Imagine That This Is The Last Time You’ll See Her

The biggest way to disappoint yourself while playing the game is to have expectations that a woman will satisfy you, treat you with respect, or come through for you in any way, shape, or form. They say you should live each day like it’s your last, so when it comes to women, you should enjoy each meeting as if it will also be the last.

A lot of things can happen that prevent another date, most of which has nothing to do with you. This is especially true today when every woman feels like a little celebrity thanks to Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr. She’s content getting validation from internet fans and orbiters as much as a man in the flesh. Other times it may be completely about you. Maybe she’s losing attraction for you or just not into your style of humor. In either case, besides spitting the best game you can, the result is out of your hands.

There’s no guarantee the number you got will lead to a date. There’s no guarantee that an amazing first date will lead to a second. There’s no guarantee that a girl who said you gave her the best dick in the world will want to see you again. There’s no guarantee that your girlfriend of six months will not suddenly fall in love with another man. The only guarantee is the law of averages, which tells you to play the field and not bet the farm on one hand. Monogamous relationships with honorable women who want to grow old with you until death do you part is a thing of the past.

In my early 20s, it was my nature to romantically fantasize about women I met. Reality helped me temper that habit. Otherwise I’d be an emotionally shattered man too scared to ask out another girl for fear that she would flake on me. The truth is that fantastic pickups and dates only slightly correlate to whether you will see a girl again. You can have the best game in the world with buttery lips that make her melt with ecstasy, but there’s no way you can counter a hater comment by her fat friend who did her best in making your girl feel guilty for going out with you. There’s no way you can keep her ego at a normal level when 20 guys hit on her the night after you met her. You have absolutely no control over most of the things that block your chances at getting into her pants.

Women have trained men like me to be as cold as possible in order to meet my sexual needs. When I’m with a girl that I like, and I look into her eyes and she looks back into mine, I do all that I can to get what I want from her at that moment, because I know there’s a good chance I may never see her again. Her pretty face can disappear off the face of the earth, and it won’t make any difference to me.

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Pretty realistic picture. I think woman while being grown with Disney fantasy of white knight, they still have a better understanding than men that every relationships are temporary, and you should take from now what you can.

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The biggest way to disappoint yourself while playing the game is to have expectations that a woman will satisfy you, treat you with respect, or come through for you in any way, shape, or form. <<<<

This right here… damn.

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This is very true and something that age my age (mid-thirties) i’m finally starting to come to grips with. Me and my ex of a few years broke up back in the summer. I turned into a beta and she hit the bricks just as expected. I talked about marriage and all the other bullshit a guy shouldn’t talk about and she split. Imagine that…a guy talking about marriage with a girl in her mid-thirties that he has been dating for a few years and she not wanting it?

Anyways…she hasn’t found anyone since me so she comes back around every few weeks, testing the waters to see if i’m still under her spell. I know the relationship is dead as a door nail but I still fuck her. I also know in the back of my head that as soon as she meets a decent prospect I’ll never hear from her ever again.

In the past, I would have spent time trying to “win her back” and trying to regain hand. No anymore. Experience has taught me that this is a fools errand.

Now, i just fuck her, maybe fuck her one more time and then head home. She knows i’m fuckign other girls now, but since she has nothing going on, she still comes around. Time and experience with women will make you a cold cold man. I can’t tell you how many women with boyfriends i’ve fucked, or women who are talking to another guy on the side that fuck me. It’s just the nature of the beast you’re dealing with. Like you said in this post, it’s better to just enjoy the moment, enjoy your time in the present and understand that nothing good lasts forever. That attitude will spare you hurt and wasted emotional energy on something you really can’t control. The ironic thing is that this very attitude will prolong the joyful encounters far longer than ever giving a shit about what she is doing or if she is into you.

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Good point about reaching an age where you no longer romanticize women. Although women are thought to be more romantic, I think romance is a male creation and that it is part of our instincts to want to put women on pedestals. Women just latch on to romance as a tool for manipulating men. That instinct died away without any effort on my part around the time I hit 30. Not sure if the cause was biological or a based on personal experience but it certainly made life more enjoyable.

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What’s with all the troll activity lately?

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Monogamous relationships with honorable women who want to grow old with you until death do you part is a thing of the past.

STOP SAYING THAT!!

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The statements Roosh, the author of this article made were brillant! He said,”The biggest way to disappoint yourself while playing the game is to have expectations that women will satisfy you, treat you with respect, or come through for you in any shape or form. They say you should live each day like it’s your last, so when it comes to women,you should enjoy each meeting as if it will also be your last….Monogamous relationships with honorable women who want to grow old with you until death do you part is a a thing of the past.” Every man should have this taught and explained to him from a young age. I’m in my mid-forties, and I can confirm everything Roosh as well as commenters #3 Boo Yah, and #4 bill stated. You should also apply these concepts to female platonic friends and maybe female family members. As a general rule with very few exceptions, here is the corralary to what Roosh said in the next sentence. There used to be a time and age in which women were something more than ejaculation recepticles, but that is a thing of the past.

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Unfortunate, but part of the reality of modern dating. They have too many options…and complain there’s no guy that fits their ten page long checklist.

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“I’m going to die when it’s my time for me to die. So let me live my life the way I want to.”

Cherish the memories and make new ones every day.

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One of the great factors about the concept that you will never see her again is that you can drop all fear and say ANYTHING because you got nothing to lose.

Let it all hang out, baby

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Great post Roosh — Some part of me still doesn’t want to believe what you’re saying but I learned the hard way that it is true.

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Great post.

One of my favorite things about Roosh and his fellow bloggers is that they will write the truth, that a huge part of success and seduction is beyond your control, and even has nothing to do with you.

You won’t see that kind of thinking from mainstream seduction shysters who are always trying to make a buck off the latest chump to discover game. Instead of reducing a man’s insecurities, they increase them. Because if your seductions are failing, it must always be your fault, according to them. That can’t be good for your game.

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@ 3 Boo Yah
Incidentally, by not giving a shit, banging her when you feel like it, blowing her off when you have plans or other girls she will come after you hard.

Same thing happened to me (I’m 33). I was having a rough time with life and went all beta on a girl who operates on gina tingle. She cheated w/ a guy who seemed alpha (built, sports, well connected) who turned out beta (love poems, wait till marriage to bang) and I stopped caring. As the months went on she started finding excuses to hang around and I caveman’ed her in the kitchen one day. Guilt, remorse on her part? out of her mouth yes, but she started hanging around even more, dressing slutty and waving her ass a me…repeat caveman game.

In a normal case I would advise just using that cycle to a) fulfill my needs and b) create jealousy/proof with a new girl. However, in my case I a) like my kids and b) don’t like paying child support so I threw it in her bf’s face, he went further beta. The resultant social shaming and dominating other men drew her even closer and she’s as feminine, submissive and attentive as the day I met her. Downside; I’m resigned to the fact that I have to run unflinching alpha game for the next 15 years.

In America and Canada, the social structures that make a woman think twice before acting on instinct are gone. She is empowered to think with her pussy and rationalize any side effects. Respond by appealing to her instincts, not sanity. Last, make friends and family the people you turn to for help, because every time you ask her for help you lose relationship capital.

C’est la vie. A man who knows game is like a woman who is a good stripper: they both consciously know how to manipulate gender instinct make the other person happily engage in a transaction that is one sided.

PS. Strippers admit they do it, trophy wives deny it.

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damn, this is good.

so simple, yet so true.

very effective method.

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When I finished my last post above, I realized that many would have misunderstandings, misdirections and retalliations against my words and maybe me personally. Allow me to prevent this and nip it in the bud. What you think of me personally is irrellevant because you should stick with the arguement. I do not want to hear not all women are like that, NAWALT. I know this, but most 1st World nation women especially American women are. I did not make them this way. They made themselves this way with strong encouragement from our ruling elite and too many every day men who let them do it or persuaded them to do it. I’m just the messenger, not the message. I would strongly prefer that women make themselves into something more than ejaculation recepticles, but I know most won’t. If women made themselves into honorable and worthwhile people to talk to and be with, most men myself included would be ecstatic. If women made themselves into good people for long term healthy realationships especially marriage, we men would be more ecstatic. Any time now!!! In the end it’s women who suffer for their stupidity. Good Job(Sarcastic), feminism!!! Some women aren’t even worth ejaculations they’re so bad. Most women are only worth ejaculations today. Some women are better, but they are few and far between. Don’t blame me. The truth no matter how necessary it is to hear often hurts, not my truth, not your truth, not someone else’s truth, but the TRUTH.

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I wish I’d have known this when I was 21. I’ve made out with a fair amount of girls in the 8-9 range, but banged very few of them because I’d play it slow, hoping to escalate to sex over the course of a few dates instead of the instant bang. That’s failure mentality.

I’ve learned that the hotter a girl is, the more she expects you to push for sex right away. Most of the time, if you don’t go for it when you get the chance, there won’t be a next time.

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Best post I read all day
Basically you must
Instanadate the girl
try to get to a romantic escalation point w her
try to get to a point of shit testing

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I love reading Roosh, but I disagree with his take on long-term relationships. I’m in mid-30s and in a long-term relationship (living with the girl) – I read the blog cause I absolutely love following his international adventures and commentary.

One piece of self-help that really helped me with transitioning from get-laid game to meaningful long-term relationships was David D’s “Man Transformation program”. There is a critical concept that he discusses there: attraction vs. gravity. Attraction is what allows you to fuck her, gravity is what makes her committed. DD says that the 5 Ps of gravity are: poise, passion, presence, purpose, and persistence (personally i think there is more to it, but it’s all a question how you classify it).

I do not want to be controversial or to offend anyone but my guess is that many people who commented on how a girl left them, lack the gravity component and should work on it.

Best wishes to all.

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@ V V

I hope you realize that you’re talking about your relationship as it is right now. Regardless of where you are, there is that possibility that your girlfriend may find a “bigger, better deal” and leave you. Women are emotional, moody creatures usually and also depreciate in sexual/dating value as they age.

Also, men do much more than women than average to improve themselves. If women want us men to be more “responsible”, they really ought to improve themselves at women.

Otherwise, it’s better to treat women exactly as nature intended to be: sex objects.

Having a serious relationship with one of these women is very dangerous. Even Cary Grant had four women leave him. Women are never happy.

Good luck with your relationship and never, never marry her. We’re equal now, so why bother with a patriarchal, “oppressive” institution like marriage?

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The golden rule is the person who cares less controls the relationship. The death nail to a man in a relationship is becoming vested and coveting the pussy. ONce you place too much value in the pussy, you will naturally become more beta and more insecure and thus kill the attraction.

A woman doesnt’ want to be a with a man she thinks can’t do better than her. A women’s attraction embers burn with lust when she is worrying about you fucking another woman, not worry if she can do better.

The minute she wonders if she can do better, you’re toast. That’s why you cannot emote, you cannot go soft. It’s like Roosh said when he talked about human nature. He didn’t make it this way, but in order for him to get laid, he has to be cold, reserved, stand offish and part asshole. It’s unfortunate that is the place where the pussy drips, but that’s reality. Learn to accept it or become road meat.

The hardest part about finding this zin is maintaining this frame when you start to really like the girl. It’s really easy to be this way in the beginning…..only the few can do it long term.

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Monogamous relationships with honorable women who want to grow old with you until death do you part is a thing of the past.

AGREED!!!!

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Well first of all, thanks for the great post Roosh, its not only helpful but also entertaining. Keep up the good job man.

Anyways I met a 32 year old sex bomb (I’m 27) last Friday at a bar, banged her yesterday after a dinner which lead to a blowjob in the car on Sunday. She is a solid 8 in my book, a newly promoted manager at a hip advertising firm, super connected etc. but when I called a cab, kissed her goodbye, I saw tears in her eyes because I was to take the plane to another city in the morning and then to my trip to Russia in a month.

So right now I’m doing my best not to answer her texts right away, keep my distance because I know that tears were not a result of me being such a nice date and a good fuck. I had been the ultimate alpha male, a caveman.

When she brought up the subject, us getting in a relationship, trying to find out what I think about it my answer was clear enough. I said “By the time I’m 30, you’ll experience menopause, now why would I want that?” with a charming smile, pouring wine into her glass. Moreover she said call me and my number was on the screen of her brand new IPhone 4s, “Mert Love” was how she saved it. I said that was silly of her to do that. She asked if she should change it, I replied “I don’t care, its your phone.”

The thing is I like this girl, she is very hot, intellectual, does not look away when the check comes etc. etc. but I know that deep down she wants to turn me into a beta and move on. I did damage her ego, by cumming into her mouth and ordering her to swallow it, not letting her take off her thousand dollar sexy high heels, saying she should lose a couple of pounds (man she has the body of a supermodel but all girls think they could look better my losing some weight right) and that’s the reason she can’t stop thinking about me.

No man I won’t be trapped, I sure want to say I like you a lot too when she says it, be around her now but I won’t let her know it. Now that her new post on her tumblr is about me, my friends who met her on Friday at the bar are shocked, I tell them it is no magic, some of us find this out the hard way but women want nothing but a caveman nowadays.

They sure know how outnumbered we are by betas and therefore we are precious. Too bad they are fucked up cunts who want to change everything we are and once we do start doing that, they start looking for an other alpha immediately…

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It’s true. It seems most men who are good with women have the same mindset.
Reminds me of the old Robbie Williams song where he says:

“Before i fall in love, i’m preparing to leave her”

It’s the key ingredient to staying healthy in any relationship when it comes to women.

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Monogamous relationships with honorable women who want to grow old with you until death do you part ARE a thing of the past.

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mertk: “32 year old sex bomb” ??

32 years old does not equal a sex bomb. you are a decade too late buddy.

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This is true about life in general.

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“buttery lips that will make her melt with ecstasy” That has got to be the worst line I’ve ever read. How the shit can someone have buttery lips that causes someone to melt? Do you mean “silver tongue”? Stop writing garbage after striking out at the bars. It’s obvious when you do that and takes away from your other writings.

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My pretty, curvy, kind young girlfriend turned into a truly awful wife within a few years.
She’s gained tons of weight, is continually grouchy, and will often do very little housework for days at a time.
We have two children, whom I adore, and who are the only reason I’ve stayed. They love me, and will be crushed when I leave. But, as demeaning and degrading as family court is, I believe I’m going to leave her soon.
I don’t know if I’ve been weak or “beta” around her, either. I definitely lose my temper with her – she can be incredibly insulting and rude – but she used to be one of those rare girls who’d reward kindness with sex.
Either way, I’ve had enough. This is a second marriage for me, and I’ll likely get a vasectomy soon. I’m going to start lifting weights, saving money, studying, and putting in longer hours at work.
Because I will, once again, work my way out of this misery.
And I would, in most cases, strongly recommend against marriage for men. It’s a great deal for women, but it’s mostly misery for us.
Your sweet young thing is very likely to morph over the years into a fat, grouchy, demanding loser. The hell with them. If they truly truly live you (and they usually do not) then they won’t need to nail you down with marriage.

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Could all that, in effect, be a good thing though?

I’d probably be married with babies and paying a giant mortgage right now … since there was a time when I believed in fairy tales and unicorns.

If girls hadn’t been flakey bitches, I wouldn’t be roaming around Asia right now, banging who and when and where I want. I’m free, because the all powerful brain suction vacuum girl power has been distracted by modern society.

I also have no patience for any way but my own. When people talk about improving themselves, I laugh. If I was a ‘better man’, girls wouldn’t eventually run away.

With just a little bit of game sprinkled in, the ‘last time’ might just be the best time … for your future. 🙂

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Bob: I disagree with you man, being a sex bomb is not about age, I thought she was younger than me when we started interacting and if she looks as if she is 25 that’s all it takes for me. Course it may differ from person to person, whom we label as sex bombs or not.

She is very feminine, cares about how she looks and to be honest hornier than most girls in their early 20s I’d sex with. That’s why I called her a sex bomb.

Well maybe you would prefer her 22 year old version of hers and that’s perfectly understandable but I don’t find college chicks or newly grads as sexy as women who have a career, “think” they know what they want in life etc.

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I was just sitting at a Macdonald’s,where a couple that appeared to be on a first date sat right next to me,and the guy and girl looked compatible. The guy was cool and smooth,and looked like he could actually do much better. The girl,on the other hand,could definitely do much worse.
But it’s amazing to me that in spite of everything and him starting out strong,how she quickly began to show signs of declining interest while the fellow sensed this,and all of a sudden his smooth”act?” when out the window,and she grew more indifferent as the minutes uncomfortably lurched by. Every time she excused herself I felt like grabbing him by the shoulders and shaking him and slapping him and to tell him to “Get a Grip Man!!!” and not put so much value on this 6(at best)! Anyway,I she made up some BS excuse about meeting her cousin (very lame BTW) and he morphed into an all out pussy, wet with stutter and sweat. After he suplicated to her when they would see each other again, she made up some more infuriatingly bad excuses for not seeing him in the future. Then, they were on their way,I kept looking at my little plastic fork and wondered if I should playfully, and lightly poke him with it,cause he was done.

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pantolones,

That’s actually usual scenario, I once witnessed a couple on their first date, and the guy spent whole date talking about religion and made her pray by the end of date.

In your scenario guy just needed to find his balls and cut this short and move on doing something better with his time than spend it with a cunt.

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The mystery of a female is purely the imagination of men.

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“The mystery of a female is purely the imagination of men.”

Quoted for truth.

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With every beginning, there’s an end, with a massive realisation. All of this stems from us, not from women…

http://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelellsberg/2012/01/18/tucker-max-gives-up-the-game/

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awaiting next post on Denmark… in the meanwhile, I doubt if I ever bang scandinavia and finland.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=mEsnb3kUDAw

no hot chicks among these flight attendants

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This just happened to me…

I met a beautiful chick while waiting for the A train in NYC. She was a 9 or 10. I thought I’d done everything right. She (near what seemed like the beginning of the interaction) said that we should exchange numbers. We had a fun interaction during which time she did the occasional touch and stuff like that; and she said that she’d send me an email.

When I tried to call her, it was a phony number.

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@Dr. Dupree

3 things –

1) Whenever you get a girl’s number, call her there and then to see if it’s a real number.

2) Always ground the number with a future date plan prior to getting it.

3) Call her out on her potential flakiness. Doesn’t always work, but it makes her aware that you know their game.

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re 1) I normally get a woman’s number by having her ring my cell or viseversa. However, this was not possible while waiting for the subway or on the train.

re 2) She surprised me by asking first. F-ing preemptive strike?

Thank you!

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Yeah, I’m only 23 and have lost most of the romantic feelings I used to have for women. There was a time when I dreamed about meeting that cool, beautiful, intelligent girl and having wonderful times together, trips to exotic, interesting locales, and having mind blowing sex, but over the years I got more experience and got rejected harshly way too many times, been burned by getting dumped for the stupidest and sudden occurrences, and learned about the dark, sadistic truth female solipsism and psychology.

Now I see most women as burdens and potentially dangerous poisons. It doesn’t help that whenever I see an attractive girl, I always imagine what she’ll look like in 10-15 years. Usually not good.

Truth is that modern women don’t offer very much these days in marriage – an institution where usually men take up most of the responsibilities and burdens of the relationship.

Sorry ladies, I just don’t “feel” it anymore, and now there’s a high chance you’ll never find your “perfect guy” and fail to reproduce.

However, these Asian and Latin women sure seem sweet, feminine and traditional. Maybe I can live happily ever after someday.

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@dr. dupree

a girl who offers up her number to a complete stranger (on a subway platform, no less) at the beginning of a conversation, is not entirely on the level.

a 9/10 in nyc will know how to play the game.

she needed an entertaining distraction – it was either going to be you or her phone she was gonna play with.

don’t feel too bad, at least she chose you. and if it’s any consolation, it’s happened to all of us at one time or another.

what doesn’t kill you….

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Even though it was really long and tiring, unlike roosh’s writing which is quick and to the point, that forbes piece on Tucker Max was interesting..His analyst hit the jackpot! Any money he made through his books and movie he’s spending on psychoanalysis now, 4 times a week!! Insane! Cases like that build psychologists’ houses.

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@ live

You are so spot on. She was a virtuoso player of the game.

I imagine I was indeed a fun distraction at the moment. She was flirty, doing all of the little touches that we are told that mean the woman is feeling attraction.

I was burned and learned…..

Dupree

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You guys should rent “Ghosts of Girlfriends Past.” There is a hilarious scene with Michael Douglas in a bar teaching the game. Douglas: “Wrong, you might as well go over and tell her I’m a fag let’s be friends!”

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This is really sad. I’ve read a lot of your site, Roosh, and some of it makes me angry, some it is insightful, some of it is confusing, but this one is just really sad (I am talking in a break-my-heart way, not a pathetic way). Is this how guys really think about women? Do women really DO this to men? I’ve always felt like it was the duty of women to take care of men…they often are very emotionally fragile (not in a beta way), and have a lot of physical needs as well. Additionally, they respond EXTREMELY well to affection from women. It can quickly soothe a terrible day. At the same time, women get a lot of rewards from such affection and care – not only from the men, but internally. At least I do. But it seems like the women you talk about are very hateful, cold, and too entitled to care about their men. I can’t imagine that.

I hope I’m not one of these girls. I lost my virginity at 18-almost-19 with someone I really loved and I’m still with him a year later. He’s a great guy. Beyond great. I am one of those annoying girls that has to stop from gushing about him. I try to treat him right, and in return, he treats me right. When I was younger I feared getting into a LTR in my early years and “wasting” my youth, but now I think that the partying life is something that is just delivered to us as “fun” via the media. Certainly it is better to travel, see the world, be goofy with someone you love, and have hot, raging sex with someone that cares about your pleasure? I’m an extremely sexual person (twice a day or I get grumpy), but I guess I’m just not the partying type. I can’t imagine enjoying anonymous sex with someone that doesn’t even care about you, and just wants to get off. But it would also suck to have no sex, so I don’t know.

Even though we are young this guy wants to spend his whole life with me – if this post is how guys really feel about women, I am shocked and consider myself extremely lucky (more than I already did). So thank you.

I really hope I don’t make my boyfriend feel like this 🙁 Can anyone tell me how I’d know? Especially if he doesn’t even know, as many people are not as self-aware and honest as roosh.

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You’re okay Q. You get it.

I had the same exact thing as Boo Yah happen to me twice – but each time was worse than Boo Yah’s explanation.

Listen, Q, of course we’d love to have a hot nice girl be with us and be loyal, but that isn’t the reality of today’s day and age. By you reading this post maybe it’ll reinforce you getting it and behaving normally which may give you a chance at a husband, family, and a nice life.

Most girls aren’t able to figure this out. What was Boo Yah’s 35 yr old gf thinking? Maybe she needed to date more, get more diseases, in search of her perfect fit. She doesnt realize there is no perfect fit. She’s too stupid to know that she just shot herself in the foot by thinking she can get something better. She needs to find a guy, fall in love, be together for a year, engaged for another year, putting her at 37 or 38 by they time she can begin to have kids and a family. And that’s if she finds someone TODAY that will love her that she’s attracted to. Idiot!

Through my experience I’ve seen that a young girl like you or an older girl above 40 may “get it.” Most hot girls between 24 and 38 are what Boo Yah and I have experienced. It’s a sad state of affairs but until women realize what they are doing to themselves and society as a whole, we have no choice but to either be a beta and have the majority of women flake or run game, fuck em in the ass, and then have the majority of women flake. Maybe every now and then find a good one that sticks around. I’m lucky right now in that I am in my upper 30’s and I have a nice hot 22 yr old college girl. She had a beta no game idiot drunk bar fighting bf before me and that was enough for her to realize that she should be happy with me. Also, all the young guys her age have no game so she says she loves my confidence and ability to take charge. Granted most 22 yr olds wouldn’t give me a chance to show my game but this one did. I also have a 40 yr old who is hot – she must’ve been super hot in her late 20’s and 30’s – I asked what happened that she is 40 and single, and in tears, she came out and said she was an idiot when she was in her prime. Now, that she’s over the hill, she gets it. It’s a shame, because if she got it 10 to 20 years ago, maybe she could’ve had kids.

There are going to be a lot of single bitter women hitting 40 and older in the next several decades. Sex in the City and match.com were the worst inventions for women. Good luck Q. Continue to be nice. Additionally make sure your breath, pussy, and ass dont smell. Finally, don’t be fat. You do those three things and you will be fine.

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Hey Joe, thanks for your honesty!

From what I’ve garnered, the general standards are (assuming you are speaking for most men, which may be a bit of a hefty assumption):

1). Loyal
2). Nice
3). Hot
4). Not smelly/fat

Is it really that hard to find this? I find that hard to believe – I am not doubting you, I just think that it’s sad. Even a dog can at least be loyal, nice, and cute – their smelliness is a bit out of their hands, however. I suppose I am still a bit idealistic about people. But it seems like most of these are things that every decent, mature human should be capable of (besides being hot – you can look as nice as possible, but it’s all up to genetics there).

I do see a lot of nice guys ruined by mean girls (and the opposite, sometimes). Maybe some women are not able to handle the opportunities available for them nowadays without getting out of control. Surely a grown woman should be able to figure out how to have a job and their own life without becoming a bitter, ball-crushing bitch. From what I have read on this site and others it seems like a lot of women have become entitled and power-hungry, and it’s ruining them. I don’t understand this. I don’t understand how you can think having a vagina/breasts makes you entitled to worship, expensive dinners, and being allowed to absolutely verbally and emotional shit on someone. I understand caring and protecting for the fairer sex and the prerogative that tradition brings, but at the same time these women don’t even want that. Which one is it? Christ.

Perhaps they don’t realize what they are missing out on. If you treat a man with love and respect he will bend over backwards for you. You obviously can’t take advantage of that as it will taint it, but men seem more than willing to do things for women (and it even seems to make them feel good about themselves) if they are treated the right way. I also am young and inexperienced at relationships, so maybe I am just blabbering about something I shouldn’t.

At the same time, I don’t understand this whole he-man alpha-dog thing. I’m not quite sure what an alpha completely entails, but it seems like some men think being alpha is insulting women, making them feel bad about themselves, etc. I know some women like this, but I think this type of women have to be emotionally unstable (more than the average). I wouldn’t WANT to deal with them. I’ve had guys try to approach me with that jerk thing (granted, it was outside of a night club so maybe that’s why it seemed so odd) and it usually just made me feel bad about myself. I still try to be polite but it’s very in-your-face and just plain mean! Maybe they have done it wrong, but I don’t know. I’d say the ideal guy would be one that can take charge in the bedroom, in life, and especially in keeping the safety of the house, but who also will treat you with love, respect, and affection. But this thing some women try where they attempt to be the dominant one of the house is ridiculous. I haven’t seen this work one time. The man should be in charge of the house – not in a end-all-be-all way, obviously he should consult his partner as well. But it’s unnatural and doesn’t work if the woman is in charge of it all (especially since they tend to get power hungry, perhaps because they are unsatisfied as well but do not know why). Additionally, it doesn’t work well if the man doesn’t allow any sort of compromise or conversation about his decisions, or insists that his wife/partner/whatever listens to everything he says without question.

It seems like people in general are very unsatisfied. People suck at communication and dealing with people in general. I don’t feel like a lot of the guys commenting are very happy with “game” – nor does Roosh seem that happy. It seems like the less terrible one of two choices (kinda like you said). Are you guys happy and satisfied with this way of life you lead right now? Would you rather spend your whole life with one person that you love and treats you right? I have heard such conflicting information, and was also raised in a household that had a very, very unhappy marriage, so some of my views are skewed on this. It sort of seems like if guys stopped sleeping with and encouraging skanks, it could help the issue. But I understand needs and whatnot…

Sorry if you feel like I am invading your guys’ domain here, I know this is a male-oriented site. I really do read it out of curiosity and usually stay quiet. But this post was so very, very heart-breaking. I’ll try my very best to keep myself from becoming bitter. Hopefully I just don’t have that in me in the first place! (oh, and sorry about the ridiculously long post)

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Gentleman. Just get yourself a Asian lady
You will never regred it. They adore you and stand by you. No crying ! Try it you like it, Western woman lost their touch and they are to Arrogant, always issues.

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I particularly liked this post for it’s realistic insight. I live in different countries and consider myself a successful seducer. The part of being emotionally detached is a skill absolutely necessary in game as every PUA knows. However, even if I can pick up one or two girls a week with relatively easiness and 97% of the time not give a damn about what happens after, every once in while comes some young, sweet girl for a day of amazing sex and sharing that for some some reason I would like to be with at least for a few days (or have her available for the weeks to come). If for those out of control circumstances (that we never know for sure as is the rule) I can not see her again, I tend to get sort of depressed for a couple days or so, even when having other options. I hate when this happens and the truth is we are not robots but humans with emotions, there is only so much we can control those feelings, but we can NOT be cold 100% of the time no matter how well trained we are … I am in that sucky part right now, I will be fine next week for sure … well, that’s part of the price to pay I guess, but after tasting something you really like and then not being able to have it again when you really want to is not a lot of fun. I am sure this happens even to the best PUA’s in the world at some point in time …WTF I just needed to let it out!!