There is nothing like the rush you receive after a new sexual conquest. All the work you did before it has paid off with the reward of a woman’s body. It is a glorious success indeed that keeps men such as myself pursuing this dopamine high for much of their adult lives.
Oftentimes, the pussy is so golden, so beautiful, so generous with its lubrication, that you want to hit again. You may even want a relationship with the girl who this pussy is attached to. Unfortunately, you will not always succeed. Maybe the girl only wanted to fuck you once. Maybe she sensed your neediness and disappeared off the face of the earth. Or maybe you made a severe game mistake and turned her off for good. You will find it quite disconcerting to lose a girl so easily even after your penis ravaged her insides, but I promise you that it will happen many times in your life.
The more intimacy you’ve had with a girl, the more sour you will feel when you lose her. You’ll furiously analyze the interaction to see where you went wrong, but in the end, the girl is gone and you are left unsatisfied in spite of the fact that you did have sex with her.
This is the wrong mentality to have.
Instead of feeling like an idiot, you must feel like a victor, because you did have sex with her. How many guys will she have sex with during her prime years between 18-28? Even if she’s a big slut, less than 100. This means that out of 3.5 billion men in the world, you were one of the lucky ones chosen to fornicate with her. There have only been 266 popes since 33 AD—you are essentially one of the sexual popes of her life, a special man who was at the right place at the right time with the right words and the right moves. Even if you didn’t get to hit it as many times as you would’ve liked, do you not see how you came out on top? Do you not appreciate the incredible feat you’ve accomplished?
The goal of most women is to extract as many material resources from men as possible. While this is changing in modern times with women essentially giving it up for free, they still seek status, entertainment, and positive feelings that come from enjoying your appearance, personality, and confidence. As a man, your goal should be to extract as much “sexual resources” from an individual woman as possible. You must structure all your relationships to put in as many penile strokes inside her body until the inevitable end, so that when she gets bored of you or meets a man better than you, you can simply walk it off, look in the mirror, and know that you came out on top even if you may have happened to fuck it up in the end.
There is absolutely no reason for you to ever be upset as long as you lay even one measly stroke of pipe inside her. She may feel better about herself because she rejected you, but her last-minute touchdown is meaningless because you still won the game. Don’t you dare feel down on yourself. Instead, take a well-deserved rest before you go win again.
Read Next: He Who Hesitates, Masturbates