How To Game Young Girls

The following advice is meant to be used on girls between the ages of 18 to 22, a range that is close to the ideal.

1. Treat them poorly. Young girls are very responsive to asshole game, until they become desensitized and sometimes even repulsed by it in their later years when they primarily seek a provider. These days the only girls who would be responsive to classic negs are the young ones. They have no asshole immunity like the bitter and jaded bunch who have seen (and fucked) it all.

Sample move: If she’s acting feisty say, “Do you normally act like this? You know it’s not too late to enroll in charm school. I hear that’s making a comeback.”

2. Don’t go for structured dates. They’ll flake on you without apology, and then laugh to their friends when you show annoyance. Do more last-minute and same-night planning, which reinforces number one on the list. Roissy has more about this point here. I completely agree with his sentiments.

Sample move: Keep taking her to your favorite dive bar. When she asks what you did on the nights you didn’t spend with her, mention cool places you visited with “a friend.” Make her think she’s being kept away from the hip spots because you’re embarrassed of her.

3. Bring up her flaws and casually write them off as a case of her being too young. Keep her insecure by hinting that she has yet to hit her potential as a real woman. Maybe one day she’ll be good enough for you, but not yet.

Sample move: When thinking of getting her number say, “I think you’re cool, but you’re so young. How about for a first date we go to Chuck E Cheese. We can play some fun games and they’ll be no pressure for you to maintain a long conversation. I won’t judge you.”

4. Do not bring up having a serious relationship before she does. A young girl is especially aware of the power balance of new relationships, and will jump ship when she realizes she’s “winning.” Make her struggle instead to pin you down.

Sample move: When the girl suggests to take things to the next level, discount her feelings by saying, “Are you joking?” Ouch. Heh.

5. Do not underestimate her game. Do not lower your guard for one second and feel that you can breeze through, because before you know it, she will get the upper hand and you’ll be sitting there like an idiot wondering what happened. The average 21-year-old girl has game that is three times as potent than the average 31-year-old guy (many times I’ve found myself doing moves in my late 20s that I remember being done to me by a girl in her early 20s). Even teenage girls barely out of puberty surprise me with their game awareness.

Sample move: If she takes two hours to write back to a text (besides her typical one hour response time), don’t overlook it as something insignificant—it could be a major test. To play it safe, take a full day to respond back.

6. Make her think you only want her for sex. While you want to do this for every girl in the early stages of a relationship, you need to make this more clear for the young girl. Because she knows she’s not good enough for you (see number 4), she’ll take extra steps in lovemaking to keep you interested. Think of her as the little whore that you’re using as a personal fuck toy. It’s not like she has much more value than that anyway.

Sample move: Make an excuse as to why you can’t hang with her after finding out she’s on her period.

7. Avoid wasting your time with status plays. Young girls care very little about status (e.g. if you live in your dad’s basement or not). For them it’s all about feeling feeling feeling. If you’re trying to impress a young girl, you’ve already failed with her. If you only knew the losers they normally fuck, you’d understand that attraction-building (see number 1 and 2) should be your main focus. You don’t even need comfort with a lot of them.

Sample move: Live in your dad’s basement.

8. Act younger than your age. I have a sister who is seven years young than I am, so I know their style of humor, the way they talk, and their general interests (for me it’s actually easier to connect with a 23-year-old girl than a hag my age). It’s okay if you’re 40 years old, but it’s not okay if you look and act 40 years old. If you don’t know how to connect with her on even a basic level, then you won’t have enough juice to bang her.

Sample move: Make insightful observations about a show she watches, like how Pauly D is the only guy on Jersey Shore that you’d hang out with in real life because of how cool and funny he is.

The bottom line with young girls is to bring out your most assholish nature, keep your game tight, and enjoy plundering pussy that will be loose and dry only five years in the future.

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OGNorCal707
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I don’t care about being the first to reply, but for all you who do. First.

Good insights as always Roosh, as a “nice guy” I think it kind of sucks that young girls like being treated like shit so much. But hey, whatever works, right?

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What about the coveted 12-16 age range? Offer candy from the window of a van?

or how about a post on “how to tell the officer you were just helping the young girl find her parents”

ako
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if you need that kind of advice, you should be on different websites. As far as i know 21 is counted as adult age.

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ive done that, im 33yrs old and I went to the local fair, and I picked up a 14yr old girl, it was too easy bro, I asked her if I can buy her a burrito and fries, she said yes, and we were there sitting talking, she didn’t even me how old I was or anything, I still see her every now and than for fun times.

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Aw, dude! You’re waiting too long for the candy move! That’s for 8-12.

And don’t forget to black out the windows of the van! That’s how I, um, that’s how a friend of mine got caught! Yea, that’s it! A friend, yea, that’s the ticket, ya! smile

virlge kent
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“Sample move: Live in your dad’s basement.”

I knew I was doing something wrong

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Fuckin hell Roosh, talk about perfect timing with a post. There’s an 18yo I’m trying to bang just now, I check out the blog and to my delight I have my strategy laid out infront of me. Here’s to a (hopeful) 18yo notch before Christmas!

@ poster number 1 – I don’t know how long you’ve been in the game for, or how heavily involved you are/plan to be, but yeah, acting like an asshole definitely works. Don’t feel bad about not being Mr Nice Guy; I was the ultimate nice guy and if I can get over it anyone can. I look back at my emotional tampon days with a mixture of shame, bewilderment and amusement. One of my brothers (24yo) acts like his GF’s little puppy dog whereas the other (19yo) has learned early how to keep his ho’s in check. I for one am proud of him.

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” Keep her insecure by hinting that she has yet to hit her potential as a real woman”

the girl I’m effing told me how much she hates the word “Potential” hehe

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Too bad this wasn’t posted yesterday! Duly noted tho

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What about advise for guys who are in the 18-22 range? Asshole game works a charm, but using the same aloof, A&A and kino runs time in, time out, get noticed.

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If you’re trolling for trim in a college town, don’t let their college friends without money stand in your way. You should know by now obstacles can come into play at any second. A few dollars on a cover charge that is way too expensive for them can be thought of as one of those bar crawls where you donate a can or two of food to charity to get the discount price. Think of the big picture and close it like clockwork. Treat them like children at all times. Don’t be surprised if they just vanish without reason. And don’t follow up to see what’s up. They’re still chasing the new, shiny thing every second. Be glad you got your work done when you had the chance.

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“Act younger than your age.”

Come on Roosh this one is dangerous.

You are going to make a bunch of 30-40 year olds rush out to the mall and pick up a bunch of t-shirts with glitter and tight pants.

(side note: this could be good for our economy’s retail numbers)

Keep it smooth out there boys.

– MPM

The Rookie
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i like the sample moves. i feel like i’ll have to use them within the next 2 years. *sigh*

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hahaha – sad but oh, so true.

Girls, look at where all your feminism got ya.
In-depth descriptions of what sickos you are.

sad

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you can’t take her to your favorite dive bar if she’s 18, 19, 20 unless she has a fake ID or you’re in another country

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I have been using #3 for years. Making her feel like she is the one who has to prove her maturity to you is the ultimate way to reframe the dynamic. Normally she’s going into the interaction with a negative stigma toward dating older men (thanks American culture!) and turning that dynamic around 180 degrees short circuits this negative and makes her feel like she has to prove something to you.

I’m 39 and out of the few early 20’s women I have messed around with or banged in the past few years I have used this with ALL of them to great success.

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Great post, loved the Chuck E Cheese lina hahaha made me laugh so hard. I’ll be sure to include it in my game for the future wink

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The line, BTW is this-

Don’t even bring up age unless she does, but when the time comes and she tells you how old she is, you say “OMG!!! You are a BABY!! I had no idea you were so young!”

Variations of the last sentence could be “Am I gonna get arrested for talking to you?” or “You are barely even old enough to drink!”

They eat it up, trust me.

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This should be required reading for all college dudes.

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Can I haz game for 14 y.o. pussy?

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“Sample move: Live in your dad’s basement.”

Whoa, stop right there, Roosh. I am not moving back in with my parents.

I do agree that younger girls care very little about how much money you have. You could be completely broke, but as long as they think you are cool…they will mess around with you.

Also, what their friends think of you matters since those bitches live & die by what their friends think. This is why being the “old guy at the bar” especially hurts you in college bars: you get made fun of by her friends who will then go on to ruthlessly cockblock you.

That is why I don’t know if “acting” young is enough. You actually have to “look” young (based on your facial features, how you dress, being thin, etc…).

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OGNorCal707:
as a “nice guy” I think it kind of sucks that young girls like being treated like shit so much.

it’s not as much that they like it as that the whole sugar and spice cute and nice crap is just a facade and when we buy it we indeed are stupid and thus don’t get respect and can’t be attractive. Which does indeed suck, as say what you want about dirty rough sex, but without that sugar and spice women are objectively rather disgusting creatures. Perhaps even more than we are. But hey, sex drive is sex drive…

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You can’t forget that girls have been practicing the art of manipulating men since they first learned to walk. And they WILL grow bored with a man that is too easily manipulated. When women are young they think the world is their oyster because their bodies are still tight (at least some of them), guys are showing them attention, and they think time is on their side. They need that early reality check from an older man that’s been through some wars with women, and learn how good the dick can be from a man with some experience, instead of a dude their own age who’ll probably bust as soon as he puts it in because he’s SO excited to be with you. I think it’s good to give ’em and ego check – that they should be honored to have YOU in their presence, showing them attention, instead of the other way around.

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It also helps if you can give a girl convulsing orgasms that make her scream in a holocaust of ecstasy.

I like the samples, much better than what most older men say to get laid nowadays: “How Much?”

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can i get an addendum for if she’s your sisters best friend?

PM
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18-22 is prime crazy season for American females, imo. Know when to kick them out!

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@19 Timothy, jesus man.

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Roosh – Great post. I wish I would have read this while I was still in college.

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Good stuff.

#1 – Applies to any girl. I don’t like calling it “treating them poorly” though. I prefer to think of it as “letting them know that you’re not the ONLY thing in their life”. That’s what it really is.

As for #7 (status plays). Well, you need to come to LA. If you think you gonna keep a hot young thing (8 – 10, LA scale) rolling on a BMX, think again. (You can get a plain one though).

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I specialise in this age group and I’d agree with your point.

I think number 2 & 5 are particularly true.

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@26 InterestedParty, I’m also not a fan of treating women “poorly,” but simply not allowing manipulation and game playing. You have to show that you’re willing to walk away, and that her being attractive isn’t enough to keep you around.

When I was a senior in college, my roommate at the time started seeing this freshman girl, and she was twisting him all in knots. She was cute, and had one of the nicest asses I’d seen on a girl. She was playing him like a chump, manipulating him but not giving up the pussy, and he simply couldn’t function. I tried to stay out of his business (when dudes are in love they aren’t open to hearing negativity about the girl they’re in love with), but I got sick of seeing this bullshit play out in front of me. I finally laid out to him that it was fucked up that he was letting a FRESHMAN…a child…fuck with his head. She even overheard me dogging her out once, but I didn’t give a fuck. You should treat women decently, but you have to hold your ground. I turned down a few girls that where handing me pussy, because I either wasn’t that attracted, or knew I would have to deal with drama afterwards. Girls I did fuck were kept in check, and I let them know I liked them but was willing to cut them off if they crossed a certain line.

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The only one I have an issue with is 8. It depends on the age difference and the girl. If she’s in that subset of girls who dig much older men, then don’t go down to her level. If she’s like all the other chicks, then acting just a bit older than she is should work.

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@Timothy

Yep. The problem with calling it “treating her poorly” is that people take that literally. They go WAY, WAY overboard. But really, like you said, it’s about letting her know that you’re not gonna put up with any bullshit and that you’re willing to walk any time (and you have to mean this btw).

A big point to any negotiation is being willing to walk no matter how “good” the deal. Picking up chicks is just another negotiation.

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I think 14-18 year olds have even less game and are even easier to plunder! It’s awesome.

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Yea that is a good age. The bodies are tight and hot, nice boobs and tight asses.

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Fucking pedophile. You’re disgusting.

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I think the asshole game generally works fine, but I also feel there is a line where it becomes counter-productive and you risk losing the girl.

How do you tell?

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lol at jersey shore comment

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“Sample move: Make insightful observations about a show she watches, like how Pauly D is the only guy on Jersey Shore that you’d hang out with in real life because of how cool and funny he is.”

What about all the love you had for Mike?

I think you did a write-up and voted him as having the best game on Season 1.

I haven’t seen most of Season 2 of the Jersey Shore, but the few episodes I have seen he seems different – like he feels he is too good for the show. Now every girl is a “granade.”

I think the “Fame Monster” got to his head. After Season 1 of the Shore, I saw clips of him online (TMZ) rolling around LA with different cute chicks. Always rolling with at least two (if not more) of them in limos or at clubs.

I think he just doesn’t want to “work” anymore at getting chicks like he did in Season 1. Hell, in Season 1 he had nothing to lose, so he went all out.

That is why I suspect that many male clebs don’t have very good game – they don’t need it. They let their fame & money do all the work.

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@35 Mr.T…you’re probably right. Once a man has achieved a certain level of fame, you get approached and have easy ass thrown at you, so you either don’t need to use game, and if you never had it in the first place you don’t need to develop any. I’ve never watched Jersey Shore, but I have noticed how some of the cast members have progressed as celebrities (endorsement deals, commercials, books, talk show appearances, etc.). My guess is first season they weren’t as popular, but now they’ve been minted as actual celebrities.

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I wish I had this info six months ago. I am a 30 year old who lost a 22 year old for violating many of these cardinal rules.

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You are so very bitter…
I just got out of a relationship with an older guy who did some of this stuff to me (I would call some of it abuse).
Everything you are teaching these men leads to unhappiness. You have no idea what a good relationship is supposed to look like. If you think making a girl insecure about herself so she doesn’t leave you is a good tactic, then you are pretty messed up in the head. She will only put up with it for so long before she notices other guys who treat her well and pay her compliments, and sees her friends happy relationships…and wonders why the hell she is with a jealous older man who makes her feel like crap because he is so insecure.

You will be the ones getting depressed when it ends, not her. She will be relieved.

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BA-ZINNGGGGGGG

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Untrue. Those “nice guys” never get the woman to begin with because women like you shut them down all the time! Think about it, if being a nice guy worked, Roosh website wouldn’t exist. The only time the nice guy would get the girl is like in forest gump, when as you say the women give their best years to men who treat them badly and then come back to the nice guy. Well now the nice guy says no more, I don’t want a 29 year old laugh line used ho bag. I’d rather be alone or go to rooshv to learn how to game young women who aren’t used up.

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I know that this is an old post, but I must ask: Does #7 mean that you shouldn’t do any DHVs, and does the emotion part mean that you should focus on emotion-filled stories?

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You are stupid for making this. You just need to go through enough women, its not something you can teach your born with it and you learn it on your own. Trust me i have tried to teach my friends house to get girls and how to play the field. its easy for me cause i know everything there is to know. But you my friend are a complete idiot for making this and saying all of this cause half of it isnt even true and most of it doesnt even work like that.

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Yeh, younger girls aren’t as gullible as you think. They actually don’t like the asshole guy that treats them badly they just want a confident dude who’s cheeky. Basically, the only real attraction to the asshole is their confidence. Usually nice guys lack confidence in themselves and that’s why they lose out intially. BTW if your some unemployed dumb fuck living in your parents basement smoking oregano cos your mom won’t let you spend your allowance on weed, you aren’t going to get too much action. No offense.

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Listen to these baby hamsters chirp! If young women really wanted men to treat them with “respect,” they’d only choose men who treat them that way.
The abortion, contraception, welfare, day care, and family court industries would go out of business in a flash, as men would provide for their women and their children, rather than dumping them on taxpayers.
Men would have fewer partners, but there’d be considerably less bastardy & sluttiness.

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You are talking about American girls, aren’t you? I don’t think that Brazilian and European girls buy hard game like that.

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It all works hey

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Number 6 is worth remembering especially.. Sample move: Make an excuse as to why you can’t hang with her after finding out she’s on her period!!

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FUCK YOU !! STUPID MISOGYNIST PIG. I HOPE YOU DIE OF AIDS. @!#%X

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you fucks are sick humor or not. getting police involved.

Anonymous
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I take a strange amount of pride in having realized that at 20 I’m already as bitterly jaded as a women who has apparently already had her fill of asses, and I didn’t even have to sleep with an ass to get this way

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I accidentally found this page and am horrified that something so sexist and misogynistic appears totally acceptable in your eyes. From what I can see you’re single and middle aged, living with your parents and preying on young girls. I’m not surprised you haven’t got a long term partner; what woman in their right mind would want to spend time with you? I am disgusted. Take a look at what you’re doing. How can you possibly think this is ok?! Women are not sex objects and neither are they inferior to men. But I suppose any attempt to change your views is pointless. A small part of me thinks this must be a joke, as it is so stupid and close-minded, but sadly I think that part of me is wrong.

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Women are sex objects,if they weren’t men would have wiped them out a long time ago because then they’d just be useless competition. And everything he said is true and is effective so shut up cunt.