How Important Is It For A Man To Suffer And Bleed?

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I love Poland. A true globetrotting playboy knows when it’s time to kick back and enjoy low-hanging fruit, and when it’s time to get down and bleed. Poland for the former, while places like Argentina and Spain for the latter.

After a few months of bliss, boredom and complacency sets in, and you’re longing for girls to feign indifference and play a mind game or two rather than show their cards right away. As a man, I just love the novelty and struggle of the chase too much, otherwise I’d live there forever. Great in the short-term though.

Not all guys have great success in Poland, but if you have the right key then the girls put out surprisingly fast.

I have the right key.

My game is not going up in Poland because what I had before arriving was insanely overkill. I came packing nuclear bombs when all I needed were slingshots. About two months in, I started to get “bored” of banging so much. I wanted to go somewhere else where I would struggle a bit and then have to come up with new methods or tactics. And then I slapped the fuck out of myself.

I bled for four years in high school, unable to talk to a pretty girl without urinating in my pants.

I bled for four years in college, constantly stuck in the friends zone with girls I hoped would give me pity sex.

I bled for nearly a decade in DC, improving my game on career-driven cunts who didn’t make me happy.

I bled for six months on my first South America trip, trying to figure out why my DC game wasn’t working on Latin girls, all while shitting my brains out due to various infections.

I bled for two months in Denmark on girls who were even worse than the DC girls I hated.

And then a short while into Poland I considered leaving because I believed that struggling was necessary to my growth as a man. Truth is I’m not sure how to live without bleeding.

I look at my reflection in the mirror a little longer these days, to make sure what I’m experiencing is real. I savor the moment because soon I will become numb to what is making me happy right now. I will stay in Poland until I no longer care about sex, until I need to give my dick a rest, until the thought of fucking another 110 pound Polish girl disgusts me. I will stay in Poland until I get deported. Maybe this will take another month, maybe another three months, maybe longer, but I would be a damn fool to leave when all my dreams are being met in a place that is as close to natural viagra as I’ve found.

I originally planned on some grand European voyage of visiting ten countries, but now that’s out the window. I will stay in Poland indefinitely, because I don’t want to bleed anymore.

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Ugg
Ugg
9 years ago

Leben ist kampf.

cupojohan
cupojohan
9 years ago

Off-topic: Roosh, any chance of the day game book being released while it’s still summer and the bitches are still in heat?

Bigfoot
9 years ago

The bleeding is what makes our game grow tight, but countries like Poland is why we learn game.

Brian
Brian
9 years ago

I came to a similar realization a little while ago about American women after getting involved with Brazillian and Italian women.

American women aren’t all useless wastes of space. But the few that aren’t are snatched up pretty quickly. I have a few friends who have been married for years, after meeting their sweet and beautful wives while they were still in high school or college.

But if you weren’t lucky enough to manage that, your best bet for being happy with a woman is to find one that didn’t grow up here, so she avoided all the feminist brain washing that makes them all so hateful and just generally miserable to be around.

Magic
Magic
9 years ago

Roosh, Im polish and from my observations you have paradise here for a reason. You have strong game, and evrything play to your hand. You are tall and this important in Poland, dark but american and this is killing combination here and give you massive status. We generally like americans and our gilrs educated one love to speak english but they dont feel so confident when they speak and evrything seem to them more funny than it actualy is. You also find already two best cities in Poland with beutiful girls and without competition at all. Congratulation I think that you find your fishbowl where dark american guy have more advantage than blonde guy in Rio, enjoy! (I have to warn you that living long term in Poland espacially in winter may dissapoint, and you have check out also some some places where you been even more desired like lithuania for exemple!
Be respectful to our girls , and good luck, maybe i will go to Brazil to find my fishbowl too:)

Magic
Magic
9 years ago

Chech republic is also a killer but not, Prague, Brno!

Seed
Seed
9 years ago

You sound inamorated.

spinaroonie
spinaroonie
9 years ago

So if you can’t get laid here move to a Third World country. Wow, this had never occured to me before. You are a genius, what a ground-breaking discovery. Man, you definetely should write an ebook on the subject, this is so unheard of.

Does this work in other Third World countries too? Say, Thailand or the Philippines? I was thinking of Estonia, would that work? Pls make a list of Third World countries that will get me laid, thx.

outlaw josey wales
outlaw josey wales
9 years ago

Poland is not a third world country.

Brian
Brian
9 years ago

An honest, great post man. Keep it up – that sounds easy to do in Poland. The girls there might not be stunners, but they have a feminine, easy-going, girl next door look and vibe that is fun to be around. Sounds like fun times in Poland.

Shallow Hal
Shallow Hal
9 years ago

Polish girls love the kielbasa =)

Yams
Yams
9 years ago

@spinaroonie

If you think Poland is a third-world country then its obvious that you live in a bubble.

Wolfie
Wolfie
9 years ago

Roosh, what is it about your game style that makes it work so well there? Different cultures need different approaches, and as one who dearly loves the shapes and minds of Polish women, I would love to hone my game for them.

Polski
Polski
9 years ago

Calling 20th biggest economy the third world = hater fail

Tampa
Tampa
9 years ago

Such an awesome post. Congrats man.

Carmo
Carmo
9 years ago

@8
Funny how tons of ignorant white trash Americans who live in nowhereville think that everywhere outside of America is the 3rd world. One day in a place like Poland or anywhere else in Europe and the US starts looking like a decrepit hell hole.

BTW your argument is awful. If bar A is filled with fat ugly people, and bar B is filled with hot young nubile women where are you going to spend your time?

Arcey
9 years ago

Carmo says: ‘Funny how tons of ignorant white trash Americans who live in nowhereville think that everywhere outside of America is the 3rd world’

They don’t think that at all. they just apreciate what they have and absolve themselves of the quest for greatness outside of their culture. On the flipside plenty of somewhereville residents falsely identify consumer culture with high culture and get as much from foreign travel as they would from a trip to the mall. The former is like roosh, absolved, the latter is still bleeding for glory.

The G Manifesto
9 years ago

Damn Roosh, you did a lot of bleeding before Poland.

I never really bleed in the early years (well, junior high wasn’t that great), but I keep on going to Spain (now) and Argentina (last April).

I need some Poland and Thailand in my life.

Both are on the docket.

– MPM

Epic
Epic
9 years ago

I wonder how much of Roosh’s success in Poland is just his “look.”

Roosh has never had a boost because of his looks, so maybe he is overlooking this crucial fact and attributing too much of his success to game.

Lumiere
Lumiere
9 years ago

I notice that my game suffers too when I am in a place I get laid really easily (like Philippines).

Going to places like Poland sounds like a great way to get laid but not a great way to improve your game.

Then you have to ask yourself why you are in the game to begin with?

To be good at dealing with bitch shields carried around by fugly, feminazi mall rats or to have sex with real women?

Sherwood Schwarz
Sherwood Schwarz
9 years ago

The beard and long hair are turbo boosters in Poland.

Johnny Milfquest
9 years ago

Aside from Game, I can think of two reasons why Poland is working out well for Roosh.

1. The girls there dig his swarthy looks.
2. Roosh digs the way Polish girls look.

I think I’d have to go to Brazil to get the same effect as a nordic-looking guy.

Tuthmosis
Tuthmosis
9 years ago

“I will stay in Poland indefinitely.”

I called that shit from jump street. You’ve chosen wisely. To quote BT Express, “do it till you’re satisfied.”

outlaw josey wales
outlaw josey wales
9 years ago

I think what Roosh is describing is also known as happiness.

Maybe you should look here Roosh: http://polish-citizenship.eu/foreigners.html

Jake
9 years ago

How about not posting these kinds of things, B-roosh Lee? It’s making me envious. It’s making me want to move to Poland. It’s demotivating me from talking to these American bitches in this coffee shop.