Is It Easy To Get Laid In Country X?

Oftentimes, the first thing any foreign guy wants to know from me is if it’s easy to get laid in America. My instinct is always to say, “Yes! It’s much easier than your country!” But then I re-consider because the guy asking me will probably be a man of average appearance with a provider type of game. His country, which may take two dates for me to bang a girl, would actually be much easier for him than America, even though two hour bangs are reasonably common. How can we reconcile this conflict?

It turns out there are two types of easiness: (1) ease of fast sex and (2) ease of attraction. They tend to exist on opposite ends of the spectrum. For example, in America it’s easy to get fast sex once a girl is attracted to you, but it’s not easy to get a girl attracted to you. In Ukraine, it’s easier to get a girl attracted to you, but it’s not easy to get fast sex even if she is (at least not as fast as in America).

In America, there is a huge blowout rate, meaning that the bulk of women I approach will immediately shut me down in the rudest manner possible because they have zero attraction for me, but when I do find a girl who is attracted, I can definitely sleep with her the same night.

In Ukraine, there is a low blowout rate, meaning a greater percentage of the women you talk to will have some initial attraction that leads to a number exchange or first date, but it will take some time to seal the deal, possibly spanning weeks. It’s not uncommon to hear foreigners going there or Russia and having multiple dates scheduled every day. While they won’t get laid on most of those dates, having the same quantity of dates is much harder to achieve in the States.

Poland is an interesting middle ground between these two extremes. Sex is faster than in Ukraine and you will have more girls attracted to you than in the USA. The only problem is that the quality you’re dealing with can be quite average (there’s always a catch).

If we want to ask whether a country is easy, we have to ask from which standpoint—easiness in terms of sex after attraction is established or easiness in terms of whether attraction can be created in the first place. If you’re a top 1% man in terms of attractiveness and producing tingles, it’s clear that America will be better on average, because more women will be attracted to you off-the-bat and you’ll be able to sleep with them quickly. But if you’re more average with the punishing desire to be a mostly nice guy, you’re more likely to get laid in a non-Western location, in spite of the additional time you’ll need (even the top 1% will have to wait longer for sex abroad). Because I know most of my readers are not in the top 1%, including myself, it becomes clear what your long-term course of action should be.

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Inside UoM
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How does quality of women factor in on this? ie. Average skanks in America Vs. the better looking women?

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I think you already know the answer to that.

Steve M.
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I think it also depends on what type of guy the chicks in a certain country and culture go for. For example from what I was told the women in the Philipine Islands really go for white anglo American men, while in countries like Sweden the chicks there are into black guys.

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The future of game is to find a niche(some men have a niche, but does every man have a niche?), then to tell no-one else about where these places are or how you do it.

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Sad, but probably quite accurate.

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For me I go to the Indian Reservation. Poverty, single mothers, low demographics. They are STARVING for some new dick at a very genetic level (wear condoms.) I can fuck a girl, fuck her friend the next week, then have both of them and her other friends trying to take me, the prize, home from the one bar in town. My value is off the charts when I go there. Also, there are some really good looking traditonal Indian women, in full regalia at the pow wows. They can’t keep their eyes off the “exotic” foreigner when I’m around.

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in India or in the US?

Oscar Delgado
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How do I get girls in reservations

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Author-
The whole nice guy thing is a social construct pushed in the masses by the elite to control them.

A future article on how to kill the inner nice guy/socially brainwashed inner beta wuss would be useful for all aspiring players foreign and domestic.

I’m learning from expat blogs that in EE a much older man can bang college girls via sponsorship game aka paying for all expenses including tuition to smash that young beaver. I’ve heard this can be done for $400-$1500/month. Economically speaking this is cheaper for many men than traditional marriage and as we all age this is a probable scenario. More discussion if this is relevant and for older men this is cheaper than child support and alimony- I would submit if a man wanted kids plowing Irina or Svetlana and paying for little Boris to live with mom in Slavkskiville is cheaper and healthier than doing it in Team Murica Global GMO Eating Cable TV Brainwashed Clown Swat Team.

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The process you are referring to is called the “demanginafication” of the nice guy. To paraphrase Pogue Colonel from “Full Metal Jacket” – We are here to help the [bluepillers], because inside every [worthless simp] there is a [redpiller] trying to get out!

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Man you don’t need 10 volumes in theory to be a man

Most if its freeing your mind and will from these PC pinko bs social constructs in other words live naturally listen to your natural inner voice as a man.

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I know. My comment was meant as a kind of tongue-in-cheek lowbrow joke quite recognizable to those who are familiar with the the original quote and the manosphere lexicon in general.

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Canada is turning into a Marxist sh!thole because of these Toronto feminists. The sugar daddy and sugar baby are in a legitimate relationship, but right wing extremist Conservatives are hell bent on calling Johns quote, perverts, and soon paying for poosy might be a serious criminal offence in Canada & it doesn’t matter if the John was 20 and the escort was 50 years of age, according to the eyes of right wing extreminist Conservatives the 20 year old John is a quote pervert who abused that 50 year old cougar unquote

Take note that Marxist feminism is spreading because of the impact of the Slutwalk which was formed by Toronto feminists.

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If society ever collapses and there is real rape culture, i might just think of the times they said “i don’t need a man”.

Criminalizing masculinity is a bankster project supported by manginas and feminists, and they will suffer for their idiocy as not only will they become enslaved, but they will have destroyed themselves.

seth datta
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not a long term solution

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I don’t think “game” has much to do with prostitution. If an older guy doesn’t care though, he can get sex for $30-$50 a pop in Poland.

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Mr. Roosh

What cities in Poland and Ukraine are the best ones?

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Anywhere but Toronto or D.C.

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All men should immediately decamp from Toronto and spread out across the world. They’d give the women of that city the Marxist-Feminist utopia they dream about and also do themselves a huge favour.

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Lviv, Kiev, Lublin, Eastern Poland and Western Ukraine

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So if a place had women who were both highly attracted to foriegn men, easy to date and easy to bang while also being good quality of beauty, wouldnt that be poosy paradise? Where is the closest thing to that?

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Exactly.

Lets hear something worth knowing instead of all theory.

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The city where I’m at (Toronto) is very multicultural, but a lot of women are either married, reserved, flaky or prudes willing to sell themselves to the highest bidder.

Poosy paradise = yes as in multicultural, but poosy paradise for men? Not a chance in Toronto.

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Toronto is godawful. And by godawful I mean the women. Worse than US cities. Ottawa, too. Why any men put up with it is beyond me. And all the girls complain, “there are no good men here.”

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Right wing extremimist Conservatives are rallying alongside the Marxist feminists.

The protocols of Harper’s agenda are to criminalize heterosexual unions, ban prostitution, broad laws which may make the male student a criminal in cases of teacher-student affairs, vilifying men who download legitimate pornography, prosecuting men who pay for sex either through escorts or sugar babies, and creating tension between male and female heterosexual relationships through Marxist feminism and fearmongering like
” Those 15 year old male perverts are out to get our 30 year old daughters”.

Sh!t is about to get Orwellian in Canada.

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Yikes! I wanted to live in Canada when I was younger, but it seems like US, canada and UK are the worst places to live for ‘aware’ men.

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Worse than u.s. cities? Really

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Why have dislike for reserved women? Or for “prudes” willing to sell themselves to the highest bidder, ie., marriage? They are not your targets, so look for the ones who are.

seth datta
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highest bidder = cash

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I haven’t been to too many places, but I would have to go with the Dominican Republic.

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OG Roosh

Which cities got the flyest girls in Europe?

Drop the top 5 on us player.

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What about Toronto, Ontario, Canada?

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Dude, why is Toronto, Canada such a hard place to date or keep a LTR? This is the opposite of when I was on a work contract in a Latin American country.

What’s with these arrogrant, prude and stuck up Toronto women? The article “15 reasons why Toronto is the worst city” contains keen observations and viewpoints, but hardly any solution except leaving Ontario for Montreal.

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I grew up just outside Toronto. Entitled, independent (‘cept for dad paying for BA, MA, end of year trips, but thats none of your business, thankyouverymuch) seen-the-world-five-times-over by age 25, obsessed with being hip/cool, vapid social media junkies. They don’t need a man. They want fun, amazing, times, non-stop. And, really, we ought not be surprised considering: 1) parents give them what they want, 2) teachers/the system tell them they’re special, and 3) we guys continue to validate them thru weak pickup and fawning Facebook likes.
I sat behind some T.O. mid-20s broads recently, all decked out for a Jays game (look how cool my outfit is!). It was brutal listening to the noise they call conversation. Every sentence started with “I”, was peppered with “like/so/omg” and reflected an impoverished vocabulary.
There’s the future, boys!

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Feminism, Marxism, Zyonism (dont confuse this with Judaism which isn’t Zyonism), Communism, Harperism, Liberalism…

“isms”

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Montreal as some easy, wonderful alternative to Toronto is a complete myth. Even the players in the forum pretty much unanimously agree. It is not an easy city to date, keep an LTR, or get laid.

Montreal only developed its reputation because of its nightlife culture and the relatively high number of strip clubs and escort services. Perhaps you should ask yourself why these businesses became so massively successful here in the first place?

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Funny because I was born in Montreal, yet I lived a couple of months near downtown Toronto and got laid more than the couple of years I was in Montreal, but not as often as when I was in France.

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I did notice that American and Canadian men at the top 20% were some of the best I’ve ever seen, because the women force them to be, whereas in UK and Europe (due to socialism etc..) women either go for looks, or the most physically unattractive men (who won’t leave them). Unfortunately, it seems for women, its all about looks (or the lack of them), and that women’s choices and convenience are the order of the day. This has removed male desire to work and I have seen environments in the medical field where it is 90%+ women, many of whom take up spaces that a guy would’ve took up, and these broads then go part time. They are so pampered and lucky, but either act like cunts or morons.

The West is already doomed. The next 30-40 years will see this painfully play out. Whilst I do not recommend China, India or even Russia (though many may argue with this), in the long-term, feminism has destroyed Europe and the UK (as they are not having babies and are breaking up families). This has allowed the government and bankers to fill the power vacuum of a destroyed nuclear family. I do not fear them. But my fellow citizens are too numerous in their self-destructive behaviours and will enslave themselves and others’. I feel that central and south america, despite their problems, will be the future of a more relatively freer human race and game, as the rest of the world experiences much more external and internal conflicts. Let’s face it, feminism has been one of the key, IF NOT THE KEY FEATURE, in pussifying men and destroying western women, to the point where the bankers own the peoples of many of these nations, especially the UK and US.

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I fear that you are probably correct.

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I agree with this. In Europe women are either really superficial or less superficial but quite controlling, but at least you can get a decent looking woman if you are an interesting guy. When i lived in Greece in the mid 00’s I could not believe the calibre of women I was dating. Nobody else that knew me could either, but in the country i live in(Australia), I can only fluke a 7. 7’s were standard for me in Greece.

Returning home was a huge blow from a dating perspective.

European women are more likely to give an ordinary looking man a chance provided they have common interests but women in the Anglosphere don’t give two fucks about our personality.

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Find any country which isn’t too Conservative or Marxist and getting laid will be easier.

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Good idea, just bear in mind that whatever country is bearable for getting laid will probably feminize the following week you arrive given how quickly the American born social virus is spreading.

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I honestly and truly don’t believe that there is such a thing as a woman who holds out as compared to a woman who gives it up on the first date. At least not as a hard and fast thing.

It seems to me that the attraction of a woman to a man is a one-dimensional continum. It’s one variable that has infinite degrees to it. And attraction is INFLUENCED by varios factors, both cultural and natural.

I’ve been living for the past six years in Colombia, a place where they SAY women are slower than in North America, and in many ways this is true… BUT…. I think that the above is due to the vast majority of Colombian men really not knowing how to treat a Colombian woman! I even have one ex gf from here who kept SOME guys waiting months and even YEARS for sex, thankfully in my case it was just a matter of meeting each other on Facebook and setting a date and time… I doubt I would have lasted long trying to convince her.

I’m willing to bet that those Ukraine girls IF they get the right combination of buttons pushed, will be just as quick to give it up as any American girl. I think that it’s just a matter of getting the formula right, like in anything else.

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I gotta look into Poland now.

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Well it isn’t easier to get laid but prostitution is legal and very cheap.
For 50 euro’s (53 dollars) you can go to a brothel and pick all the good looking women you want to sleep with. Mosty young good looking girls. I think in the USA it’s only legal in Nevada and you pay around 200- 300 dollars for the same thing an hour. So yes for an average looking fat guy i have to say i’m verry happy.

I alway’s got more then i deserved. I know in the usa i would never find a good paying job or be able to sleep with so many women as i do over here. You really take sex for granted over here.

In the usa there are other things you take for granted like you never get hungry in the usa with all those all you can eat restaurants. Gass is cheap and you can drive an SUV. Lot’s of space, big houses, less taxes.

Europe doesn’t have that. We all live in the same small houses, little cars, everything is expensive. Food, drinks, lot’s of paperwork. You will pay more for condoms than you will pay for pussy.

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50 euro’s expensive…any prostitute over 20usd is way too much for my liking lol.

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One of the things about Europe, even Western Europe, is that you can approach and speak to women anywhere, on the street, in the shops, on public transport. Many of these same venues are harder in urban areas in the US. Its really only in smaller cities and towns in America where women will open up to a stranger.
Live in a large coastal city where there is a lot of money, your job gets harder.
Had a friend who lived in a large city, but realized he was not earning the same amount as his peers, and it affected his dating life. He moved to a smaller city as a result and his lifestyle improved dramatically.