, of, well, ohh, err, the entire history of humankind with the sole exception of the tiny sliver of human history infected by feminisn, cultural marxism and sex and the city. Alas, we live in this period.

Al Burk A Durk
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Don’t forget the decadent phase of the roman empire (you know, before it collapsed on itself, lol).

Feminism kills civilized society.

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Feminism will destroy itself under the workings of the processes of natural order, but recall that through the fixation with equalism and cultural marxism ‘we’ are not allowing the natural order to work its will.

The liberals in power will carry on taxing you in order to keep this bullshit going, and you can see the consequences in the Government debt load.A major rethink is likely only when we have some kind of systematic collapse in the debt system in Western society. 2008 was a dummy run.

The current generation of men in the West is fucked.

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Data point of 2 now, its a small sample but its 100% so far. But we are both grown up women though, not bimbos or feminists.

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To get back in control, let me guess.. you took half of all his Shit and get a fat alimony / child support check ?

Kim Priestap
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Nope.

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Makes sense.

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You said, “Be careful when playing this game, gentleman. My first husband used this with me, which is why he is my first husband and not my current husband.”

So I’m confused. You realized your husband was playing “Dread Game” a game specifically designed to keep you interested in him because he likes you and you leave him for it?
So one of two things is true.
You didn’t (and don’t) know he was actually playing dread game got anxious and left out of insecurity rather than talking to him about it….

OR
You didn’t love him so even though you knew he was trying to make you more attracted to him and everything he was doing was to save your relationship you decided to use it as an excuse to leave him.

Which one was it?

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That’s a false choice.

js27195
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What’s the true choice then?

js27195
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Why is it a false choice? What is it then? Explain.

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Classic female defensive posture: as if anyone here could care about what you believe and in fact as if anyone here doesn’t already know you’re almost certainly unbearable, unattractive, probably fat, harpy.

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Must be a happy bloke now

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I’m sure there are two sides to this story.

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“left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom ” this part is only valid if she has a fear of losing that guy, meaning the guy in question must be “worth keeping” first. It obviously doesn’t apply to everybody, the dread game, while i will admit is effective, works only in certain cases, on short burst, to constantly remind the female of whats at stake if she loses the male.
Not bad for an article.

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“Worth keeping” is right. This sad strategy is not going to work for everyone that’s for sure because a lot of women do have options as many guys here complain about. If some guy is making every effort to manipulate the feelings of a girl by finding ways for her to second guess him, herself, and whether or not she can trust him, at some point she’s just going to say “fuck it” and move on. Sure some girls may stick around but I’m referring to the hot young girls who have options, not the girls who don’t. How many guys know how not to play dread game to the point where it blows up in their face? I showed this to some of my male co-workers (EMS and police) they cracked up they thought it was a satirical blog.

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They must not get laid, or hot, young girls… Duh

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You are full of shit.. I work with 100’s of male LEO’s and the majority agrees with these views.. especially since most of them have been divorced and have finally seen the truth.

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Being recently divorced does possibly mean they just have an opposing confirmation bias.
The different perceptions of the article mean it just wasnt a convincing read. The truth is yet to be seen.

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This goes back to screening women. We need to effectively screen to make sure we don’t end up supporting a psychopaths child until it’s 18; being held hostage. I would feel bad that it’s my kid but I think it should be a two person decision; you want to keep it? Fine, but do so on your own. I’ll send a post card from faraway lands on the birthdays.

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I think a constant state of dread eventually causes a lot of women to stress out and walk. General unpredictability, in a good way, plus occasional dread when needed is a better balance.

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Agree.
She is always trying to optimize alpha fux/beta bux.
You can’t swing too far one way all the time or she will start to look for that feeling elsewhere.

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alpha-beta behaviour should be in the ratio 90:10

Al Burk A Durk
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Moderation is key, problem is most western bitches ain’t worth more than wanton alpha fuxing(pump and dump).

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This is true playing dread game constantly will cause her to walk same as being clingy an needy constantly will aswell.

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Dread game must be used relatively sparingly. In order for it to work properly you have to let the girl “win you back” now and again to give her that feeling of comfort and security. I tend to employ dread game in a reactionary way – whenever she starts getting too comfortable or I feel like she is taking things for granted I will go dark and instill that sense that our relationship is not unconditional and she needs to be on her A game to keep me interested.

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> I will go dark and instill that sense that our relationship is not unconditional and she needs to be on her A game to keep me interested.

Would like to hear more about how you do this exactly.

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Just go silent on the bitch – no calls, texts or emails. Nothing. Go missing.

The two things women HATE the most are: Silence and being ignored.

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“Just go silent on the bitch – no calls, texts or emails. Nothing. Go missing.

“The two things women HATE the most are: Silence and being ignored.”

With a good woman, all you have to do is a be a man with normal manly interests that extend beyond your woman. If you have to consciously apply “game” (ignore her) then you probably already screwed up somehow.
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Tomayto tomahto – either pre-meditated or not, what you are doing is reminding her that she may not be first on your list of priorities, or even second, so if she wants to keep you around she will try to get back up the totem pole.

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Exactly. Guys who have their own thing going, own interests outside of their sexual relationship is attractive. Manly hobbies for sure. If a guy has his own interests, he’s genuinely not texting all the time because he’s engaged in something other than the girl and that’s what’s attractive. It implies that he isn’t going to be wrapped up in you and you too should have your own thing going not follow him around like a dog. Also, it shows that he isn’t going to follow you around like a dog so it motivates you to stay sexy for him and making yourself sexy makes you feel sexy so it’s a win win. If a guy has to pretend to be disinterested by using dread game, that’s neurotic and pathetic. Better to actually use that time to find some interests to engage in rather than methodically time your vague reply texts and plot ways to keep her second guessing. If you have to make that kind of an effort just to keep a girl, that’s just plain sad.

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YosarriansRight has the jist of it. Depending on the depth of the relationship (if you’re in a LTR cutting off all contact for a few weeks is a bit extreme) but throttling your interaction with her is the ticket to giving her a sense of doubt that “maybe he’s not into me…” “maybe he’s seeing other girls…” “does he hate me?” just modify your interaction with her to instill a sense that your interest in her may be waining. Honestly it’s a win/win because she will work harder to “win you back” OR if she goes along with it then obviously she is no that interested in keeping you around anyway so you can wash your hands.

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I really don’t understand this line of thinking. Why would I want to win back a guy who’s not into me, seeing other girls, or hates me? None of those things are qualities I want in a man. If I thought any of those things were true, I would be glad to let him go. What kind of woman is this supposed to work on? It sounds like she’d have to be some kind of head case.

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Well, to put it simply. Women say they want one thing, but end up going for the complete opposite of what they said. This includes you, sugartits.

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“…but the man who impregnated her has no choice about what to do with the fetus…”

If it’s yours. That’s a big “if.” Paternity test, paternity test, paternity test.

Don’t sign that birth certificate at the hospital. Get a DNA test on the DL first. You’re signing a contract to take on a $150,000 liability, payable to babymomma, collected with extraordinary vigor on her behalf by the state.

If you’re married, it probably doesn’t matter as most states assign paternity to husbands by default. So if little Jayden looks suspiciously like the UPS guy… too fucking bad. Man up and spread that wallet, deadbeat!

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Yes, if you sign the birth certificate you are fucked. Even if you later find out its not yours. By not paying child support you will lose your passport, drivers license, and be jailed, yet the state will give her free money and cover the payment.

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You got it. Also, beware the “ooh… (s)he looks just like you” chorus you inevitably get from women. Nurses, passersby, family members.

A friend jokes about hearing this from random old biddies when he’s out with his elderly father. He was adopted some forty-odd years ago. He looks about as much like his dad as Roosh resembles Vladimir Putin.

lol

Pussy trade unionists, all of them. Right-to-cuck. Pay American. It’s really hilarious… until you’re the asshole nominated to underwrite Kahetlynn or DeShawnvious’ college experience… or some Blahniks and the newest iPhone, whatever.

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Even if I managed to find a virgin to impregnate (yes, I know – stop living in Candyland), I’d still get multiple DNA tests performed.

ChimpGod
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Are there even any virgins left ? I’m in Ukraine right now, and these bitches are all having kids and getting married way young.. probably fucked at 12.

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Well, if there’s none in the Ukraine, then I’d say “No.”. They probably are starting to bang even younger than that – they are for sure in the USA.

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There are still some really religious and conservative girls here in Western Ukraine.. it’s like you want them to be down to fuck, but you want a good girl.. Tricky situation.

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Gotta get your priorities straight, don’t go looking for virgins unless you want to start a family with her. Problem solved.

I don’t understand players who hunt for virgins to pop, use for a while then toss aside afterwards…

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Is this in Ukraine or the US? It sounds like the government is the enemy here using such extreme measures of control.

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I have been saying this for years.. Girls here in California love fucking these “bad boy” losers, who are covered in tattoos, probably have a felony or two, drive a beater car.. Eventually though they want to find the beta provider who will come save them. They will most likely continue to fuck the gang bangers.. Here is some knowledge:

1. If you are married to them, the child is automatically yours. I think this is generally the rule. Even if its not yours. You will be paying.
2. Do not sign the birth certificate.. worst mistake. She can eventually submit you as the father and the state will come after you and make you take a test and if you refuse, I think the child becomes yours automatically. You will back pay all the medical bills. Hopefully she doesn’t put you, and after 2 years, the abandonment clause will kick in, and now she can’t all of a sudden list you.. you win. This could be due to possibility of losing certain state aid depending on if you are paying or not. Although I don’t think they claim child support on taxes (non taxable). This is a tricky area, however I have accounting knowledge and experience.
3. The state will come after you.. take your license.. throw you in jail.. they will revoke your passport, and you will not be able to renew it. This started back in 1997 I believe. No more leaving the country basically. They will even put a warrant out for your arrest and can extradite you if the amount is high enough.

The point is, the state says to women: “You fucked up and got pregnant ? Hey.. we will cover you.. here is housing, money, food, college, and medical.. oh and daycare..” but for the guy ? “Hey.. umm you owe us.. but fuck you.. you will pay us, or we will ruin your life.” Inmates always get child support letters but they don’t have to pay Shit.. might as well get locked up.. at least the state THEN pays for everything.

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I once had an ex-girlfriend that was admittedly crazy use this tactic on me. I didn’t recognize it at the time but thankfully dumped her ass for other crazy behaviours like crying on the phone and keeping me on the line to console her, hiding in her parents closet to cry when she wasn’t getting things her way, showing up at my house unannounced and freaking out my roommate.

Those were some serious warning signs and thankfully the rookie me had enough sense to recognize them. Roosh is right, drop her like a sac of cheap potatoes. Nothing is worth that drama.

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Am I the only one that thinks that Old Ass Tom Hanks is still pretty boss?

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And some women take it further than a simple “scare”. You know, by just NOT taking their birth control pills. And NOT letting you know about it.

http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/i-didnt-take-the-pill-correctly-and-got-pregnant-twice

I don’t want to live on this planet anymore.

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Just get fixed and don’t tell them.. blow your load in them all day long and when they are like “I’m pregnant..” be like “good for you.. peace out.”

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Excellent practical solution!

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“Unless you take a pregnancy test that is positive, I don’t want to hear
anything about your menstrual cycle. You can talk about that to your mom
or girlfriends.”

Absolutely brilliant. I’ve had girls trying to use dread game on me with a pregnancy scare, but I never thought to use that line. It almost makes me wish I could go back in time and use it on them. Almost. Fortunately, they weren’t, and I did the right thing by kicking them out of my life as soon as they had their period and they admitted they weren’t pregnant.

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Are you going to scupper an affair?

Parsley, sage, rosemary, and thyme …

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I dated a chick who was a complete utter cunt once (think she was BPD). Sarcastic 24/7, belittling, emasculating remarks, constant negs. BS explosions of getting mad over nothing (such as hitting a pot hole in the car, changing plans on what we were going to eat etc., withholding sex tons of crap. She went on to date more guys and do the same thing. I am dating a girl now where none of those problems exist. Sarcastic women are a HUGE fking turn off. No grown ass man wants to be around a conniving cunt, especially men with challenging goals and are trying to work their way up in life. When you start a company or something big, last thing you want around is a “dread game” whore.

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Raise your standards, she behaved this way because you tolerated it, stop letting low level trash come into your life.

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You need to stop watching so many rap videos and infusing your communication with rap lyrics. It makes you sound like a wannabe and a moron. If you can’t figure out a better word to use than ‘cunt’, or ‘grown ass’, then I can only assume you are stuck in a 7th grade locker room somewhere.

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Orrrr…. maybe he’s black?

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My favorite form of female dread game is unsolicited information about ex boyfriends job’s, possession’s, or penis size’s – seemingly out of the blue. All of which are topics that a whore/escort, stripper, pornstar, or “Instagram model” would bring up. She may not be a streetwalking whore by name, but she is definitely one by mentality. Also, she will invariably tell you a tale of woe about how often she is sexually harassed that would make you think she must have grown up as German woman after the fall of the Nazis. Again, none of this information will be germane to whatever conversation you are having with her. One minute it’s “what are you thinking for dinner tonight, wait, did I tell you about the time when I was out clubbing and this bouncer shoved his thumb up my ass like Andre the Giant?”

Dread game, it’s the most luxurious crimson a red flag can possibly be. Run-the-fuck-away, fast!

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The guy writing this crap is either a huge loser or he’s gay. Seriously.

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Essentially this reflects the problem with everything to do with feminism – women with penis envy rejecting their femininity and trying to be men. Feminism really is one of the most ironic words ever when you think about it. They aren’t about embracing the ‘feminine’ side at all, and showing us how important and valuable they are at nurturing etc. In fact, they seem to hate themselves and their gender and are desperate to be masculine. Quite funny really!

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Why are there so many men out there who hate women? Are you all in the closet?

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No, the manosphere is seen as a bunch of apes with ho envy

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Hey Roosh,

Do you still coach (1:1 or workshop/bootcamp)? If so, I am super interested!

Sammy

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I am still trying to figure out if Roosh + his herd are serious or if this whole Redpill/Manosphere thing is just a big attempt to troll everyone.

Trisha
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They want to push neckbeards to shoot random groups of women. They’re terrorists

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Roosh, I am a woman who likes men — everything about them. And fortunately for me, men like me. I am not a “feminist”. But I have been reading over some of your writings, and I cannot help but wonder if you really don’t like women at all. You and your followers are definitely misogynistic, but there is an odor of homosexuality as well. Are you aware of that? You view women as objects for masturbation, but not as people to be loved. It’s really rather sad. You love men, and I think you should be honest with yourself and come out of the closet. Men who love women do not write the crap about them that you write. Either that, or you have not been in the company of “A” list women. Think “Grace Kelly”. Well, you and your followers would not be able to touch the hem of her skirt.

Either come out of the closet, or raise your standards a bit, and you will find lovely women about whom you would not post these disgusting blog posts.

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Grace Kelly married the Prince of Monaco, which literally proves our point about social status, patriarchy, and masculinity to game girls.
It’s also very common for women to deride men as ‘homosexuals’.
Don’t like fat women? You must be gay.
Don’t want to get married and lose your freedom? You must be gay.
Marriage rates are down dramatically. Reality is on our side….American women just aren’t worth it.

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Exactly.. if you think marriage is a crock of shit or you don’t want kids, people think you are gay.. oh you are 30 and not married? Must be gay. Isn’t that discrimination in itself ? Which would therefore nullify her argument that Roosh and “his herd”, are misogynists.. What a stupid cunt. Only a matter of time before some beta blows his load in her, and is stuck with her forever.

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Nah, man. You didn’t get the memo. Sexual “liberation” only applies to women.

If you’ve got a penis, you can “empower” yourself by getting with the provider program. Chop, chop!

Otherwise, you’re clearly a pathetic microphallused homosexual… wait I thought homosexuals were cool and ah-mah-zing… oh well, never mind: give me money, dumbass, because patriarchy.

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Women are about as consistent as the weather in hurricane season. Their hypocrisy isn’t a bug, it’s a feature.

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Ffs. Youre another programmer with a personality disorder arent you?

Al Burk A Durk
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Nope, I’m just speaking something most gargoyles like yourself can’t understand, it’s called…. wait for it…

… the truth! (*gasp*)

Rosie
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Yawn.

Al Burk A Durk
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Indeed, now, back to Jizzabell CUNTRESS!!!

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Funny how many of these womyn resort to shaming tactics, thinking it works.

You get to be a certain age and you see through it 100%. You’ve already seen the frivorces, the false pregnancy scams, the duplicitous dealing. 2,000 times is enough.

Shaming tactics are as effective as a turd in a punch bowl.

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Nah, I think in societies where men are expected and peer pressured to act like extreme men, be very tough, very sporty have sex with many women, swear a lot. And it gets taken to stupid extremes of only eating manly food…
The harder they try to prove themselves, the more we think they are hiding something.

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plz take back your faggotry to jezebel

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Society won’t have you.

Al Burk A Durk
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we ain’t concerned for “A” list women except for sex.most of them have sucked their way to the top and are whores themselves riding the cock carousel. no wonder they can’t find a husband.

plz take back your faggotry to jezebel

Kristen Stewart’s Cheating Scandal One Year Later: A Timeline of Events

http://assets-s3.usmagazine.com/uploads/assets/articles/54610-kristen-stewarts-cheating-scandal-a-timeline-of-events/1343344517_rupert-kristen-rob-467.jpg

” Take a look back at a timeline of events one year after Kristen Stewart(middle) was caught cheating on Robert Pattinson(right) with director Rupert Sanders(left).”

nuff said

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The irony, of course, is that he is talking to other men and these other men put themselves in a subservient role of ‘worshipping’ their leader. All these posts are a re-hash of other books from other decades. “How to be a Playa” articles only appeal to the hopelessly clueless desperate to find their place in the tribe. A true Alpha male isn’t sitting around blogging about what a Playa he is. Did you catch him on Dr. Oz? Everything about his lack of eye contact and body language screamed that he was a wimp and a coward and unable to own what he writes behind an anonymous keyboard.

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I new none of this, but Im a a good girl I did a search and checked for myself.
He was conned according to this, its fair enough he felt out of his depth.

How I Was Backstabbed By Dr. Oz And His Female Producers


However the text has enough info in it to say he really should have seen that coming and never gone on without being fully prepared.
“We just want you to share your perspective” does not mean ‘we accept your view as valid’
I agree, he was suckered in. This is how people get narcisists every time, they flattered him initially, he flattered himself way more.

https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/34a6k6/roosh_came_across_as_an_autistic_man_on_dr_oz/
He didnt look autistic though, avoidance of eye contact is about feeling very uncomfortable, childlike liars do it a lot, shy people do it a lot, in non autistic adults, its shame.

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The reason that dread game works on women is that they prefer a baseline level of anxiety.

Great point.

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Women thrive on drama. You have to take the initiative and create some drama or else they will create some drama that you will not appreciate.
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If your girlfriend is “perfect” then either you have Stepfordized her or you have walked into a minefield of her choosing.
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One class of successful entrepreneurs is those that keep their woman in a state of anxiety as they move on to each new business venture.

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My buddy is married and got caught cheating a year ago with a younger hotter chick. His wife (2-3 SMV points lower than him) is using ‘GNO + staying at hotel room’ dread on him. Should he call her out on it, or not give a fuck?

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Would he stay married to her if she was cheating? If she’s doing it to get his attention, I’d say ignore it and take a “business trip” that weekend. If he’s truly concerned about her seeing another guy, look into it I guess, but it doesn’t sound like a happy relationship.. I’d probably just divorce her unless there’s a significant reason to stay with her. You shouldn’t marry a girl who plays these types of games, whether they are real infidelity or dread game tactics.

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Lie detector test… she fails, dump her on the spot.

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Every other year, my wife plays this joke on me for April Fools Day.

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I stopped talking to a woman a few years back. After a month of calling me with no reply; she sent me a text claiming that I raped her. Even though the claim was absurd (we were in a LTR for years) ,her whole purpose of doing this was to get my attention and get me back to her apartment (it worked btw). Your article just put the whole situation in another perspective….crazy.

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The last paragraph Roosh wrote is gold, since women in The West have no idea how to be feminine to attract men nowdays they just act like the men they fuck since they get turned on by it. Combine this with a society of blue pill men who are so desperate for.female attention that they don’t call women on their negative behavier you get masculine women acting like men.

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That’s what I’m talking about. What guy wouldn’t be turned on by a “woman” who dresses, talks and generally behaves like a male?

I just love chicks dressed in football jerseys, burping, farting and talking like drunken truck drivers…it’s SOOOOOO feminine, SOOOOOO attractive. Oh, yeah…

(Do I have to add the “sarc” to the above?)

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No I don’t need to be told you you were being sarcastic because those things turn me off aswell. Some women who are in to sports an partying can be fun to be around but they arn’t attractive. A women who isn’t a stunner on the looks scale instantly becomes more attractive by acting feminine in my view.

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I sometimes struggle with this. I’m married (yea I know) to a very pretty wife. She gets hit on every single day, in front of me, without me, doesn’t matter. She’s 38, but she looks 28. We have been married about 15 years. When things start getting bad between us, relationship wise, she will frequently respond to guys who hit on her intentionally, I always see it… and I know what she’s doing. What my problem is that if I react really harshly it shows I’m a bit beta and care too much but if I don’t react at all (and I’ve tried this) she starts to enjoy the attention and actually engage to some of the guys hitting on her…. she doesn’t pull back, as there are no lack of alpha’s out there. Any advice on how to reverse the power a little or how to react without putting myself at risk of another guy pulling her?

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Why don’t you try being a grown up and tell her how it feels when she does it and asking her not to do it anymore. One adult to another, no games. If she continues to do it after you plainly tell her that it bothers you, then she doesn’t really care about you and enjoys playing games more than she enjoys being your partner. If that is the case, now you know and it is time to get out.

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She already knows… that’s why she does it… in order to make me insecure with the relationship so “i’ll try harder” and “value her more”.
Everything I’ve read says if you let a girl know you are jealous of her then she’ll know she “has” you and either run all over you or lose her attraction to you because she’ll see you as weak? Do you disagree?

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“Why don’t you try being a grown up and tell her how it feels when she does it and asking her not to do it anymore. One adult to another, no games.”

LMAO

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how about going and hitting on other women???
i am sure she hasn’t seen you do that.
you do this and the hamster spins your way.
work on yourself and strive to be more alpha.
since you are married for 15 years. I am sure the frame in the relationship is already set. so not much you can do about it

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Oh, I’ve definitely hit on and flirted with other women. She sees it. Doesn’t bother her at all… and to be honest I’m pretty Alpha… there is a side of me that just wants to go hook up with another girl and tell her to pound sand… but I made a vow and I love my family and don’t want to tear it apart… but I can’t stand her doing this. I’m not sure if she’s playing “dread game” or if she just likes the attention, but if I play into too much I will obviously come across beta and needy. A true alpha would walk… so i guess i’m not a true alpha in that sense, because the cost on my life would just be too heavy.

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Well it is just flirting right? She doesn’t meet up with them or get their numbers or call them right? Flirting is healthy. Flirt with people, but not on purpose or for revenge. Do it just becaue flirting is healthy and is not cheating…. There.

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The problem is, flirting routinely leads to additional feelings and can lead to acting on those feelings. How long do you go on flirting with someone and them flirting back before it becomes something more or the thought or temptation gets to great? I disagree, I think flirting is bad, a gateway to something much worse.

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You are right. I think it depends on the situation. If the person is a 9-10 on your personal level of attractiveness, and flirting is done in secret, it is wrong. In your case I feel for you. Mine is similar but not – I’m very attractive and 7 years younger than my bf but I look 25. Guys hit on me and I usually ignore or talk just to be friendly but my bf actually flirts when girls hit on him.. So I let myself flirt once with this guy and it started going too far. Good thing I called it off. I’d say, from now you and your woman should only flirt with people whom you don’t have personal contact info, like running into a waiter or waitress at dinner. Not heavy flirting – just very light and casual like a smile and a joke. Sexual remarks and sexual attention is not flirting – that’s way beyond flirting!

In your case I think you should relax with guys hitting on her. She’s not saying “yes let’s meet and SSHHhh don’t tell my man” right? If she provokes it or invites it, then it’s not good. If she’s just being friendly or only wants to be a friend it’s ok. If you flirt though you’re just sending her the message that it’s ok for her to do it. I think she’ll respect you if you have a boundary talk about when flirting/what type of flirting is ok and when it’s not. If her flirtations are sexual then she’s def. misbehaving! I see this married woman on facebook and guys like her boob picture and drool on it, and she flirts back with them. In this case she invited it! Def . Not ok and her poor husband had to see it all!

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Any girl, ugly or hot, can flirt with guys and they’ll respond. Guys don’t have to be “attracted” to a girl or like her. If they think she’s “down” or interested in them, which flirting conveys to most guys, they’ll try. Now, the guy probably won’t talk to her afterwards or have any interest in her, but once he’s gotten what he wants the relationship with her BF is over… not that the other guy cares.
I got tired of it. I let her know if I see it happen again we’re done. I want to be with her, but there are too many other women out there that want to be married and won’t disrespect me for me to put up with that. I absolutely meant it. The next time I see it, I’ll file. I will not put up with a disloyal or disrespectful wife. I don’t do it to her, so she shouldn’t do it back. I make 200k a year and am not bad looking either, so it wouldn’t be too hard.

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I dont think that women are raised to think men and women are the same-equal, but skilled-equal.
Experience has told me that men, or maybe just the noisy troublemakers, assume women think the same as them, it takes a while to notice this but so many accusations fall into place under a single consistent fact. Most especially their assumption everything is about sex, status …

After being negged by men, and noticing male sports coaches regularly claim negative comments motivate more than encouragement, and knowing that little boys always do the opposite of what you tell them, some women realised that negging would work wonders on men.
Thanks for the tip, I shall use this to challenge PUAs on their maturity and decency levels. I expect I’ll end up stalked by those with a mother fixation though…

Its a fair warning in general though, some women will catch on to your games and flip them. Others could easily choose to become lesbian. None of it is particularly ‘successful’.

Here is my favourite pot-kettle quote of the day, which I shall flip into an equally true statement that we ought to all be in agreement on:

There is no room in my life for a girl(boy)=idiot who manually tries to increase my anxiety because she(he) doesn’t know how to be attractive with her(his) normal femininity(masculinity)=interpersonal skills.

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What is next? Males following the sea horse example and giving birth?

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Always keep (at least) two in the kitty. Always.

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“”she went silent for twelve long hours. When she came to, she announced that her “bad news” was that she bought tennis shoes and has to exercise more. I dumped her on the spot.””
I certainly hope you explained to her why you dumped her. Less she may believe you did it because she was exercising (a positive behavior) and not cause she kept you in suspense for so long. These women need to be in “dread” that they are playing head games with the wrong boyfriend if they try this. Perhaps they will do it less.
In turn I keep the woman I date attracted to me by constantly reminding them how many hot women I work with and they all seem to like me. This continuously reminds her of her competition and tell her I find unique qualities in her that are fascinating. This gives her the impression that she is hanging on a string in keeping my attention. The beauty of it, its all true. I could dump her and date any number of women I am attracted to. I choose to be with her cause she seems less shallow than the other women I know.

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I’d like to add another comment here for the guys.
If you are not looking to start a family, divorces, and or at my age (over 35) in life and want a healthy sex life without threats of pregnancy.
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I have talked with friends that have and they say its the biggest liberator of men you can imagine. No chance of pregnancy and the procedure is so good now you don’t even notice any scars or pain. Everything works normally as usual.
If you want to party with the hoochies and the sluts keep it a secret cause many of them only offer sex if they believe secretly they can get your seed in them. And then they have you trapped. Otherwise they will charge you for it. That’s what sluts do. I know from experience.

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They also now have a shot you can get that basically gives you a chemical vasectomy, but is reversible without major surgery. I would strongly recommend this to every man period.

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Wow! Birth control for men. This is truly an Epic innovation. Now men have the power to “Choose” not just women. I will definitely research this.

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There are so many things you can do to keep her on her toes: Not answering the phone for a day, telling she’s getting fat (when she is of course), say you don’t like women over 30 and trade her in if she doesn’t performs. If your phone rings: ‘must be my other girlfriend’. Just let her know she needs to work for the relationship. So many women think the relationship they have is secure so they comfortably can get fat, cut their hair short, don’t pay any attention to good fitting clothes, or show some femininity at all. When they start nagging, farting and burping you may start to question yourself: is this my roommate from college, or was this the girl I wanted to have sex with a couple years ago?

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It’s weird. His March 15 blog called Are your Standards too High implies that if you have to constantly game a girl, her value is higher than yours. So constantly dread gaming is constantly gaming so…. I’m confused. If that’s the approach men should take with women that they date it implies those women have higher value and I know half the men here don’t believe that so again, confusing.

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I agree, you shouldn’t have to constantly game a girl, but when relationships soften, and they all do, sometimes a little game will bring things back where they need to be.

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The opposite situation? Reversed roles? Then what? Man gets fat, lazy, quits initiating sex?

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“The number one way women instill dread is to create a pregnancy scare… Artificially try to worry you”

Pure gold!! Never look at it that way.

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Having been in relationships that were anxiety-ridden, I can say the happiest one I’ve been in is one with someone who does not make me anxious very often at all. Learning to manage one’s own fears and worries is part of being an adult. You were right to cut loose the Polish girl, but as a woman I’d do the same thing if some dude was baiting me with cryptic texts and long silences.

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As soon as anxiety comes I actually bail. LOL. Life is too short. I want someone who makes me breathe easy, not someone who makes life hard. Life and career is hard and stressful enough.

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True.

I recently dumped a guy that tried this nonsense on me. There’s nothing worse than playing games within a relationship. I don’t need that kind of nonsense in my life.

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Lol. Triggered.

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I hate you dude…

I was just casually searching the web to amuse my own sexism…. I wanted to read something, say, “hell yeah” and laugh a bit….

You asshole…

I stumbled across this site and I’ve been reading post after post….

Now I’ve digressed to actually commenting….

Wtf….

You’ve got me wanting to give you money in exchange for counselling, self-help books, seminars, etc…etc…

If I were just a tad more insecure with my masculinity I’d probably do it too…

Keep it up.

Dad said it best not long ago to friends helping me tame the jungle threatening to overtake his yard…. We sat around taking a small break…. He insulted our need for a break and essentially told us to get back to work and stop whining….I got up and went back to work…. The others followed shortly after he informed them of the eternal difference between him and them…

As they were busy huffing and puffing and cursing the Sun, he informed us all of how feminized we have become….

Dad said, “I was born back when Men were Men, and women knew it…”

We didn’t stop until the sun went down…. And soon, we’ll go conquer the wild again with our war machines and sweat to remind it of it’s place…

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LOL too true. Could not have been better said. This crap is for super insecure men. I won’t resort to this immature juvenile crap. Love your quote: “You’ve got me wanting to give you money in exchange for counselling, self-help books, seminars, etc…etc…”

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I don’t get how this dread game thing is supposed to work. When a man starts acting like something is wrong in the relationship or like he’s going to leave, I just withdraw from him emotionally and start looking to move on. I know I’m already doing everything I can, so it’s not my problem. Why would I want to get all desperate and pathetic to try and keep someone who’s not into me and/or playing mind games? It’s easy for me to get another man. Seems like this is a trick that would only work on lower-quality females who have no self-confidence.

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Help: I am a woman, and I look very feminine and pretty and I am very straight, but my man is more like the “wife.” I am the breadwinner. I hold the career. I want all the sex. LOTS OF IT. I love it. I don’t nag about the house (beause I hate having it done to me) but he bitches and nags me about stupid little crap! I am fit and attractive and take great care of myself. This year he quit initiating sex with me. He wants once a week, or way less. I hate it. I loved him for his reassuring predictable nature, the way he was always there for me. I LOVE positive emotions, and HATE dread and anxiety or a man who instills it in me… just recently he did little things to instill dread, starting doing things like whiten teeth and shave (he had not shaved in three effing years so I knew something was up) and had this secret meeting with this supermodel girl and left the message for me to find, and I have lost interest. I don’t feel attracted to him because he instilled anxiety in me, he doesn’t do me sex often enough or well, he nags and bitches. dread game just doesn’t work on me since he is the one with low sex drive and mine is high. I work on myself, do 12 steps to self improvement, want to become a personal trainer, and all he does is try to discourage me from my own goals like that or tell me I don’t need or should not do them.. nag nag fucking nag, criticize, tear my dreams and tell me I cannot become a fitness trainer, etc. Do you think he was using the Dread Game on me? Do you think he is just dumb? Should I use Dread Game on him? Why or why not?

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Obvious troll is obvious

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Help: I am a woman, and I look very feminine and pretty and I am very straight, but my man is more like the “wife.” I am the breadwinner. I hold the career. I want all the sex. LOTS OF IT. I love it. I don’t nag about the house (beause I hate having it done to me) but he bitches and nags me about stupid little crap! I am fit and attractive and take great care of myself. This year he quit initiating sex with me. He wants once a week, or way less. I hate it. I loved him for his reassuring predictable nature, the way he was always there for me. I LOVE positive emotions, and HATE dread and anxiety or a man who instills it in me… just recently he did little things to instill dread, starting doing things like whiten teeth and shave (he had not shaved in three effing years so I knew something was up) and had this secret meeting with this supermodel girl and left the message for me to find, and I have lost interest. I don’t feel attracted to him because he instilled anxiety in me, he doesn’t do me sex often enough or well, he nags and bitches. dread game just doesn’t work on me since he is the one with low sex drive and mine is high. I work on myself, do 12 steps to self improvement, want to become a personal trainer, and all he does is try to discourage me from my own goals like that or tell me I don’t need or should not do them.. nag nag fucking nag, criticize, tear my dreams and tell me I cannot become a fitness trainer, etc. Do you think he was using the Dread Game on me? Do you think he is just dumb? Should I use Dread Game on him? Why or why not?

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Haha. That’s so ridiculous. This phenomenon appears in every relationship when the power balance of the Partners becomes instable. There a science papers about it. It’s not about female hormons neither about their vaginas. Oh lord I haven’t laughed like that for a while.
By the way collaboration doesn’t indicate causality. (statistic science law number 1) It is therefore wrong to say that sex before marriage affects the sucess of marriage.

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After almost 4 years of study I still don’t understand how women can be so clueless. Why the fuck would any woman think that a man wants to be kept on edge. Granted it was a little hard to accept that is exactly what women want- and more particularly that is EXACTLY what greases the chute.

They assume since it juices them up it must be good for our boners. I think it is muh equality and the brainwashing that men and women are the same. They cannot conceive of anything else. I mean, other than some minor plumbing differences men and women are exactly the same. Right?