Guiding Principle Of Male-Female Relations

This is going to be unpleasant.

I’ve been writing this blog for almost three years, and turns out I have failed to get across the guiding principle of male-female relations to women of the United States.

The guiding principle of male-famale relations:

GUYS ARE LOOKS ORIENTED
GUYS ARE LOOKS ORIENTED
GUYS ARE LOOKS ORIENTED

If you are a woman over 30 who is single and unhappy, it is because you are overweight, have short hair, or have standards far higher than your attractiveness.

In Argentina the girls are fucking nutcases, but it is impossible to find a 26+ year old skinny Argentine girl with hair touching the top of her ass. Impossible.

In Brazil the girls are chubbier and less attractive but they have what is called sex appeal. Men are very attracted to this trait. Since you are American and have as much sex appeal as a woman from Afghanistan, your only hope is getting your looks together.

I know losing weight is tough with so many delicious flavors of Haagen Daz ice cream and Starbucks frappuccinos, but listen: calories in must be less than calories out. You can decrease calories in by eating less food, or you can increase calories out through exercise. Doing both will give you faster results. Also, lifting weights or doing toning exercises will give your body a pleasing appearance. This is something you have to do for the rest of your life. I know it will be brutal to miss your favorite television programs to get your body looking good, but this is the tremendous price you must pay.

Bonus tip: I have never met a fine bodied girl who washes down a night of beer or wine drinking with cheese or meat. Please research the calorie content of your favorite alcoholic beverages and the common late-night snacks you consume afterwards.

I know having long hair is a pain in the ass when it’s hot and I know it takes forever to dry, but you are not helping your cause with that “cute” bob cut. Men are not attracted to cute. If we did we’d all own puppies.

I’m sorry you have an unattractive face. Life is not fair. But you will have to significantly lower your standards if you want children or a husband. Not everyone is going to have an attractive mate. I have back and ear hair and various other deformities but since you are not as looks oriented as I am all I have to do is have personality, be interesting / confident, make jokes, etc. (i.e. have game) in order to get with women more attractive than I am handsome. These game traits help you so much less than me that it would be a waste of your time to work on them in place of body slimming or hair growing.

Also, have you have experimented with ways to maximize your looks potential?

You cannot compensate for fat, short hair, or an ugly face with education, an impressive job, or fancy purses.

“But Roosh I am thin and attractive with long hair but am over 30, single, and unhappy.”

Then you do not really want a husband or children.

I know every girl is going to write this off as too simplistic, mean, and unfair. It’s too easy for a girl to blame socioeconomic forces, a lack of “good men,” bad luck, or the media for her inability to hook one decent guy. So what I’m going to do is write a very complicated book called “Bang For Girls” that will be a glorious resource for how to look at guys, how to talk to them, how to date them, and so on. Let’s work on everything but your looks, which make the greatest impact on the men you get, so that you can say you are at least trying to make changes.

“But I don’t want a guy who just appreciates my looks. I’m intelligent, independent, witty, funny, blah blah.”

Reread the guiding principles of male-female relations again. Accept it or stay single.

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Any girl that argues with your here is simply dillusional..

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Epic. Life is unfair, but really most of what you describe is the fact one needs to work hard in order to succeed at dating. Men have to learn to be interesting (game), women have to work to be attractive and pleasant. Feel free to dispute these cruel truths, but a lack of effort in dating is why there are beta men and unmarried women.

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What about being nice? I’ve met plenty of girls who are older, single, and unhappy but also decent looking and can’t understand why even though they have a totally bullshit bitchy attitude.

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it ain’t all looks, but it’s mostly looks. Men are operated at least 90% by their penises, or at least that’s what I’ve noticed.

I agree with The Dude, too. I’ve seen many older women who just act really dominant and bitchy, yet are rather attractive, even compared to younger women. And they’re single and unhappy.

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my first gut reaction is to disagree, but there is truth in between the lines. this, as with most of your posts dear sir, is genius…. also quite funny and entertaining.

high five and a smack in the ass.. well done.

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good post. as soon as I read the first line “this is going to be unpleasant”, I laughed outloud and said to myself “oh this is gonna be interesting.” it was.

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“what about being nice?” I think many guys will put up with a shitty attitude if she looks good…

But most guys (with game) won’t put up with sup par looks even if she’s got the best personality in the world… maybe they will for a month or two (to try to convince themselves they’re a good person) but after awhile it will eat them up that they’re not fully attracted to the girl they are with.

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Great point about Brazilians having sex appeal.. Even some American girls I know will admit how guys can be attracted to a chubby Brasilada… simply because they ooze sexiness

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too simplistic, mean, and unfair.

It’s not that unfair. Women can do a lot of mean and unfair things, and they can overcome the “looks” barrier easily.

Men are operated at least 90% by their penises

Exactly! Just as men can work on their game, women have certain tricks they can do to directly appeal to the lizard brain down there controlling the male penis.

A lot of men have this thing called fetishes. Most men are into more “conventional” things like boobs and ass, but there are a lot of men into totally wild and weird shit. Women can keep guys coming back to them over and over again, if they know how to push those kinky buttons.

My advice to women who aren’t blessed with good looks: find out the fetishes men have that you can tolerate and exploit them. A lot of women don’t feel like pushing them, which works in the favor of women who can and do. A woman can find a really awesome guy with weird kinks by catering to them, like feet / nails / Dom / dress-up etc. She can date “out of her league” this way.

Also, a sexy attitude can go a long way. I don’t flirt at all, so even though my looks are above average I received very little attention from men. Mainstream “feminism” is not nearly as empowering as a woman using all of her sexual powers at her disposal. Of course, most women who figure these things out decide to keep these secrets from other women they don’t want the competition.

Girl power is all about knowing it and using it. wink

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I have to disagree Bobby– in a long term relationship I would rather have a girl who is a 7 with a great attitude, who is not a bitch and I get along with than a 10 who is a tough to get along with.

You can put up with someone’s bullshit for a while, but in the long run it gets old no matter how hot you are (at least for me). If you’re annoying and rude and ultimately not fun to be around, then I will just move on and find someone else. I guess I answered my own question!

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Dude,

I’m not saying the girl has to be a 10… I’ve always said a fun 7 is the ideal girl to marry… but You have to be physically and sexually attracted to that fun 7…

I agree too, I won’t put up with a girl’s bullshit no matter how hot she is… but I’ve had enough hot girls to know there is always another one waiting…

many guys get their first taste of super attractive pussy and don’t want to let it go no matter how much bullshit they deal with..

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I think many guys will put up with a shitty attitude if she looks good

Only for a short while. That’s how the pick-up community operates but not how the average people operate. Giving advice about looking good to women is in the best interest of the man seeking flings and one-night-stands, not in the interest of the woman wanting to hold onto a long-term thing.

Great point about Brazilians having sex appeal.. Even some American girls I know will admit how guys can be attracted to a chubby Brasilada… simply because they ooze sexiness

Precisely what I mean by attitude. A sexy attitude is part of the arsenal of weaponry a woman can use in seducing men, and most men are defenseless against it because they are taught to be the predators and chasers, and get caught off-guard.

Beautiful women can attract lots of men, but they are in danger of becoming boring quickly if they don’t try to be sexy at all and are too passive. This is why men will cheat on their beautiful girlfriends or wives with worse-looking girls, because those girls who will push his buttons and act “hot” and “sexy” get him off more than the more “objectively” beautiful woman who doesn’t even try.

If you’re annoying and rude and ultimately not fun to be around, then I will just move on and find someone else.

Other personality traits like intelligence, integrity, sweetness, kindness, sense of humor, etc. are bonus and great for relationship harmony, but won’t keep a man 100% faithful if she can’t blow his mind away with her sexiness.

It’s not just about variety and looks. A woman can’t keep a man devoted to her forever (looks fade or change over time, and become unexciting by themselves) unless she figures out how to use those kinks and fetishes to make him aroused all the time.

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It usually baffles me when I hear women complain about not being able to understand guys. Guys are simple to understand, by and large, often to a fault with a lack of subtlety. Women can be intensely complex, which can be both fascinating and frustrating at the same time.

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Harsh, Brutal Honesty. This is the DC Bachelor getting back to its roots. Good work.

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Roosh, Roosh, Roosh.

The DC area is GROUND ZERO for attractive men dating plain women. It’s just everywhere. Having lived there for 10 years, I became inured to it.

Great Myths of the DC area:

1. There are no attractive single men; all the men are nerdy, ugly policy wonks.

2. DC women are frustrated because there aren’t enough “good” men around to date.

Actually, just the *opposite* is true. The DC area is a paradise for young, single women.

One prime indicator: The world of Washington, DC area (includuing suburban MD and VA) yuppiedom is perhaps the one, single place in — not just the USA, but the world — where you invariably will not encounter young, single, attractive women out-and-about unescorted, i.e., alone.

This makes it much harder for single guys on the prowl.

And I’m not talking about nightclubs and bars, I’m talking about in the daytime, at bookstores, restaurants at lunchtime, in supermarkets, etc. — your usual daytime pickup venues.

DC AREA YOUNG SINGLE WOMEN DO NOT TRAVEL ALONE.

THEY ALWAYS TRAVEL ESCORTED BY A “BOYFRIEND”, OR THEY DO NOT GO OUT.

I am very widely traveled. I travel all over the US — East Coast, West Coast, Dirty South…

I travel all over Europe… UK, Germany, Italy, Switzerland, Eastern Europe…

Single young women out-and-about alone, or only with other single young women, EVERYWHERE. I mean EVERYWHERE.

Go to DC, and you won’t spot one. Not one.

Either they’ve developed a culture where they’re ashamed to go out alone, or they want to show off their “boy” to everyone. Probably a combination of both, and a very strong one.

But the underlying meaning in all this is that there are definitely enough available, desirable men for all these young single women.

So much so that every halfway-decent looking girl in the DC area is attached, and usually she DATES UP.

Usually her “boy” is better looking than she is.

Plain Jane policy wonkettes and damn-near-ugly nonprofit gals dating dashing artists, journalist-types, and politicos everywhere in DC.

Why?

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Joe T, I’m not sure if I agree with single women not traveling alone during the daytime in DC. At night? sure, they are all in groups. but during the day, I do see them by themselves scattered about in some places. But if you’re talking about their approachability, I might agree with you if you say that DC women are generally unapproachable compared to other places. That’s probably a different topic altogether.

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another thought… if DC is really the paradise for single young women, then why are so many of them frustrated and complaining?

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Two things: “In Argentina the girls are fucking nutcases, but it is impossible to find a 26+ year old skinny Argentine girl with hair touching the top of her ass. Impossible.”

is this a typo or am i reading it wrong? do you mean one that is single cuz it seems like they all sould be 26, thin, and w/long hair.

Two: Joe T is very right. As a 31 year old single guy I realized it wasnt that often i came across girls in my daily, non bar life that I saw attractive. Then i took a few trips to other countries and places in the US and noticed ‘all the sudden’ i was seeing attractive, sexy girls out and about on a regular basis. So i’ve made it a point now to actually stop and think about it when i see a ‘gf material’ type girl out and about in dc, nad i’ll tell you its very rare, and no, i’m not a hermit. which got me wondering why. think about the type of girls that move to DC. valedictorian types, lawyers, tech consultants, mostly unattractive career types. and lots of the beautiful girls i have known in DC have left, to places like California, Texas, FL, NYC, etc. So I have the suspicion that most attractive girls are wired the same and attracted to qualities in a city that DC cant provide – be it beaches, skiing, fashion, etc. They’re certainly not attracted to crappy weahter, career oriented lifestyles, and beltway traffic. So to get the hot girl you’re going to have to get out of DC, at least until you are married, then you can consider moving back.

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terps, thanks for your comment.

I think so many of ’em complain because collective expectations are in the stratosphere.

Remember the DC area has tons of young people arriving every year from all over the country. Many of these people are very ambitious achievers who have very high expectations for everything in life — careers, relationships, etc.

When these young women get to DC the first thing they see is all these hot, high-achieving alpha political types in dashing around in expensive suits with influential jobs, and they WANT ONE.

So immediately expectations get ratcheted up very high.

But when everything shakes out, most of these girls who do all that complaining end up making out pretty well. They end up hooking up with quite a number of desirable guys.

It’s a lot of the guys I knew in the DC area who suffer in silence, going month after month (and sometimes year after year) without a decent date or hook-up.

DC is a very lopsided place, and the dating dynamic is HUGELY skewed in favor of females.

This has become so pervasive and deeply-ingrained, I would argue, that many people, especially the guys, don’t see it.

But you made a very accurate observation that DC girls are largely unapproachable, terps — much more so than other places.

You have to ask the question, what does this unapproachability grow out of?

I would argue that it grows out of the overwhelming availability of willing, fawning, desirable young men who throw themselves at these women — often girls who would have a much harder time scoring so many “hot” guys and alphas in a normal place.

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Terps! This comment of yours says it all:

“…but during the day, I do see them by themselves scattered about in some places.”

How often do you get out of the DC area, my friend?

In other places around the world… pick one… Vegas… LA… London… Berlin… it’s not just “scattered about in some places”. It’s all over the fuckin’ place, all the time!

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I couldn’t agree more on the weight thing. Seriously women of the world, why is it so bad that looks are important? Especially, especially when you are not a natural thin person and your looks are hard won.

But let’s take a look at the hair issue. Marilyn Monroe, Sofia Loren, Elizabeth Taylor; all famous sex goddesses and all with famously short hair. Gina Lollobrigita or however you spell it. All I’m saying is modern haircuts are crap. Viva la pineapple.

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“a sexy attitude can go a long way.”

This reminds me of another truism: “a little moan goes a long way”. So true.

“DC AREA YOUNG SINGLE WOMEN DO NOT TRAVEL ALONE.”

Since when does this really matter? If her ‘boyfriend’ isn’t really her boyfriend, you can at least get digits. You gotta approach and see what happens.

In DC, women are everywhere. Since I have such low standards, it’s less important to me what they look like, and much more important to me that this area is a training ground for picking up girls in the same way Afghanistan is a training ground for terrorists.

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“How often do you get out of the DC area, my friend?”

I might be a little biased, but I was born and raised in the DC area… and you might have gotten the idea that I haven’t been to a lot of places. Sorry I wasn’t clear on that, but I have done PLENTY of traveling.

Boston, NYC, Florida, Texas, California (LA and SF), Colorado, Chicago, Mexico, Canada (Montreal and Toronto), London, Norway, Paris, Spain (Madrid, Barcelona, Seville), and lots of other places.

I would say that Paris is WORSE than DC. London wasn’t much better. LA has tons of beautiful women, but they are a bit fake. SF is a cool city, but I don’t know if I’d live there. Texas – especially Austin and Houston are FULL of hot women. Head turners galore. Montreal is great, too. Spain and Norway are okay, but better than DC.

Joe, to be honest with you, I want to move out of DC. I’ve been looking for work in CA, TX, and NY and a few other places, but haven’t had much luck so far.

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So, being a smart, responsible, independent, interesting woman isn’t worth anything? I am a guy, I have dated some beautiful women, but I won’t marry one unless she contributes positively to the gene pool in terms of more than good looks, and doesn’t need rescuing from something every five minutes. I think you are out of your depth when you talk about marriage. Looks are important, but I’ll take slightly less good-looking in exchange for these other qualities. Fat is always bad, because it’s a sign that she doesn’t take care of herself. But there’s a difference between fat and more heavily built (but still fit/attractive). Long hair? Matter of opinion, and how it looks varies with the individual. Also, a comment on your alpha/beta breakdown. Your categorization only works for people who attempt to operate in the world like you do. In that set of people, those who are good at your game are alphas, those who are bad at your game are betas. But there are a lot of people who don’t agree with your way of looking at things–you seem to label them betas too, but that categorization doesn’t make sense. I stand by previous comments I’ve made: you aren’t that bright, and are basically a dick, but have cornered a niche market on the frat-guy dating system. You have managed to capitalize on your own shortcomings, and I guess you deserve some props for that.

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Terps, interesting comments…

By the way, as an aside, in my experience, London (and the UK in general) is the single most underrated place in the world, in terms of hot women.

Maybe it’s just me because I like light hair, fair rosy complexions, blue eyes with those high arching eyebrows, and delicate features (probably more so than Roosh, whose tastes run more to the dark and sultry)… but London is an absolute hotbed of stunning girls. Everywhere you turn, in the Underground, on the streets, in museums, in restaurants, your eyes are bombarded with gorgeous girls. And I’m not even talking about models… most of them are just average, everyday British girls. Same for almost all places in the UK.

French women – they have attitude. They are very hard to get to know, and very private. They don’t like small talk. French girls (like all French people) are proud, intellectually arrogant, closed, and obsessed with their personal space. That’s much different from the sense of entitlement of DC girls, who all think they’re entitled to a 9 or 10 boyfriend no matter how plain they look.

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Joe, that might explain how you feel about London… my tastes are more like Roosh’s, which makes sense bc I’m middle eastern. I’d date blonde women with blue eyes, but I don’t go crazy about them. but those brunettes with curves walking around in Texas, Spain, and NYC, man…

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Terps, also plenty of Middle Easterners, Greeks, Indians, etc. in London… It’s the most diverse place I have ever been in, and that includes NYC and LA.

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Lisa you answered your own question.. regarding the short hair, those women you mentioned were all FAMOUS. celebrities are always exempt from the rules. look around at the everyday women you see.

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Well if you want to stand out I’d say DON’T look around at the everyday women. Modern women just follow the trends. They don’t consider what really enhances their features. Therefore they flip their hair out, have muffin tops and never wear dresses.

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Lisa, what is this thing with all the young professional women wearing pants suits these days in DC and NYC? This is a big turnoff.

Hate to keep on bringing up London, but not only are the women amazingly beautiful there, they also don’t skimp a bit on showing their femininity. The vast majority wear skirts and dresses to work, and really pay close attention to looking “pretty”.

I find that very nice, refreshing, and puts me in such a good mood when I go there. It’s like being in a different world.

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As looks oriented as they come, it is still kinda nice to have a chick who is chill. They don’t seem to really exist much anymore.

My buddy use to always say to me.. “show me a guy with a hot chick, and I’ll show you a guy that is tired of fucking her.”

So looks are what hook, but a chill personality is what keeps the cat from straying.

And most of the time the guys that are banging the hot chicks have a mulitude of options. I am from the camp that states that 15% of the guys are baning 90% of the women. If you want those 15% of the guys, you have to be chill. Nothing gets older than a controling – sappy- pretentious – hot chick who just lyes there as you bang her.

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Anony, I saw that article too, when it came out, and I can honestly say that guy doesn’t know what the fuck he’s talking about.

First, notice that he does mention that British women are blessed with “natural” beauty, which is true.

On the grooming issue, this guy must be either gay or he must be living in his cellar playing video games.

OK, maybe if you go out into the British countryside, or in small industrial towns, and mind you concentrate on only older women, say, 45+, yes, British women may be unkempt, or more commonly, wear gnarly, very conservative and unsexy clothes.

Compare that with American women in cities like LA and San Diego, where you have a lot of these so-called “urban cougars”, who are women 40 or 45+, who still think they can get younger, hot guys by getting plastic surgery, tanning, and working out. Those things in general are phenomena that don’t exist at all in England.

But if you concentrate on the younger women (and I mean 20 and 30 something) of London, just the opposite is true. The density of naturally stunning women is higher there than I’ve seen anywhere in the United States — not slightly higher, much higher.

Plus, they are exquisitely well groomed, and they will actually wear a stylish, sexy dress (not the asexual pants suit or some other nondescript “sweater, pants, and jacket” combination), to work. And these aren’t tarts, they’re young women working at comparable jobs to what you’d see in DC.

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I think any girl that disagrees with you probably just doesn’t want to date your kind anyway. There is a whole world of plain people, men and women, that date and marry other plain people. Their life isn’t dictated by the bar scene. They have families and take summer vacations,have brunch with their friends on Sunday and take their kids to ballet class. They don’t care what Roosh says, or whether a high-powered DC attorney would want to fuck them or date them.
The fact that you live in a world where your way is the only way makes YOU delusional. I know it’s cool to be single and alpha and hitting the hottest thing that wanders up to the bar these days, but you gotta wonder who is ultimately happier…the dude with a sub-par wife who makes him pancakes every saturday, or the dude who spends his life country-hopping for adolescent drunk girls. Just saying…

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Latino and black men like “thick” women. I consistently see sexy latino or black men with fat women. This rule doesn’t apply there.

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Anonymous, whoever you are (the one who’s posted two tirades on this thread insulting Roosh)… Roosh is not prescribing his code of conduct for everyone. His blog, his book, his stories and his advice, for what they’re worth, are targeted at a very specific audience.

It’s funny, your second little diatribe sounded like a speech by Mike Huckabee or something. Very funny, but it has nothing to do with what Roosh is actually doing on this site.

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So where would you say the most attractive women are in the US? Narrow it down to a single zip code if possible; I hate walking far.

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You need to travel a little more. Go to a good Colorado-Oklahoma American-style football game and it’s like you’ve found Norway in America. Same for deep south (Georgia, South Carolina, Alabama, etc). They’re into looking good.

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Every girl should at some point experience short-ish hair; it’s a worthwhile realization.

Not to mock you, but word has it that Neil Strauss is writing The Game for women.

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Spot on job my friend, spot on.

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southern girls are beautiful. west coast talent is pretty strong. even mid american has some good ones. does that mean DC and hte rest of the northeast is just plain unlucky?

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Northeast just unlucky???? I can say that New Jersey and New York have some smoking hot girls…

But the Jersey attitude is notoriously bad… so yea maybe we are unlucky

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Joe T, I’ve lived in London – currently live in NY – and I continue to travel between the two cities. London does not have more talent than NY has, it simply doesn’t. You can’t exclude the borroughs when speaking of NY either. Moreover, the UK doesn’t hold a candle to the talent in Norway or Sweden. London has benefited from a recent surge of Polish immigration but that’s very recent. I don’t see London as being anymore diverse than NY. In my opinion the most underrated place in Europe is Estonia, specifically Tallinn.

However, I think NY is anomolous for the northeast. The best looking women in the US continue to be found out west and in the south. What Manhattan women suffer from, which takes away from their attractiveness (and I single out Manhattan girls) is self-selection. Many come to NY because they are ambitious, agressive, and many Manhattan girls are obsessive status seekers. These girls don’t know how to relax.

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how does chicago fair in the rankings? i’m talking looks and personality.

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anon, you need to travel more. Ok, Co? you’re joking right? Try major cities in Italy, Japan and France. They’re beautiful there.

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Joe T – I must say I disagree with you. There are TONS of attractive women in DC all over the friggin place, where do you hang out? Go to Lauriol Plaza in Adams Morgan on a weekend, or hit some of the newer spots like Ibiza, Posh, Fly. I was at Ibiza when they brought Kim Assdashian (I think DJ AM spun that night) and I could have sworn that I was in Mansion at South Beach. It was like a United Nations meeting, beautiful women all shapes, colors and sizes. Sorry Joe T but i’m calling BS on that comment.

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DF, thanks for your comments.

I agree that NYC is a huge hotbed of beautiful women. I just think London is thicker. In NYC the majority of the beautiful girls hang out in Midtown and the Upper West Side, near 7th Avenue, Lincoln Center, and the Juilliard. Most seem to be starving actress types. So they are there for a reason.

In London it’s just your rank-and-file British girls who are there for no other reason but that it’s their home. They’re the natives.

In the boroughs of NYC yes, you have a some talent, but a lot of that is “ethnic”. You also have a lot of unusual ethnic mixes from all the immigrants. You might meet a girl who is Greek, Arab, and Norwegian, who’s like 6’2″, with Middle Eastern looks except blue eyes. That’s the kind of talent you occasionally see in New York.

Unfortunately never been to Scandinavia except Iceland. Icelandic girls are definitely hot, but not much more so than, say, German girls. In Iceland you also have a small but significant subset of the population with exotic “Eskimoish” or “Lapp” looks like Bjork.

I knew someone was gonna bring up the Poles and other Eastern Europeans who have flooded into London. Yes, they tend to be very good looking, but when I praise the women of London, I am NOT talking about recent Polish and Slovenian immigrants. I’m talking about the native-born English girls, who actually have a more intense and distinctly unique brand of hotness even than the Eastern Euros.

Put an English 10 beside an Eastern European “10” any day and maybe you’ll see what I mean. They are in two completely different categories. The English girl will make your head spin, at least they do mine.

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“But I don’t want a guy who just appreciates my looks. I’m intelligent, independent, witty, funny, blah blah.”

the right guy will enjoy those things, too.

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I think young DC (and other American) women don’t go out solo because they’ve grown up with their ear stuck to a cell phone. They have no idea how to be alone with their self. They think it’s abnormal NOT to be talking to someone and looking for approval from others.

If I was a guy, I’d run from any woman who was ALWAYS with other people. She’s going to turn out to be a very needy Cling-on.
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hope:
Women can do a lot of mean and unfair things, and they can overcome the “looks” barrier easily.

this is a myth perpetuated by woman on the cusp of attractiveness who want to believe they still have a shot at snagging an alpha. the truth is that the typical woman can only boost her score at most 0.5 points by the proper application of makeup and sexy clothes. the underlying bone structure of her face and the natural tone of her skin, plus her youth, will account for 90% of how her beauty is perceived by men.
the morning after, that 7.5 girl the guy met the night before is going to revert to her natural state of looking like a 7.

df:
In my opinion the most underrated place in Europe is Estonia, specifically Tallinn.

the last two 10s i met were both estonians from tallinn.
my travel plans are set.

roissy’s last blog post: Moving Day Vignette.