How Hedonistic Game Became The Gateway To Virtuous Truths

When people ask me about my current position fighting in the culture war, years after starting my writing career with “Bang” books, I simply say, “I just wanted to get laid.” From these hedonistic beginnings opened a path that I find myself in today. A reviewer of my new book Free Speech Isn’t Free also noticed this transformation:

I’ve been following the ‘Red Pill’ community for a a few years now. The members therein have been engaging in some of the most relevant conversations anywhere on the net. Roosh is one I’ve only recently become familiar with as I tend to appreciate and relate more to the more traditionalist members like Vox Day, Dalrock, and Roissy.

What is so fascinating about guys like Roosh is how their journey to acquire more sex and attention from highly attractive women has led them stumbling across uncomfortable truths about the world that we men of the West find ourselves living in.

This book is a very straightforward account of an encounter that an iconic Red Pill pillar had with the traditional media community that exposes a truly shocking level of laziness and corruption on the part of an institution that we are supposed to respect for some reason. I remember watching from a social media distance as these events went down and I had no idea just how bad it was.

I really admire the stones on this kid and I hope he stays motivated and encourages more people to be bold with the truth (which is always unPC). I’m not a fan of lotharios but I appreciate intellectual honesty and bravery. I hope Roosh’s Neomasculinity gets legs. I really do.

How did game serve as the gateway drug? Simple: I kept asking why, as if I was an annoying 8-year-old child.

  • Why are woman attracted to me when I dance and act like an entertaining clown?
  • Why did my father not have to act like a clown to attract my mom?
  • Why has society changed to encourage women to pursue exciting “bad boys” and clowns over good men?
  • Why are institutions like the media and universities pushing women into behaviors which harm them and the family unit?
  • Why is there a concealed group of elites who seem to control politicians and the most important institutions?
  • Why are those institutions attacking me for speaking the truth?

There wasn’t only one step from having fun into the nightclub to fighting back against social justice warriors and the media, but several steps that had to take place over the past 15 years. My path weaved through sex and gender relations, but there are other paths as well, which I describe in The 5 Paths To Realizing Truth. For example, minimalism is another point of entry:

When you live below your means, you begin to see that most people are unnecessarily living above theirs. That leads to the conclusion that they were trained to live a life of excess by corporations with the complicit help of a government that wants to keep society in a neverending state of indebtedness and distraction so they ignore everyday injustices while losing any will or desire to fight the establishment. The easiest stepping stone out of The Truman Show is to realize that consumer lifestyles are not the path to happiness, and those those who chase material possessions are misguided.

Many other men have also had a similar path as myself, whereby promiscuous sex was a device for understanding the world and deciding on behaviors that are more sustainable to the male soul. While not every man gains wisdom during the stage of his life where he wants to sow his royal oats, many do, and they use that wisdom to devise solutions that can solve our modern problems. I do not at all regret engaging in shallow sex with many dozens of women throughout the world, because it has developed my thinking into what you read now, even though the sex itself wasn’t especially memorable and didn’t give me much except momentary pleasure.

From my current vantage point, it really does feel like it was all pre-determined, as if I was supposed to participate in shallow intimacy in order to arrive at true understanding, but that would imply some sort of divine providence. Whatever the mechanism, it’s clear to me that many of the behaviors and ideas we hold now could be mere way-stations for a grander, more universal truth. Whatever individual journey you’re a part of, I hope we’ll find out soon enough.

To see the whole story of how the media attacked me with an incredible attack of 1,600+ media articles, along with my analysis of the establishment’s master plan, check out my new book Free Speech Isn’t Free. It has a balanced mix of narrative and ideology that will also give you actionable advice to help defend yourself against establishment attacks. Click here to learn more about the book or order it now on Amazon.

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It’s extremely important to hold regular meetings in real life and get organized at an international level. I would say it’s even safer to accomplish this outside of the USA, with one of the key items on the agenda being creating wealth for neomasculinist individuals through various collective efforts (to be discussed in private for obvious reasons).

I urge you to organize this on an international level… Looking forward to your updates. You know how to reach my via mail.

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I meet with guys all the time, but official organization is not there. My position is a bit fragile; it may not be me who succeeds with that task.

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You’ve said twice now (once in your QA). What do you mean “fragile” ? Do you fear that they will be coming after you or your family ?

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He’s been doxxed multiple times and his family has gotten threats. It was covered in the Q & A’s on youtube.

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Yes… that is exactly what Roosh means (if I might dare a hypothesis). The rabbit hole Roosh is now going down leads to a very, very, very dark place. The individuals in this place do NOT play games.

As long as Roosh was being Roosh the GAME clown (no insult intended, just viewing Roosh as the elite would see him) teaching men to get laid and helping fuel the war between the sexes with article after article on how degenerate western women have become (and there is truth in this, but truth that serves the elite) and how much young men should focus on getting their dick wet and money in their wallet to pursue pussy and not marriage/family, “they” would leave him alone.

Once he started asking WHY things are as they are, and writing about it… he was marked. We all know which article brought down ROK with its first serious DDOS attack that required him to upgrade his server security and defenses. (if my memory is correct)

I think in the past year, Roosh has seen a side of the elite monster that not many people do who are just passive observers. Think Eyes Wide Shut or even The Gangs Of New York (just watched last night, Scorsese at his best once again).

There is a world that you and I, and the sheeple especially, not only would not believe, but are incapable of intellectually, morally and emotionally processing actually exists.

I think for Roosh to continue fighting this fight, he is going to have to go big or go home. Take this fight to a whole other level. A level that makes him SO prominent and in the spot light, so big, so “somebody”, that “they” will have to re-think how to intimidate/coerce him back into compliance or if “taking him out” is even a viable political option anymore (Think Mike and D&P – too big to ignore, and too big to have suddenly disappear) .

Many people may not like (or even fully trust) Alex Jones, but the man has a voice and a bullhorn that has been used to broadcast the truth for so long they can’t just “remove” him from the chessboard. I think this may be what Roosh (just a guess) is now contemplating – move forward in this fight, or find a nice girl and quietly exit with full respect from me for doing so.

You and I can sit here and comment on how Roosh should do this or that or start an international meeting group etc, but we have no idea the forces he has seen and perhaps even contact him warning him about the path he is embarking on and subtly persuading him to just leave well enough alone.

Kill The Messenger is a movie that not many have seen I suspect. It tells the tale of the very first journalist using the internet to spread the truth and what happened to him. (trailer below). Gary Webb was not big enough. Roosh’s profile, by fate or divine providence, is bigger, but is it big enough?

I know… that sounds like serious, conspiracy scary shit, but you have no idea… NO IDEA… how important this false financial/political/cultural narrative is to those with power. 1984 and A Brave New World are not books of fiction, they are blueprints, real plans, for the future “utopia” for humanity.

I don’t know what Roosh has planned for the future, but if it was finding a nice girl and settling down in a country/culture that has not completely degenerated, I would not fault him at all. Scorsese hints at this in Gangs Of New York. Men will always be out fighting other men, but those are the men that end up dead. Maybe it will take another wave of masculine murder and chaos to cleanse the world of the shit it is in, but make no mistake. What comes out of the chaos will not be what the elite hoped for. Chaos is chaos for a reason, it is unpredictable. No amount of centuries of guidance and planning can guide chaos to a determined end. Only truth can create order. And the truth out in the world now is far to large for any one of “them” to contain, control of shape.

https://youtu.be/VW4XO-52ubE

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MDM, would you be able to share which article you think it was, please? I’m very interested in this myself. I just didn’t, at the time, think it was connected to anything else, because I saw a number of websites around that time being DDOS’d.

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I believe this was the article. I remember reading it an thinking “Oh boy… he is asking for it.” And sure enough, that week the DDOS stuff started in earnest. I remember trying to visit and getting the CloudFlare processing screen for at least a month after that article.

http://www.returnofkings.com/72572/why-is-there-a-prolific-jewish-presence-in-the-american-feminist-movement

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I think he is using the Fragile vs Anti-Fragile concepts the from the author of the books Black Swan and “Anti-Fragile” ….

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Interesting. Just looked up those books and you could be right. I found this write up on Amazon interesting for Anti-Fragile.

“a map and a protocol on how we should live in a world we don’t understand”

You may find this to sound insane, but I think the world is VERY easy to understand. The old religious texts are as sound today as when they were revealed/written.

The problem of man in the 21st century is not that he lives in a world he does not understand.

The problem of man today is he is incapable and does not want to understand the world, because the truth is not to his liking.

I look out on the world… and it makes all to painful and depressing sense to me. The errors of man so clear, the solutions so simple.

To the humble, the world and man are no mystery.

To the ego focused, all the world is opaque.

When man denies God, he denies knowledge. Thus, Taleb needs to write 544 pages to try to “understand” the world and how man can make his way in it.

Still going to give it a search in my local library. Sound like a good read.

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Yup… just reading the short look inside on Amazon and a little of the write up on Taleb on Wikipedia. This Taleb dude, I can guarantee you, is most likely an atheist and 100% Darwin science/evolutionist. Even if he is not, he seems to have completely failed to grasp WHY random events happen. We are not supposed to know the future, and never will. Learning to live happily with the unknown is the very CORE of all religious teachings. How he spends over 500 pages reducing God, man’s purpose and destination to some anti-fragile intellectual mumbo jumbo is beyond me. It really does speak to the complete death of our times of knowledge OF death and man’s reason for being given life.

To break this down more simply… to the atheist, “randomness” is scary. To those who believe in God and man’s purpose, there is nothing random in the world at all – it’s all part of the plan.

This… is the fundamental divide in the entire world right now. Man has reached a state of “knowledge” where he feels he can throw out God, and replace him with Anti-Fragility.

I only came to God later in life, but it amazes me when I meet someone who denies or ignores God as irrelevant to our times. Every time I meet an atheist/denier of God (or simply someone who does not think about God at all), they seem completely incapable of understanding the most simple things about man and his place in the world. They all seem to be running around looking for some big theory, some new way, of living, as if Man has suddenly become some new creature now that he is descended from an ape, and not a divine creation.

From Taleb Wikipedia: “Taleb’s writings discuss the error of comparing real-world randomness with the “structured randomness” in quantum physics where probabilities are remarkably computable and games of chance like casinos where probabilities are artificially built.”

Structured randomness? Who is playing with words now. Either something is RANDOM, or it is not. If there is STRUCTURE, that means there is a PLAN… a design… a purpose.

I am sure Taleb is a fine intellectual. But when you spend your ENTIRE LIFE trying to figure out how to GAME the financial ponzi scheme that is the casino of markets/finance “to attain independence and freedom from authority”… you are talking about a mind that has been looking in the wrong direction for true knowledge his entire life.

The world. Money. None of it is real. From Buddhists to Christians, ALL of the history of mankinds intellectual development in religious thinking is about how to break free from the illusions of THIS world, and come to know the next. Taleb implicity denies this is possible with his denial of Plato’s theory of forms. Is he correct in saying that a wrong map of reality is worse than no map at all? Of course. But to dismiss METAPHYSICAL speculation completely, and try to find an EMPIRICAL set of rules to build in robust ability to thrive from “randomness”… is just as silly.

Really… his whole book could be summed up with one sentence.

“When shit happens, roll with it and see what comes out of it.”

Seriously. 544 pages to become “anti fragile”, and my father taught me that in one off handed remark about how to handle life’s unexpected events.

I am glad I am not an intellectual and I hope I never become one. LOL

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Some more questions:

Why did men throughout history from all cultures oppress and hold back their women from riding cock carousels? Didn’t they want them to be free and empowered strong brave bitches?

Why did the institution of religion, and before that, paganism, dictate rules for family organization, sex, children, and property?

Why did a controlled society, sheltered from degeneracy, operating under aristocracy and patriarchy, and under strict moral codes, develop European civilization, the most advanced societies the planet has known?

Why is there almost no significant force today in the west that supports a traditional moral lifestyle and shuns degeneracy?

Why is Islam, one of the only belief systems that supports traditional lifestyle, at war with distant western powers?

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“Why is Islam, one of the only belief systems that supports traditional lifestyle, at war with distant Western powers?”

Islam is being used as a tool by the elites who are hell-bent on usurping yet more power. The most radical elements of Islam are deliberately supported and promoted, and are deliberately allowed to disseminate through the West. I don’t think Islam would be even half the threat it now poses to the West if not for the machinations of the elites.

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It’s similar to how they will eliminate guns. This could be done with only a dozen bad apples. After 3 months of weekly violent mass events like the homo nightclub killer, school shootings, etc., even NRA members will be calling for something to be done. So take, 3 x 4 = 12 bad gun owners while the vast majority of the remaining 200 million are peaceful and law abiding, but the tiny minority will be used to quickly and quietly defeat the 200m peaceful.

The same will be done with Islam. The radical violent Islamists are being used as a tool to destroy the one final region of the world who values patriarchy, and opposes globalism and multiculturalism. There are a few thousand, or tens of thousands at most, of the violent ones, and they will be used to remove patriarchy from the world’s 1 billion Muslims.

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“. I don’t think Islam would be even half the threat it now poses to the West if not for the machinations of the elites”

Fuckin’ Gospel.

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more muslim migration to the west —> more terrorism/crime in the west —> more state power (patriot act in america, cctv’s all over the uk, german social media monitoring: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-35105003) to protect us from the terror/crime unleashed by more muslim migration

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Islam has been at war with the West since the conquest of Mecca in 629. The war has waxed and waned since that time.

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Islam and Mormonism have some things in common. And I think they are right on many counts. Both are very conservative and relatively impervious to degenerate western culture.

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It’s been a very interesting ride, watching the entire manosphere drift toward alt right politics. Back in the day, blogs like Roissy and Roosh were nothing but game. People got all butthurt and complainy when he would throw out the odd political article. Now it’s mostly alt right politics with a little bit of game. But to anyone who has been reading this whole time, the transition makes perfect sense.

The thing is, you start tugging at one little lie, and all the rest of the lies start unraveling. If they would lie to us about sexual relations, about families, about misogyny, about the pay gap…what else would they be willing to lie about?

Turns out, the answer is EVERYTHING.

Would you rather have a few more years of being a sexual libertine, or would you rather save your civilization? That’s the stark choice before us now.

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Consummate observation. It takes being in the thick of it to surmise that. I’ve paid a pretty penny taking this less-traveled path, it is however one of righteousness and deep personal worth.

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I’ve always sensed that the game was rigged that is why I refuse to do stuff like clown game. I don’t want to feed egoes that are already bursting with false pride. I want men to regain their pride, and there’s no pride in mass clown approaching.
We as men need not learn “game” though some game is necessary, but to fix the imbalance between the sexes.When there’s balance, everything will open up and people will be happy and respectful again. But if this deroute continues, no amount of game will ever help you because the game will be so rigged that even the fattest ugliest nastiest cunt will have 1000 and 1000 of dating options, and the best looking hunk with supreme game will be lucky to game a fat 5 once every 6 months.
Once you realize that, you’ve opened a can of worms that contains another can of worm and so on.

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Interesting to note that modern studies being done are continually showing us that almost everything we were persuaded to do with our lives leads to lower sperm count, impotence, and childbirth below replacement level. “They” are literally killing us off without firing a shot. Video games, television, porn – all of them reduce your sperm count dramatically and/or make you impotent over time. And they have been pushing these things on all Western boys for a couple generations now.

Credentialism and Careerism for women, video games for men.

Starting a family and rearing children? That’s for blacks, hispanics, and muslims. And we’re supposed to pay for it.

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“Starting a family and rearing children? That’s for blacks, hispanics, and muslims. And we’re supposed to pay for it.”
lol I agree with everything else you said but the above quoted part…
Blacks, Hispanics or “Muslims” (by “Muslim” do you mean Middle Eastern “Arab people” or those Arabs who are “Muslims” by religion?) aren’t doing too swell and well concerning “family raising” and it’s unfortunate the System is designed to tax the people to death unjustly. Amen.
~ Bro. Jed

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That comment was based on the fact that those three groups are poorer than Whites on average, and also have far more children than Whites on average. They are on welfare, paid by generous White taxpayers, at a much higher rate per capita. I stand by my statement, but I bear you no ill will bro.

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Well yeah, I agree with you that white people are being taxed unfairly and it’s going into welfare programs that minorities like African Americans and Hispanics often leech and depend on.
My only distinction is that “family-raising” isn’t anything “easy” without struggles given the broken single-parent (usually “single mom”) homes almost characteristic of many black and Hispanic families.
Yeah, minority folks are making more babies, but many sure ain’t “raising them well” as a “healthy family” to put it mildly.
Otherwise you are correct and I know you mean well.
May we seek after the Wisdom of God in our daily life matters. Amen.
~ Sincerely,
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for blacks ???? hardly. their men are locked up during their most fertile years as a matter of state policy and Planned Parenthood sites are placed where they live.

As a matter of fact,Planned Parenthood was started as eugenics against them.

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It doesn’t matter, look at their number, their fertility rate is still higher than the average white and way higher than asians.

And their men are locked up because they commit crimes, not because the state has some sort of policy to lock them up for no reason.

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“It doesn’t matter, look at their number, their fertility rate is still higher than the average white and way higher than asians.”

It does matter and you are correct that black men, African Americans have a higher fertility rate currently compared to Whites and Asians.

“And their men are locked up because they commit crimes, not because the state has some sort of policy to lock them up for no reason.”

True. Many black men on whole commit crimes and receive just punishment for their crimes; however, on the other side of the coin, many black men are also unfairly targeted by racial prejudices and bias and wrongfully framed as suspects of crimes they did not commit and are punished unjustly. Two sides to that story.

Please be sure to see the issue from both sides. Amen.
~ Bro. Jed

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Jed, one thing many Whites overlook is that many Blacks are thrown in jail for knocking up a girl then failing to pay for child support.

Get rid of draconian Child Support laws and Black incarceration would go down significantly.

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True. Definitely agree. I also don’t condone my fellow black men out there “knocking up” women with bastard kids out of wedlock knowing it will lead to this mess…
Smh… Messing their own selves up too though… Amen.

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“Video games, television, porn – all of them reduce your sperm count dramatically and/or make you impotent over time. ” Cite source?
Also, how come some governments such as that of the UK actually want to ban porn then?

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Don’t be a lazy ass. Google it. These studies have been widely published lately.
I haven’t heard of the UK wanting to ban porn but if I had to guess I’d say it’s yet another way to appease their islamic invaders.

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Word ^^

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The ability to see through lies is a widely applicable skill.

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Men and women are very different (truly from Venus vs. the Mars thing), and as time goes by men evolve. We don’t just grow old but evolve. Historically men have had the highest impact upon shaping society.

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Men created literally every single infrastructural advancement from civil engineering touchable roads, bridges, commodity delivery systems, to virtual reality and everything in between. The basis for all of modern life itself.. in walks feminism and the “emotioned” gender to the “career field” to do what? Add to advancement? There is no doubt this was social engineering by the elites to stave away power from noble men.

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“Historically men have had the highest impact upon shaping society.”
Understatement of the day.

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Please do NOT use the word “gender” as a replacement of “sex”. If we speak like them, we’ll never win them.

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Just be aware that the truth movement is another mine field – too many disinformation sites mixing some truths with plenty of lies.

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I agree. There’s a point that you understand the main agenda and should carry on with your life.

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what’s the best way to converse or meet with you roosh? thank you

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Omegle

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funny

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maybe part of the reason this movement has trouble gaining momentum is the constant sniping at one another. it was an honest question. I had a brief FB convo going with Roosh and just wanted to continue in more depth. in case you’re reading this R I’m of a similar age an also went down the path of excess though in a different way. my motivation is simply to get in touch with like minded individuals

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Hedonistic game was my gateway drug as well. Your blog was the first blog on game I read that went deeper than the usual PUA spiel.

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Rollo’s good too especially for the 30+ crowd. Still confused why he and Roosh had a falling out. There aren’t that many founders seems like they should try to get along

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In the 60’s hedonism was the gateway to establishment leftoidism.
Hedonism got us in this mess.
Now hedonism will get us out.

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Thank you, Brother Roosh, for making the arduous journey to truth so we don’t have to.

I just worry that seeing the truth without all the hard work will let me rot in my “basement” without even trying. If the end of your quest is that is all unfulfilling and pointless, why should we even try? Now we notice that the world is corrupt and decadent. Why should we battle the SJWs in charge? That also seems as futile as Quixote battling windmills. Quixote may actually be an apropos metaphor; his time was already no time for knights and chivalry any more and he was also hopelessly anachronistic. So might we be.

So what’s next? Do we find meaning in the fight? Then maybe we are no better than the SJWs who base their life on defeating some external threat, whatever that might be… whitemale privileged power structure and patriarchy. We shouldn’t make the same mistake in defining ourselves by our rivals as tempting as that may be. Indeed hate is a more powerful mobilizer than love. Look at all the “anti-hate” movements, but where are the movements dedicated to actually reaching out and listening to their rivals and opponents?

So instead is there an impulse or positive values strong enough to forge a community instead of hate for “Big Red” and all her various oversized and multicolored sisters?

Often I think that the best solution might be something like the Indian Reservations, territories where we might be left alone and allowed to preserve our unique culture and primitive ways. Obviously that fantasy is ridiculous; there is too much temptation by the world at large as well as the fact that whitemales and the patriarchy are all too useful as melkkuh for the useless extortionsists making up the intersectional victim classes.

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You need Jesus

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Amen.

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I found out about the red pill movement in my 30’s but my mates and I in Oz had long since pioneered our own version with our own game that worked in our city. It was a sense of belonging when I found TRP.

Game is the starting point for men that were fed ‘no means no and that’s all there is to it’ bullshit at school. TRP should be the big awakening. From there just living a strong masculine life as a husband and father with a profitable business and a strong body should sustain the individual man into his 60’s. But I, like the rest of you, are waiting for the organisation aspect to flourish. I live in a city of 1.8m but only 4 of us came to the meet-up.

It’s interesting to hear Roosh say that it might have to be someone else and fair enough too. He’s earned time now for a wife and some kids.

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Roosh do you think falling in love with the right girl (looks, brains, morals, personality) would be better for most guys over madly fornicating?

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If you’re in love with a girl, the odds of getting destroyed by her is extremely high, if not guaranteed.

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“Never, never marry, my dear fellow; that’s my advice to you; don’t marry till you have faced the fact that you have done all you are capable of doing, and till you cease to love the woman you have chosen, till you see her plainly, or else you will make a cruel mistake that can never be set right.

“… you talk of Bonaparte, but Bonaparte when he was working his way up, going step by step straight to his aim, HE WAS FREE; he had nothing except his aim and he attained it.”

“But tie yourself up with a woman, and, like a chained convict, you
lose all freedom. And all the hope and strength there is in you is only a drag on you, torturing you with regret.”

Leo Tolstoy ~ War & Peace

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Was that first quote from Napoleon ?? Wow…

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No, it was between the two main Russian characters – Pierre Bezukhov & Prince Andrei Nikolayevich Bolkonsky – in discussing matters of love and marriage. It is an amazing quote, but Tolstoy’s genius in the novel is to show how folly it is for man to pursue glory for the sake of ego/country when a good wife at home is all a man needs to be truly happy.

That said… I believe Tolstoy was also very on point and I can attest to the quote above. I have a friend who did precisely this – married before seeing his talents and dreams given a true run for the money – and he had a complete mental breakdown just two years before turning 40. There were many factors (alcohol and drugs as well, nothing serious, just the green stuff) but the key take away for me was his marriage to a woman that put the brake on his dreams, and the first born that then buried those dreams forever.

You can live in denial of your true self for only so long, and anger is usually the bubbling tell that someone is not living their life authentically.

This friend has come through, but still has a lot to process as he like to keep repeating.

Marriage is good for a man, but he must, MUST, live his life for himself first. Only when a man can look in the mirror and ACCEPT he has TRIED his best, and thus must now look for what is NEXT (not 2nd best), should he marry.

This is where I am right now. I think I am ready for marriage as I have tried what I wanted to try to achieve in my 30s. It did not work out, but I am telling you, I walk TEN TIMES TALLER than 99% of the men I meet every day who have never tried, or who married and had their dreams crushed and buried from ‘doing the right thing.’

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Roosh is correct. Make sure you cover your bases and have Plan B’s for all women.

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Trump Vows to Screen Immigrants for Anti-Semitism, Keep Out Offenders

Potential immigrants to America would be screened for anti-Semitic sentiments as part of an “extreme vetting” process under a Donald Trump administration, said the GOP presidential nominee at a speech on Monday. He also said that Israel would be a key ally in fighting radical Islam if he were elected.

Read more at http://www.breakingisraelnews.com/74123/trump-vows-screen-immigrants-anti-semitism-keep-offenders/#TGRV4VBVKP6KPf37.99

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I’m sure if elected, Trump will come out as a feminist too.

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Anything is possible. But Hillary is already a feminist, so I’m willing to take the risk on Trump.

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very surprising Roosh. Someone as smart as I thought you were voting? Really?

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Sorry man, we only speak English here.

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Retard

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If you want to get a general feel for how certain women are (depending on their culture or place), just look at the society.

The crazier the society is, the crazier women are.

In order to have a proper female, the society she lives in has to be stable. If the society where the female lives is dysfunctional, you will most likely get women who tend to reveal their uncontrollable, bad traits.

In the United States, we have a lot of social justice warriors and even ‘normal’ men that are totally clueless about women and let women get away with their bad behaviors which is why it isn’t shocking to find that women in the United States act like pitbulls on steroids.

When there is a “hot” women and “hot” is just relative judgment but overall just get a fairly, attractive looking woman. She knows she can get anything she wants. She has the society, other men, workplace, and just about everybody pandering to her. Let’s say you are the only one who says “NO” to her and basically puts her in her own place. She is either going to love you or hate you. That’s what you want from a woman.

It’s better to be hated by a woman than to be ignored. The coldest feeling you can obtain from a woman is indifference.

You can easily turn the “hate” into “love” by giving her passionate, animalistic sex. But you cannot get her turned on once you don’t exist in her mind.

You control her and she controls everybody and pretty much you control the world (metaphorically).

You can control her and she can control thousands of other pathetic beta males out there. I don’t like using the word “alpha” or “beta” but some men out there do act like total simps so I can’t help but to use the word “beta”. I use word like “alpha” very sparingly because it’s most over-used word these days.

I’m absolutely floored when I have women reveal their fetishes; some of the things they have in their mind are too deviant and would probably get men arrested if those acts were actually ‘played’.

In short, our society is crazy therefore women are crazy. Sane men are outnumbered.

You can be hated by the society for speaking the truth like Roosh or

you can pretend like you are with the SJWs but behind laugh and use those same SJWs like the useful idiots that they are.

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The crazier the society is, the crazier women are.

Women are the miners’ canaries of a society, in other words.

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A prominent member of the conspiracy community, Zen Gardner, aka Don Ferguson recently “came out” as a former member of a notorious satanic sex cult.

It’s a mine field out there.

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“Then I applied myself to the understanding of wisdom, and also of madness and folly, but I learned that this, too, is a chasing after the wind.” Eccl. 1:17

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“The easiest stepping stone out of The Truman Show is to realize that consumer lifestyles are not the path to happiness, and those those who chase material possessions are misguided.” I disagree. For a man the path to happiness is attracting hot girls and since girls want a material lifestyle, the only way for a man to get them is to also pursue material things. Of course, not by living above one’s means but by achieving actual wealth. No hermit living in a wooden cabin in the desert ever attracted 9s.

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You’re doing it wrong if you need wealth to attract women.

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I enjoy the things wealth can bring too. Flying with a helicopter, have a private jet, not have to work a slave job for men with helicopters and jets etc. Wealth is power. Other than that, I have some aspie traits that prevent me from fully developing game. I get that an Italian tour guide has more charm than a Slovak accountant but it is what it is and I can’t game like a charming Italian without it looking try-hard and utterly ridiculous.

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You’re a bright chap. The meaningless sex was only a phase.

Don’t make women your mission.

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Has anybody heard of the comic book “Cerebus”? Its creator, Dave Sim, went on exactly this kind of journey from 1977 to 2004, the period he created the comic. He was writing about ‘game’ before there was such a term and was reviled for saying what he actually thought. He’s since become devoutly religious, extreme right-wing, and won’t even have contacts with people who don’t sign a petition stating that they don’t think he’s a misogynist. Which he isn’t, he’s just stating the truth about women as he sees it, which he learned trying to get laid as often as possible.

I try to avoid bothering people in the manosphere because I don’t have game and don’t aspire to learn it, but I do enjoy reading webpages, etc. from the more prominent in the manosphere. However, I am currently trying to convince Dave that there is a potential audience for him. I don’t know how he can find it and make a profit, but maybe I can help the audience find him and make a profit.

I’m not going to troll this site or anything like that, promoting some guy who makes comic books, but Roosh’s essay reads like a 21st Century version of what Dave was doing in the 20th Century.
The first link is text pieces from his graphic novel “Reads” which came out in the mid-90s, the second is an essay he wrote around 2000 or 2001.
http://www.theabsolute.net/misogyny/sim.html
http://www.theabsolute.net/misogyny/tangents.html

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Whoever is gaining more political power is winning. And in the USA where it’s 1 man 1 vote, woe be unto the side with dwindling numbers.